I have an open mind about the many ways to feel pleasure, and to give pleasure to others. I ask for no marks left on my body, and that anyone and everyone plays as safe as possible. Beyond that, please intrigue me. To the ladies: I only wish I could offer more to you than a casual, NSA-type thing. Connecting with people, understanding their wants and needs, and taking the time to satisfy them is a huge part of who I am. And also, a huge part of how I ended up with my ren. Accordingly, I need to get a few things into balance before I jump into the deep end of a committed relationship. And pure Monogamy probably won't work for me, either on the receiving or giving end. To Couples: The last thing I want to do is to disturb your established dynamic. I know I would be the "fifth wheel", and regardless of whom would receive the focus of my attentions, I am hoping to help explore your fantasies, not commandeer them. I trust you to be confident and stable with each other before you'd consider inviting me into your dynamic for any length of time To Men: I'm not sure about solo guy-on-guy play. I tried it once, it really wasn't my thing, and I'm not in a rush to try it again. My preference leans to exploring MFM situations, and other group involvement, preferably with women present. I could be mistaken, and there are plenty of sexy men that I'd give a second (or third or fourth...) look to... Send a message, state your desires, and we'll see what we have in common

My Ideal Person I don't expect Barbie or Ken, but confidence is key. Believe in your own wants and desires, and be aware of your own health. Surprises aren't flattering in that regard.

Right now, I can't host meetings. As situations evolve, that may change; until then, I have limited availability to meet, a limited geography that I can work within, and discretion is a must. I've waited a long time for the right situation to evolve, and I will continue to wait rather than take undue risks.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Meeting with a lady in a quiet park for lunch, and discretely
pleasing each other in broad daylight

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Fetishes, Light Bondage, Candle Wax, Spanking, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Food Play, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Blindfolds

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, A little of each

Ever fantasized about having sex with a celebrity? Who? What turns you on about them?:
Winona Ryder gets my goth jollies all roiled up. Pale skin,
voice, dark hair... and she's grown up from a hot teenager
into a beautiful woman

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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