New day, a new way. I'm no longer looking for a relationship beyond sexual fun , fantasies and friendship. And I don't have a gender confusion issue!! This is a playful kink for play time my X-wife got me into/shared. She had a bit of a passive/aggressive side and liked to talk control now and then. I'm seldfconfident so if I'm getting a good prostate massage I'm good with it >:) I'm a guy, like it and have NO plans to change that, just like the kinkiness, a lot of it and many different options. More rewrite to cum and lots has to go but I'm for real and looking for real and local people. Cuz, I'm real and not looking for pen pals. Why AFF? I dropped out of the bar/club scene when I ws married and doing the hubby/dad gig and just never went back. So not easy to find local friends and ladies. Just a great tool to find people :) I'm a single, warm, funny, real guy looking for new friends for social life and whatever that might bring. Hoping for a fun out going lady to date for fun and maybe more if things click that way. Would love to find the LAST one to spend the rest of my life with but not holding my breath nor sitting still hoping she'll just walk thru my door. I'm picky about who I spend my precious free time with. Please, only people with a sense of humor. I have a very healthy body as well as libido and a high sense of sensuality, sexuality and can go so far as on the fringe of kinky, or more. That all depends on who I'm with. Face it, there ARE a lot of nerves in the bod we never use for fun LOL That all goes well with some warm oil, even for massages. And I DO have a table. As well as a pool table, if I ever get the laundry and paperwork off it, and a sex swing to boot. Bought it for a special lady who didn't make it God rest her soal. So that's unused except when I sat in it just to test it out. Pretty cool just the same :) I guess "adultfriendfinder" can mean a lot of different things. sex friends?? What a thought LOL FWBs, NSAs and all of that. I get it and cool with it all. Open to that but I still hope to find the right gal in the midst of all this "stuff" to do life with. I guess I'm looking for a lady who likes to get off the beaten path now and then. The old vanilla highway we call a "relationship" and have some fun as well as a life together. In between, there is lot of fun, like minded people to meet and enjoy to while away some time enjoying being human :) And a horny one at that. BTW, I still have the same sex drive as in my s and about the same bod as my 20s but MANY more talents than I did back then. Most of my lovers over the years have becum multi-orgasmic :) 8 was my high count that I could tell. Some women fake it, I know, but?? LOL They do it to get you to be "done" so they can go to sleep. Not so much if it keeps going on. NO BS, drama, baggage, games or lies! flat out honest and just me being me. I didn't chose a "sexual pref." Sex isn't my only objective :) I bring a lot more to the table but it IS an option >:) [COLOR royalblue] A few testimonials from my old profile, "jim8454" that got trashed several years ago. BTW, got my old profile back up on here if you want to check it out :) ReallyReal2006 on Jan 11, 2007 I've had the pleasure of Jim's company on several occasions. He is witty, intelligent, and attentive. Sexually, Jim is a dynamo. His kisses are passionate, and he makes sure I'm happy. Most important, he lasts as long as I need him to. My travels to Wisconsin brought me to Jim but, alas, I can't move there. Jim is looking for someone to share his life with. I wish it could be me. Love you, Jim, from afar. Kathy TwoForToys on Feb 21, 2006 Jim is wonderful guy and an awesome friend. Even if we never accomplished another thing through Adult FriendFinder, it would have been worth joining just to have met Jim. I would definately agree with Sweet about his intelligence. He is a great conversationalist and always has something interesting to say. I can talk to Jim for hours on end. He is a ton of fun, and very down to Earth. And after meeting him, I can also add extremely sexy to the list. I stole a kiss from him and almost melted into my shoes. If you ever get the chance to meet Jim, jump on it with both feet. The woman who manages to catch this one for her own will be lucky beyond measure. Stacy of Twofortoys sweetcherrypie4u on Nov 30, 2005 Jim is definitely a one-of-a-kind man! He is smart, witty, and an extremely good friend. Since meeting him, his knowledge in so many areas has astounded me. This man can fix or repair anything! He has helped me with plumbing issues, getting my gas fireplace running, and he even fixed my computer when Milwaukee PC failed me. Above all he is a truly good friend, a man with a lot of patience, insight, and integrity. There have been times that I have been down, I talk to Jim, and the smile is back on my face again. Don't pass this man up ladies! If I hadn't met someone a few months ago this man would no longer be on the market! Jim is definitely worth having as a friend, or more. Love you Jim! You're one of my best friends! :) Laura P.S. Jim is dyslexic, a fact he hides from no one. That makes his knowledge, skills, and accomplishments all the more amazing! Don't let any typos in his profile fool you. This man is one of the most intelligent and well rounded individuals I have ever met![/COLOR]

Ma personne idéale : Fun loving, horny, kinky and just wants a the same in in a regular thing or even a 1 time thing but want it so it's easy to make a connection.

Quels sont vos chanteurs ou groupes préférés ?:
come on, NOT enough space!!!

Quels types d'activités sexuelles vous excitent?:
Donner le sexe oral, Recevoir le sexe oral, Le sexe anal, Jouets (vibrateurs/godemichés/etc.), Annulingus, Fétiches, L'esclavage en douceur, Jeux de rôles, La partouze, Travesti, Masturbation mutuelle, Jeu de la bouffe, Faire des "films" maison, Participer dans une photographie érotique, Voyeurisme, Menottes/Chaînes, Cuir, Massage, lingerie is hot!!! and ok, I like most of this stuff :)

Quels sont les facteurs importants lorsque vous recherchez un partenaire sexuel ?:
Expérience sexuelle, Attraction physique, Fétiches communs ou similaires, Discrétion, Participerait à sexe à trois et /ou orgies, Appétit sexuel, Volonté de discuter ouvertement et de tout essayer, Niveau de créativité/perversité, Un peu de chaque

Avez-vous déjà fantasmé sur une célébrité ? Qui ? Qu'est-ce qui vous excitait ?:
Real people are soooo much more interesting. Oh, and REAL

Avez-vous déjà fait du cybersexe  ?:
Pas question, pas de virtuel que du réel pour moi.

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