We are looking for select men to join us with him watching, and then eventually joining in MFM. Her playing alone is a possibility, but only after much trust and comfort has been built up. Ideally, she would have 2 or 3 regular guys in her line-up for ongoing playdates and possible "multi-player" situations. While she may be the one choosing who she wants to meet, he has veto power if things just don't feel right for any reason. She is also not "on call" for anyone, so don't waste your time updating us on your "in town status" if we've never talked to you before. In addition, what we do here is only the business of ourselves and those we talk to and meet with. Please stop asking us how our search is going. Meeting up with couples is a possibility, but not really what we are looking for at this time. Been there, done that. As for single women, we'll believe it when we see it... We guess this needs to be said, so... We do not want to get in the middle of anyone cheating on their SO. While we understand that some attached people are in open relationships, we will not get involved unless we meet their SO and are assured everything is cool. Based on our experience so far, this seems very unlikely to occur. The number of people on here cheating seems to be exponential. Besides being a really shitty thing to do to the per you supposedly love and have made certain promises to, we've also found that people who are lying and sneaking around on their SOs are pretty unreliable when it comes to meeting up when they make plans. It ends up being a colossal waste of our time. She almost never chats. That is usually him online, and he will inform her of any discussions that take place. However, she checks all email and she is the one who responds. If you want to ensure you are talking directly to her, email her. It is your chance to beguile and seduce her with your words. Just be real, and leave the cheesy at the door. Profiles and emails with photos stand a much better chance of a response, obviously... As in life, any of the previous can change in an instant at her whim, but until you've been informed of it (and him, also, lol) these are the rules.

My Ideal Person Single males, height/weight proportionate, average to large endowment (girth preferred over length), generally under the age of 55.Those older than that or the very young (under 30) will be dealt with on a case by case basis. Bi is o.k. since MFM is close quarters, and we don't judge at all, but please don't go into it with expectations, either.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Rimming, Light Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Mutual Masturbation, Making Home "Movies", Participating in Erotic Photography, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Physical attraction, Ability to be discreet, Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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