Looking to put a smile on some body's face. But to also make their body tingle. To make the pleasure so intense, that they feel that tingle even when apart. I am selfish in giving my undivided attention. I may bind their hands together on the bed. It is not to restrain, but to keep their hands away as i explore their body. I may spank them gently. It is not to hurt, but to explore new feelings. To hear new sounds. To turn nerve endings on, that have never been awake. I may pull their hair. It is not to control, but to pull them into the positions i want. To turn their head to i can look them in the eye. I may call them names. It is not to insult, but to help them get in the role. To release those inner, hidden feelings. Rugby player build. Shaved head. Tattoos. Beard. Scrub up ok. Not the sort of guy your mother would approve off. But then again, I doubt you'll be introducing me to her at any point. "I want a soul mate who can sit me down, shut me up, tell me ten things I don’t already know, and make me laugh. I don’t care what you look like, just turn me on. And if you can do that, I will follow you on bloody stumps through the snow....I will do your windows. I will care about your feelings. Just have something in there." Henry Rollins Ps: i have a partner, so need to be discrete. PPS: I love the smell of guilt in the morning.