I'm in a somewhat complicated situation in that I love my wife (and I have no intentions of breaking up our marriage - we have two young ) but there is one aspect of our relationship that is seriously lacking...our sexual contact. We're only 35 and I thought we'd be having great sex until we were at least 60 (and then I could use Viagra and keep it going)! There's no fire in the sheets, no passionate kisses, no lust for one another...I simply don't know where it's gone, because we used to have all of that... Anyway, I don't want to bore you with details, but just like my title says, I'm looking for discreet fun with a woman who can keep a secret and have an affair be on the down low. I think women are absolutely amazing, so age, ethnicity and body shape are not such a huge issue as long as we've got the right chemistry. I have to admit that I do have to be physically attracted to you...as sexual desire originates on the physical level before going deeper... I know this may make me sound as if I'm a guy who wants to have his cake and eat it too, but really it's just about being able to give and receive the kind of sexual contact that I think needs to be had by healthy adults. Besides, sex is a great way to rid oneself of stress from work, bills, politics, etc. that consume our daily lives. So, if we could both help one another out and relieve some tension then that would be the best scenario, right? I certainly plan to give as much as I receive... I think it would be great to start off over a cup of coffee and see how things escalate from there...are you interested?

My Ideal Person An adventurous woman who is able and willing to keep this affair just between the two of us. Ideally, you'd be versatile: sometimes wanting lots of foreplay and a lot of caressing, oil massages, etc., and at other times, wanting to try different positions and enjoy the pleasure of experimentation. A huge plus would be a woman who can hold her own in a conversation and has a good sense of humor -- particularly a sarcastic one!

If you're a couple...I've been thinking of what it would be like to be a part of a FMF or MFM 3some for a while now...I've never done it, and don't know if I ever will, but this seems like a good place to start talking about it. If a 3some were to happen, it needs to be known that I am in no way interested in anything other than physical contact with women.

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Blindfolds, Massage

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I've tried it, but it's just not the same.

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