I appreciate your interest and efforts. If you send me a friendly clean respectful individual email that does not look like spam, then I WILL EMAIL BACK an articulate response.   If I sent a Hotlisting, that means I would like you to write so that we can chat. I have a Standard account, so I can only write to you if you send an email here to me FIRST. Sorry but this site's IM feature does not seem to work on my computer. New to area. Would be nice to make some new friends and maybe one special man for a mutually exclusive LTR. Unattached SINGLE men only please who are NOT seeking couples or group sex. I am not some hypocrite. I AM legitimately unattached, single/legally divorced. Why here? I thought on a site like this *maybe* some people might be more open and genuine in saying what they are truly looking for and really about instead of the whitewashed and inaccurate generic image they might post on standard sites. Seeking decent, mature, stable, caring, honest friends foremost. Please show some class. NO thugs who think it's cool to look like and act like a gang member, who think "wuz up?" is a conversation. NO drug users, or other addictions. If you are a "former" alcoholic etc, if you never went through real therapy to unlearn the relationally damaging behavior then I am not interested...I am looking for a healthy, safe, accountable, and reliable man. I am 44 years old, tend to relate best with individuals who are close to my age (at least within the same decade) or slightly older than myself. IF YOU HAVE OR ADD UNDER 21 YR OLDS ON YOUR PAGE--THAT IS WAY TOO PEDO SICK,  I WILL DELETE YOUR EMAILS AND REQUESTS.    Unattached available SINGLE men only. Please be straight and seeking exclusive monogamous relationship. Not looking for games, lies or plays just straight forward life.  There is no such thing as "innocently" flirting or playing around in cam', peral pics, email, IM, etc on an adult site if you are still married or in a relationship already --That IS abuse, it is cheating and causes only sick pain so save the lame insulting excuses for the heartless braindead. I have more class, kindness, respect, honor, direct honesty, fairness, feeling, backbone, reliability, accountability and integrity than that. Like me or dislike me, but at least it's the real me. Best friend said to me, "Ive noticed the only people who call you a b!+c# are the ones who coincidentally are liars" and she probably was right since everyone in earshot was nodding. ;-D Not seeking casual sex. So please do NOT contact me IF you are married, attached, seeking short term, or have threesomes or group sex on your "Turn-Ons" list. Thanks. I am NOT HERE TO HOOK-UP FOR QUICK SEX. From what Ive encountered, sadly most individuals on websites claim to practice safe sex but in reality do NOT, are so pushy that they are unstable and not any fun, and will claim to be STD free yet don't get tested often enough to even know if what they claim is a true reality. I plan on staying celebate until I have been in a face-to-face mutually exclusive commited relationship for quite a while first. So if you are just looking for quick sex, then save me and yourself the psycho BS cover story please and pass me buy--because it won't go farther than online playful texting, and non-sexual friendship activities in public places.    Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex, lots of it...but strictly one-on-one and IN THE CONTEXT OF a lasting LTR with a man of the same exclusive desire.  I AM single and do not cheat. I am a sexual camel. I can go without, but once I am in a LTR man needs endurance to keep up with me ;-) If you click "View more responses" and read my completed sexual questionaire, you will see that exclusive one-on-one is the opposite of hum-drum in my case. My answers are honest even when funny. I don't stifle my wild side...I give it the one I'm with. I love exploration, I'm very playful, and the fun kind of kinky, my animal magnetism is very much awake...it's a lifelong condition, lol.   I am refreshingly down to earth, completely lack pretense, and have been told that I am "Regal and beautiful, but don't know it".  Enjoy intelligent conversation, dancing, boating, waterfront, nature, museums, cultural events, live music, movies, comedy, philosophy, creative works / art, writing, gourmet healthy cooking, working on cars, car shows, creating and building things, computers, gardening,  playful sparring of wits, compassion, goofiness, daring, resourcefulness, holding hands, long hugs, cuddling, kissing... I can cook an increadible healthy gourmet meal, and enjoy seafood including sushi and calamari, ethnic food, pistachio baklava, tiramisu, dark chocolate, and strong coffee... I love nature, animals, ren, family, friends, passionate spirits, rain, lightening, bonfires, living deliberately, laughter, and God.  Against abuse of any kind.   Enjoy an equal and the interchange.  BE HONEST ABOUT WHAT YOU WANT AND NEED FROM ME AND OTHERS--It is the most efficient way to get it. Be yourself. Imitation is suicide. I am overall a lady of integrity and honor. A per is not given integrity. It results from the relentless pursuit of honesty at all times. Behaviors consistent across situations and time. Without integrity, all the capabilities, intent, concern, and results in the world will not matter. The foolish forget that virtues have strength and fire. I also believe that real love is a verb: Not words or feelings but actions consistent over time, choosing the ultimate or highest good for another per. True love is neither physical, nor romantic. True love is an acceptance of all that is, has been, will be, and will not be.  The happiest people don't necessarily have the best of everything; they just make the best of everything they have. Values: The ORDER of IMPORTANCE you place on people and things, also seen in your actions, and how you treat others. You are not who you think you are, unless it matches what you do, "do unto others". I am a Christian with a true and solid faith and friends will need to understand that my faith is an inseparable part of who I am. I would rather do my very best to walk a vibrant, good life than preach or talk a prideful line.  I am also far from being a fanatic. I have had close friends of other faiths with whom I have real mutual admiration and respect for our differences as equals.

我的理想對象: SINGLE men only. (I know I am repeating myself but some people seem to not be seeing this).
Please be straight and seeking exclusive monogamous relationship.
I'd rather chat with a man who will show me his great smile, and wants me get to know the person he is FIRST and foremost... NOT "Hi, this is a close up of my cock"...As if that is how we shake hands these days. 

PLEASE DO NOT SEND EROTIC PICS. Thanks.
I'm starting to think dildos can send emails. Lol. 
I am not a flesh puppet and neither are you. I still like men as equals and would like to keep it that way. Please contact me ONLY if you intend to speak with me as a real complete human being.

Rule #1 of email communication: TRY to remember a human being is on the other end. #2 don't waste time with anyone ignoring #1.

Seeking an equal. If you are looking for a "discreet relationship", that is NOT me. I am honestly single and I do not want flirtations from men who are already in a relationship. On-the-side does not show either of us the value and attention we deserve.

No deceit, anger/drama problems, STDs, psychosis, criminal history, unhealthy addictions, or hang-ups like gambling, drugs or booze.

Thank you for reading my profile. 

什麼樣的性愛活動令您著迷？:
給與口交, 享受口交, 肛吻, 互慰, 食物遊戲, 訊息., Using toys of his choice on him., Equal initiating. Creative & resourceful

您尋找性伴侶時的主要條件？:
性慾、對性愛的渴望, 願意討論與嘗試不同型態的性愛, 對性愛是否夠大膽、有創意, Safe, honest, kind, affectionate, goodhearted, reliable,
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