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rm_nudistcplnj 63 C
1  Article
Our Neighbors   3/25/2004

Our neighbors <br> The weekend getaway place my wife and I recently bought at a nudist camp north of New York City. The place was a “fixer upper”, it was an older trailer that was still serviceable and perfect for our needs. It was located on a great site and our new neighbors seemed to be friendly and helpful. One couple, Ron and Amanda, were the first to welcome ...


1 Comments, 433 Views, 169 Votes ,8.59 Score
Swing clubs?? where are they?   3/25/2004

How would I find clubs in my area. I am in South/Central FL between WPB and Orlando. Just looking for something fun to do.


0 Comments, 41 Views, 37 Votes ,3.83 Score
rm_thx196 58 C
2  Articles
The first time   3/25/2004

The first time I watched another man fuck my wife was at a swingers club in Phoenix. At the time she was 27 and we had been married for 8 years. We had been going to the club for a few months and up until this night she had not gone any further than dancing and kissing. She was wearing a very sexy one piece pull over with nothing on underneath. We were in the hallway by the back rooms ...


0 Comments, 770 Views, 210 Votes ,9.43 Score
wetnready4u82 38 F
2  Articles
i want to but not   3/24/2004

hello i want to go for it and do swinging to try to have new fun into our life and make us closer but im still too jelouse to let my guy be ALONE with another woman if i was with them in on it wouldnt be bad but what can i do to get over it?


2 Comments, 101 Views, 21 Votes ,1.64 Score
luisSR 49 C
2  Articles
Chriss & I in an adult theater   3/24/2004

We want to play! We like threesomes, group sex, exhibitionism, etc. Do you have any special fantasy that want to fulfill? Our fantasy: Chriss and I go to the adult theater located at 80 Turk street, one block from Market Street on a Friday or Saturday night between 8:00 to 11:00PM. After finding a comfortable spot in the theater, Luis & Chriss start "playing." One stranger gets closer ...


1 Comments, 478 Views, 50 Votes ,5.91 Score
luisSR 49 C
2  Articles
FANTASY #2 IN THE THEATER   3/24/2004

FANTASY #2 It is a Saturday night, 9:00PM A complete stranger has read our profile in the SEXFinder.com web site and has been patiently waiting at the front door of the Doll House Theater located at 80 Turk street, one block from Market Street in San Francisco. The stranger has a plastic bag in his hands. Luis’ white minivan stops at the Doll House to drop Chriss. She is wearing the sensual ...


0 Comments, 237 Views, 24 Votes ,7.11 Score
makeyousaywow 45 M
0  Articles
Euro Chick & Black Dick   3/23/2004

Through a few e-mails I found out that Sarah was sweet, from London, a student, and 15 years older. Luckily there was plenty we had in common. Soon we exchanged numbers and talked... I was turned on by the sound of her voice, and her accent on the phone made me wonder what her sexual noises sounded. We went to a local restaurant to have some wine and good conversation. Sarah and I ...


2 Comments, 551 Views, 114 Votes ,7.76 Score
evertonfc1000 57 C
1  Article
First time to regulars   3/22/2004

I married my Asian wife 5 years ago after meeting her in a bar one night and hitting it off straight away. She is 11 years younger than me (28 years old) and has a much livelier perspective on life. Well we were living in Germany at the time and I was into reading their very good porn mags. I started showing here some of them which contained swinger clubs and she suggested we visit one. ...


6 Comments, 6267 Views, 262 Votes ,8.37 Score
Licking a couple.   3/21/2004

Has anybody licked a couple as they have sex? I am really curious about it; I guess if a woman gets her clit licked as a man is inside her, the feeling must be great. I find the idea incredibly arousing, though nobody seems to talk about it and the only porn I have seen where it actually happens is about FMF threesomes, not MFM ones. Experiences, comments anyone? (For both males and ...


0 Comments, 192 Views, 71 Votes ,8.00 Score
i love women with a passion   3/21/2004

i love a woman who likes no strings attached and like to be please, who else agrees


1 Comments, 23 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Can I suck your cock?   3/20/2004

I was supposed to go on a date with a friend (Female) of mine to the movies. She called and cancelled. I was then asked by my father to go down and pick up some beer for him. I went to the store and grabbed two six packs and proceeded home. When I got to my house John (an electrical worker) and JR (a painter) they work for a defense contractor in Yuma AZ) were there. They had some beer and ...


1 Comments, 636 Views, 65 Votes ,3.84 Score
rm_secretlyBAD2 43 F
3  Articles
RE: What constitutes cheating?   3/20/2004

It is my opinion that if you initiate something with someone, you'd better be sure it's what you want before broaching the subject...if your wife wanted the meeting and asked you to participate, she has no right to persecute you for doing as she asked...I would advise you to find out what the underlying problem is...does she feel that she is threatened by your touching another woman? and ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
eroscult 54 C
2  Articles
Banging his wife   3/20/2004

The other night we were at our friends house. My wife wanted them to use the digital camera to take pictures for SEXFinder.com. She put on this sexy negligee and her girlfriend took pictures her. Then her girlfriend put on the negligee and my wife took pictures of her. We all went back to the computer to figure out how to load the pictures. My buddy came up behind his wife, hiked up the negligee ...


1 Comments, 639 Views, 122 Votes ,6.76 Score
In need of some help   3/18/2004

I am a single but it seems to me that it is very difficult to get into swinging if you are not already in a relationship. <br> Can anyone give me some tips on how to get into the scene?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
luckyno361a 55 C
3  Articles
Bethys first threesome   3/17/2004

Last spring I was over at my girlfriends house just hanging out, it was a beautiful day, she lives out in the country , I guess it was in the spring air or something , but we were both kinda horny and our talk turned towards sex, we were talking about how both of our husbands have fantasized about having a threesome and we both admitted to each other that we have thought about being with ...


0 Comments, 718 Views, 205 Votes ,8.94 Score
polyswitchinmd 48 M
2  Articles
So what's the best approach?   3/16/2004

So what's the best approach for a man to pick up women here on SEXFinder.com? <br> Let's face it, we're all here for the same reason. To find a physical partner. Well, some are looking for something more, some aren't. <br> Do you send a wink? An email? A network request. <br> What about a picture? Body shot? Face shot? Cock Shot? <br> and what do you ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
Why IS It So Hard To Find A Bisexual Female ?   3/16/2004

I've Been Looking Since Last Year, And Now This Year I Finally Got A Couple Acc. I Have A Few Responses, But Nothing In Stone. Meaning We Haven't Met With Any Young Lady yet.... Any Ladies 18-25 Wanna Have a Good Time ... Please Let us KNOW....


0 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes
Definitions of swinging   3/15/2004

I have found that on this site a lot of people have different defintions of swinging. Not only just swinging in general but also soft swap, and full swap. Its as though everyone creates their own definition of swinging and the kind of swinging theyre interested in. I find that it makes it kinda difficult finding the "right person". Once you have started talking to them (emailing and ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Are people serious?   3/15/2004

I wonder sometimes if people on here are really serious!Dont get me wrong Im definetely not saying everyone! In my opinion I feel that a lot of people arent. You send or recieve an email of a person or persons you are interested in and email, chat, etc. a few times. When talk of meeting face to face for whatever reason whether it be drinks or for "fun" they back out or you never hear from ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
spam queens   3/15/2004

Ok, I have been on this ite for almost 4years now, and I know it is my choice to keep renewing.But is it just me, or are the majority of the profiles on here all made up? Spam queens asking for real e mail addys, and just about the time you decide to no renew, the winks start poppiing up in my mail.Someone please assure me this is for real and not a money pit Thanks


0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Proper use of this page   3/15/2004

Aren't you suppose to place articles on this page not messages, announcements or personal adds? I believe there is a message board for all that stuff.


0 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
CHEATERS   3/15/2004

I find that many men, including myself have found themselves in a long term relationship, i.e. marriage. Are we all just sitting behind our computer hoping to find a hot looking female to satisfy our thirst, are we all dogs? I had spent the last 10 years in a relationship feeling that I would never cheat on my wife, I could never identify with anyone that would stoop so low. Well, I have ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
sd_hotcouple2 63 C
1  Article
hot bi interracial three way   3/15/2004

With Brock's mouth on her pussy, Sandi can think of little but how incredible he makes her feel. He slides his fingers in to her sloppy wet pussy as she grinds her crotch into his face. She reaches down and grabs his hair pulling him closer, harder into her pulsing pussy and throbbing clit. Lost in the sensation of his mouth and touch she does not, at first, notice Richard stSanding, naked ...


0 Comments, 545 Views, 21 Votes ,7.09 Score
Where do all the Bi women go???   3/12/2004

Hi there, we were just wondering where all the bi women go out in sydney?? We've been to a couple of swingers clubs but they are full of single men, with hardly any single girls!! Please contact us and tell us where you sexy bi girls go, Thanks, Hot_Interracial


0 Comments, 208 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_69x69xx 59 C
0  Articles
our first 4 some"wow"how it started   3/11/2004

i had this fantcy all the tme to have hanan (my grlfriend) accept the idea ofswping, i used to tell her that i love to see her sucking a dick while we where fucking and she used to suck the ruer dick to make me happy, oce we went to london for a visit and i arranged for us o meet a couple for a drng and i agreed with them that we are talkig buseniss after we got our drinks i sugested to up ...


3 Comments, 361 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
Daytime playtime near Philly??????   3/10/2004

So here i am in the awkward position of having a schedule different than most everyone else...working by nite and free by day...while it may seem easy to find others in the same boat..it doesnt seem to be..i am wondering if anyone out there knows of any hangouts or meeting places during the day that singles...couples...or swingers might on occasion venture out to..spring is cumming and i ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_jaytee402 61 M
3  Articles
I'm still fucking his wife...and she loves it!   3/10/2004

As I have mentioned b4 Ken’s wife, Anita and I get together on Wednesday’s for fucking and sucking. We now get together at my place in the evening, this past week she came over as usual, but this time we were going to try a massage on a table used for that. Its always been a fantasy of mine to give a massage to a female stranger and get her turned on so much that even if she ...


2 Comments, 607 Views, 190 Votes ,7.75 Score
plumbbobiam 53 C
1  Article
A trip to Mexico   3/10/2004

A Mexico Trip to Remember <br> <br> My wife and I flew in to an island called Cozumel. We hadn’t done much research but decided that we where going to have a blast no matter when we went. It so happened that the island was having a Mexican carnival going on every night while we where there. <br> After checking into our Beach Resort we decided to check ...


1 Comments, 382 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
   2004-03-09

Hi Buddies. I am Raj from Malaysia and this is a real story of ours. It was my wifes B'day and we decided to celebrate it in a club. I dropped the kid at my friends place and returned to pick her up, and shocked to see her dreesing. She was having a tight top without bra (and all her 36D size boobs were fighting to come out) and a tight mini skirt with long shocks. She was looking damm hot. While seating in the car she looked at me and smile and I knew that time that something is going to happen today. We reached the club and got a seating in corner (because i wanted to play safe). After few drinks she requested to goto floor for dance. She was looking very erotic and all the male and females were forced to give her a second look. Afetr few round of dance, I excused myself to goto loo. I had a cigratee there and when I came back found a good looking decent white guy was trying to get near to her while dancing and vetually staring her. I dont know what happened to me I just stopped myself to see what he is trying to do and infact started liking that scene. After few minutes when he was probably satisfied that I had gone for long he came near to her and started dancing in front of her and started talking to her. I was not able to hear what they were talking but my wifes face has glown and she was looking more comfortable with that guy. Suddenly the DJ put on an very erotic song with very fast beat and he came more near now they were touching each other and getting more closer and comortable. After a while he was holding her by waist and pulling her on him first she was abit uncomfortable bit but then she also started enjoying it. The next song she was dancing slowly with her back to this guys front and his dick was rubbing her ass and his fingures were moving on her boobs. I was really enjoying this scene and getting very horny, thn suddenly she saw me and they seperated. She return back to seat. I was looking at her face and surely she was missing the guy. I asked her who was he and she replied a gentle man and just that he wanted to dance with her. I pulled her near to me, she was breathing heavily and her face was red, I put my hand on her pussy and shit it was so hot and wet that you can boil egg over there. I asked her did he drive her hot and she moved her head in yes. I dont know what happened to me I got up walked to this white guy and invited him to join us for the rest of the night. He was very much oblised. After he joined us I again excused me (I wanted to give them some time...) and placed myself behing a piller so that they cant see me but I can. They were talking and slowly they pulles their chairs together and he put his hands in her skirt she closed her eyes. He started kiising her on ears and shoulders and she was going crazy. After few minutes of watching I joined them back and started general conversation but found that his hands were still under the table may be under her skirt. My dick was red hot and enjoying the whole scene very much. By the time it was 2:00 am and the DJ annownced the closeur of the club and we came out. I offered this guy that since its only two o'clock and we are still not tired so whynot we go somewhere else and have some more drinks and chat. He immidiately accepted and invited us to his Hotel room which was near by only. We walked upto his room and started drinking and chating again. I asked him how he finds my wife..? and he replied as a hot cake. My next question was wana try ? and he said why not. I said then what u r waiting for go ahead. My wife was looking at me srprisengly and I told her Darling I know you want him so go ahead. Its okay with me. He juped on the bed and pulled her ontop of him and started kissing her all over. She was responding very violently. I had never seen her so active in the bed. They vertually pulled each others cloths out and within minuted lying naked in licking and sucking each other in 69 position. He was sucking her pussy deep and inserting his fingures too.. She was getting untrolled.. moaning so loud that I feared that the other roommates may hear us. He started licking her ass and she was begging for his big hard shaved cock in hers. He was of same size to me but thicker twice as of mine. He placed his hard rock cock on her pussy and pushed it, and she cried with pain may be because of thickness, but he seems to be a smart experienced guy. Within two three strokes he inserted his tool inside her and driving her like a horse. She was getting crazy, she was moaning high requesting for more. I had never seen her so vocal , she was looking like a true bitch. After fifteen minutes both climaxed and he fall on she was holding him tight by ass. He fucked her three times in the whole night and then it was time for us to leave. She was all satisfied and looking as a teen.


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A Friendly visit Part 3   3/8/2004

A FRIENDLY VISIT PART 3 <br> We lay there in each others arms slowly recovering from our earlier pleasures and I was about to doze off when I felt her fingers running up and down my soft cock. I could feel my blood returning to again swell and harden my shaft of pleasure when she nuzzled my ear and whispered. “ I want your cock in my pussy now, please fuck me .” I ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 161 Votes ,9.02 Score
How to find a Third Wheel   3/8/2004

I met a guy on this site and we have a nice "friends with benefits" relationship going. Lately we been talking about threesomes and I'm wondering how to go about it. He says it up to me but I don't know where to being. Do you think I should find a third wheel or will it mess what we have? Also where should I being looking for a third person that doesn't want to be temporary?


1 Comments, 112 Views, 128 Votes ,6.69 Score
So what's the best way?   3/5/2004

New to SEXFinder.com. Enjoy looking at profiles but that's just about all we've accomplished so far. We don't even get "No thanks" from attemped contacts. We try to be polite and very upfront about what we're looking for. Should we take another approach? I'm thinking explicit emails on first attempted contact are rude and just a bad idea. Am I wrong? What about using the chat rooms? We're not ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 39 Votes ,5.52 Score
anal bead   3/4/2004

I was wondering is it wrong to make people where anal beads the whole time they are at a party, until the very end when everyone climaxs on the...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
Swinging from thinking to doing   3/3/2004

A lot of people are talking about swinging. I guess more man than women. We discussed it with my wife but there are a lot of catches. It is one think to fantasize about putting a third or a fourth party to your bed and it is totally different to actually go through with it. Yes sometimes i fantasize to fuck my wife from the butt while she is sucking someone else's cock but to actually have ...


2 Comments, 110 Views, 240 Votes ,6.08 Score
rm_jaytee402 61 M
3  Articles
I'm still fucking his wife...and she loves it!   3/3/2004

I’m continuing to meet Anita for sex, as you may remember Ken is a good freind of years, but his wife enjoys sex with me, now we met at my place. I had a good time yesterday with Anita, I have a massage table and we started there after we had a few glasses of merlot. I love the way she looked on the table on her stomach, legs slightly spread, her sex clearly in view as I walk around ...


1 Comments, 272 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
SexyMandy202 41 F
1  Article
Getting my boyfriend into swinging   3/3/2004

Any advice to help me approach my boyfriend of three years about swinging? I am all for it, but he thinks that i'm out of my mind. Any thoughts?


2 Comments, 134 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
toffeeforyou 52 C
1  Article
my wife can't wait to do it again   3/2/2004

It was just last week when we had our first 4 sum. We had been talking about it for awhile, then we meet some one or two on SEXFinder.com. It took us some time mailing and then some phone calls to get a date that everyone was happy with. We booked a hotel and meet them in the pub across the road. We had some drinks then the girls went to our room. The two of us went up sometime later to fined the ...


1 Comments, 1005 Views, 329 Votes ,7.86 Score
A friendly visit....part two   3/2/2004

A friendly visit..part two <br> It was about a week later when he called and ask if I was busy Saturday, I said no , so he invited me to visit them about noon. I couldn’t keep my mind off her sexy body all week and walked around with my cock about half hard Saturday I slept late then got up and shaved, showered and laid out some clothes to wear. Decided on a shirt with ...


0 Comments, 228 Views, 151 Votes ,8.52 Score
My wife gets it in a truck sleeper cab.   3/2/2004

My wife and I were driving on a state road in upstate NY back in the 80's when we passed a Cadian tractor trailer. We had opened up to some swinging since my wife had been caught giving a friend a blow job at a hunting camp. Out of the blue my wife said that she would love to fuck that truck driver, she jumped over into the back seat and faced the back window. She took off her shirt to give ...


1 Comments, 668 Views, 221 Votes ,7.23 Score
rm_ceedee60 60 M
3  Articles
Sex n drugs n rock n roll   3/1/2004

We are in our early forties but still very young at heart and we go to music festivals during the summer month's Well last year we went to our 1st dance music event and we tried our 1st 'E'. After a while we both felt a bit trippy and in love with everyone and talking bollox to loads of stangers which was fun, then we started to talk to a couple around our age and we got on with them great ...


2 Comments, 330 Views, 70 Votes ,7.77 Score
No takers   3/1/2004

been lucky enough to get a couple of replies, but they turn out to be time-wasters. They string you along, then just dump you, so nothing ever happens. Aren't ehre any honest people in Scotland looking for 'no strings' sex fun ? If you're interested check out my ad (enuffcock)


0 Comments, 24 Views, 21 Votes ,2.75 Score
needtofucklots 68 C
0  Articles
it seems she wants too and i want to help   2/29/2004

i wrote this letter to see if i could find a friendly fellow to help get my wife fucking for pleasure since it is a fantacy for us both.................................. boy, you seem to have all the attributes i was looking for. nice cock, slim and seeming able to go along with the "game". i'd like to get my wife fucked and we just have not been able to find a couple to begin play ...


1 Comments, 235 Views, 25 Votes ,5.01 Score
rm_kravenn 49 C
3  Articles
MY BUDDY WANTS TO FUCK MY GIRLFRIEND   2/29/2004

WELL YOU SEE MY GIRLFRIEND IS THIS HOT TINY LITTLE LITTLE THING AND MY BUDDY HAS WATCHED ME FUCK HER IN THE HOT TUB WITH HIM RIGHT UP BEHIND HER WATCHING EVERY THING, EVER SINCE HE IS ALWAYS TELLING ME HOW HE WANTS HER SO BAD HOW HE LIKE TO HAVE HER ALL TO HIM SELF, HE HAS TOLD ME HOW HE FANTASISES ABOUT HER WHILE FUCKING OTHER WOMEN HE HAS TOLD ME HOW MY GIRLFRIEND HAS CAUGHT HIM CHECKING ...


1 Comments, 346 Views, 274 Votes ,6.51 Score
how to set up a swinging session?   2/29/2004

just looking for advice for setting up a meeting between two couples. what is the best way to set up a meeting? should it be on mutual ground, entertaining at one's house or is there an easier way to break the ice and not feel intimidated meeting for the first time? i would appreciate some info for me and my wife, thanks.


0 Comments, 45 Views, 39 Votes ,7.31 Score
Where are all the older swingers?   2/29/2004

We have had a profile in SEXFinder.com for a couple of months now and are very disappointed at the lack of responses. We are both Professional and ultra discreet, so we don't put our pics on the web -- We suspect that perhaps the lack of a pic and the fact that we are in our 60s has something to do with it. <br> that's a shame. In our swinging experience, the older the better (up to a ...


0 Comments, 98 Views, 45 Votes ,7.83 Score
tacoloverWI 52 M
1  Article
Hot to get a 3some without coming off as another horny bastard?   2/29/2004

I want a threesome in the worst way.. I am attractive man who is 31 and have been oh so close three or four times to having a 3rd join--but it always falls through.. Have many found this to be true as well? What way have others used that have been successful in talking a new person into a 3rd? Thanks


0 Comments, 115 Views, 51 Votes ,5.14 Score
rm_kravenn 49 C
3  Articles
an" icebreaker"   2/29/2004

you see you need to have an icebreaker , my girlfriend and i have been talking recently about having a threesome with my buddy .my buddy has been hot for her for a long time , and has told me how and what he would like to do to her, he has asked me how i feel about it , however he is nervous how i might feel watching him grab her and kiss and lick her all over so he wanted to have an ...


1 Comments, 291 Views, 51 Votes ,6.92 Score
Lunchtime Swing   2/29/2004

I arrived at the apartment complex around 12:00 noon. It was all planned, I was to fuck Mark at lunch. Go back to work and tell my husband all the slutty details. When I pulled into the parking lot I spotted him at his truck. He walked me upstairs and we went up to his apartment. I was wet thinking about what was about to happen and all the details I would have to tell my husband. ...


5 Comments, 1359 Views, 161 Votes ,8.02 Score
VeryCurious1960 64 F
5  Articles
How do I find another women?   2/28/2004

I am a 43 year old woman who has a 34 year old fuck-friend. We both love to watch hockey games and make bets on who is going to win. Unfortunately I lost the last bet and now have to find a woman to join us for a night. I have never been with a woman and I am not even sure how to go about finding one to join us. He says that I don't have to do anything with the woman that he just wants two ...


2 Comments, 237 Views, 87 Votes ,5.33 Score
rm_mandsinmi 47 C
1  Article
Don't be Shy!   2/28/2004

We have met several great couples on this site and others and once we meet one and hook up it seems that they stop contacting us. It is hard to meet people who have the same interests, are the same age range and are attractive. Once we do we would usually like to see them again. Don't get me wrong, we are not looking for new best friends are people to hang out with all the time. But, it ...


0 Comments, 140 Views, 93 Votes ,8.08 Score
bigthunder2002 74,1961 C
4  Articles
A fun game to break the ice   2/28/2004

Bumps and Grinds Game The object of the game is to be the first player to lose his or her last article of clothing. The game involves each player, in turn, rolling the dice and moving to the square indicated, and then following the directions on the square (strip, drink, etc...).


0 Comments, 110 Views, 54 Votes ,2.28 Score
sierra_64_98 63 M
1  Article
Man have I learned to enjoy bisex..   2/27/2004

Ive always thought sucking cock was soooo erotic to watch so eventually i had to try it myself. Here ill share a story about a fun cpl i get to play with from time to time. Ill call them George & Martha. I went to George & Martha's the other day. As usual we chatted a little while. She was wearing jeans and nothing else showing those very nice and sensitive tits while we talked. George ...


0 Comments, 445 Views, 266 Votes ,8.80 Score
rm_sexyduoukr 64 C
2  Articles
Naked group dancing at a Moscow swinger's club   2/27/2004

My wife and I have been married for almost 8 years. She is from Russia and that has allowed us the adventure of vacationing there quite a few times. The last time we were in Moscow we went to a Moscow swingers club. Since I speak the language and being an American I find it easy to get along quite well with most that I meet. The wife is very open-minded and enjoys all that I enjoy and loves ...


0 Comments, 591 Views, 136 Votes ,9.43 Score
Swinging.....Should Be Fun For Both   2/27/2004

I have a bit of a dilema on my hands and I was looking for advice from the other Adult Friends Members. <br> Just a couple of things before I ask my questions, <br> I am a married 35 year old male, eat right & stay in shape, ( see profile ) yada, yada, yada. Been with the same woman, now my wife, since I was fifteen. A few years ago, more like 13, my wife ...


1 Comments, 107 Views, 69 Votes ,7.38 Score
A friendly visit   2/27/2004

My wife and I had been active swingers for several years when she was involved in a severe auto accident. As a result she would not be able to have sex for several month’s. Even tho I was in my late 50's she was well aware of my extremely high sex drive so she said it was ok with her if I wanted to try swinging as a single. Needless to say I was more than willing so I answered a ...


0 Comments, 485 Views, 84 Votes ,8.95 Score
Temporary Student   2/26/2004

Recently, my wife's neice and her boyfriend came to stay with us because she was taking a class at the local university. I hadn't seen Julie since she graduated from high school and was not excited at the prospect of a couple of staying at our house for a week. I was pleasantly surprised when they arrived on Sunday because this gangly had blossomed into a gorgeous young woman. ...


2 Comments, 1331 Views, 217 Votes ,8.65 Score
not what she said   2/26/2004

My wife has never been very open about her prior sexual experiences. She had always told me that she had only done it a few times before we got married, and all with the same guy. The closest she ever came to telling me about one of her experiences was relating a brief nude encounter to me once. According to her it was innocent enough. She and a girlfriend went to see her grandmother ...


2 Comments, 1132 Views, 233 Votes ,9.32 Score
The right one????   2/25/2004

Has anyone had a threesome were the third person starts to fall in love with one of the other two? And if so what do you do to tell them I am sorry but that isn't what this is about.


0 Comments, 45 Views, 22 Votes ,4.69 Score
rm_jaytee402 61 M
3  Articles
He wants me to do his wife!...and i did!   2/23/2004

I have been friends with Ken for at least 30yrs, his wife Anita joined Ken back in H.S. so I’ve known here since then. She is attractive 5’3” 140 dark blonde hair at her shoulders, green eyes, her legs are gorgeous not small but are firm and smooth. Her breasts are 36B and she has hmmmm let’s say VERY suckable nipples the kind that feel so good to hold in your ...


2 Comments, 910 Views, 202 Votes ,8.68 Score
Excuse Me, But Do I Know You?   2/23/2004

One of our biggest concerns about swinging is that we will end up "accidentally" meeting someone we know, most likely from work. This has caused us to be cautious about which photos to post on sites like this (ours are up if you'd like to see, but we digress). What exactly do you do if you encounter someone you know, and never thought they were in the lifestyle? (Once the shock wears ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 27 Votes ,5.77 Score
Wife ravished by five younger men   2/22/2004

Initially it was supposed to be just my husband and I visiting a couple that we had contacted, but when we arrived at their home there were four of his male friends there. At the time I was somewhat taken aback, but at the same time it was a fantasy of mine that I wanted to fulfill. The moment my husband was taken on a 'tour of the home' by our hosts, the men became very excited. They ...


1 Comments, 884 Views, 130 Votes ,7.42 Score
One sided swinging   2/22/2004

We have had a couple of threesomes and we want a steady thing. It is too much to ask to find one woman to have a consistent relationship with? Why is it so hard to find that special someone to join us once a month or more? Stuff just gets in the way.


0 Comments, 57 Views, 27 Votes ,2.93 Score
up4swap 48 C
1  Article
A FEMALE'S PERSPECTIVE......ON "SOFT SWAP"   2/22/2004

I recently had a "soft swap" session with a very good friend of mine.  The two couples agreed to only exchange oral pleasures..........  <br> This was the first sexual encounter of these long time friends. <br> Let me tell you it was so hot!! <br> She is so sexy, she looks like a movie star, we compared toys, the girls took sexy pictures, and explored one ...


0 Comments, 430 Views, 87 Votes ,7.34 Score
hothole001 55 F
2  Articles
A wonderful Valentines’   2/20/2004

Played with the 28th men from SEXFinder.com in past one year, I couldn’t help experiencing new and more exciting things. Though most of the meetings were wonderful, all kinds of the men were strong, gentlemen, high sex skill from various of countries, specially once played with a mixture couple with a very strong white guy, and once mouth and pussy fully filled with two thick black cocks at ...


1 Comments, 366 Views, 76 Votes ,7.91 Score
rm_Chharlesbart 84 M
1  Article
Finally Into Swinging   2/19/2004

Don and Beth have been married for a number of years and have always enjoyed their sexual exploits on a vary regular basis. Don enjoys watching Beth slowly undress removing her blouse, then removing her push up bra to expose her ample C breasts, then continuing to remove her panties then skirt for him to gaze upon her beautiful body. She always comes to him with her arms outstretched to sit ...


0 Comments, 338 Views, 334 Votes ,8.60 Score
adult movie theaters   2/19/2004

Hey all me and my wife a few months ago where in vegas and we went to a adult movie theaters. while there we pleasured several males that where also in the theater. Since we have gotten back to virginia we have been looking for a adult movie theater local because we had such a great time there but cannot find one. Does anyone know of any in virgina let us know..thanks suckuoff626


2 Comments, 643 Views, 81 Votes ,4.81 Score
wegocrazy2 54 C
1  Article
We would like to do it   2/17/2004

Wherever we look in SEXFinder.com there are couples doing it with other couples. For a long time now we wanted to do it too. The problem that we stumbled upon was - who do we do it with. We cant do it with our existing circle of friends because it would be awkward if we approached then and it turned out that they were not interested in this kind of thing. So we listed in SEXFinder.com. Although we were ...


0 Comments, 144 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_igodwn4u 71 C
4  Articles
Mark and Sharon's First Meet   2/17/2004

Mark and Sharon's First Meet <br> <br> Mark first contacted us through SEXFinder.com. We had e-mailed him for some time and had problems arranging a meeting. We finally agreed to meet him at his house, which was a first for us we have always preferred to meet in a bar first. After we got there we learned that it was his grand mothers house and she was out of ...


0 Comments, 289 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
mgentry 58 C
1  Article
Does the term "swinging " apply only to couples swapping?   2/17/2004

Do most events, clubs, ect. cater only to couples for couples or can couples go there to look for singles? If so where could one find out where these events happen and when. <br> Thanks for any responses.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
best group sex I ever had   2/17/2004

Ok ok I know how every story always starts out with a single guy meeting a couple, but while looking for a couple i bumped into a group that had been doing this group sex for years. I was new to the whole thing and was totally overwhelmed. I had a friend invite me to his house for a party. I thought nothing of it and said sure. when i got there there was about 10 people there 7 guys and ...


1 Comments, 312 Views, 27 Votes ,6.61 Score
wydopnmale2 54 M
9  Articles
re: i want my husband tom fuck another woman   2/16/2004

I dont see where this should be problem.If my wife would go down on woman with me watching I'd be busting anut to get at her and you.I think if your husband was told that you want to watch him fucking a woman you just went down on he'd be more that happy to go along with you.If not a make him a deal trade fanticy for fanticy give him something he wants for what you want although sounds as ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
zippy_mcfeely 42 M
9  Articles
swinging is f-ed up   2/14/2004

aright, I've talked to a few swinging couples, but why is it that the guy involved always wants to suck your cock or get into some gay shite with you, I just want to bang your wife/girlfriend, lay off the gay stuff


0 Comments, 56 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
comfy or not   2/13/2004

me and my partener have tried all types of swinging, from 3 ways to couples, sometimes it is an awsome experience but yet you have times when things just go all wrong.We know that we love each other but it still plays in your head sometimes.


0 Comments, 50 Views, 83 Votes ,5.99 Score
Bluetonguering6 38 M
1  Article
interested in how women feel when their clits are sucked   2/12/2004

I was wondering something for along time. while a am performing oral sex i often start sucking on the clit and it causes the woman to orgasm quickly and big. now what is the difference in feeling betwen just licking and the sucking of the clit?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_one4fun34 68 M
3  Articles
wifes first time   2/12/2004

wife is out on her first "date". I'm anxious yet excited. Any others experienced this?


0 Comments, 323 Views, 14 Votes ,1.54 Score
finally meet   2/12/2004

In January of this year, my wife juicey, had a birthday. I wanted to do something real special for her. I contacted a member of SEXFinder.com whom we had meet with but never got to gether. He came over that Monday morning while juicey was in the shower. She was pleasantly surprized when she saw him. We made small talk and after awhile we decided to oil juicey down as she just gotten out of the ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
loose from weight loss or from big dick   2/10/2004

Many years ago my wife and I was at a small party in a country camp. My wife had gone on the sun porch to talk with the guy that owned the camp and some time later I went outside to tap off some used beer. When I went around by the porch I couldn't see the wife or guy at first but then low and behold there they were, she was sitting in a chair and he was standing beside her. She was giving ...


1 Comments, 661 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
Can_Perform 74 M
7  Articles
A very fun threesome evening   2/9/2004

I had been e-mailing John and Alice for a while trying to set up a time that I would be in their area working. They seemed like such a nice couple during our correspondence that I was starting to wonder what would transpire once we could get together. I suggested that we go out to dinner to get to know each other and see if there was any chemistry between us. John was very apprehensive ...


2 Comments, 340 Views, 433 Votes ,8.76 Score
Can_Perform 74 M
7  Articles
The Second Trip   2/9/2004

I was finally able to plan a second trip in to work and hopefully be able to get together with John and Alice. I had e-mailed them a few times and told them of my plans and was looking forward to seeing them again if possible and having some more fun. Well, as it happened they had a doctor’s appointment at 6:15 but could come to the motel after that. I greeted them in the lobby ...


2 Comments, 276 Views, 233 Votes ,9.16 Score
rm_akawilltry 36 M
7  Articles
The 1st time off SEXFinder.com.com   2/9/2004

Hi, <br> Well recently I had been using SEXFinder.com.com to try and find swingers in the area. When, I got lucky and met someone that lived close and was looking for mutual things. She was a latina, with short brown hair and C breats. Her body was smoking and I got hard just thinkin about the fact that somehting could even happen with a woman like her. We met up at a cafe and after ...


1 Comments, 134 Views, 183 Votes ,8.62 Score
rm_akawilltry 36 M
7  Articles
Ypsi's New nine inches   2/9/2004

I'm new to the ann-arbor/ypsilanti area and even newer to the swing scene. I was wondering if anyone was even on here from this area. How would a person go about finding couples, groups, parties, and clubs? If you have any advice or have someone to recommend then please let me know. I'm a guy with nine inches that's willing to try just about anything at least once. So, let me know about ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 56 Votes ,3.95 Score
funcouple82 60 C
5  Articles
first bi experience   2/8/2004

When we started swinging 5 and 1/2 years ago, it was quite an eye opener for me. I had never been with any other man other than my husband and certainly had never been with a woman. Not like we were prudes...we had a fantastic sex life, experimenting with many things. We often fantasized while watching movies about having sex with others...him out loud and me to myself. I especially found ...


14 Comments, 3179 Views, 486 Votes ,9.72 Score
funcouple82 60 C
5  Articles
Alone for the first time   2/8/2004

My husband and I have been in the swinging lifestyle for over five years. We have been exposed to many situations and thought there was nothing we had not experienced.....guess we were wrong! <br> We attended a swingers campout this past June. This is the 5th year we had been to the same one. They are normally 3 nights of complete unadulterated sex, meeting new people, and in ...


5 Comments, 3551 Views, 396 Votes ,9.48 Score
funcouple82 60 C
5  Articles
Back in Black!   2/8/2004

The first time I had gone alone with a guy without my hubby there occurred only one month prior to this. As it turns out, we both found it very erotic...it was the center of a few foreplay sessions. While we agreed that would not be our normal method of swinging, we also agreed that once in a while it would add some spark to either an uneventful night, or if the opportunity presented it. ...


18 Comments, 5696 Views, 361 Votes ,9.14 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
Re: Feeling Guilty   2/6/2004

My wife and I have been swinging for some time now and on occasion I am out of town for weeks on end. We discussed the possibilities of another woman stayng with my wife while I am gone. I like the idea because all the time on the road is spent fantasizing about what they are doing. At first my wife thought it was cheating if she had a woman to keep her company while I was away. I told ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 36 Votes ,6.86 Score
rm_J95911450 64 M
3  Articles
Re Re to swingers that don't write   2/6/2004

Even though peole do get many E-mail, a reply should be tended. The biggest problem with this site IS a lack of manners....It is only considerate to reply...Sometimes you feel like you are chasing ghosts...You wonder are these folks real...As far as treasuring people definitely remember the one's who do reply...They are special people whether the answer is positive or negative...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 55 Votes ,8.42 Score
Should I feel quilty ????   2/5/2004

My husband is an over the road truck driver, and is sometimes gone for 3 or more weeks at a time. Is it wrong that I have sex with a female while he is gone ? He says it's ok but I feel kinda quilty because he is not getting any other then his porn mags and a bottle of lotion.


3 Comments, 209 Views, 75 Votes ,5.79 Score
NoAverageJoe37 57 M
2  Articles
How can anyone share the one they love?   2/5/2004

I don't understand how anyone can share the one they love with other people.I have always been monogamus with any girl i have ever been with and thought of someone else going there while we were together was just unthinkable.Different strokes for different folks i guess.


0 Comments, 88 Views, 53 Votes ,0.86 Score
rm_flewman 53 M
2  Articles
Sex with my wifes best friend   2/4/2004

It all started with me nad my wife taping a hot sex night. Little did I know that she would show that tape to her best friend. While at work one day I got a call from her friend one day stating that she could give a better blowjob than my wife. She always teased me anyways so I told her to prove it. She said that she would. I thought it was only teasing but my wife came on the phone ...


1 Comments, 726 Views, 152 Votes ,6.27 Score
69iwannafuku69 38 F
6  Articles
3 sums   2/4/2004

i have a gf who i love very much but we very often have others join in with our fun. sometimes its a guy sometimes its a girl, it is always fun and i know them very good. i trust them alot and i think that anyone else who is interested in this type of thing should trust who ever there with too. its not for everyone but i LOVE IT


1 Comments, 149 Views, 32 Votes ,4.83 Score
Tight Threesome   2/4/2004

My wife and began fantasizing about her getting screwed by some other guy when we were in bed together. This was always a fantasy of hers, and I had just the friend in mind. We have since then done it 6 times over the years, and it is always hot. Last week, she was insatiable as we took turns fucking her incredibly wet pussy, while the other dick was sliding in and out of her mouth. We ...


2 Comments, 1193 Views, 108 Votes ,6.99 Score
Wants to watch his wife........   2/4/2004

My wife was fucked by two of my friends, and I really enjoyed watching her getting fucked. The problem is she does not want to do it agin. She says that if a husband loved his wife he would'nt want his wife to do that.I told her that I loved her very nuch and I did'nt mind her fucking other men and that turned me on just thinking about her fucking other men, and I would love her no matter ...


1 Comments, 619 Views, 50 Votes ,6.04 Score
69iwannafuku69 38 F
6  Articles
3 way?   2/3/2004

i was thinkin bout having a 2 way realationship im not sure this is normal but there is 2 people( one guy one gurl) they are both interested in this. we did have a few encounters in the past but want to make it "official" what should we do. i love them both and they love each other too


0 Comments, 71 Views, 18 Votes ,1.62 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
Swingin in Illinois   2/3/2004

We started swinging last year and it has been a ride to remember. To date we have met 4 very nice couples and we are now at a point where we have so much fun. Our first encounter was a real trip. Nobody was really ready to get things started until a little smoke was passed around. Then we all got into the swing of things and had some super sex.


1 Comments, 128 Views, 21 Votes ,0.77 Score
RE: Partner says   2/2/2004

I understand what you mean exactly as my wife said this several times. She would give me the green light to set up meetings with other couples and other guys. Then once we had that first meeting set up she would go through a couple days of questioning if she really wanted to do this or not. Then once we met for dinner or a drink she was sure that she was ready to go forward but I could ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 19 Votes ,7.21 Score
why can't i find a sexy bi female?   1/31/2004

I have been seeking a SINGLE bi female for a while now.. and i feel like i should give up.. i met like 1 gurl off of this site ... she lives up north .. now i live in the south =( i just wanna have fun.. does anyone know where they all hang out in Florida??


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Just what I was afraid of   1/31/2004

I went to a swinging party and my worst fears happened. You knock on the door and everyone is nacked. I prefed to slowy work into it but oh now that isn't what happened.


0 Comments, 177 Views, 22 Votes
rm_POWDER75 47 F
1  Article
RE: Give Me 2 DICKS!!   1/29/2004

I love when me and my guy add toys for the'' close as u can get'' feeling of 2 dicks. I would love to act out the real fantasy as well! More women should bend over and try it. We who love it should stand up (or sit on) for what is pleasurable, not dirty.


0 Comments, 231 Views, 25 Votes ,6.78 Score
goddess2804 53 C
1  Article
Cannot find a bi-female   1/28/2004

We are a proffessional couple, very clean and discreet. We have been trying for over a year to find a genuine bi-female but with no luck. Can anyone help...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
handsomenhappy 51 M
1  Article
The other womans husband   1/28/2004

While I was at me first Swingers "meet n greet". (I came alson, Single male) It was hard for me to have another mans wife rub all over me (groping, kissing etc..). The husband was 5 feet from me. I kept expecting for him to come over and deck me. I was having a fun time with a cute woman all over me, but the husband had nothing. I declined to have sex with her, partially in fear of a ...


1 Comments, 345 Views, 19 Votes ,1.54 Score
pinpals1 68 C
1  Article
Single men or woman   1/27/2004

Just wanted to add my thoughts on the issues of singles and swinging. We have been swinging for about 5 years. We do not look for single men or women. We have been to parties and clubs where singles are invited and have no problem with it. While its not what we are interested in we respect those couples that are. <br> I think the disagreement over this issue is caused ...


0 Comments, 217 Views, 20 Votes ,5.68 Score
trying too find the right gift for the wife   1/26/2004

Hello all. I am just wondering why men attack when the couple wants too take it slowly. After all I'm shareing "my wife " with them, and I'm not going too give her up to any dick , but they just want to rush to the bedroom and start screwing .Guys slow down and you will make it a lot further.


2 Comments, 181 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
hotlady4funCO 55 F
4  Articles
My boyfriend and I differ   1/26/2004

My boyfiend and I differ I enjoy going to the mon chalet... and experience ing different things. He hates me going there. I said I would give it up for him if that is what he wants me to do. He says he wants me to stop going because I do not want to go there anymore not because I am giving ti up for him...but I enjoy the place I do still want to go.


0 Comments, 187 Views, 11 Votes ,0.18 Score
rm_Datacpl 53 C
13  Articles
An earlly swing experance   1/23/2004

I had a type of swing experience when I was younger with my first girl friend. We had a great time together and experienced all of our first times together including a little swing play. She was very open and into trying new things and just loved sex. Looking back I can see what lead to it the first time we where all camping out in the back yard there was about 5 of us in this tent and as ...


0 Comments, 358 Views, 22 Votes ,5.05 Score
kinect4fun 60 C
2  Articles
Three is great company!   1/22/2004

Wife and I have dabbled in the lifestyle for about 3 years although things were mainly her and another female while guys just enjoyed the view. This was until recently when we met a guy here on SEXFinder.com. We talked for a while and decided to meet. The wife said she really didn, t want to do anything on the first meet, but get to know the guy and if all comfortable set up another meet. Well this ...


0 Comments, 384 Views, 20 Votes ,5.04 Score
Haulover Beach, Florida   1/22/2004

My wife and I were recently in Florida for a vacation. While there we decided to check out the nude beach just north of Miami. We had never done that before. When we arrived my wife told me that she would only go topless, not nude. We laid out our towels and I disrobed. She had on he bikini and laid down. After about 10 minutes she finally took off her top. She has beautiful breasts and ...


1 Comments, 987 Views, 29 Votes ,6.65 Score
rm_Dachong 53 M
3  Articles
Wifes Bi Fantasy   1/21/2004

Ok Yes I know the feedback seeing my wife with another woman is "My" fantasy but actually my wife does fantasise about this a lot. <br> However, she is quite shy and admits that she would never do it. <br> Question how can I encourage her to explore this side of her fantasy. And yes it would be a fantasy of mine which she also knows.


0 Comments, 173 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
Watching Wife Getting It on   1/21/2004

I have been married for over 25 years and have watched my wife screw other guys while I watch, I get the biggest hard on and the fucking later is fantastic like I was a virgin for the first time. I have also had oral sex with some of these guys, it was fucking awsome. I let here have a boyfriend with whom we both enjoyed for over a year. Man was it great. I rather watch her fuck its ...


2 Comments, 1324 Views, 38 Votes ,5.06 Score
LiquorSweetly 50 M
4  Articles
How to ?   1/20/2004

I have been rather intrested in the swinging lifestyle for sometime now.. My problem is the fact that I am a very very jealous man.. Is there a way to over come this ? I feel I am depriveing myself with a very beautiful open life style do to jealousy and insecurties....


0 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
RE: Do other people like larger women?   1/19/2004

I say "Amen and Hallelujah!!" for the larger woman. I love making love to a true BBW. I love finding all the erogenous zones snuggled down in her flesh. And I've found that most larger women are better lovers than their skinny counterparts. I love all women, but Large Women are the best!!


0 Comments, 63 Views, 12 Votes ,5.63 Score
Any good swing clubs or "real" swingers   1/19/2004

Im in So. Cal and im looking for any good swing clubs or swingers who would like to have fun with me and my man....Any takers?


0 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
Me, My Buddy & Our Wives Part 2 !!   1/18/2004

Having experienced something that I never thought could happen, things got even better. After the first encounter we didn't see Rod and Ally for a few days. This gave both them and us the chance to absorb what had happened and gave all of us the chance to think about the entire situation. As things went, all four of us felt anything but enjoyment about what had happened. We all agreed ...


1 Comments, 1342 Views, 38 Votes ,8.47 Score
reply to need help for wifes first cock   1/17/2004

Hello, I'm a 34 year old man who has watched his wife a few times over the years have sex with other men. I know exactly what you mean, when you speak of enjoying seeing your wife penetrated for the first time by another man. Afterwards though you feel uncomfortable about the fact that she visible enjoyed herself. The first time my wife had sex with another man, it took me months to talk ...


1 Comments, 631 Views, 18 Votes ,6.67 Score
Worried About Jealousy   1/17/2004

My boyfriend and I have never gotten into swinging, but are looking into trying it. The only thing is, does it cause jealousy problems in the relationship to know that each person is with somebody else? I want he and I both to feel pleasure, but he still kinda doesn't like the idea of me being with other men and I don't want him to leave me for some woman he fucked on the side. Anybody ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
haloheldbyhorns 54 C
1  Article
re - getting into swinging   1/17/2004

I am also new to the swinging buisness, its something i've always thought and fantasised about but never really had the opportunity to do anything about it until i met and married my husband who seems to have the same interests as me. My husband always seems willing to have another female present but when its another guy he clams up and goes all jealous which i assume all women would find ...


0 Comments, 165 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
how to go about it   1/17/2004

im married for twenty years.sex life is dull.wanna spice it up by trying swinging.how do i go about it.where to find ideal partners?let me know


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
looking for a couple   1/17/2004

I am very interested in screwing someone's wife. I am very hung and i am craving Caucasion pussy. I need help finding a couple that is willing to help me. If u are let me know. thank you.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 0 Votes
FriendWantedNow 59 C
10  Articles
Slow Is Best   1/17/2004

Swinging and having an open attitude towards exploring our sexual natures can be both enlightening and rewarding. After all, variety doesn't just add spice to life, it is the spice in life. Both partners have to be at the same level of understanding and readiness though, or you may lose the bird in the bush because it's jealous or hurt by the thought of having it's bush invaded by every ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
novaman662 53 C
1  Article
how do you approach you mate about doing this?   1/16/2004

i feel comfortable about the deal but would luv a interracial experience.don't know how to approach the mate about it....


2 Comments, 331 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_akawilltry 36 M
7  Articles
Ypsilanti   1/16/2004

Hey, <br> I'm live in ypsi, MI and I'm looking to get started in the swinging community. But I don't know about any swinger clubs or swinger parties. It's hard enough to just get swingers in the area to communicate with you. Does anyone have any tips? or know of anything in the area? IF you're a swinger in the area just contact me and we can set something up. I've had one ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
need to know   1/16/2004

i would like to get advice on going to swinger's club's is this something safe and is it all that is is made out to be?


0 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Why is no-one in canberra on here!?   1/15/2004

It's not a good thing when you can't find anyone on the site who is interested. We have been here for a while now, and can't find any Bi-sexual girls or couples interested in a swing, and it's very frustrating, they all life in Perth Adelaide or Sydney. <br> What's a couple to do?


0 Comments, 26 Views, 76 Votes ,2.31 Score
WolfCpl817 39 C
1  Article
need help   1/15/2004

my wife and i are an attractive couple ut seem to not have any luck finding anyone. please help


3 Comments, 49 Views, 77 Votes ,0.19 Score
need your help reply   1/14/2004

my wife and I have been swinging for many years. after reading your submission, we are not sure this swinging life is for you. why did you not make love to a woman who was available and willing. to be a male swinger you must love women. their smell, the way they talk, the way they react, what they say, but above all what they want. swinging is real easy. but if you have things like ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 89 Votes ,8.82 Score
Miami-Couple69 47 C
2  Articles
"Need Your Help From Experts " Wifes first Cock During sex!   1/13/2004

Im writing this article because I would like to ask the help of other swingers that have experienced this in their marriage. We are a couple that has been soft swinging for the last 2 years. And I want to clarify what I mean by soft swinging, there has been no penetration with our partners only oral. <br> My confusion was that this past week in our regular meeting with our ...


2 Comments, 497 Views, 340 Votes ,8.49 Score
I slid my manhood into my neighbor's pussy while my girl friend...   1/13/2004

I couldn't wait for the sun to go down. It was much too light outside for us to jump into the hot tub without our clothes on. A beautiful sun set cleared our landing into our new hot tub. The weather was warm while the hot tub was at 102. We played with all the settings, moving from seat to seat to determine which seat felt the best to each of us. We settled in to our favorate part of ...


2 Comments, 791 Views, 808 Votes ,9.28 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
RE: NEED YOUR HELP FROM EXPERTS   1/13/2004

I know what you are going through, and it does go away after a while. Having sex with your alternate partner helps, so you should go ahead take that next step. By the way your wife enjoyed herself, it seems obvious she is ok with a full swap relationship. After our first encounter, I was a bit in shock to see my wife of 16 years, having sex with another man. I too watched them and ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 46 Votes ,8.25 Score
re:why dont men want to follow thru   1/13/2004

well, it's really very simple, not everyone is able to give you what you want and need, although most start out wanting, hoping, etc. It is the game of numbers, to be sure, if you do your best to pick those you think are the most likely to follow thru, and keep trying, eventually you will find them.......there are many of us gentlemen out here who know what you want and need and are ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 22 Votes ,4.45 Score
trying to find a bi-male/female couple to play with   1/12/2004

I am a single male who is interested in getting together with a m/f couple. I am finding it difficult to get into swingers clubs because they are telling me I must be with a female to attend. Does anyone out there have any suggestions on sites or places to go in the Orange County/L.A. area?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 89 Votes ,5.63 Score
Re Swinger Club Experience   1/11/2004

To all of you people who ask questions like the one asked in this article: this section is not the place for that. Nobody can answer them here. Questions belong in the "Advice Line" section over on the right. That's an interactive Q&A section. The sections over here on the left are for stories, real and otherwise, that inspire, instruct, romantasize and get us all hot and bothered.


0 Comments, 64 Views, 127 Votes ,7.63 Score
Chosing a guy.   1/11/2004

My Girlfriend and myself have spoken about getting another straight guy in to help her fullfill her fantasies. She likes to have dirty sex, fell real slutty, and the thought of being used by another guy is a major turn on for her. When we first meet, she had never had sex outside the bedroom, or even with the lights on. Since then she has opened up so to speak with me guiding her, letting ...


1 Comments, 123 Views, 18 Votes ,4.49 Score
NorthwestPagans 54 C
1  Article
RE: Couple w/ woman only pictures   1/11/2004

This drives our lady crazy. Pics of women's bods or men's dicks. Hey folks, if you're a couple, show us body shots both of you! And always show a body shot of the guy. Too often we've met couples where the lady half takes great care of herself, but the guy looks like he's given up on healthy eating and exercise. Yuck!


1 Comments, 70 Views, 39 Votes ,7.47 Score
ROOMIES WITH BENEFITS   1/10/2004

WHENI WAS IN COLLOGE I LIVED WITH MY BEST FRIEND AND HIS GIRLFRIEND. ONE NIGHT I CAME HOME FROM A PARTY, THEY HAD LEFT EARLY, TO FIND THEM DOING IT IN THE LIVING ROOM. I WAS VERY SURPRISED WHEN THEY DIDN'T STOP. CINDY ONLY LOOKED AT ME WHILE SHE WAS GETTING FUCKED BY KEVIN. I STOOD THERE FOR A SECOND AND SHE TOLD ME TO COME OVER. THEY HAD BEEN PLANNING THIS FOR SOMETIME AND FINALLY GOTTEN ...


1 Comments, 365 Views, 70 Votes ,7.87 Score
my wife takes a new dick   1/9/2004

My wife is very special, very beautiful. She is tall, slim and has soft lovely skin. I am her only lover <br> We decided to move to the bush. We went to a small country town. It was great and we just loved the small town intimacy. <br> We kind of just dropped out. <br> One day I got a call from an old business aquaitance, he had heard we were there and could ...


2 Comments, 1145 Views, 634 Votes ,9.29 Score
Swinger Club Experiences   1/9/2004

Has anyone been to a 'swinger' club? Could you please rate your experiences? We are thinking about attending one, but are unsure if it is for us or not.


0 Comments, 44 Views, 153 Votes ,6.84 Score
Re:I want two men to give it to me   1/9/2004

That is one of my fantasies for my wife, and she's willing. We are just having a hard time finding that right other male. They either brag too much, forget that she does, indeed, have a husband, or they don't look like they bathe too often. <br> Anyway, I hope your husband will help you with this fantasy. I think it would feel great for all involved, except if one of the ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 72 Votes ,7.01 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
Reply to "2 men at once"   1/9/2004

My wife and I have been swinging for quite a while now and recently she wanted to try the double penetration. We did and both her and I loved it.I love feeling another man inside my wife. We usually make sure the smaller man gets the back door. It's easier on the woman that way.


1 Comments, 270 Views, 90 Votes ,8.79 Score
CpleCurious242 61 C
1  Article
re: I want two men to do me at once   1/9/2004

I will answer only from my personal experiences. My wife has yet to experience another man at the same time...situation has not occurred at right time..but soon!!! I have been involved in two mmf threesome situations. One of the two was willing to be fucked anyway possible including a double penetration. As a straight male, once you get over the fear of competition, comparisons, or ...


1 Comments, 237 Views, 60 Votes ,5.56 Score
rm_akawilltry 36 M
7  Articles
The Youngbuck   1/9/2004

Here's some comments from a young male. <br> We are constantly overlooked because for some reason girls are attracted to older men. But, just to let you know a man reaches his sexual peak around the age 18. Plus, we have energy and endurance. Better than that, we are eager to try just about anything. Most of us really just want to please a woman and get pleased in return. Yet, ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 45 Votes ,2.36 Score
softjigglytitss 61 F
1  Article
RE: 2 men to give it to me   1/9/2004

Popping in on the 2 men thing with a woman's point of view. <br> It can be really fun, especially if both men know you well and are comfortable with eachother. <br> For me it lacked the intimacy of one on one, you tend to not have the cuddling, it was purely sexual. Imagine two cocks, four hands and two mouths.... add some sex toys into the mix and you have endless ...


0 Comments, 422 Views, 76 Votes ,9.34 Score
caz4u2001 51 M
2  Articles
Wife and big black men   1/7/2004

Me and the misses have been married for over eighteen years, the other day she asked me if she could screw a well hung black guy. At first this blew me away, the more I thought abought it the more aroused it made me so I agreed. She checked the adds on SEXFinder.com and found one that she thought was nice, he was 35, well built and hung. His name was Carl, we meet for drinks at a Motel where we ...


1 Comments, 1802 Views, 233 Votes ,8.30 Score
NoStringsLady 52 F
1  Article
Starting Swinging   1/7/2004

We are interested in expanding our relationship. We have both had other partners in our relationship and have no problem in sharing. My husband is 5'11", blue eyes and brown hair, slender. My profile is on adult friend finder. So let me know if you are interested in meeting up with us in Austin, Tx.


2 Comments, 153 Views, 45 Votes ,2.58 Score
Swing/cruise gettaway reply   1/7/2004

I don't know of any regular cruises of that nature - just special charters. I suggest, however, one of the swinger resorts such as Hedonism II or III.


0 Comments, 62 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
Re: Finding "the" guy   1/7/2004

I get so excited about being with another couple. It has never happened yet---expertloverman--- is still fantasizing about it. I hope to find the 'right' couple someday soon????


0 Comments, 21 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Help me convince my woman to swing   1/7/2004

I would like to have suggestions as to how I could get my woman to swing. We are both in our 50s both been through divorces and have been together for 4 yrs now. She is very open minded about sex but does not even want to discuss swinging. She does show an interest in porno films and even likes the scenes with two females going at it. Please help......


0 Comments, 182 Views, 29 Votes ,6.25 Score
rm_kbigdogg 63 M
1  Article
Re-single men...give me a break   1/6/2004

Give me a break! I normally just read articles just for entertainment but I couldn't help but respond to this close-minded opinion about single men. Swinging is not for just couples. Most of the couples on this site advertise for single men. The lifestyle should be for anyone that's open-minded, secure and honest. Unfortunately, these important qualities are often overlooked. I'm quite ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
trucknude 68 M
4  Articles
CUDDLES new year   1/6/2004

Cuddles and I spent new years eve on the road. I had a hot load for my best customer in Fl.that had to be delivered on wed. am. I was able to unload early and we headed north for oyr home in Il. I had been behind the wheel for 26 hrs. and was real sleepy. Cuddles was napping in the sleeper during the trip and was rested and horny. I manged to get up to Indiana before I stoped to sleep. As i ...


1 Comments, 163 Views, 24 Votes ,6.42 Score
rm_akawilltry 36 M
7  Articles
ypsi swingers   1/6/2004

As a new guy, I'm told that honesty is the way to go, but so far I've had no luck being honest. I would like to find swingers that exist in ypsi. I wanna know are there swingers parties in the area? are there swingers clubs? What do I have to do to get info on this stuff. I'm not suprised that the men outnumber the women, but I am suprised by the fact that so few women answer on here. Why ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_WE2FOURFUN 70 C
1  Article
STUPID MEN   1/5/2004

WE HAVE FOUND THAT MOST MEN, SINGLE OR MARRIED, PUT A ADD IN SEXFinder.com WITHOUT USING THE RIGHT HEAD TO THINK WITH ! THEY SEEM TO READ JUST PART OF THE OTHER ADD'S PEOPLE PUT IN, THEN WRITE ONE THAT SAYS THEY WANT COUPLES, WHEN THEY ACTUALLY WANT JUST THE WOMAN AND THINK ALL THE WIVES OUT THERE WILL RESPOND TO THEM THINKING THEY ARE IN NEED OF COCK. WAKE UP MOST WOMEN CAN GET ANY MAN THEY WANT. IT ...


3 Comments, 269 Views, 32 Votes ,6.05 Score
Shy at first...but once she started ...she loved it   1/5/2004

We are a married couple 15years now..Susan 39 5`8 125 great body and sexy ....I am 40 6` average size cock 6 to 61/2 inches and very oral...As with many couples we enjoyed sex for 10 years and then found that we would fantasize about sex ....it took sometime before we could actually say it to one another and more importantly share our fantasies with one another...as time went on we confided ...


2 Comments, 1254 Views, 132 Votes ,9.23 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
Third Time Is A Charm, Too!!   1/4/2004

We have been members here for over 3 years now, and we have met up with 3 different couples from SEXFinder.com. The best thing so far, is that I never thought we would find another couple. Let alone 3. I can't begin to express my appreciation to SEXFinder.com for having a web site like this. I have read about how some people don't find what they want. I can't understand why. We live in a small mid ...


1 Comments, 202 Views, 187 Votes ,8.78 Score
finding   1/4/2004

Me and my wife are looking for the right guy to fulfill our fantasy of her having sex with someone while I watch, and then join in to DP her. How do we find this guy!?


8 Comments, 1053 Views, 75 Votes ,5.93 Score
Re: Single Men   1/3/2004

I would like to answer the article complaining about single men seeking couples. <br> You seem to have a very narrow definition of "swinging." Mine is broad enough to allow for a variety of intimate encounters outside of the traditional one man/one woman arrangement. <br> I am a single man who prefers to meet couples. Why? I don't want a one-on-one encounter because ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
OCcouple4play 57 C
0  Articles
My wife with black man, Part 1   1/2/2004

We've read a couple of articles in this forum with the question of white women with black men. Well, we thought we'd add our experience. <br> My wife and I have been together about 8 years and during that time my wife has never hidden her attraction to good looking black men. When we'd go out drinking and dancing, she'd enjoy dancing and flirting with the black guys in between ...


0 Comments, 905 Views, 26 Votes ,4.21 Score
lonesme_lvr 61 C
2  Articles
re: whats up with that   1/2/2004

Yes, it is possible that there are too many idiots out there and it has ruined things for you. It is also possible (as in my case) that the couple is just looking for another couple, not a 3-sum, and that they do not swing alone. In my opinion - there is no harm in making contact, things may change along the way, and all they can do is say no, right? and, hopefully, will not be too rude ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lonesme_lvr 61 C
2  Articles
re: swinging married couples   1/2/2004

We are a married couple, and we too swing -- it is a wonderful experience, if both are into it, and do it as a couple -- it was always my impression of swinging that it is for married couples, or at least couples that are in a long term, loving, secure relationship.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 11 Votes ,5.41 Score
DNAbifem 57 C
1  Article
GANGBANG   1/2/2004

my missus wants a gang bang and to be fucked well and truley up her arse often and hard by 4 men so call me asap !


2 Comments, 380 Views, 34 Votes ,5.76 Score
Where are the swing clubs in sth texas   1/2/2004

I am curious as to the locations of the swing clubs in south texas.San Antonio, Austin, Corpus Christi, houston, anfd the Rio Grande valy area?


0 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
JOHNT36 59 C
1  Article
re:single men   1/2/2004

Get a life all u married people.Read the name of this site.It dosent say swingers only, its SEXFinder.com.Quit bitching and get on with your life.If you dont like a msg. use the dam delete key.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
High sexed ladies   1/1/2004

I like GB and 3 somes because I find the ladies who enjoy this are very sensuous and are highly sexed! Most of them have been decent looking also!


1 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes
rm_24sexanytime 46 C
1  Article
how to hook up?   1/1/2004

my wife and i are both a little shy and dont have perfect bodies, but we really want to try new things like swinging. how do you find more people who arent looking for the beautiful people and that we might actually have a shot with? please help, because were running out of options. thanks


0 Comments, 26 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
Honesty is the key to get your partner interested in Swinging   12/31/2003

The question I hear asked over and over again often seems to be "I want to get into swinging, but my [husband/wife] isn't interested. How do I get them interested?" <br> I have found, over the years, that the only real way is pure and simple honesty. You have to tell your partner how you feel. Laying hints won't do it, showing him/her swinger sites as a 'joke' won't do it. You ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 15 Votes ,6.50 Score
wilmcpl 52 C
1  Article
Need Swing Club Advice   12/31/2003

Can anyone recommend a good club to go to in Vegas? My wife and I are heading out there in Feb and want to play...!


1 Comments, 204 Views, 0 Votes
Uneven Couples   12/31/2003

I think it sucks when your partner chooses a couple, and only one of them is attractive...it's like you're expected to take a dive for the team or something...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
My first Male to Male   12/30/2003

My first Male to Male My wife and I had an open relationship for the past few years, She had her lover and I had mine. She would join my G/F and I occasionally as she was a little bi, and I would enjoy threesome's with her and her friend. I lost count of the times I had watched Steve shove his fat cock into my wife and her give him fantastic head. Steve’s cock was not overly long but ...


0 Comments, 447 Views, 61 Votes ,8.86 Score
Justa swinging !!   12/30/2003

Hi, I am a 29 year old married woman, who has been having dreams of having sex with men and women. I used to say that I would never think about the possibilities of having sex with a woman, but now I want to explore my options. Well, here is how my bi and swinging event came about. One night I was having a dream where I was kissing and sucking on this woman's breast. Then we got in the ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_midcupl4ya5 56 C
2  Articles
We love to meet new couples   12/29/2003

We are fairly new to the swingin site and I would just like to take a minute and tell you how our first encounter went. We meet a couple for drinks and dinner then after a few hours of chatting we went back to the hotel room and started to get busy. My husband was all into this woman and I was not to thrilled about the guy. He was a big slob and I was after the girl as well. My ...


0 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
safe sex for all couples in sydney   12/29/2003

there is a safer way of meeting couples i'm sure that in every other country it is very hard to find couples but down under in Australia Sydney this is your perfect spot to find the couple that you've been looking for. This is surely the best country for you to have fun without having to worry about a thing. So if your down under just give us a buzz to calientes 1973 send us a picture and ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 76 Votes ,7.04 Score
bi male iso couple   12/29/2003

hi i'm a bi blk male in nj willing to travel iso of a couple for a mmf 3sum i'm vers damn its hard to meet someone off here can i please get some help


0 Comments, 64 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_cir25 48 M
1  Article
My first party experience - Brief party pointers for first timers   12/29/2003

My wife and I went to a rather nice, small, private party. My first piece of advice is small is a nice way to go, sure, you'll meet more people at a large party, but a small party is much more intimate, and in this case, it was invitation only, and the people where well chosen by the hostess. The party was an optional 2 day deal, you could either go friday, saturday, or both, most people ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 6 Votes ,5.36 Score
t1bridge4th 45 M
4  Articles
I just need help.   12/29/2003

I need help, I was station in Japan and there swing was so easy to do. Here back home, swing is a hard thing to do. Why??


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
rm_luv26920001 56 C
1  Article
singles   12/26/2003

how come is it that on most all swingers sights there are a large amount of single men. or are there just men saying they are single to get a little?


0 Comments, 25 Views, 61 Votes ,6.20 Score
wife dances,strips,fucks at swing club part 2   12/25/2003

We had been at the club last week had quick sex then left. Cin and I had talked about what we had done, agreed to do it better , have more fun.Cin is a tall blond, turns heads everywhere we go. Tonight was no differant. Cin spent a lot of time getting ready, I kept her glass of rum/coke full. Her hair done big a short mini-skirt, tong panties, no bra and high heels, damn....We stopped first ...


1 Comments, 558 Views, 485 Votes ,8.93 Score
rm_hotredturbo 43 M
9  Articles
help me convince my girl to swing   12/24/2003

I have a girl that I see occasionally and would like to convince her to start swinging. I would like some advise on the best way to do this.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 81 Votes ,1.53 Score
rm_cchuck1968 56 M
2  Articles
blacks $ whites   12/23/2003

Do most white cpls. prefer black men? If so why? I'm ablack male and I prefer white couples simply because it is a rush to fuck the wife and let the husband watch and later join. Tell me what you think.


0 Comments, 182 Views, 106 Votes ,4.88 Score
RE;How come men don't want to Make their women happy   12/23/2003

I know this. I am curious about the two wmoen thing, but what really gets my dick hard is seeing a woman who can handle two dicks. My wife and I are looking for a third (male) now. A woman gives the best head when her pussy is being satisfied, and the same for the other end.


0 Comments, 45 Views, 44 Votes ,7.39 Score
Why is this so taboo?   12/23/2003

It seems to me that every argument against personally fulfilling (but socially non-destructive) activities that aren't part of "American values" -- like swinging -- goes back to the repressed, hypocritical, Puritanical foundation of the United States. Get over it, modern America! You think some the "founding fathers" didn't do their own swinging behind closed doors? Give me a break!


0 Comments, 46 Views, 98 Votes ,7.14 Score
ELPASOTWO 67 C
1  Article
my best birthday present   12/22/2003

My husband was transfered about 3 hours from home, and worked a lot of hours, and my birthday was coming up he told me to go home and party with our friends there. He also told me if I was having fun so stay the night come back the next morning and tell him all about it. So I headed home I was excited about seeing all our old friends. I got to our friends house and there was a party going ...


0 Comments, 666 Views, 374 Votes ,8.25 Score
9inNAIL4U 73 M
17  Articles
First time we connected   12/22/2003

About a year ago I was surfing through the profiles, looking for interested couples for swinging. I came upon a couple listed that lives close by and I dropped them a line to set up an introduction meeting. <br> Complications kept coming up and we could not seem to get a date and time set for us to meet. That is until a month ago. It happened to be our 16th anniversary and we ...


0 Comments, 245 Views, 107 Votes ,9.64 Score
kiki_n_angel69 44,1949 C
3  Articles
nervous about first time and diseases..   12/18/2003

just wondering if there is any way to calm our nerves about our "first time" swinging...we have never tried this before and dont want to disappoint anyone...and we are paranoid about diseases because we have and our health to worry about...is there any right or wrong way to bring that subject up without offending people?


0 Comments, 87 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
swinging to your hearts content   12/18/2003

we are a couple that like to have some fun, we are an honest couple and we are looking for the same, we are down to earth with a sense of humour. Try us you won't regret it, nothing personal with little dicks but this fantasy must be completed. We are looking for 8'inch + the bigger and gentle the better do not like roughness We are very discreet,


0 Comments, 26 Views, 69 Votes ,0.42 Score
wife dances strips fucks at swing club part 1   12/17/2003

Last month my wife and I paid for a months membership at the green door swingers club in las vegas.Cin looked hot blond hair done big, blue velvet dress w/slit almost to hipbone black thigh high stockings, high heels, no bra tong panties. We explored the place, every guy watched her, ending up at the pool table. We played 3 games, Cin drew a lot of men, every time she shot glimses of her ...


1 Comments, 625 Views, 48 Votes ,8.22 Score
DUALIEZ 50,1944 C
1  Article
SHE WANTED TO PLEASE AND TEASE....   12/17/2003

WE HAD BEEN TALKING ABOUT IT FOR A LONG TIME , MY GIRLFRIENDS PLEASURE SHE GETS FROM TEASING MY BUDDY.YOU SEE MY BUDDY IS HOT FOR MY HOT 'N' TINY PERFECT LITTLE WOMAN.WE HAVE BOTH CAUGHT HIM WATCHING US FOOL AROUND LYING DOWN ON THE COUCH WHILE WATCHING A MOVIE OR T.V SHE LOVES FOR ME TO FINGER HER OR PLAY WITH HER TITTIES POPPING THEM OUT BY ACIDENT ON PURPOSE IF YOU KNOW WHAT I ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 24 Votes ,7.33 Score
1st time gangbang   12/16/2003

Well let me start by describing the beautiful woman in my life. Her name is Mena and she is such a wonderful person, a great mom, and she is very naughty. We’ve been dating for quite a while now and while everything about the time we spend together is wonderful, the sex has been awesome to say the least. She’s a hottie with a beautiful face and smile, about 5’ tall, ...


0 Comments, 883 Views, 79 Votes ,7.78 Score
Swinging in Houston   12/15/2003

I just moved to Houston and I am looking for a place to meet swingers or older women. Where are the SEXFinder.com parties at? Where is a good place to meet older women who are interested in younger men? Are older women in Houston receptible to advances from younger men?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 66 Votes ,0.21 Score
Birthday Celebration   12/15/2003

Karen and I have a friend, Ron, who has a wife that does not enjoy sex, so he goes for long periods of time without sex. Well, Karen and I recently celebrated our 50th birthday and wanted to invite Ron to “celebrate” with us. We invited Ron to visit for a weekend so that the three of us could celebrate our 50th birthdays together. Ron’s wife was under the impression that it was ...


2 Comments, 1570 Views, 295 Votes ,9.12 Score
swing clubs   12/15/2003

Hi My wife and I are first timers and are looking for swing clubs or people that get together in WNY. Are there any clubs in this area?


0 Comments, 38 Views, 69 Votes ,3.30 Score
Me, My Buddy Our Two Wives !!!   12/15/2003

Where to start....well, my buddy Rod and his wife Allie have been friends with my wife Devin and I for years. While I myself and I'm quite sure Rod also have had shall we say, naughty thoughts about eachothers wives, it is a subject that had never ever been spoken about. Allie and Devin are very close friends and when they get together and have a few drinks, become very for lack of a ...


0 Comments, 2163 Views, 559 Votes ,9.55 Score
my husband   12/13/2003

When I first met Michael I was incredibly drawn to him. He was tall, blond and well built. He was smart. <br> One feature he had however, was he was so niave. He is like a big puppy and has no idea how georgous he is. All my friends were so wet about him, well I just had to share him around. His dick is always up and hard. He loves to fuck and after he is still playful. ...


0 Comments, 522 Views, 368 Votes ,7.68 Score
rm_coolcouple25 47 C
1  Article
Why so many single men???   12/13/2003

We are very new to the swinging lifestyle. We are a srtaight male and bi-curious female looking for the same, or another female. The thing is, I have noticed that many of the people who view our profile are single men. Why are so many single men interested in couples?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Swinging in Southern California   12/13/2003

I am finding it hard to find a place to take my companion (F) to swing here in Southern California. Does anyone have any ideass? we are looking for a small, clean location with minimal threats.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_jigalow4u 68 M
2  Articles
Slutty Wife   12/13/2003

My wife and I were opening a new retail lingerie business. During the day all three of us worked on getting the store ready to open and at nite we were going thru the new inventory that arrived daily. We had partied casually with the housemate a number of times prior to the nite the first threesome took place. He and I had previously discussed how much fun we could have if my wife would ...


0 Comments, 944 Views, 34 Votes ,7.91 Score
Going down on a woman   12/13/2003

I am looking for women to play out my fantasy of one-on-one girl sex with. I am mostly interested in oral sex and have gone down on a few women before, but would like some advice for the next time...and there will be a next time So, ladies what do you like best when it comes to being licked?


0 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
finding a swingers club   12/12/2003

anyone know where there's a swinger's club in the orlando florida area??


0 Comments, 69 Views, 141 Votes ,0.37 Score
More important? Atraction or personality.   12/12/2003

I recently asked a couple for pics, they did not want to send them till they talked with me a while. Wanted to know all kinds of advice for first timers. I personally need to know who I am talking to so I can see if there is any interest. I mean lets face it LOOKS are important. Should I waste my time talking to someone and then find out They are not even my type. Sure they sound good, but ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 63 Votes ,6.50 Score
Private Club Initiation Ceremony   12/12/2003

My wife was invited to a private swingers club by a friends of hers from school. She was told it was a private, members only, club and new couples could only join by (a) being invited by the committee and (b) by completing an initiation ceremony at their first meeting. <br> We talked about it, and decided to give it a try. Helen was really looking forward to it, but on the ...


0 Comments, 704 Views, 285 Votes ,8.05 Score
Wife's 1st threesome   12/11/2003

It was St Patties day New Orleans we met a friend of mine down there for the weekend. We started the night off with oysters and cocktails. We moved down to the Quarters were everything started kicking. My wife showed everyone her c/cup tits which are beautiful. She would ride my shoulders for a while then my friends while after a few hurricanes she started pumping the back of my head then ...


0 Comments, 658 Views, 274 Votes ,8.01 Score
Met a friend on here   12/10/2003

I've met a new friend and we hope to get together this friday for some naked conversation if you know what I mean. <br> We have been chatting daily for over a week and descided we should meet. This will be my first naked encounter with a black woman and I can't wait. <br> I will write again after we meet.


0 Comments, 54 Views, 21 Votes ,3.13 Score
rm_luvitwild2 53 F
6  Articles
Re: How 2 find the 1st man 4 her   12/10/2003

Well, let me tell you, you’re in the right area!! SEXFinder.com is one of the great places to get a variety of people open to this idea. Let your ad do the talking on what you two are looking for, browse the possibilities together. Chat with a few, meet a few, eventually you will find the right 1(s) that you both can enjoy. Happy hunting!


0 Comments, 58 Views, 28 Votes ,4.88 Score
friend or stranger first mfm ?   12/10/2003

How should I start? My husband of 20 years have great sex oral, anal and toys. I was shocked when he suggested we should try a threesome.At first I assumed he ment two women but he said NO two men and me.Well to make it short at firstI said I could never do it. Then as I fanitized about it I got so hot I decided to give it a try.We couldn't decide on what would be more comfortable a friend ...


2 Comments, 1310 Views, 127 Votes ,9.37 Score
Don't get serious   12/9/2003

My wife and I have talked about swinging for a long time. We started of with what was most comfortable to both which was a threesomes. We invited a friend to join us my wife really enjoyed having sex with 2 men at the same time. We have experianced this several times and have now decided it was time to explore some more. We look at this lifestyle like going bowling , some people enjoy ...


0 Comments, 366 Views, 28 Votes ,7.45 Score
WELL HE INSISTED!   12/6/2003

Where to start. We have a normal healthy marriage and sex life, house , the usual. Over the years hubby had started to become vocal about his fantasies and for the most part I was happy just to let him tell me as we fucked. Then he seemed to gravitate towards one particular one. This involved me, basically, getting fucked by someone else or elses! He started to buy certain types of dvd's ...


1 Comments, 2181 Views, 304 Votes ,8.65 Score
fun~   12/6/2003

last night, i went to our swing club, alone and without my husband. he sent me! after a bit, i met a nice guy, 39 yrs old. i fucked his brains out, but i have a problem! guys, take care of yourselves. a little cologne in your crotch or a smidgen of deodorant "down there" just may get you a better blow job! when i got home, i wouldnt even let my husband come near me until i took a shower! ...


0 Comments, 215 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
1st Time Better Than Ever Imagined - The 2nd Encounter!!   12/6/2003

As We showered and Dev dressed in a skin tight red dress with thin shoulder straps, very low cut in front, no bra with totally sheer crotchless hose under and 4 inch heels. I had never seen this dress before and could not believe that my innocent little wife would ever wear something like that in public. <br> It was all I could do not to jump my wife from that moment and ...


0 Comments, 1066 Views, 98 Votes ,8.86 Score
DallasEngineer 36 M
1  Article
Why are there no young and hot people in swinging and orgies?   12/5/2003

I always see the swinging or orgie groups that consist of middle aged men and women that have, well, ....put on a little weight, or just aren't that pretty to look at. (I'm sorry, just being brutally honest) But you never see the younger crowd involved in any organized swinging or orgies. Am I just missing the invitations? I hope not.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 92 Votes ,2.12 Score
reluctant at first   12/3/2003

My wife is hot, she can turn heads and she is 47. She has usually not interseted in other men but she knows that I dream about her with others.Let's face it when they look that good chances are they are going to get offers on a regular basis.Once when we where having oral sex she was going off like she had never done before my thoughts got the best of me and I told her that something that ...


0 Comments, 1116 Views, 181 Votes ,6.23 Score
SWINGING IN VEGAS   12/3/2003

My wife and I went to Las Vegas for New Years a couple of years ago. We were both in our early 50's. We have toyed with the idea of swinging but have never really gotten very far with it. This night we went to a well known swing club in Vegas called the Red Rooster. When we got there, we went to a locker room and traded our clothes for towels. There we proceeded upstairs to the couples ...


0 Comments, 451 Views, 51 Votes ,6.59 Score
rm_mibbr1 50 M
6  Articles
six friends + alcohol= one fun time   12/2/2003

Back in my college days, of course I would party with my friends. This is one of those times. Julie, my girlfriend at the time, and I decided to go visit my friend Jeremy. He had an appartment off campus and frequently had parties. On this night however, it was a slow night and we found him and his neighbor Wanda just watching movies. We'd picked up some beer on our way over even though ...


0 Comments, 570 Views, 240 Votes ,8.44 Score
having sex with hung black men   12/2/2003

why is it that some many people are turned off by a sexy women getting screwed by a well hung black guy we have had several peoepl not wnat to meet us just becuase i had been fucked by a cple of black guys any suggestions or reasons ????


1 Comments, 496 Views, 113 Votes ,6.28 Score
"SWINGING FOR 2 YRS" Advice for newbies   12/2/2003

My hubby and I have been swinging for 2 years now.We have made some wounderful friends in the lifestyle.We have been married for 11 yrs.(Still going STRONG)We have our rules we always go by.Here is a example of our rules. <br> 1.We like making Friends in and out of the bedroom.Not into one night stands. 2.We NEVER SWING ALONE!!Always together!!Safety first and for most. ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 135 Votes ,8.26 Score
First Time Better Than Ever Imagined !!   12/2/2003

My wife and I have been together for 9 years. When we met, Devin was very reserved sexually. Our first encounters were very vanilla and left me feeling quite depressed as everything else about her was more than any man could ever ask for in a woman. She is 5’5” / 115 lbs, with blonde hair and blue eyes. She works out daily and there is nothing whatsoever on her body that I ...


0 Comments, 1537 Views, 249 Votes ,9.49 Score
two for one   12/2/2003

I have had the most fantastic dreams about my wife fucking other men. To think about others holding her breast and sliding their members in to her vagina is about as exciting as doing her myself. She flirts constantly even with me their it turns me on so much I get a hard on where ever we are. I have wispered it in her ear will we have sex and she really gets on fire afterwards she is a ...


0 Comments, 482 Views, 77 Votes ,7.13 Score
rm_ucpetit2 59 C
1  Article
She has the Hot`s for him   12/1/2003

She`s a flirt and like`s the attention she get`s from men! I use to get mad and jealous, but she`s a big flirt! Guy`s loved it too, she`s had half of my friend`s hard for her! Then one night at a hot tub party she wanted to borrow a tee shirt from the host. Most people where nude but she wanted a shirt...After ten min.`s i got out too use the restroom and walked by a window on the ...


0 Comments, 471 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
she got hers now I want mine   12/1/2003

We have been having 3 ways with a guy we know for about 15 yrs. Every time I bring up the subject of a girl for me, she says she doesnt know if she wants to do this. I have been pretty accommodating as far as her gettin another piece. How do I make her understand that I would like to have to have a little something extra too? It's just sex. I cant figure out why she doesnt want to have a ...


0 Comments, 130 Views, 10 Votes ,5.38 Score
discreet34d 58 F
0  Articles
After awsesome first time it just got better!   11/29/2003

It was now six month’s since what turned out to be our first ‘awesome’ swing! Heather and I hadn’t spoke much about it, it was just one of those things that happened that we both enjoyed at the time but have not really followed up on. A couple of weeks ago we were invited to go out with a group of parents from our ’s school. We had been invited a couple of times before but ...


0 Comments, 680 Views, 25 Votes ,8.11 Score
My shy wife heats up   11/29/2003

When I first met Elizabeth I was smitten. <br> She was tall, elegant, immaculately dressed, slim, beautiful and smart. But most of all shy. <br> Sexually she was insatiable. We did everything. Our marriage was happy. <br> One day I suggested nude swimming. She said no. I said why not. She agreed to give it a try. <br> Summer was in full swing ...


0 Comments, 535 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
rm_saltillo_tx 48 C
2  Articles
RE: What are the rules?   11/29/2003

Never change your rules in the heat of the moment. Stick to your guns. Later you can talk to your spouse about what you feeling, or what you wanted to try. This way you don't feel comprimised and they won't have to feel that you were making it up as you went along. Who knows, maybe they will be open to some of your ideas.


0 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
bartman999 53 M
1  Article
Strip Poker Fun   11/29/2003

Well, This really happened to my wife and I about 7 years ago. We got to know this other couple (Brent & Linda) (Names changed) really well and we would always hang out together. Every weekend, we would either be at their house or they would be at our house. Well, one night, Linda went into the bathroom to take a shower and when she got done, she waked right out of the bathroom naked and ...


0 Comments, 757 Views, 33 Votes ,7.28 Score
discreet34d 58 F
0  Articles
Our awsesome first time!!!!   11/26/2003

Heather and I had been married now for 10 years with two . Sex together had started off fairly average during our early years of marriage, two or three times a week nothing too different. coming along made things harder at first however after a year or so we started to become more adventurous for various reasons. Heather had become much more interested and sexually experimentative to the ...


0 Comments, 1171 Views, 728 Votes ,9.31 Score
Barebacking   11/26/2003

What is the recent fascination in gay culture with barebacking? One would think that in this day and age young people would be more informed and practice safety. It is ironic that it is the young who are quickly becoming the most dangerous sexually. I decided to take this question to the bar and get the answers right from the horses mouth. Many guys in there teens and early twenties ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
How to...   11/23/2003

What is the best advise you could give for a couple that is new to swinging? How do you know if you are ready? <br> We have talked about this numerous time, but have not yet experience this lifesyle. We think we want to try it, but are having problems getting to reality. Does anyone else go through this, and how did you overcome it? <br> Thanks


0 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_TOM0554 44 C
0  Articles
ONE GREAT MATCH THANKS TO SEXFinder.com   11/22/2003

I am a 34 year old Bi-sexual contractor, I am unbelievablly busy, and my wife has been having "BI-POLAR ISSUES" Crazy one minute lovable and horney the next. I come home at the end of a long day and she is bitchy until bedtime and then summons me to bed, before this happens I usually hit my e-mail and SEXFinder.com to see whats up! I checked my e-mail one night on SEXFinder.com, and had a response from a ...


0 Comments, 361 Views, 10 Votes ,5.77 Score
Swinging.. The other side of the coin. Happy Ending?   11/21/2003

We sit and read all the great articles and stories and get really turned on. Fantasy and reality are far from the same. My wife Nicole, was her high school senior prom queen. She was and still is very hot. After being married 10+ yrs. Things begin to melo out in the hot sex dept. So you begin to fantisize. Watch some porno to get some ideas. Well the thought and watching porno movies about ...


0 Comments, 453 Views, 343 Votes ,6.09 Score
Our first gang bang   11/21/2003

My wife and I had always wanted to try multiple partners at one time, so we planned a get together among some of our friends. We had been swinging for many years, but alway one on one or 3somes. My wife wanted to try fucking as many men as possible all at once and and keep going for as long as she could go. <br> <br> I invited 5 of my friends over one evening and we ...


0 Comments, 810 Views, 705 Votes ,8.65 Score
Will I or Won't I ????   11/21/2003

Here is my dilemma. My husband is very turned on when I mention other men in the bedroom. Should this offend me? While I am "performing" It feels great. Then as soon as the orgasm is over so is the desire to be with anyone but him. He really wants me to try swinging with another person. He is totally straight and doesn’t mind if I choose for this experience to be with a man or woman. ...


6 Comments, 717 Views, 230 Votes ,8.08 Score
Pic up bars in LA   11/20/2003

Where are the best bars in los Angeles for a single male to go and meet couples male/female and possible get picked up buy them.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 81 Votes
rm_kemp4 48 M
3  Articles
How to swing   11/20/2003

I've known swingers and they always have a carefree life involving very little stress. If everyone on the planet swung, I personally believe the world would be a much better place. Wish I was old enough to experience the times of free love in the 60's. But in this day and age people are a bit less open to experiment with people they hardly know. So cmon pelpe, heed my advice and START ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 247 Votes ,6.20 Score
littlekitty53 62 C
6  Articles
meeting for the first time.....   11/19/2003

WHEN I PLACED MY AD ON SEXFinder.com, I WASN'T SURE WHAT WOULD COME OF IT. BUT FINALLY AFTER A LONG TIME I FINALLY TALKED WITH A WOMAN WHO WAS AS SERIOUS ABOUT MEETING AS I WAS. WE TALKED MADE THE ARRANGMENTS ON MEETING AND WHEN WE MET... MAN IT WAS AN INSTANT ATTACTION. WE GOT A ROOM, WE TALKED BUT ONLY FOR A MOMENT AND THEN THE CLOTHES CAME OFF, WE GOT DOWN TO BUSINESS AND MAN LET ME TELL YOU, ...


0 Comments, 152 Views, 256 Votes ,7.53 Score
rm_john2611971 52 M
1  Article
first threesome   11/18/2003

for all you single guys out there, listen up. i recently met this coupe on aol who was interested in sex where the hubby wanted to see his wife with another guy. ended up they were nt too fa from me, so i drove up to see them. when i got there, she was i the shower. i spoke to the hub and he was pretty laid ack. when she came out, she was wearing this black lace thing with no top, and ...


0 Comments, 236 Views, 379 Votes ,6.72 Score
How do you feel about swinging partners swinging with others???   11/16/2003

My husband and I have met a wonderful couple. We love there friendship and we have the same intrest. They are great people. Very down to earth. My problem is I do not feel comfortable with them swinging with other couples. I told them from the begining that we are not in to swinging with other couples. I am not very clear if they are or are not still swinging with a previous couple. I ...


2 Comments, 119 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
what do couples look for most when choosing a single male?   11/16/2003

would like to know what couples look for when they choose a single male for a threesome. whether it is looks, size, experienace or distant, etc


0 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
scott4donna 69 C
4  Articles
My Asian Cuckold Wife   11/15/2003

Asian Cuckold Wife <br> <br> My 26 year old wife, Diana, is a knockout 4’11”, 95 pound, shoulder length black haired Asian princess with large-nippled 34C breasts. We met when she was nineteen and married one year later. Diana’s mother was a Saigon who fled to the United States with her parents after the Vietnam war. Diana’s mom opened an ...


1 Comments, 2140 Views, 54 Votes ,8.44 Score
Our First Time   11/15/2003

This is a true story on my first swinging experience several years ago. Even after all these years it still excites me to think about it and how it changed our lives forever. My wife Deb and I had been married just a couple of years and we thought we had a great sex life. We both had come from conservative backgrounds and had very little experience when we married....and as I look back ...


1 Comments, 1747 Views, 40 Votes ,8.19 Score
How to pull it off without paying   11/15/2003

I personally think this site is a little expensive, consider the types of complaints i'm reading about. My question therefore, is how to take advantage of this site, without paying the ridiculous prices? Any ideas or tips would be well appreciated. I'm horny over here!


0 Comments, 204 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
is it real   11/14/2003

I have been reading swinging articles for a long time and would want to know how to join a swinging party. Please if you have one coming along contact me and you wont be disappointed. Kamotho3378


0 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
A First Encounter With Another Couple That Was.....Well.......WOW !!!!   11/13/2003

My wife and I have been together for 9 years. When we met, Devin was very reserved sexually. Our first encounters were very vanilla and left me feeling quite depressed as everything else about her was more than any man could ever ask for in a woman. She is 5’5” / 115 lbs, with blonde hair and blue eyes. She works out daily and there is nothing whatsoever on her body that I ...


1 Comments, 1307 Views, 43 Votes ,8.15 Score
Spoiled, needing length   11/10/2003

My fiance is not that long, but he is very thick. I have never cheated on him. He is only the 5th man I have been with. I enjoy his width a lot, it does wonders when it swells and rubs me just right, but I miss the deep penetration I have had with former BF's. Would these new treatments really add length as well? I don't need him any thicker. Thanks.... Mary


1 Comments, 242 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
rm_imdynomight 49 C
1  Article
My first taste of cock   11/10/2003

My wife and I weren't really into swinging but had talked about it and what we'd like to do. Recently I got caught out by her and she informed me that I either took what she gave or was out of there. I had too much to lose not to agree! Last Saturday night she informed me that she arranged for someone to come over and I would do as asked or move out. At 8pm this rather well built good ...


0 Comments, 1373 Views, 62 Votes ,7.99 Score
How do you tell if a club is a swinging club....   11/9/2003

I'm interested in finding out how to tell if a club is a swinging club or not. In Louisiana they don't really have designated swinging clubs but I know that there has to be some somewhere. I was wondering, without asking the people in the club, how do you tell if it is swinger friendly. Are there certain signs to look for, certain names used, something. Please help a brotha out here.


0 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
rm_5069103 61 M
3  Articles
Lipstick Lesbians and M2F's   11/9/2003

Hi: I have a question for any feminine lesbians reading this column. Trying hard not to be insulting, but I'm super curious if you have or would ever consider sex with an attractive transgendered male? I don't mean to sound stupid, but as we have a real, penetrating sex organ, could you imagine being screwed by one of us? I LOVE women, either born OR made, and this scenario has always been ...


0 Comments, 149 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Watching my wife do my best friend   11/7/2003

My wife and I have these great friends and one night we decided to get together and have a party. The party consisted of just the four of us. <br> We had never really talked about fucking each others wives so when this happened I never thought that it could be so much fun. We started out just kidding around about sex and then my wife and friend got to touching each other and ...


1 Comments, 1303 Views, 597 Votes ,8.29 Score
rm_rendezvous52 72 C
1  Article
Sea does it   11/6/2003

I am now fifty-two and like most men of that age find that I am by no means as sexually active as I was when I was younger. My problem is, my wife, who is fourteen years younger than myself and likes sex at very much more frequent intervals. <br> A year ago we decided to take a long break for a weekend in Goa. As with most people visiting that town we went to the beach and ...


1 Comments, 719 Views, 224 Votes ,8.53 Score
rm_Datacpl 53 C
13  Articles
she lost the bet   11/5/2003

she was not happy about this one. My wife and I like to swing and show of in public. We where talking about some song on the radio and we made a little bit on who sang it first. The bit who ever lost would do whatever the other person commanded. Needless to say I won. It took me a few days to think about what I wanted her to do and I told her it would be a surprise. She a good looking woman ...


2 Comments, 1120 Views, 332 Votes ,6.90 Score
rm_sexyduoukr 64 C
2  Articles
Nudist Swingers   11/5/2003

It was a very hot day in Ohio so my wife (I'll call her Sue)went to the local nudist club as times before. Little did we know how THIS day would end. As we arrived we saw a good crowd, around 150+people. The lawn was filled with couples laying and sweating in the hot summer sun. My wife being rather attractive always turns heads...in many ways. She was always friendly and playful with all ...


0 Comments, 804 Views, 324 Votes ,9.02 Score
catgirl81 42 F
4  Articles
How I met my girlfriend   11/4/2003

Hello, my name is Rob and this is the story of how i met my girl a year ago I was at a night club with 3 of my friends having a few beers when in walk in the two hottest girls we've ever seen. One was dressed in a very short tight skirt and little tight bikini top straining against her 36D tits. She had long straight black hair, the most gorgeous set of blue eyes, and was 5ft 6. The other ...


2 Comments, 679 Views, 231 Votes ,9.06 Score
My lover may be gay   11/3/2003

I have been in this relationship for 14 year's now. Suddenly we have a couple of gay guy's move in next door. I have known about my lover wanting to pull a gang bang on me for month's now. I don't mind the fact of having other dick's or him haveing other pussy, but I don't think I could handle the fact of another man touching what belong's to me. I'm not the jealous type and I do believe ...


1 Comments, 411 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
angel_face_77 47 F
1  Article
Threesomes fror married couples!!   11/3/2003

I am a married B-sexual woman. My husband and I have had threesome in the past and they have been great. I have one rule for threesomes which is My husband cannot penetrate the other woman. He can lick, suck, taste, feel and receive all things in return. he just can't enter the other woman. He doesn't have any problems with this rule. He is jsut thrilled to be involved. Other people ...


1 Comments, 234 Views, 11 Votes
Swinging   11/2/2003

I have been coming to SEXFinder.com for many month now to find that special something. Mainly a women or couple that can show me the ropes! I have had sex many times in the distant past but due to working hard and taking a step back in reflection it has been a while. I found that trying to find a women on SEXFinder.com has been difficult. Most likely it is due to my shy and often nice boys’ demeanor. I ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 200 Votes ,1.74 Score
FIRST EXPERIENCE WITH A COUPLE   11/2/2003

My first experience in swinging is with a couple but it's only the woman who join us. the man was just watching us. at first my husband thought i couldn't handle it but he was suprised of my performance since as if i had experience already. he even said that my performance was better than that of the other bi woman. and i feel GREAT!!!!


1 Comments, 570 Views, 354 Votes ,4.37 Score
bigjohn514 42 C
1  Article
Our first time!   10/31/2003

Our First Swing Together <br> Hubby and I waited patiently for responses to our profile. We checked the site daily, sometimes two or three times a day! We were so eager to meet our first couple! Then it happened…a response…actually quite a few after our pictures went up! We eagerly responded back and begin chatting with one of the couples, getting to know what ...


0 Comments, 682 Views, 11 Votes ,6.72 Score
xbunnyt 75 C
1  Article
Her birthday   10/30/2003

First of all I must tell you my wife is an x playboy bunny and still could be in the mag. today even if shes over 40 now. We meet in a bar where she was the head bartender. She has the nicest ass I have ever seen and tits that are out of sight. We first started seeing each other after she got off at the bar each day. And the sex was always wounderful, and we later got married and set up ...


1 Comments, 915 Views, 26 Votes ,7.12 Score
Jantho 58 M
1  Article
This is going too slow!   10/29/2003

I won't boar you with the long story even though this is the place for it. I've had one experience in a threesome with another couple and loved it! I want more, but they are busy and don't do this all that often. So, I'm sending out a "flyer" to all swingers out there who are interested in a Clean, respectful and courteous male to join them for fun and frolic!! MFM or FMF and more than ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 160 Votes
rm_igodwn4u 71 C
4  Articles
First time   10/29/2003

We met Robert through Alt.com. At first, we were a little wary of meeting because we weren’t very sure about him. We communicated for some while through the e-mail system and finally decided to meet. We set up a date to meet him at the hotel bar and he had gotten a room there at the In Inn for the night. <br> While we were in the bar drinking and talking he was really ...


0 Comments, 312 Views, 189 Votes ,3.09 Score
rm_DJCPL25 69 C
1  Article
Bi or Bi Curious   10/29/2003

It seems after our 15 years in this wonderful lifestyle we could understand the meaning of bisexual females in ads. When responding to swinger’s ads when we see bi under the female part of a couple, we indicate our desire to meet that couple socially as us being a straight couple. We 99% of the time get a reply saying, no thanks wife here is bi. Being a straight couple in this ...


0 Comments, 168 Views, 257 Votes ,7.39 Score
rm_cajun_n_okie 63 C
1  Article
SHE REALLY DOESN'T WANT TO SHARE   10/29/2003

The first couple we met seemed really nice. We had a lot in common. My husband and I thought things were going really well. It was our first so we didn't really now what to expect. But after a few meetings it was really not going anywhere. Come to find out the wife of the couple was complaining to me about another encounter they had. Apparently the women in the other couple just wanted to ...


0 Comments, 334 Views, 286 Votes ,8.35 Score
dome52 62 C
1  Article
How We Started   10/27/2003

I hope this doesn't get too long for you, but let me give you some history of us. Even before we got married I knew I could never fully satisfy her sexually. I could eat her to satisfaction, but as soon as I tried to fuck her I cum within 2 or 3 strokes. Sometimes even before getting it in her. We had been living together for about three months when one night while I was at work she ...


1 Comments, 472 Views, 478 Votes ,7.87 Score
kelly730 59 F
1  Article
lookin....   10/27/2003

how come it is when u set up a date with a couple on SEXFinder.com..something always happens ...ive been on here 4 years and ive meet a few guys but ladies if you say lets meet dont stand us up .thanks


1 Comments, 157 Views, 79 Votes ,7.11 Score
Curious   10/26/2003

I am a bi-female and looking to have a 3 some with a couple. MMF, FFF, FFM, just want the feel of more than one person. I have had an offer but when they send me e-mails it is always from the husband. I then ask to speak with the wife and she is at work or had asked him to e-mail. I am starting to think that the wife has no idea, or he is inot something alittle more deep. Can someone give ...


0 Comments, 107 Views, 134 Votes ,7.21 Score
rm_Oh_Yes_ 48 F
2  Articles
RE: In search of the best dp experience   10/26/2003

If you are looking for an excellent first dp experience, I would not leave it to chance by meeting the two guys from the site. I have found that when I meet guys at a swing party, they tend to have experience in playing more ways than most. Even if they haven’t tried dp yet, you may find them willing and able to go for it. Better yet, you may find someone experienced and that can ...


1 Comments, 571 Views, 124 Votes ,6.95 Score
rm_sickstring 50 M
1  Article
She told her husband to leave   10/25/2003

We met here on SEXFinder.com in the chatroom as a matter of fact. She saw my picture and read my profile and sent me a message saying she liked what she saw. So we met one night at her and her husbands favorite bar. The meeting went great and although I could not follow her home that night we did have a hot make out session in the bar parking lot before we went our separate ways. When we ...


1 Comments, 690 Views, 436 Votes ,8.85 Score
rm_dj9067 68 M
1  Article
no replys from most   10/22/2003

THIS IS ALL, PEOPLE PUT IN ADDS AND WANT OTHER PEOPLE TO REPLY TO THERE'S. WELL SHOULDN'T YOU REPLY WHEN YOU GET EMAILS, ITS JUST BEING CONSIDERATE, IF I GET ONE AND I'M NOT INTERESTED OR THEY LIVE TO FAR AWAY I'LL TAKE THAT MINUTE AND LET THEM KNOW. FOR THE ONES THAT DON'T ANSWER THEM I LOOK AT IT AS THERE PROBABLE WERN'T WORTH IT, AND MORE THAN LIKELY ARE JUST GAME PLAYERS, THANKS.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 86 Votes ,8.98 Score
Don't ruin your marraige   10/22/2003

If you and your spouse have talked swinging over and both agree on it still be very carefull, after your first experience you will never look at each other the same way again. It could be better, it could be worse, it is different for everybody!


0 Comments, 198 Views, 92 Votes ,8.78 Score
Will she OR will she not?????????????????   10/22/2003

My wife and I have been married for nearly 20 yrs. and we enjoy very hot and sometimes kinky sex.We have made several home videos, 100's of pics and have played online using our webcam.We love showing and watching others and have been to several couples parties but have yet to hookup.We have talked about meeting other females and couples but wife still shows a little hesitation about ...


0 Comments, 122 Views, 26 Votes ,5.72 Score
RE; Wife not invited what gives (from a man)   10/22/2003

He may be afraid if you have another you will leave. But I believe it should be fair if both couples are interested. Me and my wife for the time being is more MMF, but I get more aroused by watching a woman get pleased. My wife does NOT want to share me, and all though I am interested it isn't as much of a turn on to me. I am not by but as stated nothing is more sexy to me than a woman ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
rm_sexlvrcouple 70 C
5  Articles
RE: wife's not invited - what gives??   10/21/2003

Your husband is only looking out for himself. A man who loves a woman would want her to be there to share the experience with. He just wants some strange and selfishly wants you to be true to him. He also should be thrilled to see and allow you to get thouroghly fulfilled and to experience the excitement he is. Get it straight or forbid him from doing it. What's good for the goose is ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 50 Votes ,7.65 Score
rm_laughalot53 69 F
3  Articles
Rules,Rules Rules ??   10/19/2003

After 9 years of great fun swinging we have found there can be no rules except those imposed on ourselves. Things happen when you party drunk and/or naked..period! We started with all sorts of rules but when you take the spontaneity out of sex it sort of loses its appeal. I myself really enjoy threesomes, especially MMF but truly love to be alone with a man, the chatting, the long ...


0 Comments, 360 Views, 77 Votes ,6.58 Score
rm_saltillo_tx 48 C
2  Articles
Does rule breaking happen only to newbies?   10/19/2003

We were new to the lifestyle and were looking for another couple to play with. One night at a Party Gals toy party, our best friends mentioned that they were curious about same room sex. We mentioned that we had tried it before and it was enjoyable. Later that night we had returned to their house for a late night swim. After a few seconds of denial, the ladies agreed to skinny dipping. ...


0 Comments, 295 Views, 107 Votes ,6.66 Score
rm_mr_sandfly 57 M
1  Article
Couple looking for first time with another couple.   10/18/2003

How can we find another couple to satisfy our need? We can travel anywhere in the country for the right couple. May email first, then pictures then meet. SEXFinder.com


0 Comments, 44 Views, 90 Votes ,3.39 Score
No one ever responds   10/18/2003

Well I love looking at the sight, and really enjoy being a memeber, but we have an ad for Married couple looking for a 3some. I have played with the idea of going ahead and opening our options up to other couples for swapping. Our ad for couple seeking woman is just not producing any replys. I have to admit, it is way harder for a larger set woman to convince others that we are sexual ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 104 Votes ,8.05 Score
XXXTHEATER   10/18/2003

I was chatting with a very sexy local gal last night in a chat room and things were beginning to heat up. Then she said to hold on a minute and she would be right back. In a couple of minutes her hubby came on line and ask what I was planning for that night. As it was only about 9pm I told him nothing really. My wife had been out of town for over a week and had nothing planned. He ask if I ...


0 Comments, 672 Views, 232 Votes ,9.09 Score
Our first swinging party   10/17/2003

We had talked about swinging. We had been to nude beaches. We were ready to go the next step. My wife Elizabeth was a tall willowy woman. She had a rock hard body. She has wide hips, long legs and a body to die for. Her nipples are so sensitive and long, they beg to be sucked. But she like many educated women dresses down. She likes her hair tied up. Her clothes are fashionable but not ...


0 Comments, 536 Views, 201 Votes ,6.55 Score
Wife Not Invited, What gives???   10/17/2003

I have been swinging with my husband for 4 years. We usually end up with threesomes, bi males only that he enjoys. No problem there. The problem is that he has couples over when I am at work and I am never invited, don't understand. I am open to women but have not had the chance of that particular experience. I have had guys on the internet write to me about getting together and he ...


9 Comments, 3168 Views, 184 Votes ,8.21 Score
rm_rob4u2ca 52 M
5  Articles
RE: wife not invited,what gives   10/17/2003

I am a man and YOU SHOULD be invited, He sounds very self centered, tell him to shape up or ship out, You are your own person and if he can screw around without you , then it works both ways go get a woman!!!


0 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,5.99 Score
cplinaz4funtime 55 C
1  Article
RE: Wife Not Invited, What Gives?   10/17/2003

It's very simple...you are married to a selfish, greedy person. IF he loved you, he would care about your pleasure as much as his own, but he doesn't. You are not his love, but his possession.....to be used as and when he sees fit....and in a relationship (much less a swinging relationship), this is VERY unhealthy. I won't give you advise, but remember this...there are REAL men out ...


1 Comments, 187 Views, 12 Votes ,5.45 Score
FULL ON ORGY PART 1   10/16/2003

I am a 33 yo male living in NYC. For a while I had been hearing about underground swing parties where anything goes and have always wanted to try one out for myself. The opportunity came last weekend when a posting was sent to my online mailbox by a friend who knew of my interest. <br> The party started at 10:00pm and lasted the rest of the night. I had a few cocktails and ...


1 Comments, 221 Views, 132 Votes ,3.66 Score
blondarebest 51 C
3  Articles
to the person or people who thought it ok to reply to my article & call me a bonehead.   10/15/2003

for your imformation i am not a bone head. said club has different nights for verious things. one of these been couples and another night for singles.also seeing as i new to swinging it seemed to me strange that 2 single people could enter a couples night as a couple, this club also has a mixed night for singles & couples.so with this in mind why dont they go on that night aye.


1 Comments, 46 Views, 23 Votes ,0.91 Score
rm_blprg 60 C
6  Articles
In regards to couple   10/14/2003

What does it matter if it is a husband and wife a couple means 2 people together no matter what relation, race, sex or gender. Couple means couple bone head!!!!!!!!!!!!


0 Comments, 170 Views, 36 Votes ,2.98 Score
i want sex with a couple   10/13/2003

In college I lived with a couple and we had great sex. me and her, him and me and all 3 of us at one time. I am 41 and want this again, can anyone help?


1 Comments, 75 Views, 27 Votes ,6.08 Score
blondarebest 51 C
3  Articles
HAS THE WORD COUPLE CHANGED ITS MEANING.   10/13/2003

IM A BIT CONFUSED, HAVING ONLY REASONTLY JOINED IN THE FUN OF SWINGING IT HAS BECOME QUIET APPARENT TO ME THAT THE WORD COUPLE HAS CHANGED ITS MEANING. I ALWAYS THOURGHT THIS MEANT TWO PEOPLE WHO ARE IN A RELATIONSHIP, HAVING GONE TO A FEW SWINGING CLUBS THE WORD COUPLE SEEMS TO BE , LEAVING PARTNER AT HOME AND BRINGING ALONG SOMEONE, EITHER A FRIEND, ESCORT, OR EVEN YOUR NEIGHBOUR FOR THAT ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 27 Votes ,3.35 Score
lets do it   10/9/2003

hey I am 41 and I can remeber when the only time you wore a rubber was to keep someone from getting pregnant. So lets clean up our act and fuckk.


0 Comments, 73 Views, 165 Votes
young wife treats me...and another   10/8/2003

My wife is much younger than me but has only ever had sex with me and so the fantasy of ever having a threesome was just that, a fantasy. Until the night my wife saw a guy on SEXFinder.com that made her get truly keen. his name was Greg and he was 32, i'm 40 and my wife is 21. She was so keen that she contacted him the next day and arranged the whole thing herself. The night it happened was ...


1 Comments, 909 Views, 243 Votes ,8.53 Score
The Best Way To Swing   10/7/2003

Swinging is not really a bad thing but if you are going to swing make sure that the party is not to big and that each person takes a bath after doing someone else if they are trying to do you. It is also nice if everyone brings a paper stating that they are disease free so everyone can be more at ease. Have a bowl full of condoms and make sure that your partner for that time has one on.


0 Comments, 58 Views, 95 Votes ,7.31 Score
DEALING WITH JEALOUSY   10/6/2003

An interesting situation that sometimes arises in couples new to swinging, a situation that I describe as follows - "the more enthusiastic member of a couple will get the couple into swinging, but the less enthusiastic partner will probably keep them there." Some in the swinging scene have noticed that one partner, more often than not the man, has more enthusiasm than his partner. He has ...


0 Comments, 116 Views, 71 Votes ,7.80 Score
Swingers Etiquette   10/5/2003

Swinging Etiquette - As in any social activity, there are expected rules of conduct in swinging. Following the rules are an effective way to make yourself welcome within the swinging community. <br> **The Golden Rule** The Golden Rule in swinging is the right of anyone to say "No". Improper handling of a situation, however, can lead to a lot of hurt or bad feelings. The swing ...


0 Comments, 108 Views, 392 Votes ,9.07 Score
rm_igodwn4u 71 C
4  Articles
How we got started.   10/3/2003

I hope this doesn't get too long for you, but let me give you some history of us. Even before we got married I knew I could never fully satisfy her sexually. I could eat her to satisfaction, but as soon as I tried to fuck her I cum within 2 or 3 strokes. Sometimes even before getting it in her. We had been living together for about three months when one night while I was at work she ...


0 Comments, 393 Views, 239 Votes ,8.39 Score
innocent wife takes two   10/2/2003

im 40 and my wife is 21 and ive always waned a 3some but she hasnt. however, what i didnt know was she had had one while i was away on a training course...and she'd videoed it for me! It featured her and two young guys, about 25, both of whom were fit as hell and boy was she getting it. she was on her knees slurping on both their cocks, slipping the foreskins back and forth with her ...


0 Comments, 1077 Views, 491 Votes ,6.75 Score
meet4funtimes 55 F
1  Article
My first bachelor party   9/29/2003

I was asked by a friend i met here on SEXFinder.com if I would be interested in having some fun at a bachelor party he was having for his brother in law. I was a little reserved but I decided to give it a try. BEsides, pleasuring dick is my specialty. I got to this party and saw only 2 other ladies and about 11 men. Oh this was going to be a good night. Drinks were everywhere and men all over the ...


0 Comments, 1009 Views, 123 Votes ,7.84 Score
rm_CtlAltDel 64 M
2  Articles
Playing in a threesome   9/25/2003

Many people feel that the most incredible experience is to be the "odd person out" in a threesome, and have two members of the opposite sex working towards your pleasure. This often involves a couple seeking the third, presumably someone they trust and can share themselves with. If you are the one being asked to be a third, a few basic rules: <br> Safe sex, safe sex, safe sex. ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
prudish wife goes wild with another cock   9/20/2003

Elizabeth appealed to me the moment she walked in the room. She was tall, elegant, very sleek and extremly beautiful. It was winter in Australia and I was just returned from working in Southern California so was tanned and bleached from surfing. We hit it off and were married within 6 months. Many of my friends wondered why I married such a prudish woman, not the outdoors type at all. She ...


0 Comments, 433 Views, 462 Votes ,2.32 Score
Paka4u 63 M
1  Article
Single Guys control yourselves, your giving us a bad name.   9/15/2003

Guys, (I was respectful and had a great time and had a very fulfilling night.) <br> I recently made my first trip to a swingers club. When I came in I was greeted and told the rules by the hostess (Be polite and respectful of others etc). I was shocked by the crude and rude behavior by the single guys in the club, I understand that some women and couples like this but set the ...


0 Comments, 92 Views, 255 Votes ,4.88 Score
scott4donna 69 C
4  Articles
Luanne's Sex Education   9/11/2003

Luanne’s Surprise <br> My wife, Luanne, is a 47 year old stunning brunette, five-foot two, 115 pound, with a killer tanned body and great breasts. She has kept her body toned with exercise and jogging and looks more like a 37 year old. Her nails are painted red and she her toes are pedicured and soft. Her breasts are round and firm, as if she were still single instead ...


0 Comments, 590 Views, 390 Votes ,7.22 Score
a beach in mexico   9/9/2003

My wife and I love to go to Mexico. The warm clear water and beaches and cool drinks. We were lying on the beach and after a day of drinking Tequila and playing volleyball and seeing all of the other sexy ladies wearing almost nothing had me feeling pretty horny. I suggested to my wife that we get a refill of cervesa and stroll down the beach. There are no other hotels down the beach and it ...


0 Comments, 491 Views, 327 Votes ,7.70 Score
sexyNMcouple4u 51 C
2  Articles
WOW...what a night in New Orleans!   9/6/2003

We had a trip planned to New Orleans for a while. I must admit I was not overly excited as it was a family trip with my wife's family. We would be sharing a room with her sister and I didn't think anything too crazy would happen. Was I ever wrong! Of course we went out on Bourbon Street and checked out the night life. We had some drinks and did some dancing. My wife is very sexy and ...


0 Comments, 4254 Views, 427 Votes ,8.00 Score
four at play   9/5/2003

Ive been going out with my girlfriend now for about a year, she is the true english rose with huge tits and a great body. she has an ex-partner and an ex-boyfriend that usualy call in to say hello. One day about a month ago the three of us were there have a coffee and chatting while Brenda was in the shower. When she came out in the white bathrobe it came open and her size 36dd tits fell ...


0 Comments, 173 Views, 161 Votes ,4.57 Score
My Girlfriend's first gang bang   9/3/2003

Carrie and I have been dating for 4 years. She's 21 and I'm 29 and she's always been wild. We had sex on our first date and I've been hooked on her ever since. She's tall with amazing 36D tits and a great body and she was the first woman to ever let me fuck her up the ass. Now being the wild thing she is during our first year of dating she cheated on me 4 times, but since I've had a little ...


0 Comments, 657 Views, 844 Votes ,7.45 Score
The prize for winning   8/29/2003

My wife, Judy, and I were in Fort Lauderdale staying at the Pier 66 Hotel last month. We had a great time at the Haulover Beach, which is clothing optional and a half hour drive south of there. I went naked for the first time and got her to at least remove her top and walk around. She is beautiful-one of these lucky 44 yr. old women who gets better looking every year. I have talked up a lot ...


0 Comments, 984 Views, 169 Votes ,8.01 Score
What to do ?????   8/21/2003

I have a problem I have given my man a few 3somes all with woman.Now I feel like he has lost interest in me and I don't know what to do and if and when I mention anything about this he gets very defencive and angry with me and he ignores me for a few days and just to make any peace between us and for him to pay any attention all I have to do is mention that I will try to find a woman to CUM ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 94 Votes ,1.40 Score
rm_Hot_f_4u3 64 C
3  Articles
Yokohama The Awakening of Angel Part 1   8/20/2003

Yokohama Awakening Of Angel Part 1 <br> <br> The story you are about to read is true. I met Angel on the Internet at SEXFinder.com. The first part of our story is our e-mails to each other that began hot and finished hotter. The reality was even better as you will discover in Parts2-5. This has been co-written by Angel and myself. <br> E-Mail Fantasy <br> ...


0 Comments, 1021 Views, 121 Votes ,8.44 Score
rm_Hot_f_4u3 64 C
3  Articles
Yokohama Awakening of Angel Part 4   8/20/2003

Yokohama Awakening Of Angel Part 4 <br> The story you are about to read is true. I met Angel on the at SEXFinder.com. The first part of our story begins with our e-mails to each other that began hot and finished hotter. Part 2 was our Friday night adventure together. Part 3 was Saturday with our first threesome. Part 4 is Sunday’s hot fun with 3 black US service men. This has ...


0 Comments, 636 Views, 87 Votes ,9.35 Score
rm_Hot_f_4u3 64 C
3  Articles
Yokohama Awakening of Angel Part 2   8/20/2003

Yokohama Awakening Of Angel Part 2 <br> The story you are about to read is true. I met Angel on the Internet at SEXFinder.com. The first part of our story begins with our e-mails to each other that began hot and finished hotter. This is our Friday night adventure. The reality was even better as you will soon discover. This has been co-written by Angel and myself. <br> ...


1 Comments, 1262 Views, 86 Votes ,8.86 Score