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Large Marge was hungry for me...and I was scared 6/19/2021
When I was 22 I met a woman on yahoo. She went by the name Nona.
Now Nona claimed to be 35, single, living alone, etc. Her
profile had said that "Nona loves roses". We
talked for a bit, mainly me talking dirty and her humoring
me. She was even kind enough to send me almost a dozen pictures
of herself in various positions, some with clothes, some
without. I was convinced that Nona was my ...
15 Comments, 761 Views,
54 Votes
,7.81 Score
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I agree with something SensuousShades said..... 5/1/2015
If I am approached in a polite respectful manner....I will
likely respond in the same way. You get what you give.
If you repeatedly email me "hey lets fuck",
"me in ur pussy" Or "come suck my cock"...
You will get nothing from me. Honestly, I don't "owe"
anyone anything if I don't even know them. That's
part of the territory in this community. If you don't
get a response......don't be ...
6 Comments, 62 Views,
19 Votes
,7.21 Score
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SAY NO THANKS AND RUN WHEN... 10/15/2016
Hi my fellow SEXFinder.com brother and sisters,
I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but
to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are
on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying
to have fun and meet great people.
We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives.
Be sure to keep ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
19 Votes
,7.08 Score
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Hypocrits or sore losers? 6/22/2021
I consider myself to be semi attractive and pretty damn
nice. So much to my dismay when my hubby and I have said "no
thanks" to some people (and not just on this site)
people have gotten nasty and said some hateful things.
One single male actually went so far as to call me a , another
one said my husband must be controlling me, and another
couple, after us telling them kindly they just weren't ...
5 Comments, 175 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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i wanted to but? 7/22/2016
after letting the very have me one of them rang
my phone at 9 pm a few nights later and ask to come to my home,
I was unsure as to tell him where I lived but as I was feeling
randy I gave him my address, I raced to shower before he arrived
as I wanted to be nice and fresh for what I hoped would come,
when the bell rang I couldn't wait to open the door even
though I was naked as I pulled it open ...
8 Comments, 596 Views,
41 Votes
,6.69 Score
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It's best to say no instead of creating 2/7/2018
I use this site frm almost eight years and found here a lot
of fake ID's. And many mention they are here for real
fun but when any one contact them they said they are here
for fun but they were passing their tym.with chat only.
So I think it's better to say no instead of making other
fool.
1 Comments, 36 Views,
24 Votes
,6.65 Score
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Some women can't take NO for an answer either... 6/12/2021
Ok, I want to tell you a little story. Its about a girl named
Sarah I met on this site. Her profile has since been deleted
so don't bother looking her up.
<br>
Anyway, a while back she sent me a message and we began to
e-mail back and forth. She seemed cool, had some interesting
view points, but was a bit scattered. Since I am not looking
for hook ups I regarded the entire ...
4 Comments, 355 Views,
16 Votes
,6.51 Score
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JUST SAY "NO". 10/8/2015
Some people are just so sweet hearted that even on a sex site
they have difficulty saying NO to someone who is trying
to get them into bed. No one enjoys being rejected but...for
something as serious as giving my body to someone for their
pleasure and me indulging in theirs I feel a need to be extremely
picky. Maybe if you don't get many invites and you are
desperate to get laid your expectations ...
16 Comments, 155 Views,
31 Votes
,6.50 Score
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whoa can we meet you before your genitals 9/6/2015
Why ...just why lol do people think it is attractive to send
genital pics in their 1st ever message to you like hi this
is my stuff do you like....um I don't even know anything
about you yet...immediate turn off
5 Comments, 45 Views,
11 Votes
,6.35 Score
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Male Head vs. Female Head 8/28/2015
This is a repost of an blog I did in 2012
I am just flabbergasted about a NSA that I had with a dude
here on SEXFinder.com. 1st of all he did not read my post. 2nd he was selfish and lazy. 3rd he wanted me to give him head but not return the favor.
4th he had the ordasity to get upset about it. 5th he still wanted to have sex after I left.
This is a 38 year old man (now he's ...
4 Comments, 82 Views,
17 Votes
,6.24 Score
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swapping partner for a ! 6/17/2021
We recently had chat with 1 gut who was up to arrange a swap.
However, as the conversation panned out, it turned out
the person he was gonna bring was in fact gonna be a .
How could he expect us to agree to this exchange? His emotional
connection with this female was totally non-existant,
wheras me ands my partner have been together over 10 years.
Sometimes, the politeness of the answer should be ...
4 Comments, 161 Views,
12 Votes
,6.16 Score
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Say No Gracefully 6/21/2015
If something is not working out, just let the other person
know as soon as possible. When you tell them, be as gracious as possible. Thank then for what they have done for you in the past and/or
pay them a compliment. Then, gently let them know that things
are not working out, why they are not working out, and then
tell them that things must end. When you tell them the reasons,
try not to blame ...
5 Comments, 41 Views,
12 Votes
,5.98 Score
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Points 8/18/2019
I think the point system needs fixing. If you're wanting
to chat with someone and they just left the line or don't
reply you're screwed out of points
7 Comments, 66 Views,
24 Votes
,5.86 Score
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To thank or not to thank 11/6/2014
I use to love going on the IM but I rarely do now because all
it turns into is a steady stream of vulgar come ons from every
jerk ever put on this site. I not only don't say no thanks
I ignore them altogether and let them wonder if their IM
is working.
6 Comments, 63 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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ignorance 8/23/2017
she ignored me :\
1 Comments, 19 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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A female perspective on saying "No thanks." 6/16/2018
There are so many articles on here about "just tell
us you're not interested" and how "ignoring
someone is rude." <br><br>
As a woman on here, I get a lot of messages and IMs. In fact,
I always try to turn off IMs when I first log on because I just
don't have the time or ability to reply to every, single
message I get. It's not meant to be rude... If I ...
8 Comments, 185 Views,
29 Votes
,5.65 Score
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How many times to say no? 9/25/2015
We have several members who continuously message their
interest in us. We do try to answer when someone takes the
time of message us but just how many times must one do that?
Is there a way to block a member when they become a nuisance?
4 Comments, 32 Views,
7 Votes
,5.59 Score
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Taking "no" for an answer: A How-To Guide 7/15/2015
There are many, many people who breach our inboxes everyday,
sending all sorts of stuff.
First of all, I'll respond to a message with just "hi",
before responding to someone saying what they want to do
to me. It's called respect. If I turn you down-take
it the first time. Don't try to keep getting me to say
yes. I've made my mind up. It's not going to get
changed. So please, when I deny ...
1 Comments, 54 Views,
16 Votes
,5.48 Score
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Is being crazy contagious? - There is always a price you must pay! 11/16/2016
While riding the train downtown last evening (yes
we now have light rail trains in and around Los Angeles)
to the Lakers / Brooklyn Nets game(at Staples Center) my
phone blew up (figuratively not literally) with texts
from not one but two former booty calls. What was strange
is both of the booty calls have from time to time tried to
reconnect with me a time or two in the past. I have ...
4 Comments, 144 Views,
27 Votes
,5.45 Score
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Being polite doesn't always work 6/14/2020
We try to keep our "thanks but no thanks" message
polite and straight forward. But there are some people
who persist, thinking if they change the language or tone
of an I.M or message from previously sent one's that
will suddenly make us change our mind. It's annoying
and irritating! We're not rude people in general and
don't wanna be, but when pushed you get the ...
3 Comments, 30 Views,
3 Votes
,5.39 Score
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You have to say what you mean.... 2/1/2016
There are some people who think that "no" is
the hardest word to say in the world. I am not one of them.
Some people believe if you say "no" you will
lose friends, or be unpopular. Better to be friendless
and unpopular, than to say yes to something that will put
you in a poor position.
So, "no thanks" is often necessary. And it's
actually better than radio silence. There are many who ...
3 Comments, 27 Views,
10 Votes
,5.38 Score
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why bother 11/11/2014
I read a few comments about women politely declining men's
advances here on SEXFinder.com. After seeing some responses posted
on Facebook and other sites, I'm not surprised women
say nothing when approached - I've seen a LOT of nasty
responses guys have made to a simple, "no".
Things like, "fuck you, you fat cunt"; "you're
ugly anyway"; "I'm too good for you anyway";
"why the fuck are you on here ...
12 Comments, 126 Views,
14 Votes
,5.38 Score
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Try to be nice to everyone. 7/24/2018
We get a lot of messages from others that we are not interested
in. I always try and tell them that we are not interested
but appreciate them taking the time to us. Our response
is thanks for the message but we are not interested in you
but wish you luck in your search. We have had some that say
thanks you to. Then we have had some that get very offended
and say mean things. I sorry but we are ...
4 Comments, 65 Views,
16 Votes
,5.33 Score
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No way 11/9/2014
We love the feature that lets us add a message on the IM before
we block them.
5 Comments, 58 Views,
11 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Sometimes its hard 1/17/2020
No its not, just say im not into it
1 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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How to say "no" 9/3/2015
My wife and I have been in this situation a few times and it
is always difficult. We were in a group situation, invited
to a party where there were several couples we knew and there
was one guy out of the bunch that my wife found very unattractive.
Later on in the evening there was group play going on and
we didn't end up playing at all because she was uncomfortable
with having to say no to ...
2 Comments, 60 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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Women don't have a patent on preference 6/1/2015
There's no doubt that the man to woman ratio on this
site is 500/20. That means a man has a 4% chance of actually
getting as much attention as a woman on here. This doesn't
include couple status. The women seem to be the smart ones
on here. The ones worth talking to are selective, as a man
should be. Some people just don't get it though. All
I can do is shake my head when I hear a woman talk ...
7 Comments, 70 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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Why do most people ignore you rather than say no thanks? 2/6/2018
I'm not sure why there is such a hesitation to respond
to a 'hello' on chat, but it seems that most people
ignore you rather than say no thanks. Why is that? I try to
respond to every person, regardless of sex or attraction
just out of courtesy. I think it would make for better experience
on this site if we did. <br><br>
Thougts? Am I wrong?
5 Comments, 48 Views,
17 Votes
,5.11 Score
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Have you? 3/1/2017
Have you ever showed up for a "meet and greet"
that was suppose to lead to sex, but the person on the other
end was not who/what they appeared to be online?
This happened to me and I could not figure out a way to say
"no thanks, this isn't going any further than
coffee" without making it very awkward....
Any advice?
3 Comments, 57 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Mean People Suck 3/1/2015
I've been here for while. I've been successful.
I had a lot of fun, and I've met some very special ladies.
I think about each one as a bottle of wine, the bottle that
I shared with them: Chardonnay, Riesling, a particularly
good vintage of South African Wine, and yes even a Merlot.
I've also met some real jerks, at least on line.
I have sent at least 200 emails to which I received no ...
2 Comments, 59 Views,
5 Votes
,5.10 Score
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"No thanks" from a sub. 7/15/2021
Being a sub there are people that think that means they can
just start messaging with demands like " fuck your
ass with a wine bottle now show me pics now!!"
and then when I respectfully say no thanks, they try to back
track or worse double down the demands. Problem with back
tracking is that they've already shown that they don't
respect the relationship and will abuse it. ...
5 Comments, 40 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Testimonials 11/7/2014
Do you sometimes say no thanks to someone that has given
you a testimonial?
6 Comments, 49 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are they worth it? 11/1/2016
SexCapades ..Sex Tourism .... Sex vacations..are
they worth it? A few days ago, at the Lakers home game / season opener, I
ran in to a good friend and an acquaintance I've know
since high school. It was nice to see them and talk to them
at the game and catch up since we don't talk on a regular
basis, except at a gathering, social event or party once
or twice every year. They were both in ...
3 Comments, 92 Views,
6 Votes
,5.07 Score
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being Gentle 3/23/2016
my own policy when it comes to turning someone down on an
adult site is simply to say, no thank you, thank you for understanding.
There is no advantage at a point of rejection to be offering
specific excuses, as it only creates a defensive situation.
5 Comments, 37 Views,
14 Votes
,5.06 Score
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Monologue Responding to IM messages 5/17/2018
I'm sure you all experience monologuing when you chat
and no one else answers. Such a waste of time. All it takes
is for you to reply "no thanks" don't leave
us hanging.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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No Thanks 2/17/2020
Telling someone no thanks is being nice. If said people
don't get the point, then it's on them what comes
next.
3 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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What a great idea 7/27/2016
It would be amazing if people could just say no thanks. Makes
denial easier, and less wondering on both sides.
3 Comments, 29 Views,
9 Votes
,4.92 Score
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The Best Way to Respond to "No Thanks" Replies 10/14/2014
Like anyone who has been on SEXFinder.com for any length of time and
has tried to make contact with someone, I have received
my share of "Thanks, but No Thanks" replies.
I have been told however, that my response to those "No
Thanks" replies is quite different than what most
women receive from those kinds of replies.
I am not rude or abusive to the woman who told me "No
Thanks". I do not whine or ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Do you have morals! 3/26/2016
OK so this actually happened to me in about 10 years ago.
I was out partying with my best friend and his wife and we
went to a local bar where we live just to have a good time and
play pool..... As The night went on we all were getting pretty
buzzed up....Now let me say Jennifer his wife is extremely
gorgeous and I admit I've fanatized about her, anyway
I made my way to the bathroom when ...
3 Comments, 44 Views,
3 Votes
,4.90 Score
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Manners 1/23/2017
We recently became members to this site... We have gotten
several flirts, emails, and our profile has been viewed
by many. We have been busy checking out profiles that fit
what we are looking for and I must say we enjoy and are having
fun already.. However there are a couple of single men that
have commented and sent us emails and we have found that
even though we didnt request single men they ...
7 Comments, 142 Views,
16 Votes
,4.89 Score
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Childish insults 7/22/2019
I am constantly amazed as what passes for mature behavior
on this site. Recently a man sent a message, I politely said no thank you
and (while not necessary )I explained why. His response
was write an insult. For the men complain that women don't respond
your emails or instant messages this is part of the reason.
Just because we are also using this site does not mean we don't want ...
10 Comments, 91 Views,
28 Votes
,4.88 Score
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Harsh Articulation 8/15/2015
In response to the email I received asking if I am interested
in you I will begin by stating that I read your profile thoroughly
in an effort to offer a no ‘bs’ and sincere answer. Typically
I would simply not take the time to read through a profile
without a profile picture attached. It shows a lack of confidence
and conviction. That, in and of itself, is less attractive
than the homeliest ...
5 Comments, 48 Views,
8 Votes
,4.87 Score
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No thanks. 10/15/2014
Do single guys realize that most women and couples get hit
repeatedly every day with stupid emails from single guys?
We have jobs we don't need another one answering all
the stupid stuff that comes our way. Oh and here's an idea try writing things that make sense
and that don't reek of coming from an 11 year old.
13 Comments, 77 Views,
19 Votes
,4.84 Score
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Silence is deafening 11/15/2019
I know it’s not always possible to respond to every message
if you’re not interested. I get it. And I will be respectful,
and never be abusive. But even a quick little , “no thank
you” really helps out sometimes. Does anyone agree?
8 Comments, 64 Views,
17 Votes
,4.82 Score
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recent dinner with a new couple. 2/2/2015
You know when you ask someone to dinner that's what
it is. Dinner! We don't lead in another direction.
So...there is really no need for the dramatics. Recently
invited a couple to dinner it was comfortable good starting
conversations. But for us as a cpl we new immediately there
was no physical attraction. The conversation was pretty
good, so we thought. Talked about sports, vacations and
just ...
6 Comments, 131 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Reply’s 8/16/2019
It really is not that hard to say no thanks to a reply I mean
as least it’s a response
5 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Being pushy 10/10/2018
Why are the single men in here so damn pushy not all but definitely
came across a few of them
7 Comments, 68 Views,
28 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Meeting up 12/21/2016
I'm beginning to think everyone is pic collectors.
No one wants to meet without pictures. Remember when we
didn't have the internet and we met for drinks. I have
never had a problem meeting in person and either you are
into them and great or one of you is not into the other and
gi your separate ways. We're all adults. Once someone
has had their identity stolen, fake profiles made and see
how hard ...
3 Comments, 53 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Please if you can read my whole profile 10/8/2017
It seems I am having to say no thanks to a number of men simply
because they can't or don't read my whole profile.
I am a young 65 year old who does prefer a younger man. As my
profile states though please no one under 30 or over 55.
It is not that difficult to understand yet I am having to
say no thank you to a number of men. I am always polite say
hello then tell them sorry no the ...
10 Comments, 118 Views,
18 Votes
,4.76 Score
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They get there and they aren't what you expected 1/21/2016
Has anyone ran into the situation where you invited someone
from SEXFinder.com over with adult fun in mind only to find they are
not as advertised? How did you handle this situation. I'm
sure it is really awkward for everyone involved. Or maybe
there was something that just turned you off when they finally
got there. How did you handle saying "no thanks"?
6 Comments, 157 Views,
14 Votes
,4.74 Score
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Whats your percentage of useless messages? 7/31/2017
I'd say 95% of the messages I get are either bots or people
that havent even looked at my profile.
Everyone else in the same boat? Anyone out there getting good messages all the time?
3 Comments, 39 Views,
11 Votes
,4.66 Score
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Taking a break 6/16/2021
It came suddenly I'm sure for my husband but one night,
I asked him how he would feel about suspending our SEXFinder.com account
temporarily. He asked why...my reply....I just want to
take a break. It seemed like so much pressure to have sex
with EVERYONE and that is NOT who I am or he is for that matter.
I wanted to slow down and get back to us and remember what
it was to feel passion instead of just ...
8 Comments, 262 Views,
13 Votes
,4.65 Score
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Don't be rude! 1/8/2019
I prefer responding to say "no thanks" rather
than ignore someone. No one likes to be ignored.!
7 Comments, 57 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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why can't the women on hear juat say not interested 9/2/2018
what's up with the girls on hear they start talking
ask for pics and then just stop if they are not interested
why not just say that it is not a big deal just called manners
and being polite
5 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Sorry, Ill have to decline 8/15/2016
I have no problem responding back, even if I dont want a meet
and greet. But sometimes I may want to still talk. So many
guys on here are so focus on the meet and greet that they miss
out on other opportunities. Like phone sex, I would be open
to that or playing sex games on the IM. Not everytime you
message a girl will lead to an physical encounter, but at
least there is still fun to be had.
2 Comments, 43 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Doesn't matter how you say it.......... 2/26/2016
It doesn't matter how you say it, the person on the other
end 95% of the time gets offended. Its a lose lose situation.
I have said it so many different ways, changed my profile
so hopefully they wouldn't even email me (that does't
work, men look at pictures), I have even just deleted the
emails being rude and not saying a word but that don't
help either cause they continue to email ...
9 Comments, 79 Views,
14 Votes
,4.58 Score
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Just be honest 4/14/2020
I am not sure why it is so hard for people to just be honest
and say NO THANKS if they are not interested.
3 Comments, 45 Views,
6 Votes
,4.50 Score
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SEXFinder.com CHANGES TP STANDARD MEMBERS 6/13/2016
As modt Standard members now know SEXFinder.com is charging point
soe just about everthing. Im CHAT VIDEO VIEW ETC
4 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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Using IM 11/8/2014
I find that many simply never respond to an IM request for
chat. Is there any etiquette on this matter?
5 Comments, 108 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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Traveled the Road Less Traveled 10/4/2015
Well Ladies and Gentlemen, I tried to travel down the road
less traveled and let me tell you... I learned some major
lessons.
As Oprah would say, what I know for sure is... what I like
and do not like and what I will and will not tolerate.
Let me explain I traveled down the road of younger guys and
what my experience was... the sex was great, but... and
we all know that the but ...
3 Comments, 74 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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No means no 12/1/2016
No means no damnit 😉
9 Comments, 45 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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what happened? 8/7/2016
you know it really bites when you're trying to just
say hello on the IM and people don't respond. Id much
rather hear not interested than wonder if my IM isn't
working. then it's me sitting there wasting my time
and points trying to get a message through to the person
and not understanding why this isn't working?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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It's funny. 3/2/2015
I always appreciate it when someone says no thank you politely.
I don't mind if they say "no interest".
At least you know, there is nothing there. I do find it interesting
that some people, just stop talking with you. You never
know if they got cut off, or are not interested. So please,
be blunt and say one thing or another, don't just go
silent.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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This Member "djhits20072 " Male 55yr Old Harassing Me 10/30/2016
This guy seemed nice in beginning conversation. We only
conversated on the phone. After awhile, he began having
notions that I would video us and put it on this site. If you
go to his profile you will see that he is definitely not the
type of male you guys would want to see in a video with me.
Anyway, he kept talking about us being videoed. He began
going over and over again about being videoed ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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Sent mixed signal and chasing a lost of interest 11/11/2015
This is usually the reason why people pursue after someone.
Because they thought they may be interested in them or may
possibly give them a chance however when the individual
decides to say no then the aggressor typically a man ( Man
dominated cultures and in this chase America) thinks the
chase (woman/man) is just playing hard to get. It is the
flirts, misinterpreted body language that has ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,4.38 Score
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At least say No! 3/13/2015
Just wish if you contact someone they would say No! Saying
nothing is worse.
9 Comments, 105 Views,
15 Votes
,4.36 Score
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stalkers on the internet 6/17/2021
ok how come you start talking to what apprears to be a normal
guy, and he turns into a freak. i started talking to this
guy who seem perfectly normal. we were talking about things
we do in and out of bed and what we want from our lives. the
next thing i know he was emailing me everyday. he told me
he wanted me to have his , and he even picked out names
for them. we'd talked for a week and ...
4 Comments, 564 Views,
35 Votes
,4.30 Score
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Blocked!!! 10/21/2014
There's no need to feel like you have to answer all these
guys, just block them period.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,4.29 Score
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Woman looking for money 9/4/2018
Lot of woman on the site who are looking just for money. Not
as a result of a friendship here but as the criteria to have
friendship.
9 Comments, 57 Views,
21 Votes
,4.24 Score
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polite people 1/28/2018
I know this is a pay site and prohibitive to people who aren't
paying. I would just like people to tell me they're
no interested instead of seeing a pic and ghosting. I am
an adult. it's not like we all haven't had rejection
in our lives. <br><br>
please just communicate. <br><br>
Thank you
8 Comments, 42 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Why is it diificult for some to at least say "No Thanks"? 4/7/2016
With so many people from all over the world on this site,
it's fair to say you'll find someone you're
interested in meeting with pretty quickly, though it's
also fairly likely that that person may not be interested
in meeting you, for whatever reason.
That's fine, but as far as I'm concerned, basic
courtesy dictates that if you receive a message, then you
at last reply to it, if only to ...
5 Comments, 63 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Ass lick 11/22/2015
Why girl ass makes man horny..
3 Comments, 29 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Money 1/30/2018
Are there more women on here looking for money rather than
just general fun?
5 Comments, 32 Views,
10 Votes
,4.18 Score
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When you chat and find out the truth 1/5/2018
It’s tough when you see a pic for the first time after chatting
a while, but it’s always best to be hst.
6 Comments, 59 Views,
16 Votes
,4.16 Score
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Too much 11/12/2014
Saying no just got to be too much now we just ignore profiles
that we're not interested in.
4 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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Rejection nicely 3/11/2017
Have never suffered with too much ill feeling over being
rejected, although do how the arrogance of how some deliver
it. Currently if I want to tell someone they are not my type,
I have found that it softens it or puts it into perspective
to say that they are simply not my 'flavour'. Wondering
if that sounds crass? but it seems to make sense to me. Sound
like Volvo's some like Porches, some like ...
4 Comments, 40 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
4 Comments, 23 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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But they won't go away! 5/16/2015
I have met a few guys on this site. I usually message back
and forth, then either make a decision whether I want to
continue on or cut the ties. Behavior that is persistent,
constantly messaging me on my phone while I'm asleep
or at work...ugh! This is why when I get messages from guys
I know there is not a chance in hell we will have any chemistry,
I don't respond. I also have a message that ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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No 10/31/2014
Saying no has become very easy to say on this site especially
with single guys.
3 Comments, 41 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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How do you feel when you make a "date" for swinging and the other party does not show up? 9/12/2015
Whenever a party says they will meet for a sexual encounter
and they do not show up, what do you do?
6 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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People that don't respond 5/9/2018
How hard is it to say "No thanks." or "I'll
pass". With the sketchy performance of SEXFinder.com's
Messenger, how is any to know if an actual message is
getting through? I don't mind saying, "Sorry,
not what I'm looking for at this time." but...nothing???
That's just rude anytime and anywhere. Your thoughts?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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What is wrong With People 7/29/2019
Is is so hard to just say no thank you I am not interested.
I had invested some time and effort into communicating
with someone. My husband said he might be interested in
a couples sort of situation. So I shared that. After
multiple communications and trying to arrange a time to
meet. I extended multiple invitations including drinks with our spouses and then to a swing party.
I had assumed he ...
3 Comments, 83 Views,
29 Votes
,4.04 Score
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Just say no 7/6/2020
I think its really easy. I guess some people think its not
polite or its an acceptable thing to leave others hanging.
I figure out of 100 interactions on line one meeting would
be good. The thing that is strange to me though is, why does
someone initiate a conversation, you have a good conversation
and then nothing. If you're not interested say so.
I will check in with people with a short ...
8 Comments, 63 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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How to say No Thanks, when meeting in person first time 6/15/2018
How do you politely say no thanks, once you've finally
met in person, without coming off rude?
3 Comments, 27 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Tea compared to sex 8/26/2016
If somebody offers you tea or coffee- and you say yes- that
does not necessarily mean that you Will have tea every time
you are together with this person.
The same goes with sex.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
,4.02 Score
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Does it hurt ot have proper manners? 1/27/2019
So, I was sitting here thinking, 'How hard is it really
to just reply and say "No Thank You, I'm (We're)
not interested." <br><br>
I know there are people who will be ultimately be idiots
and not take the simple straight forward hint, but those
should be the exception and not the norm. <br><br>
If we all were to make a concerted effort to be more ...
8 Comments, 42 Views,
21 Votes
,3.99 Score
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Not what you expected 12/7/2019
Has anyone chatted with someone on here and when you met
they looked nothing like their picture.
4 Comments, 29 Views,
13 Votes
,3.98 Score
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Politeness 9/20/2017
I always appreciate when someone says no thanks if I page
them on IM. If someone pages me and I dont want to chat I always
let them know instead of ignoring them.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Persistence even after you say no thanks 4/3/2018
I get it quite a bit from couples... but the persistence
these days when you say no thank you is crazy. I don't
like reporting or ignoring people, but they continually
think they are going to change you mind. This is especially
the case with couples and gay men on here. <br><br>
Anyone else running into this?
0 Comments, 25 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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points 12/1/2018
doing it for the points points points
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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BULLSHIT people are phoney and have NO backbone 1/14/2018
Let me tell you all something, we all find out the hard way
sometimes. It comes down to ppl are not raised right. They
don't have a backbone and common courtesy. What is
right? Just say NO thank you, and move on. BUT, people play
you a long, play fucking ring a round the posey, beat around
the bush. Ultimately you have pissed off people. 
5 Comments, 41 Views,
11 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Photo/Icon (optional) 11/21/2016
Photo/Icon (optional) Put [image] where you want the uploaded photo displayed
within your article post. If you do not position your photo,
then it will replace your article’s Photo/Icon (optional)
Put [image] where you want the uploaded photo displayed
within your article post. If you do not position your photo,
then it will replace your article’s
2 Comments, 8 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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30 pts post(ignore) 4/5/2015
How can mirrors be real if our eyes aren't real?
2 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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Boundries 12/6/2019
How important are broundries for you?
4 Comments, 43 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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An older man and the younger woman ..... 5/20/2016
Half-your-age-plus-seven. This formula has somehow become the definitive rule for
the youngest age of a woman a man can date.
So a 59-year old guy can date a 36/37-year
old girl. No problem there. But if she’s 30 years old…I
am now called a pervert or creepy guy.
Okay, maybe that’s an exaggeration. But still so many
people in ...
9 Comments, 242 Views,
15 Votes
,3.90 Score
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help me please 8/3/2019
How does say no without sounding rude?
14 Comments, 85 Views,
26 Votes
,3.89 Score
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Saying No 11/13/2014
How would you go about saying no thanks to someone who is
incredibly persistent yet sweet at the same time?
10 Comments, 105 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Does that 1/24/2020
score you ?
1 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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being polite when rejecting an advance 10/18/2018
i would like to think that i polite when taking to women
on here about possible meets. so in return i would hope that
a women can be polite if they want to decline your offer.
i would also be polite and kind if i was to turn a women down.
<br><br>
what i don't like is people who are damn rude and even
abusive in response. we could all be like that but its just
not nice! ...
1 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Since you asked... 9/30/2014
As I glanced at the articles on the Saying "No Thanks"
page, I noticed that 5/12 of the articles on the first page
were all regarding the fact that women here often don't
give a polite 'no thank you" when emailed or IMed.
I certainly don't expect that posting my reason for
not responding to those who contact me will make a dent in
the future "why are women so rude" questions,
but here goes ...
8 Comments, 113 Views,
18 Votes
,3.81 Score
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Is it rude to say "No Thanks"? 9/16/2016
I think we all need to learn when to say it and when to hear
it without comment. Let's bring back "no, thank
you" and follow it with a full stop.
In this world of over-sharing, it can be tough to stop at
"no, thank you." It feels awkward, but you will
get used to it.
You are not being rude by saying "no, thank you."
Anyone who refuses to accept it is being rude by questioning ...
0 Comments, 37 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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I might be too blunt 1/13/2016
If I'm not interested it's going to be a straight
up answer. I am nice but blunt is anyone else like that or
am I the only bitch. If you n I have nothing in common I'm
sorry but it's not happening
NO THANKS
2 Comments, 33 Views,
5 Votes
,3.80 Score
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bad blow jobs 11/25/2019
Back when we were all young there were always a couple girls
who gave terrible blow jobs. You had just let them give
you a hand job and move straight sex. Might even have
so no the blow job if she was offering.
4 Comments, 27 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Try and be polite 11/7/2019
Rejection sucks, the worst rejection is when you get no
response after talking to someone. At least if you don't
want to get together, have the kindness to tell them.
1 Comments, 25 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Bots! What’s up with the Bots? 9/19/2018
Okay so I can’t stand bots on sites. They drive me crazy!
When your using a sit and you have to pay for sending messages,
it really sucks when you start chatting with a bot, and don’t
realize it at first. Why? Why do they do this? In all honesty
I know why, but come on? Really?
2 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Quick and easy 12/27/2017
One of the best ways is to simply say "Thank you, but
I'm not interested. I wish you luck." This works great, as long as it is sincere. If people get
upset at it, that isn't your fault, and you've
done your part.
1 Comments, 18 Views,
11 Votes
,3.73 Score
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Honestly 1/13/2020
Just be honest and truthful about everything and it will
go alot easier
1 Comments, 18 Views,
8 Votes
,3.71 Score
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Blocking a person 1/24/2020
I know when you block a person you don't get their messages
and you don't see them online in chat/IMC but do they
still see you as being online or is it as if your not there
also?
1 Comments, 17 Views,
1 Votes
,3.70 Score
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a simple "no thank you" 1/21/2019
A simple "not interested" would be better as
opposed to being ignore, but whatevs. <br><br>
p.s. this is for points
5 Comments, 38 Views,
18 Votes
,3.67 Score
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Points 1/16/2020
Yup, just one of those I need points posts
3 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Younger women 1/10/2020
Is it really that hard to respond to instant messages and
say sorry not interested in chatting or do women
just like the attention?
7 Comments, 78 Views,
13 Votes
,3.65 Score
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If they are not your type. 9/4/2018
How do you say no without hurting anyone's feelings?
5 Comments, 50 Views,
19 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Hey guys, chill please 9/12/2019
You log on to SEXFinder.com and get all excited. All these pics with
flirty usernames. So many hot women and couples. You get
on IM and start browsing, messaging women, sending flirts,
requesting friends. Ready to have fun. And then... nothing.
<br><br>
Babe, I want to let you know that it has nothing to do with
you. I mean, don't take it personally. Women on SEXFinder.com
are outnumbered 20:1. We ...
3 Comments, 88 Views,
29 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Taking no for an answer 11/8/2018
Why can’t men jus take no for answer? I myself respect
it when a woman says no and I leave her alone. I have heard
men and talked to men that say they will not take no for an
answer and they will continue to push to get what they want.
Men should just respect it when a woman tells them no. How
many of you out there agree with this?
3 Comments, 34 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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why do so few do this...? 5/12/2018
Why do so few people have the courtesy to say a simple "no
thanks" as opposed to just ignoring a chat request?
9 Comments, 69 Views,
20 Votes
,3.64 Score
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Personal Preference versus Racism 8/30/2016
I'm all about equality in life, every human being has
a fundamental right to try to make a living and find happiness.
I may not like some aspects of how a given group of people
approach their ethical practices towards others, but
it is behavior that transcends race and creed.
That being said, I was recently approached on another site
by a woman. Nice, similar cultural interests, ...
3 Comments, 43 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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rejection on reason basis and strength of rejection 10/30/2015
some people just do not like to accept "i don't
like you" as an answer. what could be done in this case?
one of the good choices could be reasoning and explaining
the reason unless he/she is some kind of psycho, in which
case rejection should be strong and exempt from reasoning
2 Comments, 22 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Points 12/26/2019
No thanks. Just need points
3 Comments, 26 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score
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Why are people so rude? 10/13/2019
Seems like a lot of people haven’t mastered the
art of saying “hey, not interested.” They either say
something nasty or ignore you completely when they aren’t
interested. I don’t get it. Did I somehow offend them
by showing interest? I don’t get it at all. I’m 100%
straight and have had bi/gay guys message me. I simply say
“hey, not thing. Good luck.” They handle it just
fine. ...
2 Comments, 24 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Is it rude? 9/10/2019
I've meet a few people and turned all but 2 down in person.
They obviously weren't the type of person they said
they were in their profile. Many of them take offense, why?
If you want to a chicken and someone brought a duck you
wouldn't accept it either. Come on now, right?
1 Comments, 23 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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Proper way to say thanks but no thanks 6/15/2017
Not sure what is the proper way when someone approaches
you on the site to say thanks but no thanks. I think everyone
can agree that there is a certain physical chemistry involved
in wanting to pursue a sexual encounter. I am not a picky
person nor do I think that I am shallow or wanting a certain
type. I am attracted to all women of all color and size and
shape. That being said I find it ...
3 Comments, 65 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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not trying to be rude 8/7/2019
I am getting a lot of message request from people who i'm
not interested in. I just say thank you but i'm not interested
and people get offended and message back rude things. Does
anyone else have this problem? If so, what do you do?
4 Comments, 40 Views,
18 Votes
,3.53 Score
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just say it 11/11/2019
Its ok to say no thanks when you are approached by members,
it will not only let them move on but it keeps you from getting
constant messages from a member you are not interested
in
1 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Why is it so hard? 1/12/2019
Why is it so hard for people to just say it?
3 Comments, 23 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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Respeitar o não! 6/24/2017
A mulher como todo homem sabe, é de fases uma hora está
com o humor dos melhores outra hora está com o pior possível,
ela pode dizer que está afim de transar e no mesmo instante
dizer que perdeu a vontade. Muitas vezes isso é de deixar
o cara puto, porém o que sempre prevalece é a vontade de
ambas as partes no que em minha opinião é requisito fundamental
para a relação ser prazerosa, ...
1 Comments, 9 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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Reading Messages = Viewing Profile??? 9/5/2019
I'm running into so many problems with members I'm
not interested in, because they send me messages and I read
them, which gives them the notification that I "viewed
their profile" when I literally don't know who
the fuck they are.... Then some people call me on it saying
shit like "what, you shy?" "I see you're
looking at my profile, why won't you say ...
7 Comments, 73 Views,
14 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Expectations vs No Expectations 5/19/2019
There is maybe a perception that all messages deserve a
response. However, as a woman who chooses to interact in
an adult forum online, I would suggest maybe less emphasis
is placed on the recipient responding and perhaps the senders
have less expectations. I would take the attitude, if a message of mine is not responded
to they are not interested or simply too busy. As I too have
messaged ...
12 Comments, 182 Views,
43 Votes
,3.46 Score
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Wasting points 6/10/2019
Why do we even have points if thet never txt u bak its so stupid
i dnt even know why i keep wasting points for.
2 Comments, 24 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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No thanks for sex 1/29/2020
There are many situation comes in which you can say no thanks
for sex As depend what is happens with your partner or you would
not like to meet with your partner or you had recently break
up with you partner and don't want to do sex and any o
e offer you for the saex but you refuse the same <br><br>
The reason is for that they you most like the that person
and that perosns real ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Not looking for sausage fest 10/3/2019
There must be 3to1 guys to girls on here guys posing as couple
that’s gay. Hoping to pose as couple really be looking
for guy on guy hook up..why don’t you change your profile
to layer looking for m4m hook up stop wasting peoples time
3 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Just say not interested. 1/23/2018
Sometimes I wish they would just say not interested as opposed
just ignoring my message. That way I could just move on and
not try to message them again. I don't mean to be pushy,
just want to know if you would like to chat or not.
4 Comments, 39 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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SENSITIVE EGOS 8/25/2016
Some people just don't take "no thanks"
very well. If someone gets on your nerves...
My advice:
When it comes to blocking memebers, don't forget to
be on the FULL site (go through My Account, Blocked Members)
so that you can check ALL the boxes to block them from seeing
your profile (which contains multiple vulnerabilities).
Just blocking someone on the MOBILE site only ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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How to say no thanks 7/13/2016
Just say no thanks, don't be rude and not answer. Simply
say I'm not interested but thanks for the offer, or
something like that. Remember they are people too.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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How to eat PUSSY 6/22/2016
Hey, I have a lot of respect for all you guys who like to eat
pussy because there are too few of you out there. Furthermore,
some of you guys who are giving it the old college try are
not doing too well, so maybe this little lesson will help
you out. When a woman finds a man who gives good head, she's
found a treasure she's not going to let go of too quickly.
This is one rare customer and she ...
3 Comments, 39 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Harder for men or women? 1/29/2015
Who has the harder time saying no, men or women?
5 Comments, 46 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Say it firmly but politely 8/7/2018
If you are saying "NO THANKS" Say it with conviction
but not with harsh words. Understood some people simply
don't get it because in their minds eye they are the
most desirable of all partners. If they get TOO persistant
Block them
2 Comments, 22 Views,
16 Votes
,3.42 Score
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When to Say No 1/12/2020
How many of you couples out there keep getting messages
from the same lonely guy, day in and day out? You have told
this person that you are not interested in them and they
just insisting to message you. So how do you get them to stop?
9 Comments, 67 Views,
10 Votes
,3.39 Score
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Fake Profile Pics 8/15/2016
Don't you dislike it when the person you're chatting
or planning on seeing is really lying about themselves.
Why? Just be real.
2 Comments, 22 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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I find hard to say no as a man... 12/10/2019
I find that if we say no as a male sometimes girls can get very
mad like if it direspectful. But its that at all, sometimes
we are just over tired from a bad day at work and we are exhausted...
7 Comments, 60 Views,
23 Votes
,3.36 Score
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Be nice 10/14/2018
It seems people contact people but say nothing... of they
just start with nasty openings.. Seem even though this
site is to meet people ... I think being nice should be standard..
<br><br>
fee members or paid members should get the same respect
<br><br>
be smart be nice be safe
1 Comments, 20 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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why do women not reply 5/26/2018
most of the women i send messages to don't reply they
could at least say not interested or no thanks
7 Comments, 62 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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refused 8/23/2017
a horney girl needs me but I'm very busy these days ,
how can I gently refuse her ?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Saying "No Thanks" 5/23/2018
If someone writes you or even IMs you and you are not interested
... Please have the courtesy to say "no thanks"
or "Sorry Im not interested". Dont keep them
guessing if you are just busy. Thats how everyone on here
gets annoyed and frustrated. Just a thought that might
help others 
5 Comments, 52 Views,
13 Votes
,3.31 Score
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Nope 1/23/2020
No points ha
4 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Chemistry 6/29/2018
So if you meet someone from here and find out the chemistry
is just not there, how do you handle it? Do you treat it like
any regular date, or because it started with an emphasis
on meeting for adult fun, end the encounter quickly. Either
way, i think its best to be thoughtful of the impact on others
feelings.
3 Comments, 14 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
|
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Code for not interested 1/18/2018
So what are some of the phrases you use or hear when some
is not interested. <br><br>
The most common I’ve heard from couples is, “we
are too busy right now”. Has any else ever heard that?
2 Comments, 39 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
|
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Is it so difficult? 7/2/2017
Whenever I make contact to anyone, If I am not going to enjoy
time with them... 1. I don't lead them on 2. I am always polite 3. If asked to get together, it's easy to refuse and
let the (person or individual) know I will not be meeting
them.
Sooo, why is it so difficult for other to do that? Many members
I have found do not ever let you know, we are not a match!
Shameful!!!! ...
1 Comments, 22 Views,
14 Votes
,3.30 Score
|
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Replies 7/31/2019
I wish women would just say no thanks instead of saying nothing
all. Do you agree?
5 Comments, 41 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
|
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how to say not interested 10/27/2018
i have come across a few that i wasnt interested or they werent
interested i dont have a problem saying it but you have some
that juust end up disappearing instead of saying there
not interested is it that hard for some to actually say it
and be truthful
2 Comments, 28 Views,
15 Votes
,3.28 Score
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being polite 9/12/2016
we are all here pretty much here for the same reason...
this doesn't mean that one should insult or be impolite
to each other... the way I see it - there is either attraction or not - if not
- say no, no thanks or not my type...
I understand that this refers mainly to responses from
women to men BUT some men also need to accept a NO and not further
bother the ladies on this ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Just decent 8/16/2017
How many times have you messaged someone and gotten no reply?
I always answer my messages even if it is to say "No
Thanks" at least then the other person has an answer.
It is just common decency.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
|
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Why 1/8/2020
Why is it so hard for people say NO THANK OR NOT interested.
Why can't they just respond back with that simple reply.
6 Comments, 43 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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points 4/7/2019
just here for the points
3 Comments, 17 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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Not wanting to meet 2/19/2019
I have always said honesty is the best policy unless you
are cheating. If you make a date after meeting a person and
then decide it is not for you, do you ghost them or be honest
and say no thanks after more thought i am not looking for
what you offer? It sounds so lame via text.
3 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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NOT JUST NO, BUT HELL NO 10/17/2017
I find it very funny how many people on here pose as couple,
when it is just a bi guy. I also get a kick out of the number
of women on here that are gun hoe till they find out you are
not a young hunk. I myself don't see the need for a young
hunk or a young woman to be here? I know they can find all the
sex they want on their own. I was wondering how many people
here find this site to be a ...
5 Comments, 44 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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How to let down some unwanted suitor. 3/4/2015
Ever have this happen to you.. You check out your e-mail
and find someone from the same sex hitting on you, or a sexually
unattractive member wanting you to have an encounter with
them. Face it the world is a crap-shoot. That's the
adventure called: romance. How to not to seem rude and decline
the offer. Just say in a polite manner, " I'm flattered that you have found me attractive, but I'm
not ...
10 Comments, 86 Views,
11 Votes
,3.17 Score
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This has probably has been discussed alot but. 12/17/2014
How do you best say your not interested in another couple
in a face to face meet n greet? I have always respected being
honest with people but sometimes a white lie in these cases
are too bad. Tell me your thoughts ....
1 Comments, 47 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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should be enough 12/10/2019
i would hope a woman saying no is always honored
1 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Whats the best way to say not interested. 4/27/2016
I have gotten a lot of response to my profile that are younger
then what I am looking for. My profile heading is even Coffee
Buddy 60+ w/benefits". I don't want to be rude,
just I am not looking for younger. A few times I had the same
couples ask repeatedly and finally had to block them.
1 Comments, 23 Views,
2 Votes
,3.12 Score
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Vegan Santa 8/29/2019
There is a guy on here that keeps creeping on me. He looks
like Vegan Santa Claus. He can't take a hint. I don't
want to message him because he is not worth the points.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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Honesty before things get weird. 10/16/2017
Sometimes you will find couples that want to do things together,
whether you are into that or not is not the point of this,
it is more to say that if you are up front with your limits
or what you want out of something instead of hoping you can
sneak it in you will get a lot farther in life and relationships.
2 Comments, 18 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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Response on IM 6/19/2019
Why is it that 80% of the people on IM don’t respond at all?
If you’re not interested say so, don’t just leave someone
to wonder if the P.O.S. Messenger app is actually sending
their messages
9 Comments, 48 Views,
21 Votes
,3.00 Score
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ouch 6/9/2018
I love all the people on here that take these amazing pictures
that fool you into thinking they look amazing. Then they
send you a more real picture, this is when I feel lied to!
LOL I know that makes me sound shallow but I have a wide sweep
in taste and some of these pictures are scary. I always get
these after chatting for a while and then I never know what
to say. I don't want to be rude ...
1 Comments, 35 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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SEXFinder.com IM 5/30/2018
Wondering what every ones thought are on the IM here. Is
it just me or does it seem extremely rude to not at least say
no thanks to a chat request. I understand some people get
bombarded with requests but when I can see that it has been
read at least say no thank you and move on.
2 Comments, 34 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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funny i would love how to learn to say no thanks!! 7/17/2017
saying no thanks must be a woman thing, cause as a guy, not
sure I would turn down any woman who wanted to meet.
most women on SEXFinder.com are very sexy, they may not have sexy hot
bodies, but they do have sexy hot minds. If they don't
I am not getting to the meeting part of chat!!
as long as women are hot any horny, and seem like they enjoy
pleasing people sexually, I am all in!
0 Comments, 13 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Such A Simple Reply... 8/6/2019
On here there tends to be a lot of profiles. Now when
one does Seem to be authentic and is sent a genuine, Polite
instant message they do not reply. Now I know what most say
about the guys to last ratio and how most ladies are just
so overwhelmed with IMs. However they are notified about
a New IM. Now the normal proper and polite thing to do is to
at least respond with a "No Thanks" or ...
6 Comments, 45 Views,
19 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Do you really accept a "no, thank you"? 4/15/2019
I see a few people asking why can't women just say "no,
thank you" instead of not replying? Well, here's
this, not all people take gracefully. Some decide
to berate you or to continually contact you after you've
declined. I've had to say no to the same individuals
multiple times until I've had to block them. Is
okay? If someone doesn't respond to me, I take ...
11 Comments, 112 Views,
39 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Saying No Half-Way 1/23/2019
It really needs to be understood that just because you said
"yes" to sex, doesn't mean you're
obligated to continue. <br><br>
People get uncomfortable. They have second-thoughts,
lose interest, or just decide they aren't ready. <br><br>
And that's totally okay. <br><br>
This especially applies to women, but for everyone out
there - you ...
2 Comments, 36 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;) 12/31/2018
a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect
all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding
my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some
local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all.
Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure
to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match.
I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
14 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Why is it weird for guys to say "No thanks" 8/9/2018
Why is it weird when a guy turns down a girl? Maybe hes not
attracted... girls can do it all the time, but a guy does
it and theres something wrong with him.
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
,2.98 Score
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How to keep thing decent? 11/3/2019
Looking for some advice here. How do you say ‘no thanks’
after exploring a relationship and deciding you aren’t
interested. I try be up front and honest but sometimes
it leads hurt feelings.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Ok 7/20/2016
How come this concept is so hard for people to follow? I understand
when you have to many messages to actually follow but I am
sure not every woman is flooded with messages. How hard
would it be to say no thanks?
2 Comments, 12 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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Not what you thought 12/10/2019
Have you met anyone that didnt look like there profile pic.
3 Comments, 33 Views,
20 Votes
,2.87 Score
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Filtered pics 12/17/2019
I love flirting finding that little cute spark exchange
pics.your really turn on into person your chatting with
then final comes day your going to meet up then.. then you
meet up find person you was chatting with looks nothing
like person in pic.. Then you’re grossed out. Then you’re
feeling deceived and pissed pissed.. please people stop trying to pretend be ten win your really
2 That really ...
3 Comments, 42 Views,
19 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Messaging 4/15/2019
Someone tell me what doing wrong. I message people
politely and introduce myself. I ask how they are doing
day and offer to send a pic so they can see what i look
like or most times just send a face pic. Still only 1 out of
maybe 15 reply or even read my message. Any suggestions
6 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Truth or excuses? 6/18/2021
In life we seem to make excuses for everything we do. We never
as a society or individual admit that we have serious flaws
that harm every other person in the world daily.
<br>
I encourage people to have sex since so many people say it
feels so wonderful. The interesting thing is... don't
you think our laws should prohibit people to have unprotected
sex? Many many people go out of ...
3 Comments, 13 Views,
28 Votes
,2.83 Score
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A lot of guys on here 2/1/2019
What i dont get is how or why guys hit me up with stuff like--
let me suck your dick and I try to be nice and say not my style
and then get pissed. Its making me respond like more of dick
that I want, but only way to get left alone.
6 Comments, 42 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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We are too busy right now 3/16/2018
So when you meet someone and you agree to meet a second time
and they suddenly are too busy right now to meet, I get the
hint. I’m a pretty straight forward person, don’t
people have the ability to simply say not interested? Seems
like middle school behavior. My feelings won’t be hurt,
just tell it like it is. Curious what others think.
4 Comments, 32 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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Older Guy Uh No 8/7/2019
I had a conversation with a guy online a few months back.
He showed me pictures of his perfect ripped body. Very sexy
needless to say. Told me he had glowing white teeth and woman
have complimented him on his neat overall appearance.
This conversation went on for at least 2 months before I
finally decided to meet him. He lived about 3 hours away
so I agreed to get a motel room and wait for him. I ...
5 Comments, 74 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Is blocking okay? 6/4/2017
I've been interested in some members, then they constantly
message and such to the point where I will block them to get
some peace. If I decide to unblock them do you think it would
lead to something or would they hold a grudge?
4 Comments, 31 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Why? 11/14/2019
Why is so hard for single men on here to not read what people
post or say
2 Comments, 39 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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It is time to bring back proper manners even to a sex siite. 10/13/2019
I have been surfing all levels of this site for 20 years now
and it has become clear over the years that manners have
declined and in some instances disappeared completely.
Gone are the days where people would in the rooms
and not have fight and bicker. Gone are the days where
people could an IM or message and people would politely
respond "No thanks" if they weren't ...
3 Comments, 23 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Side Piece’s Side Action on the Side 9/2/2019
So a few years ago I met a girl from this site. We hit it off,
and decided to meet. She wanted me to meet her at her apartment
that she was renting to be closer to her work. I agreed. <br><br>
When I got there, I was immediately creeped out. There was
no furniture, and the kitchen was empty. There were a few
boxes around and a bed. We talked a little bit, and then she
started smoking ...
4 Comments, 26 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Why 3/29/2019
Why don't more women just say "no thanks"?
It can be frustrating to figure if a woman wants to meetup
or not. Not replying in I get for standard users, but
gold members don't bother. Makes me want to delete
this
3 Comments, 28 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Be polite? 1/10/2019
Why is it so difficult to say "no thanks" if the
person is not interested? It's frustrating enough
being rejected, but there's no to completely
ignore a request (unless they are harassing you). <br><br>
Thoughts?
3 Comments, 22 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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yes or f off? 9/24/2018
cant you just say no thank you? instead of telling someone
to piss the fuck off and being a rude person. up your game
and be respectfull
3 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Saying NO on a date 12/7/2017
I have made the experience that some people on here use old
or fake photos to get dates. But i am also telling them when
I meet them in real life that this is a no go and I stop the date
right away. <br><br>
Who also does this?
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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to points 10/21/2019
points points points points points points points points.
1 Comments, 10 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Be polite 6/17/2018
When somebody sends you a message about being interested
in you, the least you can do if your not interested is just
be polite and say “ no thank you “.
3 Comments, 25 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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The Best Ways to Say No! 8/30/2016
So I am always curious what a woman on here believes is the
"best way" to say no to someone she is not interested
in.
I know a fair number have decided not responding is a solid
route to get men to stop messaging them. At least eventually.
Women, what have you found is the best way to let a man know
"I am not interested' but at the same time get
a man to stop messaging you over ...
5 Comments, 29 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Worst "no" 12/18/2019
What would be the worst eay someone could say no?
1 Comments, 42 Views,
26 Votes
,2.70 Score
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Hello out there 12/2/2018
I get it that free members have limited chats, but once in
a while just saying "no thanks" to someone is
helpful if you are being messaged first. Does help with
the process of not hitting them up again....
3 Comments, 26 Views,
17 Votes
,2.56 Score
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Gay guys flirting with Straights 11/25/2019
What is your go to response for letting a gay guy down?
4 Comments, 24 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Saying No Thank You after steamy chat 12/30/2017
What is the best way to say "no thanks" after
a long time chatting, getting all steamy, and realizing
when you meet that something is missing? How not to hurt
the other person?
2 Comments, 19 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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Ignoring people if not interested or politely declining 10/11/2014
What is the outlook on this? Do people prefer to hear back
even if it is not the response they would like to hear or will
being ignored also do the job. Also if you have to deal with unwanted attention do you prefer
to let them know or simply ignore it and the potential backlash
of a "sore loser" along with it?
5 Comments, 43 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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21 Ways to “Give Good No" 1/27/2020
We are coming to that time of the year that is both blessed
and cursed with zillions of invitations. Here are some
that are in my email right now: Can you meet me for coffee
to help me with my book proposal? Will you bring a snack to
the 8th grade party on December 19th? Are you coming to our
housewarming party? Can you help with my ’s college
applications? Do you want to take the to see ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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No thanks 1/6/2020
Another No Thanks for just getting some points.
2 Comments, 14 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS. 11/27/2019
POINTS POINTS POINTS POINTS.
1 Comments, 7 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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I think this might mess our friendship up 11/18/2014
Tell them that there a really great person but our friendship
means more to me then just a hook up
1 Comments, 61 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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A difference between aggression and desperation 5/21/2018
I'm sort of torn commenting on this. <br><br>
I love it when a woman is confident and strong or submissive
and meek, either is attractive. It's hard to say no
when someone is "desperate" though, too handsy,
overly aggressive and sloppy...ya no thanks.
1 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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Pointers 5/1/2019
Just here for them points
2 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Manners 8/21/2019
I have been told no thanks before and it’s no big deal.
I know I’m not everyone’s type. I’ve told others
no thanks before. We all have different tastes. Please
use manners and respect other’s preferences. It’s
not personal to you, and you may even win someone over
being polite. No name calling or rude comments, just excuse
yourself politely.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
19 Votes
,2.46 Score
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Is it better to be direct or slowly ghost someone? 11/15/2019
I prefer to be direct and told directly what someone is thinking.
5 Comments, 30 Views,
12 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Working Girls 12/30/2018
Is it just me or are there a lot of women on here lately trying
to "sell their wares"? I'm assuming it
has a lot to do with the Craigslist getting rid of their adult
oriented classifieds section. I could be narrow minded
but, I didn't join this site to find a . Hell,
if I wanted to pay for sex I would of stayed married. Okay,
that may have been a little low. Any way, am I alone ...
1 Comments, 10 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Ignored on messenger 9/14/2019
Great conversation. Things really seemed to click then
nothing. That ever happen to anyone else?
7 Comments, 41 Views,
18 Votes
,2.44 Score
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Should saying "No Thanks" or "Not interested" be a common courtesy!? 5/2/2019
I feel if someone takes the time to acknowledge you,
you should be taking the time to acknowledge them back even
if your not interested! Do others feel it is rude to not respond
to a message sent to you? Or am I alone on this one?
7 Comments, 49 Views,
17 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why dont people have basic coutesy to reply a IM 12/30/2017
If you are not keen to talk to someone. Why not have basic
coutesy to atleast reply them.. <br><br>
You read the message n ignore.. thats so bad
5 Comments, 60 Views,
11 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Crying through the whole first date? No. 9/17/2016
Take it from me, if you are going to cry for the whole first
date, you're not going to get a second one. It happened
to me. I met a lady, and she balled for the whole hour long
date. I'm a kind person, so i tried to reassure her and
I didn't run away. But, needless to say, she was in no
place to be dating. She really needed to work some things
out. I get it, it can be really lonely when you ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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NO! 10/29/2015
Hey Look Ppl - No is NO and they usually [90%] mean just that
= NO. Once should be enough! To keep going is not only pointless,
but it is also very annoying and can lead only to trouble.
Listen and comply.
2 Comments, 19 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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when you hear no thanks? 4/4/2016
When you hear no thanks
4 Comments, 21 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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IM 1/28/2015
i am a charming guy trying to make conversation and too many
times i get someone just suddenly end an IM conversation.
isn't there a more polite way to say we should end this?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Now I know what the ladies feel like around here;) 12/31/2018
a straight guy just as my profile says. I respect
all people's orientation mine is just mine. Notwithstanding
my likes, I have repeatedly received requests from some
local guy to suck my cock on . I've ignored them all.
Now the guy sent me a message to complain about my failure
to respond. I mean read the profile, not your match.
I like my cock too but this is a little over the ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
10 Votes
,2.39 Score
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Married Cheating Men And Woman 12/6/2019
Well mostly men in this case <br><br>
I dont care if you want to cheat on your spouse for what ever
reason <br><br>
Thats on you and the karma that comes with it <br><br>
But the 1st thing we do when talking with someone on here
is let them know thats a deal breaker and will not meet cheating
men and woman <br><br>
But you must really be a special ...
3 Comments, 48 Views,
20 Votes
,2.36 Score
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are the girls really just looking for sex 12/26/2018
are the girls on this site really just looking for sex and
why are their guys on here pretending to be girls
2 Comments, 23 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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How to say 'no' after you meet up 10/18/2018
Hi, Sometimes you chat with someone and really hit it off.
Unfortunately, when you meet up you just dont click. What
is the nicest way to say no thank you without hurting anyone?
thank you.
2 Comments, 44 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Ghosting and liars 10/31/2019
It seems pretty weird to me that people just can’t be most
honest. The thing I hate the most it getting together or
getting to know each other is liars. The minute I catch someone
in a lie, I’m done, because they can’t be trusted. Just
say no if you are not interested, don’t string someone
along with lies and then ghost on them. I am busy with my career,
I don’t have time to waste with ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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How to get men to stop messaging me 5/15/2019
I get messaged way more by men than women on here. I have my
profile set as straight(women only) but somehow men are
messaging me. Is there anyway I can put a spot to this.
don’t have a problem with gay or bi people but it’s just
not for . Any advice would be great because it’s getting
ridiculous. Thanks
3 Comments, 33 Views,
13 Votes
,2.30 Score
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So you think you can fuck me better? 12/6/2019
Just because you comment on my video that you can fuck me
better dont mean you ever will because I have a conection
with my man and thats something you will never have with
me so that kind of comment want get you anything but blocked
4 Comments, 44 Views,
22 Votes
,2.29 Score
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saying not interested 1/20/2019
Why do people give asshole responses when you say hi?
2 Comments, 26 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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alone on the holidays sucks 12/22/2017
its hard when you meet someone and they are just not attracted
or into you. I always just try be happy and move on but I always
wonder why they don't like me. I wonder if it was just
the way I look or if it is something I said I didn't say.
I wonder if I could have said something different or if they
just were not attracted to me or maybe its just the sound
of my voice or the way I talk.
0 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Co worker 11/29/2019
How do you turn down a co worker and not make things awkward
atvwork.
4 Comments, 15 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Just Say I'm Not Interested 7/8/2018
I am trying to figure out why ladies won't say they are
not interested. Instead some choose to not answer respectful
approaches from a gentleman. This is very irritating.
Most men can accept when they are not wanted, and is told
so. Ladies I know you can do better. It's only a select
few. Unfortunately some men think with the wrong head.
.
4 Comments, 39 Views,
11 Votes
,2.23 Score
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when enough is enough 6/14/2018
when some becomes too pushy and you have to say no thanks,
should be enough for any man or woman. letsd have some
respect in this world.
2 Comments, 12 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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emailing 1/15/2017
Why does it seem like on this site women are significantly
more interested in just ignoring emails rather than saying
no thanks. I get the emails that are short, 3 or 4 words, but
when a guy takes the time to compose a thoughtful email,
shouldn't that at least deserve some kind of response?
What happened to common decency?
10 Comments, 77 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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please be polite 3/9/2019
what is it girls can;t reply and just say not interested
thanks
6 Comments, 30 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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no to a bad night 4/17/2017
when you are out partying trying to enjoy your night when
all of a sudden you get a gut feeling knowing something isnt
right with the girl thats trying to get with you fallow the
gut on feelings that night i had that feeling then found
out that girl that was trying to get with me got locked up
for having a shit ton of drugs in her car
0 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Watching 12/12/2018
I have to, on a weekly basis, have to turn down fucking a girl
with her husband watching. This must be way more common
than I thought.
3 Comments, 31 Views,
13 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Courtesy 4/22/2018
Seems that when people aren't interested on here,
that they don't even say no thanks. That would reduce
harassing texts. You only have to tell me once.
5 Comments, 34 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Someone Else's F Shack 2/2/2019
This is something that happened several years ago. I started
talking to a woman on here and hit it off very well. After
some erotic chat and phone conversation, we decided to
meet in person. It was very exciting, because we had some
great conversation. <br><br>
Since I had roommates, I couldn't host easily. She
provided me with the option to meet her at her apartment.
I agreed. I ...
1 Comments, 62 Views,
16 Votes
,2.10 Score
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Free bonus 9/18/2019
I remember SEXFinder.com use to give u credits or 40 day gold or something
1 Comments, 19 Views,
12 Votes
,2.09 Score
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conversations 5/7/2018
Why is it so hard to start a conversation in IM?
4 Comments, 16 Views,
8 Votes
,2.09 Score
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How many times do you have to say no thanks! 12/6/2019
Sorry I am not into BBC <br><br>
And I am not into 18 year old boys and dont care how big your
dick is <br><br>
But how many times must I say no thanks before I just get tired
and block you? <br><br>
Well it was about 10 this time
2 Comments, 34 Views,
14 Votes
,2.02 Score
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i wish 5/5/2018
i wish people has the respect to say no thank-you thank-you
2 Comments, 12 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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Why 11/11/2019
Why when you get flirt and viewed do they then not respond
on massaging
4 Comments, 25 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Screwed 9/18/2019
That's what SEXFinder.com does to u
2 Comments, 18 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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I'm looking 10/31/2019
What is so hard to say I'm not interested. People checking
out people profile like they might b interested and yet
when u im them they don't respond. I understand women
get hammered on here but at least take the time to say not
interested
1 Comments, 5 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Does anyone say yes? 4/23/2018
Does anyone say yes?
3 Comments, 16 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Scammer, fakes and frauds 3/8/2019
What is going here shaking my head? So many boys, scammer
profiles and they're so aggressive like wtf!
3 Comments, 24 Views,
9 Votes
,1.93 Score
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Common courtesy? 11/15/2019
Is it me or have the younger generation aka 24 and younger
not been taught common courtesy? When you send a message
on IM here to the younger generation, it seems like half
of them never respond. Ladies... even if you're not
interested in chatting, it's called common courtesy
to at least respond back either way. Not interested? Totally
fine, but could you take 30 seconds to respond back ...
7 Comments, 57 Views,
15 Votes
,1.91 Score
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trust 9/14/2019
when someone close to u wants to get involved, a friends
wife, i think ts the ultimate betrayal, u lose ur friendship
and ur friend , so that time came for me , i said no thanks,
but i never saw his wife in the same way again ever i had to
turn down temptation , as hard as it was, and at times almost
impossible , due to the fact it was put on a plate for u , so
i turned it down flat. its much ...
1 Comments, 24 Views,
14 Votes
,1.86 Score
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No thanks 12/19/2019
No thanks for for points
1 Comments, 25 Views,
20 Votes
,1.85 Score
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Life is how you make it 8/16/2018
Life is how you make it if you want something to happen make
it happen only you can do it no one else
1 Comments, 7 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Hi 5/8/2018
How do you as a guy say no thank you to a woman who comes across
as self centred and full of there own importance? Even though
she is like this I have morals I stick by ...
4 Comments, 21 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Etiquette 9/17/2019
As a free member i wish i had a way to say thanks but no thanks
when someone messages me
2 Comments, 18 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Thanks but not interested 9/10/2019
Such a simple response to a polite hello. Very refreshing when someone responds. Perhaps manners don’t apply here. Or, is it the points system or the poor programming that
causes folks to appear pushy or frigid? Either way. One lady actually replied as such to indicate
that she was not interested. That was refreshing.
2 Comments, 25 Views,
13 Votes
,1.80 Score
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rejection 2/7/2019
how do you take rejection?
3 Comments, 40 Views,
16 Votes
,1.80 Score
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saying no 9/1/2019
Besides compliments, another thing the person you’re
saying no to might appreciate is knowing why. Sometimes
it’s best to be candid about your constraints. <br><br>
Example: I can’t handle the meeting for you this afternoon—I’m
busy onboarding a new hire and have a deadline I need to hit.
<br><br>
Example: This is a sweet pitch, but our doesn’t
have a budget ...
2 Comments, 19 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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Why can't people say not interested 1/13/2018
Is it just me why can't people just say not interested
when u message them instead of just not responding
6 Comments, 35 Views,
10 Votes
,1.79 Score
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why cant people 6/26/2017
Every time I try chatting most will not answer. If they are
not interested why cant they say so.
10 Comments, 73 Views,
15 Votes
,1.75 Score
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Why i came here 3/16/2019
I came to this site after i lost my wife to cancer. I was a lost
man who was spoiled and loved at same time. I am here to learn
what women of today want and what i can bring from the past
to today and still enjoy . But to my shock after 4 years of
great marrage that some women not all women on here are only
after Itune cards or other things to have me buy for them.
But im not here to buy ...
4 Comments, 32 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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Cam play 6/26/2018
Why is everyone so afraid
2 Comments, 19 Views,
12 Votes
,1.74 Score
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I never say "No Thanks" 10/15/2019
To points.. They are hard to come by on here!
1 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Choices that have very fine sinus congestions in the end of the wrong turn I made... 8/13/2017
Is it so very negligent to leave your pets all about and without
proper behavior? Really I'd rather swim in the ocean
and find gold perhaps at the bottom of the abyss than date
a bismol. That way the never ending battle I had with Achilles
and guess what. I offer his soul back up to Zues himself.
The little pixie liked to pick the wrong fights and found
out that I'm superman compared to his ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Don't Ignore, just say what you think! 6/7/2016
Too many folks on here will not just say, "thanks,
but not my type"....what ever happened to being honest
instead of just all of a sudden ignoring some one...rude!
2 Comments, 25 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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Why is it so hard? 2/5/2019
I know not everyone is going to want to meet up, or even chat.
But why can't people at least be civil and say they're
not interested? sure this topic has been discussed
ad nauseum, but it's really been burr in my saddle lately.
4 Comments, 28 Views,
14 Votes
,1.70 Score
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"No Gracias" 1/4/2016
There was one time where the person said please do me so hard
and I said no.
2 Comments, 26 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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I never say No Thanks 10/16/2019
to points.. They are too valuable
1 Comments, 9 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Wondering Mind 4/7/2019
My mind wonders. Could I be Bi-sexual.I like a like looking
dicks and sometimes get excited. I throb when I watch.
3 Comments, 50 Views,
18 Votes
,1.62 Score
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How do you say no nicely 10/11/2019
So you meet somebody in the bar and they arent how they looked
in their photos or there just isnt a connection. How do you
say no thanks without offending
1 Comments, 21 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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I miss her 5/19/2019
Her husband dosnt let her anymore but weve become friends
do u think she will suck and fuck me again?
1 Comments, 31 Views,
20 Votes
,1.59 Score
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You Deserve to be Picky 7/8/2019
Don't do what I did. <br><br>
As a young bi-curious guy on this site, my first experience
that came from here was... mediocre to say the least. I didn't
have prior experience sexually and I settled for the first
man willing to suck me off just out of convenience. I thought
I wouldn't get other offers. <br><br>
So now, the image of a toothy blowjob from an obese ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
12 Votes
,1.56 Score
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saying no 4/26/2018
just say no like the say in school
1 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
,1.51 Score
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emotional rollercoaster 6/21/2019
always feel bad when i have to turn someone down, less a guy
thats pretty fucking easy , God! Any advise how to let someone
down without hurting their feelings! It sucks to do it,
I hate it.
2 Comments, 17 Views,
9 Votes
,1.50 Score
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No Thanks 10/2/2019
So when you say no thanks in the most polite unrude way etc.
98% of the time they question it.. or they insist on how good
it wiil be and how good they are. Everyone has preferences . If you're not what they
want or prefer then let it be .
1 Comments, 7 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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how do you say NO to your partner 11/17/2017
how do you say no to your partner when you don't want
sexxx ?
0 Comments, 14 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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Not 'no thanks' but 'can't now' .... 4/10/2019
I normally have to plan my playtimes, for very specific
days and hours. Frequently I get into conversations with
guys who get very rude when I can't drop things and '
now' to take care of their wants. not turning
them down, just letting them know I have time constraints,
like most folks have. I get every response from the usual
'you're missing a good thing' to the ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
19 Votes
,1.41 Score
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No means no 10/23/2019
come on men, is it really that hard? <br><br>
I still have women almost shocked that I can take rejection
in stride. <br><br>
Women, what do you do with men who are too persistent?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
10 Votes
,1.39 Score
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Difference 10/25/2019
A woman says no thanks to a guy and he can take it and move along.
But a guy meets a woman has sex on NS basis and she can’t
take no to anything more.
3 Comments, 26 Views,
13 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Home 5/6/2016
I'm bored and want points
1 Comments, 11 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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YES or NO 12/13/2015
we do say YES when its come about sex life and normally word
NO in sex life was just a word thats mean nothing. As long
we live and ability to want means YES to our sex life
2 Comments, 20 Views,
4 Votes
,1.30 Score
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2019 Greetings 4/2/2019
ARE YOU RUDE NICE OR JUST GHOST A PERSON WHEN YOU TELL THEM
NO THANKS?
1 Comments, 15 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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Was punished for saying "No Thanks" 7/17/2018
I live in gated secured condo complex and I love using the
workout room and hitting the pool but there is a woman who
always appears and tries to engage in conversation. I have
told her she is not my type, that I wasnt looking for a liaison
and just wanted my peace. <br><br>
An hour later, po-po show up and ask all kinds of questions
about the lady. I didnt even know her name!! ...
3 Comments, 35 Views,
7 Votes
,1.26 Score
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also happens to men 9/22/2019
i was with a married woman, gorgeous, great figure and smile.
she made me feel so comfortable i let her control and dom
me. <br><br>
we were probably 1 hour into it and she decides to tie me up
and blindfold me. <br><br>
i wasnt sure but she convinced me <br><br>
she was erotically touching and licking my body, especially
my nipples then she started rimming me. ...
4 Comments, 35 Views,
14 Votes
,1.22 Score
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Good luck loll 9/3/2019
At all the men want do something on me
1 Comments, 13 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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prositioned 9/1/2018
say no somebody might be in a sting
1 Comments, 12 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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points 4/27/2019
points points points points points
1 Comments, 16 Views,
13 Votes
,1.13 Score
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Being polite to single males? 9/24/2019
Which is better...telling a single male "No thanks"
or just ignoring him?
5 Comments, 37 Views,
11 Votes
,1.11 Score
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Saying no thanks, because , as imagined , couples are scarce.. Hurry up and get a gold account 4/7/2019
Nothing ever changes. Are there no real couples , anywhere?
1 Comments, 19 Views,
9 Votes
,1.07 Score
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points 3/25/2019
points points points points points
1 Comments, 3 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Common manners from some on here 10/23/2019
Am I the only one or are others experiencing similar problems?
<br><br>
I'll come on, have loads of views, flirts, etc from
a single profile. I'll hotlist them back and begin
conversaion. They respond and we talk, suddenly they go
quiet. One asked for me to top fan them and then didn't
respond to my private messages. <br><br>
Then when I contact others on IM I ...
1 Comments, 16 Views,
10 Votes
,1.00 Score
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gotta be gentle 7/24/2017
some come ready to play.. so if you don't want to, ,, ,, be
nice.
1 Comments, 11 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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Funny. "Saying no thanks" was gonna be my title. 4/29/2019
You know what I truly enjoy? Hitting on dudes I know are gonna
be uncomfortable when I do so. Not cause I expect a positive
response, but because the negative responses lead to my
favorite thing to tell a dude: 's how you make women
feel. I especially love to do this after witnessing them
making an ass out of themselves when hitting on one of my
friends. <br><br>
This applies to ...
2 Comments, 22 Views,
15 Votes
,0.99 Score
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No Thanks 9/9/2019
Why is it so hard for some people to just say no thanks? It
would make things so much easier.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
8 Votes
,0.93 Score
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Fake pictures 7/23/2019
Why are there sooooo many fake pictures on here? some even
use the photo for multiple accounts cant stand it!
less faking more fucking am i right
1 Comments, 7 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Saying No 10/3/2016
It seems allot of people like to say no and sometimes they
shouldn.ty
1 Comments, 17 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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What is the code phrase for saying no? 9/19/2016
I have met two different couples in the recent past and during
our initial meet they were both very excited and said they
wanted to hook up and have fun. A few days later, they said
"we are really busy right now". Now this isn't
my first rodeo and it just seemed a bit odd that they were
suddenly too busy to connect up. I presume this is swinger
code for "no thanks". Can anyone verify this?
I ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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No means no 6/19/2019
It's not easy say "No Thanks", especially
when the other person is interested and you aren't.
I think some subtle attempts work best, with a final heart
heart often the way.
1 Comments, 40 Views,
12 Votes
,0.86 Score
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No response 5/23/2019
I have recieved numerous messages and IMs and have gotten
no replies back. What is the purpose of reaching out and
not saying a thing. Makes you wonder why. Post a response
and share your thoughts on one. I'm sure there's
plenty of people on here would like to know how you feel.
1 Comments, 15 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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some folk 7/31/2019
got it down pat.
1 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,0.75 Score
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why is it so hard for girls to just say no? 5/9/2019
I understand the possible stigma's or asshole-ish
responses might get from jerks who think they are owed sex
because (who knows why.) But Is it really hard, especially
in a virtual setting, or in a , to just say "sorry,
I changed my mind, " or flat out, "no."
asking because I feel as though some women who did
not tell me they had changed their minds and just decided
to ...
4 Comments, 46 Views,
25 Votes
,0.59 Score
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adding a new article .. 5/30/2020
here i am, adding a new article ... a sad day
3 Comments, 18 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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ussion topics are for original mat 11/21/2016
ussion topics are for original material written by members.
Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site.
Also, please observe the HornyWife Terms of Use. If you
see material that is inappropriate for HornyWife, or that
may have been publish
1 Comments, 11 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Uncut penis 6/29/2021
I am FRIGHTENED of non-circumcised members. They are heinous
looking as opposed to circumcised ones which as sleek and
functional. Why don't people circumcise their
anymore? If for nothing else, do it for their sex life. Do
other women find uncut ones disgusting?
20 Comments, 403 Views,
47 Votes
,0.41 Score
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points 10/13/2019
points points points points points points points points.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
0 Votes
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Say no 9/11/2019
Maybe hardest and loveliest part oh well or oh this is hell
whatever it is it is something
0 Comments, 3 Views,
1 Votes
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Being a young guy into older women 7/26/2019
Why is it so hard to find a good woman who loves men?
Is it something people are ashamed of in 2019 of all years?
Girls my age are not drawn to me the way older women are but
still it seems none of them want to commit to their feelings
and urges. I honestly dont see color or age or shape as long
as we respect each other but I do wish I could find an older
woman to treat the way she deserves. ...
1 Comments, 2 Views,
0 Votes
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no thanks 4/1/2017
when u say o any one for some of work u r happy
0 Comments, 13 Views,
3 Votes
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Is it that hard to say no thanks? 7/10/2016
Is it that hard to say no thanks? simple polite response
just saying your not interested?
3 Comments, 17 Views,
0 Votes
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changes on SEXFinder.com 6/19/2016
So about three days ago SEXFinder.com was at it again change the cam
vire you could not even see you owen cam WTH is going on here
new management or what
1 Comments, 12 Views,
0 Votes
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no thanks 5/15/2015
no thanks
0 Comments, 9 Views,
2 Votes
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