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answering messages 6/1/2004
I am a silver member and try to respond to every wink and message
I receive. However what I find irritating is that in my header
for my profile I ask if the guy isn't over 35 or single
to not message me or wink. I constantly get messages as well
as winks that don't fit the criteria. Most of them are
standard members and I realize that they can't view
my profile and that is why I have what ...
2 Comments, 75 Views,
15 Votes
,5.58 Score
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guys dont like things up the arse during sex 5/30/2004
my mates where talking today and the women where saying
that the guys love it when the women stick their fingers
up the guys arse but i for one do not like it and was wandering
if any guy acctually does?
1 Comments, 59 Views,
16 Votes
,1.95 Score
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You don't have to be rude to say no 5/22/2004
The best way to say no is to tell the man that they are attractive
but not your type, which is usually true. You don't
need to lie and you don't need to be rude to say no.
1 Comments, 47 Views,
37 Votes
,6.88 Score
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Difficulty saying "thanks, but no thanks" 5/5/2004
We are young couple, not models but are quiet attractive.
But for some reason we seem to only find couples how we really
don't hit it off with & when thy ask to meet &
get things going- we don't know how to tell them "We're
not interested in having sex etc with you"
Does anyone have any ideas on how to try & sort out they
problem of not wanting to offend, but at the same time telling ...
1 Comments, 71 Views,
24 Votes
,4.83 Score
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saying no 5/3/2004
I have been talking to someone for quite awhile now but it
seems like its going no where. Then all of a sudden they want
to me. How do I say no to them but do it nice so I don't burn
any bridges?
2 Comments, 15 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Re: Turning down a request 4/23/2004
Just be as honest as possible. If your not comfortable with
a person, let them know that. If your not interested because
of age or distance, let them know that also. This is what
I have done, and it seems to have worked. I do try to answer
all replies, and do it honestly and in a timely manner.
1 Comments, 5 Views,
19 Votes
,5.89 Score
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how to say no thanks 4/1/2004
If someone shows interest in you and you are not interested....Please
at least email them back to say so. They did take the time
to send you an email afterall. I know everyone on here doesn't
always get a response from everybody they email. Doesn't
it make you wonder if they even heard from you?? Soo...the
next time someone takes the time to show some interest in
you but you aren't ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
20 Votes
,5.17 Score
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Did you not read my profile??? 2/27/2004
OK let me make this clear...I am not tryin to be rude by stating
what type of guy I am interested in. I personally simply
choose to date, sleep, or talk to a certain race of men. It
doesn't mean I have limited myself. Also, when I say
I want dealings with someone my age, I'm sorry if your
30 years older...that's not my fault. Take that up
with your mom and dad. I will respond to all ...
1 Comments, 45 Views,
43 Votes
,7.39 Score
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men are at a disadvantage here (woman's perspective) 2/6/2004
after being on SEXFinder.com for just one month, i can see that men are
at a great disadvantage...the number of women (at least
women who are not trying to redirect you to a pay site) must
be outnumbered by the men by a huge ratio. i think women that
appear to be "real" from their profiles probably
get an enormous amount of mail...i know i do. for me, part
of the reason for being a member here is ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
57 Votes
,8.43 Score
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Let's Examine All Sides of This Issue 1/24/2004
I understand the frustration about not getting replies
to email from all the articles, primarily from men or couples.
However, there is honestly another side to the issue. Many
of us females receive numerous emails per day, and cannot
possibly reply to all of them. As standard members, we only
get so many replies per day, also. Not to mention that there
are a number of men who have a ...
8 Comments, 505 Views,
45 Votes
,7.98 Score
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Saying no thanks isn't always easy. 1/16/2004
I don't think a lot of women are being snobbish. It seems
so rude to say no thanks, not interested. It would seem that
if a woman doesn't reply, that is her answer. Sometimes,
when I have replied in such a way, men will get angry, so I
think it depends on the man and there is no way of knowing
which type he is.
0 Comments, 90 Views,
10 Votes
,5.97 Score
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A Simple "No Thank You" Will Do! 1/8/2004
We don't know how other people feel about this but,
the one thing that agravates the hell out of both of us are
the countless number of couples and single women especially
who don't answer their mail. If you have a profile or
personal ad posted seeking the company of others, the polite
thing to do is respond to mail you get in response to your
profile or ad.
<br>
We get a lot ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
67 Votes
,8.90 Score
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Please Be Honest 1/2/2004
I have taken out three people I met on SEXFinder.com. After each date
all three said they would like to go out again. Two of them
ask me out again, I ask the other. Then the same responce,
nothing. Why cant you just be honest and say "No Thank
You". The pain of being ask out and stood up is worse
than being told no thank you.
2 Comments, 49 Views,
22 Votes
,7.21 Score
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Re: Rude People 12/29/2003
I understand what your saying. I made it pretty clear in
my profile that I'm a virgin and all the guys who read
it automaticly assume that i'm looking to lose it.
I've been known to not respond to some messages sent
to me too. With a site like this, a lot of guys on here just
assume that the women on here also want just sex and even
more than that. I feel if you tell a guy "No Thanks" ...
2 Comments, 67 Views,
17 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Just say no 11/11/2003
When someone say's No, they must, and do mean it.
If it's you out there, wanting to say no, and you can't
because you are scared to hurt there feelings, just say
no.
0 Comments, 177 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Why would you ignore an Auto-Reply? 10/30/2003
I have auto reply set up and it clearly states that if you
don't get a reply... then you probably won't get
one, so thanx, but no thanx.
<br>
Being a (really hot) single woman on this site means that
I get lots of emails every day. I don't spend all my free
time on the internet and I'm here because I don't
really have the time nor inclination to go out and meet people
and ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
7 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Single Girl meeting Couples 10/26/2003
I am a single hot girl with a passion for men and women. I have
met with several couples on SEXFinder.com. Some experiences were
great, some left a bad taste in my mouth. I've finally
learned how to leave feeling great.
<br>
Here's the dilemma: once all three of you have ackgnowledged
you find each other attractive and you are all horny, how
do you say no after meeting on a sex website?
...
0 Comments, 41 Views,
206 Votes
,8.56 Score
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Women need to decline more respectfully 1/15/2003
I've just been on this site a few months and I must say
that in such a consolidated amount of time, I have learned
how to respectfully say 'thanks but no thanks'. It's great
to get so much response to my profile, but can be too
overwhelming at times. I feel it is important to check in
with my SEXFinder.com email every day so that it doesn't pile up and
get out of control. I look at it like ...
0 Comments, 45 Views,
189 Votes
,9.39 Score
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