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Ibecookn69 43 M
7  Articles
Act or Be yourself?   2/22/2005

The first date could change the rest of your life, you just will not know until the future. 1st dates are really, most of the times, like your debute for a movie, you get a little nervous and then you may lie once or twice. Should you sleep with someone on the first date, and if you do when do you call them back?


0 Comments, 472 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
gfireemt 58 M
1  Article
very bi-curious and very nurvous too...   2/22/2005

I have been bi-curious for a long time and have only recently gotten up the nerve to go this far i have been talking here with a guy not living too far from me. He is willing to come to my area and meet with me. I am sooo nurvous about it and have actualy not met with him or cancled because i am soo nurvous. What do i do and how do i get myself to go thru with it???


2 Comments, 723 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Best places?   2/21/2005

I'd say best places to take a girl on a first date is a nice food, movie, maybe something else? Too lame or good enough?


3 Comments, 103 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
sexroks 48 M
4  Articles
Best first date place   2/21/2005

I find that the best place to go on a first date is a nice cozy bar, where you can chat and get to know your date. Also nice to be able to have a few drinks as it sooths the situation. <br> Hope this helps


1 Comments, 111 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
rm_james_mj 54 M
2  Articles
Overcoming Shyness   2/21/2005

Probably the best way to overcome shyness is Systematic (or Graduated) Desensitization. This is contrasted with a technique called "flooding, " in which the shy person is immediately exposed to a feared situation. This experience is supposed to be cathartic. <br> This is the advice that is often given shy people. "You've got to mix and mingle with people-that's the only way you're ...


0 Comments, 201 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
HoneySweetWisper 48 F
1  Article
SHOULD YOU   2/20/2005

WHAT IF YOU REALY LIKE THE GUY AND HE LIKES YOU SHOULD YOU FUCK HIM ON THE FIRST DATE? I HAVE HAD THIS PROBLEM COME UP I WANT TO BUT NOT FOR SURE IF I SHOULD. THE OLD TIME QUESTINS COME TO MIND WHAT IF HE THINKS I AM EASY. WHAT IF HE HITS AND RUNS. HOW DO WE GET PAST THIS WE ARE SUPPOSE TO BE ADULTS BUT SOME TIMES WE DON'T ACT IT.


8 Comments, 837 Views, 26 Votes ,2.81 Score
Where have you gone?   2/18/2005

Just wanting to know what most of you do on the first date (those of you that do date ppl on SEXFinder.com). I've only met up with one person here on SEXFinder.com and we went out to eat first, and were going to go to a movie afterwards (but she was called to pick up a friend, and had to leave; or was she just trying to leave me without hurting my feelings Anyway, what do most of you do?


0 Comments, 253 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_fcfighter12 39 M
5  Articles
places to go   2/18/2005

Ive always been pretty creative for first dates and i was just wandering what were some of your creative ideas for places to go and things to do on a first date and im not really talking sexual stuff more of just for fun.


1 Comments, 142 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
atomicturd 57 M
6  Articles
new adventure part 3   2/18/2005

A soft knock on the door reminds me that, you didn't know it but I had arranged to have our dinner brought to our room when I had made the reservations. Betty and Jane (BJandBISB&SEXFinder.com) had been glad to accommodate my wishes. Jane pushed a cart into our room and gave me a sly wink as she left. A fine dinner of boiled Maine Lobster and Rare London broil was accompanied by a ...


0 Comments, 167 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_HotDamn81 36 T
2  Articles
Don't do it gurls!!!!   2/18/2005

Imust tell all u folx out there, ...if you want to keep a man or woman in your life for more than onenight, never give away all the goodies within the first month that u know them...tease them a bit, but not to the point u may not be able to back out...you guyz know how some folx get...honey they are crazy and u don't even knowit.....Anyway guyz and chix....don't give itupon the first date ...


2 Comments, 359 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
first date.......   2/17/2005

we must always be aware of those around us...on a first date........a meeting at a bookstore or a museum is always good bet........safe discrete and a nice way of getting to know someone...


0 Comments, 85 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Who stole my undies   2/13/2005

Was seeing this guy for awhile, then decided we could "hook" up. He always seemed fine, really nice guy to be with. Fun, chatted, wasnt overly perverse. Yet, after the second time we "hooked" up I went to finally leave. I couldnt find my underwear any where, and decided I would have to leave with out them. Not the thing that I wanted to do. But, with having a , I had to go. Just a piece ...


0 Comments, 991 Views, 31 Votes ,3.34 Score
First Dates, a big deal?   2/13/2005

Why do we seem to have so much difficulty in being ourselves? Shouldn't we just be "real" on a first date, as we would hope to be in the rest of our lives? Be yourself, show who you are and find out who your date is, it's not difficult. There's enough stress, and pressure, in society today. Make things "easy" for everyone, BE REAL! Thank You!!


1 Comments, 105 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Sexy Ts Jessica and Cindys First Date   2/11/2005

It all begins with lunch where we become friendly and acquainted as we gaze into each others eyes for the very first time. We soon discover we are both gorgeous, shapely blondes over 6'in heels with long, smooth legs and a love for elegance. Your big blue eyes draw me right in and we soon discover we are VERY attracted to one another. We knew physically we were, but their is something else ...


0 Comments, 520 Views, 25 Votes ,4.79 Score
indigoblue23 42 M
1  Article
your first....   2/10/2005

your firdt date can be you last if you don't have the right stuff, and if you don't know how to treat a ladie, get it right the first time and the rest will follow


0 Comments, 105 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
xoromeo69 44 M
5  Articles
Breaking the Ice   2/9/2005

This worked for me every date I have ever been on. <br> If you have ever been on a date and its just not working out the way you wanted. You did the dinner, romantic walk, maybe seen a movie. Why not ask the date to go get a piercing? It is unbelievable how many young women were interested in doing this. It seems to me at least its relaxes the whole situation of being on a ...


0 Comments, 244 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_shileaux 34 F
20  Articles
He came back!   2/8/2005

sooo .. I ran across this guy here on SEXFinder.com from my home town .. since the population of my town is a budding 30, 000 thats not TOO strange, but since I'm only a standard member, it makes it hard to actually FIND the local fucks! <br> We communicated back and forth for maybe 2 days, spoke on the phone where we hit it off beautifully and then the following day he came over to my ...


0 Comments, 1011 Views, 33 Votes ,4.34 Score
rm_EroticOhio 61 C
3  Articles
My First Sexual Encounter with a Woman   2/6/2005

I was 29 years old! It was 3am. We were in my dorm room and had been talking for hours. I was pathologically shy, and afraid to make the first move. She was incredibly patient. Finally I kissed her. I was shocked to feel her tongue deep in my mouth. She was beautiful. Her brother was actually a fashion model. She could have been a fashion model too - that's how beautiful she was. But she ...


2 Comments, 1101 Views, 32 Votes ,3.90 Score
parker4me 57 M
1  Article
Worst First Dates   2/5/2005

I just had my absolutely worst first date. I had spoken to "Jo" several times on the phone and she told me she worked for a local dating service. I thought it odd she was using a different online service (not SEXFinder.com) to look for people to date herself. We had quite a few intimate conversations and I had checked out her profile online. Non-smoker social drinker goes to Church weekly. Well ...


0 Comments, 450 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
We Met on SEXFinder.com   2/4/2005

Michelle and I have wanted to have a threesome for some time now. I had enjoyed one in a previous life, so I wanted her to pick what she wanted. Also her birthday is coming up, and I wanted her to have one to remember. We joined SEXFinder.com although I had some misgivings. I really thought it would be a waste of time and money. Was I ever wrong! We hooked up with a very nice guy who lived two ...


2 Comments, 991 Views, 35 Votes ,3.94 Score
The Pressure   2/2/2005

What i have found in i guess my little experience dating is that with all the excitement and anxiety of a first date there is also another element it is the pressure one feels on a first date. Thinking, "will be we be able to talk to one another?" will he like me? will i like him? what does he expect?... these are the things i'm sure goes through every single person right before or while ...


1 Comments, 695 Views, 32 Votes ,5.58 Score
luvs2eatpussy56 68 M
7  Articles
Losing my virginity   2/1/2005

I was a virgin until I was 20. I was in the Air Force stationed in Knob Noster MO. Because of my shyness the only way I could communicate with women was through letters. This happened in 1975. I was writing to this black woman in Arkansas. She was 18 years older than me. At the time all I could think about was sex and how horny I was. I was masturbating at least 3 times a day. ...


0 Comments, 700 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
Dave190059 64 M
1  Article
Not looking for a BBW   2/1/2005

I've met a few women off of SEXFinder.com. For the most part, my experiences have been good. Let me say that I am in good shape with a medium build. Larger women are just a real turnoff for me. I tried once and could not even get an erection. Physically i just cannot have sex with a large woman. <br> So I met this one woman who said a 'few extra pounds'. She ended up to be very large. I ...


4 Comments, 591 Views, 17 Votes ,0.44 Score
A fantastic date with a "newbie"   1/30/2005

I had a fantastic date with a guy who is a "newbie" on SEXFinder.com. This was his first date, and I am so happy that I could be the very first. I wish to "show him the ways" of the fun I have found on SEXFinder.com. The date started out great , with us playing pool and having a couple of drinks. I made sure to bend over very nicely for him with each shot I attempted. I can't play pool worth a shit, but I ...


2 Comments, 1440 Views, 49 Votes ,6.09 Score
rm_gallantkl 55 M
9  Articles
Last Minute   1/30/2005

We met through a site much like this and chatted online for about one month. She would usually messenger me when she can and we'll chat, arousing each other, saying things like we were lovers. <br> Then we decided to meet up. We planned to meet up at a shopping mall and then adjourned to a hotel nearby. <br> I booked the hotel and the day arrived. I waited for her ...


0 Comments, 251 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
luvs2eatpussy56 68 M
7  Articles
First date with a BBW   1/30/2005

My first date with a BBW took place in Boise Idaho. She was about 450 pounds. I remember when her friend drove her to my place to visit me for the first time. She was into some kinky things. Well not to be outdone, I had some toys of my own. She got all hot and bothered when I inserted a dildo into my ass. She took some photos for her collection. It got her so hot that she gave the ...


1 Comments, 609 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
want2watchu2003 56 M
2  Articles
A first date 1   1/28/2005

I picked her up at home and went out to dinner. Went to pick up some beer. After a few drinks things started happening. We went to my house and started talking moved on to kissing.


0 Comments, 401 Views, 10 Votes
AutumnX1000 38 F
1  Article
Complete Honesty   1/27/2005

I cannot stress this enough, on a first date it is so important to be honest. When I say complete honesty I’m not talking about avoiding those extravagant lies, like attending Yale on a cross-country scholarship or go mountain biking with starving orphans in your spare time. When meeting someone new you must be honest with portraying your personality. If you are sarcastic, be ...


3 Comments, 865 Views, 50 Votes ,6.85 Score
jadakisww 50 M
1  Article
Like it or Dislike   1/26/2005

I have nothing against safe sex but I hate condoms, I guess you just have to Know who your fucking, or not worry about it.


1 Comments, 163 Views, 8 Votes
The perfect Match???   1/24/2005

I have been surfing this site for about a month know, and it amazes me how people view themselves compared to others. Average Joe wants a super model, 40 yr olds won't look at anybody over 30, and plain Jane wants a Chippin' Dale, but only if he well hung. Call me crazy, but I think our expectation are aimed a little too high. I would love to meet someone like that, but can't seem to get ...


1 Comments, 397 Views, 16 Votes ,6.36 Score
How to get a date on this website?   1/23/2005

How can a guy get a date on this website, any tips you women out there can give us guys. I want a decent dirty woman who can fuck all night long and still want some more during the day. The kind of woman who would ambush me as soon as you walk through the door, ripe off my clothes and ride me with her hot, wet, silky and smooth pussy.


0 Comments, 803 Views, 31 Votes ,2.38 Score
mtgluver 36 M
2  Articles
scary   1/22/2005

first dates are always scary...you go out...your nervous...then you find out she has b/f and your shit outta luck


0 Comments, 201 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Knowing what you are really getting into.   1/22/2005

Not sure if I am just too catious or not. How many people here are going to say whatever they need to to get you to meet. Whether or not I am what they are looking for I put it out there and let you decide. I wish that more people would just lay it on the line, excactly what they are all about. I guess you never really know until you meet. Whishing it wasn't so.


0 Comments, 356 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
meeting peaple   1/21/2005

i am a manx man who has had no success or meetings as yet is this because the isle of man is to small and would i have better luck if i was to maybe travel to the mainland?


0 Comments, 354 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
fucked for the first time   1/20/2005

In an attempt to satisfy my horniness, I decided to join this website. It wasn't long before had had plenty of guys begging to meet me. I was nervous, though. First of all - who were these guys? I wasn't too keen on just meeting just any guy. And, hile I was incredibly horny, I was still a virgin. Tired of masturbating and longing to have some cock, I wandered into a chat room. ...


4 Comments, 3605 Views, 127 Votes ,8.29 Score
How far is to far.. and are there limits?   1/20/2005

I was on a date at one time with someone i had just meet a couple days prior.. During the date she was flirty and seemed she was coming on to me. But i wasnt sure. Are there signs to tell if they want it.. and signs if they dont.. because at the end of our date we didnt do anything except a goodnight kiss. But i didnt want to have a one night stand.. Can you ask the person if they want to ...


0 Comments, 353 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
annarborgoth 45 M
0  Articles
My Ass Hurts And My Knees Are Weak   1/19/2005

The only date I've had off the Dilly went rather poorly. She kept calling and begging me to come over and meet her, but even though I was not really in the dating mood at the time, I caved in to stop her from calling. It was flattering but annoying! I hate when people call three times a day; once is more than enough! When I went over to her apartment, we sipped some beers and chit chatted ...


2 Comments, 920 Views, 23 Votes ,1.96 Score
Define first dates...   1/19/2005

I've been stalking this woman for about three months. I've watched her dress, bath and fuck secretly almost everyday (except Christmas and Arbor Day). But now that her boyfriend had that unfortunate drive-by shooting accident, and is no longer in the picture (or even among the living), I have gotten the nerve to ask her out. Does this qualify as our first date? I just want to know what to ...


0 Comments, 500 Views, 14 Votes
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
learning from dating   1/18/2005

Just as life, you can learn from a bad experience (bad date), as well as the good...it may help you understand better what you are and aren't looking for in your next date, so that you choose someone that is more compatable to you. so, on your next bad date, chaulk it up to a learning experience. also, make sure you get to know someone online and on the phone before you actually meet ...


1 Comments, 238 Views, 18 Votes ,3.94 Score
how was your first encounter   1/18/2005

Many new members join this site every day and I am curious on how people acted during their first encounter? Where was it held? Was the person as attractive/unattractive as they appeared in photos? Were you pleased with how they performed and was it clear on what you wanted?


3 Comments, 317 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
get the digits   1/18/2005

If you plan to meet someone from this site and you have been chatting via email for a while, make sure you are able to get their phone number before meeting...first of all, you want to make sure the person is who they say they are, as far as a man or woman, old or young, etc, and also, if they are running late or don't show you have a way to contact them, so that you don't have to wait ...


1 Comments, 900 Views, 54 Votes ,5.55 Score
Have you noticed...   1/17/2005

Have you noticed that all of these people who do not have photographs all look the same. Check it out. They all have the same outline and shape. What's that all about? Is it the same person? Could we all be the same fucking loser?? O my God, I hope not. I don't want to be "Cock4U" from Seattle. He's a sick fucking bastard. Please God, don't let it be this way....


2 Comments, 130 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
the eyes have it....   1/16/2005

On the first date, the most important thing you can do is to maintain eye contact. Not the scary, Charles Manson kind, but solid interested eye contact. That is the key to person, whether or not they can look you in the eye when they are bullshitting you. Whether they can pretend that you are interesting and attractive, and still stare you in the peepers. A girl that can do that is a ...


0 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
glad I did it   1/16/2005

I just had to share my experience. I have been chatting with guys for a few weeks as I want to find a guy for sex. Yes I am being honest, I dont want a long term relationship, been there done that got the t shirt. I want sex, sure if the guy is generous and kind then thats a bonus but I want sex and as I get older I want more and more!!! <br> I arranged to meet a guy today, my ...


6 Comments, 1536 Views, 39 Votes ,6.66 Score
First meeting with Zoom968   1/16/2005

Finally, after numerous emails, text messages and phone calls our schedules permitted us to meet.I sat in my car anxiously awaiting his arrival, I glimpsed his car parking and felt a tingle of excitement rush through my body. Well the moment of truth is here our eyes met and we both grinned in mutual admiration.I invited him into my car as we were conversing, I noticed his sexy full lips ...


1 Comments, 830 Views, 29 Votes ,3.64 Score
First meeting with Zoom968   1/15/2005

Finally after much email and telephone foreplay our schedules permitted us to meet. As he approached my car I could feel the tingle of excitement rush through my body, we glanced into eachothers eyes and smiled. I could tell we were both feeling alittle awkward so I invited him into my car to talk. He was so polite trying not to stare at my breasts. We ended up passionately kissing and our ...


1 Comments, 402 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
First MM experience   1/14/2005

I am a guy. I'm curious about being with another guy. I have never acted on my curiosity, but I am thinking about trying to get a date. I should also add that I am pretty shy at first. What shoud I do at a first meeting? Should I get to know the guy for a couple meetings, or do we get naked on the first date?


3 Comments, 666 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
rayshot007 58 M
3  Articles
Black Men Get Raw Deal With Other Races, Why ?   1/12/2005

Well Ive Been a member now since September, and i find it real strange that as much as i try to meet talk or just give and recieve mail to the opposite sex there seem to be a problem, so being bold as i am i decided to write about it here. <br> At first i tried to be real friendly and caring in my initial communications to various women but after a short while it seemed to fall ...


3 Comments, 336 Views, 13 Votes ,5.66 Score
rm_niplguy 60 M
2  Articles
food poisoning???   1/12/2005

Most people contract some form of food poisoning at least once a year. Most of the time the symptoms are mild, and can even be mistaken for a 24 hour flu bug. Other times, the symptoms are similar to one having a very bad case of the flu, but rarely do people ever need to go to the hospital for food poisoning. <br> Just by its nature, the probability of contracting food ...


0 Comments, 108 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
Soft Skin   1/9/2005

It was a few years ago when I went out to meet a nice woman I know, with whom I had sex once and a while. She was working in a small club. She told me on the phone before that her girlfriend would be there too. I thought that is ok with me, and did not expect anything. I was sitting on a barstool and my arm touched the arm of this "girlfriend" by accident. She had so soft skin, and I was ...


0 Comments, 419 Views, 13 Votes ,1.30 Score
Had my first date with a couple!   1/9/2005

I had my first date with a couple (man & woman) on Saturday. They are very attractive, very secure in their relationship, and she called all of the shots. I liked that. He made sure that we were all comforatble before, during and after the date. I have never been with a woman before, so I am sure I was a bit like a nevous 13 year old boy, when I kissed her, and asked silly questions like ...


6 Comments, 1879 Views, 84 Votes ,6.46 Score
The first step   1/8/2005

So here we go. Something has attracted you that has caused a reaction, you heart start to beats a little faster. Shall I, shan't I? Do it! Dont worry that you may not be perfect, you've been overlooked for films, perfect breats and butt, or a 10" dong and a body to die for? <br> Dont think so, there are some dirty B******** out there but as a norm most people want to have a ...


0 Comments, 129 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
nippleluvr2004 61 F
1  Article
The Head Nurse   1/6/2005

My first encounter with a woman was absolutely fabulous. We both happened to be online one morning and arranged a meeting. She showed up right on time and took over. She gave me the best head I've ever had, and now I'm starving for more.


0 Comments, 1047 Views, 39 Votes ,0.96 Score
First Date or First Meeting?   1/6/2005

Wouldn't it better just to call it a frist meeting? Date seems more like a must do..must finish get together, with an expected response of sorts before the evening is over. <br> Why should any of us feel obligated to do this or that or make the right kind of impressions? Let's be honest with one another from the start. <br> Make it clear that you're going to meet one ...


3 Comments, 749 Views, 57 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_TimTim41188 34 M
2  Articles
The first thing you need to know, as soon as the date starts!   1/5/2005

The first thing you need to know, as soon as the date starts is if he/ she is more comfortable with being the one whereing the pants! If a man opens the door for a girl and is rather talkative, but not to talkative then he is more comfortable being dominant! And having you partner comfortable is by far the most important part to the first date!


0 Comments, 207 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
hornystud6904 50 M
4  Articles
Do's and don'ts of a first date.   1/5/2005

Some first dates turn into a second date. Some first dates turn into a total disaster. That all depends on the guy; Some guys do not have any common sense when it comes to making a first impression on a woman. When taking a first date out you want to totally take control of where to go. Don't ask your date for suggestions on where to go.If you do that she will think that you are totally ...


0 Comments, 180 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
hornystud6904 50 M
4  Articles
Do's and don'ts of a first date.   1/5/2005

Some first dates turn into a second date. Some first dates turn into a total disaster. That all depends on the guy; Some guys do not have any common sense when it comes to making a first impression on a woman. When taking a first date out you want to totally take control of where to go. Don't ask your date for suggestions on where to go.If you do that she will think that you are ...


3 Comments, 620 Views, 33 Votes ,3.70 Score
Perfect First Dates?   1/4/2005

I was wondering what people consider to be the best place to take a girl on a first date, here are my views : <br> Cinema : Not good as a first date, unless you double it up with a bar or something. For the simple reason you can't really talk to your date at all, good for subsequent dates where the movie can take a back seat! <br> Bar : Good, the quieter the better in ...


0 Comments, 111 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_havoc_022 44 F
5  Articles
Lunch dates   1/4/2005

Lunch dates are by far the best way to go..this way if things arent working out there is less akwardness when its time to go ..there is no goodnight kiss..alot less pressure..defnatly something i try to stick to..and hey if your having a great time you can moce it all the way through dinner..just some friendly advice for those who hate the first date akwardness


2 Comments, 428 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
Not what I exspected   1/3/2005

One evening chating online I got a phone call from a girl i meet online about a week before. She was a hottie for sure. She surpized me with what she said next. She wanted me to meet her at a motel about 30 miles from my house at 2 am. She said she could use a friend to keep her company till she felt like driving again. I was there in 15 minutes easy. I showed up and she answered the door, ...


1 Comments, 738 Views, 20 Votes ,1.59 Score
Be Yourself   1/2/2005

Be natural and just be yourself. If the chemistry is there it will naturally come through. If not, there's not much you can do about it.


0 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
my first time.   1/2/2005

The first woman i ever had sex with had me over to her house to spilt wood .it was in the summer and very hot all i wore was some cutoff jeans.as i was getting most of the wood split she asked me in to the house for some lemonade.she had on a loose top that was just tied between her breasts and they looked so nice and soft moving around in that shirt.she bent over when she handed me my ...


3 Comments, 671 Views, 14 Votes ,6.18 Score
OurSmallSecret 47 M
1  Article
Rule #1 Listen   1/1/2005

RULE #1 The Art of Listening <br> Are you a chatter box or a listener? In a 15 minute conversation to you take up 14.6 of the minutes? Have you been told that you have the gift of gab? Well, perhaps you are not being complimented and are not a good listener. The amazing thing about people is that they love to talk about themselves. Society today has created an environment of ...


0 Comments, 101 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
njyounglovers 45 C
3  Articles
me and my bf   1/1/2005

the first time we meet we where at my moms house it was love at first sight. we have now been together for about 2 years now. I am so happy.


0 Comments, 334 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
ice breakers   12/31/2004

What kinds of things are good things to do for a first date. Some thing that is an ice breaker so you can get to know someone.


1 Comments, 463 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
First BiSexual 3some (part 2)   12/28/2004

So now he and I stood at the edge of the bed as she was on her knees sucking both of us.... <br> She stood up and kissed me softly and then kissed her husband softly. She pulled us by our cocks onto the bed. She layed on her back and motioned me to her pussy with her finger, " eat my pussy" she giggled. Her pussy was beautiful, wet, pink, perfectly trimmed. I was dizzy with ...


0 Comments, 911 Views, 24 Votes ,6.20 Score
First BiSexual 3some (part 3)   12/28/2004

I'm on the bed missionary position, legs being held spread eagle, lube oozing out of my ass, and I guided his huge cock to my little virgin brown starfish... <br> I feel the pressure from his penis head pushing in and I closed my eyes. Slowly my sphinter began to streeeetch. Damn it hurt like hell! I was telling myself to relax, but my butt kept pushing against him. He felt ...


1 Comments, 1079 Views, 37 Votes ,7.30 Score
SplitTailLuvr 71 M
10  Articles
My first BBW internet date   12/25/2004

My very first Internet date was with a younger BBW I had met on a local yahoo group over three years ago. She was divorced with two teenage , living about an hour and half's drive from where I lived. She stood about 5'4", shoulder length blond hair and deep blue eyes. <br> We had been communicating for a couple of weeks before we made a date on a Saturday morning. She said that ...


1 Comments, 455 Views, 37 Votes ,5.95 Score
rm_pinklady1969 54 F
4  Articles
My first date with a woman to woman   12/24/2004

I had to re-do this article because of stupid SEXFinder.com somehow refreshed it and it went gone! LOL. <br> Now since 7 years old when I first saw playboy magazine in the attic of my aunt's home, I fell in love with women's pussies and beautiful boobs. However, the playboy magazines were so boring already by the time I discovered Hustler magazine introducing real-alike pussy licking deep. ...


2 Comments, 1156 Views, 82 Votes ,3.47 Score
SplitTailLuvr 71 M
10  Articles
Our first meeting...   12/23/2004

I had met this younger gal on a yahoo group that I belong to. We had communicated with each other for a couple of weeks and she lived about a two hour drive from me. We finally made a date for me to come out to where she lived so we could meet. She lived with her boyfriend outside of a small farming community. I half jokingly said to her, that if she was serious about things, that she ...


1 Comments, 477 Views, 34 Votes ,4.86 Score
BiScotty 54 M
7  Articles
first meet   12/23/2004

what are a few common first meeting do's and dont's when swinging?


0 Comments, 245 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
First Bisexual 3some (part 1)   12/23/2004

My first 3some with a bisexual married couple was also my first bisexual experience. Last year, I became overwhelmingly bi curious. I experimented with toys and got on SEXFinder.com and started check'n out other options. Instantly men wanted to "break me in" and I admit I flaked out a lot on single m/m hook-ups because I got scared. <br> But after some time on SEXFinder.com and customizing my profile ...


1 Comments, 1242 Views, 45 Votes ,6.30 Score
What did I do wrong?   12/23/2004

I recently had a first (and last) date with a lady whose profile I found here in SEXFinder.com. I received her profile via cupid, we apparently were a perfect match, I wrote to her, she replied, we continued emailing to each other for a while and finally decided to meet in a restaurant, have dinner, chat... During the dinner everything went well, we had a good time, and both seemed very comfortable ...


18 Comments, 1411 Views, 59 Votes ,5.54 Score
First Date Fun   12/21/2004

If one goes all the way on a first date should you count the person out for a long term relationship


5 Comments, 235 Views, 13 Votes ,0.63 Score
rm_hschia 31 M
1  Article
meet a girl at net   12/21/2004

it is my first time make a date with a girl online. that day i meet her on the supermarket. then we go to shopping....she look so perfect 36d 25 35 for me. i feel horny all the time with her. i ask her can i go to her house she say i will call u later tell u. <br> after few days, she call me come to her house. when i came to her house, she just wearing sexy and pajami waiting ...


1 Comments, 373 Views, 35 Votes
Seems we have known eachother a lifetime, but tonight we meet   12/20/2004

You start your journey at 4:30 in the afternoon by stopping at a couple of exclusive shops before making the long awaited drive to a destination of love, passion, bonding, and sex. Your whole being was in shambles as, finally at last you were to show your true affection and devotion. While driving on the highway, you thought of everything the two of us had shared all the way back to ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Seems we have known eachother a lifetime, part 2   12/20/2004

Laying there within your embrace, You use your finger and start to circle it around my nipples, enticing them to harden. I am surprised with myself when I begin to feel my cock twitching, coming to life again. It has been a long time since I have felt this aroused. Granted, our conversations were very erotic and easy to visualize that on several occasions it was easy to become fully ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
What happened to the sex life?   12/17/2004

Ok, here’s the low down. I joined SEXFinder.com.com right after we separated. Every month or so I would access the site and see what/who is out there. Last week my wife had asked me to take some photos of my anatomy so that she would have something to look at during her “private moments.” I told her she was crazy, but on the inside this excited me. So, when she ...


1 Comments, 198 Views, 31 Votes
rm_rooster1967 52 M
1  Article
My Neighbor Upstairs.   12/17/2004

I met her online and gave her my phone number. She called me shortly thereafter, and it was then we discovered we lived in the same building. She lived two floors above me. She agreed to come down for a cup of hot chocolate. when she got to the door, she was wearing a loose t-shirt and sweats. when she came past me to enter, her perfume nearly buckled my knees. It was that good. As we ...


1 Comments, 539 Views, 49 Votes ,4.73 Score
flash51167 56 M
5  Articles
that boby was calling me   12/16/2004

I started my new job as a private security guard so when i went in for my fingerprints I noticed the receptionist looking at me off and on .I didn't waste any time I wrote down my number on a flyer that i had in my bag and gave it to her. shesort of by passed the picture on the front and went to the back as if she knew that my number was there. so about a week later she called me and asked ...


0 Comments, 204 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
when and where.   12/16/2004

I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that she bring a friend if she ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 22 Votes ,3.85 Score
My first dates --Great   12/6/2004

I travel to a city on business about 150 miles from my home. I have not had much luck meeting ladies in my local area so I decided to try the city 150 miles away. I did the regular SEXFinder.com thing and able to arrange two dates over a three week period. <br> One of the ladies was a lady in her 50's as I am. We met at a local resturant to see if we were going any further. After dinner ...


0 Comments, 291 Views, 46 Votes ,4.45 Score
t1bridge4th 45 M
4  Articles
Great Expression Smile   12/5/2004

I was chat with a lady here in SEXFinder.com, when she wrote. what are you doing tomorrow. Said fucking you. She give me her phone and name and told me to meet her for drinks. We met but not for drinks. In the parking lot I saw her car so I walk up to it and got in. There she was a sexy red head, with some sexy lips between her legs. Man I was just shock, so she asked me what was I thing. I told her ...


1 Comments, 335 Views, 66 Votes ,0.89 Score
rm_jeepoffRD 50 M
6  Articles
first dates are the best   12/5/2004

There is no feeling like the firt time you meet some one. There is always that feeling of wonder aboutwhat thay are thinking about you. Then when things fall into place and you hit it off WOW what a rush.


0 Comments, 76 Views, 20 Votes ,5.17 Score
Worst dates ever!!!   12/5/2004

Tell us about some of your worst first dates ever. What went wrong? What was the turning point? Give us your crazy dating stories even if they weren't first dates.


1 Comments, 82 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
Don't judge everyone on looks   12/3/2004

I don't know about you but I've met some great people on SEXFinder.com and believe me the way they discibed themselves or the pics the submitted weren't always accurate. However I will say that I've met women who are not the prettiest who have been the sexiest and willing to try new things on many occasions. So I've learned to not judge just on the person's looks and to always give them a chance and ...


7 Comments, 227 Views, 68 Votes ,7.49 Score
How do you get that first date.   12/1/2004

I have been on this site for about six months, I have several friends in my network, but nothing else. How do you get someone to respond to the first date question and get them to go out with you. I would really like this site to help me, as I am really getting frustrated. Anyone got any ideas.


4 Comments, 73 Views, 29 Votes ,1.84 Score
bathandbristol 60 M
5  Articles
sex or not on a 1st date   12/1/2004

Can any of you relate to this? As a male, I have found that if you are on a 1st date with a woman then it is about 50/50 if she will have sex but then quite likely on the second but if a guy is bi and meets another guy then goes one goes to the others house, the likelyhood of sex is more likely to be about 95%. Is this true for most or is it just me? I wonder also if this is the same for ...


8 Comments, 209 Views, 66 Votes ,2.99 Score
do you put out on first date   11/30/2004

Does a woman put out on the first date or is she considered easy?


14 Comments, 187 Views, 47 Votes ,6.05 Score
First Hook Up from SEXFinder.com vs. First Hook Up from Your Mother   11/29/2004

OK, before I continue would most not disagree that there MAY be a difference here? I mean, your average conservative person looking for a date may not tend to stumble upon SEXFinder.com... looking for that "dinner and a movie" then if you're lucky that kiss good night... mission accomplished, let's move on to the dreaded second date and MAYBE first base in sight... <br> Mom would be proud, ...


3 Comments, 364 Views, 69 Votes ,7.08 Score
what do women like to do?   11/27/2004

what would be the ideal first date in college? dinner and drinks, dinner and a movie, just going out for drinks?


1 Comments, 160 Views, 39 Votes ,2.02 Score
dreammeetthe1 77 F
7  Articles
Personality profiles   11/26/2004

Who has checkout how well the personality profiles work to match people? Please tell me about your experiences with meeting you personality "MATCH?"


1 Comments, 63 Views, 20 Votes ,2.61 Score
my first time   11/26/2004

omg i really wasnt sure if i was ready my first time but it was so perfect that i couldnt miss the opportunity. my boyfriend and i went to his dads wedding and then of course the newlywed couple was off on honeymoon so the apartement was vacant...and we were all dressed up and had just come from a great night together and so i told my mom it was too late for her to pick me up and that i ...


2 Comments, 467 Views, 91 Votes ,5.77 Score
Daddy_n_snowbear 73 C
2  Articles
First Date   11/25/2004

I had "met" him in an SEXFinder.com Chat room and we had talked for hours when "R" told me he had to go , he had to be at work in 6 hours and and he was leaving for Holiday for 2 weeks and would be back an he woudl love to talk to me again. When R returned we resumed our friendship and started making plans for mt to visit him there, in his country. Finally the day arrives, he has todl me he has a ...


0 Comments, 322 Views, 55 Votes ,5.32 Score
Kindness   11/25/2004

I usually like the guys who ask you where you would like to go and such that seems to have an effect on the impression you get course...the old fashioned guys would open your door and such that get great marks I think also.


5 Comments, 235 Views, 108 Votes ,7.18 Score
She is amazing! A romantic story...   11/24/2004

Here is a story to make anyone with doubt find hope! I joined SEXFinder.com on a whim one day, I suppose just to see what kind of people were in my area. Sure I had heard the stories - both good and bad - but figured, what the heck, you never know until you try. <br> The first night on the site I was doing the 'surf' - and there she was! Wow, the picture caught my eye (still go back and ...


2 Comments, 233 Views, 32 Votes ,7.65 Score
Do relationships of SEXFinder.com last   11/24/2004

Since I am a newbie I hope you wont laugh to hard at this question. Do relationships on SEXFinder.com last? <br> It seems to me that they would be transient by nature. That most would fufill their need and move on leaving only memories. <br> Has any one kept a partner from here? Are you willing to elaborate?


2 Comments, 91 Views, 36 Votes ,6.60 Score
First Meeting   11/23/2004

After long email/IM contact with this person, I am wondering the safe way of meeting them face to face -- Any help out there?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
Make it nice   11/22/2004

Make sure when a guy takes you out that he treats you nicely.


4 Comments, 153 Views, 59 Votes ,3.68 Score
Blue Dress buttoned up the front   11/18/2004

She worked with me, and came over to drop off some work at my apartment. It was new and I didn't have a bed yet, and she lookd around the bedroom. She made some remark, like what people at the office would think, her being there and I said "Well, you know, there's no bed, " and she said so what and smiled. I was on the floor sitting and rubbed her behind the knee its so soft there it was ...


0 Comments, 190 Views, 48 Votes ,3.72 Score
MrJustAGuy 39 M
1  Article
Kissing on the first date   11/17/2004

How do you make the move to kiss on the date? Is it ok to kiss on the first date? I'm inexperienced and don't know.


0 Comments, 43 Views, 25 Votes ,3.13 Score
First dates and sex !   11/16/2004

I have been on many dates over the years and have had sex on the first date many times. My question is how many of you have less respect for a person if they sleep with you on the first date versus making you wait until the second or third ? If you continue dating and even get serious, is a woman who sleeps with you on the first date more likely to cheat on you in the future or could it be ...


7 Comments, 145 Views, 47 Votes ,7.74 Score
rm_shezamystry 66 F
8  Articles
first date.... last needed! ??????   11/15/2004

First date... last needed? Sweet seduction over the lines, emails answering my wink, cute lil thumbnails of Him and His StormDog, The Shark was circling and lulling me in His wake. i of course had no idea; i was new at this stuff. So naively i took all to heart. To private messenger we went. One certain sentence still stands out! The rest all moving me towards His lair ‒or wherever ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 31 Votes ,5.35 Score
rm_shezamystry 66 F
8  Articles
First date.... last date.   11/15/2004

First date.... last date. <br> <br> Respectful and interesting, even, but no chemistry to be seen, heard or felt. Before we left for the meet, we knew there would be no play that day. Within minutes of seeing each other we knew there’d be none at all anyway. A Gent he was. Naww He didn’t open doors for me or a lot of all that which i happen to like, butttt ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 54 Votes ,7.62 Score
sex   11/15/2004

on my first date i try to suck her ass, if she says no then theres no second date


0 Comments, 61 Views, 35 Votes ,0.68 Score
Great First Dates for me...   11/15/2004

A first date, should be getting to know the person your with, good communication, finding out if your compatible, seeing if there is chemistry between you, and basically relax and enjoy the night. Sometimes it takes a few dates to really understand what's going through a persons mind.


2 Comments, 105 Views, 55 Votes ,6.25 Score
standing in the light   11/14/2004

i went to a party that i didnt want to go un-awhere what what going to happen. my mate drag to a big party i was invited too but he drag me along we brought some lager and beers to buy our way in the party was in full swing which was good as i cought hide away from the host and enjoy the party. i saw sexy girl looking at me around about midnight she walk over and started to chat small ...


0 Comments, 175 Views, 26 Votes ,3.35 Score
chitown69us 57 C
6  Articles
stripper and couples   11/14/2004

I'm a part-time exotic dancer and I can speak for most (but not all) dancers when I say this. Guys, GO AHEAD AND BRING YOUR LADIES to the strip club!! I love to see women watch me perform. There is a right and wrong way to do this however. The wrong way would be to bring your lady when she's not in the mood, or to ignore her once you get there! Instead, talk sexy about both the dancer and ...


3 Comments, 449 Views, 124 Votes ,8.59 Score
My Lover, My Buddy   11/12/2004

The meeting of two new lovers was fresh on my mind, knowing that after our initial first acquaintance, soon the passion which I felt, and I hoped that he felt would be there the next time we engaged. The intellectual intercourse we had at the candy store was most comfortable, making me yearn for his touch, his warmth, his passion. I thought to myself, can this handsome man be for real? ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 36 Votes ,7.73 Score
keith40505 60 M
7  Articles
Getting the straight guy (ok Bi guy MM)   11/12/2004

I met him my first day on the job. He as a punk. Shaved head though, but heavily tatooed and pierced. He was sex on a stick. He was a real flirt with the ladies. He was always making them melt with his charms. But he had a softer edge when it was just me and him. He let it slip that he was not 100% straight. It was then I decided to take a slow road. For the next few weeks, we'd ...


2 Comments, 452 Views, 32 Votes ,5.58 Score
Pulling out during an encounter.   11/11/2004

I met an older lady on SEXFinder.com. She was a housewife in her 40's and I'm in my 30's. She had never met anyone on here before and we chatted for a few months befor we met. She was reluctant to meet anyone and always said that she needed someone to come over and ravage her and leave her dripping wet. Anyway she finally invited me over to her house. We talked for a awhile and then I started ...


2 Comments, 254 Views, 32 Votes ,5.49 Score
Fell For It   11/7/2004

She seemed like the perfect date for me. We exchanged emails several times after she responded to my initial inquiry and agreed to meet for dinner on a Thursday night in Fairhope, AL. It took some kind of planning for me to rearrange my work schedule to be in her area at the designated time. After driving 175 miles out of my way to meet her at 6 PM , she failed to show up. No call...no ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 27 Votes ,5.34 Score
The Meeting (A True Encounter)   11/6/2004

I can barely contain my smile as I knock on the room door knowing that you are waiting for me. My anticipation has been building all day knowing that it would culminate in our being together. I wonder what your thoughts have been and if you have been anticipating being together as much as I. I wonder what you will be wearing and what you are doing as you wait for me. I wonder what ...


2 Comments, 141 Views, 26 Votes ,5.61 Score
The Outback, and then Out Back   11/6/2004

My dream first date would be taking a lady out to dinner at the Outback Steakhouse and then to a movie. After this it would be great to bring her back to my place and get some. But if not, thats cool too. I can take it slow!


0 Comments, 60 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
ouch   11/5/2004

I recently went out with a woman that I knew from highschool.She was the most popular girl there and the prettiest in town.She meets me at my place driven there by her ex-boyfriend the next thing i know hes coming along for the ride we get to the restaurant she starts coming on hot and heavy to me.The next thing I know im fighting said ex he leaves then she comes back to my place we do it ...


3 Comments, 538 Views, 39 Votes ,6.09 Score
justbrowsing15 47 M
1  Article
New to SEXFinder.com   11/4/2004

Hi everyone! <br> I'm new to SEXFinder.com, and I'm trying to find out how to go about meeting people. When you aren't a Silver/Gold member it seems to be quite difficult. When I see someone that I'm interested in by searching is there a way that I can let them know that I'm interested. I know that I might get more attention by posting a picture I simply need to try to remain discrete. ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 37 Votes ,7.55 Score
3somfun4u 55 C
1  Article
why are people never themselves?   11/3/2004

You ever noticed how plastic a person can be on a first date? It's like a in church, on their best behavior, with their plastic smile..why can't they be themselves?


3 Comments, 50 Views, 59 Votes ,8.16 Score
rm_RebelRoka67 52 M
10  Articles
how can do u pick a "PrickTeasers"   11/3/2004

Since becoming disabled, I have had several women say to me how genuine they are, only to find out that they are just stringing me along for the ride. It is so hard for me to fully trust women now. How can i tell if they truelly are genuine? <br> Personally, i dont think there is a way - do you?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 19 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_firedarkOxxx 50 M
1  Article
why first is not as good as third   11/3/2004

whenever I meet a new partner it takes a few days till we get to make each other come heavily why it s rear to happen on first date.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 18 Votes ,2.44 Score
wish I could get a first date   11/2/2004

comeing back at this again you guys are right so women what do we do?you are looking for men married or not why do you ingnore us? are we meaning us men saying the wrong things or are you that picky or you only looking for rich and gooding looking guys because if so then in are looking for very shollow men, and if so you then you all are liveing in a dream world that can hurt you more than ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
Advice wanted as I approach my first date   11/1/2004

I will hopefully be going on a date with someone from this site very, very soon. <br> Anyone with any advice on how to approach this first meeting would please me if they could offer advice


2 Comments, 5 Views, 6 Votes
wish I could get a first date from SEXFinder.com   10/29/2004

My wife has gotten three men from SEXFinder.com but I haven't gotten any at all any tips on how to succeed?


4 Comments, 40 Views, 23 Votes ,4.18 Score
rm_Baby3755 42 F
3  Articles
My First Date   10/27/2004

My first date was so romantic. He picked me up and pampered me and opened my door. He was a great gentleman and made me feel good. I just want to give advice to the guys and tell them to respect their girl and love her.


3 Comments, 519 Views, 50 Votes ,4.37 Score
sex.sex.sex   10/27/2004

Sex on the 1st date is great, but i think it hurts the relationship every 1st date that i have had sex on has turned out not to last


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
first SEXFinder.com meeting   10/26/2004

I had replied to a profile and the wife contacted me, we arranged to meet for coffee and see if we hit it off and then ... She was interested so we went to a motel where I proceeded to undress her as she was slowly removing my clothes too. After a short while mutually caressing we moved to the bed and got to know each other a bit better. The little noises she made as my hand s moved over ...


0 Comments, 135 Views, 56 Votes ,4.25 Score
rm_cliss30 48 M
1  Article
How far to go?   10/23/2004

I'm about to meet someone after only a short while chatting online, is it sensible to go all out on the first date or to wait and build up slowly? I'm open about sex and have a healthy mind, body and soul when it comes to sex... I'm not looking for long term love, I choose people that like me are looking for more fun out of life...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 40 Votes ,5.87 Score
New to SEXFinder.com, what works for 1st meeting?   10/22/2004

I am new to SEXFinder.com and have begun getting responses. From the voices of experience, what works out good for a first meeting? After a few online chats, where were you comfortable meeting someone for sex.


0 Comments, 6 Views, 32 Votes ,1.93 Score
First Move   10/21/2004

Why is it always up to the guy to make the first move? Sometimes I get a little nervous and wonder would it hurt for once if the woman made the first move.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 24 Votes ,6.65 Score
maidenvoyage35 54 F
3  Articles
The Kiss   10/21/2004

We met for drinks at a bar. His smile made my legs weak. We sat down at a table in the corner - away from the hustle. He was talking to me, but I didn't hear a word he was saying. All I could think about was how his lips were going to taste...how sweet and hot and wet. My eyes were locked there and he smiled. My heart jumped as I realized he was asking me a question...obviously not the ...


0 Comments, 203 Views, 65 Votes ,7.41 Score
LatinnFrench 57 C
2  Articles
Red Alert, Listen to this!   10/21/2004

If you meet somebody that you really like, and you want to have a serious relationship, that will last then I advice you that don't sleep with him the first time you go out, it is important you tease him and seduce him in a good way, look at him, stand up and walk very close to him, whisper to him, touch his hand, feel close to his body, but only tease, healthy tease, and if he also wants ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 44 Votes ,6.87 Score
Sex on first date....   10/21/2004

There are alot of guys out there that like sex on a first date. In ways, that sometimes makes a lady feel cheap if she goes along with it. I don't want to feel like a slut either if I do go along on a first date. What would you do in this case? Have sex or wait?


3 Comments, 233 Views, 82 Votes ,6.24 Score
rm_DRFFILLGOOD 42 M
1  Article
Should one go down on the first date?   10/18/2004

My friends, I've have been wondering for some time now if the majority the members here consider "going down" on the first date "taboo?". Though many of us use our membership to get laid on the first date, I find that alot of the encounters that I have come in to will not go down nor want to receive it. "Straight to the sex". By in my own personal opinion, oral sex is a ...


3 Comments, 60 Views, 27 Votes ,6.40 Score
discribe your first date and tee what happened,did it go good or bad   10/17/2004

my first date was great we went out to a movie then went to my house to cook her a romantic dinner , after dinner we sat and talked about each other to find our likes and dislikes and had disert, we clicked and then started to kiss and hold each other close , she then was rubbing we all over then we ended up doing each other.so my first date was the best, we ended up to be best friends.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
a succuss story   10/17/2004

I actually wanted to let every member out there know that this site works. I found my current boyfriend or should I say he found me here. He sent me a message in May and then we messaged for a while. We didn't met durning that time. He went back to an old girlfriend I never let this one go thou I messaged him and said send a message if you ever are in the area. And he did he had broke up ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 42 Votes ,6.39 Score
Where are we meeting again?   10/13/2004

Where do most friends that have met on SEXFinder.com go for first dates? I have heard that you want to stay in public, but what if things go really great the meeting progresses to some heavy action? Seems like you could find yourself in loads of trouble out in public, or is that part of the excitement? It’s not like we are all teenagers humping in the back of the two-door.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
What 2 wear   10/11/2004

What should you wear on a first date?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
My one night stand with a sexy older women   10/10/2004

I would like to start by saying Every twenty something man should experiance a 40 something women at least once . I had just split with my wife of 3 years Because she thought it was her duty to fuck every horny man in town except for me . I knew she was a slut when we met but I thought that I could tame her wild ways ( yeah right ). We had split for good that day so to get my mind off my ...


0 Comments, 263 Views, 27 Votes ,6.92 Score
rm_AustinBC 44 M
8  Articles
What do you do?   10/9/2004

I am really talkative when it comes to internet. When it comes to phone I'm a little bit less with people I don't know to well or don't actually see. And in person it's even worse. I have a hard time communicating if I don't know the person well. Is this just because it's easier to talk to people, but not face to face or hear them?


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_bman_reno 40 M
4  Articles
Guys: Learn to dance   10/8/2004

I've discovered that a great way to impress a girl is if you're willing to take her out dancing. Most girls love it but far fewer guys are willing to do it, especially younger guys. Taking her out to a club is a great first date and who knows, maybe you'll get lucky


1 Comments, 13 Views, 31 Votes ,5.73 Score
I met her in the yard.   10/6/2004

I had been email this girl online for a few days. Her ad said that she just wanted to have sex. I figured, lets see what happens. She gave me an addy & a time. When I got there, it was really dark. And the neigbors was barking his head off. I couldn't find the house, but she heard the barking and peeked out the front door. I meet her eyes and my eyes met her hips through her tight blue ...


0 Comments, 103 Views, 14 Votes ,0.74 Score
rm_timmor12 35 M
6  Articles
How do i know if a girl is willing to have sex when we meet?   10/6/2004

I was curious, im probably going to be meeting some women that i met on SEXFinder.com and was curious how all of this works when you first meet them.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
spiritofwolves 68 M
1  Article
Jacking me off at the movies   10/4/2004

I recently had a date with a woman and it was our first date out. We went out to dinner and then a movie. As the movie started I noticed that she was playing with herself, by rubbing her pussy through her jeans. She looked up at me and smiled and then closed her eyes and continued rubbing herself. After about five minutes of this she reached over and started rubbing my cock through my jeans. She ...


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Newbe   10/3/2004

Girls, what is a fun creative first date that a guy has taken you on that you really enjoyed?


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There is no right way to handle it   10/1/2004

When you become a member of a site like this one, it is generally assumed that you're looking primarily for sex. If we can take this as a given, it would also be safe to assume that those who are fellow members will be equipped for the task. That's only logical, right? Color me astonished recently when this proved not to be the case. Over the couple of months of my membership here, I've had ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
rm_swm60060 46 M
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Our first SEXFinder.com meeting   10/1/2004

Yes this site does work! It takes time, been a member for awhile but of late I have met a few lovley girls!~~ <br> The last one I met we had meet several times! However the first time was great! Of course a little awkard but arent they all! She came over, we talked, watched a beggining f a movie, then all of a sudden we began to kiss! Next, thig I knew we were int he bed room ...


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Curious...do men really expect an immediate hook-up here?   9/29/2004

This may seem a very silly question, but hey, I'm new to this site. I joined out of curiosity. I "assumed" that there would be some additional exchange of information beyond simply posting my profile; but I am finding that the bulk of communication I am receiving is from men who seem to assume/expect that they simply need to "notify" me that they are ready. I've re-read my profile, and I've ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Hornerdogger 63 M
3  Articles
Blind Date & follow up   9/27/2004

Being a single man, all sorts of friends are always trying to fix me up. One night I received a call from an old friend. His wife wanted to talk to me. <br> Susan asked me I was interested in meeting a friend of hers. She said that she was attractive, tall and had huge boobs. I figured what the hell and said yes. <br> There was a dance, at a local VFW hall the next ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 34 Votes ,8.09 Score
Happened In Apharetta   9/26/2004

Met her online prior to a business trip to Atlanta. She was a mature woman...just what I was seeking. I called her as soon as I arrived in Atlanta and checked into my motel. We chatted a while until she became comfortable with me. We arranged to meet at her place at 8 PM. When I arrived she was wearing a pair of Daisy Duke-type shorts and a cut off t-shirt...gave me a warm kiss and ...


0 Comments, 119 Views, 43 Votes ,7.92 Score
How should do what.   9/26/2004

A very discourging part of going out with someone for the first time is not nowing what to expcet and what they expect. For the most part i recommed that the man plans on footing the bill in its entirety. This way if the woman wants to help pay whe will be more than welcome. The woman should however not count on getting very many more dates if she doent help pay some of the expenses.


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What does She Really MEAN ? You know.. when She says...   9/24/2004

Ladies, Gentlemen, what is she really saying when she says "... ohhh.. that's okay." And you have just accidently touched a thing without permission.. then later you seem to realize.. stupid me.. she wanted more... uhh.. I think? Any idea Ladies? All of us Gentlemen have been there...Correct?


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Do Women Want Bad Boy Or Gentleman   9/24/2004

I have been on a quest to answer the age old question. <br> Women often say they are looking to find the perfect man They use some sort of Checklist Based On A Fantasy. <br> They often are attracted to the Bad Boy instead. Getting exactly what they tried not to...burned. Get real Ladies. <br> Gentlemen do know how to have fun. They just do it with ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 48 Votes ,7.94 Score
rm_diesel2005 43 C
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What Not To Do On First Dates .   9/24/2004

1. Dont spend most of the time talking about yourself, matter of fact, if your one of those people your better off not saying anything. 2.Dont spend most of your time chit-chatting on your cell phone, especially when the other person is trying to hold a conversation with u, if u r one of these people your better off leaving ur celly at home. 3.This one is very important so listen up ...


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First Date Precautions or how to get a second date   9/23/2004

First Date Safety Precautions Topics To Be Avoided On First Date <br> Dating online is quite in today. But while dating, one should be very cautious of the stranger you are going to meet. Although it is online still you have to be careful of the person you are going to get intimidated to. Couple of suggestions would help you in having a safe date. <br> Use an ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 39 Votes ,6.49 Score
Is this really considered 'dating'?   9/23/2004

There are so many articles on this site about dating, questions and advice from a miriad of things from first date do's and dont's, having fun on a date, etc... But really, "SEXFinder.com - The worlds largest sex~personals site" Pretty much sums up what we're all looking for here doesn't it?... So, if you're looking for a 'date' movie, dinner, whatever; wrong site. Looking for a ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 30 Votes ,6.18 Score
Some where quiet   9/22/2004

Many times the mistake of taking a first date to a crowded noisy place is made. If things are terrible on your date you may wish to do this it stops most interaction other then maybe dancing. The whole reason for a first date is to get to know the mew person. Therefore the solutions are easy a nice quiet dinner a walk along the beach, in the park. Bowling believe it or not ranks very high ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 15 Votes ,6.04 Score
divorce2232000 61 F
3  Articles
Our First Date   9/20/2004

It was a nice wonderful warm night when you drove up to my house to pick me up to go out to dinner. The doorbell rang and my heart sunk and was excited all at the same time. I went to the door opened it and on the other side was a wonder kind looking man with a huge smile. Hello baby how are you this evening? He said. I replied fine and you? Much better now that I have finally met ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 39 Votes ,1.04 Score
Met a girl....   9/20/2004

On SEXFinder.com and she turned out to be a real sweet girl...one problem, she was married!! She had taken her ring off but had failed to account for the white ring the sun had left on her left hand ring finger. Why would you lie about this anyway? Especially being a girl....it ment less to me that she was married and more that she thought I was dumb enough not to figure it out. I realise there are ...


0 Comments, 84 Views, 19 Votes ,6.82 Score
We couldn't take our hands off each other!   9/13/2004

I had met this guy named James on line and we decieded to meet up. I picked a local bar down from my house. Since it was steaming hot outside I wore my wife beater with no bra and a short black skirt with no panties. I told James I would have a pink carnation in my hair so he would know it was me. When I walked into the bar all eyes were on me. My nipples were hard as hell and popping out ...


0 Comments, 267 Views, 147 Votes ,7.62 Score
They night we made love   9/13/2004

It started slowly, just some e-mails, a little IMing, mostly fun, playful, erotic, indulging in a fantasy, sharing some smiles. One day you wrote and said that you’d be down in Florida and well maybe we could actually get together. <br> We decided on a date and I gave you directions to my home in Tampa. What a long three weeks waiting for that day to come!! Then a phone ...


0 Comments, 117 Views, 115 Votes ,8.48 Score
MaybeMonique27 47 F
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To err is human, to be a loser unique   9/12/2004

as first dates go, this one was a real "winner." he picked me up 30 minutes late. we had previously decided on dinner, then, a movie. when we got to the place we were supposed to dine, he said the service was that of a 10 year old with a severe case of ADHD. then, he bullied the waiter to the point i was afraid to eat my food out of the fear that they may have spit in it. when he ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 49 Votes ,8.34 Score
Guys Looking for Guys with the Word "Aggressive" in the Profile?   9/12/2004

I'm a guy looking for a guy. I came upon a profile that stated that this one guy was "aggressive". Immediately, I was wondering why the word describing this guy was aggressive. You other guys know that we are looking for a mellow guy that we can get along well with, right? Well, I emailed the guy and told him I liked his profile, but the word "aggressive" concerned me. I told him I could ...


1 Comments, 40 Views, 29 Votes ,1.03 Score
kf2388 52 M
3  Articles
i never though it could happen to me   9/7/2004

I'm been on SEXFinder.com for awhile now but some reason or another i couldn't hook with anybody. But finally I did she emailed me her and such started talking and finaly she told to come over to her house so we can watch a movie. So i came over there about 1:00 pm what happen next was something out of a porno movie. We're talking on the couch at the sametime she rubbing my leg and then she ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 95 Votes ,4.81 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
be safe   9/6/2004

If meeting someone for the first time, especially a woman meeting a man, please inform someone of your location and also meet in a public place. Bring a cell phone if you have one. Be safe.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 33 Votes ,8.56 Score
rm_purrfectkiss 56 F
10  Articles
use caution   9/6/2004

If a man invites you to his home after your first date, please use your best judgement, and even then, consider that you really don't know him that well and don't know his true intentions. Even if you are looking for a wild time, still be cautious.


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She couldn't Wait   9/4/2004

We had met a few weeks ago and seemed to click, and after playing phone tag finally had set up our first night out. After a nice dinner we had decided on a local dance club so we could shake it up. As the night went on, with lots of alcohol, and slow dancing with her grinding that hot pussy on my hard cock we knew what was happening tonight. By the time the club closed we were both driven ...


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Lunchtime liason...   9/3/2004

I joined SEXFinder.com for naughty chat and email and the intention of meeting anyone offline never entered my head... (I'm Married) Within days of registering I'd taken a cyber lover who got me hot and horny by merely suggesting things, a pic told me he was a bit cute, maybe not my type (Yet!). After about a week of online chat, he gave me his number and I dubiously sent him a text! We spoke alot on ...


0 Comments, 257 Views, 86 Votes ,8.21 Score
Meeting Someone Oline Without A Picture!   8/31/2004

You may call me weird, strange or odd..I call it Pre-Cog...I was talking to a man I met on a online dating service...I normally do not meet some one without a picture but this one time I let it slide..cause I already knew what he looked like...we arranged for him to come to my place and he did...I warned him I was exspecting a soon he didn't seem to mind...He showed up at my home we went ...


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Firts date tips   8/30/2004

Hello! <br> I'm 21 years old and i've already hang out with lots of girls. One thing is for sure, the first date you have with a chick you gotta be nice to her but don't waste your words on silly love and romantic shits...That comes a bit later. The first has to be balanced with excitment and fun. That's the key guys! Cheers!


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sex?   8/26/2004

You have both joined this website for a reason, so is there really anything wrong with sex on the first date..or making sex the whole date?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 169 Votes ,8.20 Score
I am sort of confused   8/26/2004

Ok i meet this guy when i was shopping with my cousin.I wasn't ugly or anything so i took his number.I called him the same night and we ended up going to the movies.He asked me if he can taste me so i let him.I have a boyfriend and he has a gurl.We had sex about 5 times.I like him alot now and i want more with him but how can i find out if he feels the same about me


0 Comments, 229 Views, 30 Votes ,1.97 Score
rm_Twonkie 74 M
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Keeping it safe   8/26/2004

I suggest all of use cell phones. This way a potential partner can reach us any time, anywhere. <br> The most important thing is security. Many of have existing relationships, and we're doing this without the knowledge of our partner. If we use a cell phone, we keep our existing partner unaware of what's being done. Also, the new person, if they turn out to be dangerous, will ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 26 Votes ,6.05 Score
First Date   8/23/2004

I look into your eyes, feeling the tingle shoot through me as I think of holding you. I move closer, wrapping my arms around you, bending down to softly kiss your lips. I am so aware of your body pressed against mine, and know that you have to be aware of my excitement. I kiss you deeply, my hands roaming over your back, feeling the softness pulling you close. My attention then turns to ...


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"Expectations vs Reality"   8/20/2004

I have had expectations many times and fortunately, the reality was never too shocking. There are many ways to be deceived when "dating" online. Everyone has heard the horror stories about "older" men preditorizing or boys by internet deceptions. We also have heard the wonderful stories of relationships that started online and ended in a "happy marriage". But, what of the humorous things ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 73 Votes ,8.73 Score
manogirth 57 M
9  Articles
A nearly-faled first date   8/20/2004

A few years ago, only after a few exchanges of e-mail, a woman invited me to visit her. It was a trip requiring a 6 hour bus ride or an hour's flight. I flew. When I got there, we spent the late morning and day together where it quickly became apparent that there was no chemistry and she told me so. Cordial was fine but I wasn't going to be laid. Sticking to her plan, we cycled to a ...


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Ultimate first meeting   8/20/2004

We begin the usual way, exchanging emails here and there, then came more photographs, and soon we were talking on the phone. His voice was pleasant. It was a turn on just listening to his voice. When he had to go out of town, he called me when he was available to let me know he was thinking of me. I really enjoyed that. Phone sex was the next step. I am usually not crazy about that, but ...


1 Comments, 77 Views, 50 Votes ,7.65 Score
popcorn23 38 M
3  Articles
Nervous..!!!   8/18/2004

I always seem to forget how nervous it can be going on a 'First Date' with someone. Besides a casual hello or small talk it is pretty much going to dinner with a stranger. You don't know a lot about each other then just the basics like name, what you do for a living, where you live, etc. What makes it different I realized as I got ready this weekend for my date was that there is a nervous ...


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rm_ghjkl72 40 M
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Ministers    8/17/2004

This one time, I was just 18 and nervuos as all hell on my first date. I was shy and she was no less than a ministers . <br> Well she turned up on this date in the tightest little pants you'd ever seen, just tight enough to see her pussy...mmmm <br> We had lunch before we saw a movie. I didn't hold out much hope for any action. It was my first date and she was ...


0 Comments, 199 Views, 113 Votes ,6.84 Score
manogirth 57 M
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Ever travelled/had someone travel for a "first" date?   8/17/2004

As a male, I have travelled a long distance or had someone travel a long distance (more than 200 miles - often thousands) to meet for a "date" which inevitably or very quickly turns to sex (the prima facie reason for meeting). <br> Remarkably, I've only been disappointed once (date was suffering from clinical depression). <br> On one particular date, I was waiting for ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 24 Votes ,4.95 Score
rm_xxxvideomn 57 M
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A walk with Cheryl   8/17/2004

Entering the coffee bar, I looked around until I caught a glimpse of her sitting in a corner booth. I ordered 2 coffees and made my way over to her table. I introduced myself to Cheryl and handed her a fresh coffee. We talked about the things we liked and the music we enjoyed. We soon realized that we had been talking for an hour and a half. I suggested to Cheryl that we go for a walk and ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 30 Votes ,5.10 Score
WeJoExperience 65 C
1  Article
fat and willing to travel   8/14/2004

we planed to have a first date, they came over to the house but we did not know what they look like other then her tits. so we were talking getting to know each other we they told us they were on a short time schedule . so we were talking when the guy said the million dollar question , do you want to have sex .......... then wife try to rewrote so it did not sound so bad. so we said ...


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Freshman Jitters.   8/11/2004

I was a new girl in a new city. The pool at my local raquet club is where I loved to hang out. The pool guard was out of baywatch. I always was trying to get his attention. I'd twist my body and reveal as much as i could while others were watching. But nothing really got that seniors attention. So I looked up his number and called and set up a blinddate as someone his own age. He found out ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 47 Votes ,3.79 Score
LicksKittysplit 39 M
30  Articles
Hot Spots   8/9/2004

I'm new to Cali so I dont really know my way around. I was just wondering what are some good spots to go when out on a date? Restaurants, night clubs, etc....Just anywhere that's worth going. Thanks in advance for any help you can give me.


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Can I get some help   8/7/2004

Why do people want to invite strangers to their home on a first date rather than meet in public. Men you need to think like most women do, think that we are crazy there are some women out there from what i hear setting men up to be robbed and much worse. Why do you all invite people to you home and you have never really seen them in person. On cam or pics is one thing..


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acceptable   8/7/2004

What is acceptable for a first date people? Dinner, movie, sex, 3sum, 4sum, moresum. what do u think?


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ok this is a joke really ,what is i first date any more   8/6/2004

ok first date what would that be . it seems that 78%of guys think a first date includes meeting the girl and hey lets go fuck some where , what happened to lets have dinner , maybe a movie and take a walk and get to know one another before hitting the bed , do guys really respcet a girl if they have sex on the first date and if not then why have sex with him ladies .i mean you meet have sex ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 39 Votes ,6.33 Score
Foxy1983 40 F
2  Articles
First 'Date' Jitters   8/6/2004

How do you have successful 'first date'? <br> Don't get me wrong, I have had 'first dates' but none that I would say went particularly well on the first meet. It's always been through telephone calls and e-mails that we have established a better relationship. <br> I've always found it to be quite difficult meeting up with someone for the first time, especially if as ...


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How do you start?   8/6/2004

I would consider myself a beginner (again). Don't get me wrong, I wasn't just born and have had alot of experience, but that was long ago and then it stopped. You got married and the first date jitters were no more. Things happen, you go seperate ways and all of a sudden ... bam ... you're back in the scene. <br> Now I try to be up front and honest but seems that alot of people ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 46 Votes ,4.88 Score
superstud1020 50 M
4  Articles
Pure Romance at first sight   7/29/2004

I was on a bus going home one afternoon and I was sitting across the aisle from this knockout chick. I looked at her and she looked at me. She started pulling her skirt up so I would notice. It was a hot afternoon and she went to open the window. It was stuck. I offered to help her but I couldn't open it either. Then I offered a seat beside me. I put my arm around her and said, "My, ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 45 Votes ,0.90 Score
superstud1020 50 M
4  Articles
Pure Romance at first sight   7/29/2004

I was on a bus going home one afternoon and I was sitting across the aisle from this knockout chick. I looked at her and she looked at me. She started pulling her skirt up so I would notice. It was a hot afternoon and she went to open the window. It was stuck. I offered to help her but I couldn't open it either. Then I offered a seat beside me. I put my arm around her and said, "My, ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 18 Votes ,2.03 Score
Should she or shouldn't she?   7/28/2004

When dating a girl for the first time, should she be "encouraged" to cross the line into the physical realm? or should the mystery be maintained?


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Safe Meeting Places and Successful First Dates   7/27/2004

Since I have always taken my time before meeting anyone, usually emailing for a few months to get to know each other and then having a few phone calls just to get comfortable. I pretty much feel I know who I'm meeting. <br> Still I don't know what the chemistry will be until we meet face to face and so I always arrange to drive myself to some neutral place for a meeting. I have ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 57 Votes ,8.25 Score
fp1982 41 M
1  Article
sould we do it or not   7/25/2004

is it right to have sex on a first date, or wait a bit long.or is a big deal


0 Comments, 10 Views, 29 Votes ,2.34 Score
Hugs4u1000 69 C
0  Articles
The Do's and Don'ts for our first encounter!   7/22/2004

Written from the prospective our her husband but by her... <br> Ours and your limits are to be respected first and foremost... We have enjoyed anal play but not often..He doesn't want anything or anyone sticking him there..If you want to kiss his ass or (possibly but not necessarily) his dick...go right ahead..but he wants his hole to remain closed!...She likes a finger inside ...


0 Comments, 58 Views, 56 Votes ,5.78 Score
love4greenbay 42 F
5  Articles
my successful first date   7/20/2004

At the time I'm writing this, I recently came home from a first date with a guy who had messaged me from SEXFinder.com. We had talked on the phone on a few times beforehand, and we met in a public place so we'd both feel safe. We started at a restaurant where we had some beer and dinner, and an hour's worth of conversation. The topic never even went to sex. After dinner, I still had some time before ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 40 Votes ,5.55 Score
Sending signals   7/19/2004

I'd appreciate some advice about how to handle first dates well, whether it's an SEXFinder.com meeting or not. My problem is figuring out how to make it clear to the lady that I'm interested in seeing her again without coming on too strong. This doesn't seem that complicated to me, but I don't seem to do a very good job of it for some reason. (Obviously, if I could explain it, I wouldn't have to ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 37 Votes ,6.54 Score
Church Service   7/15/2004

I met a chick in an SEXFinder.com chat room. We chatted privately and realized we were no more than 10 miles apart. My wife was out of town, and her husband was out for the night. We e-chatted for a while, and it became clear we were both horny. I was not interested in a relationship, only in sex. She seemed nervous, but stated the same. I got the nerve up, and without any meetings prior to ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 57 Votes ,3.82 Score
What is up with Sex on first dates woman?   7/12/2004

I have met a few woman online that say they will make love with you on the first date, and start talking very sexually about what they are going to do to me when we first meet. But then it almost never seems to fail, a day or two before we meet they say something to the effect of "I don't so it on a first date." <br> I agree that a woman has the right to say "NO", but she ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 93 Votes ,6.95 Score
playmates4u3 62 C
2  Articles
Exploring my Bi side   7/9/2004

For years I had this attraction for certain women. I would just ignore the feelings or push them away.. Then my husband and I went to a strip club and oh my gawd...I was so turned on and excited.. At that moment I knew I had to explore these feelings...I answered an add that I found...This woman was beautiful.. we emailed for awhile and then started talking on the phone..Just hearing ...


2 Comments, 363 Views, 80 Votes ,9.12 Score
RedHotNSensual 59 F
3  Articles
First Date: The guy should at least be a gentleman......   7/8/2004

It was the first date for me to hook up with another member here on SEXFinder.com. Long story short, things didnt go so well. After I arrived a bit early at the designated establishment for our first date...which by the way, I had to drive over 20 miles to meet him, because HE didnt want to come out to my part of town...not that it is a bad part of town, quite the contrary, but he was just being ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 42 Votes ,7.70 Score
PrinceCharming83 40 M
2  Articles
What is the Ultimate stuff up that has happened on a first date?   7/5/2004

Mine had to be: when i booked a taxi that never turned up, had to wait an hour for another, missed the restaurant booking, and they were full when we got there, wandered for another hour around the city to find a restaurant that was decent and not full, when we found one spilling red wine all over the table and on my pants (it soaked right through past my underwear(tasty)), then when we ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 32 Votes ,4.93 Score
One night stand with 2 girls   7/4/2004

I was staying in a hotel one night when I heard a knock at the door. A blonde girl scantily dressed asked me over to her room to keep her company. I agreed and when I got there she had a friend there who was a brunette and she was totally naked. The blonde immediately took all her clothes off. The next thing I knew to 2 of them were on the couch on either side of me and taking my clothes ...


0 Comments, 118 Views, 118 Votes ,2.47 Score
EnglishPureBreed 42 M
2  Articles
RE: first date sex   7/3/2004

Hmmmmm! Excuse me, but not all men are out for sex on first date.... You'll never be able to acutitly tell if a guy wants it or not untill you offer it..... <br> For example with me it's simple, the normal signs (during the date) that I would are not correct.... any woman would be lucky if she got akiss on side of her cheak.... <br> I find that women judge me by if ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 62 Votes ,5.16 Score
A married woman looking for fun on the side finds a black stud.   7/1/2004

WhenIfirst saw her ad on SEXFinder.com she was a few miles away from me. So I said I would give this a try, so I email her a sexual emial like ( I am not far away how about a quicky?)and I asked her for her number. Later in the day she call me and we talked for awhile. I found out she is married has . So I was a little concerned I never been with a married woman before and she toldme her time was ...


0 Comments, 121 Views, 91 Votes ,7.85 Score
sex right off   7/1/2004

how many people have really had sex on the first date and had it last more than a few months?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 42 Votes ,6.85 Score
contacts   7/1/2004

i was begining to think this site was just like most of the other sites all promise and no action. i have changed my mind over the last week or so. i think it takes time to get used to this site getting your profile right correct searches etc i am now some where close and over the past week have had more luck in responces and have just met my 1st couple for a fun and games where a good time ...


0 Comments, 74 Views, 18 Votes ,4.90 Score
rm_xxxvideomn 57 M
6  Articles
Tuesday Morning Coffee   6/30/2004

Tuesday Morning Coffee <br> I finished my phone call and boarded the ferry to Maple Ridge; I was nervous and was sure the sweat rolling down my back was not from the heat of the sun beating down on the windshield. After weeks of talking to her online and a couple of phone calls I was finally going to look into her beautiful eyes. The ferry docked and I waited to be signalled ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 26 Votes ,7.34 Score
rm_enid55 68 F
2  Articles
first and last dates   6/30/2004

I met someone after only 2 days of being out here.I hadn't had sex for 6 years (masterbating not included) We had a couple of drinks went back to his place had incredible sex he made me come by just butterfly kissing my neck, rubbing and caressing my back and mutual masterbation I had three orgasms before he even entered me. I sat astride him and felt him deep within me and although he was ...


1 Comments, 97 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
what and what not to do on a first date!   6/28/2004

For the gents: 1>Wear casual clothing not rugged jeans 2>When coming upon a door, open the door for her! 3>Pay for all meals and/or place of establishment if you initiated the date! 4>If you are at a dancing establishment, ask her for a dance! 5>Never talk about something you don't wanna hear! 6>At the near ending of a date, at her door, give her a kiss on the ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 23 Votes ,4.18 Score
Re: Why is it harder for an Asian than a Black?   6/27/2004

I'm afraid you've probably been stereotyped. Asian men drive slowly and have short dicks; as the sterotype goes, while Black men have big dicks and drive slow... Or at least that's the way the steretypes go here in the states. <br> Then again, it may be a personality issue, or a first impression issue. I really couldn't say since I don't know you. My best suggestion is to be ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 16 Votes ,2.69 Score
dating for a swing   6/26/2004

Do you guys out there find that while dating another couple for a swing , do u guys have a very ectastic feeling? I sure do and at times can hardly contain myself.


0 Comments, 54 Views, 24 Votes ,5.29 Score
So is being married a turnoff?   6/26/2004

I have been on this site for about 5 months now and I have to admit, I am surprised I have gotten barely any responses. Ok, I understand I have no photo, but you would think I would hear from a few people at least. This brings me to the question from the title, is being married a turn off? Maybe this will be my unofficial poll. Are the women on this site totally turned off by married ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 24 Votes ,5.74 Score
no panties!!! thank god for booking the hotel   6/22/2004

This is what I call a great first date.. <br> I met a girl called Jenny I had been flirting online wth for several months, pretty much knew everything about each other, had a little bit of phone sex etc and then we finally got round to meeting. Went to go and see the film, don't remember what it was, but I decided as I was working early next day, I had booked a hotel near work. ...


0 Comments, 110 Views, 100 Votes ,7.02 Score
Girls picking up girls   6/21/2004

As a 19 year old girl who is fairly new to all of this sex stuff I have a few questions for the more expirienced bi-females out there. Where do you find your women? How do you hit on a girl (I'm shy as hell) without offending her (incase she's not interest in another female)? And how do you bring up the fact that you just want to have some fun?


0 Comments, 60 Views, 46 Votes ,7.39 Score
USTWOANDYOUISTHR 61 C
1  Article
BI-FEMALES. WHAT CAN A COUPLE DO?   6/17/2004

Were can a married couple go to meet up with a beautiful woman? My husband and I have discussed the idea of allowing a person, preferably a woman to join us in what I believe we do best. We have always enjoyed a well rounded sex life. The topic came up when I dreamed of being seduced by a lovely brunett who just knocked me right out of my panties. When I woke up I was completely wet. I must ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 39 Votes ,7.47 Score
rm_rasjras 59 C
1  Article
Love at first sight T/F   6/16/2004

Is love at first sight possible or is it more like lust with potential..... Ras


0 Comments, 11 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
My first couple!   6/10/2004

I surfed SEXFinder.com for months, never connecting with anyone. Just when I was about to give up I got an e-mail from my first couple. My adrenaline shot up like a teenagers cock looking at his first girly mag. They were older than I was and I had my doubts. But boy, am I glad I didn't listen to those doubts. They were just looking for some fun like I was so that made it easier. I wasn't ...


0 Comments, 104 Views, 125 Votes ,8.21 Score
rm_EroticOhio 61 C
3  Articles
Creative Variations on First-Time Encounters (for the brave of heart)   6/8/2004

The first-time meeting ideas I’m going to offer here are definitely not for everyone. But for a few of you more adventurous souls who have mastered the traditional techniques (e.g., meeting for conversation at a coffee shop, etc.) and perhaps have a somewhat kinky “stranger-encounter” fantasy or fetish, these idea might just be your cup of tea. <br> Before ...


0 Comments, 66 Views, 40 Votes ,5.07 Score
youngnightfreak 32 M
1  Article
interracial dating   6/8/2004

why is it so hard for a white male to date a black female but isn't hard for a black male to date a white female if u have an answer email me


1 Comments, 227 Views, 39 Votes ,4.78 Score
How a First Date SHOULD Be...   6/7/2004

I was at a Barnes & Noble one night sometime ago, and I was checking out this beautiful woman who was talking quietly (i.e., being polite ot the others around her) on her cell phone. She caught me looking at her, and I didn't think she was interested. <br> i started to walk off, and, at some point, we both turned and accidentally found ourselves face-to-face. <br> ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 88 Votes ,6.58 Score
Cock Play at the Table   6/7/2004

We had met on a bus in NYC...chatted briefly, exchanged numbers. She looked like a supermodel. <br> We decided we'd meet for drinks then, from there, find a nearby restaurant. At the bar, a very chic place, we ended doing little actual drinking as the conversation swept us both away. Before I knew it we were kissing and her hands were roaming... <br> She told me, ...


0 Comments, 80 Views, 55 Votes ,4.83 Score
satsumabus189 34 M
2  Articles
be yourself   6/6/2004

all too often when i go on that first date i am let down i feel like it was a waste of timeand energy . Why because usuallly my dates are not being themselves. They feel they haveto be somewhat distant when the whole point is to talk about ourselves and show our true colors to see if we are a match. Is this just me or do other people experience this on first dates too.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 26 Votes ,5.51 Score
concy 57 F
2  Articles
WHAT AN EXPERIENCE   6/4/2004

THE FIRST TIME I MET A GUY BEING THAT, THAT WAS ALMOST MY EARLY TIMES OF SEXUAL ENCOUTERS, SOME BOY TOLD ME I AM WANTED BY SOMEONE OUTSIDE MY SCHOOL GATE BUT I ASKED HIM TO INFORM HIM THAT HE SHOULD COME IN PERSON LATER THE GUY CAME AND WE DISCUSSED, SAT OUTSIDE THE RESTAURANT FOR SOME MOON AND COOL AIR AND LATER WE DECIDED TO BE TOGETHER FOR THE NIGHT AND THAT DAY WAS GREAT BECAUSE I ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 52 Votes ,0.05 Score
girls don't waste time   6/3/2004

well i guess I can admit this since who would know who I am, but as I get older i get a lot more ambilent about sex with less desire and more anxiety. Anyway the girls too have been getting older but not slowing down at all. They play very cool and good for 2 dates and then its play time! Ah if only it was so easy and fun and simple as it once was. Now I have a girlfriend. She is not so ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 78 Votes ,5.10 Score
Curious No More!   6/1/2004

i met this guy greg on line a week ago. we've exchanged tons of emails...lots of them are incredibly sensual. deep. brazen. detailed descriptions of sexual acts. very hot stuff. but we've never met. greg wanted to come to my house almost immediately...but i'm lost when it comes to these kinds of experiences. you see, i met greg on a gay web site. we're both bi-curious. he's had many ...


1 Comments, 357 Views, 122 Votes ,8.25 Score
tristim 42 F
3  Articles
First Older man--pt. III   5/30/2004

<br> <br> I see him come out of the bathroom and he's limp. I'm at first dissapointed, but as he enters, and I continue to masterbate, he slowly becomes hard again(after some oral coaxing of course). After he becomes fully ...


1 Comments, 874 Views, 124 Votes ,8.59 Score
The night we met!   5/29/2004

The first night we met was in a bar! We played pool as a team against another couple whom were pretty hot looking! Lightly brushing against eachother while taking our turns was making me hot. Eventually after 2 hours of looking into eachothers eyes and trading smiles and winks we decide to take party to a friends house! We decide to light the fireplace and I offer to go and get the wood out ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 40 Votes ,5.47 Score
carl500max 49 M
9  Articles
Age bar?????????   5/28/2004

Nothing wrong with contacting older men/ladies. I think a lot of the younger girl contacting older guy issue goes back to the 'training' Its hard to overcome societies ingrained taboos, not to mention the general fear, put into many a young womans mind, that an older guy is going to be a real 'psychotic perv' vs the partner they are seeking. It sux. But that seems to be the take. I would ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 59 Votes ,5.66 Score
corderito79 44 M
0  Articles
She want my....!   5/27/2004

Hello friends. I am a boy of 24 years old. I Never had sexual experiences until now. I’m living now in a new nation and to begin this history I need to say I live in a celebration. Frequently when I go to eat alone, some girl invites me to seat with her and shows some interest in me, but I never show inters in theses girls. <br> One day, when I’m eating with a girl she gave ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 59 Votes ,5.02 Score
rm_alicker71 51 M
1  Article
nerves hinder performance   5/25/2004

It's always best to get to know who you're going to meet because if there's any uncertainty or nevousness about who you meet, your performance can really be affected negatively. It's better to get comfortable with who you're going to meet so everything can be alot more fun cause knowing who you're with is key to having a great time.


0 Comments, 49 Views, 17 Votes ,5.39 Score
His First Time Since Married - With Me!   5/23/2004

An especially exciting sexual experience for me was to be with a husband having sex with another girl for the first time since he was married. Even though his wife was the one that brought us together it was still an incredible thrill knowing that I was the first girl other than his wife that he had fucked since getting married over 20 years ago - before I was even born! <br> I ...


1 Comments, 530 Views, 175 Votes ,9.72 Score
Unusual first SEXFinder.com date   5/23/2004

I've met several people from SEXFinder.com, but one was a little different from the others. Most of them, although we were all on SEXFinder.com for more or less the same reason, want to kind of get to know each other before hopping in the sack, and sometimes we don't get to the sack at all, which is fine. But last fall I sent a message to an SEXFinder.com member named Jen who lives about an hour's drive away from me. ...


0 Comments, 179 Views, 131 Votes ,9.12 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: RE: We're not sluts   5/21/2004

Well if this is our cross to carry, I hold mine high and proud..........if someone wants to call me a slut because I know what I want, and I go and get, then so be it.


0 Comments, 87 Views, 62 Votes ,9.22 Score
RE: We're not sluts   5/20/2004

That was one of the few double standards us guys won. Why would anyone want to open up this issue again? <br> Women who get laid on the first date are "sluts" because women are supposed to play hard to get. When they give it up so easily, they must be easy, and therefore a "slut." <br> Guys who get laid on the first date are considered players, pimps, or whatever the ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 52 Votes ,1.34 Score
rm_sexyrabbyt 44 F
1  Article
Dont be crazy(even if you are)   5/19/2004

It really scares a girl when instead of being the smooth operator you have been over the net you show up for a date and stare your way through it. A women likes compilments and conversation. Please dont be scared to give both.


0 Comments, 37 Views, 34 Votes ,5.49 Score
rm_aztecri 74 M
1  Article
First Date, First Blow!   5/17/2004

I am a happily married man. Unfortunately, my wife contracted diabetes and along with her high blood pressure, the medications she takes for both has killed her libido. She, being the wonderful woman she is, agreed to allow me to "date" other women occaisionally as long as I do not tell her about my "other life" and I don't fall in love. I don't plan on doing either. However, my first ...


0 Comments, 1076 Views, 230 Votes ,9.04 Score
rm_2U4U2 60 F
6  Articles
Having fantacies come true from strange men..................   5/17/2004

I have always been sexually aware of myself and I have always known that I was quit unique in many ways. The word that comes to mind is insatiable. It always comes up from them about me. <br> One fantacy that came true recently was going to a guys office and fucking in his office. I have always wanted to do that and when I was given the opportunity, I took it. <br> ...


0 Comments, 328 Views, 88 Votes ,8.21 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: What should you expect   5/13/2004

My advice would be to not expect anything. A first meeting is to see whether you are going to click with the other person/people. If you do click, and decide to take it to the next level before the first meeting is over, than count it as a bonus.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 42 Votes ,8.16 Score
honesthotnsexy 58 F
1  Article
Can't guys/ gorls EVER just be honest?   5/12/2004

Correct me if I'm wrong here. And I do realize this subject is a two sided sword but I really am perplexed by it. You submit a profile to a web site on the hopes of finding what you are looking for and have been unable to find outside in your own prosimity so you turn to cyberspace to look. There are always several questions to answer so before someone contacts you they know something ...


1 Comments, 54 Views, 40 Votes ,6.11 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Meeting for the first time!   5/11/2004

That totally depends on the woman. Some women if they feel a strong attraction, will sleep with a man on the first date, while others will definitely hold off. Either one of these is perfectly fine, the woman will do what she is comfortable doing.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 36 Votes ,6.69 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: What to do?   5/11/2004

How the heck you figure you gave away too much? You, yourself said there was nothing sexual, no kissing, just hugging and a lil touching. There could be several reasons you haven't heard from him 1. he's busy. 2. he may have regrets. 3. he maybe married, or have a girlfriend. If you have his phone number, call him and ask him.


0 Comments, 18 Views, 27 Votes ,6.50 Score
rm_two4fun1962 51 F
115  Articles
Re: Where would one meet?   5/11/2004

For a first meeting, any place public is best. Remember your meeting a stranger, so safety should always come first. If things don't work out, you each go your separate ways.


0 Comments, 15 Views, 31 Votes ,8.32 Score
rm_dannyinu 46 M
28  Articles
room 436   5/6/2004

A man is in a hotel lobby. He wants to ask the clerk a question. As he turns to go to the front desk, he accidentally bumps into a woman beside him and as he does, his elbow goes into her breast. They are both quite startled. The man turns to her and says, "Ma'am, if your heart is as soft as your breast, I know you'll forgive me." She replies, "If your penis is as hard as your elbow, ...


0 Comments, 123 Views, 109 Votes ,9.39 Score
Chrisabella 41 C
6  Articles
trouble thinking   5/4/2004

I have a sat with a classy girl who is very down to earth. Does anyone have some ideas of what I could do on a first date?? I want to stay away from the traditional dinner and drinks. Dinner is good but it'd be fun to do something before.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 19 Votes ,2.20 Score
smoothing my mound   5/3/2004

My wife and I belong to a local youth organization, and of course so do many other parents our age. There's one in particular a contractor named Rick that has caught my wifes eye. I must add that in 22 years of marriage she has never given me reason to doubt her faithfullness. Like most married couples we share an occasional fantasy during sex, it always spices up the action and adds some ...


0 Comments, 228 Views, 108 Votes ,8.35 Score
Christian_Andie 45 C
2  Articles
A little logic can go a long way.   5/2/2004

When it comes to first dates everything is always touch and go. So to help relive stress here are some do's and don'ts for men and women. <br> MONEY <br> MEN Do - Assume the woman is expecting you to pay and be the perfect gentleman. The ask for equallity, but expect all of the perks. Don't - Bring up the subject of money. The second you sound like your being ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 64 Votes ,8.18 Score
Things to remember   5/2/2004

Things to remember on a first date. <br> 1. First and most importantly, don't give too much away! You can't tell your date your entire life story and everything that's going on in your life... there's no mystery! They may feel as if they're superior to you because they know things about you that you don't know about them. Keep it short and sweet. <br> 2. Don't make it ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 49 Votes ,7.11 Score
msbonnie2000 61 F
1  Article
the anticipation   4/30/2004

you know when you get to finally meet with some one you think that you may want to hook up with on SEXFinder.com you get all excited all dressed up and go to meet the new person you think you are interested in .... then it happens the weirdest guy you have ever met is your date. well ladies, we know this story the men lie and try to decive with fake pics or pictures ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 53 Votes ,7.95 Score
carl500max 49 M
9  Articles
My First .....   4/19/2004

We met on the internet. I had placed an ad asking viewers to tell me their dreams and desires. He had told me of his dream to tie up a woman. He'd never done it before. We emailed back and forth, got to be friends, then he told me that he wanted to meet. I didn't see how that could be possible. We live in 2 different states! Well, I did agree to meet him. It would be a couple hours of ...


0 Comments, 172 Views, 114 Votes ,7.45 Score
snowmanhot 90 M
31  Articles
Re: Tallman how do ....   4/15/2004

Tallman, when you see someone that you find interesting, think of those things that you find interest that you. Always take a friendly approach (and not as thought it will be the end of the world if refused) and say just ¨Hi!¨. If she replies then you will be able to say, ¨I had to greet (say something to) you as I think that.... makes you look so attractive.¨ From this answer you will ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 31 Votes ,6.12 Score
rm_tazmania694u 57 M
23  Articles
our first meeting   4/14/2004

I was intrigued. I had welcomed a couple onto the bbs that I frequent, and was surprised when I received an enthusiastic reply from them. They'd read and enjoyed several of my stories, and we began a regular exchange. As it turned out, it was Linda that did most of the writing in the letters, while Randy added his comments every once in a while. Our letters became more and more ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 64 Votes ,9.26 Score
The best way to enjoy fresh fruit   4/14/2004

If you have ever wondered what makes for a great first date where all of the erotic tidbits have been promised to culminate the evening then I have got the blow-by-blow details that you can use in your experiences. <br> Like most phone calls with blind dates Marcia was a bit pensive. She listened intently, hoping that Patrick would back out so that she would not have to test her ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 23 Votes ,6.40 Score
rm_Tallman12 49 M
4  Articles
How do you get to the first date?   4/14/2004

For those of us that are not built like Arnie or have millions of dollars to make us more attractive. It is very hard to walk up to a woman and ask her out for coffee or something. It is often confused with the idea that you want something more. I am somewhat shy in this approach and find it hard to talk to beautiful women. What do you need to do, to attract a mate?? I don't believe ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 44 Votes ,4.87 Score
RE: Protection   4/14/2004

I think it shows good common sense to carry condoms in todays AIDS ridden society... Don't leave home without them


0 Comments, 14 Views, 40 Votes ,8.43 Score
gentleman5610 52 M
1  Article
what ladys must to know...........................................   4/14/2004

What ladys must to know... I have about a year here (on SEXFinder.com)reading profiles about ladys and 90% are the same i like tall man , not a one night stand not a fling no married man , high sex drive , who can keep up all night good dancer good conversation, financialy secure, etc etc...and what this ladys offer???? well for that ladys who like tall and muscular guys like Lou Ferrigno you must ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 47 Votes ,2.03 Score
littlekitty53 62 C
6  Articles
WHY ARE WE SO NERVOUS ABOUT MEETING FOR THE FIRST TIME ?   4/14/2004

I PLACED AN AD ON SEXFinder.com A FEW YEARS BACK AND WAS JUST ABOUT TO GIVE UP ON FULFILLING MY FANTASY WHEN OUT OF THE BLUE, THERE SHE WAS.... I'M MARRIED AND THIS IS THE FANTASY I WAS LOOKING TO FULFILL....I WANTED TO MEET WITH A WOMAN AND HAVE THE MOST SEXUAL EXPERIENCE THAT I HAVE EVER HAD. I WANTED TO EAT HER PUSSY AND MAKE HER SCREAM WITH A DELIGHTFUL ORGASM AND THEN I WANTED HER TO EAT ...


0 Comments, 81 Views, 70 Votes ,8.86 Score
why not wait?   4/7/2004

OK, ALMOST EVERYBODY AGREES THAT WE WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH THE PERSON THAT WE ACCEPT MEET IN PERSON, AND THAT BREAKING THE ICE IS NOT EASY, BUT GUYS NOT ALL THE WOMANS ON THIS SITES ARE REALLY EXPERIMENTADED TO JUST GO BED, AND NEED MORE TIME OR MAYBE OTHER DATE TO FEEL MORE COMFORTABLE WITH U... AND SOME THING ELSE, PLEASE WHEN U DATE SOMEONE GET TIME TO MEET THEM WITH OUT THE HURRY OF ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 23 Votes ,6.40 Score
My First Lesbian Experience   4/7/2004

I lost my virginity when I was 14 and fucked more than a few guys while I was in high school, but I always stuck to conventional one-on-one sex between a guy and a girl. I sometimes wondered what it would be like to be with a girl but the opportunity never arose and I never really pushed for one seeing how much I loved being fucked and sucking cock. <br> Last year I started going ...


0 Comments, 752 Views, 213 Votes ,9.05 Score
My First Time   4/1/2004

When I was a 14 year old I spent a weekend camping with Sharon and few other girlfriends. Sharon's 16 year old brother Steve also came with. He was pretty good looking but I had not even spoken to him before. My friends were also 14 and we wore skimpy bikinis the entire weekend which I knew were driving Steve nuts. Once I even caught him peeking out the camper window as we played around. ...


1 Comments, 811 Views, 187 Votes ,9.44 Score
Re: Mean what you say   3/29/2004

To hell with nerves, this is a sex site! If I could get a woman to meet me at the door naked, sure I'd be nervous but I'd also be hotter than hell. Until I can find a woman to do that for me, it will remain a fantasy of mine. Any ladies in the midwest interested <grin>?


0 Comments, 9 Views, 54 Votes ,6.49 Score
rm_r69n 64 M
3  Articles
First date where to meet on the first date   3/27/2004

Hi, im wonder just were to meet on the first date. I think if you live by a lake or park that would really be a nice place to meet the first time. Or how about the local shopping mall, Ive meet alot of first dates at the shopping mall, and its a real ice breaker. Or try a bar for meeting your first date and having a drink or two. Its work out great for me.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 19 Votes ,4.05 Score
Re: Someone I can't live with,But who I can't live without   3/25/2004

Neither the man or the woman should "control" the relationship. What it comes down to is communication. Did either of you discuss where you wanted this relationship to go? Setting such boundaries is important. Also, is it possible that he was, I hate to say it, disappointed when you two met? If he was, he should be man enough to be honest. If neither applies, then he is just a dog. ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,5.86 Score
aeroplayer 66 M
1  Article
Re: Someone I can't live with,But who I can't live without   3/25/2004

Sorry to hear that your partner didn't respond the same way you did, but one of the things you should have clarified up front was what each of you expected out of your meeting. If you were looking for a relationship, that should be out in the open. On the other hand, if he was just looking to add some notches to his belt, he should have been open about that (fat chance). Anyway, be glad ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
casualbuddy9876 55 M
1  Article
Good hook ups   3/24/2004

Was a little sceptical about on-line services like this one and I have had my share of cyber-flakes. But every once in a while you have a good hook up. <br> Had one of those recently, the guy was kinda shy at first, but after about 15 minutes of some foreplay it just clicked. <br> Think the key is to have lots of dialog about what you both want and expect from an ...


0 Comments, 61 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
guilt   3/20/2004

any members on SEXFinder.com who are attached to a partner yet still go out to date other SEXFinder.com members? i am a but worry about the guilt thing, i know its a mindset thing but there are people who cant seems to change the perception of having a sexual relationship outsite of a more permanent relationship. any views?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
How dressed up?   3/18/2004

How dressed up for the first meeting? Dont want to get into a Tux all the time...but shorts and flip flops dont get it usually unless you meet at the beach


0 Comments, 22 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
What do you do on the first meet?   3/18/2004

Drinks? Dinner? Coffee? Just shake hands and hop into bed? We have been to adult book stores twice...lots of things to help break the ice there.


0 Comments, 99 Views, 27 Votes ,4.71 Score
Who's Your Daddy   3/17/2004

My wife and I have about ten friends that we see all the time and are based around my best friends from college. This group does a lot together - summer houses, vacations, parties, etc, and needless to say, over the years there has been some hanky-panky amongst most of the group (but, as far as I know, there hadn't been any messing around once anyone was married). <br> A few ...


0 Comments, 210 Views, 28 Votes ,3.86 Score
RIGHT FAMILY WRONG BROTHER   3/9/2004

What makes a HOT July day bearable in the South...BUD-LIGHT of course. I was having yet another fight with my ex-husband, Hell it was more like a world war and we were about on number 17 for the year. Same ole try again and again bull, anyway, he was in another town, i had moved back home. I had phoned his brother to return something i had of his. We met and took care of business. ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 124 Votes ,4.75 Score
pt151982 42 M
2  Articles
How easy is it?   3/9/2004

I was just wondering if it is really as easy as they say too meet people and hook up. Before upgrading my membership, I want to make sure that this is not all smoke and mirrors. So basically what I am looking for is some input.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Tinkawantsdaddy 49 F
12  Articles
A slut ...,because you had sex on your 1st date? Hmmm..   3/8/2004

Now let me give you the best answer one could come up with :MAYBE ! To me you wouldn't be .I'd concider him a bit lazy because he couldn't think of something that saves you from feeling like it later but yet makes you have a wonderful time but since he might be human ...just like the ones to whom you would be a slut , I can't blame him for being a bit too overheated .That is called being ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 101 Votes ,4.42 Score
rm_tazmania694u 57 M
23  Articles
A night out.   3/6/2004

Luke waited nervously at the gate as the passengers streamed off the plane. He was so nervous. He had been corresponding with Jenny for six months on the Internet, but they had never met before. <br> The minute she walked off the plane, he knew it was her. Her long black hair streamed down over her shoulders, catching the sun. Her almond-shaped eyes brightened as she smiled at ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 77 Votes ,9.26 Score
blkgoddess69 49 F
4  Articles
excited still seeing 1 member i met here after 6 good months:)   3/3/2004

This lovely tall handsome guy, makes my skin chill, whenever he comes to see me i immediately get wet!(no joke)his eyes are so hypnotizeing, he fuck me hard for at least 2-3 hours everytime, lick my pussy for at least 1 hour, what more can i ask for?? he lets me suck his cock for at least 30 minutes, because i am sooo good he says, he just want to come as soon as possible, i love ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_SeanD71 52 M
8  Articles
The opening moments...   2/27/2004

How important is the first impression? I ask this because I make a horrible one. When I meet someone for the first time, it takes me a good twenty minutes to warm up and get comfortable with myself. After that, I'm golden... my usual witty, charming self.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 36 Votes ,6.78 Score
What to do..........   2/25/2004

Any ideas what to do or places to go so things don't seem to uncomfortable when you decide this is the person you want to meet?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
pleasant surprise   2/23/2004

Has anyone ever met anyone from SEXFinder.com and when you invited them in they jumped you right away? Just curious because it happened to me and it was a very pleasant surprise


0 Comments, 22 Views, 28 Votes ,4.58 Score
big women have big sex   2/22/2004

I went out to a country and western bar, looking for you know what. I remember one of the first women I saw was a 5 foot tall thick woman with a humongous set of tits at the front door kind of looking the men over as they came in, kind of like men will do sometimes looking for women. She did not have the prettiest face in the world, she was mostly tits and ass, and plenty of both. ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 67 Votes ,7.91 Score
RE: how do you get responses on this site   2/21/2004

from what i've seen the nastier the better! As I read in another article, men want a in the bedroom. Much like you, I am shy and somewhat inexperienced, but I won't change "ME" for any man, it's not worth it. Don't let go of your self-confidence. Be who you are, they are the ones that are missing out, not you.


1 Comments, 55 Views, 26 Votes ,6.91 Score
Re: How do you get replies/dates   2/16/2004

In response to the fella who wrote that he couldn't get a date on here. I have read your profile and I think you may be trying too hard and it reads that you are desperate! Although this may be the case, it's not a very good idea to let the fairer sex know this. In my experience, it is better to be open and honest about your desires etc but NOT about your lack of sexual prowess or ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 22 Votes ,7.69 Score
rm_Vivid1963 60 M
1  Article
How do you get replies or meet somone on this site?   2/13/2004

I have been a member since August 2003, I decided to try this as I am shy, sexually inexperienced and just want some adult fun. So far I have a few network friends but no dates, no meetings and am not sure about the next step. I have re written my profile a few times being as honest as I can but with no success so far. can anyone tell me where I am going wrong - my confidence (not high ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 109 Votes ,7.30 Score
zippy_mcfeely 42 M
9  Articles
my latest online encounter   2/13/2004

I didnt get laid but I did get along with this chick really well, it wasnt from this site anyways, so there wasnt an expectation that she'd be real slutty anyhow, but she's really cool, etc. etc. Im gonna see her again, and she gotst a bodanka booty


0 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Why 1st dates are so aqward   2/12/2004

First dates seem to be always aqward i wish that we could all get by and skip the first date so everything could go more smoothly.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
Re: finally met a single female   2/6/2004

Just thought I would write and tell you of my experiences on this site. I am glad that the fella who wrote the article found a single female. There are, as I have found, many genuine single women on here. I was browsing and came across a single 35 yr old who wanted a no strings relationship, purely for sex . I thought, what the heck, I’m 45 and probably too old but wrote anyway. ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 64 Votes ,8.61 Score
shougen 48 M
7  Articles
make it everylasting   2/6/2004

i remember my first date with my first girlfriend. we went to a movie as most of you did. but we went for a ghost show. she was so scard that she hold on to me through the movie.


0 Comments, 22 Views, 26 Votes ,2.70 Score
Honcho7 76 M
0  Articles
My First Domination Date   2/1/2004

I communicated with a man I met through the internet and ended up meeting him about three weeks ago at a restaurant so we could see if we would be compatible. We are both in our early 60s and this was the first experience of this nature for both of us. He invited me over, and I visited him at his house last weekend. When I arrived, he was dressed as I had ordered ‒ black stockings ...


1 Comments, 244 Views, 46 Votes ,7.25 Score
re: my slave and me (enjoyabledan1)   2/1/2004

What you wrote in your story is ok, but if you actually did what you say, you are endangering your slave's health. It is NOT healthy to go from anus to pussy, without using a condom, OR, washing your penis thoroughly first. You can, and probably will, give her an infection if you do this. Ask your doctor, he (or she)will tell you the same thing, if you don't believe me. It's ok the ...


0 Comments, 15 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
going out with someone from the site for the first time   1/30/2004

I was what i should expect were meeting for drinks. do most of you who have ment does anything usually happen on the first encounter?


0 Comments, 18 Views, 30 Votes
The Element of Surprise   1/30/2004

We had spent the week in long, late night phone calls that lasted into the early hours and things had already got hot and heavy. Friday was to be our first meeting and I was cooking. <br> When we spoke on Thurday she suggested that she might attack me on sight so I asked whether I should bother dressing. The response? "At least wear an apron". <br> Well the time of her ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
The Perfect Night Out   1/26/2004

My wife and I have been active members of SEXFinder.com for approximately 7 months. We have been taking things slowly in an effort to find a couple that matched our expectations as much as possible. Finally, this month we found a couple that wanted the same type of a relationship we were hoping to find. (Friends first ‒ Lovers later) Now, we didn’t come to this conclusion simply by ...


1 Comments, 251 Views, 42 Votes ,6.85 Score
hotlady4funCO 55 F
4  Articles
My first Date   1/26/2004

My first date with the man of my life was in breckenridge colorado. WE had been friends for over two years talking on the phone instant messenget and email but had only seen each oither in perosn one time at an SEXFinder.com party when we were both with someone else. He invited me to his ocndo in breck to watch football...it was the best day of my life..when he kissed me good night I saw stars...love ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
My first time with an older, married woman...   1/24/2004

Alice and I had been friends for about 5 years. She was 40, married and had 4 (two of them teenage daughters age 17 and 16 that I had wanted to have sex with). She stood about 5’6” and weighed about 115 pounds. I was newly married with a baby and was going through the strains of life at 21. We had been friends for about 5 years (she hired me for my first job) and were ...


0 Comments, 381 Views, 69 Votes ,8.64 Score
TheSacCpl 69 C
0  Articles
The first meeting   1/24/2004

Both the wife and I enjoy semi-public sex, flashing and the like. Recently we set up a meeting with a single gentleman. We were to meet in the early evening at a local pub. We went directly there from a late business meeting, so we were dressed well. The wife displayed her stockings and garters to me before we left for our meeting, so I had a semi-erection the whole time. Just thinking ...


2 Comments, 394 Views, 23 Votes ,6.28 Score
sexlovers2266 46 C
6  Articles
Some suggestions for first dates   1/22/2004

Does anyone else have any ideas on first dates. What is the best atmosphere to go meet other couples in?...I've found that going out for drinks so far is the best idea. Providing everyone drinks, it allows all involved to loosen up a bit, and you are in a non threatening environment being out in public. Sometimes however it would be nice to come up with some new ideas for first meetings.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
First Date From Hell   1/21/2004

I met this one guy off of here. I met him through the instant message thing that SEXFinder.com has off of here. He sent me a pic of himself, but when I saw him in person it didn't look the same. He looked built and tan in the pics. In person he was white as a ghost and skinny. Truthfully I think it was another person that I saw, but then again most asian guys I meet kinda look the same. Well anyway I ...


1 Comments, 99 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
DON'T FALL ASLEEP!!!!   1/21/2004

This is really bad. My one and only date with dream guy ended on a very sad note. He took me out to dinner. The food was wonderful. The rest. was gorgeous and expensive. All was going well until I realized that the only reason he asked me out had to be because he had already been through all the rest of the women in my town. He was so ful of himself and conceited. He talked the whole time ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 17 Votes ,6.66 Score
rm_emotion001 44 M
1  Article
A noteful question   1/20/2004

Hey I just noticed that nobody really posted anything the last couple of days. Does that mean that nobody on the site got lucky since that time? I ask because I'm a member but so far received nothing but spam in response. Does anybody have any clue how long it will take me to get that first date from this site? So far I had nothing but a couple of views, half of which are women over my age ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
The Bi experience   1/14/2004

I had never been with a woman before but being near one was a big turn on. I finally went on a date with one and my hormones let loose. Does this make it as if I'm a for doing her on the first day.


0 Comments, 50 Views, 123 Votes ,5.65 Score
rm_fundirty2 42 C
2  Articles
How did you get that first date   1/13/2004

We are a couple 22/f bi and 23/m and this is my questions. We are new to the site and have had fun so far. But before we jump in head first i was just wondering if any of you veterans have any suggestions about making that jump from chat/email to that first meeting/date. We are also in a college town if you have any suggestions concerning that. Thanks a lot OXOXO Kelly


0 Comments, 28 Views, 55 Votes ,5.94 Score
sweetmdguy31 53 M
2  Articles
My First BBW   1/13/2004

On the chance I might get lucky I sent an email to a BBW listed on SEXFinder.com and started up an email correspondence. I chatted with Dell for nearly two weeks before we decided to finally meet at a mutually distant bar here in Maryland. She was very concerned that I was not truly ready for an experience with a “BBW” and that she did not want to disappoint me. Dell was a very large ...


0 Comments, 269 Views, 187 Votes ,8.13 Score
DenaliAK 67 M
1  Article
Amazing first time!   1/11/2004

We started our relationship on SEXFinder.com. Traded a couple of e-mails and it did not seem to be going anywhere… Then we happened to be on the chat room at the same time and we traded “flirts” and I asked her to meet me on instant messenger. She agreed and we traded sexy one liners until 5 a.m.! I told her I could meet her at a Bar near her the next week and she said ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 189 Votes ,8.33 Score
how do i start   1/4/2004

she wants me as friend, some times more she asked me for a date how do i start to how do i ask her for more


0 Comments, 2 Views, 21 Votes ,0.77 Score