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nobody328 26 M
23  Articles
WHAT TO DO O A FIRST DATE.   5/30/2012


0 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
nobody328 26 M
23  Articles
WHAT TO DO O A FIRST DATE.   5/30/2012


1 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_iamcub1031 37 M
1  Article
Best and worst 1st dates   5/23/2012

I want to know what is the best ideas for a 1st date and the worst.

I took a girl to a great dinner and a very nice concert and that was the end of it. What went wrong? who knows.

4 Comments, 115 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
foxeyatfifty 67 F
26  Articles
First Impressions do count   5/18/2012

You never get a second chance to make a first impression. When meeting a member for the first time. I let him decide, that tells me right away what kind of man he is. If he picks McDonald's or Starbucks or Tim Horton's (uncomfortable seats, the next person sitting two feet away from you, lousy coffee)Well that is my first impression ( no class, cheap person, and selfish lover) And then show up ...

6 Comments, 271 Views, 28 Votes ,5.19 Score
lonelycasahotfr 37 M
8  Articles
how to: mistakes   5/3/2012

I'd like to list here all the mistakes all men should avoid in their first dates:

After much hard work and worry, you have your first date with your newest find. The next step is to set your mind right and avoid the biggest mistake you could make, messing up on your first date. All the hope, money spent, preparations could end up just frustration and a bruised ego. Let’s take a look ...

1 Comments, 113 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score
first kiss   5/2/2012

are you gonna wait to kiss me or what?

3 Comments, 98 Views, 10 Votes
maybe this weekend?   4/25/2012

Well this is the weekend maybe? i havent had much luck on here but i finaly got another member to chat with me and i told her of my whereabouts this weekend! I am on a journey to a city 300 miles away and i have a room booked at a hotel. I am on business actually but hoping to meet a great gal to boot! my wife? well she has been ignoring me for about 3 months now, and i need to meet up and expand ...

0 Comments, 102 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
rm_karoonsem2 30 M
10  Articles
How many?   4/24/2012

How many first dates actually end up into something better?

0 Comments, 53 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_karoonsem2 30 M
10  Articles
First Date   4/24/2012

whats your experience of a first date..

1 Comments, 49 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
rm_LuchaBanda1 33 M
3  Articles
Tell Me Abt Ur First Date   4/16/2012

First date Experience

0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
Gamblingman12 38 M
1  Article
how long til sex?   4/11/2012

How long does one wait til sex on a first date?

2 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
date   4/9/2012

what do you want on a first date

0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
SteelPassion23 48 M
7  Articles
Gifting on the First Date   3/25/2012

Let's say you meet someone here on and the dialog leads to a mutual desire for a No Strings Attached (NSA) hook-up. You agree to meet at a coffee shop and if all signs are "go" you can dash off to an agreed upon location for your intimate dance session. Would it be weird or appreciated if a person brought a gift to the initial meeting? Nothing of a sexual nature, but ...

5 Comments, 198 Views, 14 Votes ,2.18 Score
What to expect?   3/23/2012

First time doing this online hookup, what do you find your first dates have been like? Is it just a hookup or is it like every other date you've been on?

1 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
LTRwhornyman 60 F
3  Articles
What appeals to me   3/20/2012

I like to meet a guy who is confident respectful and social and not someone who thinks that having sex on the first date is essential.

First of all I like having sex with someone I like and who I have had a chance to connect with and have gotten to know a little before I hop in bed, on a table or elsewhere with a person.

I know that for a lot of guys here on this site... they ...

4 Comments, 106 Views, 23 Votes ,3.60 Score
Not A Date   3/10/2012

What is so awkward is when you go out on a double date and your girl and her friend leave the araea. You have never met her friend's man. You don't know if he is Mr. Good guy, a dog, gay or what. It becomes who will blink first. Most of the guys turn out to be dogs, too.

0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
turtledamsel2 47 T
27  Articles
first time   2/21/2012

i was dressed to kill best lingerie feeling so hot i wanted more than my freind to look at me i wanted to experiment a little as isaid this new feeling that started to take me over compelled me to act like the horny bitch i felt inside i wanted to feel his hands on me touch me he said i looked beautifull and thought a real woman had some how gotten into the house laughed and asked him to run his ...

10 Comments, 1148 Views, 35 Votes ,4.03 Score
Tucson Mary   2/17/2012

Tucson Mary Fantasy

It was a typical bright, sunny Tucson afternoon. It was warm, a great day to have a fun afternoon around the area. Late in the afternoon, I headed to Jeff’s Pub, a friendly place in Tucson. Since it was mid-afternoon, the bar was only about half full, with several seats available, and I chose one at the bar, on the end near the door. There were probably ...

0 Comments, 179 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
What about a first meet   2/14/2012

Hi all, A quick question for the ladies. What is your take on a first meet and sex, I think it would be a good idea to meet chat for a bit to make sure that there is a mutual desire and then go from there. A friend told me that he just wants to get down to the sex, and my stance is that although I am meeting for great NSA pleasure that a little talking before is a good thing. Let me know.

0 Comments, 62 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
couldbefun31 32 M
10  Articles
Does a woman.....   2/5/2012

want to still have sex with a man on the first date, even though they believe they will never want to date this guy again. And what do you say to the guy if he persists on more sex or another date cause you have now lead him on with sex on that date. I mean as a guy, if the sex is good I want more. If a woman tells me to 'F' off and never talk to her again, then I get the point. I just believe ...

2 Comments, 107 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_MastaDrake 32 M
1  Article
Where to go and what to do!?   2/5/2012

Hi, I've always been unsure as to where to go and what to do on that ever important first date.

And one thing I've noticed is that the guy is always a bit hesitant to ask the other party their likes and dis-likes, and what they'd like to do as it comes across as you havin no clue as to where to go and what to do.

From my experience (limited it is), it doesn't really matter, the ...

2 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
luvinfun67 57 M
2  Articles
Mid-Week Mid-Day Fun   1/30/2012

Two weeks ago I happen to be working from home... (I do 2 days a week normally)... and had the site up with my eye on the IM.... noticed a lady very close to me.... We started chatting.... Obviously distracted me from my work...LOL.... We seemed to be hitting it off, at least electronically, so after a short time we exchanged #'s and spoke on the phone.... Turns out she was a very hot very ...

5 Comments, 510 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
Single girl to date bi couple?   1/29/2012

We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES here?

0 Comments, 155 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
ARomanticHero 30 M
11  Articles
Sex   1/23/2012

What are the odds that if the person is nice, funny, cool and nothing else wrong with the person. The chemistry is great and everything is there, that you will have sex with them on the first date?

0 Comments, 69 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
arkansasrob23 36 M
1  Article
wld you rather go to the movies or a walk in the park   1/17/2012

wld you rather go to the movies or a walk in the park?

2 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
tetondude2011 56 M
10  Articles
Reality....... round 1   1/9/2012

Dinner, for chain Italian, ( no not OG...that place sucks) was actually not bad. It was more the company, as always. We lingered at the table after dinner, talking, kidding, laughing, flirting. There was a slight pause and then I looked at her and asked "Do you want to play?""Yes" she replied readily, a smile crossing her lips. Me being from out of town I asked "Where?" "My place is not available ...

0 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
youngseekoldman 36 M
2  Articles
No Show   1/9/2012

Why is it that I have frequently met people online & we set up a get together/meeting place...and when it comes down to it, they don't show up. Why not just communicate to the other person that you can't make it. Sounds too much of a coincidence to have so many "all of the sudden" cant make it things that come up.

7 Comments, 117 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
nsafunguy17 57 M
1  Article
Bisexual Confession   1/8/2012

I have had good and bad responses to admitting my bisexuality on the first discussion of sex and getting to know each other. When do you think is the best time to tell a potential or new partner of your sexuality. I hate to hide it myself.

6 Comments, 447 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Why do we get so nervous?   1/6/2012

I may be the only one that gets this way, but why do we get so nervous when we finally meet. I mean after we have chatted for ever, probably talked on the phone, even swapped dirty pictures, you would think that you could meet someone and not get nervous. Maybe it is just the thrill of the hunt. I don't know, what do you think?

1 Comments, 74 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
veziryarragi 30 M
5  Articles
hey girls   1/6/2012

Heyecan ve Macera Arayan Bayanlar

0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
cd_erin 53 T
1  Article
Nov. 30 1985   1/3/2012

I was 14 years old. I had been dressing in girls underpants and dresses in the privacy of our home for years. This particular night we were visiting our Aunt, Uncle, and cousins Lee and Becky. Lee had a date with his girlfriend and that left me alone with my sister and Becky. Out of the blue my sister, Kim, tells Becky about my sissy ness and suggest they make me over. Becky laughs at first but ...

1 Comments, 177 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_stan1423 24 M
12  Articles
dates   12/27/2011

good date locations

1 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
First Date Suggestions   12/16/2011

Where is a good first date suggestion?

3 Comments, 69 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
darekprince 22 M
5  Articles
Losing My Virginity   12/12/2011

My First time was with a man and I was 20 years old. He was a husky man like me, but when we chatted it was awesome. We had met online so of course I was hesitant to meeting in person especially for sex. When I summed up the courage and stopped being a pussy I accepted his offer for lunch. When I saw him in person he was adorable and had a great smile. He didn't ask me, but waited for me to ask ...

3 Comments, 619 Views, 19 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_Toyboyj624 26 M
11  Articles
Turner effect   11/22/2011

Fist dates are probably the most difficult thngs 2 go thu during a relationship, first dates are what determine if you guys hv a future 2getha or not, cause the 1st impression during 1st dates try and avoid all thngs that are a turn off 2 ur partner evn tho how much both of you are sexualy starved watch your limits cause sometimes too much lust can be a turnoff, but fully exploit their ...

0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
Best Place   11/18/2011

Other then dinner and a movie which is highly cliche what is a great place for a first date or for a first time meeting someone thru this website?

5 Comments, 108 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_Toyboyj624 26 M
11  Articles
To early or not   11/17/2011

Well alot of people have this belief that on first dates everything should be kept formal and that the furthes you can ever go is a kiss.well its these kinds of propaganda that will limit you from knowing what could have bin the most exciting first date.during your first date dont restrict yourself to formality be open bring out what u realy want from your partner but at the same time dont be too ...

0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
happy14u19692 42 M
8  Articles
online time counts   11/13/2011

with todays internet activity for most people, the online contact nowadays is really considered the 1st date. we can spend hours on end chatting and when we finally meet, if everyone is who they said they were, then we are essentially on our 2nd and 3rd date really.

2 Comments, 75 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
Fast Food   11/11/2011

What about fast food as a first date then something more exciting like drinks? You still get to eat, but you don't have to spend five hours with each other if ya don't want!

5 Comments, 42 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
rm_purebbc1 32 M
10  Articles
What's the problem with sex on the first?   11/10/2011

What's the problem with having sex on the first date? I don't really see much wrong with it if its done in the right manner. I've had sex on the first date with at least 90 percent of the women I've been with...if not more. I dont judge, it was chemistry, vibes and romance. Most of the time other dates followed.

2 Comments, 113 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_purebbc1 32 M
10  Articles
Idea First Dates   11/10/2011

My idea first date is something kinda simply but effective. Dinner and walking though the park is a good one, allows you to get to know each other. The beach or the shore is another nice spot. Fun spots would be go carts or a carnival.

1 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
im4xtc4u2 75 M
12  Articles
Nervous !!!   11/2/2011


3 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
The Man with the Sedan   11/2/2011

We met of a while back. He was into my tits really badly and wanted to meet. I picked a safe place, Dunkin Donuts right by me. He was in the area anyway on business.

He asked me what type of car I would be driving, I told him " a Saturn". I asked him what kind of car he drove, he replied "a Sedan".

I drove into the Dunkin Donuts parking lot and there he was, with his coffee ...

8 Comments, 824 Views, 26 Votes ,5.29 Score
dcphatazz 43 F
2  Articles
my first date   10/28/2011

I was 17 years of age when I went on my very first day. The guy was 16 years of age. We went to the same school and took classes together. I was very attractive to him, but was afraid to tell him. So one day I built up enough courage to finally talk to him. I spoke to him and he was very excited. He asked my out for a date and I accepted it. He took me to movie and I really enjoyed it. He ...

12 Comments, 1064 Views, 51 Votes ,3.36 Score
Doing it on the first date   10/26/2011

Is it bad that I consistently have sex on first dates nowadays? And do you believe this to be the case?

1 Comments, 83 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Sex on the first date yes or no?   10/25/2011

Curious to see how people feel about having sex on the first date?

7 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
fuck on the first date?   10/21/2011

how many have done it? did it turn into a serious relationship or just a casual thing?

0 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
jam7292000 75 M
5  Articles
Always a challenge   10/20/2011

First dates or meeting are always a challenge for either party. What will the other person think, how do I react, will they reject me..and the list goes on and on..Just be yourself and let the cips fall where they may..

0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
josephbfromvegas 40 M
2  Articles
What do u say to someone online to beak the ice   10/14/2011

I feel kinda awkward when I send someone a msg for the first time. It's like what is the best way to introduce yourself to a pic and a mailbox?

2 Comments, 70 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Successful First Date   10/14/2011

Why do guys always equate not scoring with a girl on the first date -- even a blind date -- to losing a video game? When I overhear guys discussing the hot date they went on the night before, I can't help but laugh when they tell their friends "I was so close, but I didn't get laid." This is usually followed by an extremely sad look on the friends' faces, followed by them shaking their heads ; ...

2 Comments, 47 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Finebbc 51 M
2  Articles
My first encounter with a couple   10/11/2011

I met this couple on, they were sweet. All along I had more interaction with the female, and I think she picked up my hesitancy to meet them as a couple since I had never done that before. So, we set up a date, of which I was of the impression it was going to be only me and the lady. I got to their place, met the woman and was told the husband is not around and wont be coming till later maybe ...

4 Comments, 758 Views, 21 Votes ,3.99 Score
luckyspark777 44 M
2  Articles
Shortest amount of time.   10/8/2011

What is the shortest amount of time it has taken you to have sex with someone upon first meeting them in person?

12 Comments, 264 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
rm_maninohio44 46 M
7  Articles
Hi one of my first dates   9/29/2011

Hi anyone want to share their first date story on here. I have one I had never met her before she found my profile where I had put I was single and looking we chatted for a few weeks then I asked her if she had a cam so I could see her she did and she was very pretty I asked her on a date not thinking it would lead to much we went to watch a movie that wasn't very good nither of us liked it so we ...

1 Comments, 194 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
Dougrn3 58 M
2  Articles
do you jump right in?   9/12/2011

How many people meet people on here and just jump right in. you know horizontal mambo. or do you take your time. dinner or lunch mayb e coffee?

2 Comments, 65 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Old school dating   8/31/2011

Does anyone have luck with 'old school' dating these days or is it all internet based - most of my friends who date folk over last few years seem to rely on internet.

0 Comments, 30 Views, 0 Votes
My first day   8/31/2011

I am talking about my first day of love. it is so romantic at that time (8 years ago). In contrary, it is so bad right now because the first love gone and leave the mess around me....

0 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Devonprovidesfun 34 M
10  Articles
Favorites   8/30/2011

My favorite places to take a first date are interesting, exciting places. Such as amusement parks and carnivals and fairs. Please tell me your favorite places.

2 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes
bbw_austin22 35 F
3  Articles
sluts   8/30/2011

humans are on this earth to reproduce. why are girls/guys considered sluts if they have sex with more than one person...we're just "practicing reproducing" lol. its sooo frustrating! ...

12 Comments, 322 Views, 36 Votes ,4.96 Score
Take her snow skiing   8/28/2011

This is not mine, I read it on another site somewhere.

Their first date was a snow skiing trip up in the mountains. They had a wonderful time and was on the way back home.

She had to pee, and ask to stop at the first service station. She held it and held it until it she had gone as long as she could.

Very sheepishly told her new boy friend her problem, he said he ...

0 Comments, 229 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
urs2be2 41 M
1  Article
what is the best...   8/25/2011

what is the best thing to do on a first date that might win you over?

1 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
steffawnforfun 36 M
4  Articles
whats in a date   8/23/2011

a date for the first time should be spontaineous i think what about u

0 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_yod01951 72 M
3  Articles
who will have sex on first date - younger women or older ones   8/21/2011

From my experience younger women are more open to sex on first date. One would think that older women (55-60+) will be open just as well, but they are not. any of you women out there have a thought about this? I am at a stage that I prefer the older ones, but they are harder to get...

6 Comments, 145 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Man4Man4Fun2Day 64 M
7  Articles
I lost my virginity on a first date.   8/19/2011

I made it through high school with my virginity intact. It was partly being afraid of getting a girl pregnant and 'having to get married' which was how things were in those days; all fathers in rural Alabama, white and black, had guns in their home and I didn't want my chance at a good future to end there. And to be honest it was partly being overweight, a nerd, wearing thick glasses, and ...

2 Comments, 732 Views, 22 Votes ,5.17 Score
It's Better to Chat Often Before the First Date   8/19/2011

So many people are anxious to "meet" that they often go head first into the first date without really getting to know one another. Frequently, the end result is awkward conversation and startling revelations. The fact is, there are two total strangers involved in most first date.

Yet, if the same two people immerse themselves in IM chats, and get to know each other a little better, that ...

0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
first date tips for men   8/19/2011

Plan. Women are suckers for a man with a plan because it shows you have initiative, can think ahead, and aren’t shy about taking the lead. Don’t punt and ask her what she wants to do. Be a man! You’re the one doing the asking, so it’s your duty to come up with something that she’ll enjoy. When a woman is with a man that has a plan, they feel they can relax and really enjoy themselves. ...

2 Comments, 135 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
zokash22 29 M
11  Articles
lake   8/17/2011

a nice first date walking around the lake skipping rocks and chilln at watching the stars

0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
funhungstud1 33 M
2  Articles
Going Sideways   8/12/2011

I've found that women like when you penetrate at an angle. What do you think?

2 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
jnuttyi27 39 M
10  Articles
Best Place   7/30/2011

Where is the best place to take a girl out to?

0 Comments, 28 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
jnuttyi27 39 M
10  Articles
3rd Base   7/30/2011

How can you get a girl in the bed on the first date

5 Comments, 52 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
zguy007 71 M
16  Articles
How to know if she's interested? Do NOT Touch Her!   7/27/2011

The best way to know if a woman is interested on the first not touch her. be friendly, engaging etc but do not touch her physically.

Second...IF she is interested in YOU, she will find a way to touch you. It may even appear to be accidental, but if a woman is truly interested in you, SHE WILL FIND A WAY TO TOUCH YOU!!!! Maybe just a touch to your arm, taking ...

7 Comments, 383 Views, 24 Votes ,5.74 Score
mindy_d 53 T
1  Article
First as Mindy   7/24/2011

I would not classify this as a first "date", but it was my first as Mindy. A couple of days ago I had the day off work and the house to myself all day. As soon as I was alone I rushed to the shower and bathed, shaved and slipped into Mindy. I put on red silky panties and a red silky baby doll nighty, full make up with bright red lipstick and a black short cropped wig. I modeled for myself in ...

4 Comments, 635 Views, 17 Votes ,4.12 Score
Twist787 41 M
6  Articles first dates   7/17/2011

Do people on this site treat first dates arranged here like a first date arranged in 'real life' or prefer the thrill of going somewhere knowing it's for lustfult reasons....?

7 Comments, 172 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
rm_HKMILF 32 M
1  Article
Present on 1st date   7/12/2011

Hi All, just wanna to share my recent case. I have a reply from a target lady for 1st date, since she said she was unhappy and wanna to have someone to share, then I suggest to have dinner with drinks, after several chat on texting and phone.

then before the dinner, she asked me to buy her a little present (a small purse, for carrying credit card plus coins), so as to make her happy. I ...

2 Comments, 302 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
joozee1 61 F
7  Articles
Casual (no investment) or Bedazzle (new outfit, hair cut)   7/10/2011

I wonder what most people think about meeting someone new for the first time? I have lately been showing up just as I am. I figure if they like me for how am I on a day to day basis then they probably really like me .. What do you think ?

7 Comments, 226 Views, 17 Votes ,4.26 Score
did you wait   6/29/2011

Whats the shortest time you have spent getting to know someone before you met them ?

6 Comments, 136 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
how long   6/29/2011

How long on average do you wait before you meet up with someone in person ?

1 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
We started in the shower   6/28/2011

Mike left the front door open..told me to walk in and get undressed when I arrived and join him in the shower. I entered and heard water running, ,walked into the bedroom and noticed the bathroom door open light was on..a in the bedroom..I took off my clothes and walked in the bathroom..the shower was large ..made of large glass bricks and door..six jets..I entered ...

4 Comments, 695 Views, 22 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_oarsman888 27 M
1  Article
Erotic first dates   6/24/2011

What are the hottest, most erotic first dates that people have had?

7 Comments, 275 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
tumim9 28 M
8  Articles
First virgin encounter   6/20/2011

I would like to introduce to the viewers about myself. I am a Male, 24 years of age & a Civil engineering from ........ I am 5’11”, Slim, and Fair guy from Bangalore, with a Penis measuring 5”. I was a easy going guy with many friends of both sex, but after completion of engineering I am not able to meet them and have fun. Today I want to make the world know about the incident, which made ...

3 Comments, 365 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
DfromCT 60 M
2  Articles
Naughty Girl: A Fantasy About First Erotic Encounter   6/15/2011

I meet you for our first lunch at a pub, and am immediately attracted to you. Your self description ("real cute, petite, brown hair, hazel eyes, 105#, 34-26-36) didn't even come close to preparing me for how hot you are. And that fire in your eyes, oh my...I want to drag you out of there and devour you for lunch immediately!

But I decided I better play it cool. I start to shake your ...

0 Comments, 263 Views, 10 Votes ,6.37 Score
AntonySuave84 40 M
2  Articles
Tips for first dates   6/11/2011

What would you recommend doing on a first date and what time of the day would you do it?

0 Comments, 102 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
CelticHart1981 40 M
3  Articles
What should a fist date be?   6/10/2011

First dates usually are go to the movies or dinner. Some people I know think fist dates are a good reason to go to the bar and have a drink where it can make people relax more but there is also the easy mistake of drinking to much and making a fool of ones self. I generally think a first date is usually done in a relaxing setting such as getting a coffee or somewhere open outside.

0 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_crazibs 45 M
11  Articles
Do You "F" on First Dates   5/31/2011

Now I know there are differences between hookups nad FWB but say you meet someone out of the blue brand new, you hit it off and deciede to go on a date, do you know prior to the date if you are or arent going ot sleep with them or does it depend on how the dates goes, or is there no way on the first date

6 Comments, 190 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
A First Meeting   5/30/2011

My 1st and only time playing this role was after my previous long-distance relationship of 3 years had ended, and I was doing some exploring and searching. It was only about my 3rd or 4th time experimenting in B&D play. I had experimented a bit with a ex, but we were both amateurs trying to figure out what we liked and didn't. I had done a lot of reading and research, and he had 1 experience with ...

6 Comments, 954 Views, 38 Votes ,6.97 Score
youwantwhatlol 55 C
4  Articles
Beyond pleasures   5/14/2011

We have both had so many experiences with others. Both of us have our own experiences to bring to the table. That is an attractant and reassurance, rather than a detriment. I would so rather have a lover and husband with experience. Someone that can play my body like a violin.

I have always been honest in all my past relationships. I have told others exactly who I am, what I want, ...

0 Comments, 150 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Pictures From 1989 Are Not Still Okay   5/9/2011

The last time I actively tried to meet somebody online nearly scared me off. The fact the photo seemed faded should've been a clue but I now I swear the photo had to be from the early 90s because it was like the profile's grandmother showed up to meet.

Up to date photos, people.

4 Comments, 136 Views, 15 Votes ,4.05 Score
Dont ever ask or expect sex on the first date   5/8/2011

Rule of thumb, sex is great but get to know the guy/girl before you slip it in. Break that tension and enjoy eachother. who knows, you may meet the one.

2 Comments, 97 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
Karen Meets Jack   5/7/2011

Karen Meets Jack

By Jack Hoff

It was a very hot day when Karen and Jack finally met. They didn’t have any real plans, they just were going to talk for a while and get to know each other better.

The meeting was planned for a park near where Karen lived. That way, out in the open, if this didn’t turn out to be right, it was safe – for both. ...

0 Comments, 173 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
spankin1234 47 M
3  Articles
How many?   5/6/2011

How many people have sex on the first date? When it most acceptable to bone??

1 Comments, 97 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
longandhard589 42 M
14  Articles
sex or no?   5/4/2011

how many ppl have sex on a first date, and how many are against sex on a first date?

3 Comments, 77 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
lovelyladies11 26 M
10  Articles
is it ok?   4/14/2011

every girl that ive been on a 1st date with even the good goody girls ive always had sex on the first date..does that make me a bad person cause man im very sexually active and i dont see a problem with it.

5 Comments, 135 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
discretion985 51 M
15  Articles
Unexpected hotel fun m4m 2   4/10/2011

The night was here and it was finally time for me to lose my anal virginity. I would be lying if I said I wasn't nervous but completely excited too. Paul had met me at my hotel room and we spent the afternoon getting me ready with a warm shower cleaning me in all the right areas. I was once again in another town so the fear of being outed was gone or as Paul put it I could just let go and release ...

9 Comments, 908 Views, 16 Votes ,5.63 Score
discretion985 51 M
15  Articles
Unexpected hotel fun m4m   4/4/2011

I was visiting another state on business, while staying at the hotel I decided to get out and walk around. As I left my room, I saw another guy going into his room as he opened the door he made eye contact and smiled, thinking nothing of it I nodded and walked by. I went to the lobby and boaught a coke and sat at the little cafe. After a few minutes I was approached by the guy from the hall. He ...

5 Comments, 1303 Views, 24 Votes ,7.45 Score
Is It Harder now?   4/3/2011

Yeah, I'm ten years older than my first date, but I can still get it hard. Has dating changed so much in ten years?? When I first met someone on it was easy. I humbly and honestly don't believe that I'm uglier so why is it more difficult to get responses? Are women more cautious than ten years ago? Have they abandoned for the safer, more mainstream sites? Please let me know, I've been ...

2 Comments, 156 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
handsome222 46 C
3  Articles
Have faith in who you want and what it takes   3/26/2011

When a man and a woman find each other attractive and further that possible desire for each other they make a date. Now taking into consideration the fact that they really have no understanding of who they really are, what their personalities possess. What deep seated desires, traits, attributes, idiosyncrasies, habits, true intentions, etc...are. So when you do go out on that first date and it ...

0 Comments, 49 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
johnp20094 75 M
40  Articles
this wasn't a date   3/17/2011

i was in the city on business.i stopped at this small bar for lunch and had a few i sat there reading over some forms this guy walks up to my table.he say i noticed your alone and wondered if you mind me joining you for lunch.

he said i hate to eat alone when i'm away from home.i look around and didn't see any open tables and said sure sit down.he sat and ordered lunch.he said ...

1 Comments, 413 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
If it's all about the sex!   3/14/2011

When meeting someone from here for the first time, should sex be expected? After all, this is a sex site, or should it be put out there thats what i'm here for?

1 Comments, 72 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
gfunk11 48 M
1  Article
first time meets   2/28/2011

So I am going to meet a girl sometime this week for the first time. I am kind of excited and a bit nervous but I know she will be more nervous than me. I am a fairly confident guy so I know I can set her at ease with the situation and then we can get down to some dirty fun

1 Comments, 89 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
rm_manz634 36 M
5  Articles
fresno Ca. 2001   2/25/2011

2001 while living in Fresno, ca while working out i met this girl named Monique. As i was getting done with my cardio workout very sweaty and tired she smiled at me. I then went and started doing my arm curls she went and started doing the same next to me. I then said" do you come here often i haven't seen you here before" she responded saying that she had recently moved from the San jose area ...

0 Comments, 205 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
looknfrsx 66 M
15  Articles
first date   2/24/2011

I would sure like to go out on a first date lillys lounge but I can't even see her profile but maybe if I keep getting points some day I'll be able to talk to her and ask her out

0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
notfakerealfuck 45 M
2  Articles
Reasons for being on   2/17/2011

I have come across several people here on that state in their profiles that they are here for NSA sex and hot great fucks, but then when you contact them it's a different story, I could understand more if the person would just be an adult and come out and say "hey I'm not interested" instead of the games they try to play, if you are into games then you should close out your account and go ...

2 Comments, 267 Views, 21 Votes ,6.84 Score
hotboi1183 41 M
10  Articles
is it ....   2/11/2011

is the first date always the best one??

0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
NIN204292 34 M
2  Articles
How do you like them to go?   2/11/2011

If im i a date with someone i wish to take them out on the town. A night filled with a dinner, movie, and a long chatty walk with ice cream/and or frozen yogurt. Call me a but i've never gone wrong taking a girl out on a simple evening. What do you like to do for a first date?

0 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
whats up   2/1/2011

does any one off here ver met for some fun lets chat and meet

1 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
jerric0 48 M
1  Article
my last first date   1/20/2011

i had a date tuesday night and i went terrible turned out it wasnt blind cause i knew her how akward was it, very i seen her today and we just acted like we didnt know each other

2 Comments, 151 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
roul_30 39 M
1  Article
superhero ever   1/19/2011

I was thinking this morning about my childhood and the things I liked as a . I always loved the Saturday morning cartoons and really dug one in particular. My absolutely most favorite superhero ever!!!

0 Comments, 128 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
what annoys girls   1/19/2011

gng on first date.. what annoys girls during date? what should i do to make my chances for bed

0 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
i always love   1/8/2011

head on first dates. very fun. its getting to the point where if that doesnt happen on a first date, i really start to ponder if the girl likes me or hates me. ive always been a poor judge on that however.

5 Comments, 98 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
7_inches_4_u916 26 M
8  Articles
Guess what?   1/7/2011

what do you call a girl who puts out on a first date? its a girl im gonna all for a second date

3 Comments, 129 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
JasJ002 27 M
2  Articles
Whats your worst?   12/31/2010

Just kind of curious what everybody's worst first date was?

Mine was when I had this whole big night planned, dinner reservations, gonna go roller skating. This whole cute little first date bit. Got into a car accident, then other guy flips out over a small dent in his rear fender. Made a whole awwwwwwwkward situation, ruined the whole night.

4 Comments, 161 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
rm_Ramrod469fun 48 M
1  Article
6 misunderstood first-date signs   12/24/2010

6 misunderstood first-date signs By Julie Taylor

You’re on a first date, and it’s going horribly. Or is it? It turns out that it’s all a matter of perspective. The elements that are making your date a disaster could actually signal something much sweeter. Read on for the six signs that your doomed date is anything ...

3 Comments, 530 Views, 29 Votes ,4.54 Score
clay20183 34 M
1  Article
What is the best way to start   12/18/2010

how do u make someone feel comfortable around you when you first meet it something to say that can break the ice between you and them...what can you say to keep the conversation interesting to them?

1 Comments, 85 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
10  Articles
why is it so hard to get a first date.   12/18/2010

dateing i give up trying to find someone.

4 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
10  Articles
If you hook up here the girl should know what you want right   12/18/2010

some girls play dum.

2 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes
ahappycpl 54 C
24  Articles
pushing your wife to date a bull   12/14/2010

I have ben trying now for 8 months to push my wife to go out on a date and hopefully fuck him then come and tell me all about it I think I'm getting close

10 Comments, 807 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
bigntall233 36 M
1  Article
Looking for love   12/9/2010

WHat is people exactly looking for. I hope that in a first date you can see chemistry. IF there is no chemistry then what are you sppose to do. I love bbw and hope to find one soon

1 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
earlgrayguy 57 M
0  Articles
Creatvity vs. reality   12/9/2010

I enjoy a nice walk in the park, maybe sitting by the waterside, or near a 's playground, a hike and grilling on the hibachi or eating sack lunches. That would be a nice first date to me. But reality says that for safety's sake it's got to be somewhere more public. Meeting at some shopping type of place might be alright if some common interests have been established. Clubs may provide the ...

0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
discretion985 51 M
15  Articles
Prove it with a BJ (m4m)   12/8/2010

Years ago I found myself in love with this hot chick named Sara who worked at a small office near where I worked, The only problem was she had a boyfriend named Kenny that was twice my size and rumored to have friends in high places namely the mafia. I knew it was a bad idea letting the little head do my thinking. I managed to get closer and closer with her as the weeks progressed but she ...

4 Comments, 1089 Views, 29 Votes ,7.35 Score
mzphatphat 38 F
6  Articles
this one is funny   12/5/2010

well i had been talking to his guy for some time and well we finly made a date to go to the movies well the day came and we went it waz packed ad i know he waz funny and liked to play games well i had to to the bathroom half throu the movie he had his feet up on the seat infrount of him well i asked to pleas move them so i can pass well he didnt move them so to not disturbe the movie i went to ...

1 Comments, 310 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
wal mart first date   11/28/2010

I had been emailing several girls on and was interested in a few. I had been chatting with this girl that worked at wal mart and she wanted to meet. I asked her to tell me how i could meet her and tell it was her. She said where she would be and that her bra size was a 38. Well i went to wal mart and walked up to the one i thought was her and asked if those were 38 DD's. She said yes and ...

10 Comments, 879 Views, 24 Votes ,1.99 Score
hi friends   11/28/2010

hi i want a date to see ho a first date look like

1 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Ababix3 35 M
8  Articles
What to do when your date is shorter than expected   11/28/2010

People might seem taller in pictures than in real life. What does someone do when their date turns out to be shorter than they expected? Is it fair to deny them a second date based on that?

4 Comments, 86 Views, 2 Votes
Butterflies and the like....   11/15/2010

Aren't most meetings full of stomach butterflies on both sides?

I think once we realize that's the case, then we can relax. Certainly the person you're meeting is feeling the same stress you are. Understand that and you can relax. Whatever happens....well....happens!

1 Comments, 68 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Hnovaro55 34 M
10  Articles
For those of you that have met people here   11/1/2010

Did you actually go out somewhere and meet up like a date, or did you just hook up? Just curious as to what people prefer!

2 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
SexxxxxyLola 34 F
3  Articles
I NEED TO GO GOLD   10/23/2010

hey guys im bored all alone at home... i ready to hook up but i need to go gold... ne advise to do it the cheap way

1 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
DonJuan7622 40 M
10  Articles
most common   10/12/2010

whats the most common place for a first meeting?

1 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
DonJuan7622 40 M
10  Articles
hooking up   10/12/2010

is it aquward meeting someone on for the first time?

4 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
So how do you edge into this life safely?   10/10/2010

This is so different from when I was young , I have a hard time deciding where jump in. I am unsure of meet and greets. Not everybody can wind up desires at the flip of light switch. Also how can you know if its safe? I guess instinct should tell a person but people can have herpes and warts type things that they don't even know ? How have you battled throught this and found the pleasure we all ...

1 Comments, 108 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
69TulipaNegra69 45 F
0  Articles
Learning new things   9/26/2010

I would say I am quite open to try new things, to test other ideas, to learn about everything. I guess I am a curious person. Yeah, I could say that.

I have started my sexual life at the age of 18, and was born in a generation that was bombed with information about safe sex. I'm from 1978 so all the HIV protection talk had reached it highest when ...

3 Comments, 345 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
rm_Tallbro28 29 M
1  Article
I dont know   9/21/2010

To be honest. Ive had sex with one girl. And it was 2 years ago....Everytime im about to have sex with a girl, i cant even get hard, i always feel like im going to have a bad preformance, or i simply just wont get hard. I mean I know I can get hard, its just that ussually when Im about to have sex, I wont. I have no clue.

Any tips?

5 Comments, 168 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_nish704 31 M
2  Articles
girls for first date...   9/21/2010

is there any girl here who wnna come date with me....

0 Comments, 94 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Japanese beauty   9/13/2010

I was finished work and went to a local club for a few beers and started chatting with a few Japanese girls. They were there after work also and as we chatted one girl in particular showed some interest in me. She was dressed in a white silk top and a tight mid thigh length black skirt. Her eyes were so friendly and her face was a very happy face, I felt so comfortable with her. I asked if she ...

3 Comments, 975 Views, 30 Votes ,7.85 Score
play it safe or make a move   9/12/2010

lets say its not a date your actually just hanging out as friends..... do single girls always want more or are some people just friend ?

0 Comments, 49 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sex on the first date   9/8/2010

how do you feel about sex on the first date

11 Comments, 249 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Where to meet   9/6/2010

It seems that most of us dont trust anyone so the first date is usually a meeting in a public place. The only problem is that a lot of the people on here want to be dicrete. Hmmm sounds almost like a problem. What do you think.

4 Comments, 141 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sex on the first date !   8/30/2010

I believe in having sex on the first date. At my age there may not be a second date. ...

1 Comments, 44 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
wolverine9118333 26 M
3  Articles
What did u gift your online friend on ur first sex date?   8/28/2010

When you met your online friend for first sex date, what did you gift him/her? I usually carry chocolates n flowers for the girl.. or any other things which she would like... what about you all? I hope its not 'condoms'..

0 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
rm_b_dirty_2_me 54 M
2  Articles
taking a few liberties   8/27/2010

"Taking a few liberties, aren't you?", she asked, as I caressed her bare thigh with my hand. We were on our first date, an afternoon drive in the country.

"Yes, you could put it that way, " I replied, enjoying the drive. I always enjoy it when I can drive with one hand and touch pretty legs with the other. Her legs were beyond pretty, they were incredible.

"Well, I don't ...

2 Comments, 321 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
gagonmycock14 42 M
27  Articles
first dates   8/26/2010

I think physical activities are beneficial on a first date. it takes you out of the norm from going to a dinner and a movie typical date. plus, the girl or guy will get to know you more and have more things to say when there is something physical involved and the guarantee that there wont be that awkward silence moment.

0 Comments, 22 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tor_ped_o 60 M
2  Articles
Using a heavy bag for cario training.   8/22/2010

Not only is a heavy bag fun for training, it can also provide an awesome cardio workout. Make sure to anchor it well, especially if you can hit or kick hard. Use bag gloves to avoid injuring the hands.

Move around the bag as if it were an actual opponent and punch continually. Keep the hands up, just under the chin when not punching. Start with a 1 minute round. If you punch ...

2 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
swagsurfin24 30 M
4  Articles
What to do on a first date?   8/16/2010

Most people I know consider the standard dinner and a movie the perfect first date. But, for me this just does not seem to be a good way to get to know the person. I would rather do something interactive like play putt putt golf, go to a theme park, a baseball game or something different. Even the park would be a good place to go. Does anyone agree with me on this?

2 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Easy First Date   8/11/2010

Found out it is much easier to have a first date without any sexual expectations.You are both relaxed and are in a restaurant or coffee house and you will be surprised that a good number will not mind having sex with you that day later.

0 Comments, 140 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
My First Date "No Expectations" Policy   8/7/2010

Meeting here is fraught with sexual stimulation. I am sure there are some guys who assume every women here is a slut in heat ready to mount the biggest dick she can find.

Then there's all the arousal of the emails and chats often accompanied by salacious photos. Virtually every exchange is sexually charged. Which often leads to unrealistic expectations created by hopeful perceptions ...

1 Comments, 117 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
KY moonshine   8/4/2010

I had been sent to Kentucky to teach a new method to University faculty and all my expenses were paid. After I checked in the Crowne I received a call from the University that transportation would pick me up at 8a.m. At 8 the next morning I got a call and was informed that my ride was there. I went to the lobby and a lady was there to drive me. As we got in her SUV I noticed her skirt ride up her ...

1 Comments, 616 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
nioanuz123 38 M
0  Articles
meeting   8/4/2010

A first date is any type of initial or previously acquainted meeting between two individuals where an effort is made to ask, plan and organize some sort of social activity. Dating can vary between cultures, lifestyles, religion, gender, etc. In many countries and cultures it is the process that romantic relationships are developed and future spouses are found. Often, people are set up on dates by ...

1 Comments, 67 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
hellostranger444 37 M
1  Article
what is a good one.   7/28/2010

what is the best place to go on a first date?

0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
joy_4_u 41 F
1  Article
Why   7/22/2010

Why are first dates so difficult?

11 Comments, 349 Views, 27 Votes ,3.56 Score
Mark66932 36 M
1  Article
Do you have sex?   7/19/2010

Do you have sex on the first date? I don't speak english very well. Sry for the small article

5 Comments, 88 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
treeballs2000 55 M
6  Articles
WORK AS USUAL   7/1/2010

I landed myself a woman that most regular guys would run screaming from. Her name is Clarissa and she is one whopper of a big woman, just the way I like them! Fat and all that! Mmmm dayum! Yeah, most guys would call me a freak because I dig picking up chicks at the local bingo hall. But for a guy that's looking for a huge hunk of lovin', it's just the place to find them! I run around the bingo ...

2 Comments, 344 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
wiz169mg 45 M
5  Articles
who makes the 1st move?   6/30/2010

i have always made the 1st move on a date when we seem to click. Should i feel weird when i get moved on?

4 Comments, 140 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_39inches 35 M
1  Article
sex   6/15/2010

my first date was super.the sex was damn good. just a nice smiling babygurl with a so much hairy on her pussy. i was amazed when i saw that she never shaved her pussy ever. but 2 me, i so much luv it. cause i deal with matured women not a baby. when she saw my cock, she was like..damnnnnnn too big for me. but when i pushed it little by little inside her pussy..she got used to it, and kept asking ...

1 Comments, 217 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Opposites Attract?   6/9/2010

At what point do you end a date due to lack of compatibility. i've found my self in alot of 1st/last date situations where I consider some one too different and cut my loses. Now as I'm older I see alot of people who shouldn't be together, yet they all appear happy. are they just crazy? or do I judge to quickly?

1 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Take me in to the ballgame.   6/8/2010

I and two fellow members of the staff at work were attending a conference in Baltimore and were staying at the Omni. The other two were not fellows but were married women. I was single. The first night there I went to the hotel bar and was checking out the action when I noticed one of the women come in and order a drink. She was several tables away and I was doing fine with a cute redhead who had ...

3 Comments, 1035 Views, 27 Votes ,6.19 Score
dboii510 34 M
1  Article
Scared Sh**less?   6/6/2010

So it's your first date and your kinda nervous. You wanna make sure everything you say is the right thing to say to get her in the bed. Well bad news....just kidding haha it's not that hard. What i do is i just be the way i am all the time. Make sure your a gentle man but not trying to do to much to make her think your, ...well a bitch i mean really most girls now days like the bad boys but still ...

0 Comments, 81 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Always Tough   6/2/2010

Always remember that is is a little stressfukll, but don't make it hard on yourself. You are growing up and it is an exciting part of being an adult. Keep up the good work.

0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Live & Learn !   5/25/2010

Some people live and learn. Some just live. ...

2 Comments, 58 Views, 16 Votes ,1.22 Score
SPCjim 34 M
1  Article
that first time meeting   5/17/2010

so who all feels like they worried bout meeting that person for the first time? walkin in to where ever you meeting him or her or them and realizing that this not what you had in mind?

0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_camila51000 64 M
13  Articles
Does he love me?-Sings that he loves you   4/29/2010

, ,Love is a many splendored thing"is a wanderful o;d song.We all have a basic need to be loved.When we are we are content whit maternal love and familial bands.As we mature and we form romantic relationships, initially we may want to keep things light and un complicated.But as relationship deepen most individuals feel innate need to love and be loved in return.

1 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
The older we get !   4/28/2010

The older we get, the fewer things seem worth waiting in line for, especially a first date. ...

1 Comments, 113 Views, 27 Votes
Prof10001 63 M
0  Articles
What would you do differently?   4/24/2010

A friend posted a question to generate some discussion on her blog. She asked what would you do differently in your life if you had the chance to go back. I replied to her blog glibly, "I'd do Katie differently."

Coincidentally, that happened to be the truth. It was just before my high school graduation. I was green as grass. Very little experience with girls. A few little kisses that ...

4 Comments, 142 Views, 11 Votes ,4.29 Score
mfriendly2 42 M
9  Articles
The Ten Most Dangerous Mistakes   4/24/2010

MISTAKE #1: Being Too Much Of A Nice Guy Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted to "nice" guys?

Of course you have.

Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"… but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.

What's going on here?

It's actually ...

2 Comments, 194 Views, 23 Votes ,2.43 Score
havinfun1101 37 M
7  Articles
expectations   4/20/2010

I just recently took a girl out on a date and one of the first things she tells me is if I am looking at getting into her pants then Im with the wrong girl. She goes on to tell me she is a player. I have no clue what to think.

2 Comments, 248 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
kumuscott 53 M
13  Articles
Sex on the first date   4/20/2010

How about just having a woman come over that you met on and just getting down to business. I think thats ok as long as both parties agree upon it which is exactly what happened to me last night. Enough of the chit chat, next girl that contacts me on here I am just going to ask her what is she looking for if you know what I mean, quit beating around the bush.

2 Comments, 285 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
On one condition !   4/17/2010

A woman was sitting at a bar enjoying an after work cocktail with her girlfriends when Steven, a tall, exceptionally handsome, extremely sexy, middle-aged man entered. He was so striking that the woman could not take her eyes off him.

This seasoned yet playful heartthrob noticed her overly attentive stare and walked directly toward her (as any man would.) Before she could offer her ...

2 Comments, 213 Views, 19 Votes ,0.22 Score
thirdwheel1979 45 M
3  Articles
should i try   4/16/2010

should a guy trey for it on the first date?

2 Comments, 62 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
CuriousHubby28 40 M
2  Articles
Kiss and tell?   4/9/2010

To the ladies... any of you go back and tell your gf's all about your first date with a guy and whether or not you kissed?

2 Comments, 131 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
roadboy1999 49 M
2  Articles
hey   4/7/2010

does anyone fuck on the first date

1 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
youngfunguyIL 39 M
6  Articles
nerves   4/5/2010

So who here gets a little nervous on the 1st meet and what do you do to overcome that?

2 Comments, 164 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
micas2222 42 M
2  Articles
sex on first dates   3/31/2010

do you make sex on the first date ?

in my opinion is a bad thing but i like to view awnsers

5 Comments, 144 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
had a good first date   3/29/2010

met a wonderful woman on here the other night for dinner anyone else had a good experience

2 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
nine4u2c 56 M
2  Articles
How do you "date" someone on   3/24/2010

I haven't met a HUGE amount of women off of here, but a first date? Every time I actually have met someone off of, it has always been either they come to my house, I go to theirs, or we meet at a hotel and just fuck.

A first date? Who has had one?

6 Comments, 366 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
wiz169mg 45 M
5  Articles
who should make the 1st move?   3/23/2010

Is this something that should be discussed prior to meeting. I have always felt confident in making the 1st move; but i can usually read a woman pretty good when things start to heat up. However, I have had many woman make the 1st move on me and caught me totally by surprise.

3 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Bubblyboo3 45 M
10  Articles
does anyone ever forget their first date?   3/5/2010

I remember mine and how bad it was

2 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
drjohn0069 33 M
2  Articles
dating   2/25/2010

What is it like for a guy to go on a first date with another guy.

1 Comments, 304 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_THKK8inM4u 60 M
5  Articles
Is it important to make her cum more than once on the first date.   2/21/2010

Just what is it that makes her come back for more, is it really good to really lay it on her or save some for the future???

11 Comments, 251 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
KarmaBella 52 F
5  Articles
The River   2/18/2010

[font face=Perpetua]We finally decide that it’s time for us to meet on our first date. I asked you to meet me in a public place, but one were we could also find the perfect private spot, just in case. I chose a park that is nestled at the bottom of a hill along the banks of the River. The trail goes to the left and to the right. Most folks go the left because the trail is longer and it ...

5 Comments, 450 Views, 21 Votes ,6.22 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
hi any1 near delhi/ggn/ncr read on   2/7/2010

any ladies in delhi looking for males check this out....u won't regret

buzz me

1 Comments, 30 Views, 0 Votes
mysteriousman43 36 M
10  Articles
amaizing   2/6/2010

my first date was amizing enouigh i can, t forget it simply

1 Comments, 91 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
tarikthemagic 32 M
3  Articles
What I worry about? uh...   1/31/2010

I suppose a lot are here because they haven't succeeded very well in dating previously. Not saying that's everyone, but some.

I suppose things would be much easier if we all knew what to look for and so in a date. I personally do well until climax and that's where I mes up... WITHOUT FAIL!

So here's a few things I worry about when I'm getting ready for a date. Why don't you guys ...

1 Comments, 33 Views, 0 Votes
I_am_PolyLover 71 M
1  Article
What I expect to happen on a first date.   1/29/2010

We would take a walk or go somewhere where we could have a long talk to find out about each other. A Hot Tub would be nice, as would a quiet restaurant. Whereas a movie, concert, amusement park, and similar places would take too much of our attention away from each other. We would both be asking questions, and listening attentively to the answers.

If the chemistry is ...

3 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
mysteriousman43 36 M
10  Articles
amaizing   1/20/2010

my first date was amaizing.i can, t forget it in my life.

1 Comments, 54 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
11  Articles
opinion   1/16/2010

ok i belive that steps to building a relationship are to only go as far asthe other person is willing to go. some people feel that they want to go "all the way" on the 1st date. I have to admit i do as well bt i usually only go as far as the other person wants to

1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Young5Gun 35 M
3  Articles
dinner and a movie   1/12/2010

mayb it is the changing of the times but i dont do the dinner and movie route. for me it is either movie or dinner not both, i just feel like spending 3plus hrs together on a first time going out is a tad much.

1 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
WeLikeCompanyStL 63 C
8  Articles
My first...and sadly, my last!   1/10/2010

About 10 years ago, I was on another dating site and was contacted by a local woman and after a few e-mails, she asked if I'd be interested in meeting (and screwing) even if it was a "one time, and only one time" rendezvous. Being a guy, I didn't poinder her rationale or even think it odd. She came over in the middle of the day, smartly dressed and she was very charming. I had to reaffirm my ...

3 Comments, 836 Views, 21 Votes ,2.26 Score
18764930560SEX 30 M
10  Articles

They have a saying that ladies that sounds good over the phone are ugly is this true or false i really would love to know i have the experience so am on the believing side but my mind can be changed......

2 Comments, 94 Views, 0 Votes
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Dating first time with your date - Some Dating tips about what you need to do   1/6/2010

Meeting your date first time gives a range of emotional feeling in your mind which will be soo thrilling and also terrifying. Dating with a singles for the first time will make a lot of chemistry changes in our body. At Bepenfriends we give a dating articles in how to tips what will help your first meeting with your date go smoothly:

1) Be on time!

Timeliness is first tip in ...

8 Comments, 168 Views, 14 Votes ,5.22 Score
sl221000 57 M
1  Article
What should you expect on a first date   1/5/2010

As we all know this is a age old question however, it seems more complicated for me now that I am trying to meet someone on a web site to fulfill a fantasy. Do I hope everything is fulfilled on the first date? yes, but whats the person I am meeting hoping for? hopefully, the same after all, they too are using the same site! So is it safe to move fast or move slow?

3 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
jh_atlanta 33 C
2  Articles
Share your best first "meet and greet" with a couple   12/27/2009

I'm interested in hearing about other members first "times" with meeting other couples. It can be a first time meet and greet, first play date, or even first time at a party/cub.

4 Comments, 324 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Czar2czar 53 M
2  Articles
Knock Knock 3   12/22/2009

Well We rest a little I'll be running My finger gingerly behind Your ear ( were in the missionary position ) I'll be kissing Your lips then I'll stick the tip of My tongue in Your parting lips. My other hand will be rubbing Your lower lips, to get You nice and moist again! I'll move My mouth from Yours and move My hands to Your excited nipples and I'll rub and give You some slight pinches, ...

1 Comments, 89 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
apoca99 41 M
5  Articles
SHOULD U?   12/18/2009


3 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
lonely262 41 M
1  Article
Best?   12/10/2009

I think dinner and a movie as a first date is kind of lame... Whats your favorite place to take the special someone for the first time? (not straight to the bed) <-even though that would be a great start...


8 Comments, 114 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_3u1s4a 42 M
2  Articles
would you go out with me ?   12/9/2009

would you go out with me ?

3 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes
WarmMoistLips 70 T
1  Article
First Date role play scenario   12/7/2009

NOTE: This article is intended as first date icebreaker. The guest should be male (or equipped with strapon). The guest appears at the host's door and introduces self as a state blowjob inspector. The inspector (guest) then interviews subject (host) with questions and administers a fild test. Questionaire is included below:


1 Comments, 152 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_reelguy53 63 M
1  Article
is this an ideal first date?   12/7/2009

hi beautiful, after several chats i can see us deciding to meet. in a quiet little bar anywhere. i had been attracted to you since first reading your profile. after a drink & a few laughs, we look into each others eyes & know why we are there. when i suggest we go, you just put your hand on my thigh & smile. i lead you by the hand outside to a near-by hotel. once behind locked doors i pick you up ...

1 Comments, 80 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_SassyButt1 53 F
1  Article
How can some men be so stupid....   12/6/2009

I am just wondering how come some men (especially with no picture) will accept meeting someone, especially someone that is out of their league, without any contact via phone to know that the person is real. Do they actually seriously think that an absolutely beautiful woman is going to contact them when they have no picture and want to meet them with out any contact? And, when the beautiful ...

19 Comments, 653 Views, 29 Votes ,4.54 Score
my first love   12/4/2009

it was a very snowy night, i was home alone , waiting getting bored, my male friend called me to see if he could come over, i said yes.we went up to the bedroom, and laid on my bed watching t .v.

i felt his hands carressing my back, and he whispered in my ear how much he loved me, and wanted me. i started to get chills, he reached around and kissed me passionatley, we ...

2 Comments, 243 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
hawaiianhunkaroo 41 M
1  Article
Meeting people   12/1/2009

If you're going to post a pic and meet the person, might be a good idea to make sure it's actually YOU!

3 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
look like you are going out   11/16/2009

Please dress like someone is going to take you out on the town.Slob you are not the type of women that i date, your hair is a mess, bad etiquette, all you can do is type nice and confuse me.maybe i need to be less horny , and quit saying fuck it .

1 Comments, 64 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Venom101 49 M
8  Articles
cherry   11/14/2009

Interestingly enough, I first met Cherry after chatting with her husband online with chat. He told me they were looking for a man she could be with and have some fun, outside of his presence.

We arranged for me to pick her up one late Saturday night when the snow was falling at a rate of about 4 to 5 inches an hour. The good thing was there was no wind.

After I ...

1 Comments, 1250 Views, 35 Votes ,7.29 Score
Czar2czar 53 M
2  Articles
Knock knock 2   11/8/2009

I'll slide my tongue from your mouth to your neck, then I'll slide my my tongue to your breast tantalizing your nipples till their hard, then I'll nibble the tips with My teeth as gently as I can, I'll stop their and blow as soft as I can with warm air so you could feel the pleasure of where my tongue had just been! I'll be saving the best for last so I'll begin to use my hands next, using my ...

1 Comments, 129 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
sleepsnaked 44 M
1  Article
First date relativism   11/6/2009

I will say that when it has comes to first dates, it really all depends on what you consider a date.

If your looking for a realationship...its a whole different approach than a first date with a potential hookup or a first date with a swinger, or a first date which a blind date.

For people really interested in long term....I recomend some coyness. Its not a neccesity, I have a ...

1 Comments, 93 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
onlyoneme913 34 M
10  Articles
????????????????   11/3/2009


4 Comments, 90 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Czar2czar 53 M
2  Articles
Knock knock!   10/31/2009

This story is for a lady who I'll call Mass(O.S.Y.N.G)

Knock knock, you'll open the door dressed in your see through nightie, you'll have a big grin from ear to ear as an a approval of what you see. You'll invite me in, I'll hand you one white rose, to symbolize the pureness of our first meeting. Next a yellow rose to symbolize our new found friendship. Last, a ...

1 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
xhornx2 49 M
2  Articles
practise safe sex   10/19/2009

Would you always use a condom if you dont know the person and having casual sex.Is this something to keep in mind or is it more enjoyable to go with the flow.

3 Comments, 90 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
udrivemecrazy4u 33 M
3  Articles
1st date,.....   10/17/2009

1st date.. i think its something most of them will cherush for life long if it s a pure relationship... right..

2 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
red7524 33 M
10  Articles
sex on first date   10/12/2009

should i try and have sex on the first date.

2 Comments, 137 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
The first date kiss !   10/5/2009

If you kiss on the first date and it's not right, then there will usually be no second date.

So ya better make it a good un !

6 Comments, 126 Views, 41 Votes
ugotafeelme3 42 M
1  Article
1st   10/3/2009

wat is there to do on the firts date

2 Comments, 53 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
marlborohot21 34 M
1  Article
What not to Do ( Opinionated )   9/24/2009

This is a small article based on my own screw ups with a first date. Most of it is a no brainer but Im sure someone will find it useful.

1) As much as you want the date to go flawlessly don't become a control freak over small issues like time and when you are meeting.

2) Don't call/text the person you are going on a date with to much before the date with inane things like " When ...

1 Comments, 182 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Great First Date !!!   9/24/2009

On a first date that I had once my date and myself went out to dinner. After a some what late dinner being in downtown. We decided to go for a walk on our walk we discussed my things one of which was our love of art work. So in passing by a certain building with a huge lobby with art work displayed. We go inside admired the display when I noticed a door that seemed to lead nowhere. I take my date ...

1 Comments, 481 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
how many girls have had sex on the first date   9/22/2009

and regreted it

3 Comments, 153 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
3way4fun87 31 C
10  Articles
my first date   9/13/2009

ended up in a group sex party lol

11 Comments, 1241 Views, 27 Votes ,5.13 Score
rm_hornyliku 30 M
3  Articles
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4 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
A possible line for you to use !   8/25/2009

Wouldn't you just love to say this to someone on a first date?

Wipe your mouth, there's a tiny bit of bullshit around your lips. ...

2 Comments, 85 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
Fun2Come 44 M
2  Articles
Language barrier...   8/17/2009

I met a girl after two months exchange of messages... Even though the messages were in English (which isn't the mother language - neither for me or her) and there wasn't any problem to be noticed.

On the first date we had a walk, talk and some hot wine while walking around the Christmas market - I guess that I was as nervous as she was, but after a while I notice that I was mainly the ...

3 Comments, 200 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_Freakkiness 35 M
3  Articles
What would you do?   8/12/2009

What would you do on a first date to make it more likely that you will get laid?

9 Comments, 205 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
The Itch (continues)   8/5/2009

I told you about how I got my itch scratched, with a perfect stranger. We had decided to name each other Dick and Jane. We had shared a few drinks and dances at a joint, left there and went to his hotel room and my itch was, oh so very well, scratched.

Our clothes were off within ten minutes of reaching his room and we headed for the shower, where we washed and played and climaxed ...

2 Comments, 408 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
Shayne91edge2 32 M
15  Articles
ideas?   7/17/2009

what do you like to do on your first date?

we can see how many people have common first date ideas!

me personnally for a first date, i like to go eat out somewhere, then watch a movie, then if lucky go back to someone's house for sexual or non-sexual activity.

6 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
evaelynn 49 F
0  Articles
Woman to Woman   6/23/2009

As I look through all these first dates articles, none talk about women dating women. I find that a little odd, don't you? I think since we are on an adult site, it might be a topic of interest for someone other than myself. I have a friend, we have been friends for over a year now. We share everything, fantasies (including what we would do with each other) fears, joy, frustration with and men ...

3 Comments, 315 Views, 16 Votes ,4.30 Score
rm_meetin_peple 35 M
3  Articles
What is a no no?   6/22/2009

What is it that guys and gurls should never do on their first date?

5 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
Best food   6/12/2009

What is the best type of food to take your date to on your first date if you want her to come back from a second date? Or does it really matter at all?

1 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
mshonee 41 F
1  Article
What to do   6/9/2009

fuck! just fuck!

16 Comments, 854 Views, 42 Votes ,5.78 Score
kvv202020 36 F
5  Articles
Public Place or My Place?   5/3/2009

Would it be better to meet in a public place like a resturant or bar or something or meet up at my place?

64 Comments, 1250 Views, 109 Votes ,5.09 Score
rm_onehothard 48 M
4  Articles
The Meet-----Chapter One   4/22/2009

The suspense is killing you, the anticipation of what may be allows your sweet juices to flow free and you cannot believe how wet you are between your thighs. You have tried not to think of sex , as already you are a wire spring tightly coiled by your nervous fears and hopes; once again you question your sanity through all of this. You see your reflection through the mirror behind the bar and ...

0 Comments, 93 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
billy8675 47 M
4  Articles
My First Date...   4/21/2009

I was seperated for less than a month when I met a woman on the internet. We decided to go to a bar/restaraunt in the waterfront. We hit it off very well and after eating and having a couple of drinks she asked me what i wanted to do now. I replied"what would you like to do?" She said, "To be honest I would like to go back to my place to cuddle." I said that would be great and we left the ...

1 Comments, 399 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
how to ask female or male date?   4/12/2009

1. Determine when the time is right to ask. Normally there has to be some familiarity. This method can work with out-and-out strangers but is not recommended. 2. Ask (her/him). If you get an answer other than yes we will proceed with overcoming objections. Overcoming objections is a sales tool and yes, you are selling yourself (to her). * "WOULD YOU LIKE TO GO OUT WITH ME SOMETIME?" ...

2 Comments, 105 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
Hot Trish-Part I   4/6/2009

I had known Trish (not her real name obviously) for several years. I had always noticed her but thought of her as off limits as she was a friend etc. Anyway, one year she had made a comment to another friend that she thought I was quite fine-this did get back to me and I started thinking about her in a new way...I wondered how she would taste, I watched her as she bent down and looked carefully ...

0 Comments, 501 Views, 22 Votes ,7.21 Score
Grooverat 47 M
3  Articles
Horror Stories   4/6/2009

Let's hear you first date horror stories, you tell me yours and I'll tell you mine is the deal.......

3 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
secretblklover 34 M
9  Articles
meeting place   4/4/2009

what is a perfect meeting place to meet someone that is new to the swinging lifestyle?

2 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
cocodick 38 M
3  Articles
Finally meeting the girl i chatted to for months   3/28/2009

After a couple months of chatting to this girl online i finally met her, she was even more that i expected in person, i instantly became speechless. We went out to eat all the while my palms were sweaty and my feet were shaking nervously. After that first night out we went out a couple more times till the night came, i asked her to come in and she accepted. Now you can just imagine how my heart ...

2 Comments, 453 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
Just how important is the first face to face.   3/22/2009

I'll preface this by saying that I met my current wife on We talked on the phone and sent e-mails....of course... but the first face to face meeting was critical. I wanted to make a good impression, so I proceeded to plan for cooking for her. We met in a parking lot, sat in her veh. for a while...looking and talking....then we went to the house. Told her that I was cooking for her. What ...

1 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
too nice?   3/20/2009

Whenever i got to know a nice girl in the last 3 months, and i really liked her, and everything just seems too good, she tells me that it wouldnt work because im too nice........ i just try that she has a nice time and feels comfortable. Is it possible too be too nice?

3 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
I need a passionate woman   3/13/2009

I want a woman to take care of my desires and let me take care of her needs I am open minded decent gentleman I respect sexy passionate ladies...

1 Comments, 85 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_bbw4u2injoy 46 F
2  Articles
hmmm one of my first dates   2/27/2009

OK so I've been on here for a little while now, and I've met some men and had my fair shares of conversations and as a women on here I have to say yes we are picky on who we talk to.. even if we are slutty or not we are picky... lol at least i am at times.. lol

so i had this date not to long ago he hit me up on the instant messenger.. and i some times sit there fuckin around mostly cuz ...

6 Comments, 571 Views, 21 Votes ,5.35 Score
mitchmister88 34 M
1  Article
what is your ideal first date?   2/24/2009

i would like to here them?

3 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
lovestream 57 M
1  Article
First date fantasy   2/23/2009

My hope is that you find this arousing and stimulating enough to interact!Enjoy!........After a few e-mails we decide to meet.I make the trip to(your adress) to meet this gorgeous (your age and description)year young women for the first time....we have been flirting back and forth online for a while now.I think she is spectacular and i can't wait to meet her.She has this sexy shot posted on her ...

1 Comments, 131 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
Tinman00D 60 M
1  Article
Icecream Social   2/21/2009

I'm still a bit new here and have enjoyed finding my way around and learning about the different communities here.

I had my first meet and greet with an amazing lady, and I have to say it was everything I was hoping for and much more. We met for lunch and some light conversation. 45 minutes later we felt comfortable enough to move ourselves to her ...

0 Comments, 183 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
rm_BustyB1977 40 F
7  Articles
To Fuck or Not to Fuck   2/17/2009

Throughout the years, people has said not to fuck on the first date. What is the reasoning behind this? It the two of you are into each other, then why "engage in congress?" I mean what the hell can it hurt? Sex is a natural thing between humans, so who is to say that fucking on the first date is immoral? I mean the two of you might just have a sexual chemistry that is unlike no other and a ...

9 Comments, 291 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
harryboy1951 62 F
1  Article
I've Got a Stage Four Clinger!   2/17/2009

He sends you the most flattering emails you have ever read. He thinks you’re a queen with the style and grace of Jacqueline Kennedy. You realize the compliments are over the top, but you can’t help but eat it up with a spoon. He asks for your cell phone number so he can call you and hear the lilt in your melodic voice. He sends Instant Messages on a daily basis dreaming of the ...

8 Comments, 272 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Luv2eatPuss305 40 M
4  Articles
Whats the Chances of having a good catch?   2/16/2009

Im a single independant hispanic male. Living confortable in South Florida. Looking to meet with ladies only. Whats about?

0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_kilo360z 29 M
12  Articles
My first Date   2/9/2009

For the females, what is some type of signs yall give on the slick, that let us know u ready to fuck..

1 Comments, 125 Views, 3 Votes
dppup 44 M
1  Article
getting started   2/7/2009

It seems that in this day and time everyone is on the defensive. Wouldn't life be easier if people just learned to enjoy life. I signed up on this site to meet people, and explore new opportunities. Since joining I am finding that people "talk the talk but don't walk the walk". It is hard to get started on here. Being straight forward with people makes them even more sceptical of an ...

2 Comments, 107 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
nastyin702 57 F
1  Article
The Focus Of The Date   2/1/2009

After a long absence from here, a good 2 years I returned almost a week ago. Same old issues.I get such a kick out of the ones that critique a man or woman if their bodies have the slightest imperfections.If they were getting so much play why are they here? All the Drama Kings and Queens should have stayed home and made someone else miserable.Now to the point of this article.Tonight I had a ...

4 Comments, 274 Views, 22 Votes ,6.49 Score
SotonGuy22 37 M
2  Articles
Tips for guys   1/25/2009

So, you're looking forward to your first date, but you don't know what to do or how to act?

Firstly, don't make it anything too extravagant for your first meet - You don't want to seem desperate, or an easy pushover financially (Target for gold-diggers).

On the date, just talk as you normally would. be yourself - humor helps a lot, but try and avoid cheesy jokes "just for the ...

1 Comments, 122 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
First date   1/20/2009

met a chick on here and we went out to a club. got drunk and went dancing. ended up taking her back to my house where we drank some more. went and layed down in my bed with my sleeping husband just at that time to make the room stop spinning. we ended up kissing which turned to feeling around with our hands. which quickly moved to groping and masturbating with each other. ...

3 Comments, 634 Views, 22 Votes ,5.65 Score
my first date !!!   1/16/2009

my first date was hot !! met a wonder a wonderfully hot and horny man on here. it was great. we went parking, one of my fantasies, we fucked hard, hot and heavy for awhile. he pounded me hard like i asked. wow !! what a night !!

7 Comments, 652 Views, 21 Votes ,3.37 Score
to date or not to date, that is the question   1/14/2009

or is it the answer?

0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes
wolverine911833 40 M
1  Article
How was ur first sex date?   1/13/2009

My first sex date was in my university campus and we end up doing it in our library. It was great fun. There was a floor only for teachers or lecturer in our university where only few students were allowed.. me n my partner luckily got a chance to go there and we got sooo horny that we had sex while standing.. and it was amazing experience as we were totally tensed and scared if anyone catches us ...

0 Comments, 186 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
first time oral   1/8/2009

my first time with another man took place over 20 years ago while i was in the navy.i had never considered myself bisexual, i had grown up in a small midwestern town with the usual sexual experiences. backseat at a drive-in, backseat on a country road, you get the picture. my experiences expanded somewhat when i joined the service but that was mainly to include hookers and the occasional drunken ...

2 Comments, 770 Views, 17 Votes ,4.40 Score
yngstud4lady 31 M
11  Articles
first dates   1/7/2009

Any advice on what women look for on first dates? Little details they notice sometimes arent even on our minds.

1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_wk40au 61 M
1  Article
my first possible bi experience   1/7/2009

i am a 45 year old male who has been looking for a while to meet up with a couple with a bi male. I have been contacting many couples withn about 500km of my place of residence for a few weeks until i really hit it off with a couple close by. I am attached, they have a family so it took a bit of organising but eventually we agreed on an evening to have dinner at their place. I arrived a bit after ...

1 Comments, 505 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
yea or no??   12/28/2008

hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???

11 Comments, 278 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
Which is better.....????   12/26/2008

...Going to a movie, a sports bar, or going out to eat???

3 Comments, 109 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
couplelooking184 46 C
1  Article
wife on the first date   12/17/2008

i met my wife on our first date and we had sex, never looked back and our happyly married to this day. we are comforable enough now where we think we would someone else to share the joy we do when in bed. any thing like questions on how to keep a strong marriage i think we might be able to help or if you would like to be a person looking to join us for some fun (ladies only please) where just ...

0 Comments, 463 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
haskins69me 42 M
8  Articles
these are hard   12/13/2008

I don't like first dates. Too many akward moments. Just keep in mind a few drinks will break the ice!

0 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
rm_wyatt007tb 46 M
1  Article
What do I do   12/7/2008

What dose a man have to do to get a date around here. Am I that bad looking

4 Comments, 108 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
TooTall_1964 52 M
1  Article
vagina size and looks   12/7/2008

I was just wondering, I have a preference for women with big lips on their vaginas, there is something about a big meaty hungry looking vagina that get me going. I wanted to know from the women, is this a problem for some guys? I just think that they look so good when they are all fired up with want, and if you start oral on it, the lips just fall open and the juice seeps out, it looks so tasty! ...

3 Comments, 238 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
THAT 1ST LUNCH   11/30/2008

They had chatted for weeks ‒ e-mails, im’s, texts, by phone. They clicked so well that they decided they wanted to see each other in person. So, lunch it was!

They were so nervous about seeing each other for the very first time. They had both been concerned that the chemistry they shared through technology would not transfer in the flesh. But, Ohhhhhhh, did it!


5 Comments, 510 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
Do people still worry about kissing on the first date?   11/28/2008

I'm wondering what everyone thinks..

2 Comments, 111 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_lamsid 34 M
6  Articles
please explain?   11/20/2008

your most favorite first date lol..

1 Comments, 103 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_fn491 62 M
2  Articles
Unprotected Sex!?   11/19/2008

There is alway a cure, so why not go unprotected - if it doesn't look attractive - think beer! what the hell anyway, it's a notch on your bed-post! If it has a pulse, surely it would do for until something else comes along?

8 Comments, 208 Views, 15 Votes ,0.07 Score
What people think on a first date?   11/13/2008

What do most people think about when on a first date ? Would love to see some post. I know I was thinking of alot of thinks when I went on a couple first timers.

0 Comments, 46 Views, 0 Votes
puddin084 42 C
4  Articles
first time around.   11/11/2008

what does a first really mean and what should it consist of?why are all first dates the same these days?no one really seems 2 go all out anymore.why is that?

6 Comments, 183 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
mrfreaakz 44 M
6  Articles
is sex on the 1st date rong?   11/10/2008

if u go on a 1st date and like what u see and get turned on and can help it then just get to sex, is it rong?

5 Comments, 133 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
sognatore0808 57 F
5  Articles
Our First Meeting!!!!!   11/8/2008

I knock on the door to your house where I know you are waiting for me. My heart is pounding fast and my panties are already wet from the driving over to your house and thinking about finally seeing you in person. You open the door and your sexier than your pictures showed. My heart is racing, you tell me to come in. You immediately lean towards me and kiss me, of course this makes me want you ...

9 Comments, 393 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
CREEPIN   11/2/2008

Why can't you have fun without the drama ladies?

1 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
activebdsm1 50 M
10  Articles
guys try to hard   11/1/2008

it is way to hard for a guy now a days why dont the girls just make it easy and choose the guys.

2 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
justjewles63 57 F
3  Articles
hey who all had dates though   10/25/2008

I had 5 great dates here thoough they are sweet people on here. If nothing pans out for further dates, they end up Fanntastic Friends. Thank You ...

14 Comments, 364 Views, 25 Votes ,3.57 Score
Giving me a hand   10/24/2008

Pauline (not her real name) and I had met online through the usual flirts and then emails. Chatting with her one day and stroking my cock she asked me what I was doing that night. I told her I was going to jack off while chatting with her-not sure where this came from as I had never done this before. She was intrigued, and asked if I had a cam so she could watch. My face flushed and my ...

6 Comments, 662 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
rm_NeoSakura 37 C
8  Articles
What do you think of a first date?   10/22/2008

What do you think of a first date? What's on your mind ? Are you thinking about getting some at the end of the night because she ordered the lobster and you had the regular burger?

0 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes
78luv69 46 F
4  Articles
First date no no's   10/18/2008

Never go to a movie on the first date. You don't get a chance to talk or see the person. Unless you just want to go in the back row and do sex stuff.

6 Comments, 234 Views, 19 Votes ,4.44 Score
The_Enz 48 M
3  Articles
First Date Rule?   10/9/2008

How many of you out there have rules on how far you will go on a first date?

Do you break those rules, if the person inspires you to?

Personally, I have 3 general rules for first dates, and they actually apply to the 2nd, 3rd or any date.

1. Do what you want to do, within reason.

2. Don't let yourself get into dangerous situations.

3. Don't put up ...

3 Comments, 217 Views, 19 Votes ,4.31 Score
zero1762553I4 37 M
6  Articles
chat   10/4/2008

be4 get to your first date. get to know your partner well is important? or no? well at least it wont bored u to death

1 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
togethertoplease 75 M
1  Article
Are women coy or is it just me   9/30/2008

I have sent over 70 emails trying to gently encourage a safe first meeting at a place of her choice but have as yet not met one single woman in person. I would be happy with a friendship not opposed to more but how do you convince the woman your worth the trouble

0 Comments, 59 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
idoluvoral 68 F
1  Article
Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2   9/21/2008

Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back…. Part 2

He stood up and stepped out of the hot tub and as I stood up in the hot tub he offered me his hand and guided me as I stepped out. Once we were both out he reached for a towel and wrapped it around me. Then he grabbed one for himself and quickly dried off as he stood there in his magnificent nude glory. He tossed his ...

1 Comments, 480 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
idoluvoral 68 F
1  Article
Once I’ve had Black, I’ll NEVER go back….   9/21/2008

We met on an Internet service and exchanged several e-mails and photos before deciding to meet for a drink and possibly more.

I arrived at the local hotel lounge a bit early, . As I walked through the door it took my eyes a few seconds to adjust to the darkened room. I noticed that the band was just setting up and there were not many people ...

1 Comments, 741 Views, 17 Votes ,3.97 Score
Superman_Puso 39 M
1  Article
first date   9/13/2008

In the car I just can't wait, to pick you up on our very first date Is it cool if I hold your hand? Is it wrong if I think it's lame to dance? Do you like my stupid hair? Would you guess that I didn't know what to wear? I'm too scared of what you think You make me nervous so I really can't eat

Let's go, don't wait, this night's almost over Honest, let's make this ...

1 Comments, 51 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
chocolatechip089 34 M
1  Article
kissing on the first date   9/12/2008

You have gone on a date and its wonderful, you really had made agreat connection with each other through out the whole night. Its finally over and your walking her to the door, you do the whole cliche thing, and now for the you kiss her or not? And if so which is more offensive not kissing or kissing. Consider the fac the he is a gentlement and like to wait.

2 Comments, 82 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
howardy69 31 M
1  Article
Flirt   9/10/2008

i dont know how to get flirt here. im new comer here. who want to help me? i've a special gift 4 u... nice to meet u're all here..............

0 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
bustybi4u2 56 F
2  Articles
Lust in the Garden of Eden   9/7/2008

Lust in the Garden of Eden:

Like so many relationships this one started on-line. The new singles bar has a Keyboard and webcam these days. There are advantages and pitfalls to this type of dating, but then again there are advantages and pitfalls to just about everything in life.

After a week or two of chatting on line about a lot of intimate details of their live, s Bruce and ...

6 Comments, 273 Views, 20 Votes ,4.78 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
WITH A CPL   9/7/2008


1 Comments, 319 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
meatloves69 55 M
12  Articles
exciting   9/4/2008

its nice 2 meet ppl

0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
first ever date   9/2/2008

i had my first date when i was just 5 years old.... we were very poor and it was a treat fer christmas . anyway i ate it an nearly choked on the seed, i didnt know that they had any in em.! you all will be pleased t hear i have had many since then.

1 Comments, 192 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score

You meet and everything is going well.You end up in the bedroom ready to do it. You both strip naked. Then you see it. A bump, blister, redness, or something that you think could be a std. You could be wrong. It might be nothing. How do you stop without hurting your date's feelings? what is the polite way to handle this sition?

4 Comments, 292 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
idswinger8888 49 M
1  Article
Why does Asian Ladies prefer caucasian man?   8/31/2008

Any particular reasons?

6 Comments, 272 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
The Man of 20   8/29/2008

I had been a member of for a couple of months. I had a profile but no pictures and no responses.

I decided to take matters into my own hands and view the profiles of local members.

It was then that I noticed the Man of 20.

He bore a striking resembleance to the actor Jake Gyllenhaal, though somewhat thinner.

He was 20. I was 49. Should I? Shouldn't I? I ...

6 Comments, 750 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
beware the fake pic!   8/27/2008

the first time i hooked up with someone from a site, it was a classic fake pic ordeal. the pic looked very nice and we arranged to meet in a bar. well i got there and i got a text "can't make it that far bad leg come meet me in my halls" (she was in uni by the way) anyway i new something was up as it was only 5mins away lol!

i gave her a ring when i got there and she came to let me in. ...

2 Comments, 261 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Bad First Date   8/18/2008

If this happens to you...RUN! I met this girl online. After talking and some phone sex, we decided to meet. She lived in an appartment, so I met her there.

Here was playing video games and she just invited me into her room for a quicky. While I have nothing against a quicky.....this was a small appartment and her was right outside. Needless to say, I did not want to be a part of ...

5 Comments, 467 Views, 20 Votes ,4.40 Score
rm_Cmen4Utoo 74 M
1  Article
Best type of venue for 1st Date?   8/16/2008

I wonder sometimes where is the best place to meet for the first time. A public place is often safest for all parties, but a hotel or home probably sends out the signal that sex is available and wanted/needed. It probably depends on how pre-meet contact has gone. What do you think?

1 Comments, 110 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
desire_me_baby 50 F
2  Articles
Relationships??   8/16/2008

Well, everyone thinks that a "relationship" is only dating and being exclusive...but a relationship DOES begin with friendship and honesty. I've had the opportunity to meet some men on and there were only 2 men that I though were EXTREMELY classy, upfront, and honest with me. The others were liars...they lie on their profiles to get women into bed then they finally tell the truth when it gets ...

4 Comments, 84 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
First Date Advice   8/13/2008

Choosing something to do on a first date can be very difficult. You and your date do not know each other and this means that you do not know what they do and do not like doing. Ask your date what they would like to do, but if they do not have any suggestion be decisive and make a suggestion, such as your favourite restaurant. Make sure they understand what type of place it is and make sure it is ...

2 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_wand35567 59 F
1  Article
never had this.   8/9/2008

I never had oral sex before what should expect? and i mean never!

6 Comments, 394 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
SensualMale367 57 M
1  Article
Do women really know within 5 minutes?   8/7/2008

If she is going to have sex with a guy on a first date? I will admit that when talking to women on here in the past, the discussion of sex often comes into play. This is a sex site but, how often have you (ladies) measured up a guy to fuck him on the first date? How did it happen and when did you know?

4 Comments, 253 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
tallNhot24 40 M
9  Articles
The perfect first date   8/6/2008

Men or Woman, were do you like to go on a first date? Do you keep it consistent and within your comfort zone or do you mix it up based upon your company?

0 Comments, 37 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
tallNhot24 40 M
9  Articles
On the first date   8/6/2008

Ladies, what is your first date policy? Do you specifically plan on not having sex on the first date no matter what or do you plan on winging it and seeing how things go?

2 Comments, 106 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
mixedaddy 46 M
2  Articles
What works   8/5/2008

What works on getting that first date. Tell me your expereinces

0 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
briallfun1999 39 M
1  Article
First Bi experience - first Date   8/2/2008

I would love to chat with a guy for a couple weeks. Then after that meet him in public...have a few drinks. Then after being there for a while he would lean over to me and say "I want you to suck me off" We would then leave and drive to a private, dark place. I would then get into his car and suck him until he exploded. Then we would both be on our way! Maybe hooking up again in the ...

0 Comments, 510 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Anticipation   8/2/2008

Sometimes the waiting and anticipation is just as exciting as the eventual meeting. Or so it seems at the time. However, it is sometimes easy to forget that the physical touch is irreplaceable.

We had talked about getting together sometime. We had spent much time chatting with each other, getting to know each other.

We would spend time chatting about such sensuous subjects, such ...

1 Comments, 71 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
What happens after you play FOOTSIE   7/17/2008

I recently met a gentleman from He is a, I thought he would have a great deal of class.

We went to a nice pub for a drink, a get to know you ice breaker.

We sat in a booth, had a drink. All of a sudden, he starts playing "FOOTSIE" with me under the table. It doesn't sound too bad, but he put his socked foot between my legs!! No lie!

It was a ...

3 Comments, 524 Views, 12 Votes ,0.68 Score
sex on the first date   7/16/2008

i want to know how do most women feel about having sex on a first date. i like to get to know more about that person first.

1 Comments, 324 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score