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iwltsyls 56 M
5  Articles
Open minded   1/17/2017

Open minded? How would you define someone as open minded? Are you open minded?


2 Comments, 49 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
daveb19827 35 M
9  Articles
Tattoo   1/17/2017

Went out on a date and ask her if she had any tattoos.she said yes 1 and I said can I see it, before I knew it she pull up her skirt and bent over.she had a tattoo around her ass hole saying please enter.


4 Comments, 51 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
daveb19827 35 M
9  Articles
Tattoo   1/16/2017

Went out on a date and ask her if she had any tattoos.she said yes 1 and I said can I see it, before I knew it she pull up her skirt and bent over.she had a tattoo around her ass hole saying please enter.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
SMC79 38 M
6  Articles
First Meeting   1/9/2017

What is an ideal meeting place for a first encounter?

Im thinking a casual dinner/cafe.


4 Comments, 48 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
alley_catt101 27 F
0  Articles
Why I Always Have Sex on the First Date   1/9/2017

Lots of people call me a slut for this little rule of mine, but my close friends understand why I do it. To me, the whole point of dating someone is to eventually marry them. The whole point of marrying someone is to eventually have with them, in my mind at least. I love sex, I really do. But that alone isn't the reason I have sex on the first date. I don't want to date someone and potentially ...


11 Comments, 174 Views, 24 Votes ,5.17 Score
nfighter777gm 32 M
7  Articles
first dates   1/8/2017

does anyone have good ideas for a first date


2 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
stonecoldsw89 51 M
5  Articles
First Time the Clothes Come Off   12/20/2016

To me, there is nothing more exciting and erotic than the first time you see your new partner undress for the first time. The anticipation and the desire is so high at that very moment. That first glimpse of their naked body, in all its glory, is so damn sexy. Anyone else feel the same as me? Tell me your stories...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Is there a perfect cock for every pussy?   12/16/2016

The old adage (or olde wife's tale) that there is a perfect man for every woman has been heard by you and me since we were just a wee bit tall. After many years of dating, the truth is that there are maybe 1000 perfect companions for us, all within a few character traits of what we consider the perfect partner.

Taking that theory and expanding it, my question is how many perfect ...



2 Comments, 114 Views, 23 Votes ,1.38 Score
The First Undress   12/13/2016

So many of us wonder...how will we actually get between the sheets. Oh yes- kissing and fondling with our clothes on is fun- it kind of sets the tone. But think about how one undresses each other:

Is it a slow methodical manner...strategically capturing his blouse, unbuttoning it and finding those lovely breasts (bra still on) in hand. Perhaps slowly unpeeling her straps to ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
akkkifru 36 M
3  Articles
How does first dates go??   12/13/2016

Hi guyz, im wanting to know how should first dates be like.

Thanks


0 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
BBCheadlover 54 M
2  Articles
do good girls give head on the first date?   12/1/2016

so i was on a first date and i thought it was going really well? she insisted on picking my up from the gym, thats where we met. the date was casual and i was wearing sweat pants which pretty much led to the problem. so we decided on a movie that we talked about while working out at the gym. the movie was good, we held hands and she massaged my fingers throughout the movie, which led me to get ...


13 Comments, 380 Views, 32 Votes ,2.68 Score
NiceandNastyru 59 M
2  Articles
Sometimes it's not just there   11/30/2016

I met this wonderful lady from the sight we had a good night some laughter good conversation and a couple of dances. Even though we both where looking for sexual fun we just didn't have the spark that put us into the moment of desire. We did share a fun evening shared a hug and kiss on the cheek.


2 Comments, 63 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
frenchyoungcok86 34 M
1  Article
Things to do   11/28/2016

Any suggestion for things to do on a first date/meet esp for someone that is shy? Beside the typical movie theater of course. More like of something original ... What you guys do on a first date?


2 Comments, 63 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
hotboy34561000 28 M
2  Articles
sex   11/19/2016

how many people like to have sex on there first date


2 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
ronaldwhennen376 59 M
6  Articles
fucking on first dates   11/19/2016

no men please ladies do u love to fuck on a first date fucking someone that u don't know


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
rahul46564656 34 M
1  Article
my first date with horny woman   11/10/2016

tina and me went for a long drive to have fun all the day.. she was in beautiful dress and her charming smile makes me feel happy always and at the same time she looks so hot on that day.. i was wearing a neatly tucked dress and black shoes to impress her with my attire



we went for a long drive on bike ... she hugged me from back on the bike and that was my real superman ...


3 Comments, 184 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
omaha4fwb2016 44 M
3  Articles
Sex on 1st date   11/9/2016

How many of you agree to have sex on the first date?


0 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
mintCAT666 32 F
1  Article
What the heck dates   11/6/2016

Now i want everyone's opinion, When date goes wrong ? how to spot it and when RUN? I would be glad if it would be from your experience i usually stay in date till end and still give little kiss with idea that i'm never meeting that person again. I guess i'm too soft one of last worse ones was literally when he started rub his crotch after walk in park, and i still gave him little kiss on ...


9 Comments, 160 Views, 30 Votes ,6.47 Score
urpleasure_2 38 M
4  Articles
Nervousness   10/31/2016

Does anyone have any ways that help them get over the nervousness? besides drinking


5 Comments, 57 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
First dates   10/23/2016

We're new what was everyone's first experience like


0 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
Daddylongdick848 41 M
3  Articles
???   10/20/2016

Does anyone actually meet off this site.. Everyone seems to just bullshit...


4 Comments, 55 Views, 13 Votes ,0.96 Score
rocky60602 62 M
13  Articles
first dates   10/19/2016

first dates are the best dates ever , ,, you will find your true love and you will know it on your first date


1 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
1st DATE WARNING SIGNS   10/15/2016

Hi my fellow SEXFinder.com brother and sisters,

I want to offer some friendly advice, not only to men but to women too. Please beware of the little foxes and wolves on this site who are on here targeting us innocent people on here just trying to have fun and meet great people.

We have to remember that some people are on here with BAD and DESTRUCTIVE motives. Be sure to keep ...


6 Comments, 130 Views, 25 Votes ,6.56 Score
bravon725 36 M
5  Articles
women   10/14/2016

what is the worse date u been on


0 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
Where do you meet on a fitst outing?   10/11/2016

Curious to know what most on here consider a safe first meeting spot?


3 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
ValleyLover16 53 M
5  Articles
First Day of Work and Pleasure!   10/9/2016

While not exactly a first date it was most definitely a first for me as a boss. It was your first day of work as of course I chose you for the job. You come into the office to say you are leaving and as you hand me your work for the day I quickly turn you around to face the desk and as I bend you over my desk I reach up to slide your panties off only to find you have already discarded them so I ...


1 Comments, 98 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
The clean-up job.   9/16/2016

The clean-up job.

"When I was 18, my girlfriend and I were fooling around in her car one night, heavily making out and dry humping, when I pulled that quintessential 'dudemove' and began to guide her head toward my lap. Much to my surprise and delight, she was game. She began performing oral as I reclined the passenger seat to the most horizontal position possible. After a few minutes, I ...


7 Comments, 485 Views, 35 Votes ,4.03 Score
JayBird101023 35 M
2  Articles
is sex on the first date so wrong?   9/15/2016

why does everyone have a hangup about sex on the first date? I think it only happens if you click or if you both really need it.


4 Comments, 82 Views, 16 Votes ,3.57 Score
RubenjoephMendoz 40 M
1  Article
The of the rest of my life that gets mad at me all the time over nothing, and her mate too....   9/15/2016

oh my gawd, I just can't go any faster as her passenger without a birthday massacre....

This resurrection of my own sex and magic shall perpetually be dethroned of them...

They will seriously join each other in death...

so be it....

I just gone with the sin man....

maybe I might nail them to the wall...

...and if I do it will be damn nine inch ...


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Fake photos   9/15/2016

Came on a first date- oh boy _ again the fakes here. She looked nothing like the picture.

Well- everyone - beware.


3 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
markie50 54 M
5  Articles
love it   9/13/2016

what happens next...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
jobashir007 35 M
5  Articles
my first date   9/4/2016

always i like first date be in restaurant and having red wine it turns me on


3 Comments, 74 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
jobashir007 35 M
5  Articles
my first date   9/4/2016

always i like first date be in restaurant and having red wine it turns me on


0 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
jrhammer44224 42 M
2  Articles
Showing Up   9/2/2016

I see a lot of profiles that mention fakes, flakes, and time-wasters, and imm hesitant to add such text to my own. But for serious, if you don't plan on showing up for a meeting, don't schedule it. If something happens that changes your plans and you have to bail, say so. Even if you just change your mind and dip out because you have a bad gut feeling, fess up.

I don't get much time away ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 10 Votes ,4.98 Score
jmscn701 40 M
1  Article
Was your first meeting so hot - it was impossible to stop the inevitable?   9/2/2016

Have you talked to anyone on here to the point where you both decided to meet and the chemistry was there ( almost too much) where you could not say no to each other ??? Don't know if this question would actually go here or not but I was just curious if anyone else had a short story from meeting on this site that they wouldn't mind sharing.

Mine is with someone i recently met and we ...


3 Comments, 52 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Secretsforus2015 42 M
5  Articles
Where is the best place you have met someone on here? (Besides their bed)   8/30/2016

So Ladies and Gentlemen, As many people are attempting to stay anonymous on here but at the same time "REALLY" want to meet people who just want to have fun, where have you found the best meeting places to be?

I have had suggestions in the past of:

Coffee Shop A Park A Bar A Scenic View Area



Do you have some other suggestions?


2 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
terroristas1 41 M
2  Articles
sex or no sex?   8/22/2016

sex or no sex if she is welcoming you in


3 Comments, 53 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
First Dates   8/21/2016

Is going to the movies the best first date?


7 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
ldn_boy_4u 33 M
4  Articles
First dates for SEXFinder.com   8/18/2016

Would the right term be dates? I'm my experience, lots of ground work has gone on behind the scenes to ensure a venue for play after a couple drinks to feel each other out. Not like the vanilla world where it usually has the opposite order!


2 Comments, 52 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
ronaldwhennen37 64 M
3  Articles
fucking on a first dates   8/14/2016

ladies would you fuck a man after you first met him


4 Comments, 72 Views, 13 Votes ,1.80 Score
Blaq_King 45 M
16  Articles
Moving 2 fast vs Wasting Time   8/10/2016

Here we here so many people say this is a "sex site" this is a "sex site" ....so everybody here must be looking for sex, right??? Well we know most are and there are some fakes and lookers.....but there is another group...those that want to take their time and pretend to get to know you, when it's really just a "I dont want to look easy" action !!!!

When meting someone for the first time ...


2 Comments, 54 Views, 12 Votes ,1.03 Score
Heathen_G 64 M
11  Articles
Fucking on first dates..   8/8/2016

...a really good sign she's into you.

If they're not fucking you, you're not dating, and you would be wasting your time.

The entire idea of "Dating" today is to get sex.

Women who are into you, really love to fuck on the first date, making it a date.

Although she may not want to fuck just yet, so it isn't actually a date, but more of a hanging out situation. ...


0 Comments, 71 Views, 33 Votes
Makeitup2you 33 M
1  Article
Older woman experience   8/5/2016

Well i met this woman on here about 2 weeks ago she's 20 years older than me (I'm 29) actually older than my mom but i did tell her that. She was attractive to me. i simply came across her profile, read it ' was brief also full of witty detail i complimented on one of her pics with tight blue jeans and a laverder halter top.. " this is a gift to my eyes" i said not even thinking she won't write ...


5 Comments, 391 Views, 31 Votes ,5.54 Score
Davidson198469 39 M
2  Articles
Is it still a thing?   8/4/2016

Do people go on legit first dates anymore or is it to the point everybody just wants some easy sex


3 Comments, 44 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
bizhummmer2 74 C
1  Article
Senior Moment   8/2/2016

My first date with an attractive senior citizen was at McDonalds. I soo found out she likes Mary Wanna and that got us off to a whirlwind romance. This woman knew how to do everything. She knew just when to slow down and when to speed up. WOW! she was great


2 Comments, 136 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
finishedher 36 M
1  Article
It's Ironic   7/22/2016

The first woman I ever met using the site was such a giver.. She lived 4 miles away.. it'd take all but 10 minutes to get to her place.. I'd spend time with her when her was asleep.. we'd be in the living room doing everything we could.. She secretly smoked weed.. which made the relationship great. and we lost touch.. So the moment I found my next milf... I fell in love.. Our first date was ...


2 Comments, 181 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
Affair   7/20/2016

did you ever think about the first affair you had, if you have had one? what was it like? mine was incredible, and I remember the first time like it was yesterday, no, there was no sex, there was just getting to know one another, it was amazing



as was the sex that followed


0 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
How   7/20/2016

How does one know what to do on a first date? I know the guy is supposed to set it up and do all the leg work but how come the woman cannot help?


2 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
raulb838383 37 M
8  Articles
first date or last date   7/17/2016

first dte is all about how you take lady out for a romantic or a good walk its all about who u r and how u wann live ur life with here. in first date lady can tell that r u good or not its like they see every mistake and good way we do. she will see every move we make. its a good to see how good u r


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
weezerwarrior 45 M
6  Articles
the first date   7/14/2016

Is the most important one


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
pipelayr247 38 M
1  Article
sex   7/8/2016

Is sex on the first date implied since we're on this site.


6 Comments, 72 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
modern5000 37 M
11  Articles
things to do on a first date.   7/3/2016

Just go out and have a good time.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 13 Votes ,0.79 Score
modern5000 37 M
11  Articles
a good idea for a first date.   7/3/2016

Number one is take it slow. Number to let's just have some fun. Number 3 is don't worry so much about the outcome.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Awkward   6/22/2016

Who has the best awkward first date story?


0 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
tincaps 52 M
3  Articles
What is your best first date ever?   6/20/2016

My best first date was not planned for the most part. We did decide to go to a Japanese steak house, that was planned, but the rest of the date was going with the flow. We saw a big dance that was going on at a festival and danced. Then coffee and chocolate followed by an epic first kiss. I planned a lame dinner and a movie date, but was happy I just went with what the night said to do. ...


2 Comments, 66 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
The fullest ways of making the trip to see if you are ready for bed.....   6/19/2016

I love to fuck, in my room, and the first thing that comes to, my mind, is, how, I like, to bump, your head, against, my headboard, of my, antique sleigh bed....

It makes no difference, whether or not, to receive, a full service blowjob, from you.....

As soon as you know, what I want, you can make your move....

The sun is out there....

Don't forget, that, you, ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 8 Votes ,0.23 Score
poundingitin1 41 M
2  Articles
fuck or no fuck?   6/5/2016

i prefer to just satisfy my hunger and if we do get along, then to go down on her and make her beg me to fuck her.


1 Comments, 34 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
poundingitin1 41 M
2  Articles
fuck or no fuck?   6/5/2016

i prefer to just satisfy my hunger and if we do get along, then to go down on her and make her beg me to fuck her.


1 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
Lustful ways behind closed doors.....   5/30/2016

I have gotten to a large portion of a kind of thing that is a very long and hard wayside of the moment and then becomes the heat of the moment.....

Pretty much looks like she has been thirsting over it for a while now. But I don't think that you are pretty much dirty minded enough sometimes...

Get your hands on the other side of my cock....

Of course I want you to know ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
exciting   5/26/2016

i dont klike first dates because you never get laid only get your cock sucked


1 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Mountaincowboy1 37 M
4  Articles
Sex on a First Date?   5/25/2016

How many times have you had sex on a first date?

How long do you want to know someone for first?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
Why go for water?   5/25/2016

Just wanted to do it with you , and see if you want me to come up with a bunch of stuff, and the likes of what you want....

If you're a great time in the morning there of, and is of the best ways, in which, i need to know about you. I agreed with an emphasis, added to your self on an average. Don't worry about the future of our own thing going on here....

Again I must increase ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
rm_hrdashell35 48 M
14  Articles
WE FINALLY MET   5/15/2016

I finally met this woman after we talk and text for weeks. We went out had a few drinks and we talk for hours. I can tell the chemistry was on point because we laugh all night. We both wasn't ready for the night to end so I invited her to my apartment and we both got into our cars and she followed me to my home. All the time I was driving I was thinking about fucking the shit out of her and ...


6 Comments, 300 Views, 22 Votes ,4.21 Score
Mountaincowboy1 37 M
4  Articles
The first meeting - Where is best   4/30/2016

Where is the best place to meet a SEXFinder.com member?

Pub? Club? Mall? Hotel? Restaurant? Other..... Please name


2 Comments, 54 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
pussyeater60543 69 M
1  Article
first date with a SEXFinder.com couple   4/14/2016

we met at a casino it Tahoe and planed a ride over a few mt. passes . we ended up on a desired dirt road. I didn't know what to expect as it was my first meeting in this life stile . we took a walk to the trees played for a bit. then drove to Carson got a bite to eat and made planes to meet on Fridays for some real play time . we meet at my place and have play date every week. thanks aff


3 Comments, 137 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
your first date   4/3/2016

How did your first date go


2 Comments, 27 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Laura1959 61 F
3  Articles
Art & Modael Sig Nude   4/1/2016

I wanat tu put my phiture to the magazine to the public


3 Comments, 69 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
shiq3 39 M
3  Articles
It'd snowed   3/26/2016

A sigh escaped the pouty pink lips of her as she let the window's curtain fall back in place. It'd snowed. On the ONE day she didn't want it to snow. And not a simple one or two inches...no, they'd gotten two and a half, almost three, full feet. Needless to say school was canceled. She moved away from the window and kicked off her shoes, she had no need of them now. Jacket was also removed and ...


8 Comments, 238 Views, 19 Votes ,5.37 Score
rishudgr8gr8 21 M
1  Article
a question   3/13/2016

I keep having sex with a girl name stuti but we r not in a relationship. Is it okay if i hit on her sister ?? i know i am going to anyways just want to know if it is a big deal or not?


6 Comments, 93 Views, 19 Votes ,1.94 Score
MrCrazyTung 49 M
1  Article
Does ethnicity or race have anything to do with having sex on the first date?   3/12/2016

I have had sex on the first date many times. I actually enjoy it. I used to date white girls only even though non white girls turned me on so much more. The sex was extremely minimal. Rarely on the first date. In my late 20's I finally began dating outside my race. My sex life skyrocketed. Sex on the first date began to seem like a custom. I rarely expect it but always seem to get it. I ...


4 Comments, 118 Views, 18 Votes ,4.63 Score
sexxxcrzd 37 C
9  Articles
SexXxcRzD and Ceylin   2/8/2016

February 4th into February 5th, 2016...

My wife was having a busy day. That morning she went out to the mall, she came back and smoked a bowl. Then headed out for a pedi.



Again, came back to our apartment, smoked a bowl. Hung out for about an hour and took off again when she realized we needed more weed (obviously, lol). This time however; she came back home not ...


13 Comments, 438 Views, 29 Votes ,5.45 Score
goforit64191919 59 M
1  Article
first dates   1/24/2016

first dates would you have sex on a first date if the chemistry was there


10 Comments, 103 Views, 20 Votes ,5.81 Score
cdiva1000 40 T
6  Articles
First date as Sarah   1/11/2016

I've enjoyed crossdressing for most of my life, but it has been only in the past few years that I have discovered that there is a Sarah inside of me, and have allowed myself the joy of complete transformation: clothes, wig, makeup...the full package. Crossdressing has always been an erotic turn-on for me, and even more so when I am dressed up and completely made up as Sarah.

Even though ...


1 Comments, 379 Views, 18 Votes ,6.54 Score
rm_tamaratw 65 M
1  Article
how dose one prepare one shelf for the first time to have sex   1/4/2016

hello I'm a cross dresser and never had sex with a man before and I would like to know what dose one have to to to prepare for the occasion. how or what dose one do to get ready so every thing will be pleasent and enjoyable . Thank you hope this is a question that can be asked .


4 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
deephitter1978 41 M
11  Articles
my bulge is hard to hide   12/2/2015

she kept looking at tit from the moment i walked up, , she kissed my neck then gaged her self for 20 minute snorted she gagged she slimmed my cock n balls, ,, then we went to tne movieses till i filled her throat fullll of my huge loads , , sh


0 Comments, 224 Views, 13 Votes ,1.30 Score
EroticMale033 53 M
11  Articles
Keep it simple   11/7/2015

There usually is no reason to make the first meeting complex with food and a long evening. Plan it simple over a walk or drink. You will know in the first 15 min if you want to make it longer and get food or extend the evening


6 Comments, 53 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
rm_creamyOne12 32 F
1  Article
Trying to do something exciting :)   11/3/2015

Last night i go out with my friends and having fun and i met a guy who want to have sex with me and have fun within 24 hours do you think on that hour we will do alot of things ?


9 Comments, 132 Views, 21 Votes ,5.97 Score
rm_CrazyLips9 32 F
1  Article
First night sex ? ?   10/28/2015

I want to know its that okay to have sex on first date ?


25 Comments, 263 Views, 40 Votes ,6.59 Score
CrispyAss091 33 F
1  Article
Do you think sex is important on first date ?   10/28/2015

I am dating english man and he want to have sex on our first date i don't know if he right to ask me to have sex on first night ?


10 Comments, 114 Views, 21 Votes ,4.98 Score
Making the first move   10/6/2015

Have you ever had butterflies in your stomach over someone? A huge crush that causes you to smile for no reason and lay in bed at night and fantasize about that certain person. I know I have.

Have you let him/her know how you feel? If not, here is some GREAT advice for you....

GET OFF YOUR @$$ AND DO IT NOW. What do you got to lose besides your dignity??? lol.. why ...


23 Comments, 518 Views, 69 Votes ,7.08 Score
Walk in the park   10/1/2015

We met online and chatted a few times. I am divorced and she is single. Out chats got a little bit more saucy and finally we decided to meet up. When we met, we went for a walk ion a park, then sat down near a small waterfall. It was fairly open so after a bit more saucy chatting which to some kissing, we decided to find somewhere a little more private. I was gently rubbing her boobs through her ...


6 Comments, 454 Views, 22 Votes ,6.25 Score
Best decision ever   9/27/2015

Like most we met online and exchanged pics and chatted. I am divorced , she married and plays with his blessing( I also chatted with him) . Our chats had been but fun and very erotic often on the verge of cyber sex. We were very comfortable with each other and very excited too. The time had come to meet so we picked a local Pub to meet one afternoon. I arrived first and was waiting nervously ...


4 Comments, 394 Views, 18 Votes ,5.72 Score
Best decision ever   9/27/2015

Like most we met online and exchanged pics and chatted. I am divorced , she married and plays with his blessing( I also chatted with him) . Our chats had been but fun and very erotic often on the verge of cyber sex. We were very comfortable with each other and very excited too. The time had come to meet so we picked a local Pub to meet one afternoon. I arrived first and was waiting nervously ...


2 Comments, 129 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Nervous about first meetings   9/26/2015

We have all probably known someone who was a little off and you wish they didn't know your phone number or where you live. Almost everyday we receive messages from men, including their cell numbers and then asking for ours. Have any of you given your number out to people here at near first contact?


5 Comments, 75 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Michelle_Malcomb 65 T
6  Articles
My gurl - for J   9/25/2015

I knocked on the hotel room door — quietly as it appeared dark inside. We’d just been at the bar, dancing cheek-to-cheek and I was enthralled! She seemed to understand me and the small talk was filled with sexual innuendo. The smell of her perfume lingered on me and made me heady, and when she smiled at me my knees felt weak. She’d given me her hotel room number! But was she just ...


6 Comments, 476 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
Alutz2015 44 F
1  Article
10 first date tips just for women:   9/23/2015

1. Relax. Don’t put pressure on yourself to be witty, smart or alluring. Don’t get caught up in the version of yourself you wish you were. He wants to date the real you.

2. Dress smart. First impressions matter, yes, but so does comfort. Don’t wear heels to a picnic date, for example. Pick an outfit that makes you feel great, look great, doesn’t reveal too much and is ...


4 Comments, 102 Views, 19 Votes ,6.55 Score
Blaq_King 45 M
16  Articles
What is expected???   9/21/2015

Hey all...we all have had those first meet butterflies..so my question is...

Are you expecting to fuck when you meet someone from her for the first time?? I mean she has pics of her pussy and tits out for the world, there are videos of a long black pipe sliding in and out of her ass....Should you also expect to fuck??? Are you ok with her saying she just wants to chill and get to know ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Has ANYONE met anyone with no info on profile?   9/18/2015

We are constantly getting messages from very insistent guys with no pics and no complete profile. Does that ever work??


2 Comments, 52 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Wants2FukUWell 49 M
1  Article
First dates that became first fucks   9/12/2015

I have met several women here that were more than willing to fuck on the first date, a couple even drove right up to my front door and after a couple minutes of saying hello it was straight to bed. Love to hear from others about their experiences and whether or not you were questioning their marital status of "single" afterwards?


3 Comments, 173 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
hmtgbv 38 M
11  Articles
breasts are meant for sucking and licking on the nipples and feeding babies   9/8/2015

breasts are meant for sucking and licking on the nipples and feeding babies


1 Comments, 76 Views, 13 Votes ,4.99 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
A first meet was exciting   8/30/2015

we had cammed, chatted e mailed and now it was the first time for a face to face meet up I went inside Starbucks and waited for him the show up. There were several guys entered the coffee shop, but nope not him yet. I was beginning to get butterflys. I had been there 12 minutes , I decided to go ahead and get a coffee. and a cheese roll. I started back to the table I had been sitting at. I heard ...


5 Comments, 468 Views, 30 Votes ,2.85 Score
frenchkiz4u2 53 F
27  Articles
meeting publicly   8/27/2015

meeting in public is a safety net for any one. There are others around to make sure the person you are meeting does not harm you. Never leave and go to their place. you are under their mercy whether you make it out of their alive or unharmed. This is the internet, we never know anything about them for sure.


0 Comments, 89 Views, 18 Votes ,2.17 Score
Having fun   8/21/2015

Just want to laugh and be comfortable from the beginning the rest will happen naturally if it's meant to be


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Satyr48 75 M
8  Articles
Wife-To-Be   8/20/2015

My first date with the woman who became my wife wasn't actually a "date". I was bar-hopping with a male friend, Robert, and went into a local pub. there was a girl there who I had been having an on-and-off dating/sexual relationship with, and she invited me to spend the night with her... I told her that I'd love to, but I was with Robert, in one car, and didn't want to leave him hanging. She ...


3 Comments, 362 Views, 15 Votes ,4.66 Score
Dates   8/15/2015

Meet for cofee or drinks?


2 Comments, 30 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
KiwiUpNorth 58 M
21  Articles
Asking a co-worker to get passionate at a staff conference?   8/4/2015

I'm looking for some help & advice here. There's a lot of us (about 80) working from a hotel for 6 weeks, and some of them are very lovely ladies. I really want to put the question to a few of them. But I feel uneasy about just going up to one of them and asking her back to my room. I've still got to work beside them in the morning, and I'd feel uncomfortable if they said no. Are there any good ...


4 Comments, 165 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
First date fuck   7/31/2015

Has anyone ever married a girl they fucked on the fist date?


6 Comments, 110 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
tezzes 62 M
8  Articles
Back in 1976 in the Essex lanes   7/20/2015

If I have to be honest with my self my earlier sexual experience didn't exactly set the world on fire, I guess I wasn't the most attractive boy to any of the girls that were in my social circle at that time. That time would have been the mid 1970s when I was in my adolescence years. However my best friend was quite the reverse being attractive feller and oozing bags of confidence.

He ...


3 Comments, 251 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_deixth 25 M
1  Article
never go over your head   7/15/2015

When I was 20 I met this very beautiful girl my heart sank when I first laid eyes on her, we had so much in common we both liked anime, a fair share of video games, shy when meeting new people, I felt very complete whenever I am around her, she gives this very warm atmosphere. Sadly down the line I tried to act like a cool guy but I ended up being a complete asshole not meeting her very often, ...


3 Comments, 104 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
Pussykiller146 28 M
2  Articles
LOVERS AT FIRST   6/22/2015

First dates are tough. You're trying to make a good impression on someone, but you're also trying to read the person you're with and see if they're worth your time. Dating may not be an exact science, but that doesn’t mean we can’t use a little science to our advantage during that first interaction. Here's what you need to know.

A perfect first date is different for everyone, but ...


2 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Met on a personals chat line   6/20/2015

We met on a chat line and decided to meet in person...spoke to Mike on the phone, gave him my address...he came over to my house at about 7 pm... I opened the front door in my thighty whities to let him in, he smiled and knew that he was going to score...... Mike was at least five years younger with a lot more experience than i ever dreamed of having, after a drink and some small talk, while ...


1 Comments, 244 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
When the motel room door first closes behind us.   6/12/2015

Once we are together, naked, the way I like to treat you is with lots of little light kisses all over your eyes, ears, nose, throat, hair, cheeks and lips. Little light wisps of air, blown in your ears and over your face.

Then, I’ll start a full-body massage on the front of your lovely body, WITHOUT touching the normal erotic zones. Yes, it’ll be difficult for me to not touch ...


1 Comments, 120 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
nillstatham 30 M
1  Article
silly test   5/24/2015

how many of us remember when we had our first date .


1 Comments, 22 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
first dates   5/22/2015

Are there any woman from the 19057 zip code who want to share first date thoughts.


0 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
maximusonfire 36 M
3  Articles
What about sex on a first date   5/21/2015

Ok here i have a complicated question and it will definitely help if women give out their candid response. experienced men will also be of great help. When we contact someone on a dating site through our emails or messages, generally we are clear about what we want. Except few exceptions generally it is romance n sex. Chemistry and blah blah blah comes later. So as a male what i expected on first ...


4 Comments, 92 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Sister taking care of Sister   4/28/2015

My widowed neighbor was scheduled to have back surgery and her sister came from West Virginia to stay and help her out. I am very good friends with my neighbor Marlene and have only met her sister Elaine once. I know that Elaine was in an abusive relationship with a controlling husband. No computer, no cell phone and she has to tell him where she is going when she leaves the house. Marlene had ...


2 Comments, 663 Views, 26 Votes ,6.26 Score
first dates   4/28/2015

Anyone have any advice on how they like to meet for the first time


3 Comments, 38 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
for the ladies   4/26/2015

What would be a good first date


1 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Da beez kneez   4/25/2015

what do yall think the protocol is for justwhipping it out at the restaurant?


3 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
ruma2015 27 F
1  Article
ONCE UPON A TIME , I CANNT CONTROL MYSELF   3/25/2015

In my first dating, my friend took me a park, full day we move here and there. at afternoon he took me in his flat. he want to suck my pussy. after sometime i agreed. once upon a time i cannt control myself. he start to fuck me, , arround 1 hour we have done, , after return to my house


5 Comments, 519 Views, 38 Votes ,3.82 Score
sopno21 27 M
7  Articles
dates   3/21/2015

how u feel ur first date?


0 Comments, 13 Views, 3 Votes
onlyoneme913 34 M
10  Articles
things to keep in mind   3/14/2015

while on a first date just be yourself dont try to be anything youre not because if you do that would be the same thing as lying because if you start dating that person theyre going to expect you to be this mythical facade you put on on the first date and thats not really who you are. and to add insult to injury she really doesnt like you she likes the image you portrayed when you guys first went ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_TexMex7306 50 M
1  Article
Can't Win Them All   3/4/2015

So I guess I'm rather notorious for first dates. Meaning they don't go well. Well, this one time there was this date. Ok so it was not a FIRST date but rather an OFFICIAL date. Met this quite good looking girl by random and we struck up a conversation. At a grocery store of all places. Anyway, the conversation was good and the topic turned to restaurants in and around the city. She mentioned one ...


2 Comments, 94 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
rm_Orgasmiclava 60 M
10  Articles
Tell a sexual discovery you found on the internet.   3/3/2015

It must be one that you never thought was possible. I want to keep it human even though i still can not get over those woman trying to get that 18 inch eal in her pussy It was all slimy and wiggled around like crazy. So i will start with seeing a man with an 10 inch pencil dick. It was as thin as my finger. You have heard the quote " Just when i thought i have seen it all" will the internet ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
xXxaloneboyxXx 32 M
2  Articles
My First Sexual Experience   2/28/2015

I'm a 23-year-old woman who only recently lost my virginity to my boyfriend of three months. I'm sad to say that I was very disappointed with the whole experience. The session itself was very uncomfortable and unnatural.

I do not blame myself nor my boyfriend (he's 24 years old) because it was the first time for me and the second time for him. Also, I had very high expectations. ...


1 Comments, 211 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
xXxaloneboyxXx 32 M
2  Articles
The 10 Best Stories About the First Time You Had Sex   2/28/2015

When we asked for the best stories about the first time you had sex, we knew there would be some weird offerings. And there definitely, definitely were. There was more than one international affair. There were people who knew their relationships were doomed because "he is a spooner and doesn't believe in air conditioning which is a lethal combination when you live in the tropics." We learned that ...


0 Comments, 155 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
AtlantaZo 49 M
10  Articles
can you find a date   2/23/2015

Here on SEXFinder.com can you find a date. Someone who wants to go out and have fun.


1 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Kycre8iveman 71 M
0  Articles
My Date From Hell!   2/18/2015

By KyCre8iveGuy

NOW THE STORY YOU ARE ABOUT TO READ, MAY SEEM TOTALLY WEIRD AND COMPLETELY CRAZY…BUT HAND OVER MY HEART…IT’S THE COMPLETE TRUTH!!

I met a young lady on a Transgendered website. She was 35-years-old, had long blonde, beautiful hair and the face and body of a Goddess. We chatted for a while on the website and through personal emails. Eventually, we exchanged ...


4 Comments, 261 Views, 28 Votes ,4.47 Score
rm_Tgirl51 52 T
15  Articles
Wishes and Wants!   2/6/2015

I prefer to have my first meeting in public and more than likely our first meeting will be in a bar called Changes in Wallingford. Here is my story and wishes for a first date!

My IM dings indicating I have someone that wants to chat but, his line is very Rude like: You wana fuck? Or, I would love to have your lips on my cock. All very crude! All a turn off! My first impression is not to ...


2 Comments, 95 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
wildbillgoodwin 63 M
2  Articles
An older Man   2/1/2015

Being a single man, I find it much harder to get a first date. First, I may be a complete turn off to the younger women and to the married women. I just want a chance to prove that I am older but not dead sexually.I would to show a woman a great time, because I believe in being a gentleman and polite man first. No come- ons or rudeness here.I am open minded and adventuresome to accept whatever ...


2 Comments, 126 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
Why can't they all be like that?   1/28/2015

Re-post from 9/8/2006

I had been single for a couple of months, but having custody of my left little time for me. I had spent many of my evenings, after the went to bed, chatting online and had finally managed to make a few online friends. This one lady in particular sounded pretty nice. Although she lived over an hour away, we had talked on the phone a few times and exchanged ...


2 Comments, 208 Views, 15 Votes ,5.73 Score
Wetpanties04 34 C
3  Articles
YES or NO??!!!!   1/22/2015

Its only happened to me once were upon a first date she went down on me and give me a blow-job . I must admit it wasn't very good but she swallowed every drop of spunk . She wouldn't even let me see her home and we never went out again . So question ladies , spit or swallow first date and gents hold her head giving no choice or leave it too her....\8


6 Comments, 141 Views, 21 Votes ,1.89 Score
dania33 39 F
9  Articles
Important first night   1/17/2015

This is important for man to act the first night


7 Comments, 275 Views, 25 Votes ,1.36 Score
love   1/16/2015

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1 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes
hornyscottishgy3 57 M
1  Article
i would luv t meet oldmen   1/14/2015

how would i meet old gay/bi horny tops>>!


1 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
ljlj   1/14/2015

kjljlj


1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
The shortage in Texas   1/13/2015

Time Magazine poll shows steady drop in oral sex lovers throughout the great state of Texas. Over the past few years the state of Texas has been experiencing a steady decline in citizens enjoying fellatio with his/her sexual partners. Dr. Pauline Drummond, a sexologist professor who heads up the Human Sexual Behaviors lab at the University of Texas in Arlington blames the B, J. famine on recent ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
ROSEVILLEHAWAII 59 C
0  Articles
Well built house...   1/7/2015

We met from match.com .. she wasn't verbal or even writing much in our conversations prior to the meet. I had met so many, so had she. It became uneventful for both of us recently, looking. I am very physical, but never at first. Starbucks was the place... I arrived first. I got a table. I had a couple of pictures to go from. I peered out the window waiting. Remembering how I had done this ...


3 Comments, 191 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
First date fun   1/6/2015

I have been on SEXFinder.com under a couple of different names over the past two years. Most guys just want to play on line but are not willing to meet.

I have managed to meet up & date three guys during this time, not particually looking for one night stands but a bit of fun to see where it leads. On two of the dates after having a really good time, we enjoyed some intimate time together kissing ...


4 Comments, 126 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
likmypuzzy2 61 F
9  Articles
We made a date...2 shows up   1/3/2015

well, we cammed I M chat and then set a date to meet at café with live band. I found a table med ways. I saw my date walk in and came my way and he had another woman with him. We introduced each other. they sat down at the table with me ordered drinks and appetizers. began to have conversation, but it was difficult when she spoke for him everytime I talked directly to him. so, I started to pay ...


7 Comments, 275 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
luv8nthatpussy 37 M
1  Article
What if you meet someone and they start stalking you? How would you deal with it?   12/24/2014

Before anyone starts telling me to contact admin... This has NOT happened to me. This is just a conversation that some coworkers and myself had a few weeks ago. please feel free to share any thing that you have encountered. All I ask is dont put any names of people that you have had problems with due to DRAMA being started on my post... This is only to get people to give advice or talk about an ...


4 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
Sex on First Date   12/13/2014

Sex on the First Date or no??


18 Comments, 183 Views, 20 Votes ,4.91 Score
THEBLAQPHAT1 59 M
2  Articles
Burned again   12/10/2014

Why do people, after chatting for two hour setting up a meet, just stop answering you. Can you at least have the decency to admit you have cold feet? why do other people keep you hanging like that and wasting your time.


5 Comments, 85 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
rm_jump585 52 M
1  Article
My mouth my ass my face   12/1/2014

Ever heard about the bi guy doing the panties and soon clothed for cock and lots. Me all shaven bare and big leash ring on ny cockhead my pink rosebud lubed and panties tied around my ankles and they were holdibg my heeld ba k around my head and soon one guy stuffed his cock in my mouth and i got ready for the webdate i placed- an bi zdresser in mini denim skirt nylons n heels and a tube top ...


0 Comments, 309 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
rm_right12c 52 C
10  Articles
first dates   11/30/2014

We played with a couple that were nudists and they were very quick to get naked and seemed very comfortable being naked but them sure were not comfortable having sex. When we asked if there was anything wrong they said no. They also said that being nudist had nothing to do with sex it was more an expression of being free. How can being naked not have anything to do with sex?


2 Comments, 103 Views, 11 Votes ,1.86 Score
69cpl_4fun 45 C
1  Article
Turn downs   11/26/2014

When we turn someone down from meeting the we just usually say sorry but the chemistry just isn't there. Last night a couple wrote us back and told us we were being extremely rude and stuck up. We didn't think we were. What do you think?


8 Comments, 115 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
MassageB4sex 52 M
6  Articles
first meeting for sex   11/22/2014

After chatting with someone for a while and agreeing to meet for the first time, with sex being highly probable, what has gone well for breaking the ice and what has failed?


2 Comments, 112 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
render29237 66 M
1  Article
first date here   11/20/2014

I'm new and this is a new experience for me . Never dated on line before and want to make sure I don' offend anyone on here I just wanna make new friends and have some fun.Saying that what I need is good advice from women and men on this site about proper behavior and guidelines on how to get the best results and have a pleasant experience here.How to start a chat make new friends and get ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bikerchickfun 60 C
6  Articles
First time sex with a coworker   11/20/2014

We generally party on Friday nights at our house, very seldom to I invite coworkers as I have a tendency to lose clothing when I drink and wasn't sure how to feel about it with coworkers. Well one night invited over a couple male coworkers for a few drinks just to get to know them a bit better, well as the night progressed I took the hubby aside and told him, don't be surprised if I stepped ...


24 Comments, 1262 Views, 65 Votes ,7.25 Score
BruceJen 39 C
2  Articles
dating the first time   11/19/2014

when going on a date with someone ... are you respectful enough to go with the flow or would you push sex onto someone that isnt ready for it?


2 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
asan5116 58 M
2  Articles
IS handjob accepatble on first date?   11/16/2014

This first date came as a surprise and after realising that we like one another, light kisses lead to another and eventually we were on the bed naked..Suddenly..she proposed only hj and b ..feel surprise?..


8 Comments, 231 Views, 13 Votes ,3.31 Score
picouple2o7 63 C
11  Articles
First time   11/15/2014

Do you remember the first time you had sex? Do you remember where and who it was with?


5 Comments, 72 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Cute couple looking for cute girl   11/14/2014

looking for a cute girl


1 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
rm_robpsf415 27 M
12  Articles
Hook Up   11/13/2014

What would be ideal for a first date if you only just want have sex and leave?


7 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
kimdan4fun 41 C
10  Articles
BJ   11/12/2014

Do you remember your first blow job and was it a good experience?


10 Comments, 92 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
kimdan4fun 41 C
10  Articles
First time   11/3/2014

We've been doing this for a few years now and it's ironic that the very first couple we played with is the best couple we've ever met and we still play with them every chance we get.


4 Comments, 104 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
veryoral30003 52 M
3  Articles
both wanted sex   11/3/2014

I went to a party in Atlanta and was talking too a young lady, who I found out was a nurse. We were laughing and joking. Then I was about to go when she asked me could I give her a ride. I told her I wasn't from here so she would have to guide me. All night we never talked about sex. But I got her to her house and she said ok let fuck. That was the funniest things that ever happen. Has that ever ...


4 Comments, 259 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
t4girlplay 42 F
10  Articles
First partners   11/3/2014

I've been on the site for 4 years now and the one conclusion I've reached is that my best experience was with the first couple I ever played with. Everyone I've met since has said it's because the first time is special and you'll always remember the first but not any of the others. I don't think it's because they were first I think it was because they were the best.


7 Comments, 136 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
t4girlplay 42 F
10  Articles
First partners   11/3/2014

I've been on the site for 4 years now and the one conclusion I've reached is that my best experience was with the first couple I eve played with. Everyone I've met since has said it's because the first time is special and you'll always remember the first but not any of the others. I don't think it's because they were first I think it was because they were the best.


0 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_ricky77G 56 M
1  Article
Getting laid   11/3/2014

Allie Haze, Chanel Preston and Elexis are three beautiful ladies, who take turns being dominated by this man, who leads a brunette around with a chain and collar, while she's wearing her wedding gown. Another chic gives you an upskirt while she's chained to a coffee table and the third lady has her feet cuffed to her wrists, while getting fucked.


0 Comments, 81 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
TheyCallMeSlick1 29 M
1  Article
top 10 first date ideas   11/2/2014

http://SEXFinder.com.com

Top 10 First date ideas for men. interesting article.


0 Comments, 66 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
goodcock4wetslut 29 M
1  Article
xxxtheater sex   11/1/2014

Who wants to meet females only clarksville indiana adult theater clarksville exit 4 i65 anybody discreet n slutty like me no judging fuckin n sucking thats all yawhoos mrgoodcock and tell me time u will be there


0 Comments, 69 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Silverbackaff143 43 M
1  Article
The Movie theater   11/1/2014

On my first date with someone really special we were in the theater and she decided to grab my cock and start sucking on it then my x wife starts texting me well that kinda killed the mood. then after the movie we go to Village Inn to eat then we head to a hotel room and have one of the best nights of my life!


0 Comments, 91 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_glinney 34 M
1  Article
on time drunk   10/30/2014

I show up at the bar at 8PM sharp. On time. She is already drunk as a skunk. After about 10 minutes she hands me her car keys and informs me I am driving us to her place, and, who am I to argue with that logic. Talk about giving it away. Or maybe she needed to be wasted to let me fuck her lol.


3 Comments, 125 Views, 10 Votes ,0.80 Score
NuLifestyle 73 M
2  Articles
Sex on a first date   10/29/2014

Love sex on the first date. There is something very exciting when the chemistry and the heat of the moment demands satisfaction always hopeful that the result will be the desire for more. Still that first time with a new playmate seems to always be the hottest followed closely by exploring all the things you need more encounters to experience. Thoughts besides the obvious of needing to be health ...


4 Comments, 75 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
twomuchfu 64 C
11  Articles
First time   10/27/2014

I fucked my husband the first night I met him, in fact I started in the car on the way back to my place. Do most people wait to have sex or am I just a big old slut?


7 Comments, 104 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_joe57153 50 C
3  Articles
First Date and last!!   10/18/2014

We met a couple and over drinks we really got to like them and they were so hot. We had never played with a couple on the first meet before but we made an exception with them.

A few days later we saw them driving by our house, and since our meeting they have driven by a few times. Their profile said they lived 30 miles from us, but we're thinking that may not have been true. Did we ...


7 Comments, 179 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
avi_704 25 M
2  Articles
hii   10/7/2014

hello evryone myself is alonely guy living alone in south delhi aged 21 my dick is 5 inches thick and 6 inches long..... i woul like to fuck any female or couples of any age and status like their slave on bed........


0 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,0.49 Score
daybreak45 59 M
1  Article
Awkward   10/7/2014

How do you make a first date less awkward?


6 Comments, 51 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
Some doozies   10/7/2014

I have had some interesting dates since I divorced four years ago. I read in a guide book that you would be surprised how much interest there would be in you.

I advertised in several of the free websites. First as a guy I was amazed at how long it took to get any interest. I later found out that women get bombed by five hundred or so applicants. They cannot tell who in that group are ...


0 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_ttthomis 49 M
2  Articles
not yet   10/5/2014

Who is gonna be my first date from here?


3 Comments, 22 Views, 4 Votes
sexysmile4u2 55 M
2  Articles
A very good SEXFinder.com date...   10/1/2014

A few weeks ago, I seemed to hit it off with an SEXFinder.com member online, but since I am interested in a "real world" relationship, we thought we'd meet at a bar.

We kept it kind of mysterious, I told her that if she walked thru the bar and didn't see what she liked, she could just keep walking. It made it a challenge that the only open chair made it look like I was sitting next to an Asian ...


4 Comments, 241 Views, 15 Votes ,5.12 Score
matt-battler 44 M
4  Articles
Love in a cold climate   9/29/2014

You see lots of talk on sites like these about 'outdoor fun'. The UK has a climate where that's a bad idea for about eight months of the year.

One of the silliest dates I ever went on with someone from here took place in Covent Garden on a busy friday night just before Christmas. Unsurprisingly we found ourselves in a 'no room at the inn' kind of scenario with all of the restaurants ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 8 Votes
chrishot69er 41 C
1  Article
hot sex   9/29/2014

me and this chick was at my parents house thay went away we fuck all over the house all weekend one evey thing we could lol


1 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
ayungstudent 25 M
1  Article
From IM to I'm In   9/23/2014

How have you gone from instant messaging someone to meeting them? I need stories people!


5 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
grindit3 67 M
6  Articles
Using different Pictures   9/23/2014

How many People have been on the first date and find out the person had used a picture from long ago and have gained lots of weight and the hair is totally different colr


1 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Is it just me....   9/22/2014

Or do the rest of my fellow members on SEXFinder.com get nervous when going on a first date (be it for just NSA sex or possibly a new relationship), I know that we all cope in different ways and show off different levels of nervousness but when I go to meet someone I really do get the old butterflies rumbling around in my stomach. What are your opinions on this?


5 Comments, 50 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Fastest Hook Up   9/19/2014

I know most of us probably prefer to chat a bit online, then maybe meet for coffee, a drink, or even lunch prior to bumping uglies. That said, what is the fastest you've ever hooked up from initial contact to doing the deed?


6 Comments, 112 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sex   9/15/2014

should i ask for sex?


2 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes
sweetboi1234 28 M
10  Articles
anxious   9/4/2014

First dates r like a job interview u dress to impress u always want to b on top if ur game u b nervous trying to make d best impressions on ur date


6 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
EvelynJMN 65 T
1  Article
Hosting location   8/31/2014

For first meeting someone new, do you host at your home, or do you find a hotel/motel to keep it a bit anonymous until you know the person better?

If you do use your home, do you first meet them at a public location and give them the home address there?

Thanks, Evelyn


10 Comments, 166 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
PUTITDOWN1 42 M
10  Articles
Sex on the first night   8/27/2014

I have been in relationships with women that I have had sex with on the first night. I wonder why so many women are against it.


9 Comments, 124 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
MovingLife 57 M
4  Articles
Had many of these over the years   8/25/2014

Some of My most Memorable First Dates are the Dates that Lead Now where fast . From Lousy Conversationalist's to Completely Distracted people . My favorite was the Lady who Ate her food so fast when we went out . And Thanked me as she said she had another Date to go to . When she was done choking on the food she had just Wolfed down . To the Lady who decide to tell Me during the Movie Previews ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
I'm sorry....   8/23/2014

if I've offended someone. It's the only thing I can think of for this site to approve an article from me and then delete it hours later.

I've sent more than five emails asking why this is happening but get no answer. So until they do I will not be submitting any more stories....and I've got lots to tell.


3 Comments, 92 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Dont be so scared   8/23/2014

Take a chance... We are normal People


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Laura9w 58 F
4  Articles
Art & Mod Sig West Nude   8/14/2014

I am Laura9w pleas dont forget to put my piture in the add in the article pleas dont for get me I am now in SEXFinder.com


4 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
tubedinn 61 M
6  Articles
What's the easiest way to meet up for first time ?   8/14/2014

If I was to ask a person to meet up what would be the least awkward and easiest method beginning with first contact on a f f ? I'm a shy individual so everything social is difficult lol.

Any other shy people here found a good way of taking some of the awkwardness of a first meeting. Not for sex on first meeting... just a meeting to check each other out.

I tried meeting a couple ...


5 Comments, 113 Views, 7 Votes
rm_culmu74 49 M
3  Articles
Bitch is an overrated word.   8/9/2014

Not so long ago a tear travel down to my face when I learned the sad news that George Carlin passed away. This great performer, and some what philosopher and truly criticizer of this society was by far one of my favorite comedians and also who inspire others that became part of my list of people to listen, relax and laugh out loud. In one of his remarkable stand-up acts he came up with the 7 ...


3 Comments, 70 Views, 12 Votes
hunterf69 28 M
1  Article
first date   8/8/2014

never try to fuck on ur first date


3 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Samtaiwan07 29 M
12  Articles
Just an Introduction.   8/7/2014

While the dating scene may seem like a lot of work to one person, to another, it's a fun way to meet other people. But all things being equal, first dates can make most of us anxious. It's Just Lunch, a dating service for single professionals, surveyed single American adults and found that nearly 70 percent of men and about 50 percent of women won't bother with a second date if the chemistry ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
tyruswoods1 42 M
3  Articles
sex on the first   8/5/2014

how many people have sex on the first date


8 Comments, 78 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_ravibe88 30 M
3  Articles
first date   8/3/2014

I M SO NERVOUS about first date its goin to be her move??? how will i know??? such topics dicussed here, tips too


6 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_testprem425 43 M
5  Articles
FIRST DATE   8/1/2014

Purpose of a date[edit] The purpose of a first date is the same as the purpose of any date. Because they often set the tone for the relationship, first dates are highly important. As the study by Mary Claire Morr Serewicz of the Department of Human Communication Studies at the University of Denver, and Paul Mongeau of Arizona State University, states that first dates "represent an important early ...


3 Comments, 68 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
pattkinson 44 M
1  Article
How to maximize your First date via SEXFinder.com   7/30/2014

Most swingers I know want to make sure that you click before you go all out. Usually you can meet in a bar or at a public place just to feel everyone out. People sometimes are not the same in real life as they are behind a computer screen.

I stress openness and honesty most of all. Its really important to be up front and put out all the rules of the engagement before you start playing. ...


3 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,5.97 Score
ToysRfun2010 49 C
19  Articles
1st BBC tonight....   7/25/2014

Omg!! Its gonna happen. Im kinda Excited & Scared all at the same time...Oh MY!!!!!!!!! I think I may be nuts.....Tell my story later


2 Comments, 174 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
Bike riding "date"...   7/22/2014

Ended up meeting an SEXFinder.com member this morning today. Met him near the George Washington Bridge, and we rode our bikes across the bridge and he took me to some park in ny along the hudson river and we rode for 2 hours round trip. I had a really great time actually... too bad i had work later on in the afternoon cuz i would have liked going all the way to the end of the park path way... and then turn ...


8 Comments, 196 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_prokrat 29 M
1  Article
whats ur favorite sex type?   7/22/2014

Lets start


3 Comments, 20 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
WOULDUMINDA69 52 F
3  Articles
Don't be nervous   7/21/2014

Have you ever canceled a first date due to nerves. Just plain afraid to step out of your comfort zone. Lived in a little box your entire life. Not sure who is going to show up? What is the worst that could happen? He or she might turn out to be a great life long friend, or an amazing lover ; ) I have made 2 great connections by simply saying yes.... had more no's then yes by the way. You have ...


5 Comments, 90 Views, 17 Votes ,5.67 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
Getting over the hurdle of the first date/meet...   7/13/2014

So, i have this unexpected first meet up planned out. well, its more in the works as we are trying to sort out the kinks of our meeting location. But i plan on meeting this person in the near future. and while i've always had an easier time meeting guys for sex... i'm meeting this particular guy with the intentions of talking first.

not my kinda thing...

but this guy ended up ...


6 Comments, 154 Views, 19 Votes ,3.65 Score
Saranghae2 51 F
11  Articles
getting to know each other...   7/1/2014

i feel i've read a lot of opinions from women that when it comes to first dates/first meets... that they prefer to meet a guy in a public setting in order to get to know him first. they prefer to meet at a coffee house or where ever and sit down and talk... and form whatever connection. they need that connection before they have sex with them. they are more interested in whats behind the man than ...


4 Comments, 124 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
rm_mitchvt8813 29 M
5  Articles
Drinks before sex?   6/30/2014

If you meet someone online that is interested in sex, what is your protocol for meeting up? Their place? Your place? Bar, hotel, restaurant?


7 Comments, 117 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
mrmrsshetty 42 C
6  Articles
Should we try first MFM?   6/28/2014

Love, sex and marriage. Oh, what a tricky dangerous business it can become. Ask yourself first before a threesome, what are your goals. Where do you want this to go, how far?, how often and with what restraint, etc. Once it starts can you control it? You two need a conversation. Can you live with the decision? What if the third party can't be shaken off so easily? What if they are lonely, or ...


10 Comments, 237 Views, 28 Votes ,6.53 Score
sexty9 44 M
2  Articles
Want to help me start a new Club?   6/27/2014

I have been reading about masturbation clubs on these forums. I just found out there is no such thing. YET. If you live in the (562) area code and would like to be a charter member, send me an email sexty9inwhittier at gmail dot com I am sure there will be a TON of guys that will email. Women- I challenge you you help keep this from becoming a sausage party. I will take up the task of getting ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
spicewetme 33 F
8  Articles
What Makes a Great First Date?   6/27/2014

think it’s a combination of all those things. You might not be able to wine and dine the date of your dreams. But if you act from your heart and leave yourself open to adventure, a picnic with budget wine, crusty bread, and olives might enable you to make the kind of connection you simply can’t sitting in a fancy restaurant or a high-priced musical show. That being said, however, I do think ...


8 Comments, 82 Views, 21 Votes ,5.72 Score
My wife's first date   6/27/2014

Sense we've been married my wife and I have only been with eachother until last night. I had got off work and she told me to come out and someone wanted to buy me a drink. I went to the local watering hole and her and a friend were playing darts which is common fun for us. After a few beers she told me about how turned on she was by one of the guys playing with us. I told her it was fine by ...


5 Comments, 282 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
what to do?   6/25/2014

every person is different but its hard to read if a woman wants to play on first date


2 Comments, 54 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
vonoberfen 53 M
3  Articles
Open air   6/9/2014

I was working the bars as a DJ some years back. One "married" lady made it known to me she really wanted some, in a public way that her s/o noticed. Since a silver tongue works fast, I managed to avoid the scrap, but she called right back at the bar after he passed out. We decided to get together the next day and see where it lead. I picked her up in my 4x4 and off to the desert we went. ...


2 Comments, 279 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
Simple and unforgettable   5/28/2014

The first of anything is unforgettable: sex, driving, college, and riding your bike. There are some things in life that when you do them for the first time they really do stick with you for an almost indefinite period of time. First dates, I believe, take this notion to another perspective, because the chemical bombardment on the brain by the body is grossly more influential that most other ...


2 Comments, 92 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
deepaksinha786 43 M
3  Articles
First Date With A Member Of SEXFinder.com, Funny But A True Story....Part 2   5/25/2014

As I have stated in my earlier article of First Date With A Member Of SEXFinder.com, Funny But A True Story....Part 2 continues.

I met this lady on SEXFinder.com and now I am constantly in touch with her. She is Very good looking, extractive, charming, adorable and sweet, with 5.4", black eyes, Medium length hairs just belong her shoulders, Good, sexy and hot figure, wheatish complexion and ...


8 Comments, 506 Views, 27 Votes ,5.03 Score
deepaksinha786 43 M
3  Articles
First Date with a member of SEXFinder.com, Funny but a true story.... Part 2   5/25/2014

As I have stated in my earlier article I met this lady on SEXFinder.com and now I am constantly in touch with her. She is Very good looking, extractive, charming, adorable and sweet, with 5.4", black eyes, Medium length hairs just belong her shoulders, Good, sexy and hot figure, wheatish complexion and a good sense of dressing, I am a 35 year old man who is married, and now having an extra ...


7 Comments, 391 Views, 29 Votes ,6.15 Score
deepaksinha786 43 M
3  Articles
First Date with a member of SEXFinder.com, Funny but a true story   5/24/2014

Dear Friends,

I would like to write this article its sort of humorous. I am a member on this site for many years and been seeing people. But this new member I came in touch out her was really extra ordinary. Last Saturday I received a mail stating that I m interest. I am straight and was a bit confused after reading the email from a male member. But just as a courtesy I felt that I ...


20 Comments, 657 Views, 44 Votes ,6.65 Score
What is the best idea for first date?   5/20/2014

Q for girls, hmm what do you like most? romantic or not to romantic on first date? Well it depends on the person but give me some ideas please


5 Comments, 61 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
thislustfulmind 42 M
28  Articles
Thoughts about making a decision to meeting someone   4/28/2014

Somebody asked me if I ever meet in person. Let me start by saying ** YES **. I have met some special people here. No, I don't like to have testimonials on my profile, and I don't disclose to the world networks of friends, etc. I like to keep memories private, to be shared with those that helped me creating them. And I treasure every single one, each on its special way.

I thought it ...


3 Comments, 101 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
Hush_4_Now 63 M
1  Article
Good Girl   4/10/2014

Usually when I date its pretty much for sex or friends with benefits. I am pretty set in my ways and live alone and when I want company I usually pick up the phone and make a call. I am very sexual and exploring so with that said I have meet a woman who I actually have been a gentleman with ... or lets say given total respect and have kept it simple, dinner etc no sex.

So now I find ...


3 Comments, 246 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_rituraj510 28 M
12  Articles
First DAte   4/4/2014

When I lived in New York City, I actively dated on Match.com. My Very Worst Date happened when I met a guy at a Union Square restaurant. I walked in and saw a guy sitting at a table looking around, but he was clearly 10 years older than the photo he’d posted online. His hair was also much thinner, but I decided to give it a shot anyway and introduced myself. The waitress came right over and ...


2 Comments, 355 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
BCFORFUN20132 55 M
8  Articles
Question for the women of SEXFinder.com   3/26/2014

Does a firs meet at an upscale hotel bar make you uncomfortable? Or more comfortable?


6 Comments, 103 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
bedseeker069 35 F
4  Articles
Things Guy Should do on a first date   3/21/2014

Ah, first dates. So nerve-wracking. If only you knew exactly what was going to happen, then you could plan out everything in advance. But first dates are kind of like playing the lottery. You gotta be in it to win it, but sometimes you end up empty-handed. If you’re a woman, you know these sort of situations don’t always go so smoothly. If you’re a guy, here are 10 tips that can make the ...


4 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
ROBERTS1969ASS 69 M
1  Article
THE SLAVE GOT HERS   3/15/2014

I have trained several slaves or subs since I got into the lifestyle. Each one has taken their role very well with only a couple of problems. These were always easily fixed. With the exception being Porshe, she was my only failure one time. I knew she had to be taught a lesson for her disobedience at a party where she failed to fulfill her orders. She had balked

at oral sex for this ...


3 Comments, 303 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
rm_Aid_992 25 M
1  Article
Meeting someone new and learning   3/10/2014

Ok I have met some girls and didnt learn anything new.They were all expecting me to lead although I clearly said that I want to meet, have fun and learn to give pleasure as much as I can, and the other person can take.In the future want to my wife be happy in the bedroom and I think this site can help before I meet the right one(maybe even I meet one here, you never know).I dont think I am that ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
lickinggood619 34 LC
1  Article
10 Things Guys Should Do On A First Date   3/5/2014

Ah, first dates. So nerve-wracking. If only you knew exactly what was going to happen, then you could plan out everything in advance. But first dates are kind of like playing the lottery. You gotta be in it to win it, but sometimes you end up empty-handed. If you’re a woman, you know these sort of situations don’t always go so smoothly. If you’re a guy, here are 10 tips that can make the ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Justforfunonme99 34 LC
2  Articles
what should you do on the first dates ?   3/4/2014

Ah, first dates. So nerve-wracking. If only you knew exactly what was going to happen, then you could plan out everything in advance. But first dates are kind of like playing the lottery. You gotta be in it to win it, but sometimes you end up empty-handed. If you’re a woman, you know these sort of situations don’t always go so smoothly. If you’re a guy, here are 10 tips that can make the ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
knowmefirst09 34 LC
3  Articles
10 Things Guys Should Do On A First Date   2/28/2014

Ah, first dates. So nerve-wracking. If only you knew exactly what was going to happen, then you could plan out everything in advance. But first dates are kind of like playing the lottery. You gotta be in it to win it, but sometimes you end up empty-handed. If you’re a woman, you know these sort of situations don’t always go so smoothly. If you’re a guy, here are 10 tips that can make the ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
abbaqe 63 C
2  Articles
Should you try your first MFM?   2/22/2014

Love, sex and marriage. Oh, what a tricky dangerous business it can become. Ask yourself first before a threesome, what are your goals. Where do you want this to go, how far?, how often and with what restraint, etc. Once it starts can you control it? You two need a conversation. Can you live with the decision? What if the third party can't be shaken off so easily? What if they are lonely, or ...


5 Comments, 215 Views, 19 Votes ,4.05 Score
Sex on the 1st date   2/20/2014

Just want to know what others think of having sex on the 1st date.. Is there an unwritten rule? How many dates should it take? or just go with the flow?


5 Comments, 55 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
SUGARRGERL7 54 F
4  Articles
I know this isn't E-Harmony, But COME ON Folks....!!!!   2/15/2014

OK, I Understand that on this particular Site, there comes an Expectation of Sex, which I have NO ISSUE WITH, Honestly, I am here, on this Particular Site for a Reason, and that is to Find Multiple Sexual Relationships and Friendships for Long Term Real Time Play. If Romance or other Long Term Relationships Occur, That is Wonderful also. I am Open to letting things ...


8 Comments, 160 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
First date feelings   2/10/2014

Nothing like the jitters and butterflies of a first date. Takes me back to the teenage years. Too bad the feeling can't last like that for every date.


1 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Excitement   2/3/2014

There is nothing more exciting than the feeling you get when you first meet someone from here. Are they who they said they are? Will she like you too? How soon will you get it? LOL


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
What is a good first sex date   1/27/2014

I've been on many dates in the past and i just wanted to know from others, how they would go about there first SEXFinder.com sex date ?


2 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sex   1/26/2014

how many people actually have sex on first date?


3 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
My very first date   1/23/2014

When I was a sophomore in high school I was madly in love with a junior and he didn't know it.

I dreamed for months that he would ask me out on a date and make passionate love to me. Then finally my best friend Susan talked Jimmy into taking me out on a date.

When he picked me up he was wearing a sports coat, a bran new pair of shoes and told me he was taking me to the nicest ...


12 Comments, 833 Views, 46 Votes ,8.18 Score
rm_JUANKAMAL02 30 M
1  Article
CITAS CLANDESTINAS   1/23/2014

AVECES QUEREMOS VIVIR COSAS NUEVAS, QUE TAL UNA EXPERIENCIA NUEVA, UNA CITA CLANDESTINA SIN COMPROMISO CON UNA LINDA CHICA QUE ESTE DISPUESTA A MUCHAS COSAS Y A DISFRUTAR MUTUAMENTE DE LOS PLACERES QUE TAL SERIA ESTAMOS EN BUSCA DE ESO ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Onlyeatblackpie 52 M
7  Articles
Slow down guys   1/22/2014

Guys just because this is a sex site, not every woman is going to have sex with you within the first five minutes. Take your time and at least get to know their names. Come on dudes.


3 Comments, 40 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
Oddly enough   1/21/2014

While I wouldn't necessarily call them dates, first meetings have been a real hit or miss ordeal. I've met a lot of people from this site. Mostly at parties and meet & greets but, I've about given up on first one on one meets.

Do mostly because of the volume of emails women get it can sometimes be a difficult task to sort thru and find what may be the most compatible playmate prospects. ...


4 Comments, 232 Views, 20 Votes ,5.93 Score
hotbloodxxx 36 M
10  Articles
is it the same?   1/14/2014

first dates, or 'meets' cant be the same through this site as say match.com and the like. through here you get to cut through the small talk and get-to-know-you stuff because its not whats important to both people. in theory it makes things easier for getting what you want, but is sex all we really want, what about what we need? Something deeper...


3 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
What to do   1/1/2014

What to do


0 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Does it feel strange   12/19/2013

Meeting people on SEXFinder.com .. is your first encounter always strange and does it get easier or better with each new encounter


6 Comments, 120 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
How awkward is the first meet lol.   12/11/2013

It is awkward you dont know how the partner moves and or what they like the most and how to wiggle it right or lick suck the right spot just right .


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bigboystwo2 53 M
11  Articles
my first 3sum   12/1/2013

meet a girl on line and she meet me with her hubby. bi? no. but he cleaned up after.


2 Comments, 276 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
MissChelie 57 F
3  Articles
How do you get to that first date?   11/17/2013

What techniques do you use to get that person to agree to meet? What is effective and what isn't?


8 Comments, 156 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
beanflicker17701 36 M
6  Articles
dating no no's   11/7/2013

what is the most annoying then some one had done on a first date


5 Comments, 85 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
unplanned first date with another guy   11/6/2013

I was working late one night and a call came in for a battery needing a jump. I took the truck to the address given and looked around till I see a guy waving at me. I pull up to his car and get out to jump his battery.

He says he has some service contract but my company doesn't take their card. I tell him I need cash cause my company won't take his card. He says he'll pay me if I just ...


1 Comments, 193 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
Senior Water Aerobics   11/3/2013

I belong to a small fitness center that has a pool and I go 3 times a week for water aerobics. There are about a dozen other old farts like myself. There are usually 10 or 11 women and 2 or 3 guys. Some of us hang around in the water and socialize afterwards.

Last week after our workout I showered like I do each time I work out. I got out of the shower and was drying off when Benny was ...


0 Comments, 570 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
stuck_up4fuck 41 C
3  Articles
We hit it off, so it happened   10/14/2013

After talking a bit with a local guy from the site, we decided to meet up for drinks. Although a little awkard at first (which we expected) things became comfortable as we had drinks and as the conversation turned towards what we intended to do, we decided to go ahead and make it happen. We invited him back to our place (a bit gutsy maybe) and pretty much got right to it. He and I sat on the ...


4 Comments, 825 Views, 35 Votes ,4.21 Score
rm_upnrth_fun 63 M
7  Articles
Overnight?   10/8/2013

so you meet for the first date, sex is a done deal, as long as the attraction is there. I cant agree to her staying overnight right away tho. Feels different then sex.


2 Comments, 89 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
Being A Chauffeur   10/7/2013

I got a call from my asking me if I could come to Texas to take care of my 2 grandsons while he and my -in-law had to work. He was going to have to go to Europe for his job. His wife, Debbie is a substitute teacher and got called to work for 3 weeks while one of the teachers was going on maternity leave.

I live in Georgia and nothing holding me there so I told them I would gladly drive ...


3 Comments, 874 Views, 36 Votes ,5.57 Score
TomRakewell 31 M
10  Articles
Ideas   9/18/2013

So what do you do for a first date when the deal is already sealed? haha


2 Comments, 123 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_nickyb99987 31 M
1  Article
fucking on a first date   9/10/2013

any time i have ever fucked on a first date it ended quickly. any time ive fucked on a second date it ended even faster. I guess i must overcome my urge to fuck her for the sake of a realtionship and wait until the third date


3 Comments, 112 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
hotfunnow902 24 M
10  Articles
4   9/4/2013

material for adding points always something to try. got no choice


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Accidental success!   8/31/2013

First things first! I was in my late teens and horny all the time. I was whacking it one day and got a big cum-shot surprise. Yep! It was the long-shot and went right in my open mouth. This was my first and the taste made me even hornier. I would be hooked in this seed eating fetish.

A couple years later I got to fuck my tight little girl friend and couldn’t hold it very long. With ...


3 Comments, 544 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
stuck_up4fuck 41 C
3  Articles
Where to go to fuck after hitting things off?   8/28/2013

We are just curious as to where people think is the best place to go after meeting up with someone from the site and hitting it off after having a few drinks. Our place? Their place? Or somewhere neutral like a hotel. Please post some opinions or even better, real experiences.


11 Comments, 320 Views, 16 Votes ,3.27 Score
what u do on first date?   8/18/2013

kiss hug sex just talk


1 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes
flirtymom33 51 F
2  Articles
cumming alive on the first date!!!!   8/13/2013

We met on SEXFinder.com. It was just chat at first cause I am married and have a girlfriend. My GF is a jealous type so I just prefer to keep my physical life separate from my online fun. Chat and email can be very much fun and as erotic as real life.

So when I met Sue on SEXFinder.com we enjoyed many erotic exchanges and I was not planning a physical meeting. We had some super hot times and she ...


7 Comments, 1173 Views, 55 Votes ,9.03 Score
FtWaltonBlackk 46 M
9  Articles
Dealing with Things...   8/6/2013

I have been having a lot of trouble getting over my breakup with my first serious girlfriend. We had been together for five years (I am 25), and we moved in together last summer. I helped her with some serious health issues while we lived together. She finally started getting better this time last year and we had a good couple of months, but in December she told me she was breaking up with me. ...


0 Comments, 271 Views, 10 Votes ,1.99 Score
meeting through here   7/19/2013

as someone not too lucky on this site, would love to hear feedback from those you who HAVE been lucky to find what they want! did they go to plan was it worth it?


5 Comments, 104 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
hawg4fun13 43 M
15  Articles
Safe Sex   7/9/2013

Play Safe!!!!


3 Comments, 76 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
vickyggn22 35 M
10  Articles
First date with a webnet friend   6/29/2013

Girl name was supriya.She was very hot. Figure was 38 30 38. we chatted so many times on net and also have cam session 2-3 times. She was very eager to take my cock inside her every holes.One day she called me to come to her friends flat. Where she was alone.I was feeling nervous.I went there and after looking at her i was feeling uncontrolled. She was also in hurry to take my tool inside her.But ...


1 Comments, 350 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
rm_alekloven 28 M
2  Articles
What should I do   6/27/2013

I'd an encounter with one of my good friend and the things are really getting twisted from that night. I want to continue the things as it was, but I just want to be "friends with benefits" and she want to get into a relationship and all.. So what do you think I should do??


4 Comments, 140 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_mistaboxxx8 26 M
1  Article
can it still be perfect   6/26/2013

cna a first date still be perfect even it evrything goes wrong just so long as the connection between the two people is geuine enough


0 Comments, 10 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_RussellSavoy 55 M
10  Articles
Sex on the first date!   5/16/2013

When you ask a girl to have sex with you on the first date and her reply is no, do you feel less interested in her?


5 Comments, 131 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
1patientstallion 46 M
10  Articles
Be Original   4/26/2013

First things first, when approaching a woman you need to be original. You need to stand out in her mind. You need to be different than the other 20 men out there that have hit on her. So why should you take her on a first date that she has been on several times before? No one in there right mind should ever chose to do dinner and a movie as a first date. There is nothing wrong with dinner and a ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
devilblueeyes76 40 F
2  Articles
Top 10: First Date Ideas   3/31/2013

No.10 Bowling Bowling is an old-school date idea with a great casual vibe. The two of you can have a beer or a slice of pizza while engaging in a friendly competition. Just about every town has a bowling alley. It’s a low-stress environment, so your date is guaranteed to feel relaxed and comfortable, which is important. If she’s comfortable, she’ll have more fun, and if she’s having fun, ...


5 Comments, 216 Views, 23 Votes ,3.36 Score
lookatmeuk 36 M
2  Articles
Looking for first meet   3/27/2013

hey all, was really interested in this site to meet new women, ladies tell me the most important things you consider when wanting to meet.


4 Comments, 93 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
luvinfun67 57 M
2  Articles
Hairy Lady   3/19/2013

I had been divorced for a few years... 2 or 3 I think. I met this woman who was 4 years older than me... no biggie...very exotic looking from venezuela... thin and wiry with long legs.... totally out of my norm, I usually go for blonde a fair. It was just before the holidays so I couldn't really tell what kind of body she had other than that she was thin. We met for a coffee... and the ...


1 Comments, 420 Views, 18 Votes ,3.12 Score
Chocolate_4U 41 M
1  Article
First date with a potential playmate!   3/15/2013

The question of whether or not having sex on the first date has always been a popular issue. However, when it comes to a potential playmate that you meet in a site such as this...having sex on the first date seems pretty normal. I mean 9 out of 10 times you meet because you saw something you think you may like. And most of the time youhave seen the other persons goodies already. So isnt sex on ...


2 Comments, 150 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Music_Lover69 26 M
10  Articles
first dates from this site   2/12/2013

How has your first ever encounter with another person been like in this site. did it go eel as you expected.... was it great or terrible... how about some stories here


1 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Don't be nervous   2/8/2013

You can't be nervous on first dates or youll just end up messing things up. got to be ready for anything but guys dont just expect the girl to put out rigt away there not there just to make you happy. You got to treat them like peple too.


4 Comments, 68 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
First datest   2/8/2013

first dates, can be great once you get over the nervous thing lol


4 Comments, 130 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
A Bi-sexual Male Friend of Mine Asked If I Would Help   1/30/2013

Help him (Mike) by going as his female friend to meet another bi-sexual couple. Mike's girlfriend - although she had been bi-sexual all her life - left Mike the previous week when he told her that he, too, was bi-sexual and wanted her to swing with him with a certain couple.

I checked out the couple's add and frankly, didn't know what was going through Karen's head for leaving him. The ...


11 Comments, 997 Views, 32 Votes ,6.80 Score
is it better to have small talk or just meet and fuck ?   1/28/2013

So is it more fun to chat, wine and dine or just turn up...fuck and leave ?


5 Comments, 158 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
jd123491 33 M
1  Article
Do you..   1/21/2013

.. fuck on the first date?


6 Comments, 193 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
Abbc4her 37 M
2  Articles
Fucking on the 1st date   1/10/2013

Is it wrong to have sex on the 1st date? I think for guys it's ok. Women seem to not want to. Is that because they don't want to seem easy?? Hmmmmmmm


4 Comments, 198 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
luvgunn27 38 M
10  Articles
been tempted   12/21/2012

anyone ever been tempted to make it more about you wallet and less about the girl. Im talking about cheap first dates. What is the cheapest youve gone? Ill tell you mine, I used airline miles for the whole thing and it didnt cost me a dime. Hotel, restaruant, and even a show in Branson, MO.


1 Comments, 158 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_killingsex83 41 M
7  Articles
First Date   12/12/2012

She's agreed to a first date. Where should you go? What should you do?

Of course, the objective of a first date is to see if there will be a second. Allow time for that, but not too much time, in case the date's a bust. And for now, focus on the present. Here are some great ideas for first-date outings:

1. Some prefer an activity. Hitting golf balls, playing miniature golf, or ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Better to take out or cook for   12/10/2012

I have always been a fan of cooking for first dates. Now I only do that if its a date with someone I have known and comfortable with. Do ladies like that for a first date or rather be taken out for the evening?


5 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Iamforreal10 63 M
10  Articles
I know how a woman feels   12/2/2012

I now know now a woman feel after a slam bam not even a thank you ma meeting. I had a meeting the other night with this guy at a hotel. He told me he wanted me dressed sluty so I had on a black minni skirt and shirt red panties andbra a 4 inch heel boots. I call and told him where I was and he said he'd be there in a couple of minutes. I put on a couple of vidos toset the mood and waited and ...


4 Comments, 414 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
dcrel123 42 M
10  Articles
First Date: Good or bad feeling   11/24/2012

How you rate ur first date? the best or the worst of all?


4 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
prod1013 35 M
11  Articles
worse first dates   11/22/2012

I've had some horrible first dates because of all types of reasons. Fake or old pics. A guy faking to be a woman. A transexual.


3 Comments, 136 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
rm_Letsmeet676 42 M
2  Articles
Getting over the wierd of the first date   11/11/2012

Why is it that when u get that first date, u dont know what to do or say, like u are in highschool again.


3 Comments, 82 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bigmoney22578 30 M
11  Articles
LOOK   10/27/2012

First Dates Can Be Amazing You Hvae Fun Do What You Like., But If Tha Date is boring and the person is not enjoying their self then its bad that you might not have another date.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
indicaking1993 30 M
3  Articles
sex on the first date?   10/20/2012

do woman usually want to have sex on the first date? it doesn't really matter to me, but i want to know if woman enjoy first date sex?


0 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes
LioldyfrPasedena 87 F
13  Articles
Right   10/19/2012

Suck them dicks good for them on the first date.


1 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
camp5co 57 M
1  Article
first in a long time   10/17/2012

just a few pointers for those "first daters"....



1. it is highly reccommended that if you go to someones house with the promise of sex...you should at least show up looking presentable...flip flops and shorts and needing a shower do a good first impression make!

2. a shave is also reccommended for the men...and maybe some deodorant!!!

had a m2m this afternoon ...


1 Comments, 136 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
phatkid002 50 M
1  Article
new ideas?   10/16/2012

I have been on more first dates than i can remember, in fact it seems like thats about all i ever do really, which sucks cuz its the first few dates that are always the most expensive! I am running out of ideas.

I know that booze can make for a great ending to the first date, but clearly that hasnt worked out for me in the long run. any ideas ladies as to what I can do thats creative? ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
My First Date with My New Boss   10/3/2012

Robert, my new boss, a transfer from New York, asked me out his first week in town. We went to the nicest restaurant in town then to his apartment for, "a drink or two." I'd had 3 drinks before dinner and several during dinner, the last thing I needed was another drink, but not wanting to spoil the party I said, "yes" and went to his house.

My new boss poured me a stiff double of my ...


6 Comments, 1219 Views, 54 Votes ,6.30 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
It Was Danny's and My First Date with a Bi-sexual Female   9/30/2012

Karen, a 36-year-old long haired blonde, responded to our air for a bi-sexual female by sending us a close-up of her beautiful face, a full frontal showing her enormous breasts and completely shaved pussy and one of the greatest sets of legs I've ever seen on a woman.

My panties got wet just looking at her photos, but when I read her letter I almost had an orgasm.

"I've ...


0 Comments, 691 Views, 34 Votes ,7.28 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
It Our First Date with A Swinger Couple, She Was Bi, He Was Straight   9/29/2012

We met them in the hotel bar, they were everything they said they would be, everything their pictures revealed. He was a hunk, although she had small breasts, she was as fit as an Olympic sprinter.

We didn't even finish our first drink we were all so excited to rush up to the bedroom.

They were experienced swingers; we had never done anything like this...never, EVER!

As ...


1 Comments, 552 Views, 26 Votes ,6.91 Score
085170_84010 53 M
4  Articles
hi hello dear   9/18/2012

Hello Dear

how r u



hope u r well and fine

i am murali from cochin, kerala 42 yrs,

will u accept me into your world of love, care, fun and trust pls,

i assure u a nice and warm friendship in all health pls, as well as trust, honesty and care with full and 100 % confidentiality as well as safe and caring moments, ,, ,,



...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
curious what you guys think   9/13/2012

Being that this site is what it is I am sure that std's are a very real issue here. should I be weary of a woman who wants to meet at a hotel before getting to know one another over drinks or lunch?


4 Comments, 142 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
yeszen2 23 M
11  Articles
Tough   9/11/2012

It's always the hardest one. I'm still young so forgive my inexperience but any tips on getting through one successfully?


0 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
How to shine?   9/5/2012

Hi, we all leave the difficulty to shine to the eyes of people who we believe we should get along with.

Originality is a key... The only one I can figure.

But some people live so fast here... So easy to be ignored in the stream. What is the best idea you ever had to get noticed (Noooo. Your tool's picture is not an acceptable - or wrking- one!)


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
My First Date with the 25-Year-Old :   8/28/2012

I not only held onto her business card, I quickly wrote her number down in my address book and immediately entered it into my cell phone book.

Saturday morning at 11 a.m., thinking I had waited long enough, I dialed the hot little blonde's number.

"Hello." A sweet voice answered.

"Is this Sam?" I asked.

"Yes this is Samantha." She replied.

"Samantha, ...


6 Comments, 637 Views, 35 Votes ,5.09 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
My New-Found Bi-Curious Female Friend Met Me as Planned   8/28/2012

At a local bar promptly at 8 p.m. Petite, black hair, a pair of killer 34 C boobs and a tiny waist that just wouldn't quit, my pussy got wet just watching her walk over to my table.

I wanted her right there.

I knew instantly that this was the girl for whom I'd always been searching.

"Hi Annie." She said greeting me. "Well I guess I'm here, that's one more fear I have ...


2 Comments, 455 Views, 26 Votes ,6.58 Score
rm_maybehottie8 27 M
10  Articles
first   8/22/2012

well first dates can be really tricky if you think too much . period


0 Comments, 47 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
c6love 32 M
26  Articles
giving it up   8/20/2012

fucking on the first date is always on ppl mind. if you give it up on the first date, is it doomer to fail?

is making that someone wait and appreciate it more when they do get it make them really appreciate it more or does it make them irritated and just wanna leave after


2 Comments, 130 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
First Date   8/17/2012

Dating is an experience like no other. The first date is usually one of the most memorable dates anyone will ever have. Some dates are funny, some are total horror stories and some should never be discussed. Several Howard students shared some hilarious and unforgettable first date stories with The Hilltop.


0 Comments, 44 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Mrhefner2012 37 M
2  Articles
kino   8/6/2012

do you all remember when we first tried making a move on a girl or woman, i loved using kino, it was the best? let me know your opinion?


0 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
bigd572012 64 M
2  Articles
Second dates   7/31/2012

The first date is better when you meet when you know very little about the other. The suprize factor will always win out. Some of my first gates vary from being great to me leaving her within a few minutes. When I leave fast it's because she showed up filfty no bath, dirty clothes etc. Do you blame me for leaving? Wouldn't you? I mean we all need to be clean.


1 Comments, 54 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
triguy16 36 M
3  Articles
Worst first date?   7/14/2012

Mine would be when her pictures were 3 years and 50lbs ago. Yea not what I was expecting!


2 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
How do you prefer to meet?   7/13/2012

When talking to a potential partner from SEXFinder.com do you prefer to actually talk for a while and get to know them or you enjoy the thrill and impulse of meeting on a whim?


1 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
c6love 32 M
26  Articles
what to do   7/2/2012

how many girls usually have sex on the first date? what makes you want to give it up on the first date? is it more physical or attitude, im just curious


3 Comments, 134 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
c6love 32 M
26  Articles
sex   6/30/2012

how common is it to have sex on the first date? it happens for me quite a bit but i always go for it. does the man have to go for it to get it or wil the women give it away if they want it


2 Comments, 94 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
dating   6/14/2012

dating is like wasting ur money on people who wont even remember u on other dates.


3 Comments, 60 Views, 9 Votes
merrygoround71 49 M
8  Articles
awkward silence   6/12/2012

Hi all, just out of a long term relationship (more than 20 years) and I'm a bit nervous about going on dates in case we get the dreaded awkward silence. Any advice on how to break this would be much appreciated.


5 Comments, 137 Views, 12 Votes ,3.33 Score
Iamforreal10 63 M
10  Articles
about to have a first meeting   6/1/2012

I am about to go out on a first meeting Ive choose tomeet in a public place for coffee first. Iam going to be dressed as the woman I want to be but I don't know if I should go dressed sluty or in every day type cloths. whatdo others think I should do


3 Comments, 181 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score