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JamesR333 49 M
3  Articles
Creating a quick dating oppourtunity   10/27/2003

If you're interested in the hostess of a restaurant, here's how you can score an on the spot (if short) date: <br> Ideally, the hostess shouldn't be too familiar with you, or this'll short circuit a bit. To wit: she can't know you well enough that she doesn't need to ask if you prefer the smoking or non-smoking section. <br> Go to the restaurant alone. If necessary, ...


0 Comments, 350 Views, 87 Votes ,8.67 Score
JamesR333 49 M
3  Articles
Sit a little closer   10/25/2003

Allen Schiffenbauer and R. Steven Schiavo did an interesting little experiment. They had a confederate (i.e. an ally of the experimenter who pretends to be a subject) sit either close to the subjects (2 feet), or far from the subjects (5 feet). In addition, the confederate behaved in either a likeable, neutral, or unlikeable fashion toward the subjects. <br> What they ...


1 Comments, 47 Views, 29 Votes ,6.05 Score
JamesR333 49 M
3  Articles
First Impressions   10/24/2003

I have come to realize that aside from having a solid foundation of confidence and charm, one has to make very sure to make an outstanding first Impression. The first impression you make on a girl can have a major impact on the way she sees you from that point forward. <br> It seems that the first impression is like a "sample" of who you are. If your first impression ...


2 Comments, 71 Views, 49 Votes ,5.75 Score
profiles   10/22/2003

well I was dating this guy, ,, god things was great, ,, ,till he confessed he was looking for other than what was in his profile, ,, ,people, why lie or lead people in wrong direction. doesn't make any sence? I am a gal that is tired of fake ads and fake people, ,, ,, so if you are one that is a fake person why not go back to profile and make it right, ,, ?


0 Comments, 17 Views, 41 Votes ,8.49 Score
Online Dating ,True or false   10/22/2003

Well online dating is it too much to ask for genuine people who really want to have fun. So far being on this site I have noticed a lot of people out there especially women who are just after men to join yet another porn site, leading me to believe that this basically is being driven by a entrepeneur. sign up here to meet me or get a secure ID for verification through another porn site ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 24 Votes ,5.86 Score
SAMBAKERMAN02 57 M
1  Article
RE: A date without a DATE???? give me a break...   10/20/2003

Ok, has anyone really read this story of his??? He is suppose to be a college student, but he can not even spell, or make good structure in his paragraph. My bet is that this guy is not a college student, or couldn't even get a high enough score on the SAT or PSAT, to even get into school. With spelling and paragraph structure like that, how would any college accept him.. Get a life guy, or ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 20 Votes ,6.32 Score
A reply to the reply on the seventh about size...   10/20/2003

Everything was on point, I believe, until you got to the point where you basically made a sordid attempt at pigeon-holing everyone into what you assumed should be everyone's basic outward appearance. To tell the truth what you should first and foremost be concerned about is how you feel about yourself. I am sure, above all things, that what a women really wants is a man with confidance, ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 17 Votes ,6.94 Score
I am not that different or bad.   10/15/2003

I am a divorced person that is looking at the dating scene again but I am having troubles getting long term reletionships. There are many points and/or problems that may lead to this happening but the there is one that I do not understand how people act. <br> First I can understand a persons right of choice and I fully respect that person's right of choice but because the ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 24 Votes ,5.63 Score
Re: How many women really want a big cock   10/5/2003

First, for the guy who described himself as a 'small cock guy' with 6-7 inches - don't underestimate yourself, that's average, maybe a little over. <br> Second, yes some guys do talk about size of pussy. But they don't want large, they want tight. That's until they're experienced enough to know that too tight a pussy is no good at all, just like too long a dick is not much use. ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 218 Votes ,8.86 Score
rm_lgliang 41 M
9  Articles
Personality, it counts for something!   9/10/2003

Ever dreamed of that wonderful date where you have a candlelight dinner, a drive around town, a stop by Lover's Peak and some backseat smooching? <br> All that dream bits can be ruined if your date, he or her, have abo-so-lute-ly no personality whatsoever. It's like taking an inflatable sex doll or cardboard cutout for a date, conversations are often one-sided and by the end of ...


0 Comments, 1 Views, 161 Votes ,7.61 Score
rm_MiosotisX 67 F
8  Articles
Re: How many women really want a big cock   8/26/2003

I don't know anything about whether the size of a car is related to the size of the cock! To tell you the truth I am not very much interested in the answer either... But I can tell you a few things. As far as I am concerned women wanting huge cocks is only a fantasy. I have read a lot about it and most women felt the same as I do: a big cock is uncomfortable, it hurts and it is only good to ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 277 Votes ,8.64 Score
gordenwood 64 M
2  Articles
women that advertise where the men or looking for women, but they want women only   7/19/2003

If you want just women don't advertise where men or looking for women..advertise where women or looking for women..so when we do a search for women that want men we don't run across alot of women wanting.somthing else..gordy


0 Comments, 7 Views, 193 Votes ,6.06 Score
Sex with an older coworker   6/23/2003

Nancy and I work together at a large corporation. Although we are in different buildings, we pass each other frequently and know one another from conversation. Nancy is divorced, has been for eight years, and I am married for the last 12. I have no idea how old Nancy is, but she has to be in her early fifties and I am 39. We talked one day at work and through small talk, she found out ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 513 Votes ,8.68 Score
trucknude 69 M
4  Articles
I let her pick the movie!   6/16/2003

It was our first real date. We had mat for lunch a couple of times but never went out togeather. We talked a lot on those lunch es and she thought she knew me. When we decided on a friday night meeting I picked the resterant and she picked the show. We met at Tony G's for pasta and then we took a cab to the theatere. She said the show she wanted to see was at an artsy place in a bad part of ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 299 Votes ,8.06 Score
datmlvr 66 M
4  Articles
Re - met this guy.......   6/13/2003

Just goes to show you darlin - just because he's all handsome and buff does not mean he'll be a great lover. Why ever did you bop him FIVE times? Of course the same goes for the gal who looks like the hottest fuck since Delilah ruined Samsons life and turns out to require a needle in her ass before she moves. Good sex is in the hearts and minds of the players and there's lots of good sex ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 122 Votes ,7.65 Score
MrDelurk 54 M
1  Article
Casanova On The Bus   5/14/2003

My car being in the shop, after many years of driving I took the bus home yesterday evening. The trip looked promising: I spotted a pretty lady right away. I would have sat right next to her haven't she barricaded herself around with a ton of various luggage. Okay, so she didn't want company, fine... it sat down behind her. <br> She had been leafing through one of those ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 156 Votes ,0.38 Score
RE: Cars & Cock Size....   4/7/2003

I just read the short by the woman who rates her men by the car that they drive. I too have met women like her, and ran the other way. No dear, the era of the big car is not over, you just got left in the dust. Keep hunting for your men just like you are doing, it will allow the real women a chance with a man who can afford to drive what he wants and take his ladies to better places than ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 112 Votes ,7.75 Score
Bubba Cars?   2/16/2003

Judging a man buy his car is like sizing him up by his shoes. It dosen't work that way. It's almost as crazy as saying they support terrorism too because they drive a gas hog. I like to think of it like snow...ya never know how much you're gonna get and how long it will last.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 42 Votes ,7.39 Score
direption69 54 F
20  Articles
response to women are strange...   2/9/2003

In all fairness to the ladies, We have to take the derogative comments regarding weight, height, and hair color; as well as the 'chat room' push of "i'm gonna stick my dick in your bum" without even a lube or warm up. <br> Respect goes a long way for both sides. <br> I am currently respecting a very nice gentleman with his request for 'no commitment' although we are ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 25 Votes ,5.12 Score
rm_txblkman4u 60 M
0  Articles
What is it with the date thing...   1/31/2003

Why are there so many requirement when it comes to dating. For men it how do I convince (Trick) this woman into having sex with me. Let's be real here, the bell and whistle do not go off because you think this woman is a great scrabble player. You want to sleep with her, plain and simple. And why is it that men with enormous amounts of money seem to be able to get away with anything just ...


0 Comments, 2 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
atruebond 39 M
3  Articles
RE RE: Bad Boys v. Good Boys   12/20/2002

I have read both articles on bad vs. good guys and I’m sorry, I think that both of you are right and wrong in your areas. First of all, I do think that with BOTH the male and female side of things, if that is what you viewed of mommy and daddy in their relationship, then, you have a chance you will follow their lead. (notice I didn’t say GOOD chance or whatever) It is a ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 49 Votes ,7.86 Score
We found a couple to play   10/28/2002

(This is a true story. The names have been changed to protect the guilty.) <br> <br> We met our first couple through SEXFinder.com. We liked the posted photo of Karen’s butt and after some inter-net and phone correspondence set up a dinner date at a fancy restaurant. We laughed and got along very well. The sexual tension warmed my long dancer legs under a short black skirt ...


0 Comments, 27 Views, 173 Votes ,8.18 Score
Coffee and Cream goes together   10/27/2002

Coffee and Cream goes together, then why cann't we? someone please answer that question for me. I am a black man that have been to bed with black women, white women, and asian women and I enjoyed each one of them.I do not see anything wrong with a black man dating a white, or asian woman or a white man dating a black woman or asian woman and asian man dating a black woman or white woman, ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 172 Votes ,2.65 Score
so what your a amputee !!!!!!   10/18/2002

so what if you're an amputee;so am i!!you only lost your leg, not your mind, personality, etc. yea it sucks losing limbs but your life is far from over.i still ride motorcycles, hunt, fish, chase women, catch a few from time to time.be yourself, stand proud of who you are, what you are, and get over the bullshit of losing your leg.have pride in yourself, and stand forwho and what you are!if ...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 146 Votes ,4.29 Score
loves2love69 60 F
6  Articles
When do you tell your date that you are a sex change??   9/28/2002

Isn't meeting the right person and finding love alread difficult? Imagine being transgender. We all know to some extent what that is, well to some extend most people do. For me, its a very natural way of life. But when it come to dating, I always tell my date that I am transgender. Why, because it is the appropiate thing to do. I want my dates, and friends to know about me so they can ...


0 Comments, 48 Views, 69 Votes ,6.42 Score
Nice Guys vs. Bad Boys   7/2/2002

There have been a few postings on the topic of nice guys losing out and there are some misconceptions about why that is. Here's why it happens (and, granted, this is a bit oversimplified): These girls typically have low self-esteems and they sincerely believe they deserve to be treated like crap. Often times they've witnessed daddy treating mommy like shit. They begin to see this as ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 377 Votes ,8.29 Score
rm_box8707 71 F
9  Articles
I Had My 1st Gspot Orgasm With Phone Sex   6/29/2002

When I was newly separated, with a libido that wasn't being satisfied, I turned to phone sex because it was inexpensive and safe. I live in a small redneck town where everyone has a preconceived notion of what is proper. When you've lived a "supposedly" conservative lifestyle in a conservative town - how do you suddenly make it known that you are ripe to be fucked? Suffice to say, ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 255 Votes ,8.28 Score
Do you meet other people from this site, or am I the only one?   6/23/2002

I only wanted to say that, Yes, this site works for meeting people. I get many replys to my ad and I try to reply back to every email that I get. To date, I have met 25 men in person. Some were worth my time to see again and a few were not. Of those men, I still see 8 or 9 of them on a regular basis. I have plans to meet more. Until I find the one man that I want to spend all of my ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 139 Votes ,5.27 Score
She's out with you but coming home with me!   6/11/2002

My story takes place in London England on a Friday night in Camden town. I was out with my fellow canuck when we came across an American acquaintance of my mate and her Irish male companion. Apparently they were on there 1st date but little did he know what was to take place. After enjoying a few pints of English bitter we went down stairs to the night club to heat it up on the dance floor. ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 97 Votes ,2.64 Score
want to meet not so nice girls in Vegas   6/3/2002

i am a single chef; who works odd hours and can never find that special someone. am trying to find afterhours clubs or fellow graveyarders to get together and have a great time. love most anything, and am open and sensual. let's get together!


0 Comments, 8 Views, 66 Votes ,1.78 Score
ncman424 54 M
1  Article
response to These men seem to have no clue!   5/29/2002

I agree with you they have no clue, but neither do some women. both sex's let themsleves go fro some reason. I and a 44yo WM who does take care of himself. I'm a triathlete, swim bike run events, stay active , well educated professional etc etc. So tell me why no one answers the ad or my e-mails . the women make it soo dificult..whats up with that???


0 Comments, 148 Views, 54 Votes ,5.80 Score
LET'S MEET FOR COFFEE   5/24/2002

This is a true story that happened in Toledo, Ohio on April 26, 2002. Let's meet for coffee to see, what we think of each other and go from there. We met for the first time at the diner and went inside for coffee and made small talk for about an hour. Then to the parking lot where we kissed in broad daylight. Then we decided to drive to the park and when we got there, we kissed a few ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 211 Votes ,7.28 Score
   2002-05-01

Having been a more-or-less loyal member of SEXFinder.com for quite some time, I have been blessed with meeting some very charming, sensual woman. One thing does puzzle me... except for one, they were all single ladies, single ladies who like a sense of adventure, romance, and (of course) intimate relations (that's sex, if you can't guess). The majority of the "married and looking" ladies seem to be just that, "looking." Understanding that women see a realtionship much different than do men, it is still puzzling why a woman would post a sizzling ad looking for "sex one-on-one" and then turn into a fizzle when approached. Perhaps it is just being "naughty"... Perhaps it is a game...


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Responce to TRUTH ABOUT MEN AND WOMEN   4/21/2002

I agree with you 100%. However, and you knew there was a however coming. I am a female born in the 60's. I was in college(SIU-C'dale) the last 2 years of the 70's and the first 2 of the 80's. This thing of the women taking the "bull by the horns" is nothing new. <br> Have you ever spoken with a woman face to face about this topic? I doubt it. Let me tell you the road runs ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 93 Votes ,8.23 Score
superc007 49 M
1  Article
re: a small interesting book about dating...   4/19/2002

<br> I have recently bought a book called "Don't be afraid to ask?...how to date a beautiful woman" by Bob Lott. <br> The reason why nice blokes think they finish last (including me) is because it is US who think we are being pigeon-holed by girls into the same group as blokes who treat them like shit. We think like this because we have a lack of confidence in overcoming ...


0 Comments, 0 Views, 48 Votes ,5.93 Score
Re: Independent Girl....   3/17/2002

I am an Independent Woman, most men cannot handle that about me. Are you sure you can handle a woman or a girl who does not have to depend on you for anything, except sex...I have not found a man that can do that yet....They think they can handle it, want it, but no most men want a woman to come to them for everything they want to be the rescuer so to speak...Some women can pretend they are ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 144 Votes ,6.28 Score
don't do what i did   3/1/2002

One time i was chatting on the computer and i met this girl on there. She seemed ok. We started talking and i asked her what she looked like. So, she told me: brown hair, brown eyes, 5'4, 145 lbs. I thought that sounded good. A few days later i asked her for her phone number. She gave me her number, then i called her a little bit later. We talked for about a week. We were becoming pretty ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 166 Votes ,6.39 Score
The Tao of Steve - Some Advice   2/13/2002

In order to have sex with someone waaaaaaaay out of your league, you must perform three tasks; you must first perform something excellent in his/her prescence, then you must act as if you two are only friends, and finally you must not pursue that which retreats from you. The simple meaning of this last phrase is that you must not TRY to get the girl/boy, but you must in fact act as if YOU ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 48 Votes ,6.21 Score
Help I need Some Goood pussy in   1/27/2002

I have had my add on here for awhile. I have even responded to some of the adds but no one ever writes me back! Is it my add? If, so I am being totally honest and if there is a woman that doesnt enjoy the things that I had Listed she is crazy. I am starting to think no one ever sees the damn thing!! All I want is a nice sexy bi bbw with bbbs to have sex with! Is that so fucking hard!


0 Comments, 14 Views, 38 Votes ,0.58 Score
rm_Naryn 48 M
0  Articles
undercover   12/27/2001

You may look at me as an ordinary girl with plain hair, clothes and my quiet demure. I used to be this plain Jane about three years ago, but that all changed when a friend of mine convinced me to join this salon that would absolutely change your life forever. Talk about understatement! When I got the makeover, every guys on the street corner were whistling at me and following me, ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_marcsmen 42 M
1  Article
Wanted - Sexual Encounter   12/5/2001

“Wanted - Sexual Encounter” - A Consensual Erotic Story By Jasmine Parker <br> Jen, a tall attractive redhead, had been advertising inthe local paper for partners but felt no sexual energy from any of the men that she met. So she decided to advertise in a national men’s newspaper in the “Alternative Relationships” section for a casual ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 17 Votes ,5.81 Score
safe sex tips   12/4/2001

Do you want to know how to keep from getting std's? <br> Sit on your ass and keep your mouth shut!! <br> What is the only way to catch AIDS from sitting on a toiletseat? <br> If you don't wait for the guy before you to get up. <br> Why do fat girls give such good head? <br> Because they have to. <br> Sorry that last one wasn't about safe ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 17 Votes
2 Shaven cunts   12/2/2001

Lisa 30 and 7 months pregnant and susan her best friend were upstairs in the bedroom when i arrived at lisa's. They didnt know that i was downstairs in the lounge but i could hear them talking. Lisa was saying that with here bump she was unable to trim her bush the way she liked it and asked susan if she could help. Susan was unsure of this as she said she had only trimmed her own but ...


1 Comments, 142 Views, 38 Votes ,4.15 Score
troublesome cock   11/30/2001

one patient came to a doctor's clinic as he was suffered by throat infection and his voice became completely terrible hard to hear.doctor tested the person and adviced him that if he is ready to remove his cock with a surgery the voice will become normal. after surgery the doctor adviced the nurse to keep the cock in fridge(he thought if the patient comes back to fixup the cock again for ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
yesterday and now   11/6/2001

i loved you, you knew that i caring you, you left me i miss you, you forgot me i still love you, and you? <br>


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
A Remedy For The Nice Guy That Gets Screwed Around By Women   10/15/2001

I used to be the nice guy that got none while all the jerks got it all. Now I have fixed that problem. When on a date and it is getting late I do the unexpectable. I whip it out. It is just about that time when she says " I have had a great time, but now I have to go" I don't give her a chance to get the words out. I just throw it in her face. Once she has it in her face it's " Oh my god , ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
rm_nice2x 60 M
1  Article
Wanting To Suck Him All Night Long   8/14/2001

Danielle began feeling the urges...as she watched from behind her steering wheel as Kevin checked under her hood. She began to feel her clit tingle with excitement...thinking of how Kevin, not only knew what to do under the hood of her car...but, also, her "other hood", and ornaments, so to speak. <br> When they returned back to his apartment, her hunger and desire grew for him. ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
quicky after the club   7/29/2001

Last week a couple of my friends and I went clubing. We started out drinking tequilia shots.my friends all went off to dance.I got really drunk I started to dance really close to one of my boy friends boys who was there.I could feel his dick get hard. That really turned me on. After the club he asked me to go to his house. As soon as we got in the door he lead me to his room. He told me to ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
wife finally gets pregnant by black cock   7/5/2001

in part one this is all my oife could talk about. we had hot sex while she brught up tue subject which i liked because she was the hottest fuck of our married life. well one day we were at this basketball (pro) game and i had to go to the john. i found a urinal empty and started issing. i was joined by a black man probably 5-l0" not particular husky , maybe a little fat, and not good ...


0 Comments, 361 Views, 16 Votes ,4.30 Score
Black Sexie Females   4/21/2001

Hey is ther any Black Sexie Females in Col, Ohio? well all I've been seeing is Fat women in town can they help this town out with a diet plan or something? people need more extercing, watch what they eat. no hard feeling big women some men like that big stuff.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 6 Votes
Looking for fun in Montreal   4/19/2001

Hello, have fantasms of exhibitionnism and looking for men, women or even couples to help realise me those...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
too forward so i'm shy (confused?)   3/13/2001

I don't know what it is about me maybe it's my facial expression i do look a lil maean but i'm the nicest guy in the world. I don't know what it is but when i am being myself i tend to be to forward and some women find that offensive or i'm shy and woman just think i'm a loser and blow me off or they think i'm too nice and don't bother with me. It gets so confusing to try and date so i ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
looking for the write one   8/22/2000

were does a person find the write person to be with.From my life i can say i have been looking for a long time to find the write one.Six months latter i still have not found the write one . does that mean i should stop looking around for the write one.No that means i should take a step and look at myself and find out what i am doing wrong, then try to fix that prolbem.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
The best time yet.   5/7/2000

I am glad to say this weekend was mind blowing. A friend (woman) and I finally got down and dirty. We have been friends for a long time and never really thought about doing more than just being friends. We were sitting down watching tv, then she suggest watching a porno and drink, I thought is was going to be just a night that I get a hard-on and have no one to have sex with, but I didn't ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_Flexibull 49 M
1  Article
New to internet dating, what is best way to get someones interest in email   2/19/2000

I am new to the internet dating scene and am not sure what exactly to put into an email to another person to generate sufficient interest without getting the auto response. Any hints would be greatly appreciated. examples of what works and what doesn't work.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Is there life after an online affair? I discovered it got better!   8/5/1999

Sometime last year I decided to advertise on line for attractive woman to have sex with. After several replies that did not pan out I finally hit pay dirt in March. A very attractive woman answered my ad. So you may be wondering who I am. Well I'm just your average married guy looking for a little fun on the side. I am im my late thirties and have been married for over 17 years. So my sex ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
orallyyours69ak 75 C
1  Article
Ecstasy in Paradise   6/14/1999

We are an extremely oral, heterosexual couple, but we are totally new to the swinging lifestyle. We are both straight and like straight sex, but our first choice of sex is sucking each other to completion and swallowing every drop of cum. She's a squirter, which is pretty exciting, and she thinks my cum tastes like honey and ambrosia. Our greatest worry was that we wouldn't find a nice, ...


0 Comments, 128 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score