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two don'ts: GOP and NASCAR 1/16/2005
Do not, under any circumstances, date a Republican woman
or one who loves NASCAR. Come on guys, have some standards.
Have some limits. I mean a Republican woman is a tight ass
prig, who will be quoting the Bible the whole time you're
slamming into her tight little pussy. And then a NASCAR
fan????? She's probably married to her brother's
father's mother's cousin. And she only knows
one ...
1 Comments, 78 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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so how about that carbon 15.... 1/16/2005
Dating has become such a minefield. Walking on egg shells
with golf shoes would be easier. Too many personalities,
too much baggage. Too much thin skin. On both sides... why
can't men and women just forget all the bullshit and
all the games and just get along? Why?
0 Comments, 45 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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safe sex 1/14/2005
If you are having sex with others, especially someone you
had just met, you know that you should be using protection!
also, if you are in a relationship and decide to cheat on
that person, it's one thing to cheat, and it's
another to give that person a disease.
1 Comments, 270 Views,
47 Votes
,3.79 Score
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This is my first time and i dont know where to search 1/13/2005
Hi
<br>
This would be my first time gay experience and I dont know
where to search for some gay sex one night in montreal, Qc.
This is passif Just want to try out.
<br>
But where can I find a gay that can have a one night with me
around montreal.
<br>
( sorry i dont know where to post this )
0 Comments, 257 Views,
5 Votes
,1.19 Score
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Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!! 1/13/2005
It's always the beautiful ONES
Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have
given me a warning or something. It's going on week
FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time
I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to.
She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene
at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was
about two ...
0 Comments, 146 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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cutting the tension.. 1/11/2005
The most difficult thing with dating is cutting the sexual
tension. If there is a chance in Hell that sex is going to
come into the picture, then everything else kinda takes
on that foggy tint. Everything is predicated upon those
opportunity, those chances to start a sexual encounter.
And if both people are on the same wavelengths, then everything...I
mean everything..will give off that ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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my first SEXFinder.com MAN 1/8/2005
had my first SEXFinder.com date a couple of month ago. We talked several
times leading up to the actual meeting. We decided that
we would meet at hotel. we meet around 8 oclock and went out
for dinner and talked. Soon after, we went back to the hotel.
I was nervous and not sure what to do, so he just started kissing
me. I did this and I watched as he began to
undress. He move dowen and ...
2 Comments, 431 Views,
28 Votes
,3.86 Score
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lucky with chat 1/8/2005
Hi. I would like to share my new experience with the readers.
Afew days back I went for browsing in an internet café and
opened the yahoo messenger. Somebody had left their msgr
without closing. I was about to close and go on to my site
but a message popped up. The id was a girls name and it said
meet me at a certain coffee shop at 6pm on that day. And it
completed the message with lots of ...
0 Comments, 204 Views,
5 Votes
,3.47 Score
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What some women don't want you to know (part 1) 1/8/2005
Before we begin for some I will be stepping on people toes
other will agree. But one thing for sure everyone will have
a opinion. Dating in the city can be a great way to meet new
people and explore new horizons. However if you become
or are successful at the dating scene and don’t follow these
cautions then your hate the scene. Your personality will
reflect it too. Now remember I ...
1 Comments, 203 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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My Best Friend Part 2 1/8/2005
Well, Thanks for the advice all,
<br>
Here is the follow up with me and Tammy. We have decided to
go away for a week out of state and really sit down and look
at things in a different perspective and figure it all out.
We are still best friends more close than ever. We have decided
to have and lesbian open relationship. I felt this is the
way she could determine if she really is ...
1 Comments, 282 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Friends in Mobile Alabama 1/8/2005
Looking to meet new friends in Mobile Alabama so if yall
are interested in meeting me drop me a message and let me
know maybe we can have SEXFinder.com get together sometime and meet
fellow local SEXFinder.com members
<br>
<br>
Gregory
0 Comments, 70 Views,
2 Votes
,3.81 Score
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MIXED 1/7/2005
AS A BLACK MAN WHO LIKES TO DATE WHITE WOMEN I HAVE A QUESTION.
WHY IS IT SO HARD TO FIND A WHITE WOMAN THAT HASN'T DATED
A BLACK MAN, BUT WANT'S TO TRY? I'M LOOKING TO BE
THE FIRST FOR SOME LUCKY LADY. I'M NOT TRY TO DIS ALL
OF THE REST OF YOU LADIES WHO DATE US BROTHERS. I WILL JUST
SAY THANK YOU, AND IF YOU ARE LOOKING FOR A GOOD MAN HIT ME
UP.
1 Comments, 137 Views,
3 Votes
,3.92 Score
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mumbai 1/6/2005
mumbai had its own charm when I was to visit the city but slowly
I began to feel lonely & suddenly everything seemed
to turn dull & boring my company put me up in a plush 5
star hotel in south mumbai in the colaba area & one day
after the housekeeping people had left I found a visiting
card with just an E-mail mentioned on it it was mypkhan at
yahoo.com and after finding it I just posted a ...
0 Comments, 238 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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hacked off with ingnorant types! 1/6/2005
im and easy going guy, ive been told a lot im not a bad lookin'
guy, but every time I try to be nice to a girl, they end up getting
the wrong impression or just ignore me, especialy on this
date site! its annoying and just downright rude and nasty
to do sutch a thing, especialy on here where I have sent dozens
of messages and got no replys in turn! ive allways been considerate
with what ive ...
0 Comments, 205 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Jakarta Underground 1/3/2005
Buat cewe2 yang suratnya tidak saya balas, sori, saya ga
mau jadi budak sex  . Gue cari cewe yang mau menikmati saat-saat
romantis, lebih daripada sekedar sex, tanpa ikatan, merasakan
sentuhan, belaian, dan kehangatan, untuk yang anda wanita
yang merasa cocok dengan saya jangan malu2 mail me at Xmatch
<br>
Regards,
<br>
Joni
0 Comments, 397 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 1) 1/1/2005
Most women have a confliction when it comes to the image
they want to project during the day and the image they want
to project at night. By day, they want to be seen as a professional,
dignified, strong, independent, and focused woman(who
just happens to be sexy). By night however, they often find
that they want to be told what to do. Thay want to give up a
certain amount of control...and ...
3 Comments, 4123 Views,
111 Votes
,2.91 Score
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Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 2) 1/1/2005
If you hadn't read part 1, I suggest you do before part
2. Ms. Jackme and her contemporaries, Heather Hunter and
Jenna Jameson, are considered the ultimate pros in their
profession. What makes them so successful? What makes
their movies sell more than other porn videos? are their
breasts bigger? Are they prettier? Do they act sexier?
Although these may be good reasons, they aren't the ...
0 Comments, 811 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 3) 1/1/2005
I hope those that read this, are doing so in sequential order.
When you think porn star, how do you envision them? Big boobs,
fat ass, wide pussy? Yeah. How about their clothes(assuming
yu've ever seen them clothed)? Tight and skimpy, right?
What about their atitude? Agressive, yet willing to submit,
combined with unadulterated enthusiam. Does this sound
accurate? Well, how do you get your ...
0 Comments, 717 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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Make Your Own Porn Star(Part 4) 1/1/2005
This is the last in this series. A change of scenery often
affects the way a person acts. This theory is proven by the
producers of "Girls Gone Wild", who have collected
hundreds of hours of footage of otherwise sensible women
doing everything from baring breasts to making out with
one another. Like the old saying goes:"What happens
here, stays here." That's why it's in your
...
1 Comments, 4084 Views,
82 Votes
,3.13 Score
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one fight 1/1/2005
i hate how i can have one fight with my bf and then for a week
we ague.he can be so stubern. I guess i dont help i get on him
about every thing.lol
1 Comments, 549 Views,
9 Votes
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Been awhile and still looking? 12/30/2004
It's happened to all the guys on here, can't say
whether the women have much of a problem, but i'm just
going to say sometimes it's hard. It's hard to
find a woman no matter how hard you look. Take heart though,
usually it's just when you've given up, there
they are. The one you've been waiting for whether it
be just for fun or something more. So don't give up gents,
if it was easy all the ...
0 Comments, 68 Views,
1 Votes
,5.00 Score
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mature vs young 12/30/2004
hi everybody and happy holliday, my question is simple,
is it normal for a young man to love mature women more than
the one his own age? i do prefer mature women i dont know exacly
why but it is that way. am i the only one or what! i sure find
young women atractive a lot but its just not the same. Does
older women are interested in you man too or its only in one
way?
2 Comments, 114 Views,
6 Votes
,4.22 Score
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what do the lonely do for new years 12/30/2004
This time of the year is a real pain in the ass. as some of you
know, new years eve in particular is like the biggest party
day of the year. I'd like to know if anyone had a suggestion
as to what a lonely young man could do on this day.
0 Comments, 69 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Music. 12/27/2004
Supposed you have invited a girl to your house for a dinner
and after the dinner you are having a glass of wine with that
girl. Yep, on this moment, what type of music will be suitable
to make any serious events to happen or is music really important
to a date at your own house with your invited partner?
2 Comments, 49 Views,
16 Votes
,1.80 Score
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He is always out of town 12/26/2004
Ok, I need some help here, we had joined this site together
to have a 3some or something with another female or maybe
even a male. I knew when I started dating him almost 8 months
ago that he worked alot and was out of town. Well now he is
always out of town I haven't seen him since early part
of November . We have it very casual , we have been dating
along time but we don't even have alot ...
3 Comments, 193 Views,
25 Votes
,3.02 Score
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WHADAYA WANT?!?! 12/24/2004
Women help me out please. I would just like you to clear the
air. Men want to know, "What are are your top ten reasons
for going out with a guy?" Next, "What are the
three most important things a guy can do to please a woman
in bed." "What are the top five mistakes guys
always make on a first date." Pleas do the following...Tell
all you friends about this article. Reply with e-mails
to ...
2 Comments, 174 Views,
32 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Just Tell Me Why...because I don't understand 12/20/2004
Why can't guy just be up front with a girl? If you are
not into that person, you should be honest in the beginning,
not lead her on. It's better to be up front, then to hurt
some one later, because you are not able to be honest with
her.
8 Comments, 295 Views,
44 Votes
,3.83 Score
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is it because im married? 12/20/2004
I've been a member for quite a while but sadly I never
had any luck finding a partner(s). Am I so horrible to look
at or is it because I'm married I don't get any response?
9 Comments, 294 Views,
29 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Chat rooms or ? What is the alternative? 12/19/2004
Where do you meet people the most? Chat rooms etc or out in
public? Most chat rooms are over crowded with men and men
pretending to be women. But it is easier for a shy person
to start a conversation online than in person. Would like
to hear some other opinions.
2 Comments, 86 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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My best friend. 12/19/2004
My best friend: Lets just call her Tammy. Well, Tammy and
I do every thing together. We have considered our self soul
sisters. Who were bought in this world to be each others
balance. We compliment each other very well. Tammy is straight
and I am lesbian. After a weekend eve of our usual sitting
at home watching movies and drinking a couple of drinks
Tammy goes in the bath room and jumps in ...
3 Comments, 299 Views,
43 Votes
,3.08 Score
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Confused 12/19/2004
I met this guy around the end of October, we emailed for a
while and finally met around the later part of November.
We had a wonderful date, everything I thought went very
well. He was asking for a second date early on in the date,
I really thought everything was fine. He is currently in
Macon, I Stockbridge Ga. He said he would be back in two weeks.
Due to his profession, I have not ...
10 Comments, 350 Views,
33 Votes
,3.79 Score
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Ladies, can big men be attractive too? 12/19/2004
It's a simple question that I think doesn't have
a simple answer. I think some people can just say, fat is
ugly, and that's that, but I do know some people have
different tastes. Also, a persons confidence level is
part of it. So, just for some feedback from the ladies, "Do
you think big men can be attractive as well?"
3 Comments, 135 Views,
20 Votes
,2.49 Score
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That first time (help from the ladies) 12/18/2004
When you finally meet someone on this site, and want get
them to take the next step, how do you get them to respond
favouriable. I have got plenty of network memebers, now
but can't get someone to take the next step. I have tried
being aggressive being nice, letting them take the next
step, and nothing. Ladies ideas to help me would be appreciated
0 Comments, 114 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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How do you know if your friend likes you. 12/18/2004
I have this friend and she is a nice girl, I think she likes
me but im not sure, I like her, the thing is i dont wanna feel
weird if she doesnt like me or if it doesnt workout, because
she is a really good friend, what should i do?
3 Comments, 109 Views,
23 Votes
,1.61 Score
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Why is it hard for black men to meet people? 12/18/2004
I have been on SEXFinder.com for a few years now with a couple of profiles
and like clock work it is the same situation all over again.
I find it extremely hard for black men to meet friends on
here. I probably have one of the most respectful profiles
that describes myself and my interest but there is still
the crickets chirping that I hear. Can anyone give any advice.
1 Comments, 76 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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am i ugly??? 12/18/2004
ok i fell i have problems..... i am a serious guy... i ha\d
a high skool sweetheart of 5 year break up in april... broke
my heart and really hurt.... now i met a chick and was cut
wen she told me to day after catchin couple of movie that
she couldnt get in a relationship wid me..... am i that bad???
i havent had sex since i broke up wid my xgf but not really
jumpin for it... i love ...
1 Comments, 90 Views,
6 Votes
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Dating as more than two? 12/16/2004
OK....you meet someone, or maybe someones as in a couple,
and you have hit it off. Having dinner in the privacy of your
home is great, but you get to the point where you want more...how
do you get over that uncomfortable feeling of not knowing
how to go out on a date in public as say a three or a foursome?
Are there rules...do you pretend you are all just friends,
or is it OK to show ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
19 Votes
,4.97 Score
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First Date Question 12/16/2004
We have gotten a few invites from men who have shown some
interests in us, though we have not yet opted to meet them...well,
except for one, but that is another story.
<br>
For a first meeting, we are thinking it best to meet some
place public, for say dinner or a drink and see where it goes
from there. Now, my question is this...if they are pursuing
us, is it up to them to A) ...
7 Comments, 127 Views,
33 Votes
,2.96 Score
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dating after a decade 12/14/2004
I have been with the same woman for nearly 9 years and for
the year before that I didn't date, so for that last
10 years I have not had to keep up those skills. Now it is once
again time to date, and I am finding in today's "sexual
Harassment" world, I am fearing to flirt with any
woman. My fear is that if I even make a simple comment to the
woman I am liable to be sued for it. When you ...
1 Comments, 81 Views,
5 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Anyone live giving/receiveing oral better than intercourse? 12/14/2004
I've found that I like eating pussy and getting a blowjob
more than actual intercourse, and I'm wondering if
anyone else has the same tastes? Ever figure out why? I haven't
as of yet.. I do like fucking, don't get me wrong, but
if I were to choose, oral would be my choice...
3 Comments, 112 Views,
12 Votes
,3.86 Score
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Long Distance Relationships 12/14/2004
Long distance relationships are hard, but there are ways
to get through them and make them work. I know this from first
hand experiance. Almost 17 months ago I met this guy on yahoo
games and we started to talk. After a little while of talking
we started to date. I thought at first it was just some little
thing but as the time went on we got closer and closer. The
first year was hard for us ...
4 Comments, 206 Views,
52 Votes
,3.42 Score
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40+ 12/12/2004
In reply Vivianne unbuttoned her pink shirt and took of
her glasses, unpinning her hair. Her young student watched
with his cute mouth hanging open. Of all the things, this
was something he hadn't even considered. His classmates
often called her a prude, she never touched the sexually
explicit topics in their class. Little did they know that
it was because they excited Vivianne so much that ...
0 Comments, 224 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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Intro's through SEXFinder.com emails 12/11/2004
... and why MOST of them go unanswered, ignored or just deleted.
<br>
I've noticed that the majority of emails from single
guys seem to be of the "generic" or "copy
and paste" type.
"Hey baby, nice profile... wanna hook up?",
or other versions that seem to be very "non-specific"
or maybe directed might be a better description. I'm
thinking a note that "replies" to your own profile ...
8 Comments, 341 Views,
69 Votes
,4.76 Score
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Annoyed 12/9/2004
Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a month. During the
first week and a half we were exclusive, and it was great.
He went on a trip to visit family for 2 weeks. as soon as he
left all these opportunities came up to cheat but i didnt.
i told him i needed to be able to date other people, and he
said it was ok but he didnt want anyone else. so now i fuck
other people on the side, and i ...
4 Comments, 212 Views,
30 Votes
,2.95 Score
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Don't let distance stop you... 12/9/2004
I have gotten some replys from women that I live to far from
them. At first this does appear to be so when a person lives
in antoher state. However we have to remember that in todays
times distance is not that great of a deal.
Most cities have a major air port, with conncections to
smaller cities. You can some times get reduced round trip
flights for those middle of the week encounters.
...
1 Comments, 49 Views,
16 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Just No Luck 12/7/2004
I am about to give up on Love/dating.
<br>
I am 30 soon to be 31 and the last two woman I was interested/attracted
too have turned out to be lesbians.
<br>
I like woman that look hard/Tom boyish. Maybe that is my
problem.
6 Comments, 63 Views,
29 Votes
,2.44 Score
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Disabled 12/6/2004
Ok its tough for a guy in a wheel chair and woh uses a walker
to get around to meet quality women. I physically need some
help when in public to get around. hard to find women who
dont mind these obstycles. any advice
2 Comments, 108 Views,
21 Votes
,3.74 Score
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Who's More Likely To Initiate Contact? 12/6/2004
This question is for the men and women. Is it true that men
are more inclined to initiate contacting a woman first,
or have some experienced this to be the other way around
here on SEXFinder.com??
3 Comments, 97 Views,
23 Votes
,3.24 Score
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Question: When dating again, what's a good 1st date? 12/5/2004
I was living with the same woman for 15 years and of those,
we were married 7. We recently divorced, and it begged the
question: After having been out of the dating scene for
that long, what would be an ideal place for that 1st date?
NO doubt, my social skills are rusty and I'd like to
make a decent impression. So ladies, any ideas?
<br>
<br>
<br>
...
0 Comments, 119 Views,
14 Votes
,1.54 Score
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Am I really that naive? 12/4/2004
Am I reading things right? I have viewed many, many profiles
here in which woman state they are looking for "Generous
Men" only. The subject of generosity seems to appear
frequently. There are also a few which state they want to
be taken care of for which a man will receive great rewards.
<br>
Am I wrong or are these women trying to say no pay, no lay?
<br>
If I wanted ...
4 Comments, 183 Views,
20 Votes
,6.70 Score
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what do women look for... 12/4/2004
i was just wondering what most women look for in a guy, any
ladies what to respond that would be great
4 Comments, 173 Views,
21 Votes
,0.77 Score
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Rules for Meeting/Dating Online 12/4/2004
From meeting people this way, I have gotten to undersand
a few things. While they are common scense to most, you would
be surprized.... and I thought I would share them with you,
as follows:
<br>
<br>
1. Not everyone will be attracted to everyone else... learn
to take rejection and to give it without being rude.
<br>
<br>
2. There is always someone ...
6 Comments, 259 Views,
104 Votes
,7.41 Score
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STD's 12/2/2004
How do you approach the issue of STD's? Do you come right
out and ask, and if so when. I have found that many people
are offended if you aproach this to early or in the wrong
fashion. I always try to broach the subject before we may
get into a romantic or sexual situation. My belief is that
the wrong time to bring it up is as you are removing her pants!
3 Comments, 44 Views,
16 Votes
,5.92 Score
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How do you get that first date. 12/1/2004
How do you get that first date, Ladies lets hear from you
and see what you have to say, any ideas on how to get a woman
to a least go for that first date.
1 Comments, 212 Views,
16 Votes
,1.80 Score
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Where have all the women gone?? 11/28/2004
I'd simply like to ask, where have all the English women
gone?? I try searches using my ideal categories and only
come up with a handfull of people.. most of which I've
already tried communicating with (without success)..
so I change my settings and maybe get one or two more.
<br>
If I browse the USA (which yeh I know is huge compared to the
UK), but just a single state has ...
1 Comments, 20 Views,
15 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Usefullness of dating 11/25/2004
I think dating is great in essence some woman like myself
like to get the feel of the situation before getting ourselfs
into one you can tell a lot about a person on a few dates.
1 Comments, 44 Views,
61 Votes
,6.82 Score
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Am I a fool for trying? 11/23/2004
Well let me say that this will be my omage to Ushers song,
" confessions". Let me confess a few things
to the world, then let me ask a question. Im a 23 yrold male,
quickly approaching 24 who has only been on two dates in
his entire life. I've only kissed three women. Yet
i've had sex with 11 women over the course of my life.
Three of which took place in one night. With all of this ...
3 Comments, 24 Views,
19 Votes
,5.76 Score
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SEX 11/23/2004
how many people like to have one night stands
3 Comments, 21 Views,
12 Votes
,1.03 Score
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one night stands 11/23/2004
why are most women againt the idea???it baffles me!!!
10 Comments, 77 Views,
19 Votes
,2.73 Score
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Normal run-o-the mill guys dont get the attention they deserve 11/20/2004
I'd just like to say that from my perspective, I've
come to accept the fact that so many women are looking for
what they know they cannot have (Mr Gorgeous/Built like
a battleship/officer in white unifor etc...) us normal
guys get left on the sides... and I'm getting pretty
bored of it!!
<br>
It would be interesting to hear from other guys and what
they think... and you women.. ...
5 Comments, 103 Views,
30 Votes
,5.69 Score
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dating 11/19/2004
No point of dating, just have one night stands until you
get married.
1 Comments, 12 Views,
10 Votes
,1.99 Score
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Skinny guys and BBW women ! 11/16/2004
I'm a slim guy and I have always dated BBW women. It seems
to me that most BBW women I meet are attracted to me. I love
women of all sizes, including thin, average, athletic,
petite and BBW. I just love women period. The sex is great
most of the time and most of the BBWs' I've been
with have nice plump tight pleasure boxes. My advice to
skinny guys is that if you have never been with a big ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
17 Votes
,6.94 Score
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NaughtynWet1 11/16/2004
I have never saw someone who is beautiful like u.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Romantic Dating for me Includes: 11/15/2004
Going for long walks holding hands, which I really love.
Another is just cuddling on the couch, gazing into each
other’s eyes, and just going with the flow of the moment.
A really nice date is when there is no pressure, no high expectations,
the first time. Just enjoy the evening and whatever happens
with two consenting adults. I believe in love at first sight,
but I also believe in ...
1 Comments, 15 Views,
33 Votes
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advice 11/14/2004
I've read some good responses here. It could be some
event in her life that she is responding to. It could be some
one else. What is life for the two of you like, in general.
Have you grown in different directions and just sort of
co-exist. She may be thinking that is all about the sex for
you. Get home early one day, fix a nice dinner, and after
that's over tell her you'd like to talk. ...
0 Comments, 76 Views,
33 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Men..... 11/13/2004
Decide wether or not he is fr you by observing the way he treats
his mother.
0 Comments, 21 Views,
49 Votes
,3.36 Score
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Are there no real men in Kansas? 11/13/2004
Why is it i see all these great guy's on here, but there
to freaking far away (or there just not into BBW's).
Are there no real men up here in Kansas, i may have to move
back to Texas just to get a little "companionship".
"laugh" I read guys complaining about us women
on here. About how we never really want to meet in real life.,
well you guys do the same thing. every time i talk to a guy ...
0 Comments, 39 Views,
17 Votes
,5.53 Score
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Fools Rush In 11/9/2004
I don’t really know how to start this. I’m a fat girl, and
when I say fat, I mean FAT… like grab your torches and pitchforks;
you should lock me up in a dungeon somewhere. But that’s
not the point. I’m pretty young, just recently turned 22,
but up until very recently I was a virgin. In fact I was convinced
that I’d die a virgin. That any maladies I ...
5 Comments, 141 Views,
17 Votes
,6.38 Score
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Woman looking for Sexual Relationship with Another Woman 11/7/2004
I only want a sexual relationship with a woman that could
evolve into us having group sex with other women. Is it possible
I can find a woman who's down for this?
3 Comments, 24 Views,
19 Votes
,5.76 Score
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Cheap Dates 11/7/2004
how to go on a cheap date.
Goto park for pic-nik
Pic-nic on the beach
dollar theator
fly a kite
rent a movie
goto beach at midnight on a weeknight..
go for a walk
watch for shooting stars..
0 Comments, 21 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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why 11/6/2004
Can anyone tell me why women are so put off dating a man who
has been widowed. True I was married to a wonderful woman
who tragically died .. I have a great from that marriage.
I am now ready to move on. The only fly in the ointment is meeting
a woman who doesnt think I have put my late wife on some sort
of pedlestool because that is not the cass. Women say all
the time they would ...
2 Comments, 18 Views,
4 Votes
,5.19 Score
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I Know What Type of Man a Woman Wants! 11/6/2004
I think women want that man who is a mix. A 50/50 mix of bad
boy and nice guy. The 100% nice guy just is a too much of a push
over and the bad boy is just too bad making him unstable!
But to have that 50/50 mix isn't easy...you can learn
how to be a "nice" guy...but being a bad boy ain't
learned...you just have it or you don't...so if your
a bad boy work on mixing a little niceness in...if ...
1 Comments, 44 Views,
13 Votes
,5.32 Score
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any chance of a date 11/4/2004
i want a nice date with a lady but having trouble any help
1 Comments, 15 Views,
12 Votes
,4.74 Score
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How wrong it can go... 11/2/2004
The following is not erotic, but too nice not to tell.
<br>
Friday afternoon I arrive with a friend in beachtown village
after having made a small stop in another beachtown village.
I had promised my friend to show the donkey with the Mexican
hat, but somewhere I made a wrong turn and we ended up in the
wrong part of town, where we had a drink at the beach and realize
that all the ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
16 Votes
,4.30 Score
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woman dating younger men 11/2/2004
do older any older women have an interest in younger guys
around 20-25 age bracket? I absolutely love women from
around 30-40 but they dont seem to want anything to do with
younger guys... so are any of you interested in us young
bucks?
1 Comments, 38 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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dating is lost idea now 11/1/2004
people just dont date anymore and get to know each other
and they just jump into something and 9 time out of ten thats
why it doesnt last.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
8 Votes
,5.10 Score
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What's the best way to get a woman's attention on a first date? 10/31/2004
What is the best way to capture a woman's attention
on the first date? What are the three most important things
that women look for? Attractiveness? Money/financial
security? Character?
<br>
Also, do these rules still apply when trying to bed a woman?
0 Comments, 11 Views,
5 Votes
,5.75 Score
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Where has the Romance gone? 10/29/2004
Is it just me or has there been a greater growing lack of romance
in dating these days. What happened to the James Bond type
of men. I for one believe chivalry is not dead, just asleep.
I rarely see passion and the courting of a woman happen anymore.
More and more it is becoming more clear to me that seducing
a partner is a fading act of sexually foreplay.
<br>
Let me know ...
1 Comments, 23 Views,
32 Votes
,8.21 Score
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HMMM 10/29/2004
Dating can be fun if you do it right... Dont try to follow
any rules just go with that little voice... go with the real
instinct not what you "want" and logically
try to convince yourself of.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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no friends 10/29/2004
do people really meet up with other ppl in this site? i have
been here for less than amonth but ntohing i dunno
0 Comments, 15 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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B 4 REAL 10/29/2004
It baffles me how people one this system are not true to their
word.If after meeting someone and they aren't what
you expect why not just say so.Why keep them in limbo by not
answering their emails.If you aren't feeling the
person be man or woman enough to say "Sorry you don't
fit into my criteria.
1 Comments, 9 Views,
14 Votes
,6.82 Score
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help! i'm juggling 3 different men at the same time....! 10/28/2004
So I have 3 different men all wanting to be my only one. The
first one is in love with me and I don’t want to hurt him , since
I’m his first love. The next started out as my friend but
ever since we’ve had sex wants me all to himself. He helps
me financially all the time, but goes through women like
old socks….I don’t want to cut off what I have with guy ...
0 Comments, 62 Views,
17 Votes
,4.40 Score
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why do men choose the bad girl 10/28/2004
im a very nice lady i give me there space all i ask is that they
spend a little time with me so why do they alway go to the women
that want them up under them 24/7 and treat them like dirt
can some one please tell me why
1 Comments, 17 Views,
7 Votes
,6.10 Score
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Humour, the best icebreaker 10/26/2004
There's no better weapon to break the silence of a first
meet than with humour, and believe it or not, it's rather
easy to make someone laugh without cracking a joke.
<br>
People will laugh at anything, whether it's tasteful
or not. When someone trips and hurts himself, someone will
laugh. Do an impersonation, someone will laugh. Make a
comment about a random politician's lack of ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
12 Votes
,4.92 Score
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Dating for sex! 10/26/2004
Is it too much to ask that the men who contact you with the
intentions of having sex, be gentlemen?!! WTF guys?
7 Comments, 63 Views,
65 Votes
,6.51 Score
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To invite for a vacation 10/26/2004
Internet dating seems to have a bad image. Every time again
I invite a woman to come to Spain and enjoy a hot (and free)
vacation, the usual reply is "Yeah, right.....".
Being a gold member does not seem to matter either.
<br>
Anyone with bright ideas (or good experience?)
<br>
Social.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
28 Votes
,5.91 Score
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women in melbourne 10/25/2004
There seems to be a distinct lack of single women in Melbourne
these days.
When i was in country Victoria i had quite a few reply for
people in Melbourne can anyone explain this?
0 Comments, 20 Views,
12 Votes
,0.86 Score
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Should i or shouldnt i 10/24/2004
My girlfriend wants me too fuck her best friend.I think
its a trick but I should do it anyways.
0 Comments, 65 Views,
17 Votes
,3.41 Score
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standard membership 10/23/2004
standard membership does seem to werk uve just gota dive
in+find ya way about join sum groups even start sum aynt
had a date thru SEXFinder.com yetbut am interactin with ppl cyberly+its
all good stuff+maybe one day il find a lover/sex partner
thru SEXFinder.com thatd b cool stik wif the site it werks
0 Comments, 12 Views,
14 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Girl On Girl With Boyfriend 10/23/2004
I am a bisexual female, and recently have like dthe idea
of having sex with a female infront of my boyfriend. The
one thing I am scared of is, probably a common fear. WHat
if he finds her more attractive than me? I am not a unattractive
person, but I do have my insecurities. Does anyone have
any advice on this?
2 Comments, 78 Views,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Does this site really work for standard members?? 10/21/2004
I would like to know what other user experiences when trying
to meet members, and or otherwise utilize this site. Any
suggestions/tips would be welcome.
2 Comments, 31 Views,
36 Votes
,6.52 Score
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taking your women out 10/17/2004
one thing that i have learned recently, is that if on your
first date with a girl, you take them out to a nice place,
and spend alot of money, if you dont keep that up, they get
bored. girls, like most people, if they have something,
they want it again, same, or better.take it from me, start
with jack int he box, and work your way up.
1 Comments, 17 Views,
21 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Dating a woman from SEXFinder.com 10/15/2004
What it is like when you meet a woman from SEXFinder.com. My first experence
was wild.
0 Comments, 13 Views,
14 Votes
,1.70 Score
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newcomer 10/15/2004
Can anyone advise a newcomer on how best to use this site?
1 Comments, 13 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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An older woman 10/14/2004
I've dated many woman throughout my life from the 20's to fourties and I have always noticed how an older woman is not only better in bed but also has a lot more to offer.
Many of the experiences with was just fast energetical sex. it got repetative and didnt get any better untill I started using the things I learned from older women.
Many young women are attracted to your car and ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
19 Votes
,6.29 Score
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What if she is 5 or maybe 10 years older? 10/13/2004
I do wonder how it would be to have a lover that between 5 to 10 years older. Don’t you? There has to be a difference in well both the physical aspect but as well as how the sex is, I presume.
I know one thing for sure, when an attractive older woman looks into my eyes I certainly would like to know how a older lover would feel like. Thank you.
1 Comments, 20 Views,
7 Votes
,5.08 Score
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Why are people lonely in a multimillion town? 10/13/2004
First of all I want to say that I have lived in a respected European city and also in Scandinavia and recently I live in Tokyo. I have noticed the difference in how people come together and start dating and all that. It seems to be more difficult to find someone you like as the town increases in size. I do wonder why that is since there would be a proportionate increase in all types of people. ...
1 Comments, 11 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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monkey 10/13/2004
i love dating especialy when you can talk to you mate. When
it's just you and him/her underneath the starlight
licking eachother lustfully.
0 Comments, 238 Views,
27 Votes
,6.29 Score
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Be frank with us, ladies why dont u come on to guys more aggressivly?? 10/12/2004
im a very good lookin guy not to sound cocky or anything but
i have a very interesting point that considering that the
nature of the site is about sexuality and everything here
i see allot of woman that seem to want to tease and and do the
small talk, yadaa yaada yadaa, but for the most part the
ladies in here are doin nothing more. i feel that the chics
in here need to be more ...
1 Comments, 19 Views,
9 Votes
,6.20 Score
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Re: Is she a nympho 10/12/2004
Is English your 5th language? Because you sure made it seem
as such in your post.
<br>
If you want a succinct answer, provide a succinct question.
<br>
Now after you've looked up the word succinct, please
provide a post in the appropriate manner.
0 Comments, 8 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Embarassed...? 10/9/2004
When I knew her in high school, we used to kiss. Every spare
moment we had we'd make love with our mouths. We'd
never kissed anyone before... I remember when we first
touched our tongues together, flitting in and out of each
others mouths. I used to feel wrong when I kissed her and
my shaft got so hard that it would push up against her. I used
to get embarrased when the tip of my dick ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
30 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Sex in the eve and sex in the morn 10/9/2004
I don't understand why ever single woman I've been with, loves sex in the morning, and I love sex at night. I think sex at night is better because everything is clean. In the morning, I don't mind, but at the same time sometimes my mind isn't on it. In the morning you are just waking up, you look like crap, and your breath stinks...what is so sexy about that?
0 Comments, 35 Views,
3 Votes
,1.47 Score
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men on line 10/9/2004
There are alot of men here at SEXFinder.com that claim to curious looking to meet a woman /couple. Alot also claim they are looking for friends 1st too. Where are they?!? I am not having much luck meeting them. Most who have wanted to meet me, couldn't have cared less what kind of person was or anything about me. Most you loose the next week or so and never hear a peep out of them..Like are you hiding..LOL ...
0 Comments, 65 Views,
9 Votes
,5.35 Score
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i wnt to try but... 10/6/2004
hi, im a gay, i think and i wnt to try a man for some sex but do not know how to go about it. i have a few mates that i would like to see naked but noe of them will. i am asking is there a way of seeing them though they are not gay and how to ask a man for gay sex
0 Comments, 109 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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Second Date Advice 10/6/2004
I suggest you start it all over like it's a brand new day which it will be and don't worry too much. If the two of you are meant to be a couple you will be whether you worry about it or not, destiny. If you're not supposed to be a couple, that will soon be apparent also. Why over analyse something that was just great? Keep up with great until it goes one way or the other. And don't run like a ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,4.77 Score
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Looking in All the Wrong Places? 10/4/2004
I’m 38 and people are constantly asking me why I am still single after all these years. I used to reply that this is a universal question that has yet to be answered. Now I found out the reason. I have tried every method known to mankind to try to find my soul mate. I’ve done the bar scene, personal ads, dating services, online chat rooms from various services. SEXFinder.com, and their ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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question for all the ladies 10/4/2004
All right her is what's on my mind... The other day i ran a favor for the company i worked for.I picked up a check from one of the companies we do business with; low and behold there was this beaiutiful lady not married and she said she didn't have a boyfriend.( i asked this one and told her how beautiful she was LO I take it she was the companies secretary i wanna see if she wants to hook up; ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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RE: How Long " IS LONG" Enough ??? 10/4/2004
Very good questions Queenless. I'm sure all of us guys
have asked ourselves that question numerous times. As
a college student I would hear my fellow students who are
women talk about their breakups. Every single guy with
the exception of myself would always say, "I'm
available and wouldn't mind going out with you sometime."
Then after the guys leave I would hear the women say, "That's
NOT ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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I want to know why women always get emotional about sex. 10/3/2004
I never get emotional about sex. exspecally if its new thing I understand if you dated someone for a long time but sex is just sex
1 Comments, 22 Views,
0 Votes
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what women look for in a man 9/29/2004
What Women Are Looking For In A Men
I just bought the advanced CD series & it's amazing
what a difference they make over the book. Being able
to listen on the way to work, whilst out doing chores,
A date should simply be 'tea & stimulating conversation', which for all of the reasons you give makes perfect sense
to me. But once I've done the tea & conversation with
this ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
7 Votes
,3.55 Score
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We will always have August. 9/29/2004
I have a job where in the daytime I have some time on my hands. So I started playing on this site. After 1 week he talked me into coming over. We kissed it was nice, just what I wanted.
We IM’d everyday, really got to know each other so the next week I went over and had sex.
I started liking it so much we had lunch dates. We had sex over 10 times in the month of August. I only ...
0 Comments, 36 Views,
2 Votes
,4.50 Score
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guys dating women, similar to selling a vehicle 9/27/2004
Establish a little rapport by asking simple questions like what do you like to do for fun, to relax, what gets you wild, or interests in general. make the conversation 80% about her. If you ask questions, you will illicit criteria about what she wants in a relationship or for just having fun and you can then connect easier and both will feel more comfortable.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Why can't men just say what they want... 9/20/2004
It never ceases to amaze me that some men today still don’t
know how to tell you what they want. I have been seeing this
guy for about two months, and he has a CRAZY ex-girlfriend
that will not leave him alone. He says he wants to be with
me, says he loves having sex with me and the feelings are
quite mutual, but she just wont go the hell away.... He says
he is trying to get rid of ...
1 Comments, 50 Views,
26 Votes
,5.07 Score
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How should a married man hit on a women 9/17/2004
I was just looking for both points of view, frome married
men and women to singles. What is the best way to aproach
a person about a discrete extamarital affair?
0 Comments, 56 Views,
23 Votes
,5.23 Score
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re: How to ask a date to wear a condom 9/14/2004
This really is a 'no-brainer'. Ask yourself the
question:is this experience worth dying for (literally!)?
I am sure this analysis will lead you not only to ask but insist.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
51 Votes
,7.97 Score
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beauty and me 9/13/2004
You're so beautiful and i'm just me
and through eternity
your face will burn its features in my mind
I can never hope to find anything that quite compares to
you
yet I fear you can see through this porcelian facade
It seems quite odd that I (of all people)
must wear a mask
('tis a grueling task to be myself and survive)
And I fear that no matter what I do,
I will still lose ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
13 Votes
,4.15 Score
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Dating Is Expensive 9/11/2004
Dating has became expensive. No longer can a couple have
a good time with about 50 bucks, this is an outrage. A low
income young man can't go out every weekend and go to
school at the same time.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
34 Votes
,6.66 Score
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Bars are the best for Meeting 9/10/2004
Singles are constantly bashing the bar and nightclub scene.
I disagree 100% and this is why.
<br>
Yes, the crowd at these places are a little frisky but its
good to see that side of a person. You are much more likely
to be deceived or let down by meeting someone in a coffee
house or bookstore compared to a bar.
<br>
There are three simple rules for hanging out at a ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
29 Votes
,7.45 Score
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takes two to tango 9/7/2004
why is it that when a girl shows interest i do not
and vise-versa
0 Comments, 3 Views,
16 Votes
,1.95 Score
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AAF does really work 9/7/2004
Hey I would just like to say that I almost gave up in persuing
a friend or lover or whatever you may being doing...But
I finnaly met a sweet girl from AAF and I am also going to see
her again today.. So don't give up.. One thing that
you guys need to understand, Is that females get aprox.
50 to 100 e-males or request a day, so If you don't get
a reply, its not always that they dont like you ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
42 Votes
,7.85 Score
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"is it real love" 9/6/2004
someone posted, is it real love and says they think they
might be a sex addict and is there such a thing...I don't
know, I suppose there is, but I also don't believe that
you love your boyfriend or husband enough if you are going
to continue this behavior. If you really love your man,
you will be completly honest with him, and let him make the
decision if he wants to stay or leave. Most ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
24 Votes
,7.56 Score
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response to short men 9/6/2004
It's not that we don't like short men. You just
have to work harder at making us feel safe and cuddled. A
big man's hug is very different than a short man's
hug. It's physical closeness.
<br>
However, there are a lot of short men who hold lots of grudges
and can be very difficult to get along with due to insecurities
about height. Fair or not, taller men are perceived genetically ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
17 Votes
,5.81 Score
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There are no "rules" 9/6/2004
I had an odd experience the other night. A woman who I've
been seeing invited me up to her place, which was a bit odd
since I was getting a "friend" vibe off of her,
but I accepted.
<br>
I found out that since we'd been on three dates, she
felt obligated to have sex with me.
<br>
I turned her down on the basis that if she was just doing it
as an obligation, I wasn't ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
16 Votes
,6.80 Score
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HELLO ALL LADIES 9/5/2004
Hi....i am asian men looking for a white female around my
age for date. i am friendly n easy to be with. you can reply
to my e-mail
0 Comments, 7 Views,
32 Votes
,3.52 Score
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It is all foreplay 8/31/2004
Just my two cents.
<br>
Gentlemen, remember that it is all foreplay. From that
first coffee, dinner or whatever. Relax, let her get comfortable
and let her figure out just how safe and normal you are. We
all know that the guy just knows in the first two minutes
whether he wants to sleep with a woman or not, and the woman
may know also, but she will want to go a little slower. ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
59 Votes
,9.09 Score
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Is It Real love ? 8/31/2004
Is there a such thing called " sex addiction"
If so I may have it. I have a bf and i have been with him for some
odd years now and i love him. but i cant help to notice i like
varity dicks. Before we get marry I like to experience different
men with big cocks. Most People would think i dont love him
but i do. Its jus i cant control my nerves.
0 Comments, 33 Views,
36 Votes
,7.99 Score
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Why Do Women Hate Short Men? 8/30/2004
Why do women make such an issue about a man's height?
Last time I checked, there was no correlation between a
man's height and his virility. It really makes women
look shallow and ignorant to judge a man solely on physical
characteristics. It's also hypocritical. If a man
judged a woman strictly on looks, he would be condemned
as shallow and immature. If a woman does the same nonsense, ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
46 Votes
,7.10 Score
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Flowers and champers? 8/29/2004
20 years ago, women loved being given flowers, or being
taken out for a candlelit dinner. Have times changed that
much? In my experiences now, the more you spend on them,
the more please they are. Is Romance dead? Are women today
following in the male stance?
0 Comments, 12 Views,
18 Votes
,4.90 Score
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There is only one way 8/29/2004
In thew act of dating there is only one way around it do everything
that the opposite requires in their way of doing it and then
you will find it becomes much easier and you get on a lot better.......
0 Comments, 5 Views,
20 Votes
,1.34 Score
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Why do younger women like older men? 8/27/2004
Why do the younger women (20 - 2 enjoy being with older
men?
is it because of the maturity level, our knowledge on how
to please, or just the excellant sex.
0 Comments, 10 Views,
66 Votes
,5.83 Score
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hot date went wrong 8/27/2004
I went to night school some years ago and i had a mind to learn
something new and meet new people.
<br>
Well the learning bit went fine and made progress thorugh
the course however I was falling for this lovely lady in
the class and she was hot for me and more importantly we got
on very well together. We went on a few dates together with
some other class mates however there was ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
34 Votes
,4.68 Score
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the game is in the meeting 8/26/2004
Just wondering if the Good Friend is yourself, especially
as you are both bi...
<br>
If he has then it's down to him to introduce the subject
the biggest problem is not getting up tight about this
0 Comments, 10 Views,
17 Votes
,5.53 Score
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Dating A friend's ex 8/25/2004
Can I date my best friend's ex if they have been broken
up for two months?
0 Comments, 5 Views,
28 Votes
,3.34 Score
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LADIES: What type of guy do u prefer to date? 8/24/2004
Question: LADIES
<br>
What type of guy do u prefer to date?
<br>
- Guy with Intelligent
- Guy with Appearance (Looks)
- Guy with Wealth (Money)
<br>
- Other (You name it)
0 Comments, 16 Views,
35 Votes
,6.67 Score
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re: Differences in Dating 8/21/2004
I'm really taken by the fact that people will talk about
intimate sexual details with people on here and not anything
about themselves. I filled my profile with sexual information,
yes, but that was so I could then talk to people about other
things. Like, whether or not they have a dog.
<br>
I know that sounds strange, but do you really want to have
a sexual relationship with ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
11 Votes
,4.85 Score
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Compatibility 8/19/2004
I have studied the Myers-Briggs Temperment Indicator
and it seems to be fairly accurate and defining the different
types of Mentality people have and which ones work to support
ones weaknesses and empowers ones weaknesses. I was just
wondering who on here has taken the test and what was your
reslult? I am either a INTP or ENTP I can't decide when
I want to be extroverted and when I want ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
30 Votes
,6.18 Score
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Differences in Dating 8/18/2004
Has anyone noticed the difference when you meet someone
from this website or others like to; to meeting someone
you know nothing about?
<br>
Is it because you've read their profile, you have an
understanding of what the person is about and what they
want (sexually)?
<br>
Compared to someone your just meeting, know nothing about,
blind date. You know very little-to ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
12 Votes
,5.10 Score
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Save sex 8/13/2004
I have always had a problem with condoms. Do not enjoy the
feeling of a guy wearing them. But with everything out there
it is necessary. Is there anything similar for safety.
0 Comments, 12 Views,
44 Votes
,5.02 Score
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Always be honest 8/10/2004
The best time to start a strong relationship that will end
up a long term one is in the beginning . Make for sure that
the one you are dating has the same feelings and ideas about
stuff that you do . Don't just drag it out if you are not
totally in sink with one another just to keep it going a little
longer . There are plenty of people that are out there , everybody
ought to be able to ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
28 Votes
,6.94 Score
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RE:first dates 8/10/2004
It's a smart move if you meet face to face while going
on a 1st DATE as you never really know what kind of person
your really talking to no matter how he/she talks...i knew
a person that talked to a guy online & went out with him
that nite.....and all he wanted was SEX....but while they
was chattin online.....there was NO sex involved......yes
she made it through the date without giving ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
16 Votes
,5.77 Score
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Why Girls Date Jerks.. 8/6/2004
Reasons Why Women Date Jerks Instead of Nice Guys
<br>
10) More fun to complain about them to your friends.
<br>
9) Guys who actually like you just aren't challenging
or exciting.
<br>
When you do date nice guys, they turn into jerks anyway,
so why not save time and go for the jerk in the first place?
<br>
7) You won't get as emotionally ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
69 Votes
,7.02 Score
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Hot Import Nights Aug. 7 8/2/2004
I'm going to be showing my car at the Hot Import Nights(HIN)
the 7th of Aug. in the Market Hall and I was wondering if any
of you girls would like to meet(eat)me there. I'll
be wearing a black T shirt with an Intercrew logo on it. P.S.
I look like my profile
0 Comments, 128 Views,
24 Votes
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understanding men 8/1/2004
tell me something how do you really understand men? I just
recently put my add on SEXFinder.com and got a reasonable amount of
responses, I even went out with one for awhile he seemed
as if things was really going well then never called again
and even ignored me, so tell me whats up with that? someone
help me with advice....Im a respectable person, Im not
one to just go out there and have sex with ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
22 Votes
,6.13 Score
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notty little girl 7/30/2004
the door was locked but my window half cracked that way the
boys could watch me undress. this has been going on for sevrel
months I pretend not to see them, knowing there out there
watching. Gazing as each piece of clothing falls to the
hard wood floor. Cock in hand. I wonder witch ones out there
now, As I take out my toys I can feel his dick in his hand furesly
jerking, panting like a wet ...
0 Comments, 51 Views,
54 Votes
,6.93 Score
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Does this work? 7/28/2004
Is SEXFinder.com really helpful? Are there any true
"swingers" on this site as the name implies.
I don't know, i've been on the site for about 6 months
and have met only one person from here. I do better with out
it.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
34 Votes
,2.97 Score
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Re: Why Women Don't Reply 7/27/2004
I don't reply to most of my emails, the simple reason
being that most of them are not worth replying to. Just because
this is a sex site doesn't mean everyone will hook up
with you because you want them to. Granted, people here
are more OPEN to it, but the same loser attributes one has
in real life will still be turn-offs here. Many profiles
suggest indiscriminate men. They don't care about ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
54 Votes
,7.87 Score
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is there such thing as to old? 7/26/2004
Is there such thing and a guy being to old for you? the man
i am in love w/ is so many years old than me i neve even counted!
all his are older than me as well!
0 Comments, 1 Views,
28 Votes
,7.14 Score
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is a smile a good sign? 7/25/2004
well i know its kind a funny question but u know when ur on
a date and like there is a silent moment and ur just staring
at each other. and someone then decides to smile does the
snile mean say something or does it mean your boring but
i dont want to say it or does it mean kiss me ?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
34 Votes
,5.40 Score
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Give a guy a chance girls 7/25/2004
I just want to get some opinions from some guys AND you girls.
I am a divorced male who is looking to have a relasionship
again after many many years just sorta existing but don't
really know how after all this time. Times have changed
so much from when I used to date so I am unsure of many things.
If you girls would just give a guy a chance you may just find
that he is genuine. Lets here ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
31 Votes
,3.24 Score
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it's really great 7/23/2004
iam a virgin and while surfing site's , i got this site
, i posted my add here in this site and oohhhhhh..... really
it's great site to find people who are near to in ur local
, iwas virgin and met a virgin and had great fun , she is my
partner knw , when ever she need's sex she call's
me and when ever i need , i call her .....we are enjoying a
lot , thanx to " SEXFinder.com"
0 Comments, 19 Views,
21 Votes
,5.85 Score
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great eye contact 7/23/2004
No matter what going on the the date (good or Bad) you can
really feel a person out by ther eye's.
So give it a try women love it and they will love you the same
way back ( depending on the date)
so good luck and tell how it works for you
<br>
good luck, jimmyk4224
0 Comments, 1 Views,
41 Votes
,7.71 Score
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Dating Game and it's not on T.V.... 7/20/2004
At what age did we as individuals decid that we are no-longer
dating, that at some point, we started calling it "matching"?
I have tried to keep up with what will make me happy, fulfilled,
complete, of course, less-horny, and I haven't managed
to budge an inch, in my endeavor. What is "Dating"
and does it work?
I joined "Adultfriendfinders" not for the
dating possibilities, but, ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
19 Votes
,6.55 Score
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RE: why women don't reply 7/19/2004
I've e-mailed a ton of women on this website and got
only 2 replies. If I am not wrong, you are looking for the
same thing we are looking for, so why don't you women
reply when we e-mail you? It's a matter of courtesy.
I would you like to hear your opinions about that.
0 Comments, 111 Views,
62 Votes
,9.27 Score
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Having Sex Your Girlfriend? 7/18/2004
Having Sex With Your Girlfriend Which You Just Meet Her
Through Online?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
54 Votes
,6.24 Score
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do be a loser 7/18/2004
when it comes to dating I wish guys knew that they can have
a short trem fling with a girl with out being an ass hole about
it. Be charming, make her feel like this was so wonderful.
0 Comments, 23 Views,
24 Votes
,6.88 Score
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First time meeting 7/18/2004
I have met someone for the first time in public and at their
home. My advise is stay with public meeting for first time.
Safety in numbers. You can somewhat get a feel for personality.
<br>
Their are advantages to see the home but if you are alone
and they all of a sudden have friend or friends show up you
can be in big trouble. I was able to leave with no problems
but it could ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
27 Votes
,5.45 Score
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3 girls, 1 me, the odds are still in my favor. 7/13/2004
My lady and I want to add a 3rd maybe even 4th person, female
only. We both have the drive and energy but it seems impossible
to locate females that are single and think the same way
we do about this. Can anyone help?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
37 Votes
,7.47 Score
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RE: Re: to "single parent" 7/13/2004
Just so you know, it also happens to single dads. I try to
be straight up front that I am a single parent of a wonderful
little man. I have, on several occcasions, mentioned this
and lo and behold she all of a sudden has somewhere to be.
You know, forgot sisters baby shower, left my electric
blanket on, etc. Makes one want to give up on the fairer sex.
0 Comments, 9 Views,
20 Votes
,6.06 Score
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Re: to "single parent" 7/9/2004
Don't pay any attention to that last jerk who responded.
He compared a "dog" to a ""!!
PLEASE!!!! When a guy turns and runs when he finds out that
you have a , LET HIM GO! He's not the man for you.
You don't want someone who turns and runs from responsibilities
anyway. It will take some time to find that "right
man", but until that guy shows up, don't take
these other guys so ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
21 Votes
,7.83 Score
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Are you really sprung?? Chris W. 7/8/2004
It seems at one time or another we look back and remember
that one (or more) girlfriends you thought you could never
live with out. But when the time came the pain and heartbreak
was the worse you had ever felt. Mine was not that long ago
and I wanted to know what this woman had / or did to make me
this caught up in her. Ay first I thought it was because she
was the first older woman I had ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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Is that even a thought? 7/5/2004
not that I'm asking for a date, but it is kinda funny.
Some profiles read like this is a dating site, others read
like I want some lovin and then you can go away now.
0 Comments, 11 Views,
18 Votes
,5.58 Score
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Clean up 7/3/2004
Hello to all,
I have a few comments and just maybe i'll get some in
return? I have been on SEXFinder.com for close to a year and have not
hooked up with any one (mostly because the ones that I want
and have pictures are taking the pictures with a crappy
camera or if you look t the picture all you can see in the background
is junk and clutter and that kind of thing turns me off) and
maybe it's ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
34 Votes
,6.48 Score
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Re:20 Simple Dating Tips. 7/2/2004
Wow! Very Insightful, you understand us well. Should have
that one published and easily accessable for all men to
see and follow.
As much as we LOVE sex, your mannorisms before and after
are just as important and help decide whether or not we come
back for more.
Thank You for seeing us so clearly, Kelly
0 Comments, 110 Views,
24 Votes
,3.70 Score
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Flying by the seat of my pants 7/1/2004
I dunno, but every date I've ever been on, there was
no plan, no thought on what to do etc. I've always winged
it, flew by the seat of my pants, been myself, been kind and
courteous and everything always seemed to go very well,
sex included. Now I'm what you call a bad boy rather
than a gentleman but I have a good guy nature to the bad boy
side, I don't disrespect women and maybe that's ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
17 Votes
,4.12 Score
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response to men having a problem dating single moms 6/30/2004
~There are several reasons why men wouldn't want to
date a single mom.
<br>
~1) Learning that a woman has had a , whether or not
the lives with her, means that she could have stretch
marks and the man may be turned off by them.
<br>
~2) The man may be afraid that the woman is also trying to
find a replacement father for her , and he is not ready
to take on that ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
39 Votes
,6.90 Score
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Monogamous sex vs. open sex? 6/29/2004
Married people like to have sex, sometimes, with others
other than their spouse. If this is a site where we seek sex,
then why does it bother women (or men for that matter) if
the men looking at them are attached? A zipless fuck can
have intimacy. And I think it can enhance the single person
having sex with a married one by realizing their sexiness.
What do you think?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
37 Votes
,6.03 Score
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Fake Bi-Woman 6/28/2004
Why is that you e-mail a woman they e-mail you back you both
sound interested in one another but when it comes time to
meet they: back out, stand you up or when you do meet them
they look nothing like the picture they sent you? I don't
understand if you are not interested then don't reply
or atleast be real and stop playing with people's emotions.
I need a real woman not a fake one!!!
0 Comments, 25 Views,
22 Votes
,6.37 Score
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Re: Why do men stop talking to you when you have a 6/27/2004
Wait a minute, you saw this guy for three weeks and didn't
tell him you had a ? Surely this is information you should
have offered up earlier.
<br>
Allow me to be blunt: most men are scared of single moms.
Single moms are unpredictable in their actions and especially
in their motives. I'm sure you're thinking that
you're not, but we don't like to take that chance.
Single ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
21 Votes
,6.22 Score
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tell me what you think.. 6/27/2004
what is dateing can you be in love with someone and just date
them..and when you are with someone who lives far away can
you love him and be in a commited relationship with him or
would it be better just to date him??????
0 Comments, 6 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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Re: Women who don't follow through 6/27/2004
You must be aware that there a large number of fakes and weirdos
on the internet. A vigilant woman will remember this when
going to meet for the first time. Perhaps the women you've
tried to meet have been through this before or have been
warned sternly about meeting "strangers"
from the internet. If you're smart, you won't
be pushy about it; you'll be patient.
<br>
Oh, and ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
12 Votes
,6.69 Score
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what do you think 6/24/2004
i live in cali and my boyfreind in new mexico do you think
its ok that he plays online with other girls even though
we are in a attached relationship???????
1 Comments, 20 Views,
23 Votes
,4.53 Score
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young women who like older guys 6/22/2004
is it a myth or is it true that some younger women find an older
man sexually attractive, I would be most interested to
find out:
true facts: older men find younger women attractive
: older women find younger men attractive
Basically when you are looking for a partner, whether you
beleive it or not you are driven by instinct to find someone
who will bear offspring with ten ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
60 Votes
,7.97 Score
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Women don't follow through. 6/22/2004
When it comes to meeting women through online sites, most
women are afraid to follow through. They list what they
are looking for and what they want. When they chat with someone
that has those qualities and interest, most women will
not follow through. With women, it is a game, when it comes
times to follow though they are unwilling or afraid to go
through with it. What is your opinion? ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
15 Votes
,2.82 Score
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Wuld luv to 6/19/2004
I would love the opportunity to date, however there is no
time during the week to be out woman hunting due to the responsibilities
that a 35 year old man has. What other alternatives are out
there? Well the main alternative that is here for all of
us are classified within may city pages and newpapers.
The more sophisticated way of searching for possibilities
is on the net but within the ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
44 Votes
,8.28 Score
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older man looking for older women 6/18/2004
Hello all you older women this is maybe strange to a lot of
people my age 46 you would think nice young women but not
for me I enjoy older women they are good company and definitely
less problems and they really apprieciate someone who
genually cares so I, m trying to link up with people now
so I may be able to meet them when I travel home in August .
1 Comments, 92 Views,
26 Votes
,6.05 Score
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Good Looking Women 6/18/2004
I am a good looking single gal. I've been single for
a long time now. Do you know why? I'll tell you why. I
hear this comment so often I want to throw up.
<br>
I'd have to say that men in general do not know how to
communicate...or approach a woman with confidence.
<br>
I hear months after the fact...."Oh..I thought you
were in a relationship". I'M SINGLE. Why not ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
56 Votes
,8.52 Score
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Is "looking" online at singles and dating sites OK? 6/14/2004
We have been dating for 8 months, not serious, and a couple
of months ago during, a rough time, we both joined a couple
of dating sites, seperately. Now we are getting closer
but he still is very active on these sites. I don't mind
doing it with him, but he emails and sends winks to other
girls. He says it's just for fun, but when is it "too
much"? I still check out mine for the hell of it ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
56 Votes
,4.19 Score
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Lets Get Real About Dating 6/13/2004
Definition: To DATE is to go out with someone you you think
is attractive and a possible future long term or short term
partner.
People who Date are out their having a go, they dont sit around,
they are out there Dancing, walking along a beach hand
in hand (it may not be for ever) but who gives a shit.
A great poet wrote it is better to have loved than to have
lost.
To Date is special ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
26 Votes
,5.61 Score
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it's not true to play with our feeling 6/12/2004
here in this site some guy's and with girl's id
, they are calling us to some places and making fun of us ,
it's not true , for pleasure we are meeting , if it really
required we can have sex with callgirl's , but they
don't give wat we want that's why i want to meet
a girl or lady who is olso intrested in sex , please be ware
of that , with out taking on phone don't move further
step
0 Comments, 9 Views,
49 Votes
,4.86 Score
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Inheriting her ex's stupidity. 6/11/2004
I am writing this article in the hopes that it might illuminate
a 'problem' I have encountered in the very beginning
of dating relationships: The problems that past boyfriends/husbands
heaped upon these poor women are being used against me.
Let me illustrate with two fine examples.
<br>
I was set up with a woman for a first date. It was not a 'blind'
date in the strictest sense ...
3 Comments, 29 Views,
33 Votes
,7.83 Score
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what's up with girls not responding 6/10/2004
I have been a member for three years. I have had only two responses
in this time. What's up with girls not responding?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
46 Votes
,5.96 Score
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Re: Death of Chivalry 6/8/2004
First off, let me start that I hate it when people associate
the actions of a few with an entire group. I absolutely despise
being grouped as "a young stupid who has no respect
for anyone" by society's standards just because
I fall into an age bracket. Not all of us college age guys
are @$$holes. Those that are simply ruin it for the rest
of us. Just like in any other group, the ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
22 Votes
,8.05 Score
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When Guys date a girl,does he already plan for SEX?? 6/7/2004
or is it still pure love, but most people think of sex and
plan to get it done with the gal asap.. Right?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
39 Votes
,7.31 Score
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At Least TRY 6/7/2004
Soo...I go on a date tonight...
<br>
Here's where the trouble starts.
<br>
First, she's a half-hour late. No reason, just, "Sorry,
I'm always late."
<br>
Besides that, she didn't even attempt to look, well,
presentable. I'm not saying you need to "Dress
up, " but we are adults meeting for an adult date in
a place where adults eat...and, you know, we're ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
22 Votes
,6.97 Score
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where to meet people 6/6/2004
For chicks:
<br>
The driving range: Spend the afternoon in the sun with a
bucket of balls. These places are always overpopulated
with men, and they go gaga over women who can swing a crooked
stick.
<br>
Outdoor food and music festivals: Any event where there's
a band and vendors selling those gigantic Fred Flintstone
turkey legs (or some other meat-on-a-stick) is a ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
84 Votes
,6.29 Score
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No Such Things As Rules 6/5/2004
You hear crazy effin' rules about dating:
<br>
don't call her too soon after the date...
don't call him for at least three days...
no sex until the 3rd or 4th date...
don't tell too much about yourself first night out...
<br>
To borrow a phrase from our friends across "the pond":
it's all bollocks!
<br>
Every good dating experience I've had has gone ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
37 Votes
,6.20 Score
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why lie 6/2/2004
married men if u are married why lie i think it is best to be
honest ya know let the women decide if she is willing to go
there dont lead her on and then spring it on the women that
is just selfish and ugly ya know to grt someone hooked and
neglect to tell them you r married is strictly looking out
for what u want with no regard for the next person stop it
0 Comments, 22 Views,
24 Votes
,8.02 Score
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making the first step 6/2/2004
I've been dating a girl for several weeks now. She claims
to be "old fashioned, " and actually refuses
to call me (what a shame! and we only date when I initiate
the contact.
<br>
Anyways, I'm enjoying my time with her and I think she
is too. What's the best way to act on this without killing
any potential friendship we might have built up?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
18 Votes
,6.26 Score
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Re: Generous 5/31/2004
When a woman wants a generous man, it is code for, "I'm
an and require money to have sex with you."
0 Comments, 6 Views,
7 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Where's a good place to find someone for a first date? 5/30/2004
I'm looking for suggestions, preferrably from the
female side. I am a 28 year old male that has been married
and divorced and just about forgotten what it is like to
ask people out on a date. I'm tired of the bar scene and
would just like some suggestions for where to go and meet
people. Any ideas?
0 Comments, 1 Views,
25 Votes
,7.45 Score
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Dating Today 5/29/2004
It seems like dating today has come to the point of misery.
You meet someone you would like to get to know, they seem
normal at first....and then the "Real" person
comes shining through. If it not jealousy raging...it's
absolute detachment. Why is it that there is no middle ground?
What happened to "getting to know each other"?
Dating for me is, taking it a little slower.....getting ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
13 Votes
,5.66 Score
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How much time do i have to put in? 5/27/2004
What is the standard nowadays about how long a couple should
go out before they have sex? Do they even need to date? What
if they just meet and hook up; do girls expect a relationship
out of that? I know it's probably diffrent for different
girls, but with some of these girls, you gotta wonder when
your investment in dinner and movies will finally pay off.
How soon do you ladies feel ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
22 Votes
,6.49 Score
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Re: What do I do about him.....please help 5/26/2004
Sounds like you need to dump this jerk. You don't deserve
to be treated this way, as does no one. Whatever you do, do
not lend him any money.........if you do, not only will
you never see your money again, he will continue to treat
you this way, because he knows he can.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
62 Votes
,7.88 Score
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It's All About Cynthia (pt. 2) 5/23/2004
It’s All About Cynthia (pt. 2) By Nolan Hagey
<br>
When the valet brought my car up to restaurant door, I took
a few steps back to look at my date. She turned, of course,
to see what I was doing with a questioning look. I laughed
and circled my finger to tell her to turn around which she
happily did. Off times the pleasure of seeing a woman, refined,
in an evening ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
33 Votes
,7.00 Score
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3 Essential Questions to ask a new Date 5/21/2004
When you first start dating someone, there are 3 essential
questions that you should ask your potential partner in
order to find out what is written in their personal "Book
of Love."
<br>
The Book of Love that we all carry around with us and from
which we read when we're in a relationship with another
person. It contains all the images, stories, feelings
and behaviors that we ...
0 Comments, 21 Views,
902 Votes
,7.69 Score
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“It’s About Cynthia” 5/17/2004
“It’s About Cynthia” by Nolan Hagey
<br>
My father once said, “Sex was the thing that everyone does, ”
and then jokingly, “but very few know how to do it well.”
He also knew the only reason I was asking about it was Cynthia,
that beautiful girl in my Algebra class, had leaned over
my shoulder and asked me to help her with a word ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
35 Votes
,5.97 Score
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Re: HE cheats why can't i? 5/14/2004
Who says you can't go out on your own and ****? Your boyfriend?
Sweety, you are not his slave, he does not own you, you are
not a piece of property. If you want to go out and fool around
by all means do it, he apparently does.
Whats good for the goose is good for the gander. If he can't
accept it, oh well!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
0 Comments, 23 Views,
36 Votes
,7.64 Score
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Re: whats the easiest way to get laid? 5/9/2004
No, this isn't the place to get to get laid quickly and
easily. If all you want is a 1 night stand, go to a bar, its
much easier and quicker than here.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
47 Votes
,8.52 Score
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Traditional or Nontraditional 5/8/2004
I am wondering what is the number one sex position out there
today. After talking to many of my friends, I have found
that people are still into missionary, but there are those
who people who like to be adventurous. What type of sex do
the people of SEXFinder.com like?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
27 Votes
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Re: hey why dont more people share ? 5/8/2004
No it's not that people are that narrow minded. It takes
A
LOT for a spouse or mate to share their partner with someone
else. It consists of lots of different things, security
in the relationship, trust, etc., also this way of life
has a completely different mindset going on. Sharing is
not for everyone.
0 Comments, 1 Views,
21 Votes
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Older men and teens, nah. 5/8/2004
I'm a fifty-one year old man and I do like younger women--but
younger women for me means those in their forties and thirties
(and, rarely, later twenties). I do believe that older
men *might* be better lovers because they are more likely
to be considered and considerate about making love to a
woman, about giving her pleasure, about sustaining the
act and making it more meaningful, about ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
50 Votes
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snooker will not be the same 5/6/2004
Visiting the auction rooms we found a store of games and
pastimes occupying a separate room in the basement but
the gazed door was locked Can we look in there we asked at
the first floor reception the door is locked and marked
private. Oh yes she replied, hardly any one visits and it
is opened for such enquiries as yours. Here take the key
and return it and when you have had look round, ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
15 Votes
,5.27 Score
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Overcoming Shyness and Making it Count 5/4/2004
I've always been shy around other people... but now
that I am looking for an equally frustrated "MILF"-type
soccer mom to make love with, I'm faced with having
to actually interface with women!
<br>
What I've decided to do is this: when I go to the grocery
store or Wal-Mart, I make it a point to find a woman I'd
love to be with and compliment her. No strings. No waiting
around ...
0 Comments, 89 Views,
47 Votes
,8.24 Score
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Motivation/Pictures/Relationships 4/30/2004
Just curious if most men here are really seeking just plain
down and dirty sex. Are you even remotely motivated by what
a woman says in her profile? Are you turned off if she says
she is looking for a relationship? What if by that she just
means.....just a friend to hang with type relationship?
Sometimes sex, sometimes not.
0 Comments, 35 Views,
20 Votes
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Re: Ladies want to meet... 4/28/2004
Meeting someone can either be good or bad. The first thing
you need to do is find a neutral place to meet.
If the person in question ends up being a crazy, you really
don't want them to stalk you at your regular restaurant,
coffee shop, or bar.
Coffee is generally a good place to meet first. It gives
both of you a chance to talk, watch one another's movements,
et cetera. If that goes ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
21 Votes
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Why must I guess? 4/25/2004
I have crashed and burned too many times in taking dating
to the next step. I usually get caught up trying to figure
out whether they're giving hints to me to make a move
or they're just being open. I don't the thought
of INVADING someones space, so I just try to wait until they
tell me the door's open. If they make the first move,
I'm not the type think of that as being easy. It won't ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
30 Votes
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how long could be the first date? 4/25/2004
should the first date for the coffee is around 15 min (excellent)
or 30 min(good)?
0 Comments, 8 Views,
12 Votes
,5.80 Score
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RE: I just want to get laid 4/23/2004
If you just want to get laid then try looking at profiles
that say "sex only" or "no commitment",
but expect it to take time.
<br>
If you want to get laid right now, you better check out the
section of your local newspaper, or a shady street
corner.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
23 Votes
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Re: Should the guy have to pay for every date 4/23/2004
In my opinion, no the guy shouldn't have to pay for every
date, only the ones he intiates. : ) If the guy does the asking
out, he should not expect the woman to pay. However, if the
woman offers to pay or to go dutch, then by all means let her
help. If the woman does the asking out, she should expect
to pay. There are many men out there though, that were raised
to be gentlemen and to ...
0 Comments, 2 Views,
24 Votes
,6.99 Score
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Can someone who has a STD still date? 4/23/2004
Q: Can someone who has a STD still date? (Not AIDS/HIV) I
am talking about STD's like Genital Herpies and ones
like it. I am just looking for Adults Opinions on this it's
for a study in my class. Please be Open minded about this
if you reply. Thank you
0 Comments, 34 Views,
11 Votes
,5.78 Score
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Re: the cock shot or smiley face ? 4/19/2004
I, myself, prefer a person's main photo to be one of
their face( i.e. clothed) If a guy wants to put a pic of his
cock I think it is better placed on either of the other photos
2-5. That is my opinion.
0 Comments, 3 Views,
62 Votes
,9.05 Score
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cross borders 4/18/2004
with the advancement in air travelling, i've finally
able to date a few women from different country in asia.
but i suppose in countries like the states, china and europe
it's a common thing.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
16 Votes
,5.33 Score
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The purpose of SEXFinder.com/Passion.com 4/14/2004
What is the purpose of SEXFinder.com also known as Passion.com
Here is a copy and paste right off of Passion.com help page.
<br>
"The purpose of the Passion.com site is to make it
as easy as possible for you to meet people, using the power
of the internet. At Passion.com, you'll find a community
of people using the site as a tool to make connections and
find partners for dating, romance, ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
49 Votes
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How many internet hookers are there. 4/13/2004
Im totaly serious with this online hookers. There completely
pissing me off with "oh im sorry it took a bit but please
goto deprivewomen.com. I just ask Why and because i am wasting
my time sending emails to these people that have regular
photos. im not talking about those super hot girls with
perfect pictures im talking about those pictures that
actually look like real people. WEll whatver ...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
27 Votes
,7.66 Score
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how to treat your girlfriend. 4/12/2004
Basically, like all my articles i'll keep it simple
and to the point. Were all basic structures us humans and
the female variety isn't that much different to your
own.
<br>
We really don't expect that much from relationships.
<br>
Here's the run down of what and what not to do:
<br>
*don't forget birthdays, anneversaries or holidays;
and please...get us a ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
25 Votes
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wondering what to do 4/12/2004
wondering what to do. My g/f broke up with me 3 months ago
and i still have feelings for her. When she broke up with
me i had really started falling for her (dated for 3 months).
She had a crush on me for months and i didnt want to go out with
her because i didnt want to hurt her. When i started going
out with her though my drinking and partying had got worse
and she broke up with me ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
11 Votes
,5.04 Score
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one liner, how do you date with them? 4/10/2004
there was this girl, who on the first date would answer in
multiple choice style. she would either say 'yes',
'no' or 'i like anything'. eg: me:what
movies do you like she: i like all moview. me:what games
do you play, she: i can play pretty much everything. me:what
places do you like to go out for, she: i am open for everything.
me: what music do you like ? she: i am open to any type of ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
20 Votes
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what is the best dress of the first date 4/10/2004
this is a very complex question for me. from the past experiences
it has always been bit formal side which was succesful.
but most of my friends have a opinion that casual with jeans,
t-shirt, coat/jacket, snikers. what do you think is the
correct one?
formal( excellent )
casual ( very good)
does not matter ( good )
0 Comments, 4 Views,
25 Votes
,6.23 Score
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DSSWM looking for that special female to have and hold and love. 4/6/2004
Want that special female who knows she is to sexy, smart,
and beautiful to sleep alone. Also she must know why GOD
in his omnipitant wisdom created man before woman.
(hint) She knew a good woman would need a _______.
0 Comments, 16 Views,
22 Votes
,0.12 Score
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Re: Need Help 4/5/2004
Maybe you should divorce your wife. That might make your
girlfriend happy. My soon to be ex husband left me for his
girlfriend while I was pregnant and, even though I love
him dearly I just want it to be over and him to leave me alone
because I can't handle the pain. Well good luck with
everything.
0 Comments, 172 Views,
27 Votes
,6.40 Score
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A night on the town 4/5/2004
Easily the best to a girls heart is to know how to treat her
and how to help her enjoy herslef. I def. try my hardest,
lol, always be courteous, always be a gentleman, be the
kind of man yer mother raised, haha
0 Comments, 7 Views,
15 Votes
,5.43 Score
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Back into dating 4/3/2004
Well here I am back in the dating scene again after 30 years
of marriage. The bar scene is ok but it gets old after awhile.
There really are not enough places out there to meet people.
Plus I seem to be asked out by all younger guy. That's
kinda hard when they are all my age or younger. LOL Then
I go onto this dating site. Everyone is about looks. I think
I'm ok. No complaints so far ...
0 Comments, 11 Views,
19 Votes
,5.50 Score
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Re: My first date ***ed me 4/3/2004
You cant **** the willing, and you were more than willing
it seems. She made you pay for the beer and hotel? Seems you
willingly opened up your wallet, no one can make you do that.
You opened it wide thinking you were in for a full night of
sex. You may of been disappointed, but then again she may
have been too.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
31 Votes
,7.36 Score
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Re: The way you thin women are 4/3/2004
Excuuussssssssseeeeeeeeeee ME!!!!! I am a thin woman,
and if a man EVER hit me, he would be 6ft. under. You think
all thin women put up with a mans BS? Some of us do have respect
for ourselves. Sounds to me that you are a very jealous man
because you want something from this friend of yours, and
she isnt giving you the time of day, except to USE you when
it suits her. Thats your fault ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
14 Votes
,6.02 Score
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Need help 4/3/2004
Well where do I start? Lets see I am dating this one girl for
over4 months now and we have been living together. the problem
is that she want to be with other ppl. Well guys that is. I
guess that I cant complain to much since I am still married
but I am not living with her. Well my gf has already cheated
on me once and I never have. I really want to be with her but
at times I dont. At one ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
10 Votes
,1.59 Score
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Men See Hot Woman! 3/31/2004
It's just an unfortunate fact, that probably holds
true for many woman too (on the opposite side of looking
at this issue) - is that new experiences are needed to keep
the big guy going hard. Why do you think we look at the hot
ones walking by all the time? A raise from a pretty girl walking
by can actually help a relationship - after all when he get's
home with you after getting raises all ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
12 Votes
,4.39 Score
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Ok to date young! 3/31/2004
I notice this trend is very much in full swing! I see younger
woman dating older guys, and younger guys dating older
woman. But is it really dating, or is it just a temporary
sexual relationship? I believe it's ok to date someone
much younger than you, but beware that the maturity level
is going to be different so don't get too attached or
be too surprised if that younger someone runs away ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
12 Votes
,5.45 Score
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I would choose a nice guy any day. 3/30/2004
This idea that " nice guys come in last " is something
I don't understand. I would take a " nice guy "
any day. Who says that they can't be great lovers. Women
that look for " bad boys " get what they deserve
and men that search " bad girls " get likewise.
They both end up crying the blues. Loose women and promiscuous
men end up alone. They deserve what they seek. I married
one of the ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
12 Votes
,6.33 Score
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Re: Black Woman 3/29/2004
Golfer317
I'm a black woman and all of my experiences on this site
have been with white men. Most of the gentlemen that I have
dated we still remain good friends if you know what I mean
So the answer to your question is I'm sure that
their are lots of black women on this site that has dated
or dating white men. Color is just color when are people
going to realize it's only skin ...
0 Comments, 150 Views,
32 Votes
,8.49 Score
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How old or young will you date? 3/28/2004
As a man of 40+, I find myself still very attracted to younger
women. Not just for the obvious male fantasy, but a lot cuz
my friends are already at least 10 to 15 yrs younger than
me. Not that I would at all mind of woman closer to my age.
But the ones that I do meet, are just so settled, ..ahhh!
Still have to much life in these bones to totally settle
down. So what's basically acceptable ...
0 Comments, 1 Views,
33 Votes
,6.27 Score
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Do women these days crave anal? 3/28/2004
As a true lover of anal pleasures, I still find it hard to
find women who like/love anal sex. Do they just don't
want to admit they like this particular act or is the general
idea still taboo!
0 Comments, 32 Views,
20 Votes
,4.53 Score
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How do you make the approach to see if a woman wants anal sex, and still be respectful? 3/28/2004
I find myself always thinking about getting the next relief
from anal sex, but find it hard to inquire, with respect,
if my date likes her asshole eaten! I like to communicate
first on what is enjoyable for her, then fulfilling those
needs. just seems a hard subject to bring up without offending
her or the conversation. What approach do you women prefer?
0 Comments, 29 Views,
21 Votes
,5.48 Score
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Would it seem to be to obscene to own so many toys/movies for a man? 3/28/2004
I own quite a few porno movies and I've just started
collecting toys, especially for anal delights. my question
is, ...Am I over doing it, to a womens point of view? Does
that seem desperate ladies?
0 Comments, 2 Views,
14 Votes
,5.86 Score
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I AM SO HAPPY I MET HIM WOW! 3/28/2004
OK YOU LIKE TOO HEAR, MY 3RD GUY I HAVE MET FROM HERE?well
im sure u do!! well i am in total shock right now, i love white
men! that will never change, well we emailed back and forth
for about a week(he been tryng to meet me for about a month)
we are both virgos, and so imagine the attitude, lolwe
click!! both where very sexual when we got intimate, omg, he
ate my pussy so good i almost ...
0 Comments, 46 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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I am an older woman and know why it's difficult for younger men 3/26/2004
I have on article posted about my dating experiences on
SEXFinder.com but I get hundreds of emails from young men that would
like to " experience " an older woman. I did end
up marrying a younger man ( 20 years my Junior ) but I am almost
62 and he is 41. When I first came on I stated in my profile
that if you were under 45 I wouldn't even consider dating.
So I mostly dated men that were closer to ...
0 Comments, 88 Views,
49 Votes
,8.95 Score
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who pays for the hotel bills? 3/26/2004
for your first encounter, after dating, if both do not go
back to their place and decide dto put up a night or a few hours
at the hotel, who should be paying? the guys? the girls?
or split the bill? cast your votes? cast agree for guys settling
the bill! cast disagree for girls to settle the bill or cast
neutral for splitting the bill. doesnot apply to same sex
or group....
0 Comments, 3 Views,
41 Votes
,5.82 Score
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SEX AS A RELAXANT 3/23/2004
i ve been looking for love in all the wrong places, clubs
bars shopping malls.i found some adult friends that have
the same interest as freaky as that may sound god bless america
big women small women bring them all this is the most relaxed
ive been in years om a swinger and im relaxed
so relax just do it you have one life make it the best.
sex is the best relaxant
0 Comments, 24 Views,
33 Votes
,7.19 Score
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dont know what to do with an older lady 3/22/2004
i met this woman who is older than me. i knew she was more experienced
by the way i grew when she kissed me. i want to fuck her and
even start a relationship with her but feel at a loss, tell
me what i should do please
0 Comments, 17 Views,
20 Votes
,3.38 Score
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Re:What most woman on this site want!! 3/21/2004
I totally agree..I know several girls besides myself on
here and all they tell me they ever want is to find a guy on
here whose EXTREMELY rich and will take care of them.
<br>
To these types of girls: NEWS FLASH.. this is a SEX site...
not FIND THE MAN OF YOUR DREAMS site!!! If you expect a guy
you meet on here to just open his wallet for you...your gonna
be disspointed!!!
3 Comments, 400 Views,
43 Votes
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The dating experience of Annau22 on this site 3/19/2004
I came onto SEXFinder.com about three years ago as a widow. I had a very
extensive profile. I spent a long time writing down what
I was looking for and what I was able to give a man. I was looking
for the last love of my life. I dated close to 200 wonderful
men from this site. I always responded to my email. Never
have used an auto reply ( think that is rude ) If I was interested
I wrote them back a ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
26 Votes
,7.45 Score
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women over 60 are sexy 3/10/2004
I´m a man in the late fourties and prefer older women.
I like their experience and open mind but also their sexuel
attraction. The body of a woman over 60 is curvier, sexier
than that of a girl with 25. Why is it so difficult to meet
such a women. Do really only stars like Joan Collins dare
to have a friend much younger?
0 Comments, 55 Views,
1 Votes
,2.40 Score
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Breaking Up 3/10/2004
Dont waste your time in a relationship if you are unhappy,
Life is just way to short!
0 Comments, 4 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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My first date fucked me 3/8/2004
She met me in the restaurant. It was she who initiated the
conversation. Being a gullible kind of guy I fell for her.We
had beer together and she made me pay for it. She escorted
me to a nearby hotel room and asked me to book an AC room. I
paid for it. We had a meal together and she put me on the bed.
She unzipped my trousers and squeezed my cock. In anticipation
I reached seventh heaven. ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
125 Votes
,6.08 Score
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HELP I'm sleeping with my best friends man 3/7/2004
PLease Help as i'm sleeping with my best friends man,
every weekend we get together and have fun special fun,
he takes me out places buys dinner and go to moives together
then we head back to my place and make sweet dream love to
together. He says he wants me but dosen't want to break
up with my best friend (his partner) i want to tell her that
were busy making love IS THAT WRONG?? or ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
34 Votes
,2.07 Score
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i want him bad! 3/4/2004
Hi there, i need a lil help on a short notice, i will meet
a sweet guy tomorrow, he been trying to meet me for about
4 months but i been very busy, but i am now readyt o meet him,
i am so attracted to him i don't even know what to do,
i just want to grab him and kiss him deeply, and grab his ass!!
yes i like guys ass's.lol, there hot! his cock looks
very good, nice size, and i love the ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
20 Votes
,6.57 Score
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Why do Black Males have a hard time on SEXFinder.com? 3/4/2004
I have been a member for 3 years on SEXFinder.com and I have only met,
2 women. Is this not the place Black male to meet women of
all races?
0 Comments, 17 Views,
20 Votes
,6.32 Score
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FINDING A DATE 3/3/2004
Finding a date is no easy task, especially when you don't
know where to start. Hopefully I can provide you with some
tips of where and how you search can begin. The best way to
guarantee a successful date is by getting to know a potential
date first. You want to make sure that you'll have enough
things to talk about, that there is chemistry and that you
are both out for dinner for the same ...
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1 Votes
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one for the women regarding giving oral sex 2/28/2004
I dated my wife to be for a year and then we were engaged for
two more years before getting married. We saw each other
generally on weekends and fooled around all the time. The
sex was great right up until we got married. We went down
on each other almost ever weekend and occasionally used
the "69" position for simultaneous pleasure.
Right after the wedding the sex dried up quickly and the ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
53 Votes
,7.56 Score
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Leaving this site after 2 and a half years- tired of no reponses. 2/26/2004
The only reponses were spam ladies trying to get
me to waste more money signing up at other sites.
0 Comments, 4 Views,
969 Votes
,8.13 Score
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How is it fair to our relationship 2/24/2004
I am involved with this guy that has a thing for a married
woman. They had been together for a few months last year
but thanks to me they stopped seeing each other but now they
want to hook up again for some casual fun. I am open to swinging
but only if my partner is with me, I am not allowed to be there
because she is afraid that I might know her. He thinks it
would be great if we could ...
1 Comments, 102 Views,
17 Votes
,7.23 Score
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Good one 2/21/2004
Hi!!! I read ur stories regularly and I wish that others
should also read my stories. This is a true incident that
I am narrating to u. It was when I first had sex with my girlfriend.
Her name is sony and she is a real bomb. She has beautiful
boobs (36") a flat waist and big butt. She is as horny
as a bitch.
It was our first date together and I was so nervous I could
almost feel myself ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
17 Votes
,3.83 Score
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20 simple dating tips that I've learned 2/21/2004
1. It's okay to suggest a drink instead of dinner for
a first date. She dreads a boring four-course ordeal, too.
<br>
2. Call her by early evening on Monday to confirm a Tuesday
get-together. (Weekends aren't for first dates.)
<br>
3. Leave your home and work numbers. No home number and she'll
assume you have a wife or girlfriend.
<br>
4. If you want to ...
0 Comments, 12 Views,
114 Votes
,9.23 Score
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Interracial sex 2/18/2004
Do you think SEXFinder.com should set up a chat room called maybe the
interracial room some people do enjoy other races and you
could chat there some people are a little reluctant to put
that on there profile but are interested what do you think.
1 Comments, 103 Views,
31 Votes
,7.94 Score
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Valentine's Day 2/15/2004
Today is the 15th of February. Last night I received several
phone calls from friends of mine asking if I wanted to go
barhopping with them. These friends were married and knew
that this was my first Valentine's Day with my best
half. Why would they imagine that I would think of going
out with 'the boys' on this of all days? Why weren't
they at home with their wives? Have all men become ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
11 Votes
,6.53 Score
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About Article for 1st Dates 2/14/2004
I agree that the guy should always pay for first date. But
on later dates, it wouldn't hurt if the woman helped
contribute(like leave a tip), even if the guy asked her
out(of course, when was the last time a women asked out a
guy and paid). In my opinion, for more pricey activities
like concert tickets I'd say she'd have to pay
for her ticket, but I would take her out to dinner.
0 Comments, 6 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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RE-why I can't a date 2/12/2004
Read your piece and in for the what it
s worth colum. Gent you're not alone. Seems to be alot
of that going around. It's the same for me and lot's
of guys..I really wish I had a handle on it. Nothing works
at all....Would really like a Lady to anwer this delema...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Anniversary: The Rules 2/10/2004
First Rule: Guys remember the important date and do something
about it.
Second Rule: Guys it has to be something very special and
personal. Getting your secretary to send flowers doesn't
cut it. You're in for the whole day and pawning it off
on someone else to take care of for YOU is simply insulting.
Unless your secretary is sleeping with your wife then YOU
pick up the flowers, YOU make ...
0 Comments, 16 Views,
6 Votes
,3.37 Score
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Honesty check ladies: Do you reply to most of your messages? 2/8/2004
Hi, can you please help me out here, I've got a profile,
but I've never joined, I chose another site, being
new to this I really didn't know what to expect, I put
a decent profile in, a very tame pic(well like I say I'm
new to this!), I got no replys back and soon gave up on it,
I really want to join a site for people like me, people who
just real wild fun, I'm not Brad Pitt but I'm an ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
48 Votes
,7.32 Score
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what about a 3 way relationship? 2/4/2004
im recently interested in having a 3 way relationship,
not just sex but a commitment between 3 people im not sure
if this is normal but it seems to be the right thing to do in
my situation. i have a girlfriend but i also love a guy i know
there interested in each other too but im not sure what i
should do. im not looking for answers really i just want
to tell someone my thoughts so i can ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
31 Votes
,6.21 Score
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How to find an older women seeking a Younger Man 2/3/2004
Any one have any thoughts on how to approach the topic of
dating with a women that is 15+ your senior?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
37 Votes
,6.20 Score
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Just wondering 2/2/2004
I was just wondering what it is that women like about men.
Truly, I understand that each woman has her own style so
to speak, but what is the overall attraction? Is it eyes,
voice, presence, or body? Maybe I am totally off point.
Just wondering!
1 Comments, 26 Views,
24 Votes
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bust or legs 2/1/2004
why do men always have to talk about sex before even asking
your name
6 Comments, 423 Views,
41 Votes
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why cant i get a date? 1/31/2004
i'm confused. i'm a nice guy, i'm romantic,
i'm horny as hell and naughty too but most people put
up with it.
<br>
now everytime i get near a girl and we flirt a bit and stuff,
after a short time, she loses interest. for nooo reason.
seriously, everything went smoothly. worst still is that
1 of them didn't give a reason, just a blank stare, and
the other told another friend that ...
0 Comments, 31 Views,
42 Votes
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Yes or no 1/26/2004
Why can woman never be straight on. They say never yes, but
they say maeby when they mean yes and they say no, when they
mean meaby (or mean no).
0 Comments, 22 Views,
19 Votes
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I NEVER HAD ANY PROBLEM GETTING A DATE BEFORE 1/24/2004
You know it's funny how things change when you are in
your late 30's.I never had a problem getting dates
in my 20's and even my early 30's.But now i am 37
years old, gosh i don't even feel 37 let alone look
it, for some reason i am not finding it easy to find dates, maybe
it is because i don't have as much confidence in myself
as i did back in the day.I am a goodlooking guy still, sure
i ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
20 Votes
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My first Date 1/23/2004
I had just started earning a livelihood and looking arund
for some good time. I happened to go to a restaraunt near
my place of work. I was gulping down my bottle of beer when
I saw her march in. Dammit she looked great, sexy, out of
the world. I mustered courage and asked her to join me as
she was also alone. Normally this would have brought in
a indifferent reaction in our part of the ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
24 Votes
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wow dating suck 1/20/2004
i have no clue why people would even want to date it takes
up so much time you dont' get to do as much with your freinds.
Dating should just you have a girl just you and her and she
or you go over every once and a while just for sex that is my
type of dating
0 Comments, 15 Views,
12 Votes
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How long???? 1/20/2004
How long was it till you got your first wink....I've
seen so many gorgeous women here....I'm hoping they
get round to seeing me...
0 Comments, 8 Views,
8 Votes
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Recipe For Younger Women & Older Men 1/17/2004
Hi. I'm a 'Dirty Old Man', or so I have been
told. I am 38 and my partner is 23. As I lost my virginity at
12 I am quite literally old enough to be her father, with
3 years to spare. This bothered me when we first got together
and so did the comments and jokes others made. Now that I've
had time to think about it, it doesn't. Let me tell you
why.
<br>
Morally: Throughout human ...
0 Comments, 91 Views,
7 Votes
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How to have a good date 1/17/2004
Listen to the female and do what she wants to do and be open
and honest about yourself and be yourself and try to relax
and have fun but you must make sure that you are honest
0 Comments, 1 Views,
1 Votes
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why oh why 1/16/2004
Why is it that after being married and now going thru divorce
is it so hard to find a sexual partner is it me or the women
im after seems to me it should be a lil like riding a bike but
maybe i just need a refresher course
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0 Votes
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RE to : "Why do men think they can meet you Monday . . ." 1/14/2004
"SEXFinder.com.com
The World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site"
<br>
.
You're able to see those same words in the top left area
of your screen right now!! Why do people spend good money
on things they don't understand?
The reason why you are upset is because you are on an ADULT
SEX site!! Not a dating service!! Dating sites are everywhere!
SEXFinder.com has one, too! Check it ...
0 Comments, 3 Views,
133 Votes
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Profiles & Pics 1/12/2004
I see a lot of the single guys here complaining about not
getting responses from women on this site. Fella's
you are your own worst enemies. I am 23, thin, healthy and
I am told quite pretty. When I had my "Single"
profile up I got about 15 or 20 emails on a slow day, plus winks,
plus network invitations, etc., and that is without nude
or near nude pics posted. Now if I was busy for a few ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
218 Votes
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re tonypornstars article......ok look at THIS about dating mistah 1/11/2004
Did you ever STOP and think that maybe it is because the woman
does not wanna be an endless piece of chattle and ass ???
In other words , tired of feeling ''used'',
though sure , she loves sex too!! But some still have dignity
and self-control... what a concept , huh? LOL
Why don't YOU get real! Times have changed. Women have
been thought to ''hold the key'', well ...
0 Comments, 10 Views,
20 Votes
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my first dating 1/9/2004
my first dating with my woman was in the bus
she was looking for me as a and I liked her eyes how to
look
she asked me if I can be with her at her home
I wsid yes
and when we come to her home she did what she want
0 Comments, 2 Views,
54 Votes
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sexy lady looking for other ladies for friendship and intimacy 1/5/2004
hello i am a 21 year old african american female in te downtown
nashville area. i stand at five feet two inches tall and
weigh 120 pounds. i have brown hair and brown eyes and sexy
hips, lips, eyes, and thighs. i am seeking a lady or ladies
for intimacy and friendships. women only-no men(i have
that part covered). yet, i am having a hard time finding
someone. i have been told that i am cute ...
0 Comments, 18 Views,
56 Votes
,7.85 Score
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The worst internet dating horror story ever in my life 1/3/2004
I thought I’d submit this to a “Most Horrible Dates” contest,
hahaha. Maybe I’ll get lucky and win a consolation prize,
hahaha or maybe everyone will feel so bad they’ll go together
and get me an escort, ha right I WISH hahahaha… This actually
happened, of course… New Year’s Eve 2003. Here you go.
<br>
Her: What happened? ...
0 Comments, 9 Views,
31 Votes
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Women in South OC Look here 1/1/2004
If you are interested in a and complete
relaxation from one of the most intuitive and attentive
men in the area, look up my profile...rolee1999
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7 Votes
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New to dating - want to ask a co-worker out after work. 12/31/2003
I work with a very pretty single redheaded lady. I am 55yo
and she is 50yo. She looks 30. I secretly love and admire
her. This is not the usual caveman sex thing. I really do
like her a lot. I have been told she likes me too. We both work
until 10pm. How do I ask her out? What should I say to her when
I approach her? Where do I take her? Do I settle for coffee
or do I ask her to have a beer ...
2 Comments, 15 Views,
5 Votes
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RE: getting past rejection fear! 12/31/2003
What kind of clubs do you join? Where do you find them?
What if you don't know how to dance? Lastly, is age 55
too old for a still-single man to get into the dating scene.
Do ladies in their 40s have an interest in men in their 50s?
0 Comments, 0 Views,
7 Votes
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Getting a response... 12/30/2003
I agree with 44DDGIRL on her post in 'articles',
I was a member once and when it expired i didn't re sign
up. I would(as a member) email someone who I was interested
in and never even get an answer from them, not even a "not
interested", some people are just fake or browsers.
I'm not a member now and if someone emails me I will answer
but still most are really not interested in meeting. ...
0 Comments, 5 Views,
22 Votes
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are there REAL women here? 12/30/2003
With everything I have read and seen here on SEXFinder.com, it seems
that about half of all the responses from women are really
spammers/porno sites trying to get you to spend even more
money on their wares. Are there some real women out there,
and how am I supposed to know if you're real or not?
0 Comments, 13 Views,
31 Votes
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any woman who needs a New Years Lickin' 12/28/2003
I am a man in search of the woman. New Years could be the start
of something wet and wild...time2grow2
<br>
Showers, baths, tongues and lips, thighs and hips... safe
sex a must, and it must be mutual, I like to give better than
I get, but I like a woman who can give me more than I give her...ie;
23 years of marraige, she came 3 to 5 times every time we made
love... I usually only ...
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114 Votes
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you're 26 and you know it all! 12/28/2003
well in you'rewhole 26 yrs.i'm REALLY glad you
told us what a woman is all about.i'd like to see what
you have to say after another 20 yrs.i for one would be really
glad to read you're words of wisdom, no i don't
expect anything from you, except the BS that you are about
to give back, in you're whole 26 yrs.of wisdom.hopefully
life gives you A REAL GOOD HAND!
0 Comments, 5 Views,
67 Votes
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puzzle piece's 12/21/2003
i find that relationships are like parts of a puzzle. one
time you find a man that is good looking , great personality
, loving but sucks in bed or just doesnt fil your needs despite
his efforts. then there is the guy who is great in bed , but
you arent attracted in any way to him ..its just the sex you
have. then there is the guy who has everything for you ...with
one exception..he is ...
0 Comments, 14 Views,
29 Votes
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whats the deal?????!!!! 12/16/2003
so tell me guys....why is it when your stright up and honest
with your " partner " they do everything they
can to try and see if your full of shit. Why not just trust
that women to be honest, faithful, loving and a fuck monster
in the bedroom? No, the guy has to play the same games he gets
pissed about from other chicks! phone games, e-mail games,
if you love me games. what a load of ...
0 Comments, 0 Views,
25 Votes
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RE: Where do I find the words 12/15/2003
We all have gone throught the agony of how to start a conversation.
If you met anyone that is of the slightest interest or you
find something you like then use her for practice until
you find someone you are find very interesting - your practice
will then ease your way to greet her.
The first and easiest way to greet a person (anyone) is "Hi!"
This is easy to say, cannot offend and is ...
0 Comments, 25 Views,
54 Votes
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mind games 12/14/2003
I am so sick and tired of people playing mind games. They
make you think you are sexy and want to meet you and have sex,
or what ever you want, and then when you make plans with them,
they suddenly think its too fast, or they are enguaged,
or married and wont cheet on them. Well my question is if
they don"want to cheat on their spouce or future spouse,
what the hell are they doing on a ...
0 Comments, 22 Views,
9 Votes
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Re: what's with the social sceen? 12/13/2003
I have been single for many, many years. I have noticed that
the "social scene" is geared towards couples,
every time. For example, my company Christmas parties
have a cost that includes dinner for 2. And our work contact
list doesn't have a "next of kin" on it -
it has a "spouse" entry.
<br>
It may sound negative, but I believe the single has a hard
road ahead of them in a ...
0 Comments, 29 Views,
2 Votes
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Straight 8 guys looking for Bi females....how, where. hard to find 12/7/2003
I've been looking for an ongoing steady relationship
with a bi-female so I can becaome a couples and enjoy a wonderful
lady who is open minded. I'm close to Toronto, and do
you think I can find a single lady who is bi and open mined
to consentual sex with others.... its hard. Where are they
all.?
0 Comments, 11 Views,
61 Votes
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just dating? i dont know 12/3/2003
i jsut met this lady at a bar shes 1 year younger than me..
but she svery nice.. we have meet a couple itmeas and play
pool alot together.. but i asked her if would could get a
bit more serious.. and she told me ... she was only dating
right now... anyone care 2 help me out here?
0 Comments, 4 Views,
44 Votes
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what's with the social sceen? 11/30/2003
Over the last year that I've been single, I have found
it so difficult to find that somebody to be with. Is it me
or is it society in general. Is there any suggestions for
this man out there?
0 Comments, 3 Views,
24 Votes
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Re: To ...Just Sex 11/18/2003
Have you ever heard of getting to know someone first! HELLO,
I mean if someone e-mailed me I am not even about to tell them
come right over and here is my address. Mainly with all the
freaks out there. It is not good to just open your life up
to someone that you meet on the net. ALWAYS meet in a public
place first and get to feel if you are even comfortable with
that person enough to @#ck ...
0 Comments, 4 Views,
91 Votes
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Girls, does size really matter? 11/18/2003
For the ladies only, I want to know if you think size really
matters. In order to vote, use higher numbers if you agree
and lower numbers if you disagree. Or type a response and
tell me why it matters to you.
0 Comments, 2 Views,
79 Votes
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single and scared 11/14/2003
I have been divorced for over five years and am kind of afraid
to get back into the dating field. I haven't dated or
had sex in the past five years. I think there maybe someone
out there for me but not sure. I got out of a relaly bad relationship
and am afraid that the next relationship will be the same.
Can anyone give me any pointers? Considering I am a very
shy person what should I ...
0 Comments, 240 Views,
3 Votes
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what is it about a woman that attracts you to her? 11/12/2003
If a guy sees a woman at a bar, store, street what is it about
her that will get him to come over and say, Hi, I find you attractive
and would like to chat for a minute.. This would help me out
as i am an attractive woman who used to get hit on a lot but
these days it isnt happening as much.. Is it because I am
getting older or the men less bolder? Thanks
Dee
0 Comments, 19 Views,
136 Votes
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My first date!!! 11/2/2003
I am engaged to the man who stood me up for our first date over
3 ½ months ago, weird huh!!!
<br>
We were supposed to go out to dinner and just hang out when
he called to tell me that a friend of his needed to go the hospital
for stitches. I said ok, maybe another day, just let me know
how your friend is. Well, he emailed me a day later to tell
me that his friend needed only 4 ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
2 Votes
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This is getting tame.... 10/31/2003
Clearly the mighty dolar has told at last... All the top
50 most popular profiles have suddenly become those with
face shots>!>?!?!?? move them to friendfinder.com!
This is a SEX site. Please SEXFinder.com owners don't compromise
just cos there seems to be more money in dating than sex hookups!!!!!
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I dont owe you anything!!!!!!!! 10/30/2003
Why is it that some men think you should bend over backwards
to make their lives easy? I have always thought that dating
was a two way street, you have to give to receive. When sitting
up a first date both parties should be able to drive a place
that is equal in distance from each others house. So men
please dont expect women to come to you all the time!!!!!!!!!
It gets old fast.
2 Comments, 352 Views,
17 Votes
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Re: Myth of the Older Man 10/30/2003
"More experienced" does not mean that the person
has had a bunch of women but rather, has grown wise to how
to please a woman. He may have only had a few partners in his
lifetime, yet has learned exactly the way a woman likes
to be pleasured and what really makes a woman crazy! I am
24 and am in a D/s relationship where he is 51. You may say
"wow" or gasp even however, He Really knows ...
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