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take things easy   7/12/2009

When you first start dateing don't get to attached learn about the person your dateing before you make anything serious.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
dating rules   7/2/2009

No one ever said dating was easy. First dates are awkward, second dates are expectant and the dates that follow that -- during which two people really start getting down to the business of getting to know each other -- present hundreds, if not thousands, of opportunities for missteps, faux pas, blunders and mistakes. That is to say nothing of the myriad chances for problems to which you could ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_void_gadson 45 M
1  Article
The Idea of Monogomy   6/23/2009

Is mongomy existant or just another self fulfilling profecy? Do people these days ever trully dedicate themselves to any one person? From my experiences I would have to say, "NO!" Especially at younger ages. What constitutes true mongomy anyhow? Is it as simple as not fucking someone else? Is it breaking the rule if you exchange nude photos with someone? If you go out on a date? If you feel the ...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
shopping for new girlfriend???   6/17/2009

Well it's been 29 years since Consumer's Reports reviewed girlfriends (CR, Aug 1972). Since then, styles have changed, new features have been introduced, and the market for girlfriends has changed substantially. So we here at CU decided another report was needed.

As in a car or a computer, you should ask yourself what you need a girlfriend for before obtaining one. This will, in large ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Trust & Suspicion !   6/2/2009

Sometimes for some people it takes years to build up trust in a relationship, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy that trust. ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
rm_smoothswag 35 M
1  Article
I need to know!!!   6/1/2009

I have a question for the ladies, How much does a mans height effect you willing to give him a chance?


1 Comments, 49 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
A Woman's Rule of Thumb !   5/25/2009

If it has tires or testicles, you're going to have trouble with it.


4 Comments, 46 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
what would you do?   5/14/2009

Okay you see a pic of some one and think... Hot!

and out of impulse... send them a wink... a e-mail... with out really reading the profile....

then you go back and read the profile... to find they are disabled... In a chair... the only thing that they can do is oral....

what do You do?

this did happen to me... granted the guy lives over 500 miles away... ...


25 Comments, 444 Views, 65 Votes ,5.01 Score
How long do you wait?   5/7/2009

How long do you wait before you agree to meet someone in person that you have contacted online? I am sharing my personal experiences here, but am also curious to know about others'. I have met quite a few people from dating sites and adult sites, and my time period varies widely depending on the person I am in contact with. I have met with people as quickly as a few days after the first email, ...


6 Comments, 101 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_mustangluck 28 M
3  Articles
WHY IS HARD TO GET NOT INVOLVE   5/4/2009

EVERY TIME I DATE SOME ONE I GET TO INTO IT AND DONT KNOW HOW TO STOP THAT AND ENDS UP TO BE A LONG RELATIONSHIP SO ANY IDEAS OR COMENTS?


3 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Poetbyday 34 M
9  Articles
Why do we date   4/9/2009

Well there may be alot of reasons, but one thing for certain is that we all need the feeling of another body against us, the feeling of someone's soft smooth skin gently cruising up and down our lips and bodies. We most likely date because it's in our genes and we need to socialize and practice with other humans.


1 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
BRON13 37 M
7  Articles
yhrth   4/8/2009



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2 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes
rm_shannsammy 35 C
1  Article
Women at strip clubs   4/7/2009

Why is it that when a woman goes to the strip club with her man, their table gets ignored. I paid the same cover charge as everybody else, and went there for the same reasons. I don't know why it is that people look at me strangely when I go out to the topless stripclub with my husband. With as many people being bisexual as there are these days, why do stripclubs still belong to men? I can ...


8 Comments, 185 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
stamina001985 43 M
3  Articles
Mature Women   4/4/2009

I have recently moved to Manhattan and my work schedule is playing havoc with my sex life. I have a taste for mature women, any advice on where to meet women interested in having a no-strings relationship with a young man dying to get them off?


1 Comments, 103 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
best_dom_cairo 48 M
5  Articles
group sex for married women   4/4/2009

Are married women into group sex with multiple male partners? I would like to watch my wife be pleasured but am afraid to bring it up to her. Also is interracial sex a turn on for most women, both my wife and I are white and would like tosee her with a black male or males.


3 Comments, 89 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
secretblklover 34 M
9  Articles
what to do   4/3/2009

what to do if i was dating more than one person then eventually started really caring about one. had plans to break up with the other two but the one i care for found out about the two before i did. any suggestions? really would love to hear the females opinions on this one


0 Comments, 17 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
How To Ask Someone Out   3/31/2009

Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming and often frustrating pursuit of love, especially if you are unsure about how to make the first step.

While I can't give you a "magic formula" that guarantees success every single time, I can give you some basic guidelines on how to proceed, and hopefully succeed!

When you see someone you would like to ask out, the ...


8 Comments, 191 Views, 17 Votes ,5.11 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
dont rush in to relationship   3/31/2009

Imagine yourself marrying this person and then, ten years down the road, you’re reminiscing. “Oh, honey, do you remember the first time I said ‘I love you’?” How do you want that memory to be? I think some people treat the words so casually, that they forget soon after, but there are some who will forever keep the memory because they prevented prematurely ...


4 Comments, 60 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
INTIMATE DATING   3/31/2009

In the dating world, it seems that everyone expects the love of their life to fall from a tree and knock them dizzy with bliss. The facts of the matter are hardly as hit-and-miss as our secret desires would like them to be. When someone has a spell of good luck, it’s rarely because of some undeserved, haphazard gift bestowed upon them. If you look back to the period prior to any favorable ...


4 Comments, 67 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Looking when you've gotten older!   3/27/2009

Have you ever been date hunting and be guilty of looking at people your age or near your age and thinking, "SURELY I CAN'T LOOK THAT OLD?...


22 Comments, 230 Views, 45 Votes ,1.41 Score
rm_girly1608 25 F
1  Article
my best friend!   3/26/2009

On fine Thursday, sitting quietly with my friends under the tree, I got a phone call. “Hello?!” “Hi sexy, Nitish here!! Remember me?!” he asked. “Eh hi... Of course I remember you” I said “listen, am coming to meet you in 10 mins.. got a load of things to tell you”.. “ok, am waiting in the compound of U.O.M.. call me when you ...


4 Comments, 188 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_mustangluck 28 M
3  Articles
why dating   3/25/2009

well us is one of the top 5 worlwide with this problem so lets do something about it just get here and date people


2 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Seeking Sex Toys   3/15/2009

The wife and I have been swinging for 5 years now and all our are gone.We are thinking of adding something a little different to our play.There is a local college near by and we both have fantasies about younger partners.I want a younger girl about the age of our youngest, who is 19.The wife has the same fantasy except she wants a young man.We want to teach them what sex is all about.Anyone done ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
l0velynic0le31 38 F
11  Articles
hello their   3/10/2009

wanna cam to cam with me


3 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
body or mind...!?   2/27/2009

So which is them. 1. A rock hard body and chizzled abbs

2. A sound mind and an great smile.

Which do you prefer, a. in general and b. on dating sites..?


2 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
love   2/21/2009

I liken them to curtain twitchers. They are the type of people who spy on neighbors behind closed curtains and peek their beady little eyes out looking for any excuse to go and tell their church buddies the latest neighborly scandal.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
woman beaters   2/20/2009

I am thoroughly confused why do women stay in abusive relationships? it seems so easy you get beat on and you leave so you don't get beat on again. so WHY?


2 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
thewayulikeit00 39 M
1  Article
recently started seing some one   2/19/2009

Hey there ive recently started seing some one we are only dating at the moment my question to everyone out there is it wrong to continue being on a website like this and to still be sleeping with other people


3 Comments, 63 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Is it really true   2/19/2009

Do we need to date before sex?


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Luv2eatPuss305 41 M
4  Articles
Friends w/ Benifits Vs Fuck Buddies by Candyanne1220   2/16/2009

I have always tried to explain to people my view on friends with benefits and fuck buddies. Some people lack the intelligence to understand or differentiate the two types of relationships.

Fuck Buddies ( FB ):This is where two people just meet, fuck and peace out after they are done blowing their loads. That is great once and awhile and it can be a turn-on but it shows no emotion and no ...


1 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_nitrowom86 38 M
2  Articles
bla bla   2/14/2009



. ..................................


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
rm_jmannyj85 38 M
1  Article
WHY just be plutonic with x'S ?   1/25/2009

cAN any1 say for certain that a casual but not often sexual encounter with a x, but recently turned friend . Be positive for the new formed friendship?


0 Comments, 52 Views, 1 Votes
older women and younger men   1/22/2009

So since this is a site where people can get together, just how many happen between distant ages? I don't feel strongly one way or another, but since we're all here All I know is that everyone needs some love- so someone needs to step up


2 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
who having haveong fun   1/21/2009

I HAVE THIS MALE FRIEND I GET WET WITH WHEN I NEED TO RIDE A POLL. BUT I AM BI AND HE DON'T NO IT SO LATELY HE HAS OVER 30 REASON WAY IT WAS A NO SHOW BUT I AM AND NO SHOW IT HEATED HE WANT TO ASK ME WHY I DOING SHOW AND WHO I SEEING HE LIVE OUT FROM TOWN AND I REAL CAN FUCK WHO I WANT AND WHEN I WANT TO AND HAVE TO TELL HIM THAT ALL THE TIME BUT LATERLY I HAVE NOT BEEN FEELING HIM I LOVE LAYING ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
ais0869 34 M
2  Articles
dating   1/20/2009

how do u date some onefor so long and then not get married


2 Comments, 94 Views, 4 Votes
Fukcdoll 42 F
3  Articles
Dolls Dating Do's & Dont's "What Women Like"   1/15/2009

No- I'm not going to play 'match maker' but I'm going to try and give you the gift of incite into what women like, want, and how to capture their attention via the internet, so that you can make your own matches!

What women like to hear in an email:

Weather it's a woman ...


7 Comments, 256 Views, 27 Votes ,6.19 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
What do with a hot sexy woman   1/13/2009

I am a Bi woman who want to make sure I am make love a woman in the right way and how to make sure she come back for more.

let no I no what like to do to a woman and I no what like to be done to me. is there anytime else that woman like HELP ME OUT.





I WANT TO TURN THE HEAT UPhappyf;{=}


1 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_4446hot 58 F
9  Articles
Hot woman   1/13/2009

I been seeing this sexy woman few month now and be together a few time and each time get better and the day that we just hang out doing woman thinks hot I just want to grab her kiss her and make love to her I think bout her all time and I want her as often as I can have but I don't want be push so I just hold back the feel to do so.When we are together it is so hot in the room you can't breath ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
01717222560 36 M
10  Articles
dating   1/10/2009

dating is good thing


1 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
rm_dengongo7 39 M
3  Articles
Could You Find a Date-Mate Here?   1/9/2009

Ladies and gentelmans, gays and lesbians, couples and threesome, in this worldwidewebsite could you find a date-mate and had an/some experience/s?Please note how many dating you have....


4 Comments, 129 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
yngstud4lady 31 M
11  Articles
dating   1/7/2009

I wonder if people on here are looknig for sex or a relationship


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
yea or no??   12/28/2008

hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes
it was the night before Xmis..   12/28/2008

did we all have a good one


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
UltimateRapid 34 M
2  Articles
General sex questions   12/23/2008

How to have sex is actually quite simple. When a man's penis becomes hard, he places it inside a woman's vagina, and moves it in and out. This creates friction which is pleasurable for both the man and the woman. After a while, this friction will usually cause the man to have an orgasm and ejaculate. It may also cause the woman to have an orgasm, although it can take a bit of experimentation and ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_Shaunmega 41 M
2  Articles
sex   12/15/2008

How many girls like cock and how many like little ones


7 Comments, 125 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
bigmoose693 39 M
4  Articles
body   12/14/2008

do most women like a athletic body or some fat and or a really fat man.


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
bigmoose693 39 M
4  Articles
first date   12/14/2008

what do you girls like ona first date, where do you like to go. what is you favorite places..


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes
rm_lymzleehk 48 F
1  Article
yummy story hehehhehehe   12/13/2008

this past summer i was with one of my friend and i went through a drive thru and he flirted with the cute girl at the window. it was summer so we both had shorts on and i watched her eyes as they checked out my husband's lap. he told her what motel we were at and the room number. she then told us she was getting off right now and she would be right out so we waited and to my amazement she came ...


8 Comments, 307 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
quotes about men   12/11/2008

Why did God create men? Because vibrators can't mow the lawn. Madonna

All men are not homeless, but some men are home less than others. Henry Youngman

To attract men, I wear a perfume called 'New Car Interior'. Rita Rudner

This guy says, 'I'm perfect for you, because I'm a cross between a macho and a sensitive man.' I said, 'Oh, a gay trucker?' Judy Tenuta

...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
prettytony719 39 M
2  Articles
Dating a Thug   12/10/2008

Lady that like to fuke Thug are my best friends are there any sexy lady in Mississippi that dream about fucking a real Thug.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
spankertanker85 38 M
1  Article
The Naked Man   11/25/2008

Anyone know about "the naked man" move on a first date? Basically what happens is a guy goes on a date with a girl way out of his league. So he knows there isin't gonna be a second date. As a hail mary, what he does is make up an excuse to go up to the girl's apartment and while she's not there, strip naked. The girl comes in and boom! shock and awww... She is impressed by his confidence and at ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_madhurblog 41 M
13  Articles
be nice to a girl   11/25/2008

Care. Care for her. If you are in middle school carry her binder and do things such as opening the door for her, giving a bouquet of flowers on special events like her birthday etc. Listen. Listen to what she is saying. Do not stop her while she is speaking, just listen to her. Kind. Be kind, and not just to the girl you are trying to impress. A better suggestion would simply be to be a nice ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_GotDick920 34 M
1  Article
sex   11/12/2008

You should always have it


2 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_Supermansg1 40 M
3  Articles
the first meet   11/12/2008

Dont you just love the first meet the anticapation of knowing you like this person the knots in your belly cause all you want to do is see them naked and maybe have a future with this woman/man.

I met a girl, loved her forever and a day until she broke my heart and ran off with 56 grand now all i do is look for that perfect one night stand and live my life the way the site was designed ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
How not to come across?   11/11/2008

I know this is probably a very old question and there will be lot's of people saying "groan not again" but I'm fairly new to this and would like some sensible answers. They say first impressions count so how do you make an impression with a single email without sounding like a complete ar@*$#le? Any answers would be gratefully recieved from both male and females.


0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
What next   11/5/2008

Here I am an well aged, well preserved fairly good looking 60 year old lady. Being a Southern lady, I was raised to believe a gentleman all ways comes first in any relationship. But being a retired business woman, I also know we as ladies have wants and needs that need to be fulfilled as well. So hence the dilemma between one's self. Go for it or just satisfy the partner. I say go for it. If you ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_bartender123 42 M
1  Article
Why do I feel invisialbe   10/28/2008

I live in a College town filled with mostly early 20 something girls. I am in my late 20's and have been out of school for a while now. I bartend part time and I feel like more and more I am invisible to women. I work out and keep my self up. I can be pretty thick when it come to a women flirting with me and I pick up on it. But anymore they don't even talk to me for more than 10min and loose ...


3 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
wildmanohyeah4u 46 M
0  Articles
So ladies you want a relationship, but are you really READY for one?   10/17/2008

Hi All,

I'm taking some time out to vent. But I want to make some points here that have to do with why I am frustrated. It won't get me anywhere but hopefully I can get it off of my chest. If you like, don't like, agree, disagree, post a comment, let me and my other blog readers hear it.

Okay, so the biggest complaint I've heard from the many women I've communicated with ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_rsaunders5 49 M
1  Article
dating   10/15/2008

ok is there a rule to dating or what? I am just curious. I mean it seems now, people dont have time to date anymore...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
hotbngcock 44 M
6  Articles
Blind dating   10/12/2008

I have heard a lot about blind dating. Have seen quite a few times in reality show but didnt have the taste of real life blind dating. I am not sure if anyone of you have any chance to have a blind dating till now. I havent but I am quite open to it. I think it needs courage from both the partners. In a conservative society its much rare compared to an relatively open society. Blind dating has ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
egypt_delight1 49 M
13  Articles
bdsm secrets   10/5/2008

always believe that inside each woman there is a submissive thing but i always wonder why they don't show it to the right person . BDSM is really a wonderful world full of fun . i wish everybody gr8 luck here and in life


0 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
zero1762553I4 38 M
6  Articles
suitable   10/4/2008

dating are needed for you to learn more about ur partner whether they are suitable to you or not be4 going to the next step of relationship. it is testing for both party whether your partner are suitable to u or no.


0 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
whitewhife4black 71 F
6  Articles
Whatever happened to dating?   9/21/2008

We are an older married couple where the wife plays and the husband enjoys watching or at least hearing about things later on.

We didn't always operate that way... having entered into the Swinging Lifestyle way back in the 70s... we started when the lifestyle was almost entirely just 'couples' and the occasional '3some' situations.

Also, even before we met and married and ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
things better left unsaid during dates   9/19/2008

1. "Nice outfit. Is that a wonder-bra?"



2. "I really don't like this restaurant that much, but I wanted to use this 2-for-1 coupon before it expired."



3. "No wine for me tonight. My urologist says it's not good to mix alcohol and penicillin."



4. "I refuse to get cable. That's how they keep tabs on you."



5. "People say I ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_Tallman12 49 M
4  Articles
Why is it hard to meet women?   9/18/2008

I have to admit that I honestly don't know where to look in Australia for women that want a relationship. I mean there are night clubs and all that but you never meet anyone that you would like to call later.

I have been told that I am a Gentleman and I am sweet but I find this doesn't help. What am I doing wrong?

It appears women have a preset idea what they want and I have ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_Silkhands65 59 M
3  Articles
To scaired to date   9/13/2008

From 5 date sites, have discovered ladies lie out there ass on profiles, show naked pictures professing how incredible they are and once ya get to know them realize they are full of crap. Its a game to just get a guys attention to see if he will respond to her add. they have no intention of dateing, sex, or anything else. I have had better luck asking a girl on the street out on a date, or yahoo, ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes
MEN OVER 30 THAT NEVER MARRIED AND DONT HAVE    9/12/2008

What do women think? Does it show there is something right or wrong with him if he hasnt been married and never had ? I come from the old school of thinking career goals come first then family and after. Any good thoughts out there on the subject?


3 Comments, 84 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_yesirr1 41 M
1  Article
My SEXFinder.com Mission   9/6/2008

The dating scene is brutal. Nine chances out of ten when you find someone you want to be with or feel is right for you something happens and you end up single once again. That heartache and pain is unbearable at times, and takes seemingly forever to get past.

This is exactly why I signed up here. I am a busy man with career goals who is working on his master's degree in journalism. I ...


2 Comments, 66 Views, 9 Votes ,0.22 Score
whitewhife4black 71 F
6  Articles
Dating a married women   9/1/2008

We are a couple who has been married for 37 years. We've been in the lifestyle off and on since 1975.

What we are doing now is something that we have found adds a lot of new interest to an already exciting lifestyle and that is 'dating'.

Yes, old-fashion dates... anything form just meeting for a drink to a romantic dinner or a movie or hitting the dance floor at a local club. ...


1 Comments, 192 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Best place to find women looking for friend with benefits   8/23/2008

Where is the best place to find women looking for sex?... besides on the internet?


0 Comments, 73 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Kissing a girl....   8/23/2008

If i kiss a girl for the first time is it too much to start kissing her neck and chest if I want to move it to the next phase? My ex loved it and i'm just wondering if this is ok for the first time kissing a new girl?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_myman233 39 M
1  Article
Why Games   8/19/2008

As people why do we tend to play games and play with peoples emotions? We tend let the best things in front of us go by. We let the most honorable person for the relationship. Why cant we see whats right in front of us that sometimes that person is right there in your face but we begin to act so blindly to it Take an extra step and really see the heart and that person and sometimes you can find ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 14 Votes ,0.26 Score
hotsexy03071989 35 M
1  Article
unresponsible women   8/16/2008

why women are allways late in their dates

why we have to everytime to wait zzzzzzzzZZZzz

why to be so hard to get laid

why they are always with something unplesant

...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating gals of all ages!   8/15/2008

What is the difference between girls/women aged: 8, 18, 28, 38, 48, 58. 68, and 78?

At 8 -- You take her to bed and tell her a story.

At 18 -- You tell her a story and take her to bed.

At 28 -- You don't need to tell her a story to take her to bed.

At 38 -- She tells you a story and takes you to bed.

At 48 -- She tells you a story to avoid ...


8 Comments, 122 Views, 41 Votes ,2.06 Score
GolfClapperX_ 37 M
1  Article
Sheik   8/14/2008

I have been in you, baby And you Have been in me And we Have be So intimately Entwined And it sure was fine

I have been in you, baby And you Have been in me And so you see

We Have be so together I thought that we would never Return from forever Return from forever Return from forever...

You Have been in me And understandably I have been in 'n' outa you An' everywhere ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Anyone actually meet anyone from here?   8/9/2008

Ok. So I wanted to find out if anyone has actually met anyone off her SEXFinder.com here or not. I've been a member off and on for a while now and have yet to find any real people in my area. Now I know it just might be my area and such but i wanted to get a feel for if its just me or if its the whole site in general.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
mzsunnyclit69 50 F
3  Articles
Our First Date   7/21/2008

I met this beautiful lady with the most sensual body under the sun. I was afraid to ask her out but I did and she said yes, that made me light up. I went to her house to pick her up and she ws still getting dressed when I got there. She said you are more than welcome to wait in the living room I will be done in about 5 mins now let me give you a little more info about her body she was around 5'7" ...


2 Comments, 152 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
Jester4lif1965 59 M
2  Articles
Dating after twenty years.   7/16/2008

I've recently started dating after twenty years of marriage and a divorce. I am here to say that you can find your someone if you look hard enough and wade through all the weirdos and freaks, happiness can be obtained through a little hard work.....dont give up.


1 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_Whattup1010 31 M
10  Articles
Oregon Area   7/6/2008

Any chicks in the Sutherlin to winston area in Oregon???


0 Comments, 22 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_trippy1010 46 M
2  Articles
DON'T BE STUCK UP/ LIGHTEN UP   7/3/2008

THE AVERAGE LIFE SPAN OF A HUMAN IS 90 YEARS OLD. WHEN YOU'RE 20 SOMETHING OR 30'S CHEER UP. DO YOU HAVE TO BE RICH AND BEAUTIFUL TO BE STUCK UP? SOME PEOPLE ARE SUCH BABIES. LIGHTEN UP WILL YOU. SOME PEOPLE ARE BORN WITH MORE PROBLEMS THAN THAT. JUST BE THANKFUL THAT YOU ARE NOT ONE OF THEM.

P.S. IF YOU ARE ONE OF THEM I'M KIDDING.

OH WHAT DO YOU FEEL ABOUT STUCK UP PEOPLE ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,0.74 Score
rm_zx3v 33 M
1  Article
whoah   6/29/2008

date cool


0 Comments, 21 Views, 8 Votes
rich_jerk 40 M
2  Articles
What a woman wants   6/26/2008

I find that most men try to please women by appealing to the standards that society places. For example, many men think that they can win favor with women by buying them gifts, by impressing them by talking about their jobs, or by showing off their material possessions. I find, though, that the best way to form a strong connection with women is to take the time to find out about THEM. What are ...


6 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
rm_Marko83_Kg 31 M
2  Articles
Date on blind.   6/26/2008

What you usually espect when you are going on a blind date??? Nothing??? Somethig fabulos??? Or you are so deprest to take what ever it comes infront of you??


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_knightnite7 44 M
6  Articles
dating   6/21/2008

who here is looking for a date in the IL area?/


0 Comments, 24 Views, 8 Votes
hotcpl4threeway 41 C
1  Article
What women want   6/6/2008

so i've been on quite a few dates in my life seeing as how now i'm 25 and its always diff each time. How come every girl wants to be difficult?


3 Comments, 96 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
rm_yurPhantaC1 52 F
5  Articles
The Green Eyed Monster   6/4/2008

Ok, I've given some advice a few times but never asked for any so please be patient with me. LOL. A few of you may recognize me, and some may not but I am separated and dating only, not looking for sex at all until I meet Mr. Right! Anyway, I have been dating(no commitment) a local guy that I met at a memorial service for a mutual friend. We have gone out for supper a ...


17 Comments, 187 Views, 13 Votes ,2.98 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
10 SURE MISS PICK UP LINES   6/2/2008

1. Man: "Haven't we met before?" Woman: "Yes, I'm the receptionist at the V.D. Clinic."



2. Man: "Haven't I seen you some place before?" Woman: "Yeah, that's why I don't go there anymore."



3. Man: "Is this seat empty?" Woman: "Yes, and this one will be too if you sit down."



4. Man: "So, wanna go back to my place?" Woman: "Well, I don't know. ...


3 Comments, 49 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
10 WAYS TO END A BLIND DATE EARLY   6/2/2008

1. At dinner, guard your plate with fork and steak knife, so as to give the impression that you'll stab anyone, including the waiter, who reaches for it.



2. Collect the salt shakers from all of the tables in the restaurant, and balance them in a tower on your table.



3. Wipe your nose on your date's sleeve. Twice.



4. Make funny faces at other ...


3 Comments, 38 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
Could You Fall In Love With A Blow Up Doll?   5/27/2008

Don't laugh (oh, go ahead)---there really is a "doll fetish" and it's called agalmatophilia.



There are websites devoted to "Real Dolls", and even a documentary was made of the men who love them. It was kind of creepy.



That film, "Lars and the Real Girl" has a plot where a nice but delusional man purchases a high end sex doll for a relationship.

...


4 Comments, 44 Views, 12 Votes
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
Should Ex's be friends?   5/27/2008

My ex and I broke up about a year and a half ago, and it wasnt clean let me tell you. But I ran into her at the store a few weeks ago and we had a really nice chat, exchanged numbers and she asked me if I'd want to meet up sometime. Then she calls me a few hours later saying her new man didnt want me in her life and she asked me to delete her number from my phone. Lemme tell ya this guys a real ...


5 Comments, 47 Views, 12 Votes
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
First impressions...   5/27/2008

How much/badly are first impression's dependant on what one thinks of someone/people. Is it look's ( e.g. Profile 1st pic preview) you see/or run. Or do you after that impression get to know the/learn different?


2 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
how   5/27/2008

whats the best and fastest move on the first date


1 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_poking1234 36 M
3  Articles
sexy and young   5/27/2008

all sexy girls


1 Comments, 63 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
hot bitch   5/25/2008

hot bitch


1 Comments, 66 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
The first date is great......   5/24/2008

Any advice on why after a great first date the 2nd date is just ok and you feel the magic is gone?


9 Comments, 113 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
MrBibs 53 M
9  Articles
do they?   5/24/2008

Do people actually find someone to meet and date on this site?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
When to know   5/15/2008

I was curious about when to know its time to break up with someone. Have a feeling but not sure if im ready to be alone. Just have feeling this isnt going anywhere.


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_Leeds69_Mmmm 41 M
2  Articles
The 3 day rule & why people play games...   5/9/2008

I don't understand the waiting 3 t 4 days rule before U contact someone that you're interested in !!!

Personally if a girl waits th traditional 3 or 4 days before calling / textin I automatically think she plays games & that diminishes my interest towards her straight away.

If U meet someone on Friday night, get on with them brilliantly, why is it th chances are if U contact ...


5 Comments, 78 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
rm_jaye028 43 M
1  Article
can anyone tell me how I can meet more women   5/7/2008

I'm looking for a relationship with a girl that is around my age, but I don't know if I doing something wrong or if there's something wrong with my profile. I have been in the chat rooms and the IMC but I don't seem to be getting anywhere in the dating scene. can anyone give me some advice on how I can get better results or if there is something I need to fix.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
vikingluso 65 C
823  Articles
How to seduce your lover!   5/5/2008

Fabulous Foreplay To Seduce Your Lover!

Have you forgotten how to seduce your lover, or are you jumping into bed too quickly and not taking the time to make your partner feel sexy and special? Here you have some seductive tips, tricks and techniques to try in the bedroom.

We're in so much of a hurry to jump into bed nowadays that I think we've lost the art of good old-fashioned ...


2 Comments, 125 Views, 16 Votes ,4.45 Score
rm_sabinah 48 F
2  Articles
Aaja mere Khwaja   5/5/2008

The soft rays of the sun bath my face with a million streams

The glass of milk talks to me of flavours tasted and a promise of many more to come.

My sister animatedly chats over the phone, while my wife checks the taste of a well prepared sambar.

My father lazes over the bundle of newspapers, while my mother watches everyone with a smile.

and I listen to a ...


0 Comments, 57 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Why is what is far for a woman not far for a man?   5/2/2008

Now I am a man who has been divorce for sometime. I am also not afraid to admit that if the right single or couple came along I would join them in a heart beat.

Though as I scan all the listings of single women in my area, I find it funny how many say " No married man", but in the bio, they are married themselves and the hubby doesn't know they are on this site.

Know don't get ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
gender and skin in judgement..   4/21/2008

Hello I am very interested in finding someone that is interested in meet someone to be friends with on SEXFinder.com.

It has been many of lonely waisted years following a need less dreams of finding a friend on SEXFinder.com.

I have made it possible several times for standard member to view my profile, and they are able to contact me.

I have sent ...



0 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
that1collegeguy 26 M
1  Article
Older or Younger?   4/20/2008

When dating someone, do you tend to go out with younger or older people?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
coupleforyou84 39 C
3  Articles
scrubs   4/19/2008

why do scrubs always try to make themselves feel better by lying about their jobs and why they have no teeth or brains


1 Comments, 39 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
SummonersTale 36 M
12  Articles
Tells   4/15/2008

So I was at Walgreens the other day (I won't go into any description of what Walgreens is) and I noticed the girl behind the counter had a ring dangling from her necklace.

"Are you engaged?" I asked.

She looked down: 30 points.

"Well..." She said: 60 points.

"...because it seems like everybody who works this counter is engaged."

Then she smiled. ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_2hotguys2008 37 GC
1  Article
hey   4/6/2008

hey were two guys looking for women that wants some fun wint hot guys. hit us up if u can handel us.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
friends   4/5/2008

kevin here how do you find a good lady any age that wants to go out with nice guy


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
What I consider a good date   3/21/2008

To me, a good date, especially the first date, consists of having fun, whether it be at dinner, out dancing, or just going to a movie. I shouldn't have to say "no" more than once. We should be in the process of getting to know one another, finding out what our particular interests are, and what makes us smile. Conversation, I think, is the best way to begin the process of learning about one ...


6 Comments, 115 Views, 14 Votes ,5.38 Score
dating   3/20/2008

how about dating?u dating for sex?ur dating for tight sex??


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
WHAT SHOULD I DO   3/20/2008

I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?WHAT SHOULD I DO?


5 Comments, 175 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
CAN I   3/20/2008

I AM USED TO FUCKING MY NEIGHBOUR'S WIFE . SHE COMES TO ME AT MY FLAT AND I SOMETIMES GO TO HER HOUSE WHEN HER HUSBAND IS NOT THERE . I ENJOY HER AND SHE ENJOYS ME BUT I AM GOING TO GET MARRIED , WILL I CONTINUE ?


2 Comments, 101 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
CAN I ASK HER ?   3/20/2008

CAN I ASK MY WOMAN IN THE FIRST DATE IF SHE HAS AIDS ??????????


3 Comments, 77 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_zabarti1 57 M
11  Articles
SHE WANTS MORE   3/20/2008

I FUCK HER EVERY WEEK 3 OR 4 TIMES BUT SHE ALWAYS ASKS FOR MORE . I AM TOO BUSY TO GO TO HER EVERY DAY . WHAT SHOULD I DO...


2 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
I U R IN Q8   3/19/2008

I NEED A SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP . A REAL SEXY WOMAN FROM KUWAIT . IF U R READY TO HAVE FUN , EMAIL ME .


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_ZaharTopit 26 M
1  Article
That can't be true...   3/18/2008

Why oonly what you see its cock and pussye?When you search somoane for a Discrete relationship you find only naked girls, with sexual toys stuck in their vagina.When you search for boys you find dick as a face pick, i think that its not verry important , yes the size matters but if you see it where its the mistery? where its taht think that turns you on , where its the struggle for obtain what ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
lookin4fun_okc 59 M
1  Article
How do I meet a married woman for some fun?   3/2/2008

Being new to SEXFinder.com, I can't even read emails that are sent to me so I have been going in the Lower Midwest chat room to see if there are any married women in my area. There don't seem to be many in there when I'm online.

I do see a lot that match my Cupid setting that are online when I am there, but I don't have any clue how to contact them. I know this is SEXFinder.com's way of trying to get me to ...


1 Comments, 83 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Where to start? What to do?   3/2/2008

Let me preface this by admitting I'm very frustrated with my recent dating experiences (or lack thereof). My first problem is that I can't find appropriate places to meet women. I've tried bars, parties, online dating sites, the wilderness... no luck after 4+ years. I did date someone I met at a bar, but (surprise) she turned out to be an alcoholic. Because of previous failed relationships, I'm ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
bikerdudeinwisc 49 M
1  Article
the men that deserve a chance   2/22/2008

So many times I have heard , men are assholes, from ladies on this site . But hey what about the other half of us that are real and are here to meet someone and take the time to get to know them . Why are we put in the catergory of the assholes right away just cus we are a man ? If I had the answer to that then maybe I would be rich .lol. But seriously now ladies , dont judge all of us men just ...


4 Comments, 171 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
spin_x89 50 M
2  Articles
Sex on the 1st date...   2/19/2008

I have dated several women in my life, some of witch I had sex with on the first night, others maybe by the 3rd date. The ones that I have slept with on the 1st date always complain to me that they shouldn't have moved so fast. They often tell me that they didn't want me to lose respect for them by sleeping with me on the first night. However, I don't see it this way. In-fact one of those girls I ...


5 Comments, 122 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
rm_BX1000 51 M
7  Articles
Dating Question   2/18/2008

What's the best way to approach an older woman?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
boss159 65 M
5  Articles
FIRST TIME FUCK   2/8/2008

WHAT WILL MAKE YOU FUCK SOMEONE ON THE FIRST DATE.


4 Comments, 115 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
can you forgive after they have cheated?   2/8/2008

can you forgive after they have cheated?


5 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
Dateing my flatmate?   2/8/2008

Hi i am in university, and i have started getting off with one of my flatmate. is this a bad idea or shall i just go with it? thanks


2 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Wolff61957 64 M
11  Articles
Guys and girls and friends only   2/8/2008

Ok, I know what I think about this and I also know what some of the people I work with and or hang out with say about it, I would like to hear what some of you cool SEXFinder.com people think about it. I think that a guy can be friends with a female and not have sex, just hang out do things together what ever and sex never even enters into the picture on either side. I know this can be done cause I have ...


8 Comments, 53 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
rm_ellistar 46 M
12  Articles
New men give new hope for women   1/29/2008

Men have been labeled as the hunter and need to concur as many women as he can to feel like a man, some men perhaps the young and the foolish. The men who are like me like the chase as much as the kill. We hunt for companionship and fondness that grows. It may happen that monogamy escapes some, that is because that elusive soul mate has been hard to find. As men grow the ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
srrm69 39 M
3  Articles
dating   1/19/2008

i have been on a date for a while


0 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Are their real people in here.   1/6/2008

Hi, I want to know are their any real people in here?? I mean they even want to meet and take forward their desire's or charateristics defined by them or mostly are here for that fun on the net?? And how do i trace partners.?? please pour in with your experience on how to convert ur online encounter into a real life encounter...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
PassionatePoly 68 F
20  Articles
Is there something you forgot to tell me?   1/6/2008

Ever had anyone you were meeting "forget" to mention something important? Health issues, husbands, wives, ? Height, weight, lifestyle issues, standards of living?

I admit that there have been a few times when I forgot to mention the fact that I'm a pro-domme, so got to experience a truly priceless reaction when they came into my living room and saw all the dungeon equipment lying ...


1 Comments, 129 Views, 14 Votes ,4.90 Score
bSEXe2011 40 M
1  Article
"now I lay me down to sleep"   12/25/2007

I pray for a man, who's not a creep. One who's handsome, smart, and strong. He's not afraid to admit when he is wrong. One who thinks before he speaks? When he promises to call, he doesn't wait 6 weeks. I pray that he is gainfully employed. Won't lose his cool when he's annoyed. Pulls out my chair & opens my door. Massages my back & begs to do more. Oh! Send me a man who will make love ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_lifespace77 41 M
2  Articles
Love older women   12/16/2007

Got a hard dick for any women that love to get it freaky


0 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes
rm_lifespace77 41 M
2  Articles
Looking for women in TX   12/15/2007

Just looking for some hot ass women in Lubbock Texas for some hot sex


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
OK, let's try it again...   11/21/2007

I'm back after a frustrating hiatus spent on some other adult dating sites who will remain nameless but whose initials are sxsrch sending me bogus profiles and email replies.

Any sympathy for the middle-aged married guy out there? I'm looking for the hottie female to fill in some voids, and most say singles only. Any recipes for success?

And before you cast your first stone at ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
lovelyflfemme 41 F
4  Articles
In this day and age, why is online dating still frowned upon?   11/13/2007

The first time a tried on-line dating was 8 years ago and I ended up meeting someone I dated for a couple of years. I told only a handful of people how we met b/c I actually cared what people would think of me. My circle of friends at the time thought on-line dating was for desperate people who had no other choice but to meet other ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
rm_ummmmmmhhh 31 M
1  Article
Seems like more of us are doing it?   10/14/2007

I don't know if it's just my age group, my particular group of friends, or mere coincidence, but lately it seems like everyone I know is just having sex, rather than dating. And why not? We're young (I'm 25), horny (oh SO horny!), and it's fun. I just wonder if it's a change in public opinion, or merely a short-lived phenomenon. For myself, I'm moving towns in a few short months, and don't feel ...


2 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
blind dates   10/14/2007

do they work?


6 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
rm_txscorpion 40 M
5  Articles
What Level Are You On?   10/13/2007

I have a simple question that shouldn't require much thought. The only person you need to be honest with is yourself. How important is an education to you when you are looking for someone on this site? Do you care if they are a college graduate or a high school drop out?

The reason I am asking is because I ran across a post a while back that left me laghing me azz off for at least 2 ...


4 Comments, 96 Views, 13 Votes ,6.83 Score
rm_hussla81 43 M
9  Articles
what do i need to do   9/12/2007

I've been on this site for awhile, how do you interact with people?


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
subliminal messages   9/11/2007

Making a first contact with a woman could be sticky because both parts don’t know if the other one is available. It is usually to your advantage to have the woman get to know you before she knows you are available.



On the other side, if the woman thinks you are taken, she will feel more comfortable talking to you and getting to know you. And the better she knows you ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
how to know shes into you   9/11/2007

Unless you're a Greek god or loaded with moolah, chances are women give you mixed signals. Read the signs to know if she's really got the hots for you, lest that big bubble goes bust!



She's here, there, everywhere



All of a sudden, she "just happens" to show up wherever you hang out. From frequent prints from the copier near your cubicle to asking for a hitch to ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
How to compliment   9/11/2007

1) Think about commenting on actions instead of looks. "Great moves!" for the groover on the dance floor, or "Healthy diet!" for the chick buying greens at the supermarket.



2) Commend a woman for her wit or intelligence ("Funny joke!" "Great idea!") rather than her beautiful assets. She'll like the attention to something of substance.



3) Compliment a woman's ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
How to tell a girl u Like her   9/11/2007

1) Get inspired. Look back on the times when you enjoyed being around her, discovered that you have a lot in common, or realised that you had tremendous respect for her.



2) Put yourself in her shoes. Based on what you know about her, imagine what language or situations might make her uncomfortable, and avoid them. If you are unsure, err on the side of caution. Avoid ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
A womans guide to men   9/11/2007

Romantic love sparks deeply to human cravings. Women sometimes look for certain qualities in their partners before they will even allow themselves to involve in a relationship. On the top of desired qualities are character warmth and positive mind-set toward the love.



Emphasize personal strength to accomplish relationship





A man may fall for a woman ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
diamonddave4267 68 M
5  Articles
Not having SEX in our relationship   9/11/2007

I need some advice from SEXFinder.com Communtiy.

I`m a male at 51 yrs, and my girlfriend is 42 yrs old.

We are both divorce from other people.We live together for five(5) years, and dating for one year prior to me moving into her home.I sold my house before we started dating. I haven`t had any sex or even foreplay that I love to do for hours.And this is going on for over ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
How many people do you date at once.   9/6/2007

Do you date just one person???Do you date more than one???Why do you date more or why dont you date more??? Love to hear what everyone thinks.


1 Comments, 58 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_minniep14 38 F
1  Article
Is Less More?   9/5/2007

Okay im going to be honest, at 22 I'm pretty cautious about whom and when conserning my sexual partners. As of recently ive had a sexual relationship with a man much more experienced than i and for the life of me i cant figure out whether it was an annoyance for him or a turn on seeing as he wouldn't say either way. So I'm asking men, does a woman's level of sexual experience hinder or help your ...


3 Comments, 86 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_tasteme1on1 45 C
2  Articles
Why is so HARD?   8/25/2007

Hello everyone, why is it so hard to find an bi-female that is willing to join us? We are not a bad looking couple, we are willing to get to know people. Maybe we need soe help, can some fellow memeber give some advise?


3 Comments, 88 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
carusich 55 F
1  Article
Men Lieing   8/24/2007

Why do men still feel the need to lie to a woman, even when they met them on a website like SEXFinder.com? Is it just a guy thing?


3 Comments, 72 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_HotJK1972 49 M
4  Articles
help   7/29/2007

I live in Canton, Ohio and I was with the same woman ever since I was 22 and now that we have reacently parted I would like to get back out on the dating sceen so, what is the easiest way to meet women on here? Has anyone?


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
alithinos29 37 M
1  Article
any woman or couple in cyprus or planning to visit cyprus?   7/29/2007

any woman or couple in cyprus or planning to visit cyprus?


0 Comments, 51 Views, 0 Votes
fantasies   7/27/2007

do many people out there imagine theyre with someone else when having sex with someone, like the girls best friend or someone else u know?


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_trisha311 48 C
1  Article
not a freak   7/23/2007

Internetgirl is sitting in front of her computer reading through many emails of guys that seem to have only one thing on their mind. It's boring, it's repetitive and she usually just hits the "Delete" button after reading the first paragraph... Unless she really likes it... which she does... "Here's an interesting one" she thinks to herself as she's reading Chris' message. "This guy is ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
I'm just wondering....   7/21/2007

When do you guys tell a woman that you are into MMF?

I'm just wondering because I would swear I have not met more than 2 bi guys in my life, yet here you all are, hanging out on line at places like hustler personals. Wow!



Circle jerks and the heterosexual male?

Also, if you're a bi guy, do you think you can be happy in a monogamous relationship with either just a man or a ...


1 Comments, 115 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
docholliday1842 32 M
14  Articles
flirting for women   6/17/2007

Flirting Tips Women are so much more subtle about flirting clues that men need to really pay attention. Ladies, men are not used to women flirting with them. An overwhelming majority of men said they would just love it if a woman would talk to them first or at least express a larger clue that you were interested in checking them out.

#1: Repeated contact...at least three separate verbal ...


1 Comments, 93 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
long_haired_bi_M 43 M
8  Articles
What qualities would you want in your partner   5/29/2007

One of my friends blogs asked whats do you really want from a woman. This was my answer, do any of you come close?

The Must Have Qualities 1. Open Minded (very) 2. Independent 3. Must want but not need me 4. Must accept me and all my oddities 5. Must be able to handle money 6. Must have a reasonable level of cleanliness about her. 7. Should be ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
first date questions   5/27/2007

when meeting someone on this website or others like it how does it differ frm say a date with a stranger? ive yet to meet someone face to face but i keep thinking that im not going to keep my mind on talking insted i know alot about this person both physically and sexually anybody have an advice or stories?


2 Comments, 57 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
why women date jerks   5/27/2007

can anyone tell me why breath taking ladies go after the jerks who treat them like trash? anyone


1 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
stood up   5/27/2007

being stood up is a terrible thing tou think its no big deal but all your doing is fucking yourself out of a good time and when you say your coming over and gonna call and never do its like telling me im getting some and lieing to me


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
proper first date   5/27/2007

if you think dinner and a movie is boring what would you prefer?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
now!   5/23/2007

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0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
kkk   5/23/2007

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3 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,0.23 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
pussy   5/23/2007

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3 Comments, 68 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_Eulessguy78 35 M
2  Articles
What do ladies really expect?   5/13/2007

What does a lady really expect on a first date? Dinner, conversation and treated with respect is a given, but what else?


1 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
cumrideit69 40 M
10  Articles
asian girls   4/26/2007

where are all the hot horny asian girls in Brisbane?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 0 Votes
hotpants4u1954 63 F
2  Articles
Starting Over   4/24/2007

It has been so hard for me to start over, cause i was married for 27 years, so this dating is really hard for me. Ive met a few guys. And i have been hurt. i guess thats what life is all about. i guess dating is like learning how to walk again. Thanks.


1 Comments, 155 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
shelbyfireman 52 M
7  Articles
How do you go about it?   4/20/2007

If you are a married guy, which over half of the men on this site are, how do you find the right situation for a hook-up?


2 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Dating after 10 years   4/11/2007

Well I just got divorced after 10 years. I need help on what to do on dates any more?


1 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Jazmine101 27 F
2  Articles
Going on a date?   4/8/2007

If you are going on a date.. Ask yourself are u prepared?
Some thoughts on do's and donts on a date...
Dos:
1. Make sure you send them a updated photo (Before u meet) 2. Talk on the phone with them 3. Dress nice, smell nice 4. Be able to have a conversation 5. Movies/lunch/dinner great way to start 6. Guys be a gentleman, pay for the girl 7. Guys bring the condoms if you want any. ...


4 Comments, 194 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
rm_1dom1dom 48 M
4  Articles
Just No Strings   4/5/2007

Has anyone had any experience where someone they have met on SEXFinder.com has become "clingy" and wont leave you alone even though it was suposed to be no strings?


0 Comments, 25 Views, 0 Votes
hatefulscribe 39 M
4  Articles
Any gamers here?   3/25/2007

I am a gamer by hobby federal mail handler by trade.. any one on here with the same hobby's or professions?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Captn763 61 M
1  Article
Oh, my what a day after   3/21/2007

I was just out of a bad relationship and was out with the guys at a local bar not terribly interested in anything but the cold beer in front of me. I glanced toward the dance floor and I saw two beautiful girls dancing together. One was tall, slender, with great looking legs and shoulder length brunette hair. The other was shorter, but with a great set of tits, a beautiful looking ass, and ...


0 Comments, 96 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Humor   3/12/2007

I've noticed that a good sense of humor is often vital to dating. If you can tell a joke, you can get laid.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
sexxykycouple69 36 C
2  Articles
Where have all the average people gone?   3/12/2007

This site seems to have lost its touch. Where did all the women go? Seems harder to get a chat out of most ladies. Single men out number single women by 9:1.


4 Comments, 148 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
waldorf6 54 M
15  Articles
the Right chemistry.   2/27/2007

Sometimes two people can take one look at one another and just melt. Almost if they were practiclly meant for each other. the connetion was heaven sent. Such moments are indeed memorable and are a combiantion of where luck, fate and God's touch seems to fall into place. They make life interesting and give making the right connection an electrical zeal.......a zeal that is never ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
2lvsecretly 61 F
4  Articles
Going shopping during his lunch break   2/19/2007

It was one of those days for me where it seemed like nothing was going right and I had decided to call it a day and turn in early for the night. I am normally up all night as I work nights, or I was working nights untill recently. The gentlemen that I have been seeing for a few months, emailing back and forth for a few months now the sex is great always leaves me craving for more. He sends me a ...


1 Comments, 195 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_PhuckBuddy 45 M
1  Article
I think that we should only be friends   2/11/2007

How many of you guys have heard this line from a woman in your life? It's a woman way of saying she doesn't want you as a boyfriend in a nice way.
What so many guys fail to realize is that one a woman views as a friend, she will never view you as boyfriend material. I've seen so many guys invest their time in a woman that had no interest in making them their boyfriend, but strung ...


5 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
Dating Good Men That Want Great Sex   1/30/2007

Im a little confused. If you ask men what they want most in women they want to marry or date? They usally respond great sex. Some how I dont believe this. When I find a great guy and give him great sex he always thinks that I have been to sexually active or Im a slut. They dont stop to think that maybe I had an older man for many years that taught me many many things. I believe in ...


8 Comments, 331 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
funlovingco2006 70 C
1  Article
Body Hair   1/30/2007

The first time I ever visited the home of my "now husband" I was very nervous. So nervous I realized as he was running his hands up my legs that I had forgotten to shave one leg from the knee down. It became apparent to him at the same time, and we had a really good laugh. It certainly broke the ice, and what followed was the best sex I'd ever had. He'd seen me "with my pants down" ...


0 Comments, 72 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
iwantyouforsex69 30 M
1  Article
Age Difference...   1/30/2007

Now I know this question gets brought up a lot, but I wanna know people's opinions on age differences in dating. Meaning, is it ...'the bigger the age gap, the more casual the realationship' or are some gaps too big thats its simply 'wrong'.
I know it's all down to personal opinion and preference, but as I am particularly attracted to the idea of an older woman, I just wondered ...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
crossbuster 39 M
3  Articles
Why?   1/30/2007

Ok i have been in many serious relationships. I have found myself asking this question. Why do i always flee? Why cant i just be happy with someone?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
blackstar122006 46 M
10  Articles
Meeting someone for the first time   1/28/2007

Why do women make plans to meet but switch out at the last minute? I know that there are a lot of women on here that are married, or in relationshps. Be honest up front. It wont hurt. I was planning on meeting this woman a few days ago and she canceled at the last minute. the next day she told me she was married but still wanted to reschedule our date. I want to look past her lying to ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
blackstar122006 46 M
10  Articles
questions about silver and gold membership   1/28/2007

although I have gotten some response, If I purchase a package, would that actually get me more responses?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
Party Time   1/25/2007

What is the worst date you have ever had


0 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
What Do I Need To Do   1/24/2007

What does person on this site really need to do to find that someone that he is looking for?
I don't know how much success others are having seeking out someone to share some time with, but it seems that only a few are really lucky enough to eventually make contact with that special person.
Am I the only one that can't find that one special girl?
How about ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_madrid182 37 M
0  Articles
a dating story *my first article*   1/24/2007

i couldn't think of any remarkable questions or something that would make me feel a million dollars richer if i wrote it, so i thought i'd just share a story. i love storytelling so if you would *it's pretty humorous, so i'd fucking listen* gather around and i'll tell you about dating a girl that your friend said *is pretty fucking cool* and she really isn't.
Day 1- So my best ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
northcarolina727 33 F
8  Articles
how do you kno when its time to break up   1/23/2007

i just need to kno when its time to let go of a relationship that isnt goin anywhre..


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
what women want   1/18/2007

what is it that women look for first in a man when they consider dating?


5 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
pleaseGAPEmeee 28 T
5  Articles
Me and the office slut have alittle fun   1/15/2007

Now being me i was into alot of sex, but i usualy never got it. My wife was a total slut but i divorced her for cheating on me with her boss. But enough about me back to the story
I was sitting in my small cubicle. It had posters and a calender on the side. I sighed abit and leaned back in my chair. Footsteps came from my left. I turned and noticed a gorgeous women, Katie. She ...


1 Comments, 255 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
rm_checkingin3 60 M
4  Articles
thailand   1/13/2007

I don't have a story yet but I am sure I will when I get back. I am looking for any sugestions , good or bad from anyone that has been there. Thanks


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Dating.   1/10/2007

When guys are single and looking for an actual relationship, what are certain things they look for? I just want to know... I've always been curious as to what guys want and how they think.


3 Comments, 157 Views, 9 Votes ,4.49 Score
rm_Amy_Teaser 42 T
3  Articles
Older guys and girls   1/10/2007

I like to fuck older guys and girls. Sometimes I think that older people are put off from contacting younger people on here, I don’t know why. I am trying to think how to make it clear that I am looking for older and younger people. Amy xoxoxoxo


4 Comments, 243 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
rm_24funNtn 62 C
1  Article
good dating advice   1/8/2007

always meet at a public place and let a friend know where this place is, and provide a photo of the person u will be meeting!


1 Comments, 95 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
Tulsa dating   1/5/2007

So how is the dating scene in tulsa lately?


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
Sex!!! Is it everything in a relationship   1/5/2007

What do you think about this. A female friend told me, "one guy told me i was perfect but left me alone because i didnt want sex." Would you stay or go???????


1 Comments, 45 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
Can I trust you   1/5/2007

I don't trust myself most of the time. How about you??


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
youngNhard200 29 M
1  Article
interracial couples   1/5/2007

Alright so i was about to log onto SEXFinder.com when i noticed that there was also an interracial SEXFinder.com. This caught my attention as a getting together with sumone different from me has always been a bit of a fantasy. When i was on it however i found that it was exactly the same site. I was hoping to find the sexy dark goddess i had been looking for.
So i was ...


2 Comments, 139 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
allrounder102 39 M
1  Article
successful relationships   12/30/2006

as a young person who has messed up a few relationships do people think its necessary to have a few bad ones before you find the right person or is it just that after a while you realise what not to do and the right person is just when you get to a stage when you realise what not to say or do to mess it up.


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
mrroper224 39 M
1  Article
slow goin?   12/27/2006

does anyone else find it extremely difficult to not only find somebody whos interested in meeting, but also the kind of person u wanna meet?


0 Comments, 29 Views, 0 Votes
Faq's about Online dating & Online Personals sites   12/25/2006

Who uses Online Dating? Online dating was considered a little sleazy just a few years back, but things have changed. The use of online dating, online personals and matchmaker sites is growing rapidly and statistics show that these people are quite often 30+ professionals with busy lives and good educations.
What types of online dating is there ? There are thousands of online ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Coco200520062 33 M
5  Articles
subject lines   12/24/2006

What would you say is a good subject line in an initial email? I always have a hard time choosing one that will get my email read and not deleted. Any ideas? Thanks.


4 Comments, 57 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
first date   12/21/2006

my first date was great we had alot of fun we went to the movies and then i took her home and gave her a good night kiss


0 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_NE_Charlie 53 M
10  Articles
Who, what, when, where?   12/21/2006

How do you go about meeting someone you've met from SEXFinder.com?


1 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
What happens after the 2nd date?   12/16/2006

After not dating for several years, I have had the great opportunity to have meet several men on here. Two men I really connected with. Sexually and mentally. I'm not a youngster, so I know when it's mutual, the chemistry was their both times. After the 2nd date, which was just as wonderful as the first...no calls, no e-mails, no explanations. Whats with that? Have I been out of the ...


2 Comments, 110 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Coco200520062 33 M
5  Articles
Luck on here?   12/16/2006

How many people have actually had luck on here? I know it's possible, but wanted to know I much it happened? This is for girls and guys as well. Also, were you happy w/the result?


3 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
wondering what it is that shemales like the most   12/13/2006

I am a huge fan of shemales and transexuals, no I am not gay, for all the rednecks who will come to add their two cents about what they think is an outrage, what I think is an outrage is that they think they will be hurt by this article, now whos gay. But this question is adressed to all you shemales and tgirls, what is it that makes you tick, how do I become the man that appeals to you, ...


1 Comments, 104 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
MingleMe629 40 M
1  Article
Eye Candy   12/8/2006

On dating

I’ve been sleeping with a . We met in a club, I was staring her down. She was my eye candy. She liked it and approached me. We went to another room to sit and talk. She propositioned me and I said I wasn’t going to pay for sex. She informed me all the girls at this club were “like her”. Implying I wasn’t getting it for free, and said when I ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
Dating vs. Work   12/4/2006

Does anyone have any advice for a situation where there is strong mutual attraction, but both individuals are both very busy and uncertain about whether enough time will be allowed for the relationship to work?


1 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
i0youone1112 59 M
7  Articles
Let the games begin   12/2/2006

Ahhh, the dating game, if you have not been in the "GAME" in a while, things have not really changed...or have they?


0 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Txdaddy75 46 M
3  Articles
"I'm In Love With A Striper"   12/1/2006

What is it about stripers that makes us think that its a doomed relationship? Why do most of us think that its not worth even trying for to get involved with one. What is it about these people that makes us think this? I've met a few very nice ladies in this industry that were actually very wonderful people, but friends and family, once they find out what they do....forget it...lol. You ...


1 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
bicuriousblonde3 27 F
1  Article
girls for girls   11/29/2006

Its so hard to find a girl without sites like these! Whenever i go to a gay bar the only girls that i see are butch girls... or girls who just came with their gay guy friends because they wanted to be "supportive" It seems that finding girls gets harder and harder everyday! Its so hard to tell if a girl is gay when i am attracted to femme girls! ahhh i just wanted to vent about this and see ...


1 Comments, 110 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Hulllooooooooooooooooooooooooooo   11/29/2006

hi i wanna speak with fola85 cos i luv her very much and iwant us 2 be 2gether. i would be very happy if i could get her e-mail &also her telphone no 2 contact her.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes
WhyceeWilliam 62 F
4  Articles
Something is wrong with this picture   11/25/2006

I am a savy, sexy bbw who loves her sex life. I have grown college age . My has a boyfriend who lives in England. When he visits I allow them to stay in her room. My has a girlfriend and she is allowed to stay in his room. I have male friends and I feel like I have to find someplace else to have my fun? IS IT ME or am I worrying too much about how they feel? They apparently are not ...


1 Comments, 228 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Night before Chistmas!   11/24/2006

As Santa ate the cookies and milk of his stepsons and stepdaughter as he finishing loading the gifts under the tree. He was tired from this as his live in girlfriend rub his back as he was done.
He chased her off up to change to bed as he turn the light off and walk up the stairs to take a shower! His girlfriend yell in after shower please shave! He moaned and said ok!
...


0 Comments, 108 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
what type are you   11/19/2006

If you feel your ex partner has broken your heart or has treated you bad or just they dont want to be with u and u can handle that, do you aviod them and just say hello or never speak to them again and hate them or try and stay friends but not close?


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_sexandlife12 41 M
3  Articles
i like to have sex?   11/14/2006

will I get my first sex whithin 10 days after meeting a girl???? when i feel horny everytime and about her i don't know....


0 Comments, 25 Views, 0 Votes
BIGSTRONGPOLE 43 M
1  Article
who pay for the first date   11/14/2006

i always have problem stopping my lady date from paying.


0 Comments, 39 Views, 0 Votes
who you know   11/14/2006

Anyone ever dated a woman then found out she was your school teacher and she holds her age well, any other stories.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_realign02 40 M
2  Articles
I just don't get it..   11/12/2006

I came onto this site to hopefully have a some fun. I am a 23 year old male, in good shape, good looking, fairly well hung. I have probably messaged at least 20 women, and either non of them replied or they all said I was "TOO YOUNG". It's odd... the women I talk to at work said they would love be with a younger guy, yet I come on here and I'm too young for the majority. This is a SEX ...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
cunnilingusman5 63 M
8  Articles
Stuck in So. Cal. w/o a Car   11/10/2006

Recently, I started a strand in a chat room about tring to date in Southern California without a car. The responses surprisee me a little. The men were empathetic and one lady was less than understanding.
One gentleman suggested hiring a limo. That would be really classy when I obtain a better job. Of course, a taxi would be more economical. Another gentleman was very nice. He ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 0 Votes
if a girl doesnt kiss   11/8/2006

How do you break the ice if u try and kiss a girl on first date and she doesnt respond, anyone with a funny story about this.


0 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
lovelyass4u2 46 M
1  Article
free sex   11/7/2006

Who wants to fuck the best piece of ass on this planet, and get the best blow job of his life. hit me up if you want some some safe d/d free dl fun.


4 Comments, 260 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
4800direct 60 M
32  Articles
Sex Slave Germany, Sexualsklave Deutschland   11/7/2006

Hallo alle in Deutschland, ich möchte ein sein, so biete ich mich als ein Sexualsklave Frauen, die meine Herrin sein möchten oder ein Mann, der mein Master sein möchte.
es gibt nur einen Wunsch, den ich habe, und das ist, wenn es einen Mann gibt, der mein Master dann sein möchte, muss er eine Frau haben, die an allen Tätigkeiten teilnehmen wird!
als ein Sexualsklave ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
dating   11/4/2006

I hate first dates, how can you get around them?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
MRGOODTONGUE3003 34 M
1  Article
WHY IS IT   11/2/2006

WHY IS IT WHEN U GO DOWN ON A WOMEN AND EAT HER OUT AND MAKE HER CUM SHE WANTS U TO STOP SUCKING ON THE CLIT I DONT GET IT BECAUSE WHEN THEY USE THERE TOY THEY KEEP IT ON THE CLIT


0 Comments, 62 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
israelit2003 66 F
18  Articles
Free speach and the right to express that on all dating sites   11/2/2006

Free speach and the right to express that on dating sites There are endless on line dating sites to choose from, but most treat sexual expression as something that should not be allowed even as little as to be typed, Why? It strikes me funny that when it comes to post our profile on most dating sites as consenting adults we are monitored and watched for any expression of sexual content ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
crazydavid242 36 M
6  Articles
How to aproach?   11/1/2006

Ok so there is this girl...yes she is hot...I don't really have a reason to go see her but we go to the same school and she comes to my work sometimes. We always talk when we see each other and tonight she was adamant about telling me where she would be if I were to look for her at school (Yes I go to college) I'm 27 not 17...So do I go see her at school or do i just wait for her to come ...


0 Comments, 55 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
rm_roadman_7 39 M
2  Articles
dating 0104320004   10/30/2006

hello till now i didn't find her but i hope that soon i can find her 0104320004 call me or send me on roadman_7 at hotmal am omar from egypt-cairo-heliopolis am 22


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Mason7171 36 M
1  Article
attempts   10/29/2006

just wondering on what are some of the dumdest pick up lines you have heard


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
BlackBraddPitt 38 M
0  Articles
30 and single with no    10/27/2006

Is it cool to be 30 years old, single and no in Chicago, Illinois? I don't know but I am on this boat.
I don't understand what to do in this big city to find a respectable woman around my age with no and is looking for someone like me. I have tried bars, churches, libraries and SEXFinder.com.
What do you recommend?


1 Comments, 43 Views, 0 Votes
red_bone_xxx 39 M
8  Articles
online dating vs. real life..   10/27/2006

Ahh the joys of dating..Its not everyday you can fine your true love or someone compatible with your congested life..Has online love become the new thing of our age or is real life dating to difficult for people to bear.?? Disappointments, waste of time, lack of knowledge on the person or just plain shyness and fEar????...I think we have become so comfortable ...


3 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_Adelman50 69 M
1  Article
Starting off again   10/24/2006

As I am a mature aged male 51 in fact I am hoping that I won't be igonred as too old??


1 Comments, 30 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
getitwet2284 31 M
2  Articles
how to act on a first date   10/23/2006

so i know we have all been throught this. But on the first date are u to act yourself or tryand impress your date to get another date.. what is your opinion


1 Comments, 44 Views, 0 Votes
RomanS1969 46 M
2  Articles
Why is dating 2 women at a time so hard?   10/23/2006

I would love to hear your opinion on the logistics, the feelings, and all the rest. Thanks


0 Comments, 82 Views, 4 Votes
Thickdick212006 30 M
2  Articles
hey i know this page about dating but .........   10/23/2006

i have a question what is important the dick size or a guy that can use his dick plz all leave a comment


2 Comments, 112 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Be Aware of What's Going Around You !   10/20/2006

This happened when I was dating my first wife. In Beaumont, Tx back in the sixties (before and after) people would go "parking" in the boonies. The boonies were secluded areas off some of the country roads where oil drilling had been done and a wellhead was put in place. There were ideal places to be "alone" because they were a graveled cul-du-sac so you could turn around and didn't get ...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
I wonder if ................   10/18/2006

Everybody know why we are in here, but........... would you jump on her/him bed just because she/he says "I love your picture, let's have fun tonight!!!", without knowing her/him yet????.
I am not 16 anymore, so I don't take too long to do that if I really like her, but LORD!!! I think that first we need to get to know each other, I am not a hahaha.


1 Comments, 79 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
killakelli 124 M
5  Articles
Tips! :)   10/18/2006

Hold her hand in public.
Kiss her like you mean it.
Tell her how wonderful she is.
Be her best friend.
Love not only her perfections, but also her imperfections.
Make her smile.
Never tell her she is hot, only beautiful.
Open the car door.
Pull out chairs.
Surprise her with flowers just because it's Monday.
...


3 Comments, 138 Views, 16 Votes ,6.95 Score
klchinesecouple_ 43 C
4  Articles
Help needed   10/17/2006

Any girls in Kuala Lumpur would wanna join us for 3somes? klchinesecouple at ya h00 Hear from you soon!


2 Comments, 105 Views, 1 Votes
killakelli 124 M
5  Articles
To the fellas   10/17/2006

Fella's,
For god sake, listen closely to my words and follow them!! What do you bitch about the most in your life? "Why are all the hott girls bitches?" youll sit there and cry about this shit for a long period of time, but why not suck it up and do something about it?! It's time to make that stand fella's...
The reason that all the hott girls are so bitchy and ...


1 Comments, 152 Views, 5 Votes ,5.75 Score
biallentown 63 M
1  Article
Why do we lie?   10/16/2006

In bio I state that I am bisexual. My question is why do straight guys emial me or wink at me? When I write back and ask them why a straight guy is winking, they say that they are into guys too, or are curious. Why don't they then state that in their bio? If you are on a sex site and are somewhat assured of anonmyity, why can't you be honest and not waste your, or my, time? Maybe I am too ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
how to get found on here !   10/15/2006

Well I live in the boonies near a small town and not very many peaple are on SEXFinder.com do how do you get looked at ? Ok so what is it I need to do I wonder? Dose any members know !


0 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_allthatazz2 39 F
1  Article
What are you on here for?   10/15/2006

What are you on her for? Are you on here for an erotic fantasy? Are you on here for love romance? Are you on here for opportunity. Or could you just be having fun? Are you bi-sexual? Are you completely a lesbian? Are you a gold or a silver member? Are you a male or female? Do you have a man do you have a woman? Are you interested in one or two sex partners? Well, ...


5 Comments, 107 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
question for the ladies?   10/14/2006

ladies, i would like to know, what you consider the top five things that would either turn you on, or really make you interested in a guy on a first date. something he might do, or say, can you give me some help???



also, i would like to know what you consider the top five things that would turn you off in regard to a guy on the first date, something he ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 0 Votes
rm__seth01 49 M
6  Articles
Is this correct?   10/13/2006

now as i rcv email from gurls taht would want to be with me i straight ask.. is sex acceptable on first meet? well i do not want to waste time.. what would gurls feel?


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
MortimerTim 62 M
1  Article
The Things you do for the ladies.   10/12/2006

Once I did something crazy at a party in the desert out in the middle of nowhere in Arizona. Somewhere around Phoenix. Lots of people there. It was a birthday party for this redhead who is very sexy and very hot. I forgot her name due to it was about 10 years ago. I knew her off and on but not that well. I was getting a little drunk but not to drunk that I was stumbling. Ours eyes met now ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
dating   10/11/2006

Is it hard or easy to get back in the dating scene after you have had a long relationship with someone else?Do dating get easier or harder after after that/


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
The best way   10/10/2006

What is the best way to talk to a woman and try to get her to go out with you.Ladies please give us your take on this....


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
rm_shyness2469 43 M
2  Articles
it sucks   10/10/2006

Relationships are the devil


0 Comments, 36 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
rm_blackmeat04 37 M
10  Articles
breaking up   10/9/2006

what is the best way to break up with your spouse if you have lost intrest in them.


3 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
rm_assman01968 55 M
1  Article
Masterbation   10/8/2006

Dating is a lot of work. Why go thru the hassle when playing with yourself is so fulfilling and safe?...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
sunilup777 46 M
11  Articles
tell me some dating fundas   10/7/2006

what are dating fundas can u update me on this please, I m very confused.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
Over 50   10/7/2006

As I turned 50 I notice that while I am still able to have sex, not as many things turn me on. I found that I had more fun pleaseing than being pleased. Could be a ego thing but I really feel as I get older I am less sexually selfish and try harder to think of the other person. Unfortunatly there are fewer and fewer women that want to take a chance with an "older" man. I think they are ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
jst4yourfun73 51 M
5  Articles
Breastplay   10/7/2006

I havent had it in awhile, but I really miss it. My wife wouldnt alow me anywhere near her breasts with our last because her breasts have always been tender, more so when engorged. But my friend mentioned me loving to be breastfed to his lactating wife just before I left for Iraq in Dec of 03. And they gave me a going away present by letting me suck on her breasts. I was a little weirded ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 0 Votes
honeycurious05 33 F
2  Articles
Should a guy or a girl always have a back up person when they're dating?   10/3/2006

I'm curious to hear others opinion. I myself find it necessary because if things don't work out at least you still have someone to blow your back if you need it.


2 Comments, 83 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
rm_Mdfuerter 57 M
1  Article
ME and US!!   10/3/2006

Just looking for a goo and wholesome sexual woman.


0 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
getting with a married couple.   9/29/2006

this was someone that I had met here on SEXFinder.com. we had talked a couple of weeks back and forth and then this couple invited me over to their place to see if we might like to get it on together. i arrived and we introduced ourselves. then we sat down and did the usual chit chat, he had told me that she was shy before she came into the room and if she wanted to take me to bed she would just ...


0 Comments, 419 Views, 11 Votes ,5.78 Score
freddymale22 41 M
1  Article
Dating and sex   9/28/2006

Hey guys and gals! It seems everyone has different ideas about when it is acceptable to have sex with a new partner and I just wanted to find out what the general concensus from people on here is. I know personally I have had sex on the first date but I would prefer not too if it is someone that I really think I would like to develop a relationship with. I would like to take the time to ...


5 Comments, 94 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
bc209670 36 M
11  Articles
a word to the all powerful   9/23/2006

One thing I've learned in my short life is that when it comes to sexual relations women truly do have most of the control. As a man it is up to me to show whether through looks or words that I'm fortunate enough. The thing that gets me is the pure contradiction from woman to woman. A thing one might like could be totally different for the next. I'm just curious how it feels for you. ...


2 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
goldstar_cpl 59 C
8  Articles
daiting game   9/21/2006

well i dont know about you guy but we find it hard to find a bisexuel female single in our area what u guys think in your parts of the world


1 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
aimfacedbythrice 28 M
1  Article
Interracial   9/20/2006

Just wondering if any of you happen to have the significant other leave for a person of the other race and then somehow it affected your view of that race.


2 Comments, 50 Views, 0 Votes
nymphoforlife86 28 M
9  Articles
meeting online? how genuine is it??   9/18/2006

iv had some good experiences here on SEXFinder.com with some genuine people, but there are some people who seem to feel like they have to lie about things to impress, and lie about things in general. It is obvious when someone is not telling the truth, and obvious when someone is genuine, and truthful about themselves, just wanted to know if anyone else has had similiar experiences


0 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_slut4camuse 31 F
3  Articles
Out of the blue   9/14/2006

i was in town and a guy walked up to me and asked me if i was single. now i am not very outgoing and i was kinda surprised. i tend to sort of freeze up. anyway he asked me if i wanted to go get coffee. i had to meet someone and told him that. he did seem very nice and he gave me his name and number.
i am trying to decide if i should call him. on one hand i am really ...


2 Comments, 258 Views, 9 Votes ,5.35 Score
rm_famousst1 65 M
1  Article
first date   9/12/2006

as a guy who has been married for 24 yrs. i find that getting your first date is almost impossible. women today are different than when i was younger. the language they use is unbelievable. i dont know wheither to cuss and use nasty words or be nice. for example i can write a lady on here a nice letter. and she wont respond. yet i can write her another letter and use dirty words. bang i get ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_0105700369 50 C
6  Articles
where to go in firest date   9/11/2006

I attended your seminar a few months ago and have almost all of your materials (guys you've got to get the interview series, it'll blow you away, and is VERY affordable). I am finally starting to "get it." Here's an example: I recently met a girl online (she responded to my personal ad) and we got together a few evenings ago. She stayed the whole evening and after some verbal ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
sweetguygoodtim1 33 M
4  Articles
really   9/10/2006

good


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
bubb4363 56 M
6  Articles
interracial dating   9/8/2006

what do you think about interracial dating, and would you ever become involved with a partner of a different race.


9 Comments, 243 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
rm_0105700369 50 C
6  Articles
what if the woman doesn't call back   9/8/2006

Dave:
I'm sure there are a lot of guys out there that would like your input on this question.
There is something that I haven't seen addressed in your mailbag or your e-book and that is what to do when the woman you've have e-mailed or called didn't reply to the e-mail or phone call and you see them again. Two personal examples:
Example one:
I ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
JonDean01 42 M
3  Articles
Feel bad for not speaking the language.   9/1/2006

I work in Padova, Italy, Monday to Friday, I am a single male looking to meet a nice lady for adult fun or just flirting, however I cannot speak Italian so it makes it quite hard. I feel embaressed for not being able to speak the language, I make the effort but my language skills are very poor. Do Italian women feel offended if I cannot speak english? Do they find the British men ...


0 Comments, 4 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Blind dates   8/30/2006

What's wrong with meeting someone on a blind date? Most people on these web sites don't have pictures, but still want to meet people. And there's a lot of meeting wanting to go on. So what's wrong with doing a meet and greet in a public place. Are we that bad at being adults that we can't even do that.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rednekhubby 46 M
10  Articles
what can a guy do to get more hits on his SEXFinder.com acount   8/29/2006

why can i do to get more hits on here. i want more people to view me but not sure how.


0 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_lifeballa 35 M
1  Article
I really need YOUR opinion....   8/29/2006

Ok so ive been on this site for a while now and cant seem to get any responses... So im extremely curious now am i a good, decent, or a striaght out ugly guy... haha please input ppl and be brutaly honest... =)


2 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
why lie?   8/27/2006

Hello,
I've always wondered since joining here why there seems to be so many profiles that have at best inaccurate information about the person, or down right lies.
Naturally, when writing a profile the whole truth is never going to be added, as most people would like some degree on anonimity, but in terms of actually trying to find people you are interested, I'm ...


1 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_blakkhamma 46 M
5  Articles
How to Overcome online dating Problems....my version   8/26/2006

t is exciting to meet in real life someone you have only met at an online dating service. However, you must practice cautionary measures so as to avoid having problems. The following are some guidelines to worry-free dating.
1. When meeting, do make arrangements first. Since you barely know the person, do not let them meet you at your home.
2. Meet in public places. If it ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_blakkhamma 46 M
5  Articles
Solving Dating Problems   8/26/2006

Do you have a good friend or family member that you can talk to? If so, tell them your problems and listen to them. No, I mean really listen to them. Listen to what they have probably already been telling you. Get a confirmation from one or more people if you can, and take a moment to see things from their perspective.
Do you enjoy your home, your work, and what you do for fun? ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes
rm_blakkhamma 46 M
5  Articles
Not good stuff   8/26/2006

I really enjoy going to Vegas and Laughlin once a year for vacation. Last year because of conflicting scheduals, jobs, and so forth I couldnt find a lady to go with me so I went alone wich wasnt my ideal but I really needed to get out of the snow for a while. On about my third day or so the telephone in my hotel room rings and a really sexy sounding girl says "Hi! Im Sally and Im just ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
fingding the right one   8/21/2006

How do you go about asking a lady if she is bi-curious for future fun when asking women out?


0 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_utbogie 38 M
4  Articles
does age matter   8/17/2006

does teh age difference between two people really matter?


3 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Winterzknight 46 M
8  Articles
Online dating checklist   8/16/2006

So you've met that great new person, gotten to know them, and think you're ready for that first meeting/date.
Have you put together a checklist of things to do, or take care of, before that big night? Of course not. Why? Because it probably sounds like the dumbest idea ever. Could be, however, it might also save you time, effort and keep you looking suave and collected.
...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
qwd   8/3/2006

members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, SEXFinder.com's Terms of Use must be observed. If you see material that is inappropriate


0 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
how to seduce woman   8/1/2006

What is your best way to seduce woman?


1 Comments, 194 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
peachez_w_cream2 46 C
19  Articles
first date   7/28/2006

would you sleep with your partner on the first date if so why


2 Comments, 129 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ncsuguy4w 29 M
2  Articles
older women and younger men   7/27/2006

id like to hear from older women who like younger men and why they like them


0 Comments, 78 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
ncsuguy4w 29 M
2  Articles
older women and younger men   7/27/2006

id like to hear from older women who like younger men and why they like them


0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes
donny0094 44 M
3  Articles
does this really work   7/26/2006

does this site really work or am i going to be at home playing with myself , and not with others


0 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
rm_ssonofsam 59 M
1  Article
what if ?   7/25/2006

what if you are dating a girl and she wants to have sex on her monthy


1 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_adamhannah 60 M
1  Article
big hansome men   7/22/2006

it is a sad fact that most people only look at the cover & never take the time to find out about the inside , just passing it off as not right 4 them . having been large most of my life i have allways put my size to one side & used my natural ability when it comes to dating not just looking & deciding at 1st glance that the shape is all that matters , i find that most large bhm/bbw are ...


0 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
beyondsecrets2 56 F
1  Article
WHY IS DATING SO HARD THESE DAYS?   7/21/2006

IT WOULD SEEM NO ONE WANTS TO GO OUT ON A DATE ANYMORE. Seems everyone wants to stay on the comp. now a days and just chat and play. IS THAT REALLY SATISFYING TO YOU GUYS WHO DO THIS?


0 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
How many is 2 many?   7/20/2006

When you meet eye 2 eye and things click. How many is 2 many?


0 Comments, 234 Views, 8 Votes
Ixnay206 43 M
9  Articles
Sex to Dating   7/19/2006

A friend and I have entered a discussion and are looking for answers! How many people on SEXFinder.com have met someone strictly for sex, but ended up dating or moving on to a bigger relationship?


0 Comments, 62 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
comfortable   7/19/2006

Whats more comfortable a nice resturant or is that letting a woman know you have money or some where you can both laugh and enjoy each other


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_Jesse__7 43 M
1  Article
long distance   7/18/2006

in my opinion it doesnt really work. however i find myself in a long distance relationship with a girl ive only known four months!
about a month ago we moved apart and decided to stay together and try to make it work. Im content as of now. but i find myself on this site more and more, looking at other chicks and wondering. wondering if this is kinda like cheating, and questioning ...


2 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
zebra299 64 M
8  Articles
Love at first site!   7/15/2006

I was just in Las Vegas, NV recently and was waiting for a plane when a cute blonde walk up and sat next to me. She was a nurse and was so good looking in I think 30 inch waist in her jeans. Her breast was 38c I looked she wanted me to see. She gave me her cell number and she told me she was from my state. She gave me a wink with her blue eyes and rub my leg as she boaded another plane. ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_MAGALIZ 44 F
1  Article
Anal fucking   7/14/2006

Actualy i would have always say no thank for an anal fuck until the day i got it with the right person....... he had a nice lovely long n thick dick...... goodness when it was inside though it was dificult to get in but afterward Guys it was real good.... I couldnt help myself of crying loudly of enjoyment, pain it was mixed feeling ........... he knew how to play while he was inside and ...


3 Comments, 565 Views, 18 Votes ,6.13 Score
hornygarda 37 M
2  Articles
Why   7/9/2006

Why is it that the persons you like do not want to be more then friends with you, and the persons you only want to be friends with want more? That is something that has happened to me several times.


1 Comments, 94 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
The "Love Connection" of the '90's   7/7/2006

Gather your rosebuds out there, in the real world while you may, because tomorrow they will be dying!
It's so easy to think about, and indeed wish for Love! We will all admit that it is a wonderful and necessary thing, yet who here agrees on just what it is. Not I, so I'm going to concentrate on the easy question.
I never did like the concept of “computer ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
aimtoplease811 50 M
2  Articles
rejection   7/6/2006

do u ever feel rejected when there are so many women on here but no one is interested and dont give me any bullshit from you self named studds. is it better to be ignored or rejected ?


2 Comments, 135 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
tonguerides61 54 M
1  Article
Who knows!!!   7/6/2006

Who knows? Whens the appropriete time for all the firsts in a relationship.First kiss first squeeze of a breast , oral experiance with someone. I find myself single again at 45 and its really hard to decide whats acceptable. Does anyone have any comments?


0 Comments, 27 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
mightystick54 63 M
10  Articles
Starting of dating point.   7/5/2006

I know a 37 year old woman for more than 10 years.I believe simple aqaintance without sexual intentions has nothing to do with dating.Her husband deserted her five years back and she is living alone.Since she is well settled in life and has economic independence desertion by her husband has no relevance as much as her lively hood is concerned.But she lost company of a male.Her mother openly ...


0 Comments, 126 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_bula272 37 M
1  Article
Shemales   7/5/2006

If there is any shemales in the lubbock area that want to have a good time please contact me at 806-773-4401
Ask for smith


1 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes
Hopeless hooked....   7/4/2006

It was a leisurely afternoon. I met a beautiful, sexy 19 yr.old blonde/blue eye (she is absolutely gorgeous!!!! -and those eyes…I can swim in them forever….)..... The weather outside was cool, and it was raining so we dashed inside her car... We looked at each other and smiled. We chatted for a while... Then something happened. She leaned towards me... I cupped her face and ...


1 Comments, 126 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score