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what should u do ?   8/18/2013

on first date should u have sex


0 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes
hotboy8900408219 38 M
1  Article
LADY CALL ME ENJOY SEX SECRATLY   8/8/2013

hi....any lady any age want to enjoy sex secratly?just call and purchase me.i will give u all satispaction but secratly.beacouse secracy is our spasilaty.so dont think just call me 8900408219, raj , 25 boy. dont call any man.only for ladis....any lady travelar can call me for sex with travel.place-digha, sankarpur, tajpur, moNderbone, west bengal , india


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
hard going   8/4/2013

am i the only guy on here you finds it hard work with some of the women on here? i might be wrong, but the odds are in the woman's favor at receiving messages, and then when they do reply it seems all one way! rant over, will keep looking for that something special....


2 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
CO_adventures 37 M
6  Articles
Actual dating   7/21/2013

Yes, it can and does happen from this site. I personally have had it once, started dating and didn't even fool around for a while. but eventually it boiled down to the fact that all we had was having fun and great sex. Which worked for a while, it was while we were both in grad school, but there was no future. So, be sure to know the difference between lust and love, though both can be great!


0 Comments, 34 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
Iamforreal10 63 M
10  Articles
why is it so hard for a cross dresser to find a date   6/28/2013

I've been a cross dresser all my life and love going out. but I never seem to be able to find a date. everyone chichens out at the last minute. I sit at clubs and no one even talks to me. I know I am not real passablebut I don't think I look that bad. what am I doing wrong?


0 Comments, 40 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
vickyggn22 35 M
10  Articles
How to date with a stranger women?   6/27/2013

How to date with a stranger women?


3 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Irishlovetoy 37 M
10  Articles
Why is it so frustrating?   6/26/2013

What makes it so frustrating to find a person worth dating? Is it because you are judging them against that one person that you had at one time? Or maybe it is just the fact that you can't see who you really are and how you are treating the people around you? Here is what I want to know. Does anyone have a good answer for this?


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
girl   6/17/2013

nice boy


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
girl   6/17/2013

nice boy


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
rm_amreslan 36 M
1  Article
a date out of my ....   6/10/2013

I will say, I once went out with a female who told me as we played pool that she could lift me in a sort of bench press, and later proved it. Beautiful woman, too. Like me then, she drank wildly. I slept with her on the first date, because everything felt right and she seemed so taken with the fact that I said she was "out of my league." If you'd asked me that night, I would have said she was ...


0 Comments, 60 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
honey_mathura 41 M
2  Articles
Virginity V/S money   6/8/2013

any Girl want to sell her virginity can sell here. It is a good and the best deal.


0 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
dukeofsexology 31 M
1  Article
verbal ice break   5/11/2013

this is for guys who want to get women in clubs or bars.

1. walk in, check the time, and give your self 5 minutes to walk around and locate the ladies that attract you. 2. locate the bar and get a drink 3. establish eye contact with the target and keep a hint of smile on your face. if eye contact is kept, use a small hand gesture to signal that you notice the target. 4. if no eye contact ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
donovan19703 30 M
3  Articles
WHY?   5/4/2013

Why is it that women say that want a nice guy who will treat them right but in all reality they want a big dick or a guy with a lot of money.


2 Comments, 51 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
1patientstallion 46 M
10  Articles
Be Honest with yourself   4/23/2013

The only way out is being true to your own self and ultimately the other person will feel you that indeed you are being truthful. Very important that you treasure every moment with authenticity, its easier for us humans to tell when someone is not being honest.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
hollabhaby1988 35 LC
2  Articles
5 Tips To Help You Find A Serious Relationship Online   4/9/2013

Have you been online dating for a long time and just can’t seem to keep a man interested for more than a few weeks at a time? If this is the case for you, do not worry; you are far from alone in having this problem. One of the most difficult parts of meeting men online is that men have access to hundreds of women every single time they sign on the computer. Not only does this create way too ...


4 Comments, 72 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
BCNjovencito69 36 M
1  Article
Sex in Spain   4/7/2013

abro una discusion para charlar.

gente: chicos/chicas/parejas:

es factible esta pagina para encontrar gente en ESPAÑA? yo eh encontrado un par de chicas. muy majas por cierto aqui. pero es bastante dificil encontrar sin ser Gold. algun consejo?

tambien podemos hacer un Censo de españoles en SEXFinder.com

un saludo
...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
devilblueeyes76 40 F
2  Articles
Top 10: First Date Ideas   3/31/2013

No.9 Hiking Exploring the great outdoors and getting some physical activity is a terrific first date idea, provided your date is up to the task. You need to check first to ensure that she’s the outdoorsy type. A high-maintenance woman does not want to go on a hike (you know, that martini-sipping girl with the perfectly manicured nails probably isn’t up for it). But for the cute surfer girl ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
Georgia Tbilisi   3/29/2013

Is someone here from Georgia ? (nots statem country)


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
niloy0009 26 M
12  Articles
need to have sex.....shunno ek shat ek choy dui pach dui ek ut pach...ei numbr   3/27/2013

i like to have date with a young beautiful, sexy woman and she must be interested about me....i will enjoy her and she will enjoy me...if any girl wants this then knock me.


0 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
One from my blog: Today's Winner #41   3/26/2013

So this guy IMed me the other day. The names have been changed to protect the innocent:

Guy 41: hello baby Guy 41: how u doing Guy 41: u there VD: hi, i'm ok Guy 41: name is thomas 53 italian m ohio VD: ok Guy 41: iam 6ft 197 black hair br eyes very romantic VD: ok Guy 41: u single [COLOR ...


4 Comments, 122 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
What's the best place to take a date from SEXFinder.com?   3/17/2013

something simple, casual is my opinion.


7 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_Hurricano82 36 M
10  Articles
Staying confident!   3/10/2013

This week I read a post saying "trust is like a rubber, it goes smaller with each mistake". Now might as well just be one of those phrases people use all the time without really thinking about it but it does make a point about your ego, confidence and your trial/error success.

Well you could say do not make mistakes, then your confidence will be high, but noone has a 100% mistake free ...


2 Comments, 32 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
scrappyzohan69 29 M
2  Articles
who travels to hope   3/7/2013

i am new to all this and i dont have a membership. i cant mssg anyone or read mssgs but this article thing works. i want to find someone who would like to text and than meet up.

who wants to text?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
fun988882182four 29 M
1  Article
fun   3/1/2013

dating is the part of life. every body like dating but nobody say its the ture part of life


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
How toTotally Sexually Satisfy Your New Boyfriend or Girlfriend Yet Keeping Them Hungry for More   2/2/2013

When I was younger, Annie had a rule, no sex on the first day, kissing, hot kissing yes, but no tittie play (not even through the clothing) and certainly no playing below the waist.

We're all (well most of us) adults now and well, if you hit it off, first night heavy petting is pretty darn cool...which keeps the guy or girl coming back at least for the second? Right?

Well, now, ...


6 Comments, 190 Views, 30 Votes ,4.02 Score
how to take it ahead   1/29/2013

i met this girl and now all i can think of is sleeping with her, and i made it quite clear to her from the start....but she dismisses me on the sex talk, but does not end it either!!

this is a new one for me..


2 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_FoxMichael02 44 M
3  Articles
confused   1/19/2013

I saw an ex-girlfriend today, just as friends. (I have stayed on good terms with most of my ex-girlfriends.) We had both previously agreed that neither of us intended to try dating each other again. Though, apparently, she still has feelings for me. I think it surprised her as well. I think next time I see her I will reaffirm that I do not intend to make any commitments to her. This ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
baikinman1978 45 M
1  Article
FUN   1/1/2013

Is it good just to say you want sex straight away on the first date to cut to the chase?


0 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
vishwapat 32 M
10  Articles
Looking To Date Again After Recovering From a Recent Breakup   12/23/2012

If you are looking to date again after recovering from a recent breakup, then there are a few things to keep in mind. It can be difficult to go through a breakup and then try to find somebody new. This is something that is going to be painful and difficult to do unless you understand how to allow yourself to heal and get yourself emotionally on the right track.

Rebound Date ...


1 Comments, 37 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
vishwapat 32 M
10  Articles
An Easy Way to Ask For a Girl’s Number   12/23/2012

There are a few easy ways that you can ask for a girl’s number. You will find that whenever you like a girl and want to get to know her better that it can be incredibly difficult to portray these feelings without coming across desperate or like you are crazy. Make sure that you understand how to talk to a girl and how to approach her before you attempt to even get her phone number.

B...


0 Comments, 50 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
vishwapat 32 M
10  Articles
How to Pick Up Stunning Women   12/23/2012

A lot of people find themselves wondering how to pick up stunning women. This is something that can be incredibly stressful and difficult to do if you do not know how to approach the situation. Make sure that you take the time to understand that while these women are beautiful they are just another human being just like yourself. Try not to put them up on a pedestal as this can end up with them ...


1 Comments, 62 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
vishwapat 32 M
10  Articles
10 fascinating flirting facts   12/23/2012

So you’ve mastered the art of eye contact and can beckon a romantic prospect with just a few coy glances… but do you really know all there is to know about the fine art of flirting? Just to make sure you’re up to speed, we culled some very surprising information that you can use to your advantage. Read on for some juicy tidbits that may up your meet-cute quotient in no time.

1. ...


1 Comments, 70 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
Rocky007895 32 M
1  Article
Yahh True   12/22/2012

Speak the truth with your girlfriend and don't be an ass to lie about things. Truth goes further and that means your girlfriend has faith in you. Which in turn should give you more of an opportunity to keep the pussy loving coming


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
luvgunn27 38 M
10  Articles
how long would you wait for sex   12/21/2012

How long is too long when dating. Everyone has their rule so whats yours...personally I dont like to wait very long


1 Comments, 39 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
out of it   12/16/2012

I have no idea how to talk to the ladies i would like to meet ..its been 20 yrs since ive been on a date Oh my


1 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Out of touch   12/15/2012

Havent dated in years, just came out of a 21 yr relationship and havent a clue how to or what to say to hook up...jeezz


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
rm_correction66 47 M
1  Article
Are all woman bi sexual   12/12/2012

Are all woman bi sexual .I have found woman spend more time looking at each other as if there sexy .i think given the chance they would all have a go at each other .


5 Comments, 62 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
stronghardcock64 31 M
3  Articles
first dates   12/3/2012

are there any limits to a first date as far as anythng is concerned??, in my opinion a no limits first date is tha start to a great dating life the chemistry is there and it shows hw adventurous tha couple is


1 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
heavenlyangel143 43 F
2  Articles
cant make mind up   11/28/2012

I had a FWB for about a year and u can c that there was feelings that were starting to come on, but for him he didnt want to make a comitment. So with that since we r not in a relationship ONLY FRIENDS as he says I CAN DO WHAT I WANT...But he flips out when i go out or if i met a man and go on a date. but why should he were not together and he bsaid to go out he doesnt care. What r ur views on ...


8 Comments, 151 Views, 24 Votes ,4.15 Score
dcrel123 42 M
10  Articles
Blind DATE   11/24/2012

Is blind date a better thing then the normal date? whts ur experience tells u?


2 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
prod1013 35 M
11  Articles
Just dating...   11/22/2012

So what exactly does just dating mean? Does it mean that if you happen to find the love of your life that you can't persue a relationship because you are just dating? I'm confused...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
9998788666 32 M
9  Articles
i went female,,,,   11/21/2012

i went female , coz, , i go with full night sex


3 Comments, 42 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
9998788666 32 M
9  Articles
call me for dating   11/11/2012

call me for dating, , only for gujrat (indai), ,, ,, ,, ,


3 Comments, 58 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
WAITING PERIOD   10/30/2012

Ok here the deal. Been Dating a girl for about six months. Sex is good, we get along but somethings not right. She lives with her mom, that hasnt been a problem. Her mom is fantastic.We actually spend alot of time at the house. A cpl more weeks go by. I am losing interest and I finally figured it out. I was preoccupied with the relationship I had with her mom. Well after ...


3 Comments, 90 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
portorchardcoup 57 C
4  Articles
Sisters   10/29/2012

Ok your dating this girl and you lose interest after a few months. When you realize you lost interest because you want to date her sister. Is there a time limit you should wait to ask her out. Or you can never ask her out, its just bad form


3 Comments, 100 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
LioldyfrPasedena 87 F
13  Articles
When   10/19/2012

When are you gonna ask me?


6 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
valleyboredom209 39 M
0  Articles
what not to do on a date...   10/17/2012

1.Belch, fart, pick your nose, spit, eat with your mouth open, and chew gum. 2.Get drunk or so tipsy that you can't talk coherently or stand! Women need to be especially careful, as you need to be able to know that decisions you make at this time are the same as those you'd have made sober and by that I mean consenting to sex. Take responsibility for yourself and make sure you don't drink alcohol ...


3 Comments, 24 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_AtletoRubio 36 M
3  Articles
Cualquier españoles aquí?   10/4/2012

Las muchachas mexicanas calientes leyendo esto? ¿Crees que se puede encontrar a una chica que me gusta de este sitio con este cuerpo mío? Aunque tenga un sabor especial?


1 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
rm_AtletoRubio 36 M
3  Articles
With this body would I find a girl I like from this site?   10/4/2012

What do you think? Even if I have as special taste, would you think I can find a girl that I like from this site with this body I have?


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
mike4fun93 30 M
1  Article
bghhck   9/25/2012

jksljfadsklasjkdfsljafdskldafjkadfjdfakljdafjlkadfjljlkdfasjlkdfasjdfasjdfdfsdfsaasdfdfsdsfdsfdfd


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
rm_maybehottie6 27 M
10  Articles
dates   9/23/2012

well dating can be fun but just always remember to protect urself


4 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
What things to do on date?   9/10/2012

Shoukd we ask for sex on 1st dating?


1 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_wolfs_dick 33 M
7  Articles
Dating with dashing dudes   9/9/2012

The dating is an advance method to know each other. people like to know and have their intrests shared. Girls do it for the sake of money and some times insearch of ture partner and Guys like it to have sex or sometimes creat a good relations , in the world dating is done through many methods like wise email , phone , and physically meeting with each other. all the stuff regarding dating is that ...


0 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
annie444u 52 C
135  Articles
Sex on the Beach 7 (Shayla and Me in the Public Park)   8/31/2012

Two pairs of hot lips sucking on my enormous pink nipples awakened me from a deep slumber. A dozen margaritas, a wonderful seafood dinner and four hours of lovemaking with my husband caused me to fall into a deep, deep slumber.

Slowly, I opened my eyes and saw Shayla naked in the bed beside me, her hands holding my succullent left breast. Next to me on my right was my loving husband ...


1 Comments, 120 Views, 16 Votes ,4.60 Score
Older men and younger women   8/30/2012

For the past 5 years or so I have found that I like gals younger than I am with a few exceptions. The age difference has been as much as 25 years but it seems that most folks still look down on that. How young is too young for a man in his 50's? (keeping in mind they have to be over 21)


1 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
shytownnympho 29 M
1  Article
Three Great Reasons for Older Women to Date Younger Guys   8/26/2012

An younger man/older woman relationship can present a number of surprises and challenges. Despite the challenges, several benefits and exciting opportunities come along with older women dating younger men. By knowing some of the reasons that men search for older women and vice versa, you can better understand how one of these relationships can be successful. You might even want to try it ...


0 Comments, 87 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
DATE   8/17/2012

Where to begin? First lets start with the blind date. My best friend met a guy and he wanted to take her out. She was afraid to go by herself, so we decided to double date (he brought a friend). We decided to meet the guys at Ruby Tuesdays. By the time they finally arrived (30 min late) they said they didn't like Ruby Tuesdays and wanted to go to TGIF's. So we followed them in their BMW as I ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
hardone994 42 M
1  Article
ass or tits   8/12/2012

which do guys prefer ass or tits


4 Comments, 51 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
rm_NE12Blowme 41 M
2  Articles
recipe for disaster   7/22/2012

First of all you live in a area where it impossible to get in discreetly. So the whole neighborhood is aware of what is going on. That would not be so bad except last week you tried to invite that straight guy a few doors down. So I am on edge before I even get to the door. So you invite me in and I get hit with this smell I cannot identify. I look around and cannot tell if you tried to clean up ...


0 Comments, 49 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Have you met your significant other from SEXFinder.com?   7/13/2012

As the title implies, have you had any luck finding your partner from this site or do you mainly use it to fulfill physical needs?


2 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
sonu86sonu1 31 M
15  Articles
Advantages of Online Dating   7/9/2012

Many people are now turning to online dating to find their partners. This is a method that is considered to be much easier hence it has attracted large numbers of people who have not been lucky enough to find partners they can term as ideal. It is also a method of dating that has proved to be helpful even for people who are too busy in their work that it is hard for them to go ...


2 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
jadboy501 31 M
1  Article
dating   7/7/2012

get tips on dating have fun


1 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
c6love 32 M
26  Articles
how long is too long   6/29/2012

i dated a girl for 4 years and never asked to marry her. How long is too long to date and not get married..especially someone who has never been married. i know ppl that have been married and divorced are in no huge rush to marry again


3 Comments, 40 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
Nuns   6/26/2012

Does anyone know a secret for finding a Nun to have a sexual relationship with? I have a fixation about nuns and know that as many as 15% of them break their vows. Many of these choose to have lesbian relationships but some do not. When I was quite young I had sex with a nun in Chicago. She was in an order that did social work and I did volunteer work for her and then eventually started ...


3 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
allniteliknfuck 52 M
9  Articles
who really dates on SEXFinder.com??   6/12/2012

i personally don't think i could or would date anyone from this site. is this really where u wanna get dating advice? i'm just saying you got folks like me on here with our dick n shit hangin out, giving dr. phil advice...lol. with all the married, and dating folks on here sleepin around, i think it's the totally wrong forum for such advice. what do yall think ???


1 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
nobody328 26 M
23  Articles
WHAT IS IT?   5/30/2012

WHAT DO YOU DO ON A DATE WITH YOUR LOVED ONE/


0 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Trust issues   5/22/2012

When you meet someone on SEXFinder.com and decide to be together long term, do you deal with trust issues?


6 Comments, 49 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
tommy24260 37 M
2  Articles
twin cities metro area?   5/18/2012

Looking to go out for drinks. anyone interested?


2 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
stevenmartin65 59 M
1  Article
looking for fun   5/12/2012

ladies need fun in dating take her somewhere to do thing she has never done


1 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
Damu555555 31 M
11  Articles
my secret   5/8/2012

I want to bang a midget


2 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Damu555555 31 M
11  Articles
muscle   5/8/2012

I want to have sex with a female bodybuilder, I always imagine them having super tight pussies


2 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Meeting TS/TV/TG Seattle   4/29/2012

I am looking for places to meet TS/TV/TG folks. I am less interested in males who dress like women. I am interested in "post-op" (is that the right word? New to the lifestyle and hence am not sure what the correct terms are). Any help will be appreciated.


2 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
sexytina49 64 T
3  Articles
Real conections VS Gameplaying   4/26/2012

Greetings This has been on my mind for awhile now. I totally understand that people on here may just like chatting and making online friends, but I cant help wondering are there any matches to one's profile that would like real time get togethers. Ive been on here for awhile and unfortunatly i find this site is loaded with a lot of BS!! Any Gurls for REAL TIME Play Let me Know !!!! sexytina49


4 Comments, 60 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
Rock4u91 26 M
10  Articles
what is dating.?   4/25/2012

Dating is a form of courtship consisting of social activities done by two persons with the aim of each assessing the other's suitability as a partner in an intimate relationship or as a spouse. While the term has several senses, it usually refers to the act of meeting and engaging in some mutually agreed upon social activity in public, together, as a couple. And today this is very important ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_karoonsem2 30 M
10  Articles
dating   4/24/2012

how do i get around this SEXFinder.com..can someone help me out!!


0 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_paleca2011 29 M
3  Articles
How to maximise your chances to meet a girl in real life?   4/13/2012

Hi,

I never met a girl in real life after we met online. Are there ways to maximize the chances to meet a girl online? Maybe my standards are too high.

Thanks,

P.


0 Comments, 30 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
sexystaranil2 19 M
18  Articles
Vary the Stimulation   3/23/2012

When you're all the way inside her, add side-to-side movement or up-and-down pelvic pressure against her clitoris to vary the stimulation.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_stbguy70092 39 M
1  Article
whats best way to see if a girl likes you?   3/16/2012

without directly asking her out, whats a good way to see if she likes you?


4 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
foxeyatfifty 67 F
26  Articles
Courtship and Freinds first!! WHERE DID IT GO??   3/8/2012

It seems to me that alot of the young men on here have forgot about courtship!!! I know this is a adult sight and is looked as some as a sex sight, but it is called adultfrieindfiners!!! I think most of they young people out there have forgot about the courting, getting to know someone. Most of us on here are looking for a relationship or some sort, maybe just communicating or a nice ...


12 Comments, 325 Views, 28 Votes ,6.01 Score
joozee1 61 F
7  Articles
Do you have friends you date .....   2/21/2012

pop on and off the site ? This one friend that I see frequently and we met on the site and have known each others for several years popped back up on my matches today.Since I have never left the site I still mention it to him from time to time . Don't get me wrong I love knowing he is still excited and active but seems like he would have made mention he was headed back online. Not that we ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
is this website good for making a serious relationship?   2/17/2012

Its seems like some people here are looking to find a bf or gf. But mainly bf. I don't understand how someone would think this is the right place to find a bf or gf.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes
couldbefun31 32 M
10  Articles
Today is differen from 10 years ago!!!!   2/5/2012

I remember e when dating was a purpose in life, where two individuals go out on a date to get to know each other, and if all compatibility efforts are unique, the two date again!!!!! By compatibilty efforts, I mean sense of humour, good listener, conversationalist, possess views in life that are unique, share similar values in life, etc. Now dating is the bar seen, you go out and hope to meet ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Single girl to date bi couple?   1/29/2012

We have been searching for a single BI girl to date us? Anyone have any solid clues on the best place to search BESIDES here?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
dirtyschool 54 C
1  Article
how young   1/25/2012

how young can you be to date a girl and a boy when your a female at 29 ??


7 Comments, 131 Views, 18 Votes ,2.85 Score
Splortched 37 M
2  Articles
Getting laid on the road?   1/23/2012

I travel a lot because of work and I'm wondering how do I hook up with people when I'm outta state? It's hard enough finding people in my own town let alone when I'm in the middle of nowheresville.


1 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
First Meet   1/19/2012

For those lucky enough to meet someone from here on SEXFinder.com, where are your favorite spots for that first meet. The local waterhole for drinks goes without saying, of course. Any others?


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
hotrod_guy84 35 M
12  Articles
5 Types of women men can't stand   1/19/2012

do we have even the slightest idea about what type of women put off men? Here is the lowdown on the personality types men don't like at all.

Cribber: Women who crib, talk negatively and belittle people are a great turn-off. Sure we all have our bags full of complaints, but it is one thing to complain once in a while, and it's something else to crib big time 24x7 about every issue or ...


1 Comments, 121 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
rm_Hungheavy60 49 M
1  Article
Where are any ladies in Florida that are seriously looking for hot sex   1/18/2012

I've just signed up on here and i am a Man with a very high sex drive, but the only problem i found out is that not many women on here are around Fort Myers. I am 100% real and will satisfy any lady who is interested. Please reply ladies if you meat this article


0 Comments, 23 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
veziryarragi 30 M
5  Articles
hey girls   1/6/2012

Heyecan ve Macera Arayan Bayanlar


1 Comments, 16 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
kflow112 53 M
6  Articles
Validation   1/2/2012

You can't look to other people for the validation you crave. An outside appraisal may feel more valuable, but in reality it can be filtered through all sorts of unhealthy or counterproductive lenses. Sometimes jealousy keeps people from being as honest as they should be. Ultimately, the real approval you seek can only come from deep within yourself. Without any guilt or compromise, you should ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
starvation6969 45 M
26  Articles
An SEXFinder.com Club??   12/30/2011

SEXFinder.com should organize clubs for members, what do you think? But strictly for verified members only. They must give it a thought...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
starvation6969 45 M
26  Articles
Happy New Year 2012   12/30/2011

Here's wishing everyone on SEXFinder.com a lust filled 2012.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Backdoor_drill2 43 M
11  Articles
2 kopeles mazi   12/27/2011

wish you all a happy new year and all the best


0 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Backdoor_drill2 43 M
11  Articles
amesi parea gia apopse   12/27/2011

wish you all a happy new year and all the best


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_stan1423 24 M
12  Articles
dating   12/27/2011

dating and sex


1 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Hardone905 48 M
6  Articles
worst dates   12/27/2011

dont put out


0 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Looking   12/25/2011

This is message for foxypisces66.Thanks for your interest, lets meet in IMC.


0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes
johnlcooper76 35 M
10  Articles
why date?   12/20/2011

why date when you can fuck? a nice fwb that loves to fuck is better than dating and having a relationship any day imo.


1 Comments, 23 Views, 6 Votes ,0.23 Score
HOW SOON?   12/16/2011

How soon before you meet someone on SEXFinder.com?


2 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
sexyshewolf27 19 F
1  Article
The first thing you see   12/13/2011

This question should direct toward guys, but girls can help give advice to guys. Do first see a girl for who she is, or do you mostly go with hot looks? If you went a blind date, and see that your date isnt the girl who thought you be on the date, would you turn around and walk away or would you stay and get to know her? Would you know a girl just by her looks or getting to know her before you ...


9 Comments, 90 Views, 17 Votes ,3.55 Score
Anyone else have this problem?   12/7/2011

Seem to always click with people who live far away...and I'm not talking a few miles, but all the way across the country. Hard to travel with my work schedule and it just sucks!


4 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
big_dick_4_bbw 30 M
2  Articles
Coffee?   12/5/2011

It was a fairly quiet day, well, as quiet as it gets when you work in a busy prison looking after some of the worst scum there is out there. We were just in the middle of a really quiet moment when the phone rang and one of the nurses asked if she could bring up some medications to hand out. We said that this was ok and she told us she`d be a few minutes, this was nothing new and happened on a ...


2 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
caliente0055 64 T
1  Article
looking for open minded people   11/24/2011

Im looking for anyone who wants to have good time sexualy couples , tv, ts cd, 2 woman , 2 man groups , gang bangs any one , any one is interisting ?


2 Comments, 97 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_Zeek6989 34 M
1  Article
any one   11/22/2011

anyone looking for true love?


0 Comments, 4 Views, 0 Votes
For ladies who are visiting Gangtok, Sikkim, India   11/21/2011

I am from Gangtok, Sikkim. Any lady coming to visit Gangtok can contact me beforehand for guider tour (pun intended) of the city and (everything else too)as it will be my pleasure.

P.S. I love MILFs/Mature women. So don't hesitate to contact me!


1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
rm_Toyboyj624 26 M
11  Articles
How to keep him/her at your palm   11/16/2011

People lets be honest no matter how much we tell ourselves that relationships are all about love and emotional support which is true but the real thing that hold people together is sex.yes sex is the very bond that holds lovers together.at first couples cant get enough of each other and this is when people say you are inlove, this feeling gradualy endy because of monotony in sex, to keep the ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
luckyspark777 44 M
2  Articles
Cheating   11/13/2011

I have an equal amount of male and female friends that cover the spectrum of racial, educational, geographical, and economic backgrounds. Out of all of them, hands down, more of my female friends(most actually) have cheated or are currently cheating compared to the guys. What has always been difficult for me to understand is the fact that my male buddies that have cheated are usually racked by ...


6 Comments, 110 Views, 16 Votes ,4.30 Score
tetondude2011 56 M
10  Articles
Walking a tightrope?   11/12/2011

So I have been back on this sight since January and I have had some good times with members, especially from the Idaho Swingers R Us group, but at the same time I have been dating women I meet locally who are not on SEXFinder.com. Funny but none of that has resulted in sex, but I will admit my motives are different. I guess I am looking for "the one." Not to say I can't find "the one" here. Most of the ...


1 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
ManThichSexfree 45 M
7  Articles
real date   11/8/2011

can you have a real date in adultfrienfinder for sex? i could'n find any girl in there if i am a vietnamese


4 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
WANT TO SEE WOMEN   11/7/2011

IAM ALONE WANT RELATIONSHIP @ SEX WITH WOMEN...


3 Comments, 98 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
ManThichSexfree 45 M
7  Articles
hen ho qua mang   11/4/2011

Ban co nghi la hen ho qua mang la trung thuc hay ko. Doi khi toi nghi nhung nguoi tren mang thong thuong la ko trung thuc, va hen ho qua mang cung la ko trung thuc, tuy nhien cung co 1 so it nguoi la trung thuc. Nhung that kho de tim duoc nguoi trung thuc tren mang fai ko ban.Hay gop y nha, thanks.


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Training Date   11/1/2011

You are wearing a short red dress with black nylons . The dress flows smoothly over the curves of your soft figure . I grab you by the back of your neck and force you down over my desk. You turn and look at me with contempt.

Holding your head down with my left hand , I stroke my right hand down the seam of your body to the nape of your arching back . just above your ass cleavage. Pausing ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Your Smile   10/20/2011

Your Smile

Your smile is like a beautiful sunrise, spreading its rays of heated love through my very soul. It feeds my heart with the food of romance, passion, and desire that I crave. When you’re sad, angry or confused it fills your eyes with those cold tentacles of sadness that slides through my veins chilling me. When I see it so, the desire to rush forward and wrap my arms around ...


7 Comments, 199 Views, 26 Votes ,4.54 Score
Dunatis2k 37 M
0  Articles
Deal Breakers   10/18/2011

Relationships end for many a reason, and for myself now that I've gotten a few dates in the last while it's mostly been a lack of connection, but every so often there is a magical point where something is said, done or revealed that ends all potential.

It could be as benign as a difference of opinions on a single subject or some sort of physical imperfection that you just cannot deal ...


2 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
slow dancing   10/9/2011

As the weather gets colder, I enjoy dancing on a date, it is good excercise and a lot of fun. It also helps your mood and shows your partner that you can get into a rhythem, and if you can have rhythem in dancing you will have a better rhtthem in the bedroom. besides it is a good way to meet other singles and start a short conversation. It is also a lot of fun.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
How Long?   9/12/2011

How long should I wait before trying to have sex with a person I just started dating?


4 Comments, 49 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
toomanycars 50 M
1  Article
HPV anda Dating   9/11/2011

I have been talking to a woman I have known for a long time. We always had somewhat of a spark between us. Recently we have had some very long conversations where things might move to the next level. She has openly told me that she carries HPV and her ex-husband is a herpes carrier. She assures met that the herpes is not an issue as she is clean.

I am very clean and have never been ...


4 Comments, 94 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
WolfGrey87 37 M
5  Articles
Teasing ur date   9/11/2011

Can teasing your date too much be a bad thing that she'll get pissed?


1 Comments, 62 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
First date   9/10/2011

Would you tell your date your intentions on first date?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
baddbaddbadd 58 M
4  Articles
Are the people here for real?   9/3/2011

I often wonder how real the people are on here, do they visit SEXFinder.com as a novelty, being nosey?, curious? Or are they really looking? I am curious if there is a percentage that is known? I have found people on here that act like they are here for a reason, but they get a case of scruples when it comes time to actually meet! Are we "that" type of society? Wouldn't it be nice to live in the free love ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
mikelarry_02 32 M
3  Articles
dating   9/3/2011

why is dating so hard now and days, seems like everybody is breaking up. what is the problem with dating in 2011


1 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
one_airman 37 M
1  Article
The importance of sexting/cyber for long distance relationships   8/31/2011

Okay so you wonder, what do I do if my significant other suddenly has to leave me? Maybe for a long period of time. Well here's the secret to keeping the bond between you and your partner strong. Talk about all the things you two want to do to each other. Be as detailed and descriptive as you can be. Not only will this help keep that spark from fading, but it will also make you feel a whole lot ...


0 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Devonprovidesfun 34 M
10  Articles
Ehh   8/30/2011

Dating hasn't really gone too well for me. I'm more prone to protect my feelings and just have friends with benefits.


1 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
bbw_austin22 35 F
3  Articles
austin texas?   8/30/2011

anyone single males under 50 live near austin texas?


10 Comments, 201 Views, 26 Votes ,3.56 Score
young_gunlklur 21 M
2  Articles
frist site// Or bull   8/22/2011

ORIGINAL MATERIAL ONLY - Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, SEXFinder.com's Terms of Use must be observed. If you see material that is inappropriate for SEXFinder.com, or that may have been published elsewhere, please contact our abuse team.

Help


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
zokash22 29 M
11  Articles
kool   8/17/2011

dating is fun cause it gives you the time to see if ur really interested in the person and your not yet commited


2 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toledofun669 34 M
2  Articles
hooking up?   8/10/2011

where would you say people hook up at the most?


3 Comments, 46 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
toledofun669 34 M
2  Articles
does anyone actually date people on here?   8/10/2011

do people actually find good people on here to date and what kind of relationship comes of this?


4 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
marcus10011986 37 M
1  Article
Looks vs Personality   8/7/2011

If you had to choose between looks vs personality, Which would you choose?


3 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
JJMD1991 32 M
12  Articles
Help   8/4/2011

How many people need help on dating or just having someone there to guide you. Tell me your thoughts of what you think you should do in situations that go bad on first dates.


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
getting some   8/3/2011

Just trying to get points


2 Comments, 38 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
jnuttyi27 39 M
10  Articles
Hotel or Motel   7/30/2011

What do you prefer hotel or motel


3 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
ebonypython4 37 M
2  Articles
420 dating   7/13/2011

Mary and I are the best of friends. She has been the end of a few relationships. If I may pose a question to the ladies what turns u on/off about a guy who smokes...? alot...


2 Comments, 53 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
passionfu1986 49 M
6  Articles
online dating   7/4/2011

offers a fresh lease of air and a feeling that one is still young no matter what the age. Add internet to the feeling and one gets to have the perfect combination of chance and opportunity with a probability of meeting newer people.

Internet or online dating has been instrumental in offering a newer lease of life to many who seemed to fear the whole concept of dating. The courage ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
passionfu1986 49 M
6  Articles
seducing   7/4/2011

How To Seduce Women?

One thing that I must admit is that I’m not the best looking guy on Earth and I hardly know how to Seduce Women

In addition to this, I’m not one of those guys who has a way with words and this is exactly why I realized that I needed help when it comes to Seducing a woman. I’ve always found that I’m nervous and awkward around Women.

This ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_sxylips79 45 F
1  Article
Black women/Italian men   7/2/2011

I absolutely love Italian men and i cant put in to words why i always in up dating someone who is Italian or mixed with Italian.

have u ever dated an Italian man or someone mixed with Italian?

black women/italian men...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
death of SEXFinder.com   6/29/2011

Has the death of SEXFinder.com come about? Any people who were here over 5 years ago maybe know what i am talking about


5 Comments, 98 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
sathish5455 37 M
3  Articles
sss   6/24/2011

some spl


0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
sathish5455 37 M
3  Articles
special   6/24/2011

special


0 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes
itfkaiken 31 M
7  Articles
Weidest thing to happen to you on a date.   6/23/2011

For me I would have to say a married women giving me her number after her husband went to the restroom.(mad disrespectful)Not gonna lie it actually angered me, due to the fact that i was vibing the woman i was with.


0 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
nawtyman2001 25 M
1  Article
Girl with parental control issues.   6/22/2011

I recently got divorced from a girl who was arrogant, manipulative, unloving, self-centered and a cheater. oh and in the 5 months we were married, we didnt sleep together even once.

The first question youll ask me is why d fuck did u get married to her. We had been going out for what can only be described as forever and it came to a point where it was get married or get lost. Thinking i ...


0 Comments, 78 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
how to meet   6/21/2011

anyone actually have any real luck here?


3 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
Nice or naughty ;-)   6/17/2011

What do you go for in a relationship? NICE OR NAUGHTY?


4 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
SEXFinder.com experiences   6/5/2011

How many of you all have had good/bad experiences off SEXFinder.com?


4 Comments, 75 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
Long terms relationships off SEXFinder.com   6/3/2011

Why are some people (mostly women) surprised by the fact men aren't looking for a LTR on SEXFinder.com?


2 Comments, 31 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
29Phx_Guy 42 M
10  Articles
Long Term FWB   6/3/2011

Does that constitute a boyfriend gf relationship? Seems so...


0 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
ahappycpl 54 C
24  Articles
wife strecht out   5/28/2011

My wife had made her first date but the guy never showed then we remembered that she had met him Sunday and we assumed he new we went to the casino on sat. Well to make a long story short she met a trucker there at the casino he was all over her he invited her to go see his truck she did . Sorry writing this on my cell story to long I already posted it on our blog if you want to know the rest ...


6 Comments, 301 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
Climber2665 34 M
1  Article
role reversal   5/18/2011

I have come to the conclusion that men and women of a certain age have completely switch roles.

Once men and women get to a certain age "21-25" and women "19-27" it seems that the roles we fit in have completely switch poles.

Men these days do want , know how to cook, clean, iron, shop, provide, and decorate. where as back in the day a bachelor was someone that usually didnt ...


7 Comments, 48 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
dsmguy1971 52 M
1  Article
Question for the ladies...   5/11/2011

Would you have a problem dating a bisexual man?

I just had my heart broken by a woman, who knew I was bisexual, but just could not handle it. She thought she wouldn't be enough for me, or worse yet, that I would give her some kind of social disease.


1 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Diet&excercise   5/7/2011

what is your diet people, especially those that are very lean, how much excercise you do and how much do you focus on your diet. plus.what are the most used food etc in your diet?


0 Comments, 1 Views, 0 Votes
Perfect Partner   5/7/2011

I know many talk about the phsycological part such as they expect their partner to be funny, have sense of humour, etc...

but the phisical side is very generalized how exactly would you like your partner to be phisically...such as height, hair , skin color, and other intimate details such as penis, boobs, ass size, pussy tightess


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Girls: Penis size you will go for   5/7/2011

Here is a simple question(at least I think) Not all girls give a honest answer but knowing that this is the net, it might be easier to get easy answers. What is the smallest size that you will not go for, a size that if you see, you will rather leave or not see the guy again? and what the biggest size you won't go for?


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
rm_3some2013 29 C
2  Articles
dating   5/6/2011

Why find a date on the internet?


21 Comments, 235 Views, 39 Votes ,2.83 Score
justlooking4sexy 26 C
4  Articles
long term   5/4/2011

Hello my name is nyssa and my husbands name is doug. We are looking for a girl to join us to welcome into our family. This is for the both of us not just one.

We have been curious about this for a long time and we want to get out there and see if some ladies are interested. I hope this isn't too weird for us to be looking for an additional lover for the both of us. But if ...



7 Comments, 127 Views, 20 Votes ,2.87 Score
ahappycpl 54 C
24  Articles
my wife on her first date   4/20/2011

My wife has her first date this sat. I hope it finally happens she met him at a casino they have talked about 5 times he has ben building up a relationship he is married so nothing will come of it he just wants to fuck her and she wants to fuck him I'm so excited. She told me I wasn't alowwed to go and believe it or not that excites me a lot too


4 Comments, 191 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
How do I get her back   4/19/2011

Just got out of a relationship but want her back. how do I get what I want back?


1 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
akshayy 43 M
1  Article
SEXFinder.com SUCCESS STORIES IN INDIA   4/11/2011

India is known to be an anti sex country. Its probably why there is so much pent up sexual frustration in everyone. So much so that when a bikini clad woman, or a guy in trunks is shown in a bollywood movie, the audience starts panting for breath and guys take a little extra time in the washroom on returning home.

I had serious doubts about the success i would find on registering. Most ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
Online expectations   4/10/2011

What are your true intentions when you are online looking to hook up fun only, short term , full filling a fantasy or searching for something real and deeper ?


4 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
Online dating experiences good vs the bad   4/10/2011

If you have been dating or playing online for awhile now talk bout your experience does the good outweigh the bad ?


0 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
SCPleasureHunt 69 M
1  Article
online handle omitted   4/9/2011

NiceGuyMetOnline


0 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_Lemusician 46 M
1  Article
Why do they want my contact info so quickly?   4/9/2011

Let me first start by qualifying my ignorant position by telling you how baffling and different the dating scene has become during my 7 yr hiatus..the game is near unrecognizable to me in it's current form. Not bad... Now maybe it's because of the many yrs I've spent in a merit based income-position but it is painfully obvious that somehow, some of these girls that are contacting me are ...


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_robbo2476 49 M
1  Article
36 and still single   4/4/2011

never been married or engaged, no where close. Is it really meant to be so difficult!?!?


4 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
ankit0054 40 M
1  Article
sex with strange woman   3/24/2011

i mat a strange woman in train she was not old enough and she was marrie . i did friendship, and asked for the sex experienced. she agreed and after i started she suck my dic and my nippal i really enjoyed. and wish that every sex lover get this opperunity....


1 Comments, 102 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_arjhay100 32 M
7  Articles
dating for the first time   3/21/2011

Those meeting for the first time will lead into a very hot sexual activity....


0 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
gr8north 56 M
3  Articles
Wow what a learning curve this is going to be   3/15/2011

I have been in a relationship for a quite a few years up until six months ago. I have had a few dates since (not from here) and I am blown away as to how much you forget about new relationships.

It's such a steep learning curve for me because of the things you take for granted when you're with someone for an extended period of time. You have the initial physical attraction which is ...


0 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
longnblack19 32 M
1  Article
What turns you off?   3/14/2011

Just wondering what some of your big turn offs?


3 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
scorpioz76 44 F
4  Articles
SEXFinder.com   3/13/2011

dating on this site really sucks


9 Comments, 178 Views, 20 Votes ,2.23 Score
jozzzzzjozzzzz 31 M
2  Articles
i cant fall in love   3/10/2011

why i cant fall in love


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
Buy Her a Mink   3/7/2011

Kurt was going out with a nice girl and finally popped the question. "Will you marry me, darling?" he asked.

Lisa smiled coyly and said, "Yes, if you'll buy me a mink."

Kurt thought for a moment and then replied, "Okay, it's a deal, on one condition."

"What is that?" Lisa asked.

"You'll have to clean the cage, " Kurt replied."


0 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
Dating.....a Woman's View   3/7/2011

When you are dating..... Farting is never an issue. When you are married ....You make sure there's nothing flammable near your husband at all times.

When you are dating..... He takes you out to have a good time. When you are married ....He brings home a 6 pack, and says "What are you going to drink?"

When you are dating..... He holds your hand in public. When you are married ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
kevin199083 33 M
2  Articles
dating   3/1/2011

hi help me


1 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
Sexy Asian Girls   3/1/2011

I LOVE YOU!!!!


1 Comments, 66 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
swagsurfin24 30 M
4  Articles
Hooking Up   2/26/2011

Does having sex too soon contribute to relationships that do not work out?


2 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Dating seems to be the most mindless activity.   2/26/2011

I'd equate the act of dating with searching for gold in a garbage can. Perhaps it's my naturally pessimistic nature, but I can't see a point in dating when I know I'm incompatible with 90% of the women around my age. My thought process is too different, (not saying better or worse) and most women can't see that far outside of the box. I can never be myself when dating, I have to dumb my ...


3 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
SexArchitects 42 C
1  Article
hard times for trust   2/21/2011

It is hard to believe it but it is not that easy meeting someone for real. At least for us is being an awful experience sometimes because people is very wary of us even when we show everything they ask for. Sometimes you are not sure if you are trying to date a girl or if we are under the attention of Scotland Yard! And which is worse, after show them our photos, talk about our life, our job, our ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Onlyeatblackpie 52 M
7  Articles
Black and white   2/21/2011

What is it these days that people can't get over an interracial couple? My girlfriend's color shouldn't mean anything to you, yet some people choose to glorify their ignorance. Really, I laugh at all the pitiful people who try to point us out in a crowd, or make the loud comments, or just stop and stare. It's actually amusing to see such stupidity these days. We have so much more to worry about ...


3 Comments, 92 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
when best friends part......   2/18/2011

After dinner and a movie, Carl drove his date to a quiet country road and made his move. When Mary responded enthusiastically to his kissing, he tried sliding his hand up her blouse. Suddenly, she jerked away, got out of the car is a hurry, and ran home. Later that night, she wrote in her diary, "A girl's best friends are her own two legs."

On their next date, Carl returned to the ...


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hotboi1183 41 M
10  Articles
FOR REAL   2/13/2011

how long does it take for ppl to get a meet of this site. are ppl for real or fake


0 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
hotboi1183 41 M
10  Articles
is....   2/11/2011

is it best to have a first date at home or to go out and waste time?


0 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
LovingPakiMan4u 51 M
1  Article
Offer for Pakistani Girls ... Genuine and Sincere   2/6/2011

My Dear Hotties,

I know most of you have a lot of imaginations and fantasies to act out. The only thing that inhibits most of you from going full bore is the social restrictions and the fears attached to a girl in our society. Who doesn't want to have sex after all these organs have been created with the same purpose. Most of you do masturbate regularly as far as my survey and ...


4 Comments, 141 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
asl74090 43 M
4  Articles
Terrified of Discovery   1/24/2011

I am a single dad. A father of three who are my entire world. I am very responsible: I keep a clean house, cook healthy meals for my , work hard, and I have never brought another woman around them. 

I rarely focus on myself. During  the four days each month that I do not have them I clean, and write music. I have recently decided that I have been alone long enough, so here I am...on ...


3 Comments, 85 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
asl74090 43 M
4  Articles
It's Just Sex!   1/24/2011

Can anyone ever say sex is just sex? A one night stand is just a one night stand, but how often can people actually be friends with benefits? From personal experience I can tell you that one person will generally come to expect more. 

With a site like SEXFinder.com.com, it does seem more likely to find someone who's willing to "just have sex, " but if he/she becomes a frequent ...


2 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_oDjake 36 M
10  Articles
Why so serious?   1/13/2011

Is it just me or do people take dating way to seriously?

Can we just go out and goof off or does this have to be the beginning of something truly special?

Seems like everyone I meet wants a romantic blissful date. I want someone who wants to go goof off and have a fun time.


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
never   1/8/2011

never been too good on dating. ive only have had a few select gfs before in my life.

whats the average number of gfs a guy has at the age of 28? i think im way below that average number. but yet, im way above the average number on how many girls ive fucked


0 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
7_inches_4_u916 26 M
8  Articles
NO more dating   1/8/2011

I think dating is totally played out. Might have been th thing before the year 2000 but now its all about spreading the luv. The more the better


0 Comments, 21 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
rm_SRQnpfl09 30 M
9  Articles
who hates this?   1/7/2011

when ur bf or girlfriend is always asking, "are u sure u wanna be with me." that is one of the most annoying things!


1 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
7_inches_4_u916 26 M
8  Articles
What should i say?   1/7/2011

My ex wants me to break up her BFF cuz all we do is screw all day and all night. should i just tell her to get lost?


1 Comments, 44 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
josh_f99 33 M
1  Article
Getting attached   12/29/2010

Basicly when ever i meet new people i tend to get attached really easily. If i meet a girl just with the intention of having a laugh and some fun i always end up getting attached and miss them when im not with them. I just wondered if anyone else has this issue? thanks


3 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
baddbaddbadd 58 M
4  Articles
My AWESOME date!   12/23/2010

The evening started out great, I recieved a phone call, and the lady on the other end told me she had free time if I wanted to grab a drink! Sure, I said, I can head out in about 30 minutes! She said great, I will see you then! She gave me the street and the number, and hung up! So I decide to hop in the shower since I was hoping to get laid that night, I thought it best to wash my partner in ...


1 Comments, 145 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
ahappycpl 54 C
24  Articles
dating a married woman   12/21/2010

I would love to sent my wife on a date personally as a man knowing that all she want is to go out and have a good time would you date a married woman if the husband drove you guys around


2 Comments, 134 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating improves happiness!   12/18/2010

Dating improves happiness, and abates misery, by doubling our joys, and dividing our grief.

...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
READYMAN92 46 M
10  Articles
why do girls play games.   12/18/2010

games are for


2 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
9 types of women   12/16/2010

Ms. Nice Girl - "Tickets to the boxing match? Oh, darling, you shouldn't have!" Also known as: Whattagal, Precious, one of the boys, My Main Squeeze, Doormat Advantages: Cheerful, agreeable, kindly Disadvantages: May wise up someday

Old Yeller - "You spineless good-for-nothing drag-ass no-talent of a bitch! Can't you see you're making me miserable??" Also known as: She-Devil, Sourpuss, ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the 9 types of men   12/16/2010

Joe Sensitive - "After I wash the dishes, let's cuddle, OK?" Also known as: Mr. Nice Guy, Family man, Honey, Darling, Soft-boiled Egg, Snugglepup Advantages: Well-behaved; irons own shirts Disadvantages: Irritatingly compassionate, wimpy

Old Man Grampus - "People are stupid. The world can go to hell. Let's stay home and watch TV." Also known as: Grumbles, Sour puss, Stick-in-the-mud, Old ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Age !   12/8/2010

Age is strictly a case of mind over matter. If you don't mind, it doesn't matter....


8 Comments, 40 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
allwrkdup 46 M
1  Article
private lives and lack of interest on these sites   12/4/2010

i love this site but the lack of interest to our profiles without face shots some of us have very high emd careers and family our reputation is on the line so we must be desrete on here i dont know why when we msg a person they do not respond back because we want to chat and get a level of trust built before we send private pics and kinda reveal our private lives i just wish people on here would ...


4 Comments, 57 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
If the 1st meet doesen't happen   11/21/2010

I was finally going to meet the girl I wanted for so long here on SEXFinder.com... She is a single parent like me and on a weekend that my were with their mom - she was going to have her on a sleep over with friends. The people who were going to host her had an emergency and it ended up making it so we could not have our 1st meeting. The let down was hard to deal with, and I felt loss - even though we ...


0 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
BubbaAllan 34 M
1  Article
What do women really like!?   11/15/2010

Just wondering what you women think about in dates. Would you rather go to a nice dinner all romantic, or something casual, like a movie and just hanging out in eachothers company?


1 Comments, 38 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_trcl9891 28 M
4  Articles
dating?   11/15/2010

Anyone have any dates from this site how has it gone?


3 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
big turnoffs   11/15/2010

while looks have their place in being attractive to most people, you can always findsomething you like, but........... did you ever notice that there are a lot of turn offs. one thing that is one of mine is if the lady is rude, and doesn't show good manners. another big turnoff is the inteligence of the conversation. if they cant carry on a inteligent conversation they loose my interest quickly. ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_kwidgey5 31 M
2  Articles
whens a good time?   11/3/2010

so my g/f and i have an open relationship, and weve been together for about 7 months now, and im wondering if it should stay open or not?


2 Comments, 59 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
interacial   11/2/2010

why are there still people who wont date outside their race


8 Comments, 124 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
iseeyou421 45 M
1  Article
to hit it or not to hit it that is the question in california inland empire ladies only   11/1/2010

Ladies please let me know, Do you want someone to hit it good all night or do you want a man to fuck you good for 30 mins and leave soakin wet for your man.


0 Comments, 60 Views, 0 Votes
Hnovaro55 34 M
10  Articles
What do you think of blind dates?   11/1/2010

Would you ever go on a date where you have absolutely no clue as to what the person looks like?


1 Comments, 13 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
alwaysdown4tha69 38 F
2  Articles
Right Time   10/27/2010

If you are friends with someone who enjoys your company, and doesn't mind having a sexual relationship with you, when's the right time to ask that person if anything can go any further? I was in a similar situation, but it kind of backfired. Instead of keeping it on a friends with benefits level, feelings got involved and lets just say it didn't end pretty at all.


1 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
tydell123 33 M
2  Articles
havveeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee   10/24/2010

llllllllllllllllllooooooooooooooooooootttttttttttttsssssssssssssssss ooooooooooooooffffffffffffffffff ssssssssssssseeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeexxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx


2 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
rm_always571 58 M
2  Articles
Getting To Date Number Two   10/17/2010

I've been keeping track of the things which turn dates off and on. Of course, this is from a guy's point of view, and most of this will apply toward men, but I think some of these things can apply in a similar way to women.



--Avoid talking about ex wives, husbands, girlfriends, or other dates. This gives the impression you aren't over the previous person. If someone likes you, ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
fisherman197008 51 M
17  Articles
The actual first date.   10/10/2010

when you are past the meet and greet and if you get to the first actual "date" I always try to start with a mutually comfortable setting, dinner, or a movie, or dance. it makes both parties feel more comfortable, but what if they change things up. we should be willing to try new things, for example on one of my first dates we couldn't agree on the restaraunt, so we decided to just go for a drive. ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Chineseboy8007 35 M
1  Article
add me   10/6/2010

add me friend tq


2 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Top 10 Dating Tips   9/20/2010

Top 10 Dating Tips Dating Tips and Advice for Singles

Whether you are new to the dating scene, are reentering the dating scene, or are a serial dater, you can use dating tips and advice. No one is a dating expert – even the most beautiful and wealthy people all struggle with matters of the heart. Everyone can learn something about how to date more, how to attract the types of people we ...


3 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_nish704 31 M
2  Articles
bangalore dating   9/20/2010

hii if any girl want to dating with me then mail me


1 Comments, 68 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
dating   9/4/2010

would anyoe date me?


2 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
vampires…   8/30/2010

…they say that a vampire cannot enter your home unless you invite it in…so be careful who you extend invitations to…

…we all know what a vampire does…it lures you in with its beauty, its charm and its promise of ecstasy…as you invite the vampire into your house, you invite it into you…because once it is in your house there is no stopping it…it is ...



9 Comments, 147 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
Why is when you say seeking single, you get 1000 married replies?   8/29/2010

I say seeking single or divorced, but I get reply after reply from married or staying together for the . Not judging, but it's almost like they like the challenge to try to convince you.

Anyone else feel that way?


0 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
Lie   8/28/2010

Never lie or start off by telling the truth?


5 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
wolverine9118333 26 M
3  Articles
Which is the place you had with your date?   8/27/2010

For me the best place was in a garden where we had a great hardcore time together with other couples watching us n enjoying from distance.. it was the little dark out there n we surely enjoyed it... what about you all.. share your experiences...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
gagonmycock14 42 M
27  Articles
meeting someone online   8/26/2010

Anyone was in a situation where they met someone online, then someone else asks you, how did you 2 meet, and you're kind of embarrassed to say that you met online??


7 Comments, 77 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_abilove22 31 F
10  Articles
older men, mature love. continued.   8/25/2010

however, what frightens me is mind control from a government or higher power that would force a you to only associate with others of your age; and to to avoid those older or younger than yourself with (i don't know) say mild electric shocks for any aberrant behavior. America is free!

should the younger woman associate with or date older men. of course you should! the generations have ...


4 Comments, 121 Views, 17 Votes ,5.25 Score
rm_abilove22 31 F
10  Articles
don't get caught in the wrong car, with the wrong guy.   8/25/2010

advice for dating someone blind:

ask about recreational drug use. when you're dating someone unfamiliar to you, better check he's got you in a drug-free environment. sorry.

what's in that (his) car your getting in? is it (the car) drug-free? you don't wanna get stopped by the cops, discover your date's trafficking, transporting illegal substance backseat, or trunk; and have to ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
bachuss111 48 M
2  Articles
cheating   8/24/2010

I recently had a works night out and even though I am in a happy relationship and have a great sex life, I ended up getting it on with a woman from work whilst outside the pub. She said she had fancied me for ages and I have always wanted to fuck her, she is a couple of years older than me byt really fit. Now Im working on getting in her Knickers...cant fucking wait!


0 Comments, 40 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
librawantsmore 48 M
1  Article
why oh why?   8/23/2010

ive noticed in begining relationships that a few gurls would go all out to please me sexually and it seemed to me that after they felt like they had me, it would dwindle off!lol i told one friend that she didnt want me to do nothing but pay her light bill when she tried to put it on me the first time- does anybody attract liers, cheats, and thieves too?




1 Comments, 34 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
loveismylife1 44 M
2  Articles
why most woman dont want to show   8/18/2010

why most woman dont want to show them self are they scared any thing


1 Comments, 23 Views, 0 Votes
bootiebabe 42 F
3  Articles
Is 'any hole a goal'   8/18/2010

Since we are all members of a website that is primarily aimed at helping people find sexual partners the question arises...Is any hole a goal, or are more people looking for the type of person you would actually date if you met them in a bar. Do men and women look at this differently? Personally I have had many offers of sex, but many of the people offering it are 'not my type' so am I guilty ...


8 Comments, 136 Views, 14 Votes ,4.42 Score
fuckstud92 31 M
3  Articles
wat a girl wants   8/10/2010

deos a girl want a big dick that hurts or one they can barely feel?


1 Comments, 69 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
chichi691000 44 C
1  Article
dating asians   7/29/2010

i dont know why but i love asian ass.i cant get enough i like it all day everyday


2 Comments, 101 Views, 12 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_gullis4 48 M
1  Article
I don't believe   7/27/2010

I don't believe to find this one here


0 Comments, 26 Views, 0 Votes
rm_just2freakxx 40 C
0  Articles
She comes with Baggage   7/18/2010

By NADINE WILSON All Woman writer Monday, July 12, 2010The Jamaica Observer

IN the general sphere of things, men tend to travel light, while women have no problem tagging along heavy carry-ons. However, when it comes to relationships, both sexes are equally guilty of carrying excess baggage. The structure and nature of this baggage varies, with some having the potential to weaken a ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
JohnHabernathy 36 M
1  Article
Whats the one thing that will kill a first date?   7/17/2010

I'm saying bad breath!


5 Comments, 67 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
Hershey_Bar 35 M
1  Article
MONOGAMOUS or POLYGAMOUS?   7/14/2010

Greetings. I am currently single again after another long (2 years) relationship, and now that I've been looking around and doing some dating I have to ask your opinion on monogamy and polygamy. Since keeping options open seems to work better for some. But it still would be nice to have a steady thing who stays on call. But all opinions are welcome.


2 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
First date   7/9/2010

I recently met a younger woman on line, she had recently broke up with her boyfriend and wasn't interested in meeting. I grntly persued her offering only dinner and conversation.

We met at a restaurant two days after first contact and hit it off. I was sitting outside waiting for her; I recognized her immediately and my cock responded immediately. We were understanding of each other's ...


2 Comments, 132 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_vijay_k33 42 M
7  Articles
dating   7/8/2010

dating is special for all young middle age and old, now a days it has become fashan most of the people like to go for date and wanted to call on dates.


1 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
MostlyTallGent 56 M
5  Articles
Location is Everything   7/5/2010

In moving from NYC to High Point, NC almost three years ago there were many changes that I had to adjust to after spending the better part of my adult life living in the city that never sleeps.

Because I grew up in suburbia Long Island and had been doing a lot of traveling outside of NYC I did not think it would be a huge adjustment. One of the changes that I did not foresee was the ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_vermontks 30 M
3  Articles
Is a hike a good first date   7/4/2010

Hiking and backpacking is my favorite summer activity. I'm just curious, do people think that going on a hike is a good first date or no. It's a great opportunity to spend some time talking, but walking up a mountain can get sweaty.


3 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
How to first ask a girl?   6/25/2010

How do you begin to ask a hot girl out who you don't know?


4 Comments, 56 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
finny197722 51 M
6  Articles
whats the best and worst date you been on   6/21/2010

whats the best and worse date you ever been on


3 Comments, 36 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
ektisa 67 M
2  Articles
Rendezvous   6/18/2010

I see me meeting with you for dinner in a fine restaurant, me in my suit and you in a very stunning number. We would talk, laugh, relive stories and look forward to our dreams. There would be soft caresses and holding hands across the table, your stocking feet would brush my legs.

From there we would walk around the sails, or along the water-front, stopping for deep kisses and long ...


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes
o_sum 38 M
1  Article
is there any swinger party in town   6/16/2010

HI

I am Rohith from Bangalore

there are many of my cpls friends would like to have swinger party but looking for organizers

Or any one interested to take lead on this


0 Comments, 55 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_Adonis0000 53 M
11  Articles
Speed Dating   6/13/2010

What do people think of this and its possibilities, good and bad or do you think it's just a bit of fun, but you never know. Well, you never know when you're standing by a Sainsburys aisle, do you. Anyway, what are your thoughts?


0 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
GolditoChenchual 45 M
1  Article
Have you dated a Mexican Girl/Man?   6/4/2010

Personally, I think that Mexican People Are very warm and also they have a very special way to manage their romanticism. I'm not saying that Anglo-Saxon people are cold. Just thinking that these last ones express themselves in a different way. What do you think? Any self experiences? Share!...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
joker_77 47 M
1  Article
make love 1 night?   6/1/2010

do u make love on 1 night?


1 Comments, 41 Views, 0 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Maturity !   5/21/2010

Maturity has more to do with what types of experiences you've had, and what you've learned from them, and less to do with how many birthdays you've celebrated....


3 Comments, 39 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
asplo1 31 M
6  Articles
Dating quiz test   5/11/2010

hey there, mainly looking for ppl to talk to/ hang out with in my area or beyond! Adventure partners welcome!

I know i look very scary/serious in my pics but im totally not in real life, just the goofy ones look soooooo terrible! I "have my sh*t together" but if thats something thats really important to you then your probably looking for something a little more serious than i am. I like ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
Why Do Men & Women Cheat?   5/9/2010

No one wants to take the blame on this issue. Everyone wants to pass the buck. Guaranteed, no one is going to like my article because I put the blame exactly where it needs to be.

People cheat because they don't get what they need at home & they have the opportunity.

Let that sink in for a moment. I have never had a man cheat on me. Back off bitches, retract your claws. I don't ...


9 Comments, 199 Views, 29 Votes ,4.54 Score
translover24 38 M
1  Article
3 month rule   5/8/2010

when your dating someone, you should wait a least 3 months before you truely fall for them. the 3 months is use to feel them out to see who they are as a person. if you do this youll have less problems in the future with your significant other....


2 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
OkanaganMan 36 M
6  Articles
First Date Spots   5/5/2010

As a rule of thumb I try not to involve eating on the first date. Nothing more attractive than filling your face with food as you get to know someone!! Of course, , if we are both hungry as a , , food is on the menu dont get me wrong. Whats your opinion on this?? Do you take a first date to restaurant or out for food??


1 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
asplo1 31 M
6  Articles
How 420 fucks shit up   4/23/2010

Ey man look hea 420's great but not wen deallin with 2 people togetha knoo wa i meannnnn


3 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
mzsunnyclit69 50 F
3  Articles
What should I tell him?   4/23/2010

Let me start by saying I was in a relationship with the most wonderful man on the planet. He was kind loving generous and caring, and the sex was good as well. But there was a certain spark missing from our relationship. So I suggessted we go to a toy store and get some adult toys to spice things up. He agreed, when we got to the store there was this very familiar face working the register, the ...


4 Comments, 89 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
princeofmalta 62 M
2  Articles
teasers   4/21/2010

why do girls reg on this site then dont boder to reply to emails comlete waste of time we use our pionts to send emails and not eaven a reply.


2 Comments, 75 Views, 0 Votes
rm_mellow162 50 M
1  Article
What is Love?   4/17/2010

I've asked myself that question alot lately. Is it that feeling you get in your gut when you're around her or is it being at ease with her. I could go on and on. I've found that maybe I've become jaded searching for that one. Will I settle or will I continue to search for that pot at the end of the rainbow? It was so much easier in my youth when you had no reservations in your head. I think that ...


5 Comments, 42 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Obsession   4/10/2010

I got into an interesting discussion about sex with one of my girlfriends, and as it turns out she always seems to meet guys with an obsession. First, she dated a that was so into watching porn that he always tried pressure her into making their own home video. Then she dated a guy that always tried to pressure her into wearing some kind of uniform. So I was wondering how many women have met guys ...


2 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_flashur80085 48 M
1  Article
Arranging a date?   4/9/2010

Before I become a silver member for a month (all i could afford right now boohoo) I was wondering how quick a date or meet up can be arranged?

To give more detail, next Friday (16th April 2010) I have the house to myself for a weekend (who I live with doesn't matter but I aint got a partner). So I was hoping that maybe I would be able to chat to one of the ladies on here in order for ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
A matter of opinion   4/8/2010

I met this beautiful girl once and we hit it off right from the start, and everything seemed fine. We would meet from time to time but always with her friends. So one day I asked her, why don't we go out one night just the two of us. She simply responded, I can't unless it's with my friends. At this moment I was baffled and very confused. So naturally I asked her friend what's going on, and I ...


4 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
hotboi27 41 M
6  Articles
why why why   4/4/2010

why do we want what we can't have. but when u have it u dont want it.


2 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
hotboi27 41 M
6  Articles
sex   4/4/2010

if u have sex on the first date, do u come back for more or move on to the next one.


3 Comments, 44 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
The Fox and the Grapes   4/3/2010

One of my favorite stories: One hot summer's day a Fox was strolling through an orchard till he came to a bunch of Grapes just ripening on a vine which had been trained over a lofty branch. "Just the thing to quench my thirst, " quoth he. Drawing back a few paces, he took a run and a jump, and just missed the bunch. Turning round again with a ...


4 Comments, 115 Views, 14 Votes ,5.70 Score
neo_doctor 39 M
1  Article
dating in pk   3/19/2010

Dating in pakistan is one of the most cumbersome job , really as you find it hard to get a laid , make a way into you . Primarily because of social conservative approach, many still not broad minded , just a few of them see dating men , enticing activity of life .Girls too have their mercenary motives, as they try to approach those only who can make their lushes count .


2 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
Flattery will get you nowhere.   3/18/2010

Like everyone else, I think it’s nice to get a compliment from someone. Of course it makes me feel good and strokes my ego a little bit. It’s a nice thing to pay an honest compliment.

But at what point does it become too much? That’s up to woman to decide for herself. Some might like to hear it over and over, but for me it makes me think a couple things about people who pay too ...


6 Comments, 143 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
VioletDeliriums 56 T
21  Articles
Be Nice In Chat Rooms   3/16/2010

Maybe this is a wild assumption on my part, but I thought that people joined SEXFinder.com so that they could make connections with other people. If that is the case, then why do things that will build walls between you and other people?

Of course there will be people that you have little in common with or even people who you don’t like, for whatever reason. ...



5 Comments, 104 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
tykewando1987 37 M
1  Article
gsg   3/5/2010

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1 Comments, 10 Views, 1 Votes
TxAthlete4811_1 64 M
5  Articles
What is discreet?   3/3/2010

I read that women want a discreet partner. My idea of discreet and their idea appear to be two different things. The woman seems to mean discreet, as in you are my boyfriend when I want you. Whan I don't, go away.


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
dating   3/1/2010

dating is an art of culture of enjoying &understanding


4 Comments, 39 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_hot_egy_man2 45 M
10  Articles
here's what you do:   2/18/2010

here's what you do:



Get ready. Make sure your condoms are fresh -- check the expiration date. Throw away condoms that have expired, been very hot, carried around in your wallet, or washed in the washer. If you think the condom might not be good, get a new one. You and your partner are worth it.

That dick has to be hard before you put a condom on it.

Open it. ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
hello   2/7/2010

m vicky living alone i can stand in bed as long as u want.......n well built. my stats are 16"biceps 42" chest 33" waist 176cms ht 84kgs 7"cock......do reply u will enjoy.....pm me....i'll shw my pic


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes
gleefullythick 36 F
1  Article
How to meet sex-positive men?   2/4/2010

Here is my question/situation - I am on this site because I love sex. I don't mind hook-ups, but I really would rather be dating. I would really like to meet an open-minded, sex-positive type. Possibly for an open/poly relationship, possibly for monogamy, depending on the guy and the relationship.

Here on AFFF, the focus is really on hopping in the sack, which I understand, and am OK ...


10 Comments, 187 Views, 27 Votes ,4.40 Score
herahottie 51 C
2  Articles
chasing   2/3/2010

I am just wondering why it is that most of the men on here love to keep after you and beg you to meet up with them, then when you finally give in and decide you will, they end up either standing you up or saying something came up and they just cant make it. Is it just the thrill of the chase that they enjoy or what


6 Comments, 77 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Finding a FWB   1/24/2010

So finding a friend with benefits has been tougher than I thought. I've tried for a while and just haven't found the one yet. i was reading the articles on the site and voting to just get points, then started reading the replies and they were better than the articles. So I decided to get everyone's opinion on finding a good fuck buddy. I'm sure someone on here has had success in this area. ...


2 Comments, 98 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
sexylady4ever4 37 F
0  Articles
How do you differentiate dating ?!   1/15/2010

So when you go out on a date and continue to date this person, is that dating? Cause i have become utterly confused on this situation. To me i would think if you continue to go out on dates that means your dating, if you talk on a regular basis, see each other a few times a week. Would call that dating, or just friends who hang. When can you define dating? or even a relationship? Guys can send ...


4 Comments, 82 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
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proper protocol in this day and age   1/8/2010

i know i really can't go by what my grandparents or parents say the proper protocol is for dating in today's world, but who exactly do i use as an example? some of my friends' standards seem a little bit faster than i would like, and others slower. do i pick a medium ground and go from there. is there even a protocol for dating behavior anymore? e.g. is she easy if she sleeps with you on the ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Dating Tips For Men- Attracting Beautiful Women Without Effort   1/4/2010

Most guys can find themselves falling in love with the idea of being able to attract beautiful women without much or any effort at all. Yet, you and I both know that this is more a fantasy than anything else. When you want to attract beautiful women, the truth is, you are going to have to put forth some effort. They key is to learn exactly where you will get your best rewards for the efforts that ...


3 Comments, 95 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
dating ideas   12/30/2009

Continuing to date your spouse after you are married is one way to keep romance alive, say many marriage counselors and relationship experts. But no one ever seems to offer suggestions on where to go or what to do on a date with your husband or wife. After all, going to the corner bistro every Saturday night eventually loses its charm. To help you brainstorm for your next date night, here are ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
dating   12/30/2009

Dating shouldn’t cost you a lot of money, especially if you are following the advice that volume counts when trying to meet someone new.

With that in mind, here are more than twenty cheap date ideas covering a wide variety of interests, likes, activities and hobbies. Got an even tighter budget? Then try the free dating idea suggestions instead. Run around in the sprinkler together, ...


2 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
sexydude188 36 M
8  Articles
sex on date   12/30/2009

I know that I am not quite" suited to this dating site. I'm here because I love sex, I love having my love making LOVE to me in front of others or alone. I'm a nudist at heart but also...I'm the green-eyed monster. I know about men and eye candy at nudist places but are you ALL like that. When I find my prince, is he really a frog that will lie? I have great first dates, lovely meal and ...


2 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wantluvtoo2 60 M
1  Article
how do you know for sure?   12/24/2009

i want to ask women i see for a date sometimes but remember when i have found out that they are not into men! so my question to you women is ... just how can a man know when to put himself out there? i am not against lifestyles just want to date a woman!


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_xl71167 47 M
1  Article
Let it be ...   12/10/2009

Meeting up for the first time can be an experience worth while. As for many of us the worth while experience tense to be in our minds are a nice good fuck or just an expensive date. For those who want to know what really happens. post your stories here


3 Comments, 89 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
this is for my aspecial friends .. >:)   12/8/2009

Merry Christmas,





Two words that can evoke so many emotions with us. Two words that can trigger memories from our past. Two words that should bring warmth and joy into our days. Two words when spoken from the heart convey love and caring to special friends.





It is my hope that your memories of Christmas past will put a smile on your face and ...


7 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
how to dat girls   11/24/2009

will all you do is be nic to the girl and dont be a ass hol and dont cheat if your dating a girl or then she will kick you to the curv


3 Comments, 19 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
from the dictionary of dating   11/21/2009

ATTRACTION - the act of associating horniness with a particular person.

LOVE AT 1st SIGHT - what occurs when two extremely horny, but not entirely choosy people meet.

DATING - the process of spending enormous amounts of money, time, and energy to get better acquainted with a person whom you don't especially like in the present and will learn to like a lot less in the future. ...


3 Comments, 58 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Venom101 49 M
8  Articles
wife   11/14/2009

Getting home after a long day’s work, my wife hit me with her top story of the day. Her best friend, Kaye, had announced her husband of many years had abruptly left her. There wasn’t much more detail other than the guy had apparently pre-arranged it and even left Kaye with a good bye letter complete with financial details and other minutiae. As shocking as that was, a couple of ...


4 Comments, 473 Views, 25 Votes ,4.02 Score
Venom101 49 M
8  Articles
jane   11/14/2009

Jane liked sex in general, but she especially liked to give head. She was always amazed when some of her girlfriends said they didn’t really enjoy giving their boyfriends blowjobs, and that they disliked cum in their mouths. For her, there was little that got her hotter than sucking cock. She was kneeling between Steve’s knees as she eased her hands firmly up the inside of his legs. She ...


2 Comments, 171 Views, 12 Votes ,5.27 Score
elloco6262008 39 M
1  Article
ANy fun   11/5/2009

Looking for fun in the area. If interested hit me up


1 Comments, 10 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
lil johnny's date   11/1/2009

Pappy sees Little Johnny walking with a lantern and asks, "Where ya going boy?" The Johnny smiled and replied, "I'm a-going courting Peggy-Sue."

The Father said, "When I went a-courtin', I didn't need me no dang lantern."

"Sure Pa, I know." Johnny said. "And look what you got!"


1 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the farmers daughters   11/1/2009

One day there was this farmer. He had 3 daughters and they each had a date on Saturday night. The first date comes to the door. the farmer answers the door. The first date says, "Hi my name is Joe, I'm here to take your Flow to eat some dough."

The farmer says sure. Soon the second date comes to the door, "the date says hi, I'm Freddy, I'm here to take your Betty to eat some ...


0 Comments, 75 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
m9810414263cas 49 M
1  Article
sex   10/29/2009

I want sex when my mind free that time I enjoy with my sex partner


3 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
udrivemecrazy4u 33 M
3  Articles
Blind date...   10/17/2009

Blind date... its pretty fun.ANd having sex in the 1st date... its more than anything to say...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Dating experience !   10/2/2009

Dating experience can only be understood backwards, but they must be lived forward. ...


4 Comments, 74 Views, 38 Votes
rm_lovelicken48 60 M
1  Article
I got the small town blues,lol.   9/24/2009

I live in a small town and love the beauty, and friendly feel of the place, lol, but, definately feel the difficulty of meeting new women. I was given some new advice recently and am going to give it a try.Instead of doing the search on my own I'm going to enlist the help of my married or paired female friends. Its been to long since I was in the single world.I'm not into the bar scene and ...


2 Comments, 83 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Non existent after 50 !   9/19/2009

The dating scene for people over 50 is just nearly non existent.

At least for me it is.
...


6 Comments, 100 Views, 19 Votes ,1.54 Score
3way4fun87 31 C
10  Articles
meeting   9/13/2009

how long should you chat to someone online before meeting them?


8 Comments, 132 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
joozee1 61 F
7  Articles
Sex while driving   9/4/2009

How many guys have had a women sit naked in their lap and have sex with them while behind the steering wheel and driving the vehicle? I know the obvious comment is 'that's dangerous' well of course it is but.... still want to know if you've done it.


12 Comments, 205 Views, 18 Votes ,4.35 Score
rm_slutsteve4u 68 M
1  Article
Meeting Someone New   9/1/2009

Hi to all you single people out there who, like me, are looking to meet someone new. That doesn't neccessarly mean you are looking to get invloved again, or does it? The thing is I'm not, or at least that is what I have convinced myself, not looking for another relationship that is. However I am sick and tired of playing solo and I don't see myself paying for fun but the thing is, though it ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
How to Tell That The Date Isnt Going Well   8/22/2009

Your date probably isn't going well if any of the following takes place during it:

1) He keeps telling you that you remind him of his Mother;

2) He says he has to go home early to feed his cat- and he's highly allergic to them and doesn't own one;

3) He gets up to go to the bathroom, looks at you and says "See you around";

4) He insists he has to end the date ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
littlecasper5 34 M
2  Articles
BE YOURSELF!   8/20/2009

I believe everyone is looking to find that right person to spend their life with. How can you expect to find a life partner if you are not being yourself on a date. This goes for both sexes male and female alike. Another thing, dont pick out your dates flaws, but try to focus on their good points. For example if your date has a mole on his/her chin. Dont let that insignificant mole, deter you ...


1 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_decius28 44 M
1  Article
looking 4 sexy ladies   8/14/2009

i'm looking 4 a woman just to please her i wanna a woman that got that pussy that's gonna squirt she must be in atlanta area!


1 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
revsfan12 44 M
1  Article
What colognes do women like these days?   8/11/2009

???

Seems like there's nothing popular these days with them.


1 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
rm_BigBanginMT 48 M
3  Articles
Physical attraction?   7/17/2009

Attraction is always more than just physical, but if you were to ignore everything but the physical, what do you find attractive? Or another way of saying it is, "What turns you on?" Again, I'm only talking about physical attributes.

Of course, things are always subject to change, but my top 10 physical attributes that I find especially attractive would be (in no particular order): ...


13 Comments, 113 Views, 20 Votes ,3.76 Score
Canafax 42 M
5  Articles
Some brief ideas on dating   7/14/2009

Over the years I have noticed that most people seem to have an inherently conflicted notion of what dating is. I think there are some basic misconceptions of what dating is that only allow you to limit yourself. With them you will then have less selection, enjoyment, friends, and potentially miss the good relationship(s) you were trying to find in the first place. For example, many people ...


2 Comments, 65 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
d_star8 40 M
10  Articles
Where is the best place for a 1st date?   7/13/2009

Tell me folks?


2 Comments, 52 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score