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hi friends   11/28/2010

hi building a relationship is very easy just trust someone u will defiantly like them


0 Comments, 6 Views, 0 Votes
Sephiroth4269 21 M
1  Article
Looking for love in all the wrong places   11/26/2010

Maybe its jsut me but it seems everywhere i look theres lots of potential but nothing ever works out because fo miscommunication or one party trying to be nice to the other adn not honest. of course tryign to find a partner in a club or a bar or even online jsut seems to be more difficult and awkward then it has to be at times yet thats the only real means of meetign someone now a days and still ...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
lostwill34 48 C
2  Articles
couples   11/26/2010

we would like a couple to become friends at first and go from there, we want someone we can chill with!! get a hold of us if u would like to know more or chat....


0 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
A man wants to know how to talk to women   11/19/2010

Dear Nina, I need help! My name is Brad, and I am a failure with women. I don't know how to pick them up, how to get dates, and my only sexual exeperiences were not great because I was so nervous. I am great talking to people at work, or to neighbors or friends, but if I am talking to a woman who I find attractive, I can't think of anything to say. What I do say is a disaster, and otherwise I ...


0 Comments, 53 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
double martini   11/4/2010

A businessman enters a tavern, sits down at the bar, and orders a double martini on the rocks. After he finishes the drink, he peeks inside his shirt pocket, then orders the bartender to prepare another double martini. After he finishes that it, he again peeks inside his shirt pocket and orders the bartender to bring another double martini. The bartender says, "Look, buddy, I'll bring ya' ...


0 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
fas_skt 53 M
1  Article
for good life   11/1/2010

for ur good life building a relationship is utterly important. this is no nonsense, i think if u want to build a strong relation ship you must be serious first of all and plan on important things for it to be good.


2 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
FATHERS   10/27/2010

Do you really know how much impact you will have on your 's future relationships? They are like sponges, they absorb everything you say & do. Daughters have a special relationship with their dads. Whether you know it or not, we hang on your every word. But besides that, we choose our lifestyles mostly from our growing years. My step mother made me a real life Cinderella. I learned to cook, clean, ...


1 Comments, 343 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
mydickin_u 49 M
2  Articles
How Do I do it..   10/21/2010

Met a friend who was just an acquitance..we now talk and chat daily, she is married and I am too..having a thing between us is a definate no no in her books coz of the marriage issue..am attracted to her and she too..how do I get to cross the line after telling her that I won't ?


2 Comments, 93 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
LetmeridethatBBC 48 F
1  Article
Act like a goddess..get treated like one!   10/13/2010

I submit that a man’s “true colors” don’t manifest themselves over night. They are there, hiding, all along. However, your power of discernment becomes clouded by a noxious layer of lust/love/infatuation. Admittedly, there are some issues that, even after decades of marriage, Superwoman would not be able to detect, but in most women’s cases there are multiple red ...


6 Comments, 119 Views, 22 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_loladbb 47 T
2  Articles
Gullible or hopeless romantic?   10/3/2010

We've all had relationships where we got "burnt". I had a few that turned into marriages, as i was so overwhelmed by what i felt inside for them. They were the "1". turned out they were not who they claimed to be at all & divorce happened. My question is, after being so smitten with them & hood-winked by them, does that make me gullible or a hopeless romantic?


1 Comments, 78 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
djl1957 66 M
9  Articles
Building Intimacy in Any Relationship   9/30/2010

1. Time – set aside time for time to connect. We’ve been setting aside 10 minutes after dinner, but have managed to go well past 10 minutes every day. It’s been so much fun, that we sometimes start new discussions based on topics shared.

2. Place – Find somewhere comfortable that’s not a bed, so you don’t fall asleep. We use the couch or sometimes do so at a restaurant. ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
djl1957 66 M
9  Articles
Relationship   9/9/2010

A strong, healthy relationship can be one of the best supports in your life. Good relationships improve your life in all aspects, strengthening your health, your mind and your connections with others as well. However, it can also be one of the greatest drains if the relationship is not working. Relationships are an investment. The more you put in, the more you get back. Love and relationships ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
chinadoll11550 39 F
0  Articles
young milf   9/5/2010

I'm a young milf in my mid 20's and am looking for some excitement, however with me being a young milf it makes it nearly impossible to have free time. How does a person like myself build a realtionship when so much of my time is devoted to my ?


5 Comments, 173 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
Traumst7 39 M
7  Articles
Need advice   9/5/2010

So I just found out that the girl I have been with for 5 plus years cheated on me. I am still with her but I have a mental block. Should I abandon everything we've had after 5 years or stick around. She seems like she never wanted to break up and said she had no idea what she was thinking. I think I just need to have a sexual encounter without her to be "even". Then I might feel better? Advice?


5 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_abilove22 31 F
10  Articles
penis size, vaginal size.   8/25/2010

penis size, vaginal size.



i want what i want! my freedom, my blessings of liberty, my personal choice. the penis and vagina are also sex organs. trust me vagina's vary in size, shape, etc. also. there are similarities, however, some (vaginas) are wired differently! what satisfies each individual? there are no government regulations regarding acceptable penis size, or "too big". ...


11 Comments, 262 Views, 40 Votes ,3.40 Score
Fun4u2bwim 53 M
4  Articles
Morning Sex   8/24/2010

One of the many differences between the sexuality of men and women is that men tend to enjoy morning sex, while women mostly prefer to keep bedroom activity reserved for nighttime. This probably has a lot to do with what is referred to as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT), which causes a man without erectile dysfunction to have three to five erections as he sleeps. NPT is more commonly referred ...


3 Comments, 101 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
JordanNAustin 64 M
9  Articles
Time heals all wounds   8/22/2010

Recently, I lost someone, who I had developed a long term relationship over 30 years. It is hard to explain the loss. There isn't a day that doesn't go by even after these past 2 years that I don't think of her.

So, be happy to find this type of relationship. Cherish it for life is fleeting. When it is gone, it is gone.


0 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Adventurer333 56 M
18  Articles
Booty or relationship?   8/20/2010

Every once in a while I come across a profile claiming to be seeking "true love" and I think that SEXFinder.com is an odd place for that, I consider SEXFinder.com to be access to sexual encounters and/or relationships, but it never occurs to me that people may be bf/gf seeking. I suspect that is my own filter as I have the relationship I want and I use SEXFinder.com for discrete sexual flings.

I am curious how many ...


5 Comments, 79 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Adventurer333 56 M
18  Articles
Booty or relationship?   8/20/2010

Every once in a while I come across a profile claiming to be seeking "true love" and I think that SEXFinder.com is an odd place for that, I consider SEXFinder.com to be access to sexual encouters and/or relationships, but it never occurs to me that people may be bf/gf seeking. I suspect that is my own filter as I have the relationship I want and I use SEXFinder.com for discrete sexual flings.

I am curious how many ...


0 Comments, 12 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the little things mean a lot...   7/31/2010

I think men who have pierced ears are better prepared for marriage. They have experience pain and bought jewelry. Rita Rudner


2 Comments, 35 Views, 9 Votes ,1.72 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
a friend in need   7/31/2010

Needing someone is like needing a parachute. If he/she isn't there the first time you need him, chances are you won't be needing him again.


1 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
mlndstr7 43 F
1  Article
NSA???   7/24/2010

What I don't get is why people lie about their intentions.. I mean what's the point.. Cause when you lie about them you don't really get what you wanted anyway... right? Or am I missing something??

For example if you only want random sexual encounters when you feel like it.. why bother with the I want a relationship with you and the usual b.s. You could probably find someone that would ...


0 Comments, 45 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
alohatane 34 M
1  Article
building arelationship   7/10/2010

I'm fat but i single want someone


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
MostlyTallGent 56 M
5  Articles
Fudging Profile Information, Harmless White Lie or Not?   7/5/2010

In the fifteen some odd years that I have been using the internet to meet women, I have encountered several whose reality did not match what they portrayed on their profile. Given that the information on a profile is all that there is to make a decision about whether to engage someone or not, I think it sets a dangerous precedence for the connection if it starts out with a misrepresentation. ...


2 Comments, 82 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_goodluvin579 43 M
1  Article
had the chance   7/2/2010

early on in my relationship i had the chance to have sex but fought the temptation and we were able to build from there.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes
rm_vijay_k33 42 M
7  Articles
Relation   6/30/2010

hello friends let us discuss about the relationship, means relation between family members, friends, coluege, others.

A relationship is such that it is upto the person who buits up. it is very diffiicult to built a good relation but very easy to breakup a relation.

Todays life is fast people are engaged in their work, have very little time with each other to share ther ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
selena1222 51 C
1  Article
Sex is important when building a relationship   6/23/2010

My husband and I have been married for a little over two years. Literally we are just getting to know what one another wants within our relationship. Even though it saddens me it took this long to get to where were at, I am very glad. We never sat down to learn about each others sexual needs and wants. It took him leaving me to realize as a wife I needed to step my game up. It clicked that I ...


1 Comments, 89 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
yungcoc 39 M
6  Articles
How many of you?   6/20/2010

How many people on here have started a long term relationship with someone else on this site. If you have please explain how this has started and how you made it last. I would like to here success stories from this site.


0 Comments, 64 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
FillingUup32 35 M
6  Articles
The hardest thing to do...   6/17/2010

The hardest thing to do on a site like this one is building a long term fuck-type relationship. Everyone wishes they had the one person to call on when they want it most, yet no one can find it. Any suggestions?


8 Comments, 135 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
Building a discrete relationship between two married people   6/11/2010

Over the past couple of years I have tried to find a married woman in order to build a relationship with her. My goal has been to establish a relationship that involves trust, sharing, and benefits. I have found that single people merely put me down for my infidielity without delving into my circumstances. Married women... where are they? People tell me that there are married women looking ...


1 Comments, 94 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
Everyone is different   6/10/2010

Everyone is different. Just because you have been treated with a complete lack of respect in the past, doesn't mean it will happen again. Everyone is different. You can't judge future relationships by the past ones. Everyone is different. Judge people by how they treat you, not how you have been treated in the past. Everyone is different. Don't let the past cloud your future. Everyone is ...


3 Comments, 71 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
rm_B_Slim14 40 M
1  Article
Key to a successful relationship   6/10/2010

What are the keys to a successful relationship? Is sex a bigger key than love? A relationship should be built on love, honesty, and trust. If u can't trust your companion, how can you build a relationship with them. Sex is just another of showing someone how u feel about them.


1 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
communication in a relationship   5/26/2010

It always pay to listen to your lover in a relationship... Take time to go for a walk together.. Have a conversation and just talk about things... You may really find out something new about the person.. In fact it may spark a thought on something you could do to make a moment more romantic... or possibly suggest a gift for that special someone...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sure can't !   5/23/2010

You can't know where you're going unless you know where you been. ...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
G_Vocals 49 M
11  Articles
Welcome Home Mr. G!   5/17/2010

I had spent the last two weeks in Michigan away from my Woman, and as I’m flying home all I can think about is how she fucked me crazy the weekend before I left. As she put it, “I’m gonna give you something to think about while you’re in MI!” And she did… I thought about her in every single position, especially with that Ass in the air, the way she woke me up every morning with a ...


0 Comments, 183 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Words !   5/7/2010

Words that soak into your ears are whispered, not yelled. ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 22 Votes ,1.20 Score
OkanaganMan 36 M
6  Articles
Ladies making the first "move" on SEXFinder.com!?   5/6/2010

I know that it's "traditional" for the man to make the first move, ,, which usually leads to "building a relationship". But lets be honest here, ,, SEXFinder.com is far from traditional (to say the least). If a guy (myself for example) comes across a profile that catches my eye, , i will usually act on it in some form, ,, and i'm hoping that the ladies out there are doing the same!?? If you want to "build ...


3 Comments, 121 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
The future !   5/4/2010

1. A woman worries about the future until she gets a husband.

2. A man never worries about the future until he gets a wife.
...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 1 Votes
BEST QUIZ   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 12 Views, 1 Votes
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes
cwby351 46 M
1  Article
Why do we have Barriers?   5/1/2010

Ever wondered why we dont seem to be the same people who started the relationship. Both men and women seem predisposed to keep portions of their personalities hidden from their counterpart. Why? Is it the fear of these traits will change the opinon of the other on who they are dating? Is it that they want to feel more comfortable with someone before they completely let go? My problem with this ...


0 Comments, 44 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
rm_camila51000 64 M
13  Articles
my opinion   5/1/2010

Vision, integrity, commitment can guide you and the right information and skills can help you do part more cancionly and succesfully.My hope is that this website can help you succeed on that journey.


1 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
any mature women   4/27/2010

anyone else getting any luck with mature women?


4 Comments, 119 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Judgement !   4/27/2010

Good judgment comes from experience, and a lot of that comes from bad judgment....


3 Comments, 60 Views, 33 Votes
md dodkcljc   4/24/2010

Do not expect anyone to be responsible for your happiness. Ask yourself why you weren't happy? Too often relationships fail because someone is unhappy and blames their partner. Your life is solely under your control, with your relationship you have to take the good with the bad. You need to give as well as take



2 Make and keep clear agreements. Respect the differences between ...


1 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
bisexualgurl2010 43 F
3  Articles
I thought my husband erthing he knows about sex   4/21/2010

When I first meet em he was aight, but had no rythem. He use to play with kitty for a sec, kiss on the neck a bit, then he was ready for action.

I said uh uh.........I crammed my pussy in his mouth one night, held his face snug and tight in it, did a flip, landed on face with my ass in his mouth-told him to suck that ass-and he's be doing great er since

Know that I've taught ...


5 Comments, 46 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
havinfun1101 37 M
7  Articles
physicality in a relationship   4/20/2010

How much do we need physicality in our relationships? I am not saying base a relationship on physicality but can we have a successful one without physicality.


1 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Italian virgin !   4/17/2010

Maria had just gotten married, and being a traditional Italian she was still a virgin. On her wedding night, staying at her mother's house, she was very nervous.

Her mother reassured her;

'Don't worry, Maria, Tony's a good man. Go upstairs and he'll take care of you.

Meanwhile, I'll be making pasta.'

So, up she went. When she got upstairs, Tony took off his ...


2 Comments, 112 Views, 27 Votes ,0.72 Score
roadboy1999 49 M
2  Articles
hey   4/7/2010

whats up i would love to fuck


3 Comments, 45 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
drspock77 47 M
1  Article
What are the core things women want from a relationship?   3/29/2010

In the (very)few relationships that I have had with the opposite sex, I find that most women want security, companionship, support and physical responsiveness. Is this true? How far am I off from this?


9 Comments, 132 Views, 16 Votes ,3.72 Score
the how "not" to guide   3/27/2010

I started dating a gal 11 years youbgerUndertaking Responsible Service of Alcohol and Silver Service Waiting courses with Victorian Bar School Have undertaken and completed basic French language courses


1 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Still trying   3/20/2010

I just ended a fun few weeks with a wonderful person. I can say most of the problems was still my lack of self confidence.

I suppose it just a thing that time fixes. Some of my old ways are gone and for the better. Old hurts don't seem to bother but maybe a still lurking more than I let myself realize.

Casual sex is fun but maybe I won't ever graduate to the screw and run type. ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Mind & matter !   3/16/2010

Be who you are and say what you feel, because those that matter, don't mind, and those that mind, don't matter!...


5 Comments, 105 Views, 47 Votes
Adult Friends   3/14/2010

We have been on SEXFinder.com going on 13 years. We have found only a very few people that we felt were compatible with us and our outlook on exploring. We have gotten to the point in out lives where it is not all about the physical but more the sensual. Being able to flirt joke around in an open non aggressive way is exciting. Now not saying that sex is not part of it but the sensual is ...


3 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Bubblyboo3 45 M
10  Articles
so is it best   3/5/2010

to meeting someone and have a few drinks first and get to know someone or should you just start going out?


3 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
vd46877 27 M
10  Articles
hello gals   2/7/2010

any ladies in delhi looking for males check this out....u won't regret

check my profile


3 Comments, 37 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
egdiscreetdesire 47 M
6  Articles
how to convince your wife?   1/22/2010

i always wanted to sk this question , why majority of wifes think if her husband ask her for 3 or 4 some MMFF or similar then he doesn't love her or thinking she is a bitch to watch her playing with others !


5 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
lovestogive2u69 42 M
2  Articles
how soon for sex   1/21/2010

when in a new relationship and you are looking long term, how soon should we be thinking sex, I know that we can specify a time frame but if we are looking for the long lasting type of relationship is sex too soon bad for the relationship at all?? comments?


5 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
Stryker624 61 M
16  Articles
The Scariest Word in the English Language...   1/20/2010

What is it? COMMITMENT.

Why is it that way? What scares people so much that when they hear that word they flee in unbridled terror? Okay, maybe not that bad, but close enough.

What does commitment actually mean? There are 6 different meanings that may be applied to commitment; however, for this, I’ll address the two that are relevant.

1.) Commitment means; ...


3 Comments, 67 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_Bannister49 73 M
8  Articles
New Zealand Lady Friends needed urgently   1/14/2010

As you can see I travel quite extensively. I find that the compamy of a sensuous lady helps me to adjust to the new environment. Let me be clear that I don't care one iota for your so called 'physical beauty'. I like my ladies to be able to chat on a few subjects and to be discretely suggestive. I will be in Wellington from 12 Mar to 23 Mar and in Hamilton from 24 Mar to 1 April. If you have ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Wife sleeps in separate Bed   1/14/2010

Hi all,

Recently my wife has developped a habit of sleeping in the girls bedroom, and avoids Sexual contact with me.

I have been very supportive on this whole issue, I have even offered to seek professional help, but she tells me she is fine, that there is nothing wrong with her.

She is in her early 30's and I'm wondering if there is something she doen't want to share ...


3 Comments, 134 Views, 3 Votes
rm_Bannister49 73 M
8  Articles
North Queensland Ladies / Couples Wanted   1/13/2010

Ladies or Friendly Couples (MF or FF), I will be in Innisfail from 26 jan to 22 Feb 2010 and would like some fun company in intimate settings. You will find me to be intelligent, clean, intimately explorative with incredible sexual stamina. I NEVER orgasm until my partner is totally satisfied and will do anything she wants me to do. I leave ny sexual activities totally up to my partners ...


2 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
TxAthlete4811_1 64 M
5  Articles
Trust & Love   1/4/2010

There really is no relationship if you can't trust the other person. I mean if one of you is faithful and the other is not, how can there be a true relationship? I wish you well but think that there needs to be trust with you honoring your word.


3 Comments, 34 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Just Smile   1/4/2010

Skills to build strong relationships - How to build strong relationships with each other.

For any strong healthy relationship with partners & lovers, there are some qualities which make the relationship strong. A relationship forms as a bond of trust between eachother and supports each other. There are some skills which help you to create a strong bonding with trust in relationships. 1. ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
studlyguy8922 39 M
2  Articles
how   12/21/2009

how do you build a relationship that can go the distance. i have had trouble in this area in the past


1 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_Bannister49 73 M
8  Articles
Realistic Expectations of A Mature male   12/14/2009

I have decided that if I am to influence opinion then I should at least contribute in some way...hence my articles about matters that either please me or bug me.

Being a naturally pleasant person with a positive outlook on life I try to limit my 'bugs' but there is one bug that keeps annoying me. I keep on getting all these winks etc from 25-30 year old women. Now being 60 I suppose I ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
rm_hungmanie 43 M
1  Article
what do you do when....   12/13/2009

what do you do when....you start off as pure sex w no strings---then you start to develop feelings for that person and want more? What if they dont want the same?


5 Comments, 148 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
rm_MBA_HANDSOME 35 M
13  Articles
Immaturities, low self esteem, self pity are some of the reasons for unnecessary jealously.   12/10/2009

Immaturities, low self esteem, self pity are some of the reasons for unnecessary jealously.

Jealousy can make you mistrust someone. You have to trust in yourself first to learn to trust someone else. Building confidence in yourself will help you to understand yourself in much better ways, it is important to find one that works for you. You could use affirmations, which are positive ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
rm_MBA_HANDSOME 35 M
13  Articles
Trust can only be achieved through kindness.   12/10/2009

Trust can only be achieved through kindness. You can probably never be absolutely confident about another person, but through gradually improved understanding you can begin to value another person' s perception. Note that this does not necessarily mean conformity we can trust each other without agreeing. Your faith in me (defined as trust) should be based upon your understanding of me, and ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 0 Votes
rm_MBA_HANDSOME 35 M
13  Articles
Be responsible   12/10/2009

Be responsible

Relationship is a sweet responsibility. A trustworthy partner is always responsible for his or her behavior. Be responsible for your actions. If your relationship is not sailing smooth, it is your responsibility to do something about it. Talk to each other and face the adversities together. Your romantic life will be awesomeif you have faith in each other. Being ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 0 Votes
rm_MBA_HANDSOME 35 M
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Never lie   12/10/2009

Never lie

'Please do not lie to me, unless you are absolutely sure I will never find out the truth, ' the well known quote will make you think. Being truthful is like climbing the first step of the ladder called 'trust'. A lie is hard to find out but once it is out in the open, the relationship will suffer. Telling your spouse that you are in a meeting when you are actually in the bar ...


1 Comments, 14 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Bannister49 73 M
8  Articles
Australian Guy Looking For a Genuine American Woman   12/9/2009

Well here goes. My profile is available for viewing but I am in this for a real partnership with an American woman. I'm a retired Australian military officer, reasonably pleasant on the eye, a few health issues but they are not obvious. I'm a committed Christian but want a lady who is totally tactile, affectionate and loyal. I'm married but separated and ready to move to the US as soon as ...


2 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
bland069 77 T
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Joe's My Man   12/2/2009

I met Joe last year.

He was an independent business-man from out-of-town, and he just came down-valley because I had caught his buzz on SEXFinder.com and invited him down to Chez Moi for a visit after work.

He was a Standard Member -- no photos -- but I didn't much care because I was entranced by what he had to say in his profile.

I don't remember now exactly what he said, but it ...


5 Comments, 97 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
whitesexyhung 40 M
5  Articles
what to do   12/2/2009

what do you if you sex life goes down the drain? can it be repaired?


2 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Bannister49 73 M
8  Articles
Why Dont people Reply   11/30/2009

I thank my parents every day, not for givng me libido higher than Mount Everest, but because they taught some common courtesies. Along with opening the door for a lady, standing on a bus for an invalid or a pregnant lady, they also taught me to acknolwedge someone who spoke to me....and to do so politely.

Its a shame that many of the people on this site didnt have the same parents as I ...


6 Comments, 128 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rasta_soj 54 M
11  Articles
lets see who all the real freaks are   11/12/2009

Freak Test 1. Have you ever had intercourse? (5pts) 2. Oral Sex: Giving to Orgasm (5 pts) Receiving (5pts) 3. Licked an ass? (5pts) 4. Had your ass licked? (5pts) 5. Stuck your tongue in their ass? (10pts) 6. Swallowed Cum? (5pts) 7. Practiced Bondage or BDSM ? (5pts) 8. Had anal sex? (5pts) 9. Had an orgasm from anal sex? (5pts) 10. Ever squirted or made someone squirt? (10pts) 11. ...


10 Comments, 227 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
fabiodonetti5 40 M
12  Articles
Pose as a Friend, Work as a Spy   11/11/2009

Knowing about your rival is critical. Use spies to gather valuable information that will keep you a step ahead. Better still: Play the spy yourself. In polite social encounters, learn to probe. Ask indirect questions to get people to reveal their weaknesses and intentions. There is no occasion that is not an opportunity for artful spying.

Law 15


3 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
of marriage lust and love   11/1/2009

Do you know if you're in love, lust, or marriage? Love: When you take a bubble bath together Lust: When you take a bath in Jell-o together Marriage: When you give the a bath

Love: A romantic candle-light dinner for two Lust: "Do I have to buy you dinner first?" Marriage: 4 McDonald's Happy Meals . . . to go

Love: Giving your love some candy Lust: Thinking you are the candy ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rasta_soj 54 M
11  Articles
Abuse vs Love   10/29/2009

Why would a guy physically or emotionally abuse a lady and say he truely loves her, is that meant to be a sign of true love??

He then comes back buying her gifts to say i'm sorry....and most ladies will fall for such sick love!


3 Comments, 50 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
wantotry74 43 M
8  Articles
Be True...   10/28/2009

Let no know one doubt the old saying:you get out what you put in! If we are to ever get anywhere with one another, be true!!! This thing called life to simply too short for little games.Alternative motives eventually lead to heartache, and it will always come back to you...BE TRUE!!!


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
gashapon2 55 M
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White Reactions to Interracial Unions Between People of Color   10/27/2009

I did not write this article. I found it on ColorQworld and it echos my observation, in life and in this website. It reflects my bitterness in a lot of ways. That is why I want to share it and hope the writer is okay with it.

Many people react negatively to seeing a member of their ethnic group with a member of another ethnic group. To play devil's advocate, let's claim the "what is ...


2 Comments, 174 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
rm_muyiwa 49 M
2  Articles
Hypersexuality and a relationship...   10/27/2009

Is it just me, or are there stages of intense sexual arousal that affects us at varying intervals? I sometimes feel that my body is going through some type of foreign control when my stomach gets weak and that near-nausea feeling settles in for a few days. I've had friends who suffer from anxiety related ailments, and the symptoms seem very similar. It is a feeling beyond simply saying I am ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Disko89 34 M
4  Articles
!!!what   10/22/2009

i dont need that


3 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
udrivemecrazy4u 33 M
3  Articles
Relationship....   10/17/2009

Buliding a relationship... I believe the best way to build a relationship with the opposite sex is friendship. Right guys.When u know a person inside out as a friend its pretty easy to take that relation further long..


2 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_muyiwa 49 M
2  Articles
Why older women are attractive..   10/10/2009

Most of my life I dated older women. I think I did so because I was around so many older women as a . I shaped my ideas of attraction and beauty around the women who I saw the most; I saw pretty women in the media and in person. In person, the limits of age continued to be pushed as I aged. Through my thirties and my early forties I found older women, with a lesser margin of age, to still be ...


6 Comments, 157 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Happiness !   10/2/2009

Happiness will never come to those who fail to appreciate what they already have. ...


5 Comments, 94 Views, 35 Votes
What's wrong with developing a friendship first?   10/2/2009

When I joined this site I had just come out of a bad marriage I was tired and really for change except I wasn’t looking for a serious relationship. I just wanted someone to kick it with from time to time, and I wanted a lover, someone who was in-sync with me mentally, spiritually, and especially, physically.

My first few weeks on this site I was bombard with messages from men who ...


5 Comments, 124 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_muyiwa 49 M
2  Articles
Caution or Care Free?   10/1/2009

Have you noticed fewer people are willing to engage in the small talk that leads to a connection? Several years ago, BPC - before PCs, great connections were made during the course of completing routine chores. Going to the grocery store? Meet a casual talker in line, walk her to the car and get a phone number for follow up. Am I the only one who used to go to the mall as a for the sole ...


2 Comments, 40 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_pamakang 30 M
2  Articles
i like to meet a women how want to have marrige   9/30/2009

hi how are you and your family i relay like to meet a women how relay want to have family for bot we so we can bill a wander full family is that kind of women i am fining have a good day . .


1 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_pamakang 30 M
2  Articles
i like to meet a women how want to have marrige   9/30/2009

hi how are you .


1 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Second time around or bust!   9/26/2009

J was barely 20-yo when they first met, L was 33-yo, he was very attracted to her, and she felt the same about him. Neither of them acted on what they felt. They flirted but she ended up dating one of his friends, there was no love connection and she wouldn’t go out with him again. Then L finally asked J out she said yes, they had dinner once. After that they began seeing one another on a ...


0 Comments, 83 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Relationships !   9/19/2009

I truly believe that a real relationship of any kind is a thing of the past for me.

But good luck to the rest of you at the same time.
...


4 Comments, 114 Views, 22 Votes ,0.48 Score
3way4fun87 31 C
10  Articles
dose size matter   9/13/2009

should the size matter when building a relationship? NO if u like em sooo much, can just use toys with your partner


10 Comments, 149 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
honesty   8/31/2009

I am 27 i know what i want and i feel i do it with respect for the members of the opposite sex. why is it so hard for people to have a friends with benefits type of relationship without lying? that is one of the things i love most about them while you are exploring sexual fantasies and having good clean fun you are also building a relationship with this person, be open and be honest. many of my ...


3 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Buy a dog !   8/25/2009

If you want someone who will eat whatever you put in front of him, and never say its not quite as good as his mothers then buy a dog.

If you want someone always willing to go out, at any hour, for as long and wherever you want, then buy a dog.

If you want someone who will never touch the remote, doesn't care about football, and can sit next to you as you watch romantic movies ...


3 Comments, 59 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
wizzard10001953 61 M
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WHAT BECAME OF HER!!   8/17/2009

UPON BUILDING A REALATION WITH A PERSON FOR THEE FIRST TIME WAS EASY FOR ME.THE OTHER PERSON HAD NO IDEAL HOW NICE A GUY CANREALLY BE.SHE WAS SO USE TO BEING TREATED SO BADLY THAT A REAL MAN WAS ADREAM TO HER.THING WENT SO WELL THAT SHE WANTED ME TO TREAT HER BAD BECAUSE THAT WAS THE ONLY WAY SHE COULD BE AT PEACE WITH HER SELF.THAN CAME JEALOUS. THE TABLE REALLY TURN.IT WAS TIME TO HIT THE ROAD ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
1guyneed2girl 36 C
11  Articles
sex   8/10/2009

how do u like it


6 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_totalpimpin2 25 M
1  Article
What helps build mosts relationships?   8/8/2009

I have had trouble with most of my relationships. Most of my women i've dated have either cheated on me, or left me when things weren't going right for them i guess. Just curious to see what you guys would think the best way to build on to a strong relationship would be?


1 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_firepebble 49 M
1  Article
Pigeon training ‒ Or how to work with your man   8/7/2009

Most women I know get frustrated trying to fashion their lump of clay (the guy) into the beautiful sculptured relationship they envisage in their minds. What you need to realise is that men are not as complex in their thinking and I have an allegorical example of how it all works for you.

Picture a fairly large aviary or bird cage and you want you pigeon (the guy) to fly into a small ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
timbop 38 M
2  Articles
Mixing with each others friends   8/4/2009

My ex's opinion was to keep her friends seperate from mine after a falling out with some of her original friends. I dont believe this was healthy for our relationship and drove us apart.

Is it alright for her to have her own friends and you your own?????


4 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
You may be the world !   8/3/2009

To the world you may be one person. To one person, you may be the world. ...


5 Comments, 65 Views, 17 Votes ,3.41 Score
bestforeplay 49 M
5  Articles
EXPERT DOMINANT MASTER LOOKING FOR SUBMISSIVE WOMAN IN CAIRO   7/24/2009

I am 34 years old divorced , well cultured well educated European gentleman who is from Egyptian roots .

I am currently living in Cairo. I have been living all my adult life as a dominant master .

I am looking for a well cultured discreet submissive woman who want to explore the dark side of her desire.I know many woman scared to try bdsm and they think it is sadistic but ...


1 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
sync94 49 M
10  Articles
Built to Last   7/21/2009

Building A Relationship is a Life Long system. One has to know the other well.You have to talk about anything and everything. You have to be open-minded.You have to back each other. Relationships are hard to adjust to. But when you feel comfortable, then it's time to start all over again. You have to share, take the good with the bad. Understanding plays a crucial role in all relationships. ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Shayne91edge2 32 M
15  Articles
Building a stable relationship   7/17/2009

Nowadays, i find that alot of relationships don't last more than a couple weeks to a few months.

what do you think are some keys to building a stable relationship that could last years to a lifetime?


4 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
Relationship 101   7/12/2009

Relationships take hard work and respect for one another. Try to understand one another and work towards common goals.


1 Comments, 13 Views, 0 Votes
Do condoms kill sex   7/9/2009

I practice safe sex by i find using condoms kill the mood for a man. Why do men have to do everything to prevent and diseases


4 Comments, 77 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
Ken_and_Barbie 57 C
3  Articles
Am I a stalker or a concerned husband   7/1/2009

I need you help. I'm trying to evaluate my situation and I really don't have $250.00 an hour for a therapist to help me with this issue.



Here is the situation.



On June 1st (My wife's birthday) my wife dissapeared for 6 hours. She said that she was going out with friends at 5:30, the party broke up at 6:30. She was concerned that she needed to be home to make ...


12 Comments, 276 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Gals like that are hard to find !   6/2/2009

Two men are drinking beer and fishing one day and almost silently, so as not to scare the fish, one man says to the other, "I think I'm going to divorce my wife. She hasn't spoken to me in over two months."

The 2nd man continues slowly sipping his beer, then thoughtfully says, "You better think that over for a little while and think of maybe trying to rebuild y'all's relationship ...


6 Comments, 116 Views, 15 Votes ,2.82 Score
kngstud22 38 M
1  Article
Cougars   5/24/2009

How does a younger guy turn a fwb into a relationship with a cougar


4 Comments, 126 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
If women aren't interested in a guy why dont they just say so   5/21/2009

I cant tell you how many times I have written an e-mail and asked just to chat. I get a response of "sure lets chat". I send them another e-mail asking generic question, nothing of a provocative nature, and I never hear back, not even a screw you, that at least I could accept, but nothing. I send them one more E-mail asking if they really want to chat (though I seem to know the answer)and I ...


3 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,5.33 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the key to happiness   5/19/2009

How to Make a Woman Happy











It's not difficult to make a woman happy.... A man only needs to be:









1. a friend 2. a companion 3. a lover 4. a brother 5. a father 6. a master 7. a chef 8. an electrician 9. a carpenter 10. a plumber 11. a mechanic 12. a decorator 13. a stylist 14. a sexologist 15. a ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Unfuckgetable69 37 C
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Keep the fire burning...   5/10/2009

The most important aspect of a relationship is trust and respect between partners... Once trust and respect has been established, a relationship is essentially limitless... My husband and I spent the first three years of our marriage focused solely on one another... Building and developing the essentials of a long-lasting marriage. We had openly discussed the desire to experience more in the ...


2 Comments, 111 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
kvv202020 36 F
5  Articles
What is the best way to start out fresh in a new city?   5/3/2009

I've just recently moved to a new city and am wondering what everyone thinks is the best way to go about finding people who match my physical and emotional requirements?


7 Comments, 133 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
upholstery101 33 M
1  Article
Whats with women?   4/22/2009

Whats with womwn? All they want is what they can't have and every time you try to please them you just piss them off worse than when they were just complaning. So why is it when a womwn trys to help a relationship along she always ends up making it worse or just ends up making a guy think he's gonna get lucky this time but NO she has a different thought and you as a man didnt see it and ended ...


5 Comments, 107 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
rm_ToynHubIA 59 C
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it's only fair and I know it ...But...........................   4/12/2009

My husband and I have had a great 30yrs of marrage together. complete with a wild and fun sex life. He always seems to know what i like and when i like it.

weather i'm feeling like a Bad girl who likes it down and dirty or a fine fancy lady all dress up proper he knows just what to do.

We have had a few 3somes MFM with men that he has picked to suit my mood and wildest sexual ...


9 Comments, 356 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
RedboneAndCuck 50 C
0  Articles
Can I divide the pie   4/11/2009

Am I so wrong to be engaged to a beautiful, loving man (who happens to live in another city)...and be semi-involved with a swinger who can't get it up half the time or the other times he bust too quickly? I mean I don't care or even love this swinger guy. I am just highly oversexed.Am I wrong for wanting to be satisfied? My hubby to be knows about everything I do and who I am. Now , he isn't ...


6 Comments, 111 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
Poetbyday 34 M
9  Articles
Time Factor   4/9/2009

Building a relationship takes time, time to grow, time to settle, time to spark. But then their are other's who can just jump into a relationship and within a couple months they're madly in love and planning the rest of their lives together. Thats terribly sweet but in this day and age it is becoming scarce, with all the technology at our fingertips we are becoming more cyber-social people then ...


4 Comments, 65 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
MsBlackcherry54 71 F
1  Article
Building A Personal Relatonship   4/7/2009

Fundamental to a strong relationship is commitment. Commitment to making the relationship strong and healthy is the foundation on which it can grow. Relationships take work. They take effort. Like life itself, relationships are dynamic, ever changing because we are ever changing. A strong relationship requires continuous nurturing, and that takes commitment.

Commitment to the ...


4 Comments, 67 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
hellrocker84 36 M
1  Article
think abt it...   4/5/2009

they say that never make smone a priority in yr life if u r still an option for him/her.... but wt to do i dont understand this...... plz help me out...


5 Comments, 43 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
secretblklover 34 M
9  Articles
hints on how to turn my girl into a swinger   4/4/2009

have a girl...she does everything sexual with me...well not everything but is very openminded. one thing i cant get her to do is first get another person in our bed...and then maybe become swingers in the future...any guys out there that had a simular prob and eventually figured it out?


3 Comments, 76 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
best_dom_cairo 48 M
5  Articles
FAITH   4/4/2009

Faith. It's a word unspoken by many of the people considered ingenious in their time. Most old philosophers, scientists, and mathematicians are Empiricists. Empiricists believe in only something they have experienced for themselves. If they haven't had a first hand perception of something (seen, touched, heard, felt), they have no faith in the fact that it really exists. I've questioned my levels ...


2 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
secretblklover 34 M
9  Articles
how can I?   4/3/2009

build a relationship with someone that been a part of the swinger lifestyle? knowing she might be the type to cheat? may have a secret lover somewhere...and not knowing her complete past


3 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Are Us Men Really Like This?   4/2/2009

If you Treat him nicely, he says you are in Love with him. If you don't Treat him nicely, he says you are Proud.



If you Argue with him, he says you are Stubborn. If you Keep Quiet, he says you have no Brains.

If you are Smarter than him, he will lose Face. If he is Smarter then you, he is Great.

If you don't Love him, he Tries to Possess you. If you Love ...


14 Comments, 174 Views, 47 Votes ,1.68 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
The Relationship !   3/16/2009

Regardless of how hot and steamy a relationship is at first, the passion fades, and there had better be a lot of money to take it's place. ...


14 Comments, 190 Views, 39 Votes ,0.63 Score
women and men   2/23/2009

this is most superb relation ship between men and women for the world


0 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
friends with benefits   2/20/2009

friends with benefits can be a sweet deal for both parties if you do not forget the first part. you can still build a healthy relationship with someone even though you do not date. some of the strongest bonds i have made with females is through this arrangement. if you are not communicating you can't get everything out of it. i feel people in this deal put too much emphasis on sex and not on ...


0 Comments, 115 Views, 10 Votes ,5.18 Score
names   2/16/2009

just wondering if im the only one who has met someone while being wasted forgot there name and was denied from getting some booty because of it hahahah good times


0 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_kilo360z 29 M
12  Articles
Listen!!!!1   2/9/2009

Building a relationship. Good Sex, ok so what else?


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
well thats a good one   1/28/2009

well thats a good one. i think it takes a lot from both to make it i would say thats way am here she has never be 50% i dont even going 100% but please give it back its the only way it works


0 Comments, 16 Views, 0 Votes
copulare_73 45 M
2  Articles
Is the grass greener on the other side...........   1/20/2009

I love looking at people profiles and their are quite a few people (single men, women and couples) on the site looking for something on the side. I'm not judging anyone looking foe side action, not for me to say right or wrong. My question is do you really sex with someone else would be better? Do you simply like variety? Is it an attempt to add some spice in your life?



...


4 Comments, 72 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
01717222560 36 M
10  Articles
building a relationship   1/10/2009

building a relationship is good thing


1 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
hugehardnthick 40 M
1  Article
Man and woman can be friends and never hv feeling of having sex or romance?   1/6/2009

Not sure if i am right or wrong but for my case...I cant stop thinking of fucking them....i mean even those who r just good friends...


8 Comments, 157 Views, 10 Votes ,4.58 Score
justjewles63 57 F
3  Articles
Im Looking for a real man for Relationship   1/5/2009

Hello folks, its JJ Just Jewles 63, I was wondering if you can give me advice on what to look for in a steady relationship, what input can you give me?{=}


3 Comments, 63 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
staminaguyforyou 46 M
1  Article
Creating a real relationship   1/3/2009

Steps to great relationship:

1. Honesty 2. Mutual attraction/Mutual satisfaction 3. Both male/female partners are willing to participate in fun activities 4. Sex and lots of sex, usually between the two partners unless how open the relationship becomes 5. NO selfish acts during sex, which means open to please their partners request 6. Delete or back out of any ...


3 Comments, 60 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Interracial Dating   12/31/2008

I know this site is a sex site, but it's also Adult Friend Finder site. So tell me why it is so difficult to date interracially on this and any site. Judging from the e-mails I get, in general white men don't seem show reverence for black women as they do for white women. My white girlfriends tend to get more respectful e-mails that I do. What is up with that?


5 Comments, 143 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
yea or no??   12/28/2008

hey there some fine ass girlz on this site but are they forreal???


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Gondolin2008 41 M
5  Articles
Love or Sex?   12/23/2008

Is it true that sex helps spice up a relationship? When is too much sex really too much? What about love? What's the actual definition of love in a relationship?


2 Comments, 53 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
mysticmaiden49 63 F
0  Articles
why we cheat   12/18/2008

i know that is why most of us are here, is to find someone to cheat with. when the passion goes out of our marriage or our live in relationships. but did you ever stop to think why we cheat? I have. I cheated because when i was at my lowest point in my life i asked for some much needed love and just some companionship from my husband and i was pushed away with the statement that he had his ...


13 Comments, 314 Views, 34 Votes ,5.94 Score
haskins69me 42 M
8  Articles
Does this even exist?   12/11/2008

In these times it's really difficult, next to impossible to build a quality relationship with passion. Never take it for granted if you have found it.


3 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
quotes on marriage   12/11/2008

My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met. Rodney Dangerfield

When a man brings his wife flowers for no reason, there's a reason. Molly McGee

Always get married early in the morning. That way, if it doesn't work out, you haven't wasted a whole day. Mickey Rooney

In olden times, sacrifices were made at the altar, a practice that still continues. Helen ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
rm_Javy___21 36 M
1  Article
any real honest girls out there?   12/10/2008

are there any real, honest, genuine girls still out there? is there such a thing anymore???


2 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
50 years   12/2/2008

A husband and wife were celebrating their 50th anniversary.

That night the wife approached her husband wearing the exact same sexy negligee she had worn on their wedding night.

She looked at her husband and said, "Honey, do you remember this?"

He looked up at her and said, "Yes dear, I do. You wore that same negligee the night we were married."

She said, ...


3 Comments, 83 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
LOUNGING ON THE TERRACE   12/1/2008

You look wonderful lounging on the terrace on such a beautiful morning. OMG, you look good ‒ so handsome, so sexy.

I was already thinking about you in the shower ‒ thinking about walking outside straddling you as my wet naked body drips all over you…

…As I lower myself onto you, I gently nibble your earlobes as you moan with delight. I gingerly move ...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
SHEER ECSTACY   12/1/2008

I stand on the balcony thinking of ways we can bring pleasure to each other. I begin to caress the top of my breast. They begin to swell from arousal.

Ok, I’m feeling your vibe. You want to take the pleasure to another level. You want me on the floor you say. OK, Baby. Like this?

Um-m-m, you like how I’m massaging my thigh ‒ waiting for what we have in store ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
YOU LIKE?   12/1/2008

Baby, you like what I am wearing?

Ohhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh baby, what a treat...and with those heels… my cock is fully alert. Ummm, sliding up behind you. I love your sexy outfit. Very sexy ‒ especially with the little lace. Really makes your ass look good. I want a bite!!! Can you feel my cock against it as I lean over you to kiss your back, my hands underneath holding your ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
liveandenjoylife 51 M
0  Articles
Need Help and Advice   11/26/2008

I and my wife both are 38 We have 2 - 8 and 2 yr old.

She is a homemaker

Well, problem is lack of love and intimacy. More importantly, love - as without it I cannot enjoy the day-to-day life - Im not looking at the love before marriage but there needs to be some love/warmth - automatically everything else would fall in place.

We have a 2br rented apt - she sleeps in 1 ...


12 Comments, 112 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
rm_madhurblog 41 M
13  Articles
long term relationship   11/25/2008

Begin by simply being friends with the person you are seeking a relationship with. This stage is vital as it allows you to learn more about your partner, as well as confirm/deny your feelings towards a relationship with them. Going off the basis that a good long term relationship is based around love, we can look into how love is defined. Dr. Sternberg (a psychologist who studied love) put forth ...


1 Comments, 58 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
justjewles63 57 F
3  Articles
How do you know if they are mr Right or Mrs Right   11/24/2008

Id Love to Know what the secret is ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
mixed up   11/20/2008

My ex girlfriend left me 6 months ago we work at the same place and now the rumor is that she misses everything and has asked people about me. she also asked someone else why he went back to his wife does this mean wants to come back or is it just wishful thinking


1 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
drtyliltrker41 47 F
7  Articles
A SnowBalls Chance In Hell??   11/15/2008

I made the acquaintance of a member from SEXFinder.com that lives on the west coast. I live on the east coast and work here also. We both have very hectic schedules but keep in contact by e-mail, sometimes by cam and phone calls when time permits.My question to everyone is... Can we build up to some kind of a relationship with the distance between us?? Or as the title implies, Not a snowballs chance in ...


4 Comments, 105 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_two4_3fun 47 C
16  Articles
Anniversaries   11/14/2008

So, I just read JKH's observance regarding missed birthdays and thought I would share what Hubby and I did this year on our anniversary - WE BOTH FORGOT.

Yup. Pretty embarrassing. I remembered the day after and called him at work. When he answered the phone I said "Happy Day After Our Anniversary!" and laughed. He laughed too.

That night we went out to dinner and then went ...


4 Comments, 56 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_Supermansg1 40 M
3  Articles
You are all right   11/13/2008

Thank you to those people that replied to my last article, you were right as i was getting no joy from messages i was sending i tried to see it there was some one out there that would help me along the way and it cam across as begging (not good).

I wish to say that i have taken on board the comments that were left and i will put them into action.

Butttttttttttt i may need ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
We learn the hard way !   11/11/2008

Most men learn that the most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it one time. ...


21 Comments, 152 Views, 52 Votes ,5.04 Score
puddin084 42 C
4  Articles
startin new   11/11/2008

how soon or how fast should one start a new relationship after a break up?


5 Comments, 61 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_Haruki70 54 M
1  Article
Building a Relationship???   11/8/2008

Can you actually build a relationship? Simple answer has to be no? Building implies having the right design, tools, materials, talent and management to assemble something. The chances of finding two people with the same design, let alone all the other attributes, has to be slim to none. Instead, we have relationships and make of them what we can?


0 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_Zsbac 63 F
4  Articles
Long distance relationship   10/21/2008

Is it worth the pain during separation? Had anyone had a happy long distance relationship and still going strong? How did you both do it? I had been through one and it hurt so much I am having seconds thoughts....


8 Comments, 220 Views, 20 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_bdsm_delight 50 M
10  Articles
2 phones better   10/15/2008

for a country in the middle east u have to care about reputation , for that reason try to have additional mobile card to be used to avoid any headace


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
rm_bdsm_delight 50 M
10  Articles
swinging Problems in Arab Country   10/14/2008

Here i would like to give the members here a hint about how swinging life goes here in egypt through my experiance when i was married before or through experiances i had during playing here or from friends.



Usually the problem is on the mutual trust and feeling jelioues . i would tell u her one example . once i was ALONE with a married cpl , the lady was enjoying everything i m ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
rm_bdsm_delight 50 M
10  Articles
Why most of women don't show thier submissive nature?   10/14/2008

I always believe that inside each woman there is a submissive thing but i always wonder why they don't show it to the right person . BDSM is really a wonderful world full of fun . i wish everybody gr8 luck here and in life


0 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
hotbngcock 44 M
6  Articles
discreet relationship   10/12/2008

How do we build a discreet relationship when both the partners are looking for secrecy and discreet encounter. As we all know no relationship exist without trust. Hence how you build a trust when such atmosphere cease to exist in that kind of relationship. In those situation its better to have one partner make the first step. Once first step is made bu either giving details of his/her or his/her ...


2 Comments, 39 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
egypt_delight1 49 M
13  Articles
Swinging Problems in Arab Country   10/5/2008

Here i would like to give the members here a hint about how swinging life goes here in egypt through my experiance when i was married before or through experiances i had during playing here or from friends.



Usually the problem is on the mutual trust and feeling jelioues . i would tell u her one example . once i was ALONE with a married cpl , the lady was enjoying everything i m ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
egypt_delight1 49 M
13  Articles
BDSM secrets   10/5/2008

always believe that inside each woman there is a submissive thing but i always wonder why they don't show it to the right person . BDSM is really a wonderful world full of fun . i wish everybody gr8 luck here and in life


0 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
cansir717 43 M
6  Articles
wats a relationship!   9/24/2008

ppl kep talking of relationships n their importance. thers no doubt they r important but we have 2 understand there should be a certain confidence betwen the 2 individuals. but most of the ppl only think of themselves n l;ook at their partners to adjust 4 him or her. if u like a person ull automatically either tell him u lik their attitude. so the relation runs on faith , n fun 2 b the person u ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes
tallerman55 51 M
2  Articles
Creating a strong relationship   9/22/2008

I think it is very important to be honest about your sexual preferences going into a relationship. People who are not end up cheating and creating problems for themselves and their partners.


0 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, SEXFinder.com's   9/19/2008

Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, SEXFinder.com's


0 Comments, 17 Views, 0 Votes
stay or go?   9/5/2008

building a relationship takes lots of time, never rush into one


0 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
letsmakeastory 52 M
1  Article
why look for a real relationship on this site?   8/27/2008

please let me know why someone would look for a real relationship on this site?


7 Comments, 173 Views, 15 Votes ,2.37 Score
Del2TheNo2008 64 M
8  Articles
Just Imagine!   8/18/2008

I have fucked more chicks with little or no effort than you could imagine! Lets start from the begining shall we, I come from a humble background; went thru the public school system dropped out of 3 or 4 colleges and have been working ever since. Average parents, sibblings, friends etc.... So how did I get to be the Cocksman that I am? Purely by chance ill tell ya, purely by chance; lets look at ...


2 Comments, 128 Views, 13 Votes
luvtoeatbbwpussy 37 M
3  Articles
Just Friends?   8/16/2008

How do friends become lovers? I want to become more than friends with my friend from college. We went to high school too, and we did like each other in the past. She does have a boyfriend, but we have been spending alot of time together. I really want to tell her how I feel, but worry that if I do I will jeporadize the friendship. What should I do?


1 Comments, 42 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_ncbicpl08 37 C
1  Article
Looking For Fun   8/12/2008

I just want to know the best, most freaky way to meet a couple. We've never done this and I'd love to do it. Please help me. ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
harleybbwmama 53 F
5  Articles
Our Lifestyle   8/10/2008

For those of you who are interested, I live a charmed life. I live with 2 guys who absolutely love me and will do whatever it takes to make me happy. I feel the same about them. We are dedicated to each other's well being and happiness on an equal basis.

I hear alot of negative comments about the open or swingers lifestyle. In my humble opinion, it takes more commitment, communication, ...


0 Comments, 113 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_hdwg1450 56 M
2  Articles
Intamacy!   8/5/2008

I am almost 48 years old and I believe I am just learning what this word truely means. I thought it was the exchance of hopes and dreams with others, but I believe it to be something different today. It is more than just sharing hopes and dreams, it is sharing my life with another person. Not just hopes and dreams, but the pains and sorrows also and life seems to come with both.

I have ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_hdwg1450 56 M
2  Articles
It is sad   7/31/2008

that so many of the women I have chatted with on this site have to cautious about what they post or how they reply to things. Pains left behind by someone who did not value them as an individual, a person, and worst of all a wonderful woman. Everyone should have the ability to be themselves, respected for that, and valued by the person who is supposed to love them, but our society is not there ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
Layers on layers   7/22/2008

When you first meet someone, you have casual chat, on a range of subjects, never taking too many risks.

Slowly the subjects move from casual subjects to more specific subjects.

People feel more comfortable in saying on line what they really think.

Then comments become more complimentary. It becomes harder to put what they feel into simple words. This is both good and ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Hands2pleasyou 53 M
2  Articles
Polyamorous in San Diego.[ also in general ]   7/12/2008

Polyamorous in San Diego.



I am not a polygamist or polyandries I'm polyamorous





. I live in a very loving family. three of us in this house and a few other's are here in SD and a few in other places in the world. Were all friends, family, lover's, supporters, and caregivers. We all love freely and with all our passion and love in our hearts. We all give ...


0 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
nude_hot_sexy2 38 F
1  Article
Nude Life is the Healthy Life   7/9/2008

Human being spent nude life for thousands of years. If clothes are not on the body, feel lite and feel to take care of it. But in this site, people think all about sex. But friendship is the source of inspiration. Spending time, doing works with friend in nude without having sex, gives huge pleasure. Its not about sex, it should be a lifestyle being nude.

BYe Nude


4 Comments, 105 Views, 15 Votes ,3.13 Score
dondinero20066 44 C
156  Articles
Relationship   6/30/2008

Building a relationship is like building a house. strong foundation before the remaining building blocks can be added. Relationships need a two characteristics are important in testing the strength of the relationship and learning if the couple has a foundation to build on.

The first is dedication to the relationship; the second is constraint.

"These are two words that seem ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 19 Votes ,1.81 Score
Power of Wods without contact   6/24/2008

I wonder about the power of the written word as a form of communication.

These days we e-mail ad text so often, that it is normal to receive important information in writing and whats more in abbreviated writing.

On face value this may seem a short cut or an easy way to communicate without commitment.

HOWEVER

I feel that in some case this communication is the ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_knightnite7 44 M
6  Articles
??building   6/21/2008

do people think they can build a relationship from sites like these.. if so what kind


0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
COMMUNICATINMG WITH WOMEN   6/2/2008

1. FINE

This is the word we use at the end of any argument that we feel we are right about but need to shut you up. NEVER use fine to describe how a woman looks. This will cause you to have one of those arguments.



2. FIVE MINUTES

This is half an hour. It is equivalent to the five minutes that your football game is going to last before you take out the trash, ...


4 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,5.10 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
how to satisy your lover...   6/2/2008

Caress, praise, pamper, relish, savor, massage, make plans, fix, empathize, serenade, compliment, support, feed, tantalize, bathe, humor, placate, stimulate, jiffylube, stroke, console, purr, hug, coddle, excite, pacify, protect, phone, correspond, anticipate, nuzzle, smooch, toast, minister to, forgive, sacrifice for, ply, accessorize, leave, return, beseech, sublimate, entertain, charm, lug, ...


4 Comments, 49 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_F22Raptor108 43 M
0  Articles
When Mid-Life Crisis Strikes!   6/1/2008

Many people wonder how and why men and women are affected by mid-life crises. There you are, married for 15 years, three , a decent job, a house in the suburbs, and all the happiness that life is supposed to afford, right? Sure that would be great, but unfortunately that doesn't always last. Certain events can trigger this crisis. Events like losing a job after being with the company for a ...


1 Comments, 48 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_its4sunny 37 M
9  Articles
How was your first day on your new job?   5/27/2008

I meet this girl at the Revenue authority- a fine woman i want to hook up with. After some introduction, meeting board members i was completely left in the soft hands of this woman. I think i should fall for her, but its too close. She is going to be my new secretary. Am truely contemplating, being with her, or walk out of my ethics.i threw a page with my no. written on it, got a call and i'as ...


4 Comments, 37 Views, 8 Votes
moving to fast   5/22/2008

hi can anyone tell me why some people on here think that you only have to say hi and lets meet up tonight and we will meet up? am i the only one that thinks that we should at least try to get to know each other a little before we meet up? if you can help me understand then thank you


10 Comments, 226 Views, 22 Votes ,6.25 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
the end?   5/13/2008

EXAMPLE

I was working with a group of senior people on a management course. The group was stuck in an argument between two of the members, who I’ll call Fred and Mary. I asked each person to summarise the argument of the other in his or her own words. Mary began by saying: ‘I believe you think XYZ; have I got that right?’ Fred responded by explaining a bit more ...


0 Comments, 16 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
who with?   5/13/2008

Focusing on the task and excluding the feelings and needs of others: people have feelings and they bring those feelings to work. Some organisations harness the feelings and help people use their energy, joy and laughter to good effect. If you ignore people’s feelings and drive through the task regardless, then your best people will leave, you will alienate your customers and you will not ...


0 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
cheat   5/13/2008

A history of mistrust or stereotyping: we get a great deal of misinformation about people who are in different groups to ourselves. There is often more difference between the members of a group than between groups. If ever we think ‘All ____ are like that’, then we are stereotyping. This causes destruction in relationships; everyone is unique and wants to feel uniquely valuable. ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
what happened?   5/13/2008

WHAT GETS IN THE WAY

A number of things can get in the way of forming an effective relationship, including:





* a history of mistrust or stereotyping

* blaming the other party for a difficult relationship

* focusing on the task and excluding the feelings and needs of others

* unclear objectives, roles and expectations of each other.


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
who?   5/13/2008

4. Develop a culture whereby people can express their feelings.

We create relationships by sharing thoughts and feelings. When we express happiness, joy, contentment, anger, irritation, sadness or fear we feel more vulnerable, but we can also feel more connected. Unexpressed feelings can get in the way of building closeness. It is difficult for two people to have a useful conversation if ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
and then?   5/13/2008

3. Meet people informally, so they feel comfortable raising issues that are important to them.

Most people feel more relaxed in informal settings. If you are intending to meet with someone with the specific purpose of developing your relationship with that person, think about holding the meeting in a setting in which he or she will feel comfortable. When people are relaxed they are more ...


0 Comments, 6 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_johnbarrow37 37 M
11  Articles
Foundation   5/13/2008

In society we need to build effective relationships for a number of reasons. For instance, the health of people depends on what happens in organisations and what they do.

Alongside that, organisations only function with the co-operation of their members. We all know that ineffective organisations can be very frustrating. We also know that effective organisations can demand so ...


0 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes
mcallenbigdick4u 46 M
2  Articles
The more sex the better   5/12/2008

Just always rememeber this when you have a girlfriend, the more you fuck her, the more she will be into you!


4 Comments, 134 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
connie_lela 67 T
2  Articles
getting along first   5/11/2008

Do you know how much is involved in building a relationship at age 52? Geeeshh....tons. I've been with my partner now for 17 months, relocated with her to Dallas and find everyday challenging for us. We love each other, there is no doubt about that but learning to co-habitate is challenging. No magic to it just communications and trust.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
rm_euroticEng 38 G
10  Articles
Some hard times   5/1/2008

We are feeling great together. It is lovely. Unbelievable. Great. PErfect! But it did not just happen. I was an asshole to her...I admit. I took some time. You know what- our arguments and worst moments made it happen. Yep, they did make it happen. After each one of them we are closer, we love each other more, we understand each other more. THat's how it happends. That is how we built it and how ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
pangedit 44 M
2  Articles
Buildong a Relationship   4/24/2008

For any strong healthy relationship with partners & lovers, there are some qualities which make the relationship strong. A relationship forms as a bond of trust between eachother and supports each other. There are some skills which help you to create a strong bonding with trust in relationships. 1. Relax Optimistically

Having a relax mind about the person with whom you are interested in ...


1 Comments, 56 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
gunut682 46 C
1  Article
Sex&Racist   4/17/2008

I'm a black man who would love to fuck racist woman.why ? I think all they need is some great Dick and hug what do you think>>!...


3 Comments, 104 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_calmlys 38 M
3  Articles
The first words you say to someone   4/17/2008

Sometimes it's the first words that makes all the magic possible.

I know the traditional response is supposed to be "Just say 'Hi' and go from there." But sometimes hearing just the right words can open possibilities into wonder that you didn't suspect.

Maybe it's not the words, maybe it's just the tone of the voice. Hearing an announcement with firm conviction, a sincere ...


0 Comments, 91 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
litzman70 37 M
3  Articles
Be confidently just yourself   4/11/2008

A win win in building solid relationships is, in my opinion, being confidently yourself right from the start. Propose yourself as someone who is valuable as in fact you are. Don't hold back, yet don't be too intrusive. Keep up your mood. Enjoy the process of getting to know someone. You can't be wrong.


1 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_SANDRINO0709 47 M
4  Articles
How to Impress a Women   4/1/2008

I personally think that most men feel a very powerful desire to IMPRESS women. If you watch the way a man behaves when he's talking to a woman he's just met or a woman that he's on a first date with, you can SEE IT.

Maybe you've been there yourself. I know I have. Many, many times, in fact.

The feeling that you need to impress a woman usually comes along with another feeling: ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
lost & confused...   3/31/2008

hello everyone... sorry for this long article in advance...i have been w/my bf for about 6 years and we have the upmost respect and love for each other. however, last week i got some shocking news and don't know what to do...my bf is in the navy and hes in iraq. a big salute to all miltary personnel. anyways, he called me last week saying he and some friends went out for drinking and a nite of ...


4 Comments, 183 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
rm_6666xxxxx 64 M
8  Articles
I NEED YOUR ADVICE   3/20/2008

I AM SO HORNY BUT I CAN NOT DATE A WOMAN . HOW CAN I DATE A WOMAN , A GOOD WOMAN ????????????


3 Comments, 73 Views, 7 Votes ,0.75 Score
The two are concerned   3/19/2008

To build a relationship, both partners should share their views without any constraints...if its gonna work with both not having to change his / her way of life..then its great n gonna work


1 Comments, 17 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
imalwaysready247 58 F
1  Article
Pleasure Principles   3/17/2008

My first comment..doesnt it take a lot of understanding to build a relationship? Good communications? Many times I cant get beyond a first meeting because the very essences of giving pleasure hasnt even been attempted.

Can you tell me what you do to provide pleasure sexually for your new partner? Then how do you verify and assure yourself she did indeed enjoy the time you spent together? ...


3 Comments, 118 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
OriginalGetARoom 44 C
16  Articles
NEW TO THE ONLINE THING . . .Leasons Learned the hard way...   3/1/2008

For those of you new to this - some first things:



1) NEVER give out your land line phone number to someone you don't totally trust - they can enter it into google (dropping the number 1 - for instance 2345678903) - and, if it's a listed number, google will show a map to exactly your house (go ahead, try it - it's scary!) - keep this in mind if you have old enought to ...


9 Comments, 669 Views, 51 Votes ,8.37 Score
The First Meeting   3/1/2008

So I finally found someone who I've been chatting with for several weeks and have decided together that we both wanted to meet. After some banter back and forth about the when's and where's (as there is a small distance between us), we're still no closer to meeting. I'm not sure if it's because of the distance involved or maybe she just doesn't want to meet. I'm skeptical of just "showing" up ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_newmie223 44 M
9  Articles
Relationship 101   2/23/2008

Relationship 101 Building a Relationship is Like Building a House

MANHATTAN, Kan. ‒ Building a relationship is like building a house. Relationships need a strong foundation before the remaining building blocks can be added.



Other titles in this series Tips on Meeting, Dating New People Is This a Date? Or a Relationship? What Makes a Relationship Healthy? Remember ...


0 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_LFFAL7 47 M
23  Articles
My view on different types of relationships   2/20/2008

Most relationships are so fleeting these days. It seems that divorces are on the rise. Why is this so? I believe that for several reasons, most relationships eventually fail. They fail because people do not take the time to build a relationship the right way or get with people for the wrong reasons or do what it takes to sustain a vibrant relationship. Of course, there are other reasons based ...


4 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
stickyfacials2 50 M
3  Articles
Here?   2/11/2008

I find the people funny who are on here looking for a relationship with someone who they can TRUST. Aren't we all here because we can't walk around with our cocks out?


4 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
can you forgive after they have cheated?   2/8/2008

can you forgive after you know that they have cheated


2 Comments, 88 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
vikingluso 65 C
823  Articles
Scaring date moments   2/3/2008

Sure, dating is filled with plenty of warm-and-fuzzy, feel-good times. But, in honour of Halloween, let’s look at the scary stuff. As anyone who’s ever asked for someone’s phone number or gone in for a first kiss can tell you, certain moments in the courting process can be, well, downright terrifying. But fret not. With a little common sense, you can fly through these ...


0 Comments, 137 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
making new friends   1/31/2008

I think we are all here for the same thing. To make new friends. A special kind of friends tose who share in our appreciation of things sexual. Some of us may not share the same likes sexually or fit what you find attractive but please show everyone the same kindness you would want from someone who just didnt appreciate what you have to offer with a kind no thanx and explanation. Because once ...


0 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_dr333111 30 M
5  Articles
can anyfriend help me???   1/22/2008

hi all friends in the site , pls anyone can help me i have a bad luck in find friends in the site which is friendfinder??? a site made for this reason and i donot have luck and i donot know why???





thanks


0 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_havydick9 51 M
10  Articles
My Dream   1/22/2008

Am still dreaming to find a really woman of my life, the one I'll treat like an angel

I wish a could get a tall girl, with big and shapped leggs, very tall with a nice face, tiny stomach...to build a relation with.

Please write to me if you are the one or if you know someone you cantell her to contact me.

I've got everything except the woman of my dream !!!


1 Comments, 60 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
diam0ndprinces2 41 F
1  Article
GIVING YOUR INPUT   1/16/2008

WHAT ARE SOME OF THE THINGS THAT ONE LOOK FOR IN BUILDING A RELATIONSHIP


2 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
rm_richter026 31 M
2  Articles
Friends   1/13/2008

You always here of being friends with someone, and not wanting to take it to the next level and ruin what you have. Is there anyway to do that but not ruin it?


3 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
sex before married?   12/11/2007

So I was having a conversation with a friend on this topic and how some couples have remained virgins until they are married. Now in the religious sense this is viewed as a good thing however at the same time couldn't it end up in disaster because they may have certain expectations going in on what its going to be all about? I mean remember your first time was it everything you expected or do you ...


5 Comments, 131 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
HI MY QUEEN   11/26/2007

ARE YOU LOOKING FOR HAPPYNESS I WILL GIVE YOU IT BY LICKING AND SUCKING EVERY PART OF WOMEN BODY


0 Comments, 41 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_Mike8445 44 M
1  Article
Can we find somone here to be love and enjoy sex?   11/24/2007

Just wondering is it possible to find love and enjoy sex here? And enjoy each other compnay forever?...


3 Comments, 215 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
does the size of your penis really matter or is it how you work it   11/19/2007

I think its how you work in the bed sheet but atlease be about 7inches, iam I right? or does it have to be some real big dick


3 Comments, 105 Views, 11 Votes ,3.92 Score
Why are there so many on here, and so few that actually want to meet   11/16/2007

People play a lot of games, getting real meetings is next to impossible... why is that?


4 Comments, 124 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Things are looking up   11/14/2007

Not having a relationship with another man for a long time. I'm just getting back into the Gay life with a new man. Travel and being married to a straight lady is going to make it rough for me while.


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
chaoticliving 39 M
3  Articles
when do you....   11/13/2007

when dating a new girl/guy, when do you ask or tell about past relationships? or do you just not bring that up?


3 Comments, 72 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
HOTsushiANDcream 48 C
1  Article
Strapped to the bed   11/4/2007

Last weekend we bought a plethora of sex and bondage toys and last weekend we decided to use some of them on each other.

Early Sunday morning I carefully strapped my partner to our bed then playfully inserted various sized butt plugs, dildos and bullets in her pussy and ass. From time to time I inserted myself in her mouth, pussy and ass, and seeing her totally helpless was a great turn ...


4 Comments, 189 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
What Next?   11/2/2007

Love her but I'm married. can't divorce right now due to illness. I WANT TO KEEP HER AND MARRY HER SOMEDAY but I think she doesn't truly believe me. Even tried to buy a house -in her name- to let her have to show I mean it. HELP??


8 Comments, 135 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
wanttopamperyou2 69 M
65  Articles
Long Term Relationships   10/31/2007

So what does LTR mean to you? Devoting oneself to someone? Could be one’s interpretation of a how a relationship should be. Making them, thee be all ends all, doesn’t sound healthy. Does insecurity set in if one or the other doesn’t call everyday? How about setting ground rules within the relationship! How does wanting space become interpreted as cheating, or not wanting ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
wanttopamperyou2 69 M
65  Articles
The dating age factor for Men and Women.   10/26/2007

One of the groups I am member of is Younger Women/Older Men. In browsing profiles, the age group that I seek is 48 to 60. I know that I suffer from delusion of grander, and that is why I don’t seek out 25 year old women.

From experiences, I just don’t think believe ladies in that age group are interested in meeting. Before I email anyone I read the entire ...



1 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
david38372 54 M
7  Articles
up   10/25/2007

build


2 Comments, 31 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
The importance of communication   10/24/2007

I feel that to build any relationship, even as freinds, that communication is important. If you cannot talk freely then it will not work from the start. If you feel that you have to watch certain things or that you have to begin keeping secrets then any relationship is failing.


2 Comments, 28 Views, 0 Votes
Scott_in_Tulsa 39 M
9  Articles
The Other Horses In Your Stable   9/19/2007

I’m a single guy. Not married. Not separated, not in an open relationship. Single.

I date single women. I will only date a married woman who tells me her husband is cheating on her. If you are divorced or separated, he has to live somewhere other then your house.

I know you are seeing other men. I am seeing other women. I’m fine with this. If I wanted you all to ...


0 Comments, 86 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
How to deal with rough Shit   9/11/2007

Swift Action:



Do not wait until another outburst like this occurs. Take your partner aside and be frank. Tell them that you will not tolerate that kind of treatment. Being direct will make them realize your intolerance for any kind of disregard or abuse.



Careful Approach:



Take a sensitive approach. Choose your words carefully so as not to ...


0 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
JaxBlak1 44 M
8  Articles
How to impress ur GF mom   9/11/2007

Listen to her



Mothers are wise and experienced enough to earn your attention when they are speaking. So, when it comes to making a first impression, be courteous enough to shut up and listen to what your lady's mom has to say.



Be yourself



With experience comes an unparalleled knack for pointing out phonies and if you are not being yourself ...


0 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
rm_Falcon37865 65 M
2  Articles
Falcon's Profile For Almost 2 Years   9/9/2007

The following was my profile for almost 2 years here on SEXFinder.com. Today's date being 9/09/07. Things are still goin' well with Kitten and I but... for the last few months I've been daily wrestling with the desire to find me a girlfriend. Funny... she's so concerned I'm gonna trade her in for a newer model. But? If I do get a g/f? I won't leave her. We'd just hafta keep it our ...


2 Comments, 76 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
funlovingduo01 44 C
4  Articles
It's been just us now we want more...but how to start?   9/3/2007

When you think you have reach the sexual limits of your relationship you find that you or your partner wants more. We have been together for sometime, but we have explored each other, and found that we want to expand what we do in the bedroom, but at first I was not sure. Of course there is doubt and fears that you will be replaced, but fear not. We sat down and talked things out. Laid down ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Z_Rex1960 63 M
1  Article
Evil Men   8/14/2007

Why are married men considered evil on this site? If they are up front and state it, their being honest, but still looked down on?


14 Comments, 230 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
new here   8/5/2007

hello i am new here and have been looking over the site.Seems it has alot to do about swinging.I am looking for a relationship.Start slow on here.Get to know each other.Date.So i thought the best way to find out if this site is for me is to just ask the ppl on here.Ty for your time


4 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_HotJK1972 49 M
4  Articles
help   7/29/2007

I live in Canton, Ohio and I was with the same woman ever since I was 22 and now that we have reacently parted. I am now 35 and I would like to get back out on the dating sceen so, what is the easiest way to meet women on here? Has anyone?


2 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
anghusog 57 M
1  Article
BDSM, little girls and Dr Freud.   7/28/2007

BDSM, little girls and Dr Freud.

She was lying on her back, wrists in cuffs chained to the side of the padded table with here cuffed ankles suspended two feet above and held wide apart with a spreader bar.

She has been working out and her flat stomach rose to her pubic bone past, which her open vagina waited. She has little tits, very symmetrical. Eyes blindfolded.

I ...


0 Comments, 220 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
MayQfeelgoodCHIG 38 M
1  Article
A Key to a great relationship   7/26/2007

I will start off by saying COMMUNICATION is witout a doubt the most important aspect in a relationship.Rather then standing there yelling at one another due to a disagreement or whatever that may have brought you into the heated debate why not let cooler heads prevail and say hey, let's sit down and discuss what it is that we are at a disagreement about and see if we can come to both an ...


0 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
rm_candydish12 56 C
1  Article
Building my flirt muscles back up.   7/25/2007

We have been married for 16 wonderful years. That isn't to say that we haven't had some growing pains as a couple, everyone does, but on the whole marrying her is the best thing that has ever happened to me.

We have always been open minded and in college, like most people, we got more so.

We have just recently gotten into the lifestyle and we started going to some of the swing ...


2 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_just_57 37 M
1  Article
Condoms ain't the cure all...   7/6/2007

We all know and have heard about the wide range of STD's roaming this great world of ours. But if we "wrap it before we tap it, " or "cover the stump before we hump, " we suddenly think that the risk is gone. But there's more to it! It's not enough to simply throw on a rubber, get in, get wet, get off, get out. You really should get to know your partner. I realize that in the heat of the ...


2 Comments, 117 Views, 13 Votes ,5.83 Score
Lots of work   6/22/2007

Or is there? Haha.


1 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
love all   6/12/2007

...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 0 Votes
rm_incpl06 45 C
1  Article
How to make it last   6/5/2007

Granted hubby and I haven't been together as logn as most, we still have a great relationship. We have many rules to our relationship. The most important are honesty, and NEVER go to bed mad. We have stayed up all night before talking about things that are bothering us. We use the information from the other to better ourself in the relationship. We are honest about pretty much everything. Another ...


2 Comments, 70 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
why?   5/24/2007

recip the most gayest shit in the world why would they do such a thing its just crazy why?uiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii


1 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
how many times   5/23/2007

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0 Comments, 17 Views, 3 Votes
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
jkkkkkkkkkkkkkkk   5/23/2007

jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjlllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllllfffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffffoooooooooooooooooooorrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddddrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj


0 Comments, 6 Views, 1 Votes
thayn1850 76 M
1  Article
I must be crazy   5/19/2007

I have lived a long and varied life and I am excited about one more time embarking upon a search for a new relationship. I suddenly found myself thinking that I must be crazy, I don't have to be in a relationship to have sex. However somehow I wonder. I have had good relationships and I am still good friends with both my former spouses. But ...

I do like some of the things my ...


1 Comments, 68 Views, 3 Votes ,4.90 Score
cumrideit69 40 M
10  Articles
asian girls   4/26/2007

where are all the hot horny asian girls in Brisbane?


3 Comments, 51 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
It is diffcult to find love here   4/13/2007

HMMM well I normally chat in the South East Asia room as I am from Asia and funny enough I known so many people out there who is actually seeking for a partner and am not saying it is not possible but it is hard unless you are a woman who can be so open minded to have an open relationship. Otherwise it be hard to think all the time what is he doing? Strange but true.


3 Comments, 118 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_riskyrick5 69 M
14  Articles
Our First Meeting   4/11/2007

I met her here after I got a email from her. She had looked at my profile and obviously was compelled to contact me. That was no small thing in itself. We are both standard members so being creative is the only way to contact anyone. We had been chatting online for several weeks when an opportunity came up for us to meet in person. We chose a very public place for this first meeting. I recognized ...


1 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Flirtatious_c89 36 C
10  Articles
to trust or not to trust....   4/9/2007

When in a relationship, trust is one of the biggest factors. So what happens when trust is violated, when one person is left feeling betrayed. How can the relationship carry on normally? Anyone have any tips on how to re-build trust?


7 Comments, 151 Views, 15 Votes ,4.51 Score
finding the truth   3/29/2007

I have a question for the members of SEXFinder.com. What would you do if after several months of online relating to a man, what would you do if you found out he was lying about be attached? Thanks!


7 Comments, 129 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
rm_hollysm 35 F
1  Article
new   3/28/2007

I think a relationship comes naturally if your ok with the other person. i'm ready to find someone and know it will work out good


1 Comments, 86 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
EnjoyTheRide77 28 M
1  Article
Is college a time for dating or a time for expressing your sexual freedoms?   3/20/2007

On my first day of work at LLBEAN (which pays very well by the way if your trying to pay off that college debt) I was immediately approached by a well groomed-george lopezlooking-35 year old hispanic guy. He introduced himself, Mericio was his name, and asked me "Matt how many girlfriends you have?" "One" I replied... He seemedshocked, he said, "Man, when I was your age I had like 3 girls." As ...


0 Comments, 69 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_Patgod2 32 M
1  Article
What not to DoEver   3/20/2007

these are the things that i found out you should never do if you want a relationship to work.
1) Don't cheat its pointless really ( There are exceptions if harmless fun but make sure the person at least know that you are doing it) I mean if you have an affair with a person thats not just for fun then you should just choose one of them. and tell them sooner than later Here is what i go by ...


1 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
WHAT IT TAKES?   3/10/2007

ITS EASY TO BUILD A RELATION, BUT ITS DIFFICULT TO CARRY ON ONCE BROKEN. THAN WHY NOT AVOID THE CIRCUMSTANCES THAT LEAD TO RELATION DAMAGE. ALTHOUGH ITS EASY TO SAY IN WORDS, BUT IF ONE REALLY THINKS RATIONALLY IT CAN BE EASY TO KEEP ON BUILDING A RELATION WITHOUT EVEN GETTING A SINGLE STONE IN ITS WAY


0 Comments, 32 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
50 /50   3/4/2007

Well i writting this to let people know that a realtionship is 50/50. For instant, say that the women always expexting the man to by thang for them, which i seriously agree. In some case the woman should also buy a gift for there man . When it comes to sex it should also be 50/50. By now u guys is gettimng my point . Next thang i tying to a cross is that the most important thing is communication ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Choosy   3/2/2007

People here can make their best choice of all the options available.
Both sexes have the privilege of making choices that they like and consider suitable,
An open minded approach coupled with honest and transparent communication could go a long way in bulding a lasting relationship instead of being very narrow minded in our approach towards members in this community.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
_Irresistible0 38 F
2  Articles
Would you ever date someone who met you on a dating site?   2/22/2007

I know it sounds absurd but would you really date a person who found you on a dating site. I wouldn't because I know that there are people who have never used the Internet as a (easy) way to find dates/sex partners/love and I would like him to be one of them. I think that with most people trying to meet people online is a habit that is hard to get rid of regardless of anything.


13 Comments, 232 Views, 18 Votes ,4.22 Score
RIZEINMYLEVIS4U 45 M
18  Articles
" My thoughts of what a soul mate is ? "   2/21/2007

If you have found a smile that is the sweetest one you've known. If you have heard, within a voice, the echoes of your owen. If you have felt a touch that stirs the longing of your heart. And still can feel that closenss in the moment ur apart. If you have filled with wonder at the two lives can blend to weave a perfect pattern that is seamless in more ways than one at end ...


1 Comments, 78 Views, 11 Votes ,6.53 Score
rm_corman1980 44 M
1  Article
Maybe someone else has the answer.   2/20/2007

If your girlfriend of 4 years has started becoming aggitated with you over petty things, to the point where the relationship is greatly affected, is it best to just take time away from the other? If so, for how long?


1 Comments, 34 Views, 0 Votes
londonspecial 59 M
6  Articles
msn   2/1/2007

why is it some people on firsat response expect you to go on msn even though you shouldnt give out details for at least 2 emails I appreciate it speeds up the dialogue but a bit of trust and slowness in the beggining is all part of the fun isnt it?


5 Comments, 109 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
mavricatexcite 37 M
1  Article
ADULT SITES   2/1/2007

Now it seems to me as a man with some extraciricular activity on the mind that we get judged differently than women. You always see men getting judged for cheating and being told how wrong they are, but when it comes to a woman they are called a few choice names without the details as to their wrong doings. Look at the webcam industry and howmany women do you see reaping the benifits of ...


3 Comments, 124 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
mikehaslerisbig 32 M
9  Articles
Being faith full   1/30/2007

When you are in a resahion ship its is very important to keep trust becuase once it has gone it is gone for ever I learnd that along time ago but. I you want to have sex with other people you are put i a very hard postion where you want to be faith full and you love the person you are with very much but you still would like to have some one night stands wishing you were single I gess this a ...


3 Comments, 79 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_REAPER18100 35 M
11  Articles
being friends   1/28/2007

i was dating this girl, we went on a few dates and they went quite well.we were going to go out again but she said we should just be friends for now as she was too busy with work.
its been a month and work has eased up, should i ask her out again?


3 Comments, 80 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
time   1/23/2007

building a relationship takes time


0 Comments, 39 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
sexy   1/20/2007

sup


1 Comments, 44 Views, 4 Votes
Now that I met someone.....   1/19/2007

After you meet its not just all about sex....you have to work on it.


0 Comments, 61 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
How do I   1/19/2007

How do you meet women on this site? I try and Try to no avail? help


0 Comments, 55 Views, 0 Votes
Automatic4People 40 M
8  Articles
long distance   1/14/2007

long distance relationships, do they work? i used to think so but from experience i now think they are impossible. you guys?


5 Comments, 113 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Alexreborn 36 M
3  Articles
relationship   1/11/2007

how would u build up a relationship?


2 Comments, 82 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_chriscumbria 63 M
1  Article
take it slow   1/10/2007

enjoy the sex but take the serious but slow.... as we have probably met someone off this site... the sex is so strong ... let the affection catch up!


0 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_chelski23 57 M
4  Articles
getting to know you   1/9/2007

as a rule I would advise spending at least a week or 2 building up a rapoor with someone prior to meeting. Even if mobile numbers exchnaged would advise against meeting in lay bys etc for the first date..your views


0 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_chelski23 57 M
4  Articles
taking it slow   1/8/2007

do you tend to talk and meet or do you take time to build a mental picture before meeting? dunno about you put pictures dont tell the whole story..


2 Comments, 37 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
charliehorseIII 80 M
2  Articles
"What is it you really want?" she asked.......(Part One)   1/6/2007

"Oh man!" I thought to myself, just where does one begin?! Before even trying to answer THAT question, I knew that there had to be some preparation on her part and on mine. [And before beginning, I know that some of the ladies out there are already beginning to draw those little daggers of "why does it always HAVE to be the woman that understands?" The answer is simple, because women ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
it's a real construction - not just building   1/5/2007

Building a relationship is really like a construction process. It needs a really stable and strong base. This is the stage where both partners need to focus more if they decide to have a serious relation. The base must include many pillars, love is one, common activities is another, understanding is a third one, enjoying sex is the fourth one. If any pillar is not present then the base is ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
restlessvixon50 41 F
15  Articles
Lingerie is Our Friend   12/28/2006

I propose that lingerie is our friend. While some might protest that it's a "waste of time" or my new favorite "what's the point of having a bra if it won't cover your nipples?" reasons abound to prove its worthiness. Granted, sometimes I might need a diagram to figure out exactly how I'm supposed to actually wear one of these naughty negligees, but we aren't talking about your mother's ...


5 Comments, 93 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_OurHarmony 67 C
1  Article
Hotwifery/Slutwifery...An unrespected genre in the Lifestyle?   12/26/2006

Love at first sight. Visiting a friend for the weekend, I saw thru the patio door, an amazing bronze 98lb wet dream walking back to her appt. from the pool. She would be mine forever or I would die trying! Somehow, in spite of much blundering on my part, we were soon living together, the sexual exploration unbelievable, and a very tight bond was growing between us. My friend and I ...


3 Comments, 339 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
What is 100 %?   12/23/2006

Is it paying 50/50? What if the other person doesn't have as much? could it be 30/70 in percent of what you make and that's 100% of monthly income? How about the little things that are done when the other person doesn't have the time to do it? Or is that just (your job)a perk? How much does appreciation cost?


0 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_melvincute6 36 M
1  Article
first sex experience   12/22/2006

it was saturday night when i was in a bar in quezon city..many people go there every night drinking, searching for some sex victims..well me, its my first time to be in that place and by god it was like in heaven in there sooo many hot ladies that you can have sex with!!well i was just all alone, just sitting in a table when this hot girl approach me..she's got really huge breasts for your ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
How important does physical appearance is in a relationship?   12/21/2006

Among my researches I have found lots of information on appearance and relationship. I would like to know from the members of this site what importance physical appearance places in a relationship, things such as:
1- Good body ( shape, firmness, size, etc)
2- Scent ( in general, and in particular).
Is it important to have a nice ...



2 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
bigboy69foryou 36 M
10  Articles
?   12/20/2006

do you agree that building a relationship is satisfying for you or is it sex that satisfies you pick one over the other.


1 Comments, 20 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Asians/Indians ladies   12/18/2006

Indians out there in the world, would like to know how has this site helped you. Have your fantasies been completed???


0 Comments, 95 Views, 0 Votes
rm_dracos669 47 C
1  Article
The Hive Mind Commentary on "He Wants It, She Doesn't"   12/5/2006

Recently, we were contacted by a married man who wanted to swing or do the group thing, but his wife wasn't willing. After we said no, we weren't interested in that kind of potential mess, he asked our advice, saying he loves his wife, didn't want to cheat on her, and if he should get a divorce so he could have sex with more than one person. We, The Hive Mind Couple, had this to say: ...


0 Comments, 89 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
Txdaddy75 46 M
3  Articles
What To Do?   12/4/2006

Heres something for everyone to think about. Say your dating someone...you go out, spend lots of time together, are having lots of sex, but your not offically bf/gf. When you first met you both agreed that your not looking for anything serious at the moment...fine. Well come 5-6 months later...the other asks you how you feel about her, and where do you see this "relationship" going. Note ...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
jamesroseville 48 M
7  Articles
Go Slow For LTR   12/2/2006

I frequently get responses from members that seem like they're in a huge rush to meet with me. Although this initially seems like a good thing, experience has shown that this is not always the ideal beginning.
Usually, when a person is in a tremendous rush, it's a sign that they aren't sincere. Commonly, the person is merely reacting to a "heat-of-the-moment" urge and ...


2 Comments, 66 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
hot_couple23241 31 C
3  Articles
building a relationship with a sexy couple   11/30/2006

you should build a relationship with a sexy couple...because you get the best of both worlds...and you can go home...lol...just jokin...we're writin this to get points...so we can email sweetlilthang06...cause our account got screwed up...and now we're tryin to use this for free...but it sure is hard work...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
rm_wiboy19892 36 M
2  Articles
whats up   11/28/2006

I would like start a relationship.


1 Comments, 35 Views, 5 Votes
rm_ameya88 35 M
1  Article
A LONG LOVED FRIEND   11/28/2006

i love a girl and have known her for 4 years i even fucked her atleast 10 times and now i guy meets hers and they hav sex and she dumps me wat do think i shud do?


3 Comments, 96 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_ca_micheal 44 M
6  Articles
how   11/27/2006

how and when and with who?


0 Comments, 16 Views, 2 Votes
killerskwhirl 41 M
1  Article
Tell the truth even if you know It will hurt them.   11/26/2006

One thing I have learned from my past relationship with my wife is that honesty is the biggest part of the relationship. There are to many people out there these days that are not honest with their better half.Even the littlest lies can destroy a good relationship, take it from me I know it cost me mine.I think that if the person truly loves you or you love the person then they ...


0 Comments, 166 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
Baiatu_dupa_sex 38 M
1  Article
For the first date!   11/25/2006

If you like a girl and she didn't notice you yeat, what do you do to atract her atention?(in a good way)


2 Comments, 116 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
rm_loverbob85 38 M
5  Articles
HELP   11/23/2006

WAT DO U DO TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP??????WHY


0 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_loverbob85 38 M
5  Articles
HELP   11/23/2006

WAT DO U DO TO BUILD A RELATIONSHIP??????WHY


0 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
relationships/dating   11/23/2006

Origional articles/ magazine


0 Comments, 21 Views, 1 Votes
secretlova2007 31 M
10  Articles
Should U   11/20/2006

Do u think u should start a relationship with someone based on the fact that everything is great between you when you are having or talking about sex?


3 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score