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0 Comments, 28 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
if you are a lady and want a real one   1/15/2019

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1 Comments, 29 Views, 24 Votes ,2.11 Score
Saffire 44 F
2  Articles
Introvert trying to open up   1/15/2019

I'm more of an introvert and trying to be more open to people and building a relationship. Is there anyone who is an introvert who as tried this or have been involved with an introvert. <br><br> How did things work out for you in either situation?


5 Comments, 47 Views, 29 Votes ,4.74 Score
adultery4me 49 M
3  Articles
Sex does not build relationships   1/14/2019

It is a fallacy that having recreational sex with many partners will not negatively impact the attempt to have a healthy monogamous relationship at some point down the road. The very nature of recreational sex with multiple partners a growth of comparison and a refining of desires and preferences. No one individual can meet all the preferences developed from multiple partners, especially when ...


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
tgluver6 63 M
1  Article
Transgender   1/10/2019

Can someone give me a little advice on build a ltr with a Transgender woman? Are there any issues that come up that are unique to building a long term relationship?


3 Comments, 53 Views, 30 Votes ,1.28 Score
Here1foragoodtim 32 M
5  Articles
points   1/8/2019

doing it for more points


1 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
RylerRyno 27 M
5  Articles
Qualities   1/6/2019

What do you think are important qualities in building a relationship? Is there a such thing as too many?


1 Comments, 45 Views, 35 Votes ,1.39 Score
wantz2plzyouu 30 M
1  Article
Why is I.M. so terrible   1/4/2019

Why does the instant messenger hardly work..


3 Comments, 51 Views, 38 Votes ,1.74 Score
Ohfuck6462 41 M
8  Articles
Just wondering   1/3/2019

I have a friend, he wants to swing with us. Me I'm kind of whatever about it. His girlfriend is on board of it and my wife is the only one that is totally against it. Is it worth pushing the limits trying to get her to be that way or just let her be how she wants and play without her knowing


2 Comments, 40 Views, 32 Votes ,1.83 Score
homie_supp 26 M
1  Article
How to build relationships?   12/30/2018

I'm a good looking young single guy. Any tips on how to attract elder women? or neighbors?


3 Comments, 47 Views, 30 Votes ,1.38 Score
Trust   12/29/2018

With any relationship trust is a key element but when you are dominating in the bedroom it is more than essential it becomes the bedrock upon which all future play derives. It it typically built in stages but if you can earn a submissive's trust, the payoff is enormous particularly for someone like me who is all about exploring what makes her tick sexually and seeks to get her to ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 32 Votes ,2.40 Score
doing it for the points   12/14/2018

points point points points


3 Comments, 55 Views, 39 Votes ,2.26 Score
walkinbanana2 44 M
6  Articles
Is it worth it...   12/12/2018

Once someone cheats, is it worth rebuilding? I've always thought "once a cheater, always a cheater". Thoughts?


5 Comments, 97 Views, 50 Votes ,2.29 Score
allnicstakenlol 59 M
3  Articles
bi realationships   12/11/2018

anyone here in or have been in a bi relationshipi and maybe have added a 3rd from time to time? would love to hear from you


2 Comments, 54 Views, 45 Votes ,1.48 Score
BJOHN4444 30 M
5  Articles
Points   12/8/2018

This is only for points


7 Comments, 54 Views, 37 Votes ,2.22 Score
Clyde997788 38 M
2  Articles
Fuck   12/7/2018

Man this is really hard


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Claridad en la relacion   12/5/2018

Seguramente les a sucedido que cuando empezamos a tener contacto con alguna persona, en este caso una dama, toda la charla va bastante bien, pero en el momento que se hace una pregunta determinada , zass, cortan la comunicación en lugar de responder y decir que no les gusto esa pregunta o lo que sea. bueno debemos ser claros y directos y simplemente , salir del chat


1 Comments, 11 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
RyanNicholson03 24 M
1  Article
Looking for a good time   11/30/2018

so i dont have a golf membership but looking for people in my area that want to meet up. this site is killing me with the 3 chats a day so i cant get much done. anyone have any tips on how to meet people more easily?


5 Comments, 83 Views, 56 Votes ,2.12 Score
36Bigbuttlover 42 M
1  Article
Looking forward   11/27/2018

It’s hard to find a person to connect with out side of just chatting and just sex but I still in joy it . I guess when you prefer a lady who is in a relationship that what you get , but still looking forward to the challenge


0 Comments, 40 Views, 30 Votes ,2.06 Score
champ3702 49 M
5  Articles
Friends   11/27/2018

Its gotta be 4Real, Don't be into games......


1 Comments, 59 Views, 44 Votes ,1.08 Score
why does IM work so bad   11/24/2018

Is it me or does everyone have problems with IM on this site


10 Comments, 84 Views, 57 Votes ,3.94 Score
XMASSGIFTFUCKME2 32 F
1  Article
how to VIP MEMVER   11/22/2018

im horny send me your or text me (339) 545-4458


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
Geministeve7417 41 M
2  Articles
Polyamory   11/21/2018

Does anyone have a good deal of experience in polyamory? I tried to talk the mrs. Into it. But just want to see how it works.


2 Comments, 71 Views, 50 Votes ,2.62 Score
vbiqve 39 M
3  Articles
What does commitment mean to you?   11/15/2018

Everyone seems to have different views... what does it mean to you?


5 Comments, 68 Views, 44 Votes ,3.16 Score
allemandscouple 51 C
2  Articles
What is the most imporyant factor in awnsering emails   11/12/2018

What are you looking for most in the intial email yo get you to reply back


2 Comments, 70 Views, 47 Votes ,1.82 Score
thedarkone87 37 M
4  Articles
Building a threesome relationship   11/11/2018

I am mostly looking on thoughts for this one, hit me up!


2 Comments, 53 Views, 33 Votes ,2.14 Score
Upper65 53 M
1  Article
Finding the perfect playmate   11/9/2018

How do we find the perfect playmate?


3 Comments, 34 Views, 19 Votes ,2.20 Score
IDang4321 35 M
12  Articles
points   11/7/2018

points points points


3 Comments, 34 Views, 21 Votes ,3.00 Score
starting a relationship on line   11/7/2018

Has anyone been able to meet someone on line and actually build a real relationship? I meet someone on line and I am wondering how you were able to turn that in real life and how well it worked out.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 18 Votes ,1.21 Score
Is sex important in relationship?   10/27/2018

Can 2 people be happy without sex? If love really is just a series of chemical reactions that compels people to breed, can 2 people still be happy without sex? While one can be content, the other will slowly fade into an abyss of self loathing and confusion. The self loathing could stem from the feeling of rejection while the confusion could be a result of wondering what your doing wrong to not ...


0 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
strangefox05 34 C
1  Article
Strengthening a relationship by opening it up   10/27/2018

It sounds counter-intuitive. Get closer by fucking others, but it works. We have had an honest open relationship for years now and it's made us so much closer. <br><br> It sounds like such a desperate attempt by losers to make things work, but really it's just people living out their desires openly and supportively. There is a strange bind that comes along with being able to ...


2 Comments, 67 Views, 45 Votes ,3.74 Score
pale_wulf 40 M
1  Article
new to this   10/27/2018

never had to do this before and find it extremely diffcult to find the right way to do this this day and age


2 Comments, 30 Views, 20 Votes ,2.49 Score
Da1nonly1230 37 M
3  Articles
She's awesome   10/18/2018

I met a girl on another site last night and she came to my condo. We ended up talking the entire time and we didn't want to part as the time for her to go got closer. She's coming by tonight and I really want to badly have my way with her but I don't want to eff this good thing up


3 Comments, 75 Views, 47 Votes ,2.95 Score
Bansen10 40 C
1  Article
Swinging   10/14/2018

Building a good relationship is important. i believe you must have trust frist andfor most . A smart man told me that a marriage isnt 50 /50. That it is 90/10 sometimes i am your the 90 and other times you will be the 10 . but together youalways equal 100 . i always tell my self this when times seem ruff . i also believe that you must never forget that other person may have been byyour side for ...


3 Comments, 76 Views, 58 Votes ,2.86 Score
Lookinnnnguy34 34 M
1  Article
Cuckold   10/13/2018

Where are the ladies that like cuckold?


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
WilliamLvPk 54 M
1  Article
Trust Fail...   10/13/2018

Not sure if this makes me sound foolish, but what the Hell. There's a lesson here somewhere. <br><br> A few short years ago I met a woman online. Not SEXFinder.com, but one of the sister sites. <br><br> Now here's the thing, I'm not a stupid person and I've been around more than long enough to know when someone is lying to me. So when she said that she was in her ...


3 Comments, 55 Views, 32 Votes ,1.64 Score
1wannatry4u 37 M
2  Articles
Milf   10/10/2018

What's the best way to go out and meet milfs in public


0 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
KidPhantom23 30 M
5  Articles
points   10/8/2018

honestly building a relationship is easy but the hard part is understanding the person


1 Comments, 36 Views, 26 Votes ,2.27 Score
KidPhantom23 30 M
5  Articles
God   10/7/2018

is God important in your relationship?


4 Comments, 39 Views, 25 Votes ,0.81 Score
Does true love happen when you met in a sex chat?   10/2/2018

I was just wondering. I've seen the testimonials. Do you think they are true.


3 Comments, 46 Views, 30 Votes ,2.75 Score
perfectman1312 42 M
2  Articles
important   9/22/2018

any sort of relationship need sm building up ..communiaction.. trust.. understanding etc


1 Comments, 34 Views, 28 Votes ,2.32 Score
okbb16 36 M
1  Article
lets talk   9/21/2018

lets talk about it?


1 Comments, 9 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
fwbinnwpa 64 M
6  Articles
Too much talk and not enough...   9/20/2018

Maybe it's me, but it seems like there are a lot of looks, some flirts etc. A little chat or note once inawhile but that's about it. Has anyone had better sucess than that, and if so how? Are there certain things to say or do in one's profile to help the process?


3 Comments, 41 Views, 26 Votes ,2.06 Score
Red_bub81 38 M
5  Articles
Advice   9/18/2018

Whats best way to syart a relationship


3 Comments, 29 Views, 20 Votes ,1.85 Score
Open Relationships   9/9/2018

Open relationships do they work and if so best way to go about it?


5 Comments, 54 Views, 33 Votes ,2.96 Score
hungatlanta 28 M
10  Articles
do you fuck better while high?   9/6/2018

https://www.livescience.com/topics/sex


2 Comments, 32 Views, 21 Votes ,3.74 Score
hungatlanta 28 M
10  Articles
funny article about sex in marriage.   9/6/2018

https://www.livescience.com/60279-contraceptive-use-unmarried-men.html


1 Comments, 17 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
Jack and Jill   9/6/2018

Did you do Jill, do you.Jack moved with the pale up to the whale.His mother is a need.The dishes , spoons are dirty with the bowls.The chore is to fetch the water, and bring home.The path is steep lined with homes.Each time Jack is being a look!On this time is a stranger in the distance holding a hand-out.


2 Comments, 37 Views, 24 Votes ,2.68 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
Adam and Eve   9/4/2018

Man, woman, and snake, your husbands best friend.A time to share with in the living.Eve is a fascination to his ideas.The snake is allowing her to receive.Eve holds Adam to the taste of the pickle, and her mouth is with snake.Adam is a must by her side with every word.Word bringing heart to the snake.Evening approaches in minutes changing their feel.Finding their look with figs.The snake moves ...


1 Comments, 25 Views, 20 Votes ,2.61 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
Adam and Eve   9/2/2018

In the beginning the body was naked , and it grew with nature as an man and woman living a garden.The nights were filled with stars and the day came with a Sun.Eve fell onto Adams cock causing exciting love.Making the day unbearable to Lucifer, now lower than the Lord's word. Eve stopped to hear that afternoon to taste his fruit and gave to Adam the apple a taste to be like a pickle.


0 Comments, 29 Views, 18 Votes ,2.58 Score
MuchNeededFun498 41 M
5  Articles
The EX   8/27/2018

So I have a question? How do move forward in a relationship if the other persons ex has tried to defame you and make your life miserable? Shot happens but this person has such a twisted since of reality that it could potentially damage the other person as well as . I do not feel it is right to manipulate against parents no matter if they are splitting but be supportive to an extent. Heal and ...


5 Comments, 54 Views, 32 Votes ,3.52 Score
Trust and time   8/25/2018

Of course a full time dedication can make a relationship trust stronger. But I believe those are the main things to build a relationship


1 Comments, 33 Views, 19 Votes ,3.26 Score
Bi is still a lot more fun   8/20/2018

I just want to see my articles


2 Comments, 43 Views, 25 Votes ,2.14 Score
sookers 38 M
16  Articles
Hi   8/20/2018

<br><br> Hi


0 Comments, 0 Views, 0 Votes
swinging   8/19/2018

do you think swinging at the beginning of a relationship is a good idea???


2 Comments, 36 Views, 22 Votes ,2.17 Score
Ricomens67 29 M
7  Articles
That one time ;)   8/18/2018

She looked at it hanging eyes fixated on it like the little cock crazed slut she is ...”Nice cock!” Jane said sincerely, and sucked it down to the base, working her throat muscles and tongue to make it harder. “Oh, fuck!” Jack exclaimed. “She is good!” He looked around the room to see his family nodding in agreement. Jane quickly worked his cock until it was hard and throbbing. She ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 22 Votes ,2.65 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
A daughters beginning....   8/15/2018

Marriage brings a choice to many to name their first and the choice is one to be two.Few take both to first and the rest to middle. But in the end the choice is a struggle to the .She chooses the middle first.Liking greater in the calling.


2 Comments, 33 Views, 18 Votes ,1.49 Score
real life meetings   8/12/2018

how long would you want to chat on here before meeting in person? I am kind of new here and would love to build a relationship but was wondering how others go about it.


4 Comments, 56 Views, 24 Votes ,2.79 Score
StudlyNHung69 42 M
5  Articles
Best Structure   8/11/2018

Best advice??


0 Comments, 11 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
Swinging Party   8/8/2018

When’s the next swinging party on here?????


0 Comments, 15 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
Bigtitlover86xx 31 M
6  Articles
It's just for the points   8/1/2018

It's just for the points, so feel free to comment for some!


6 Comments, 58 Views, 33 Votes ,3.97 Score
Gail_nCuckie 35 C
4  Articles
Some good fucking   7/27/2018

what are you doing about this???


2 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,1.38 Score
is anyone really   7/25/2018

into having a real relationship anymore? or i looking in the wrong place??


4 Comments, 62 Views, 32 Votes ,2.68 Score
anyone ever...   7/25/2018

read this thing? <br><br> points!


3 Comments, 32 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
AlabamaJay 41 M
2  Articles
Any success on here?   7/22/2018

Much success on here or just wasting time???


5 Comments, 33 Views, 21 Votes ,2.63 Score
mattjoe22 44 M
21  Articles
How many (truthfully) are on SEXFinder.com.com to find true lover?   7/17/2018

I enjoy the diversity, the compliments, the stalkers, my favorites, people who hotlist me, etc. I not on here to meet my future. Now, If I happen to connect with a lady and we become great friends and the sex is incredible, then it was meant to be. <br><br> I have not been on a date with a woman from SEXFinder.com believe that or not!! My goal is to have fun and if I find someone ...


2 Comments, 39 Views, 20 Votes ,1.34 Score
first date   7/8/2018

do you think differently of someone if they give it up the first time you meet them??


8 Comments, 86 Views, 41 Votes ,1.90 Score
what to do   6/26/2018

whats the best way to build one ?


1 Comments, 26 Views, 20 Votes ,1.08 Score
how to get to know someone on here   6/24/2018

I am curious how people on this site get to know each other? After all everyone is a stranger at first? How do you get comfortable enough to actually meet someone?


5 Comments, 78 Views, 32 Votes ,1.46 Score
Tips on build a relationship on here   6/21/2018

Any useful tips people ??


3 Comments, 60 Views, 32 Votes ,1.74 Score
Blake4you6987 37 M
2  Articles
Hope She Understands It's Me   6/14/2018

I have a female friend that I reside with. She is the most best friend a person could ask for. At first we had sexual relations a few times at the beginning which has been 5 months. I don't really get to sexual with anyone here there past few months. I would rather the woman just let me pleasure her and I'll cum when she's done or whenever. She has known from the ...


4 Comments, 78 Views, 38 Votes ,0.25 Score
Hooking up on here   6/9/2018

Any advice for me??


4 Comments, 89 Views, 37 Votes ,2.05 Score
trellos4u2 37 M
9  Articles
really?   6/5/2018

points!!!


3 Comments, 46 Views, 32 Votes ,1.93 Score
youngPleasure M
7  Articles
Baby girl/Dom Daddy   5/31/2018

Not sure how many of you men have experience here, but I find it truly enlightening that when you break up with a baby girl...she just doesn't get it or want to get it. A Dom Daddy needs to get something out of the relationship as well other than just being your proverbial Daddy. Also, I'm not sure why you baby girls get soo openly jealous when after all you do as I say and be happy ...


2 Comments, 77 Views, 51 Votes ,1.97 Score
geministeve77 46 M
7  Articles
I think monogamy is weird..   5/31/2018

Anyone with me? It’s just a bit strange to have one man, one woman forever. I don’t think it’s realistic. I have been married almost 20 years. But haven’t been faithful much. It is what it is.


6 Comments, 74 Views, 30 Votes ,0.99 Score
Players7669 54 C
1  Article
Not getting any younger   5/26/2018

hello there we are too loving couples that love each other very much we are trying to experience new ways to spice up our relationship the more we look the more sad my wife gets because she is trying to make my dreams come true and experience something I have never experienced that in my 48 years of living it’s every man’s dream of having two girls at once but I like to watch and my wife is ...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 39 Votes ,3.07 Score
sexysatisfyed 47 M
4  Articles
for the ladies really   5/26/2018

what is the average amount of time after really talking to someone before ya actually get together?


9 Comments, 135 Views, 56 Votes ,3.52 Score
blingingbing 32 M
2  Articles
fwb become more   5/21/2018

is it normal... well how do we have fwb when their always becomes a party thst becomes attached!


3 Comments, 64 Views, 25 Votes ,3.46 Score
blingingbing 32 M
2  Articles
fwb become more   5/21/2018

is it normal... well how do we have fwb when their always becomes a party thst becomes attached!


3 Comments, 42 Views, 27 Votes ,2.93 Score
abbastan604 30 M
1  Article
Identify   5/20/2018

Learn to love yourself before identifying yourself as lov-able


2 Comments, 34 Views, 22 Votes ,2.53 Score
Couple4couple8 47 C
2  Articles
So building a relationship.   5/14/2018

So it has come to our attention that building our relationship over the last 7 has been more sexual than anything. So I have a question, if you trust your partner and want to explore more during that time frame ( which we are trying now) does sex involve emotion and physical attraction? Or is it more to please your partner adding in a couple? We tried a single male and it was a disaster in ...


4 Comments, 73 Views, 37 Votes ,3.91 Score
np204 40 M
1  Article
Cougars Cubs   5/10/2018

Anyone have any advice on where to find older women looking for younger men? I've been searching and not having any luck! Any support and comments would be much appreciated!


5 Comments, 55 Views, 34 Votes ,3.15 Score
Bigtitlover86x 32 M
8  Articles
Again, it's for the points   5/2/2018

Comment for the free points, because that's what this article is for!


14 Comments, 125 Views, 62 Votes ,3.49 Score
jackfitton20 27 M
5  Articles
Looking for a hot mil/cougar in the area   5/1/2018

Looking for a cougar/milf in the atlanta area. where can i find one?


3 Comments, 60 Views, 26 Votes ,1.19 Score
69clitL0ver 43 M
7  Articles
How to build an relationship on here   4/29/2018

HELP x


0 Comments, 12 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Sexting profiles in the United States and Canada   4/18/2018

Recent advances in mobile technology have allowed individuals to engage in sexting (i.e., sharing sexual words and images via technology). Researchers have examined the prevalence and correlates of sexting, but differences in samples and definitions make it difficult to develop a cohesive picture of adult sexting. This study extends our understanding of sexting behavior by using ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 35 Votes ,2.01 Score
Attachment and relationship satisfaction among first married, remarried, and post‐divorce   4/18/2018

This study examined relationship satisfaction and adult attachment in a sample of 562 participants: 340 in a first marriage (60.5; 122 separated/divorced from their first spouse (21.7; and 100 in a second marriage (17.8. For participants in a relationship (dating or married), findings indicated no differences between groups on relationship satisfaction; instead, attachment served as a ...


1 Comments, 41 Views, 30 Votes ,3.24 Score
Relationships between body image, sexual satisfaction   4/18/2018

Previous studies found important associations between body image, sexual satisfaction, and perceived romantic relationship quality, but mainly focused on one individual’s perceptions rather than both partners. To take the interdependency of romantic partners into account, the present study examined these associations in romantic couples with a dyadic approach. In a cross-sectional design, 151 ...


0 Comments, 31 Views, 24 Votes ,1.43 Score
mike85304 65 M
1  Article
Do women really hook up on this site   4/18/2018

You see a lot of women that say they are looking for sex. when you IM them to chat they ignore you. Are you ladies really interested? Any harm in chatting?


10 Comments, 94 Views, 33 Votes ,2.41 Score
the best of the best   4/5/2018

There is no foolproof method for building successful relationships. One of the most heady emotions that exist in this world- would be love, family and relationships. If you notice, people do confront various types of love- and all can be handled rightly if we have the mind and the patience for it.


2 Comments, 51 Views, 20 Votes ,0.44 Score
thicknrealfun1 42 M
2  Articles
Relationship kinda stalled   4/4/2018

Been with the wife for 8+ but we are kinda stalled out at this point. Sex is mundane. Can't get a blowjob for anything and she's not really open to talking about the lack of sex in our lives... Any pointers?


4 Comments, 90 Views, 31 Votes ,2.28 Score
bulzeye_hitter 33 M
1  Article
How To Flirt Your Way Into Making Your Fantasies A Reality   3/25/2018

Sharing your fantasies isn’t always as easy as, “Hey, I’m into XYZ. Want to do it with me?” Not all of us have that level of comfort, particularly in a new relationship. But if you want a successful hookup journey full of sexual adventure then you need to express your desires from the get-go. <br><br> This week we’re celebrating International Flirting Week and have 5 tips on ...


1 Comments, 39 Views, 27 Votes ,1.98 Score
kavemanrlz 57 M
11  Articles
starting over   3/21/2018

starting over sucks but what can you do? You start with talking and impressing one another as you find out about eachother, the meeting first date, first kiss as you build you dtart to have sex the best sex, you see stars and hear fireworks. and you go from there.......


4 Comments, 60 Views, 35 Votes ,1.92 Score
Brandon898584 27 M
1  Article
Hookups   3/17/2018

So I was thinking, hookups are a great way to have fun, but what about if they lead to serious relationships? I mean, it would seem awkward to answer how you met each other but love is love, right?


6 Comments, 78 Views, 39 Votes ,1.36 Score
Kaczybema 31 M
3  Articles
Do you like feet?   3/17/2018

Feet


4 Comments, 55 Views, 24 Votes ,0.86 Score
yourvice1217 43 M
5  Articles
Interesting Article I Found   3/16/2018

A major reason for maintaining friendship with benefits is the fear of commitment as the boundaries of such a friendship are not clearly defined. The low level of commitment can result in a decrease of passion and intimacy. The desire to enjoy the benefits of all worlds often diminishes these benefits. Furthermore, a significant aspect of friendship that is often lacking in friendship with ...


2 Comments, 49 Views, 25 Votes ,2.47 Score
voyeur2017 61 M
3  Articles
Eight behaviors that enhance a cyber relationship   3/10/2018

1. Never manipulate - no one likes to be played the fool 2. Be affectionate but Independent - don't be needy 3. Be respectful and sincere - don't play games 4. Be spontaneous - be playful when in public chats 5. Find humor - a sense of humor is sexy 6. Get personal - find ways to enjoy cyber intimacy with each other 7. Be honest - be up front with expectations, communicate, communicate 8. ...


4 Comments, 68 Views, 43 Votes ,2.78 Score
clean or not   3/9/2018

how do you go about telling you lover she does not smell nice ??, ,like she has bad breath and also she does not keep fresh


3 Comments, 78 Views, 38 Votes ,1.49 Score
Nikhilpkd 29 M
3  Articles
relationship   2/27/2018

When we talk about relationships, it includes the entire collection of relations like parents and , in law relations, about siblings, between husband and wife, between cousins, grandparents and so many more. <br><br> One major factor is more communication and other noticeable reason is that there are unwanted situations of misunderstandings and ego clashes. This brings about a lot of ...


4 Comments, 53 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
lickherclit6969 43 M
5  Articles
This is for the points!!!   2/24/2018

Let’s see how many people comment on this just for the points!


9 Comments, 71 Views, 37 Votes ,3.75 Score
I can do it myself attitude   2/18/2018

For a long time I've carried the attitude that I could do it myself. Growing up I was very independent. Though my parents were around they didn't take interest in my life. I've carried this with me adult hood and now that I am in the dating life I find it difficult to allow some one in fully. I still carry the I can do it my self attitude in a relationship. How do I break this ...


4 Comments, 46 Views, 21 Votes ,2.38 Score
wah! Women!   2/12/2018

young women want young men! older women too go after young men! what about older men? This is about this site! This appears true even the women who charge!


6 Comments, 92 Views, 44 Votes ,1.45 Score
how   2/12/2018

i am so amazed at how many womenarent into black men on here , i feel like just quiting


2 Comments, 55 Views, 26 Votes ,1.73 Score
Tmntrulez86 37 M
7  Articles
It's for the points.   2/12/2018

It's just actually for the points entirely, don't even read this.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
hurry results in delay/reversal!   2/11/2018

in making friendship, if we show our hurry the attempt may fail or it may get delayed! so a bit of patience is required!


5 Comments, 67 Views, 30 Votes ,0.10 Score
Bagbag86 58 M
7  Articles
If your girl doesn't suck your cock does she not in love with you   2/4/2018

Sex is a big part in relationships what if you like blow jobs but your girl has had bad e x experiences before <br><br> What can you do if anything so you can get i enjoyment as well Or do you think she is faking an does not love you


6 Comments, 96 Views, 31 Votes ,1.80 Score
making friends secret club   2/3/2018

we are in want of a secret club near by calcutta where we can meet together and have a party and select partner and exchange within us


0 Comments, 20 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
making friends secret club   2/3/2018

we are in want of a secret club near by calcutta where we can meet together and have a party and select partner and exchange within us


1 Comments, 18 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
I want to make a real aged man woman group and meeting once in a month   2/3/2018

I want to make a real aged man woman group and meeting once in a month so that we can find our relation within circle and we can go for picnic or get together once in a month or else and can enjoy life with sex or without but got a real friend and else


0 Comments, 8 Views, 7 Votes
I want to make a real aged man woman group and meeting once in a month   2/3/2018

I want to make a real aged man woman group and meeting once in a month so that we can find our relation within circle and we can go for picnic or get together once in a month or else and can enjoy life with sex or without but got a real friend and else


1 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
goodfella75 45 M
9  Articles
Can a relationship be built from here   2/2/2018

Given the nature of this site. Does anyone think that succesful realtionships can be built from here. Or is that to much to hope? x


5 Comments, 64 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
HrdCock4WetPussy 42 M
1  Article
boobs   2/1/2018

boobs


0 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
oraloral24 57 M
1  Article
How do you rate your priorities for picking a potential partner?   2/1/2018

For me 1. First, I have to be attracted to the face. 2. Your personality is extremely important, I don't care how beautiful you are if you are a "bitch" good bye. 3. Intelligence, if you can't carry on a conversation, sorry. Once again, I don't care how beautiful you are if you are dumb you can be someone else's arm candy. 4. Oh and you have to like me


0 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
wilddagda 49 M
1  Article
Compassion, Honesty, Presence, Accountability   1/30/2018

I have come to believe that compassion, honesty, presence, and accountability are really the only lasting commitments people can truly make to each other. Life brings so many changes. With people bringing these qualities and making these commitments, I feel like people can navigate anything in a way that sustains the love between them, even ending the romantic or erotic part of a ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
bennietrejo 31 F
1  Article
How to really build a relationship   1/29/2018

I think the best thing to do is to know what he / she likes and dislikes. By knowing this then you are good to go.


13 Comments, 119 Views, 42 Votes ,3.62 Score
Cuckolding   1/16/2018

I would like to know Female thoughts on cuckolding please, why is it so difficult to find a woman who is willing to have a devoted cuckold? What do you feel a cuckold should be for you? What would you require of him?


3 Comments, 56 Views, 25 Votes ,2.80 Score
HarddinHou 29 M
12  Articles
best way   1/15/2018

whats the best wya to build a relationship sex? bonding? foreplay? all the above? chess?


6 Comments, 71 Views, 22 Votes ,2.65 Score
Trust   1/9/2018

Building a relationship has a basis in trust. If you can't trust your partner, or vice versa, then the relationship cannot succeed. Apart from the standard procedures of not lying, it is more important to not accuse your partner of wrongdoing. If you do that, then they know that you don't trust them and it will all fall apart. Plain and simple, don't be accusatory.


1 Comments, 72 Views, 33 Votes ,3.79 Score
angers28 39 M
1  Article
que paso de nada!!   1/8/2018

ORIGINAL MATERIAL ONLY - Discussion topics are for original material written by members. Any plagiarized material will be removed from the site. Also, please observe the SEXFinder.com Terms of Use. If you see material that is inappropriate for SEXFinder.com, or that may have been published elsewhere, please contact our abuse team. <br><br> Help with Text Commands Photo/Icon ...


0 Comments, 33 Views, 26 Votes ,1.73 Score
AlwaysAblast 34 M
3  Articles
What some people will do to keep their partner   1/6/2018

I dated this girl for about 3 months, she had recently been divorced or separated I should say. The passion and fire was intense, the type of sexual acts were as if she needed to release all this built up sexual energy. After 3 months she told me she wasn't on the pill and asked where do you see our future. It was like a double whammy question she threw at me. I simple said I'm happy ...


5 Comments, 97 Views, 38 Votes ,2.99 Score
bowler847 42 M
1  Article
Love   1/4/2018

I would like to talk about building a relationship. I believe that when you are trying to build something you need good communication and I was wondering what other people think do you think that is the main key to a good relationship or do you think there is something else.


3 Comments, 36 Views, 25 Votes ,2.58 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Bad timing   12/31/2017

However, if you decide to talk it out, take care to decide on a good time and place to have conversations about important issues. Arguing in public is a strict no-no. Also, bringing up serious topics at the end of a long day is equally bad. So is talking it out at a party hosted by you even if it is at home. Pick up a time when you both are relaxed and a place which ensures total privacy.


1 Comments, 18 Views, 14 Votes ,1.86 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Creating drama   12/31/2017

Try and avoid creating drama in every small situation. Stop being super sensitive. Creating a scene for each small thing is equivalent to nagging and your partner, who is not going to like it after some time. He or she may make attempts to calm you down, agree to your views and pamper you, but all that will stop if they see that you are making a habit out of it. Instead try to ignore small things ...


1 Comments, 31 Views, 19 Votes ,2.20 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Unnecessarily getting into the jealousy mode   12/31/2017

Trust is a key factor in any relationship, so have faith in your partner and respect them if they want some privacy. Your insecurity may cause you more harm if you keep doubting your partner's intentions. Talking about it is a better way rather than snooping around to find out hidden proof in the each other's wardrobes, wallets or checking their cells or laptop for texts and mails. Spying ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 16 Votes ,2.10 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Not giving each other enough space   12/31/2017

When you are in love, you may want to do everything together. That might be fine early on in the relationship but as you go along in life, too much of togetherness may damage the relationship instead of helping it. A little bit of me time for both will help you to enhance the relationship and at the same time value the time you get to spend with each other.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
Just4phunn69 44 M
6  Articles
Anyone read these   12/30/2017

Not sure if anyone reads thesr


1 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
How to build?   12/29/2017

How do build trust in a relationship?


0 Comments, 10 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
badel404 35 M
6  Articles
Can't stop thinking about other women.   12/27/2017

Long story short, if been married for a few years and love my wife so damn much, but damn it I'm a horny bastard. Im aleays checking out ither women.I joined this site because the feelinf of meetiing strangers is so exciting. My wife would never go for an open relationship or swapping. Need help.


0 Comments, 31 Views, 12 Votes ,0.68 Score
Relationship   12/20/2017

Any success stories out there from SEXFinder.com?


2 Comments, 43 Views, 17 Votes ,3.13 Score
why   12/14/2017

Why do people have to start a relationship on lies. Just be hst, be real. Tell the person how you feel and what your downfalls are. What you fear and what you crave. The relationship will be stronger because of this and can lead to a fuller and more meaningful relationship.Dont hold back. Put yourself out there if you want it.


4 Comments, 71 Views, 30 Votes ,3.93 Score
dating mature or older women   12/10/2017

older women have always fascinated me.i find older women very sexy and hot. given a choice i would love to date an older women compared to young thing. i was in a serious relationship for many years with an older women. i was very devoted to her.


3 Comments, 59 Views, 24 Votes ,4.72 Score
Chadb43 50 M
3  Articles
Better to hide the truth or lie   12/3/2017

It seems like all woman always find out if your lying or telling the truth.whats up with this


9 Comments, 56 Views, 22 Votes ,2.77 Score
Iwannabeused 47 M
5  Articles
co-workers   11/29/2017

So any advice on how to tell if a co-worker is into you, or just being nice? lol


4 Comments, 39 Views, 18 Votes ,3.26 Score
sigga15 41 M
1  Article
Need Help   11/24/2017

Can any1 suggest a way to impress Canadian girls ?


2 Comments, 38 Views, 19 Votes ,2.73 Score
NewTucsonCouple 35 C
3  Articles
Chastity   11/19/2017

Wife and i play with chastity quiet a bit and both really enjoy it. Any one else playing with Chastity?


3 Comments, 42 Views, 24 Votes ,3.02 Score
qustinm 26 M
1  Article
Communication   11/15/2017

building a relationship is all about communication and trust and you must be honest to achieve all of this


6 Comments, 82 Views, 29 Votes ,3.24 Score
Dawn   11/15/2017

i heard a car leave but was too sleepy to really wake up. i was asleep on the stone fireplace with my arms down on the floor. i woke up feeling Her foot on my arm, squeezing it against the stone floor as though She was putting out a cigarette. It hurt. my knuckles were ready to bleed. When i woke up, i tried to remove my hands but She wouldn't let me. <br><br> She was standing ...


2 Comments, 25 Views, 18 Votes ,2.85 Score
Bigdic4j 33 M
1  Article
Tomorrow I'm going on a special retreat with friends.   11/14/2017

Start looking for your next SUV or even start your love affair with the SUV vehicle.


0 Comments, 10 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
for a nsa or long relationship ....trust neccessaryy   11/10/2017

helo frndzzz ...... today i m talking about non string attached relations and serious relationship .....here on SEXFinder.com...many members present and someof them are ..open but some are crious about their privacy ...curiousty about privacy is gud ..because ...there are also bad peoples present in world ....which can expose them .... but the thing is that ...how to gain trust .....if there is no trust no ...


1 Comments, 20 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
SexyITGuy121212 54 M
1  Article
What if you are just looking for online friends to chat?   11/8/2017

I have an unusual situation. I am happily married but due to a remembered sexual abuse that occurred during my wife’s childhood, it is difficult to have sex. She knows I have a sexual drive and is ok with me being on this site. I have had some contacts. However, I really do not like one night stands so to speak. I would like 1 or 2 female friends that I can talk to, flirt with and ...


3 Comments, 47 Views, 23 Votes ,2.31 Score
HollyChatsNJ 62 T
17  Articles
Outer Banks, NC   11/4/2017

Okay - Worth a try... <br><br> Not looking for a dating or sexual type of relationship. But looking to create some real friendship relationships for those that live in the OBX area. Maybe you can call this Networking. <br><br> Back in the 80's, 90's and about up to 2005. I knew the OBX area pretty well from living in Northern VA. Now living at the Jersey Shore ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
rickshot5 38 M
4  Articles
is it true or not- sex   10/31/2017

is building a relationship mean to have sex only or some feelings as well. note i m talking about online dating relationship factor only. its not personal so tell ur thinking about it


3 Comments, 38 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
rohit2003200 49 M
3  Articles
sister in law   10/26/2017

Mera naam Ramu hai. Main college mein parhata hun. Meri umra ab bees saal hai. Main ek saal se apne bhaiya aur bhabhi ke saath rah raha hun. Bhaiya ek bari company mein kam karte hain. Meri bhabhi kanchan bahut hi sunder hai. Bhaiya ki shaadi ko do saal ho chuke hain. Bhabhi ki umra 24 saal hai. Main bhabhi ki bahut izzat karta hun aur voh bhi mejhe bahut chahati hai. Hum dono mein khoob dosti ...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
rohit2003200 49 M
3  Articles
motherly maid   10/25/2017

My maid’s name is Payal. She had been working at our home since past 10 years. Back then, my mom told me that Payal was like my second mom and I should call her Bai. Bai used to call me Sonu. Bai used to hug and kiss me many times. She was married and had a . She had a chubby body, round ass, big boobs, wheatish skin tone and long silky black hair. She was of my mom’s age. Her husband and ...


2 Comments, 23 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
rohit2003200 49 M
3  Articles
heaven with sis   10/25/2017

The protagonist of the story is me Kartik and complementing me is my sister Yashvi and her teacher Smita. Yashvi is my 1st cousin and we live in a joint family in a duplex flat in Mumbai. <br><br> Describing the sexy women, Yashvi is 21, very short in height and has got fats in right place but not fat in any case. Her height must be 5ft with boobs of 32, waist of 28/29 and ass of 34. ...


2 Comments, 16 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
Where to start   10/23/2017

I have found that the best relationships I have had have started off as FWBs situations. They seem to have the best progression and walls tend to come down a little faster when it comes to getting to know each other intimately. What do you all think?


3 Comments, 43 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
sam197pulsar 37 M
84  Articles
Are you doing these?   10/16/2017

No matter how much you underestimate it, but something as basic as kissing strengthens your bond and makes you fall in love with your partner all over again. Whether you had a rough day at work or you are super happy about something, a hug by someone you love can turn any day better and brighter. A loving gaze by partner can make actually brighten up your day. It’s a beautiful reassurance that ...


4 Comments, 58 Views, 22 Votes ,3.25 Score
should trust and respect break all boundries   10/11/2017

I would hope that being respected and honored would break all race boundaries That if a man can love respect and honor a woman that would be the only thing that matters. I hope we get there soon .


6 Comments, 61 Views, 29 Votes ,3.04 Score
firefighterldh 40 M
9  Articles
build it where   10/10/2017

right in the pussy


2 Comments, 17 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
jr42468 57 M
24  Articles
its worth the effort   9/25/2017

i have found when building a relationship communication is key be honest with your partner and communicate that should kick off a good foundation


5 Comments, 67 Views, 27 Votes ,3.45 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
Met in college   9/24/2017

She was psychology and I was math. and it is college, a place to be loving an education.And I want a relationship.Waitng was her motive, but I add to be denial.A topic in her class.


0 Comments, 26 Views, 16 Votes ,1.95 Score
Hosedxdmtl 42 T
1  Article
How to tell your partner about your nylon fetish   9/22/2017

Hi guys, girls, couples and gurls. Im single now but ive always found it was hard for me to talk about my sexual fetishes with my (ex) partners....Any tips you would wanna share with me?


1 Comments, 25 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
An older chidren   9/22/2017

Growing up with people who are a few years ahead enable a tell to wordings.Encounters that countlessly make word a duel."That hurt", a meaning to be opposite.Is that all you can say".Better in Heaven".


0 Comments, 19 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
HarddinHou 29 M
12  Articles
best article on relationship   9/19/2017

well people post everyday. their advice to jokes to suggestions. what are your all time top 5 fav articles you've learned or commented on from SEXFinder.com. They dont specifically have to be about building a relationship, but that would be a good start I think. i am curious if theres been anything good out there ! let me know down below


2 Comments, 22 Views, 13 Votes ,2.47 Score
zekkstrom 38 M
6  Articles
Honesty and communication   9/18/2017

One must attempt to be open and honest about their feelings and communicate clearly with intent if they seek to have a meaningful relationship. There are many barriers and reasons we tell ourselves we cannot do that; however by doing so we cheapen our relationships and who we are. Fear of rejection for being honest just delays the inevitable, and if the person is really meant to be with you, then ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 18 Votes ,4.08 Score
easyG67 57 M
1  Article
Takes Time   9/14/2017

Greetings, <br><br> It seems that most people have forgotten how to build a relationship. I was talking to someone online today and they told that would like a friend with benefits situation. However, the benefits would be me paying money to be with her sexually. It my mind, I don't consider that a friendship or working towards anything but paying for sex. I know nothing in life ...


3 Comments, 52 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
roysee125 24 M
6  Articles
relationship   9/12/2017

we must fake our time, not to do everything quickly we need to slowly explore each other, understand each other, respect is a must


1 Comments, 30 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
roysee125 24 M
6  Articles
Dating someone   9/12/2017

We all do have some criteria while we want to date someone, be it physical appearance or personalities. But something that happen to many, is dating someone with same personality and who like same things as you, tends to be boring at times. While if you date someone with completely different tends sometimes to be more exciting.


5 Comments, 35 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
looking for a friend   9/10/2017

I am writing every one not to be close to every one but among from them only one . People thinking am looking for other and not believing in the actual truth . how I can make them one of them is my need for a close relation


0 Comments, 7 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
jr42468 57 M
24  Articles
honesty   9/6/2017

always when building a relationship communication and honesty is a great way to start if you are a swinger please tell him or her dont be afraid you never know your partner may find this sexy


0 Comments, 10 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
sissy2bowned 42 T
1  Article
discribe urself   9/6/2017

weve all heard that phrase on almost every web page that's out there. yesterday I was talking about dating sites and I was expressing that people who have younger siblings should express to them how important it is to be cautious bout who they talk or meet with from the internet. anyone can get on a dating site and describe them selves as what ever they have in there mind about who they ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
OLD_WHITE_SUBBY 69 M
1  Article
The way people differ   9/2/2017

When I was a young boy, there was a married Woman nearby and they lived with her Mother. She was around 30s, attractive, both her and the mother were well dressed and made up always. When they went out, the woman and her mother would walk together chatting, he would walk about 3 yards behind them being ignored. On the return from shopping, he would be walking behind them carrying the bags. I ...


0 Comments, 22 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
love   8/23/2017

where are u honey?


1 Comments, 23 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
Enginary 33 M
39  Articles
looking for   8/23/2017

still searching ..... :\


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
totalreelielitt 40 M
4  Articles
Of course, I try too, and, if, you didn't know, I try, i guess, very, well then....   8/6/2017

It all may seem as if I don't follow you in moments of chit chat. For good reason I decided to give you a chance to see the potential disaster that becomes plausible, and very apparent it has become to myself, and all be it as it may be, I, have all seen it being totally coming to light here. Don't get me wrong. Conversation can continue but I need to take a few moments of peace. It will all be ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 13 Votes ,2.64 Score
Floydsbbc4u 47 M
4  Articles
love and trust   8/5/2017

I would love to find a woman I can trust and give my heart to. Be able to talk to about anything, love and support each other be honest with and have great sex with 2and 3 times a day ..........................................but that's a needle in ahoy stack


2 Comments, 67 Views, 28 Votes ,3.75 Score
sanjay4aunt 27 M
1  Article
genuine cpl or lady kosam chustuna   7/28/2017

hello viewers am abhi ...am here for neat clean fun along with friendship and am looking for genuine and secret sexual relationship either for short term or long term . i had with few cpls and with 1 cpl i had with them upto 1yr secretly .. for me any relation should be based on genuinity and honest and trust and secrecy .without these we can't build any relation .., i love sex with matured ...


3 Comments, 36 Views, 26 Votes ,2.59 Score
Challenges In The Chatting   7/24/2017

I've been aware of this site for roughly 16 years. I've met some people, ignored others and even developed a long term friendship. The strongest lesson I've learned is being patient when getting to know someone. While it's very easy to meet someone the first night you chat with them, for some it is difficult to take the time to get to know who you are before laying in bed with.

The ...


5 Comments, 60 Views, 30 Votes ,5.69 Score
ChocolateCakeNE 49 C
4  Articles
Let Your Fingers Do The Talking.   7/23/2017

Hopefully you’re finding your flavor of excitement and adventure on this site. We’ve been on here a couple times now and enjoy chatting with the huge verity of members. Hotlists, flirts, and friends are still confusing terms however.

A smile, wink, or a pat on the ass is what we call flirting; showing up in a list however….not so much. A hotlist of people you’d like to ...


1 Comments, 100 Views, 19 Votes ,4.84 Score
importance   7/18/2017

whats the most important part of a relationship??


3 Comments, 33 Views, 14 Votes ,2.82 Score
The first night   7/8/2017

The door was locked. i tried knocking a few times but She did say She was leaving and that was over an hour ago, so i did not really expect anyone to answer. i started looking for another way out. There must be a fence gate. She must have assumed i will finish making notes and leave.

i see that there is one gate where the tall black metal fence meets the house and what seems like another ...


3 Comments, 42 Views, 16 Votes ,2.25 Score
e_equalsfreelove 34 M
5  Articles
how to convince her to try new things   7/6/2017

Shes pretty vanilla but want to help her explore. Thoughts?


4 Comments, 49 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Swinglow871 33 M
1  Article
Building a relationship is not easy this is what I know from experience   7/2/2017

There are alot of ways to build a successful relationship but it all starts with trust showing the person your with who you really are and trusting that there doing the same. Now I know this is a problem for people with trust issues like myself but you got to always remember not every person is like the next where one might reject something that you love doing another would want to join you and ...


1 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
how important is sex   6/29/2017

i know were all here because were sexual human beings..though some folks here arent looking for sex really..esp women... but then how important is sex in a relationship..am not just talking about one night stands...am talking about chemistry(physics, maths...whatever). for me even for a ONS, i need to be able to mentally connect to the person..feel it when i kiss her on her lips... do u guys ...


5 Comments, 52 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
bradtommsathotm 47 M
5  Articles
neighbor   6/23/2017

So the neighbors wife is really hot and keeps flirting with me, what to do? her husband is gone for work all the time, any suggestions?

thanks,


3 Comments, 50 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
Lukeinherass 41 M
2  Articles
My GF/fiance   6/21/2017

I am in love. Her name is Lindsay and we are currently separated but working on being friends. We broke up because she was jealous of any girls i talked to and would accuse me of cheating on her. I don't cheat on my partners yet i want an open relation. i love watching her hit on other guys and girls. Problem is she always goes for people that are not interested in a 3 some. We need to find a ...


4 Comments, 61 Views, 10 Votes ,0.20 Score
Lnghrd8inBLR 41 M
5  Articles
small things matter   6/20/2017

Vinu was down and dejected. I decided to pay her a visit ad cheer her up. She was not aware of my coming and when I rang the doorbell, she was surprised and delighted to see me .. Instantly she hugged me and cried out. It took a good 10 minutes to calm her down I took hr out for a stroll in the park, held her hand and spent a good 2 hrs with her before returning home.

Before I reached ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
need help on getting used to sex   6/16/2017

Does "practices makes perfect" applicable on bed?


3 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
katherine64 35 F
1  Article
need a man to always make me feel happy and loved   6/14/2017

i want some one that i will share my life time with and we leave happily


7 Comments, 56 Views, 23 Votes ,4.76 Score
At her place   6/11/2017

I quickly let the dogs in, closed the heavy door, walked across the marble floors towards the backdoor. It was another heavy dual french door leading to the backyard. The back was impressive with a large pool and an outdoor kitchen which would be the envy of every gourmet cook who liked to entertain for sure. The fireplace was massive with a built in pizza oven. She walked to the hearth and sat ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
Dovefeathers75 49 F
1  Article
Really looking for a woman or two maybe three   6/7/2017

I am very hungry for sexual pleasure i would love to feel desired and enjoyed by both woman and men at the same time i need friends that enjoy couples and groups and long fucking on a regular basis


2 Comments, 27 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
Real or fake   6/6/2017

How do you know if a relationship is real or fake.ive had so many break down when i thought they were real.


0 Comments, 16 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Mrid69 28 M
9  Articles
Blow job   6/4/2017

How many times do you suck that one day !?


2 Comments, 23 Views, 8 Votes ,0.70 Score
sperm   6/2/2017

Human sperm cells get an extra oomph forward as they swim, thanks to interconnected elastic springs in their tails that communicate with other regions of the tail, a new study finds.

These elastic springs transmit mechanical information to the distant parts of the tail, helping it bend as it wriggles its way toward an egg, the researchers said.

Scientists have known for years ...


1 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Wantscouple4funn 52 C
1  Article
Attributes   5/27/2017

I've recently become a couple do do swinging and I'd like to hear the best way to go about finding the best couple match? Maybe ways to separate the couples that are in for the right reasons and ways to make sure both parties of the other couple are both full in!@


0 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
She got to know me...   5/18/2017

We must have talked for almost an hour. i was standing the whole time. Even though we had just met, She did not hesitate to ask about everything, where i grew up, my family, my friends, when i moved there, my past girlfriends, my job, everything. For some reason, i answered them all. She did not introduce Herself or say anything about Her - not one thing.

The table next to us freed up ...


3 Comments, 77 Views, 16 Votes ,2.54 Score
poragaus 37 M
1  Article
Read   5/14/2017

• The following capabilities wish apply to sex for applying in particular early childhood and primary Teaching education sex.My motivations and statements about the expected benefits to sex them as a teacher for participation in the program sex goal safely. to learn are as follows: Thinks Strategically sex • Aligns sex work practices to meet corporate strategic objectives and considers the ...


0 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
She got to know me.   5/13/2017

Let's go down to the cafe and talk She said almost as soon as i sat down. What i began to notice about Her was that She didn't seem to wait for a response, She didn't seem to ask. As soon as She said that She got up, picked up Her coffee and Her purse and started leaving the table. i wasn't sure if She wanted the book i had found for Her which was on the table along with Her notebook and another ...


4 Comments, 53 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
How did it all start?   5/13/2017

It started several years ago. i first met Her at the city library. It was quite busy that day and She was seated at a table by the window. It was a cold day, cloudy and wet outside. The downpour had stopped but it was still drizzling outside.

I remember it was cold and not too comfortable in the building, perhaps as I was still a bit wet. I noticed Her first when an employee walked to ...


2 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
ricki1967911 56 F
13  Articles
Steps   5/10/2017

I may not be an expert, I find myself being asked this, so here it goes, one needs to have the balance and confidence when building a relationship.

The first thing is the attempt, don't fret if the person looks at you strange, it may mean relief or get away from me look. I decided to go with the former, only because that person has taken the time to see me and acknowlegde me.

...


5 Comments, 70 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
flint_gaffer 56 M
2  Articles
Sex Academy   4/30/2017

So I have taken a couple of the Sex Academy courses, is it just me or is this stuff obvious. I thought maybe some new information would pop up, but so far no go. I cannot say I knew everything though, had no clue about cock rings. So I guess I did learn something.

Anyway have any of you taken any of the Sex Academy courses and if so what was your thoughts on them.

If you want ...


3 Comments, 33 Views, 18 Votes ,3.40 Score
funnnmeeeupppgml 40 M
5  Articles
first impressions   4/22/2017

Admittedly, I had trouble coming off of a bad relationship and wound up, unexpectedly, in a new relationship but did not handle it well at first. I had not dated for awhile and it really ruined the beginning of a relationship. I always thought that I could make up for my poor attitude but years later, it did not sort itself out and yet our relationship persisted. Guess I should have given up ...


5 Comments, 58 Views, 18 Votes ,2.99 Score
ruwilling2015 55 M
1  Article
14 Women Reveal How They Turned Their ‘FWB’ Relationship Into Something More   4/17/2017



1. “Well, we had been friends for a pretty long time — like all through high school. Then we both came home during a winter break and were hanging out and ended up having sex on his basement couch lol. I had always had feelings for him, but he just wanted to be hookups buddies. I agreed, because I thought it might lead to more. We kept hooking up during college breaks until one day ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 19 Votes ,2.20 Score
Lnghrd8inBLR 41 M
5  Articles
Secret for a lasting relationship   4/4/2017

In todays fast paced world, where information/service availability is at a click of a button, how does one hold on to relationships.. What really makes a relationship strong over time? Quality time sounds a cliche. Communication still remains a challenge in the relationship. Communicating too much or too little, assumptions are some of the factors that are making people move away from one ...


2 Comments, 62 Views, 27 Votes ,2.19 Score
When and where   3/29/2017

I was curious what most women's thoughts were on the timing of sex. I think in our younger years, they worry that if they give in too soon it will risk the potential growth of a long term relationship. No one wants to be viewed as easy right? I don't see it that way. If the physical chemistry is there, I don't believe it would dissuade potential growth as I believe it's all about ...


3 Comments, 72 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
thrusted 55 M
7  Articles
jump straight into fuckin   3/23/2017

who or would you doo such just fuck even with out knowing namr


4 Comments, 53 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
Having sex with men is fun   3/13/2017

Get to know the stud your with have a drink to get in the mood break the ice feel each others pants to see if his rod is getting hard that tells you its time to get going to find out were ready lets get it on.


1 Comments, 49 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
DaddyDomSRQ 63 M
2  Articles
Interracial ONLY   3/11/2017

I am a single white man and VERY serious about a LTR long term relationship with a bearing age and capable submissive woman on light or dark skin, kinky and ready for relocation if needed.


2 Comments, 24 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
Building a Healthy Relationship   2/26/2017

The Beginning Stages While the early months of a relationship can feel effortless and exciting, successful long-term relationships involve ongoing effort and compromise by both partners. Building healthy patterns early in your relationship can establish a solid foundation for the long run. When you are just starting a relationship, it is important to:

Build. Build a foundation of ...


3 Comments, 64 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
the best recepie   2/25/2017

trust is what you need for a good relationship


3 Comments, 44 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
Indomitable80 38 M
23  Articles
What is most important   2/15/2017

What is the most important thing that is considered when building a relationship? Most would say sexual compatibility, others would see attraction and some would say honesty. In my opinion however, honesty and trust is the fundamental of every type of relationship. I would love to hear opinions from others and why they choose the reason they choose. Honesty and trust trumps everything else. ...


7 Comments, 139 Views, 22 Votes ,4.33 Score
girls are stupid creatures,only made to break hearts and distort feelings of nice guys   2/9/2017

if you guys agree, let me know in comments and anyone feel like this site is becoming a porn site?too much paid fun and fun with benefits going on, especially in india.


4 Comments, 55 Views, 16 Votes ,1.80 Score
throbbingprodigy 47 M
1  Article
Trust   2/1/2017

The old adage is relationships are built on trust. I somewhat disagree. Everyone has white lies. Nobody wants to no anyone's deepest darkest secrets....do they? Some things are better left unsaid, unexplained, undefined. I don't think we are meant to be monogamous. It is not natural and is beyond the scope of most people's dna.


3 Comments, 66 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
Alovertolove8888 36 M
2  Articles
Politics...   1/27/2017

Should you ever, ever discuss politics with a new fwb? Just thinking of pillow talk after sex...


5 Comments, 61 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
mayn29 33 M
2  Articles
Intimacy   1/21/2017

Confusion. Hurt. Silence. Missed opportunity. It is one of the ironies of modern life that many couples today are living together as complete strangers. Or worse, in great unhappiness. The data on divorce lead us to conclude that intimate relationships have been failing apart for the last 20 years or so. The truth is that couples have never learned reliably how to sustain pleasure in intimate ...


0 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
It's in the mind   1/18/2017

One of the most important lessons learned is that relationship begin and are fostered in the mind...not in your pants.

In order to develop a strong relationship connect with you partner on an intellectual level. Sex is an important element however the sex is better, more meaningful and satisfying if it includes a connection with you partner. When we begin getting to know one another- ...


4 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Saint076 26 M
3  Articles
This girl half way across the world makes me harder then a rock   1/15/2017

this lady ive been talking to is simply amazing and i want her so bad i dont know what to do


4 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
simon004 33 M
17  Articles
relatinship   1/9/2017

An engaging, secure love relationship can be an ongoing source of support and happiness. Good relationships strengthen all aspects of life: your health, your mind, and your work. However, if the relationship isn't supportive, it can be a tremendous drain. Relationships get better or worse depending on how much or how little we understand and invest in them. These tips can help keep a healthy ...


1 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
How close do you really want to be   1/2/2017

Someone once said to me; "If two people are exactly alike, then one isn't necessary." I know what he meant, but it begs the question, how much should you conform to your partner and seek to know their inner dreams, desires, and what makes them tick. Could a little bit of mystery actually be a healthy thing in a relationship?

I have always had the feeling that the "one" would know me ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
nfighter777gm 32 M
7  Articles
relationship questions   12/21/2016

whats the best way to build a relationship


3 Comments, 35 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
cutekinkym 40 M
7  Articles
Help   11/26/2016

Help?


2 Comments, 25 Views, 15 Votes ,1.60 Score
hopalong451 46 M
18  Articles
A MAJOR MAJOR CRUSH!!!!   11/25/2016

Now I am not in the habit of breaking up relationship's, but this one I truly believe that I belong with this woman! First of all if she was HAPPY in her relationship she would not have jumped in bed with me right! I have known her for 8 months now and she has talked to me about how he does not respect her, and how he spends all of his free time with his friends, anyway! I would like to ask the ...


9 Comments, 160 Views, 44 Votes ,0.26 Score
rabbitt09876 34 M
1  Article
Relationship on SEXFinder.com   11/23/2016

Not sure what all the women are expecting from us guys on here. Honestly the majority of guys are looking for a quick hook up I think. If your wanting a long term relationship please leave this site. You want a friend with benefits or a quick hook up you've come to the right place.


10 Comments, 78 Views, 30 Votes ,1.28 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Is sexting good for a healthy relationship?   11/7/2016

Texting, Emailing or just plain Sexting your lover/spouse/partner/FWB during the day can be fun. What I wonder is, if sexting is healthy and can strengthen or neutralize a relationship.

In a study, from the American Psychological Association (2015) suggests that sexting is incredibly popular (more than 80 percent of the adults surveyed did it in the past year) and it seems it ...



5 Comments, 88 Views, 22 Votes ,1.69 Score
straponcpl314 44 C
6  Articles
Anal trust   11/1/2016

Dominating your man can be the ultimate trust builder. If he can take it from you then he trust that you wont hurt him. In other words that you will take it gentle on him.


11 Comments, 106 Views, 29 Votes ,5.75 Score
First time for both   10/22/2016

I recently met a women on SEXFinder.com who, like myself , has been faithfully married for a number years. In both cases- something was missing and we began to chat, flirt a bit and wonder whether either or both were ready to the big step.

We talked on the phone, shared our frustrations and actually had a few platonic get togethers- an afternoon movie, coffees, a drink after work and also met for ...


6 Comments, 125 Views, 29 Votes ,3.84 Score
bravon725 36 M
5  Articles
where all the beautiful ladies at   10/14/2016

where all the ladies ffor a relationship at


2 Comments, 46 Views, 15 Votes ,2.21 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


3 Comments, 24 Views, 13 Votes ,1.30 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


0 Comments, 9 Views, 9 Votes ,1.50 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


0 Comments, 11 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


0 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
sexyhusband5252 51 M
9  Articles
kamasutra body massage with oil   10/10/2016

hi females

unmarried married widow divorcee

contact me for kamasutra complete body massage @ rs 3500 for 2 hrs


0 Comments, 6 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
An Honest and Frank Relationship Story   10/6/2016

We have a burgeoning group in NZ with quite a decent following. They have not really noticed my absence for the last few weeks because my bitch has learned well and basically kept things ticking over. The reason I have been absent is described below. To be 100% honest, as I always am to my detriment, the bitch and my relationship has dramatically changed recently to the point that after a two ...


1 Comments, 84 Views, 20 Votes ,3.64 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Losing my religion .....   10/3/2016

No, this is not a post about church and god, maybe it is a bit about the universe and how things either work or not work. Yes for sure this title is pure plagiarism of an REM song .....

"I thought that I heard you laughing, I thought that I heard you sing, I think I thought I saw you try,

Every whisper Of every waking hour I'm choosing my confessions Trying to keep an ...



1 Comments, 71 Views, 16 Votes ,0.63 Score
rm_BIGYODAG2 65 M
24  Articles
Uh Huh   10/2/2016

I'm in my 60s now - but still healthy, 198 lb. and sad to say a widower. You need to know that my last complete yearly physical showed No STDs and a sperm count so low, as to not exist. I have a bad reaction {rash} with condoms and since I'm D&D Free + shooting blanks = we can enjoy each other naturally. What I want, baby You got ...gotta gotta have it... it! Here is a passionate retired male, ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
affair   9/30/2016

Interestingly, the Infidelity Facts website states that up to 41 per cent of spouses who cheat actually admit to their affair. "It's nothing new, but more in the open now, " says Sarika Pilot Chaudhry. Many, who are prone to experimenting, do it guilt-free as long as they're meeting "responsibilities" in the domestic space. Mrs and Mr Shah were the most perfect couple; they made the most ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
That Awkward Time   9/26/2016

There are always awkward periods when developing a relationship. On this site- I've found one to be when there has been ample and fun chatting back and forth...you sort of get to the point where it is either- let's get together and see if we want to take this further or let's move on?

One way to deal with this is simply to ask to meet for coffee or perhaps a drink while setting ...


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_sds06029 39 M
1  Article
Meeting at a bar vs. online   9/20/2016

From where I come from, there used to be places that had live music, outdoor patios, and places where single people could go to mingle. Nowadays, there are barely any. And if you go to these "establishments", it's usually women who are looking to get paid (which I have no problem with). It's amazing how dependent we, as a society, have become on technology. Looking for someone to date has ...


6 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
raleighadmirer 50 M
2  Articles
married fantasy   9/15/2016

anyone built a successful relationship with married person?


2 Comments, 58 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
myhard4Ubaby 42 M
8  Articles
always give flowers   9/14/2016

they help on dates or date nights. who agrees


4 Comments, 60 Views, 15 Votes ,3.74 Score
polstar78 43 M
1  Article
nice fuck   8/30/2016

ge in life of a human from puberty to is the extreme damn hardcore life stage in which one must not miss any form of enjoyment. During these stages he will be over excited and will subject himself to attraction towards the opposite gender, unhealthy habits like drinking, smoking, drugs.

His fluids will start secreting and he finds pleasure in that. He even try to have pre-marital ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
suntandann 31 M
1  Article
would you prefer interracial?   8/28/2016

black, white or asian?


2 Comments, 26 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Anyone have long distance relationships that work?   8/25/2016

I've been in an 18 yr long distance relationship never living in the same state but we car deeply for each other since the time we met. We have been lovers, confidants, fighters and friends and have learned more about ourselves than we would have otherwise. Can't explain why we've been together this long without living together but maybe that's why. Anyone have any good long distance experience?


3 Comments, 32 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
rm_redaustinred 45 M
3  Articles
hard to do   8/23/2016

anyone have advice for starting then stopping the swinger scene with a new love that doesnt want to swing any more but did so in the past


1 Comments, 8 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_redaustinred 45 M
3  Articles
hard to do   8/23/2016

anyone have advice for starting then stopping the swinger scene with a new love that doesnt want to swing any more but did so in the past


4 Comments, 39 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
RELATIONSHIP   8/19/2016

people say that god has made someone for everyone one of us and guys that's not true the truth is we decide who is that someone. People generally spend there time thinking that on a right time some day someone would come and they would grab each other and they would be happy forever. Relationship isn't about two perfect person meeting together and starting their life journey together. it's about ...


4 Comments, 41 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
ncmaleonbeach 66 M
5  Articles
Older but looking for a Relationship   8/17/2016

How does one go about building a relationship when one is getting older?


3 Comments, 38 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
abhimav25 38 M
7  Articles
10 Steps to Getting Casual Sex Right   8/9/2016

At least half of all problems associated with casual sex can be traced back to its name: People think that "casual" means the sex takes no thought and fits as comfortably as sweatpants. But the truth is, you have to date for years before sex gets like that. (Monogamy does have a few benefits, after all!)

In fact, this is one of the reasons why the two of us often refer to casual sex as ...


8 Comments, 198 Views, 54 Votes ,5.67 Score
rm_GUYfrHotLady 35 M
7  Articles
How to make make merrige hot n sparky allways   8/8/2016

The Hot Marriage List

Learn How To Initiate Sex – Very important so that one person isn't responsible for starting the whole physical relationship for your whole marriage.

Get Comfortable with Foreplay – That means both ways. You get comfortable with him stimulating you manually and orally and the same goes for you, get good at manual stimulation and oral sex on him. Without ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 22 Votes ,0.60 Score
Blaq_King 45 M
16  Articles
How to bring that fantasy to reality   8/7/2016

I have this fantasy of putting together an all girl orgy with myself included of course. I talk with lots of women who seem to be very interested in the idea, but have yet to find any that is truly up to move forward with it. My question is how and where is the best place to make something like this happen? Is it better to seek women out individually who share the same type of fantasy(I have ...


1 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_GUYfrHotLady 35 M
7  Articles
My Story   8/7/2016

There katie was, palms down, elbows and knees on the mattress, pussy in the air, with my throbbing cock going in and out of her pussy. If you have a few moments, I would be happy to tell you how this happened to me.



It all started while I was planner in SMC One of the female member of a NGO, Katie, started to show an unusual interest in me. I didn't think much of it as she was ...


2 Comments, 56 Views, 17 Votes ,1.57 Score
otoronco1 43 M
18  Articles
MY LIVE   7/30/2016

I LIKE PEPOPLE LIKE SEX BECOUSE SEX IN MY LIVE FOREVER


1 Comments, 10 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_Wemiss1 38 C
1  Article
Hey   7/30/2016

Are you still looking for someone? I'm ddf, discrete, respectful, 63 205, 7in, clean, stamina, safe. You can text me at 36zero7seven45411 Or kik @ frankyday or email lol


0 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
Supertongue60465 42 M
1  Article
First impression on instant messenger   7/29/2016

I've always contemplated which is the better way to go about introducing myself to someone on new. "Hi my name is _____ , how are you?", while respectful, will not stand out from the crowd. On the other side of the spectrum, blatant disrespect such as "I want to put my _____ down your ______." never seems to fair well with women who are actually looking to meet. Of course there are exceptions to ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 13 Votes ,2.81 Score
ncmaleonbeach 66 M
5  Articles
Interest in a little more   7/29/2016

Hello I am located in Southeastern NC. If you are a lady and are either living in this area or visiting and you are interested in a little something something give me a call.


0 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
b0rnlucky213 32 M
1  Article
Poly and dating   7/19/2016

So I like to think of myself as a decent guy. I'm not jerk I treat people with respect and actually want to form a relationship with someone. I've even had a few people tell me they'd be willing to try dating me, but there's one sticking point with a lot of people:

I'm married.

I don't try to hide it, in fact it says so right on my profile. Right after that it says I'm ...


3 Comments, 55 Views, 15 Votes ,2.06 Score
raulb838383 37 M
8  Articles
Relationship   7/18/2016

Relation start with two individuals who are looking for a partner or team player. It's all about life about trust and relationship between two person. Relationship is hard to make its need time and trust.


0 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
Friendship, as opposed to friendship on this site.   7/4/2016

Definition of Friend as defined in the Concise Oxford Dictionary.

A person with whom one has a bond of mutual affection, typically one exclusive of sexual or family relations.

This is the way we see friendship. So why is it that we get an average of 3-4 friendship requests on this site per day from members with up to over a thousand friends? Is this how we measure ourselves? In ...


10 Comments, 111 Views, 24 Votes ,5.29 Score
anonojustlookin 24 M
2  Articles
Building a relationship with SEXFinder.com points   7/1/2016

You need a strong relationship with SEXFinder.com points for IM so thats why im making this article :3You need a strong relationship with SEXFinder.com points for IM so thats why im making this article :3You need a strong relationship with SEXFinder.com points for IM so thats why im making this article :3You need a strong relationship with SEXFinder.com points for IM so thats why im making this article :3You need a strong relationship ...


5 Comments, 37 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
tmooseman 30 M
1  Article
understanding   6/7/2016

The reason most relaTIONSHIPS DON'T LAST IS BECAUSE THEY DO NOT UNDERSTAND EACH,

oF COURse this is what I see or here or think

first thing when some when someone says they don't understand they are probably tell you the truth So maybe you should take time to ask question and try to understand the way they think or raised

not all people see the color grey the same


4 Comments, 46 Views, 17 Votes ,1.15 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
Fantasies fulfilled. But, maybe not? Of course.....   6/2/2016

The girl who has been thirsting over it for a moment and I will have a chance to win the game! My game is frequently on all day long...

Pretty sure that I can move forward with this new challenge of total love of a small tidbit of fantasy. I'm a little bit more than just what you expected to be of my self-contained pleasures of the heart. Rightfully so, I have that right....

I ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
If only....   5/31/2016

I hopefully thought in my mind that I could actually begin to understand that this is a very long and hard time getting to know about that what if we could meet up for a moment and I do believe that just might become a moment of peace.... Of course I very well know that you and I should and from all knowledge of knowingly knowing that we should keep things just the way they are. But, of course ...


0 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
sexaddictdon 67 M
31  Articles
Why does this have to be so hard?   5/29/2016

Why can’t men just say what it is that they want, without going in circles that begin with sex and end with sex? Why can’t a guy just be honest and let me know that he loves sex, just like me?

What is it with you guys who have very little imagination when it comes to romancing and treating a woman with respect yet have a vivid imagination when it comes to sexual positions and how ...


10 Comments, 194 Views, 35 Votes ,5.35 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
The lion of I......   5/5/2016

You are looking to sell your own personal use of yourself at your own risk.....

That's why I love you..... Cause your smart about stuff like that....

A sound body of work and play with a few little moments of agony in lust, of you and I, and does not mean love....

I'm sure that you can see that I am very honest with my emotions, and crave extasy.....

That's why ...


0 Comments, 18 Views, 0 Votes
FreeBird69er 55 M
10  Articles
Summer Sex / Make Her Squirt   4/27/2016

I love Summer Sex and Making Her Squirt, But it seems it's a lot harder this dating thing when we get older. Not to many are really interested in the 1 and 1 scenario with maybe a unicorn every so often. It's even harder when you have some kinkyness. Met a few on here but nobody who is really interested in more than a fling.

Summer is coming and Summer sex is the best. You can go ...


2 Comments, 84 Views, 30 Votes ,2.65 Score
any input   4/3/2016

What's your take on what it takes to build on a relationship


3 Comments, 64 Views, 14 Votes ,2.66 Score
any input   4/3/2016

What's your take on what it takes to build on a relationship


1 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
jayleyparker2 37 C
10  Articles
how to seduce a girl in public   4/3/2016

How to seduce a girl in public


6 Comments, 80 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
Is there such a thing as being too nice?   4/3/2016

Hello, I have been on here for a few months now and have chatted with a bunch of women. I try to start out with general questions about locations/places they like, what seasons ect. never really pressing to talk just sex. I have had a couple people tell me I seem like a nice guy, would love to meet but nothing develops past that. I have had some that straight up say they are here to fuck and lets ...


2 Comments, 42 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
Coklovingwife 54 C
1  Article
Wife Selfish or husband wise   3/25/2016

From Day one be bold and recognize as women that deserves to and will not back down always ready and craves attention from different cock daily!!! Is wife fullfilling her cock crazy cravings with 100% support from her birch even after sharing vowes 2 complements & clearly understood wife will live on regaurdless. Hopefuly husband obey like a slutty panty bitch boy is excepted worshiping me 2 ...


5 Comments, 104 Views, 28 Votes ,3.75 Score
funbiwpartycpl 37 C
1  Article
Nothing But The Truth   3/18/2016

There is nothing more important in this lifestyle than truth its what we feed off of and need to survive. We tell each other darker deeper truths than most of our monogamous counter parts. THis is a sad truth but we should be more of an example to those who are blinded by jealousy and selfishness we are creatures of truthful and honest desire.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
ChristianCisco 41 M
5  Articles
Building A Relationship With An Adult Industry Lifestyle   3/11/2016

Any pointers insights.... Or Advice on developing and maintaining a Relationship With a woman that works the Adult Industry Lifestyle?..

This Decade Seems To be at the Peak of The Sexual Revolution...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
Marco01996 28 M
7  Articles
Cuckolding build relationship   2/27/2016

Has cuckolding ever helped build your relationship?


0 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
How I use my sub.   1/26/2016

I put her collar on her nice and tight. It is an amazing feeling to padlock a solid metal collar around someone’s neck to the point where she finds breathing just a little difficult. I can adjust it to the point where she will pass out if I want to and she will allow it because she has no choice. She is my property. On the sizzling summer nights the sweat from the density of it drips down her ...


1 Comments, 86 Views, 15 Votes ,1.60 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
How I use my sub.   1/26/2016

I put her collar on her nice and tight. It is an amazing feeling to padlock a solid metal collar around someone’s neck to the point where she finds breathing just a little difficult. I can adjust it to the point where she will pass out if I want to and she will allow it because she has no choice. She is my property. On the sizzling summer nights the sweat from the density of it drips down her ...


4 Comments, 77 Views, 14 Votes ,3.62 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
How I use my sub.   1/26/2016

I put her collar on her nice and tight. It is an amazing feeling to padlock a solid metal collar around someone’s neck to the point where she finds breathing just a little difficult. I can adjust it to the point where she will pass out if I want to and she will allow it because she has no choice. She is my property. On the sizzling summer nights the sweat from the density of it drips down her ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
blainja 51 C
2  Articles
give and take   1/26/2016

for me a relationship has to be in some kind of a balance you have to give and take please and be pleased love and be loved joke and be serious


1 Comments, 23 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
baggag69 70 M
4  Articles
takes 2   1/23/2016

i am firm believer that it takes 2 to build any type of relationship


1 Comments, 8 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
baggag69 70 M
4  Articles
takes 2   1/23/2016

i am firm believer that it takes 2 to build any type of relationship


0 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
mmike10128 44 M
1  Article
My Chance with her   1/17/2016

There is someone I am very attracted to since I came across her profile. She is several years older than me but her attitude is so refreshingly young. I really wanted to meet her but she stated that she is currently seeing someone and she does not play with multiple people. I really didn't mind sharing but I don't know how I can convince her to meet me or give me a chance. All I can do is ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 11 Votes ,1.11 Score
wittyhumor 41 M
37  Articles
Relationship material   1/16/2016

I'd like to think that I had good relationships here and there. First off you must be able to make her laugh and most importantly sex has to be on her mind when she is thinking and looking at you. You have to get her to think that way about you and I am good at that. Wouldn't have had good sexual experiences with girls if I wasn't. Its all about your personality and how much sex appeal that ...


3 Comments, 100 Views, 15 Votes ,1.91 Score
BULL_4_HOTWife 38 M
1  Article
In search of “O” - Fantasy Girl   1/14/2016

“Fantasy gal” is a alluring character which I was able to get connected here. After months of compatibleness, finally was able to seek her permission to write on her here!

This Article post is a tribute to my “Fantasy gal” mesmeric character, angelic attitude, foxy desires and her teasing personality

Knowing her is tantalizing and exploring her is Purely ...


2 Comments, 87 Views, 12 Votes ,4.39 Score
TheOnlyHotspot 42 C
5  Articles
Sex and communication   1/13/2016

I believe that having sex as much as possible & doing to each other things they have always wanted but had never been able to explore before in the past. I truly believe that loving someone unconditionally you love every bit of who they are. If he has fantasies not yet met then dammit better do the damn thing. It's about knowing when to be dominant & when to be submissive. Building trust in each ...


2 Comments, 37 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
lonely_guy_2013 41 M
1  Article
Doing things together as a couple, with couples.   1/5/2016

Who’s interested?

Attempting to put together an adult social event in the Wichita KS area.

Would consist of: Dinner and Snacks Drinks/Bar Live DJ possibly band Discount on hotel rooms for those wanting them

Event would be held on a Saturday night starting at about 6pm and ending at about 2am. This would be a private party with admittance being by invention only. ...


1 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Steelergirl84 48 F
0  Articles
What does it take?   1/5/2016

So I have been on here off/on for a few years. As much as I am addicting to sex, I am more about building a foundation to that hot steamy part. All men have that magic wand but I am not looking for any man. I am very honest and open about the type of guy I want. Why is it so hard to find an honest guy who isn't married? Who isn't into games? What I seek is a LTFWB relationship, someone to have ...


4 Comments, 65 Views, 16 Votes ,5.33 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
Dominance   12/10/2015

Someone made a post in our group called HerMastersbitch, called "Dominance"

He talked all about dominance and what it meant, waxing lyrical about the lifestyle.

I replied as follows, your thoughts please:

For every action there is an equal and opposite reaction. This law does not only hold up in physics but in relationships as well. I was married for 28 years. Some ...


2 Comments, 73 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
jdavi122204 31 C
1  Article
Not Today   12/6/2015

Me and my wife started on this site last night, ......Bad news. If your looking for a relationship find another site. I really enjoy the way people are on this site. Straight forward and know what they want.


6 Comments, 56 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
deephitter1978 41 M
11  Articles
best way to get out   12/2/2015

how can i get out its been four years .. i havent had a good blow job in tears


5 Comments, 36 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
Rekindling an old flame-   11/18/2015

My high school sweetheart, Angie, and I dated all throughout high school. She had a step-mother and step-sister, Kelsie, as her mother had died when she was quite young and Kelsie was our age. Angie had long blonde hair and a knockout body with a great set of tits. I can't even begin to tell you the "woodies" she caused me, especially at the beach. We had made a pact not to do ...


3 Comments, 211 Views, 17 Votes ,4.96 Score
rdhair44 65 M
98  Articles
An empty sack   10/31/2015

The Valley Daily News never it made it the woods but got our table.A living to be more , a color to have the picture , a high to be definition.And a reason to share with friends.Growing as a sport paper is useful an ending is paper even fish need a cover story to wrap the catch. 1968 IS remembered with picture , frontal lobe.''Where's my paper'', not a question, frontal lobe.And THE FATHERS need ...


1 Comments, 43 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_NOPoet30 67 M
47  Articles
Options   10/29/2015

Many will say YES! Let me state my case: 1st I was with the same partner for over 20 yr.s before she passed away. Last full physical showed No STDs & a sperm count so low, as to not exist. 2nd I have a reaction to latex [ugly Rash] and little or no sensation during the act with 1 on. So, I ask if she can prove she is disease free - which I feel is being honest- and that for reasons stated I ...


3 Comments, 43 Views, 15 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_NOPoet30 67 M
47  Articles
Options   10/29/2015

Many will say YES! Let me state my case: 1st I was with the same partner for over 20 yr.s before she passed away. Last full physical showed No STDs & a sperm count so low, as to not exist. 2nd I have a reaction to latex [ugly Rash] and little or no sensation during the act with 1 on. So, I ask if she can prove she is disease free - which I feel is being honest- and that for reasons stated I ...


0 Comments, 9 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
Distance in a love matters?   10/21/2015

Love actually is feel for some one and there presence in mind without having any physical presence!! but love also represent some physical attachment !! does distance matter's in love!?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
A rise to fame and fortune. (Well, fame anyway) Episode 3   10/19/2015

So here we were, this woman I was no calling “my bitch” We were not together, we were not even in the same city for the most part but I found myself conditioning her to my way of thinking. I would write to her with my fantasies. There was the one about her stumbling across me at a hardware store after I had been working in the garden all day. I am very smelly and sweaty and she is dressed ...


2 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
Blake31690 33 M
1  Article
Love   10/10/2015

Just on here to get points and be with someone


4 Comments, 40 Views, 9 Votes ,5.14 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
A rise to fame and fortune. (Well, fame anyway) Episode 2   10/9/2015

If you haven’t read episode 1 yet it would probably pay to as it sets the scene. So now I had promised her a letter. Could I be man enough to go through with it? What the hell, I had nothing and the worst I could walk away with was no less than nothing. I was a shift worker so I had plenty of time at home alone to myself. Did I think about my marriage as I set about writing to this woman? In ...


7 Comments, 99 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
onemanN13 42 M
2  Articles
How hard shoiuld u work   10/4/2015

How hard should u work on a new relationship???


6 Comments, 49 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
HerMastersBitch 64 C
9  Articles
A rise to fame and fortune. (Well, fame anyway) Episode 1   10/3/2015

I have searched for her all my life. By the time I was 50 I basically gave up. I had been married for 28 years at that stage. I was unhappy. (It was not my wife's fault. In her eyes we were happy as long as I did the things that she wanted to do.) Was it my fault? I think not. I was suffocating in my marriage. My wife was extremely straight (Vanilla does not do it justice) and me?? I was a dirty ...


9 Comments, 142 Views, 32 Votes ,4.74 Score
Gstar_69 21 M
1  Article
Science Reveals How to Get the Girl   10/3/2015

How to get the girl is question that has plagued men for thousands of years. Now, science has given us a better answer to that question. Psychologist Arthur Arun conducted a study where he randomly paired men and women that were complete strangers. Then they were asked to tell each other intimate details about their life and make eye contact for 4 minutes. Most of the people admitted to feeling ...


6 Comments, 55 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
hmtgbv 38 M
11  Articles
very good group   9/8/2015

I am wating your call I love you I like you I am hopping married you�call to me �0094778359676


0 Comments, 29 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
hmtgbv 38 M
11  Articles
very good group   9/8/2015

I am very like girls with kiss


2 Comments, 24 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
hmtgbv 38 M
11  Articles
I love sexy   9/5/2015

come and see my page sexy girls


1 Comments, 25 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_John2223338 58 M
4  Articles
LOVE, TOLERANCE, AND THE MAKING OF DISTINCTIONS   9/2/2015

Last week, I wrote a piece on Bruce Jenner’s transformation into Caitlyn Jenner. I argued that the manner in which Jenner spoke of his transition reflected a Gnostic anthropology, which is repugnant to a Biblical view of the human being. I didn’t say a word about Jenner personally; I urged no violence against him/her; I didn’t question his/her motives. I simply made an observation that the ...


4 Comments, 44 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score