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rewrite time to say good bye   5/8/2011

Time to say goodbye

Once upon a time, for some of us perhaps many years ago, when we all where young, carefree and happy, we found our true love, our prince or princess, our soul mate, our life partner. We went out together, found and did the things we liked, we became one, we got married, bought a house and a car, had the and lived happily ever after – or so the story goes.

...


3 Comments, 48 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
longandhard589 42 M
14  Articles
why is it always so hard to break it off.....   5/4/2011

After spending so much time together in a relationship, why is so hard to end it when it no longer works....especially when ur no longer gettin any....this should make it easier, whats the best way to go about breaking up with some1 so that the least damage and problems occur...any advice....


7 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
coolwinterclass 52 M
5  Articles
i dn't unstand women   4/29/2011

well to make this short Just broke up totaly with gf that been with for 4years Her and I broke up last fall but we have been talking not anything else but talking well then out of blue she says last week shes gong out with an old accuintance and don't want to talk anymore kind of through me for a loop. I justlost my best friend. we'd talk about anything. any advice how she can just stop talking ...


3 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_discrete1402 55 M
1  Article
Possible divorce coming   4/27/2011

I just discovered my wife of 8 years had a brief affair-4 months. I discovered little clues and then had enough to confront her.

Long story short, she hooked up with an old boyfriend with his wife and other friends and an outing. They had dated for 4 months 14 years ago and a spark was rekindled.

It ended after a three day "Girls weekend away" with her sister. They met up ...


5 Comments, 149 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
ryan_the_lion_69 35 M
2  Articles
out with the old in with the new   4/26/2011

I currently find myself in a very difficult position... how to end the relationship i am in to begin a new one without anybody getting hurt. To the assholes of this world this may seem like an easy situation to remedy however to those of us who are more in tune with the invested emotions of those that surround us, it proves to be a little more challenging. The true difficulty has arisen due to ...


5 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
hereforfun1812 32 M
1  Article
Stay apart or try again?   4/20/2011

I was in a 5 year relationship from my junior year of high school until my senior year of college. It ended about 2 months ago and I'm the one who broke up with her. I had tried to break up with her 3 times before(for multiple different reasons), but we always seemed to be able to work things out in the end, so we stayed together. We dealt with many problems over the years and we always tried ...


3 Comments, 84 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
blind sided   4/15/2011

the worst is when your heart is in there hands , and you dont see it coming, and you think that everything is going great, and all of a sudden your world comes crashing down all around you and you are left asking yourself why, what, when, how, wtf?and this is usually due to them finding someone else and that is just shoving salt in the wound hang in there people time heals all wounds and yes the ...


3 Comments, 107 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
wantitrllllybad 37 M
3  Articles
why is this so damn hard   4/12/2011

i mean come on why can't it ever be easy


2 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
nchantedvixen 49 F
12  Articles
BLUE   4/11/2011

When they just won't believe you or say that they don't need it too, when all they see is "me, me, me", and it's so damn hard to leave them be, when you drink at night to kill the pain all the while feeling as if you're going insane, when the phone won't ring, though they used to live in your bed, and you pound on yourself trying to get them out of your head, and you KNOW it would never ever be ...


5 Comments, 55 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
we all go through it   4/11/2011

We have all been there before , what is the crappiest way you have been dumped or dumped a former lover ? spill it out here at the confession Box


1 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
DanishLover2011 33 M
0  Articles
What to do?! HELP!   4/7/2011

I've been in my relationship for 10 months now.. I've recently shocked myself, when I realized that I'm bored when I'm at her place, cause there's nothing to do. All she wants to do is cuddle. She's 17 btw.

She is under the impression that we'll be together 4EVA. She's multiple times asked me if I'll be hers forever and being in the situation, I felt like I couldn't say no, though I knew ...


2 Comments, 58 Views, 11 Votes ,1.48 Score
nchantedvixen 49 F
12  Articles
I hate to be alone   3/22/2011

The silence in the room is killing me. I can't even watch a tv program without something reminding me of you. Can't listen to the radio, can't fall asleep...it's so damn cold. But not in everyone's bed, right? Only in mine. Saying you wish you could sleep alone isn't the same as doing it, now, is it? Quit telling me lies, if you didn't want to be there, you'd be here. The silence just kills me.


17 Comments, 177 Views, 32 Votes ,4.36 Score
nchantedvixen 49 F
12  Articles
Tattoo me crazy   3/22/2011

Blue A color that's supposed to be true, that only describes how I feel about you, your deception and likes that tint the world I am supposed to be in with you, the night silent and pure, my mind infinitely insecure, and always the lure, of something that would never be. You made that clear to me. Others long to have what you held in your hands, yet cast away like infertile ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,5.57 Score
jeffreyyo 37 M
3  Articles
Should an Ex stay an Ex?   3/19/2011

So I hooked up with my ex last night... and well now she wants to "hang out" again....


8 Comments, 86 Views, 21 Votes ,3.25 Score
Super_Tongue_3 68 M
10  Articles
When is the best time?   3/7/2011

When is the best time to Break up? Certainly not when you still have to drive them home. When your droping them off at there door when you can get a clean get away. By phone or by text message or by email works good too.


2 Comments, 44 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
No    3/7/2011

If I can't have should I let my partner go ahead and find somebody else to get pergnant ?


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
hotspidy 35 M
6  Articles
How to Get Over a Break Up   3/1/2011

Think through everything thoroughly, but not obsessively. Go ahead and mull it over, as many times as necessary, within reason. Consider all the reasons you two broke up. Even if it sometimes seems as if there wasn't a good reason, there certainly was one - and probably more than one. Understand that you enjoyed being together for a while, but if the relationship was not what both you and ...


2 Comments, 41 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
In need of sincere help   2/25/2011

How do you move on? People say start going out with other people, start a new life, etc. That really hasn't worked. I know the major barrier for me is seeing him on here EVERYDAY. In the past I have always made a clean break. That has always worked best for me. I could block him, delete him from my friends list, but that isn't going to work. I tried it. I know myself well enough to know ...


6 Comments, 170 Views, 15 Votes ,1.60 Score
Meh   2/18/2011

Breaking up. Some people find it fun? experiences?


4 Comments, 38 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
Breaking Up Is Hard   2/17/2011

Especially when the woman dumps you, makes you move out, then constantly texts you about how much she loves you.

Love can be hell.


3 Comments, 51 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
martyraye 81 F
2  Articles
Hey You SoB!   2/11/2011

I just want you to know that I'm finally over you! Last night my heartache ended when I realized you were a mistake from the beginning. I should have heeded the warnings of all the people that told me, I could do better! Hell! I just wouldn't listen because My heart was so into you. I wanted to be your friend and your lover, but your sarcastic male ego was bigger than I ever imagined. It was ...


7 Comments, 196 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
hotboi1183 41 M
10  Articles
love   2/11/2011

is love really worth all the stress it brings??


1 Comments, 8 Views, 0 Votes
Green tea   1/30/2011

So I've tried many things to try and get fit from miracle pills to extended time in the gym, and the success has been variable. However I have to say the one thing I have started to do that has had a huge difference to me is my drinking of green tea. Any brand seems to be ok, but when I drink it I have so much more energy. It's amazing. I recommend it.


5 Comments, 45 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
gr8north 56 M
3  Articles
WTF   1/29/2011

We haven't had sex or said anything more than good morning, hello, goodnight in three months. I've moved out of the bedroom about three weeks ago (I know ... what took so long). I put a lock on my "new bedroom" door and she makes the statement "I guess we're now broke up"..... WTF, was it not apparent three months ago that we were split up? It took a lock on my new room to confirm that???? ...


3 Comments, 91 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
digolbickwaco 35 M
3  Articles
troubled mind   1/25/2011

after my first break up, my mind was clouded with deep visions of sorry. I took me a while to clear my head with foresight into a brighter futre.


1 Comments, 56 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
asl74090 43 M
4  Articles
Awkward Silence   1/24/2011

Loneliness can be a terrible mind-manipulator. Especially after a terriblbreakupup or divorce. As time goes on, the loneliness can grow so much that it begins to change the kind of person you used to be. Even after you return as a functional member of society, your mind can wage war with you the second your hands become idle. Trust me, I still struggle with it constantly.

One thing is ...


3 Comments, 42 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
Resplendant23 64 M
9  Articles
GRATEFUL FOR THE LOVE.   1/22/2011

I asked myself, Do I cling to what is gone? Am I broken, no more able To give as once I could? Or am I still, only sad This end has come?



And then a ray of light That quelled the clouds So often storming in my life.



Hoping that you’d come to feel The same possibilities as I - I wondered, wished and waited For what I wanted to believe Could have been. ...


4 Comments, 43 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
where to do it   1/22/2011

always go for a public place less need to worry for a scene and if need be can alway move to a more private location


2 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
Memories of sex   1/19/2011

Do you think you always with time rate your ex's better in bed. As a rose tinted view that isnt always realistic?


6 Comments, 86 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
sucks   1/13/2011

ya breaking up sucks the big ones


1 Comments, 39 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
Easiest way to break up   1/11/2011

I believe the easiest way to break up is to lose some chemistry. thats if you have chemistry. if not just tell he/she u dont have any chemistry. they should agree. everyone leave relatively fine with the break up....


5 Comments, 59 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
HotStrongMan55 28 M
3  Articles
true that   1/11/2011

why does it sucks to break up so much


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Rorshausk 28 M
13  Articles
ive always been good at this   1/8/2011

maybe i am just really good at being a dick. its very easy to break up with someone. i think the hardest part of this for people is usually the feeling of being guilty or not wanting to hurt someone, or going through the big long talk.

but for me, its rather enjoyable. maybe i just like to see the other person in pain.

usually i just say im not happy, and you arent right for ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
19chocolateBar 29 M
4  Articles
Pain Like No Other   1/7/2011

It is very difficult to move on after breaking up with someone who you Love dearly. You have this pain that no medicine can cure, but if there isn't any hope for continuation of the relationship, all you can do is move on. With time, the pain will subside and you will soon have the necessary courage and strength to move on. Breaking up can be very hard to deal with, but everyone should keep in ...


1 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
101   1/7/2011

101 breakup


1 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes
breakups   1/6/2011

do you think breaking up is good


1 Comments, 5 Views, 0 Votes
martyraye 81 F
2  Articles
Hey you!   1/5/2011

You know who you are! I just want you to know that I love you and I'm missing you with all my heart and soul. I wonder how we came to this place where we can no longer enjoy each other as we did before our relationship split wide open. I'm sorry for all that has happened between us. We've said hurful things to each other that probably will never heal, neverless, I just want you to know that My ...


5 Comments, 133 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_hardrider693 27 M
1  Article
Break Up Thoughts?   1/3/2011

Ok so my girl friend stopped talking to me when I got stationed out here in Alaska...I mean I text her and 9 chances out of 10 I don't hear back from her. I want to break it off because this has been going on for like 7 months with limited talking or texting or emails or anything really....been in a relationship with her off and on for about 5 years....popped the question too i consider us more ...


4 Comments, 61 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
parolee152514 42 M
3  Articles
wifey   1/2/2011

Breaking up is hard to do. I just went through a very rough time going through this divorce. Dope will take everything from you. I've been sober for 3 yrs now and I still miss her/


2 Comments, 38 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
parolee152514 42 M
3  Articles
me so sad   1/1/2011

Breaking up is hard but so is being in a relationship that sucks and you can't trust.


3 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
JJthejoker 32 M
2  Articles
no easy way   12/31/2010

there is nevr an easy way to break up with someone unless you never cared about them. there will always be a a feeling in it of regret or pain. no specails word can be said, and you dont want to buy them anything. even thought it might hurt honesty is the best way to go, no matter what. one, if not two people will walk away hurt, but if it was an honest break up down the line it might be ...


3 Comments, 27 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
chad3192 34 M
2  Articles
Be upfront   12/27/2010

I have been dating a woman for what I consider to be a very long time now. I fell love with this person. I took this persons virginity. I have sat here for months now looking at her and thinking that I want her to do great in her life. I want the best for her. I just know that the way we both are will prevent us from having the life she wants us to have now. when I fell out of love with her I ...


1 Comments, 74 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
True friendnship after ! ?   12/18/2010

True friendship after breaking up is possible sometimes, and it is like keeping sound health; The value of it is seldom known until it be lost forever.

...


7 Comments, 57 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
gr8north 56 M
3  Articles
At what point did it go south?   12/16/2010

I'm new here and that's because I am recently separated ... actually still in the midst of doing so.

I wonder how and when my relationship started it's downward spiral. I'm sure I'm not the first person to wonder it but in my case I think it's been in the works for a long time. Our relationship has been pretty good but there were signs that would pop up once in while that you really ...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
mzphatphat 38 F
6  Articles
this is sooo the the truth   12/12/2010

ok here is the thing why is it that when your with someone everything is all good and the person your with just cant do no wrong and there just perfect right!? well tell why is that as soon as you break up whats the first thing we do start talking shit right and it gets bad childish even one of my friends split from her man and she started tell ppl that he had bad breath and just so mant other ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Needanotherchik2 49 C
1  Article
Better to be alone and horny than together and missesrable   12/6/2010

I'm so never going to stay in a shity relationship for months even years unhappy thinking it will get better . It won't!


2 Comments, 60 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
HokieTiger 39 M
3  Articles
How long?   12/5/2010

How long do you wait after a relationship ends do you generally wait to start dating again?

I'm not looking for advise, so much as wondering about everyone else. I know it's different for everyone.

And, what do you generally do to help get your head right and get over the ex?


1 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
biker4babe2 47 M
3  Articles
Letting someone down easy...   11/26/2010

When a relationship's lifecycle has run out, what is the best way to let someone down easy?

The fire burned too hot too fast, and now there is barely an ember.


5 Comments, 95 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
It's not you It's me   11/22/2010

I can't believe women still use this line, nor can I believe that men would use this line too. Can't we just be real to one another...be grown-ups about the situation. We all say we don't want to be with liars, so why can't we just come out and say what it is that is making us want to leave the person we are with?


2 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
carlos_grafen 32 M
10  Articles
Whats the best way to end a relationship   11/21/2010

Is it better to end a relationship over the phone or in person and is there such thing as let have sex for the last time and for old sakes time


7 Comments, 106 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
bright bright sunshiney day....i can see clearly now the rain is gone   11/4/2010

There was a guy and he had a girlfriend called Lorraine. She was very pretty and he liked her a lot.

One day he went to work to find that a new girl had started working there. Her name was Clearly, and she was absolutely gorgeous.

He began to like her and after a while it became obvious that she was interested in him too. But, he was a loyal man and he wouldn't get involved with ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
"THE BREAKUP"   11/4/2010

A Marine was deployed to Afghanistan. While he was there he received a letter from his girlfriend. In the letter she explained that she had slept with two guys while he had been gone and she wanted to break up with him. AND, she wanted pictures of herself back.

So the Marine did what any squared-away Marine would do. He went around to his buddies and collected all the unwanted photos of ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
HornyHunter86 36 M
3  Articles
is it wrong   10/24/2010

is it wrong to jack off to naked pictured my ex took of herself for me?


4 Comments, 123 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
smilley68 60 F
1  Article
I COULD BE WRONG.   10/19/2010

WHEN YOU MEET SOMEONE ONLINE THAT SEEMS TO WANT SO MUCH INFO ON YOU. BUT PRIVATE ABOUT THEIRS. I THOUGHT BEIN DISCRETE IS NOT LETTING THE OUTSIDE WORLD KNOW.PLEASE SOMEONE ENLIGHTEN ME.


8 Comments, 119 Views, 17 Votes ,4.82 Score
kelvinchk 46 M
4  Articles
Marriage Break up   10/18/2010

I am not sure how many of you guys and gals agrees with me, but these day i notices there is alot of couple that gets married and get a divorce like a year or less then a year later. Why on earth did you get married anyway... Its seems to be a happening trend these days and do you think its a healthy thing or is it unhealthy?


3 Comments, 28 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
kelvinchk 46 M
4  Articles
Marriage Break up   10/18/2010

I am not sure how many of you guys and gals agrees with me, but these day i notices there is alot of couple that gets married and get a divorce like a year or less then a year later. Why on earth did you get married anyway... Its seems to be a happening trend these days and do you think its a healthy thing or is it unhealthy?


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
sweettxpeach 36 F
1  Article
I miss my daddie   10/18/2010

I met what I thought was a nice guy....well what was nice was the way he made my body feel. I know milk does a body good, and Dr. FeelGood has the right prescription but I'm lactose intolerant and with the economy how it is those insurance deductibles could get a lil expensive. We had Grrrrrrreat sexual chemistry, but as fast as we hooked up he tripped out. I started this venture strong in my ...


6 Comments, 137 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
DonJuan7622 40 M
10  Articles
is it best?   10/12/2010

is it best to break up as soon as you start to think its not working...or give it some time before breaking it off?


4 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
lying?   10/12/2010

ever had to lie to gently break up?


3 Comments, 125 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
4funcrazy1 36 M
2  Articles
what are you   9/30/2010

Why does everyone break up?


1 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
barnes1967 57 M
1  Article
GOD WHY   9/30/2010

I DONT THINK IT REALLY MATTERS--WHO MUCH MONEY YOU HAVE--HOW TOUGH YOU THINK YOU ARE---YOU CAN STAB ME-- BEAT ME DOWN --- SHOOT ME --IT DOESNT MATTER--BUT OH BOY WHEN IT COMES TO MY HEART--THERES NO PAIN LIKE IT IN THIS WORLD---AND TO MAKE MATTERS EVEN WORSE-- YOUR THE ONE WHO FUCKS IT OFF.--WHEN A FRIEND TELLS YOU "GO BE WITH SOME ONE ELSE"-- NO WAY--IF YOU HAD REALLY LOVED THAT PERSON -- ...


2 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
rm_traumst 36 M
5  Articles
breaking up   9/27/2010

so a buddy of mine broke up with his girlfriend but i guess he was planning on talking to her again. He found out that about two days after they broke up, she went and had sex with his friend from work. I guess my question is; is there a set amount of time after they break up where its ok? Or is it not ok unless you get permission from that friend?


5 Comments, 77 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_Azaghoth666 31 M
0  Articles
When there's involved?   9/15/2010

When do you guys think it's okay for two people with a together to split if they're constantly unhappy. Or do you think those two should try and stick it out for as long as possible?


4 Comments, 59 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
An old adage for women !   9/14/2010

An old adage for women is, 'The best way to get over someone, is to get under someone.' ...


6 Comments, 39 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
cold turkey or just be friends   9/12/2010

when a Long term relationship ends is it better to end all contact with ex, or can you actually stay friends?


9 Comments, 81 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Should I leave or stay?   9/9/2010

If you gave your partner an STD, would you stay with them if things were not working out because of the gilt of giving them the STD?


1 Comments, 29 Views, 0 Votes
Resplendant23 64 M
9  Articles
I reach out.   9/6/2010

Tears will never stain my pillow

when I have memories filled with love, Each cherished thought that I embrace, shines true like the stars above...

Like a gentle breeze in the springtime, that clears a cloudy sky, Or a cloudless night drifting along the tide line...

I keep these treasured memories locked safe within my heart, Thumbing through them on life's journey, so ...


2 Comments, 24 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Traumst7 39 M
7  Articles
Cheating   9/6/2010

If you caught your partner cheating could you forgive and give them a second chance or is it a one shot thing.


9 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sheer bliss ?   9/3/2010

While driving to his mothers house a husband and wife got into it as usual because he was going to see his mom. The husband told his wife, "BITCH! Don't say a fucking word when we get over there because mama can't stand the sound of your god damn screaming voice."

The wife replied, "You sorry of a bitch! You know what I can't stand about your old crazy, cum drinking out of a glass ...


17 Comments, 156 Views, 23 Votes ,5.11 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
Thank you.   8/31/2010

Like the Chicago song says: "Feeling stronger everyday"!!! Definitely a good feeling. A damn good feeling to know I can do it on my own and don't need to lower my standards just to say "I have someone". Some people aren't worth having. Some of you have left comments that really made a difference and I wanted to thank you for your kind words. Thay really have helped. Everyday gets a little ...


2 Comments, 57 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Money can't buy happiness !   8/30/2010

Money can't buy happiness, but somehow it's more comfortable to cry in a late model Porsche than in a 1967 Volkswagen....


6 Comments, 56 Views, 23 Votes ,3.01 Score
luketheduke107 32 M
1  Article
I am tall dark and handsome   8/24/2010

mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm


0 Comments, 22 Views, 0 Votes
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
Assholes   8/23/2010

Assholes are like herpes. You know they are there, just waiting to pop up and fuck with you. Never knowing when, but definitely knowing they will. No cure. They just keep coming back and you definitely DO NOT want them to. Well, with that said, He's BACK!!!!


3 Comments, 105 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
justforfun199999 26 M
1  Article
yjhjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj   8/22/2010

jjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjj


5 Comments, 24 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
How do you?   8/22/2010

How do you get over the pain, hurt, and anger of being lied to and cheated on? He took all trust I ever had. Told me the day we met he was "getting a divorce and will be divorced in 6 months" That was 3 years ago and he is still married. Does that mean anything to him?????? He cheated and publically announced it by leaving comments on other websites about how sexy, incredible, etc they are. ...


12 Comments, 145 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
rm_davidgrafico 43 M
1  Article
women say their not doing stuff to mess with our heads but they are   8/18/2010

scorned women always act up... and their never guilty


3 Comments, 73 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
ex girlfriend...   7/31/2010

I had a wank over my ex girlfriend last night...

Listen I know its wrong but I had a spare key and she's a deep sleeper!


2 Comments, 75 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the poets know   7/31/2010

Bigamy is having one wife too many. Monogamy is the same.

Oscar Wilde


1 Comments, 8 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
To err is human !   7/8/2010

To err is human. To blames someone else for your problem, is strategic. ...


1 Comments, 27 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
CADDY5678 41 M
3  Articles
Comfort zone   7/6/2010

Does anyone else feel that it is hard to break up just do to the fact that they are afraid to leave their established comfort zone? You know you have no future with the person, but it is just so hard to break that level of comfort?


1 Comments, 49 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
Help me understand   6/24/2010

Why do feelings change? How can someone stop loving you? Respecting you? Why do people do things to hurt the ones who love them the most? Please help me understand. I need to know how things that are so good can go so damn wrong. How someone can hurt the person who loves them. How feelings can change. Please--I really need some help with this.


4 Comments, 59 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
__A_J__ 47 F
9  Articles
Getting dumped   6/22/2010

Getting dumped for a younger woman really hurts.


5 Comments, 113 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
How do I?   6/17/2010

How do you break up with someone gently. I don't know how to break up with someone you like but you just don't click with that way.


3 Comments, 17 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
Actions   6/10/2010

Actions speak louder than words. Always have, always will. People lie all the time. Can't believe anyone until they back it up with their actions. If they don't, you know they are just lying. Watch and listen. It's so true. People say what they think you want to hear and then just keep doing what they do with no consideration for other people's feelings. It's pretty amazing how cruel and ...


3 Comments, 38 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
racquel76 48 F
3  Articles
is it really over   6/8/2010

is it really over when they still text and say they miss you or love you. then the next day they mad cause you wont do as they ask?


3 Comments, 83 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
rm_jackpot20073 50 F
14  Articles
True love   6/4/2010

True love is just a slow form of suicide. Read that somewhere lately. How true.


2 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
suegal2 34 F
1  Article
Break up with BF   5/29/2010

I break up with my bf when I learnt he is an MBA - not Master of Business Adminstrations!! is Married But Available. He is one of my tutor, he is handsome and speaks in sense of humour. I soon fell in love with him. He never mentioned he was married. Many time we kisses and I preformed him fellatio in his office for I insisted to give him when he gave me the ring. One evening he kissed me ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
ugotafeelme00 32 M
2  Articles
BREAK UPS   5/28/2010

How do the ladies feel about sex after break up. yA or nay ladies.


5 Comments, 94 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
dsole5 34 M
1  Article
Text Messege   5/28/2010

Is breaking up using a text messege an appropriate way? even if there was only 2 dates and nothing serious?


4 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Strength !   5/21/2010

Even when you think you have no more to give, if a friend cries out to you, you will find the strength to help....


5 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,1.16 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Sometimes !   5/21/2010

Sometimes the people you expect to kick you when you're down will be the ones to help you get back up. ...


3 Comments, 24 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
After a break up !   5/17/2010

You can really keep going long after you think you can't. Don't give up. ...


4 Comments, 31 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
Unsure   5/13/2010

why is it when people are unsure about themselves they try and find something wrong about you?? People themselves are scared of most uncertain things.. but everything in life is uncertain!


1 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Cat outta the bag !   5/13/2010

Letting the cat outta the bag is a whole lot easier than putting it back in. ...


3 Comments, 24 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Silence !   5/12/2010

Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. ...


3 Comments, 31 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
rm_TuckMcGuck 32 M
3  Articles
break up bullshit   5/11/2010

I just ended my relationship of a year and a half. Whats worse is that I still care about her and love her, but just don't want to be with her anymore.

What really chaps my ass is that even though our relationship was a beautiful one, now that its over she has to go around and act like I've just completely ruined her life or something.

I just still want to talk to make sure ...


3 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
No matter !   5/10/2010

No matter how bad your heart is broken, the rest of the world doesn't stop for your grief. ...


3 Comments, 28 Views, 13 Votes ,0.29 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Be sure !   5/10/2010

You can do something in an instant that could give you heartache for life.

Be sure !
...


1 Comments, 15 Views, 9 Votes
Breaking Up is Easy for a Cheater   5/8/2010

Break-ups are easiest on the person who causes it. My last relationship was with an older woman. Her were married and had of their own so when I met her I thought she’d be a solid choice for a girlfriend. I was looking forward to having the experienced 50 year old inject some maturity into our relationship. I figured it was about time that I could deal with someone who didn’t display ...


3 Comments, 79 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
nvrgetsenuf 50 F
11  Articles
Why Is Breaking Up So Hard To Do?   5/7/2010

I've never had a bad break-up. Which is funny because I've always been the one to break up. But, I've never hurt anyone to do so. In fact, I've always let them down so gently they've come back asking for a second chance. Or was it just because I give the most magnificent hummers? Regardless, I've heard the stories of how she keyed his new car, or dumped his entire refrigerator in the bath tub or ...


2 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Arguments !   5/4/2010

1. A woman has the last word in any argument.

2. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument.
...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 20 Votes ,1.59 Score
BEST WAY   5/3/2010

THE lORD Jesus Christ LOVES YOU MY dear. he does not what to see you perish in the lake of fire. his arms are wide open for you. you don't have to live this way. I know him because i talk to him face to face.i am a real person and i have more than 100 encounters that prove that he is LORD. ask him to forgive you. let him take total control of your life.if you do that and you pray to him he will ...


1 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
wesucku2 62 C
10  Articles
Be truthful   5/2/2010

How many have had this site come between you and your partner and make your situation worse? How many can say that this site enhanced your relationship with your mate?


1 Comments, 98 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Your odometer !   4/28/2010

Some people try to turn back their odometers. Not me; I want people to know 'why' I look this way. I've traveled a long way, and some of the roads weren't paved mostly due to breaking up.


1 Comments, 35 Views, 24 Votes
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
After Rob   4/28/2010

I had been chatting with a man from SEXFinder.com. His wife was also a member. Seems he wanted sex three times a week and she wanted it three times a day. SEXFinder.com was the solution to their sexual differences.

He told me that she was seeing someone and the man turned to her and said " I can't see you anymore, I just got engaged."

She was hurt and couldnt understand what went wrong, they had ...


3 Comments, 147 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Naturally !   4/27/2010

If you find yourself in a hole, stop digging....


1 Comments, 40 Views, 26 Votes
BREAKING UP FACTS--HEALING   4/25/2010

Acknowledge your grief over your break up. Breaking up is the hardest thing to do! But, denying your feelings is harder on the body and mind than going through them. Wallow in them if you want, wail out loud, punch your pillow, cry to your mother, write sad poems, let your heart mourn....it's your grief and it's very real. Allowing grief to surface is the only way to let it go. Without this ...


4 Comments, 77 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
havinfun1101 37 M
7  Articles
breakups   4/20/2010

How do men differ from women in handling a break up? Is it more emotional on men or women?


5 Comments, 65 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
princeofmalta 62 M
2  Articles
Article Body   4/20/2010

ORIGINAL MATERIAL ONLY - The magazine is for original material written by members. Any plagiarised material will be removed from the site. Also, SEXFinder.com's


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes
thirdwheel1979 45 M
3  Articles
need help   4/16/2010

how do you lose a stalker


9 Comments, 71 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
Adventurer333 56 M
18  Articles
Tears   4/12/2010

How do you deal with tears in a break-up? I think I am gentle but honest if I say I don;t want to go out with a person, but tears and are pretty hard to bear and have kept me dating people past tie time I feel comfortable. Anyone else run into this?


1 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
PrinceP4SSI0N 32 C
1  Article
breaking up   4/6/2010

not good unless your both up for it


4 Comments, 52 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
hotboi27 41 M
6  Articles
pain   4/4/2010

why is breaking up with a loved one so painfull???


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
kathywithgary 43 C
16  Articles
The min. man   3/25/2010

He made me laugh and I liked his family, but when it came to sex I could count the time it would last every time, three mins.So I taught him how to please a girl by eating her pussy till she came. I tried my best to stay.But after so long I had to go cause I like a nice hard cock that knows how to make me glow. Sorry to say, I broke his heart, but to this day he thanks me for teaching him well, ...


5 Comments, 145 Views, 16 Votes ,2.83 Score
whenyouknowlove 54 M
1  Article
Dear Abby, what have I done?   3/24/2010

I'm a musician and we had a show last Friday. My is also a musician and I help manage his band as well so the family's inner circle is very young. After the show Friday night, it was back to my place for the after party. A few beers into it, some high fives and several wooo-hoo's, I finally got going. "OK girls crowd around, there's enough of Big Daddy to go around for everyone", jokingly of ...


8 Comments, 254 Views, 10 Votes ,2.39 Score
wiz169mg 45 M
5  Articles
being a man   3/23/2010

I have had people tell me "be a man", what the hell does that mean. When I break up with a woman its usually mutual but should I be the 1st to break it because i am a man? Should i be less hurt because i am a man?


1 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
Confused? what next?   3/22/2010

I just broke with a gal was a person you would dream about.The thing that waws totally oppisite from any other relationship U had was we were very compatible personally. Both of us had a lot of sexual desure but just couldn't get to that fireworks fantastic sex.WE ended up so frustrated after a few months we broke it off last week. I have never been through a time like this, now I sit here and ...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
uhhhh   3/19/2010

breaking up is hard to do if the one ur with doesnt love u , instead pleeding and crying sometimes u need a time out, truth will be told when apart if there was ever hope from the start. but dont worry some tie down to early with out experiencing what we call life, or what some think is the right way. never fret, keep a strong neck for ur head should not be down


1 Comments, 29 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Bubblyboo3 45 M
10  Articles
is it wrong to break up using a text message   3/4/2010

I have never done this because I think it is out of order, just wondered what other peoples opinion sare


7 Comments, 68 Views, 17 Votes ,2.14 Score
emericanidiot449 44 M
3  Articles
hey   2/26/2010

well I just recently broke up with a girl. It didnt go over too well. She broke up with me for another guy. I hate when girls do tht...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
That's when the fight started !   2/25/2010

My wife sat down on the couch next to me as I was flipping channels. She asked, 'What's on TV?' I said, 'Dust.' And that's when the fight started ................................................... My wife and I were watching Who Wants To Be A Millionaire while we were in bed. I turned to her and said, "Do you want to have sex?" "No, " she answered.. I then said, "Is that your final answer?" She ...


2 Comments, 113 Views, 40 Votes
need a little advice please   2/24/2010

So Cherish and I are split up. Again! I need a little advice from my friends so I can decide how to procede.

Her story:

She claims she's not in love with me any longer, she states she still loves me but she needs time and space to decide what she wants from a relationship/life because she's only been in a couple of serious relationships.

My Story:

Cherish and ...


4 Comments, 94 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
rm_THKK8inM4u 60 M
5  Articles
Do's and don'ts   2/21/2010

Do tell her face to face, or just send a text what should you do?


1 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
ROCKZAAM 35 M
1  Article
dated a reallly really really hot girl   2/12/2010

how do i get over it? every girl after that i try to compare to her.


5 Comments, 86 Views, 17 Votes ,2.28 Score
designg1378 43 M
1  Article
Use email. Its less painfull   1/27/2010

Anyone find its easier over the web? If you meet someone online, should you dump them there?


2 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Lotney 34 M
1  Article
Hey whats up!   1/24/2010

Free points here i come!


1 Comments, 52 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
lovestogive2u69 42 M
2  Articles
cheating   1/21/2010

so a friend of mine recently had his marriage end after a few months and they had problems from the get go and he was feeling unappreciated and low about himself and they were in separate bedrooms and she was treating him like crap and he didn't have sex with this girl but he met a friend one night for coffee to chat and they got a little hot and heavy and they just fooled around foreplay in the ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
mysteriousman43 36 M
10  Articles
lack of trust   1/20/2010

there is only one reason for breaking up relationship which is lack of trust.


2 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
lowdel 50 M
1  Article
One way to break-up..   1/18/2010

My girl came over to my place when there was a house full of people and started bossing people around as usual. So I took her into the back room to tell her to leave and we were finished. Well that's when it got interesting... She got all teary eye but, all of sudden she changed her tactic and got all sweet. Playing with all my hot spots and started to unbutton my shorts. She just dropped to her ...


1 Comments, 90 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
11  Articles
Advice   1/16/2010

So i have been with this girl for about 6 months. I am no longer attracted to her. Whenever we have sex its not the same as when we first got together. Im not really sure how to tel her without hurting her feelings does anyone have any suggestions


3 Comments, 41 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
11  Articles
is it over or not?   1/8/2010

i am currently separated from my partner, and things look to be headed the way of a divorce. we have both agreed on this, and also that contact should be more business like, than personal. why do i keep getting texts that ask if i want to go to a movie, or get a cup of coffee, but when we talk or meet all we do is argue and fight? i really don't understand how this works, is it just me, is she ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
armyshaff88 34 M
4  Articles
breaking up sucks   1/7/2010

i broke up with this girl a couple of weeks ago and have since moved on but she hasnt should i feel bad she still wants me?


2 Comments, 48 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
18764930560SEX 30 M
10  Articles
BREAKING UP OVER THE PHONE?????   1/4/2010

Is this a sign of a coward or the sign of a mate don't want to see his or her mate in pain?????


3 Comments, 41 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
rm_krisshh81 33 M
14  Articles
Bloody Good   1/4/2010

Breaking up can be very devastating and painful part of our lives. By reading on, you will be able to learn the advice I've learned over the years that might help you to move on, make things right between you and your ex or even give your relationship a second shot.

For whatever reasons you guys broke up, it doesn't matter, because in the end, the reason you guys split up is because one ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
whitesexyhung 40 M
5  Articles
lost still   1/3/2010

They say time heals, I don't see how whe. You loose one ypu love life is never the same.


2 Comments, 18 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
dif786 40 M
1  Article
What's the best advice for talking after a break up??   12/31/2009

So we have all been through it: You meet a significant other, and fast forward through all the drama and the mess... and you have a break up. Regardless of who feels what and who is still attached, there is that awkward time period that I don't think anyone has figured out. Do you continue talking to the ex casually as friends? Do you stop talking all together? Do you block their profile and ...


2 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
MICKEY4947 45 M
1  Article
ACDC 3269 , AGAIN IELIMINATE THE ACCOUNT OF , VERITO 3335   12/10/2009

ACDC 3269 IN MARCH I THREATEN FROM DEATH TO VERITO335.

ACDC3269 IT IS A DANGEROUS PSICOTATA , HE CREATES FALSE NICKS POSITIVE TO BE VOTED, AND, TO GIVE KUDOS, HE HATED VERITO , BECAUSE SHE DID NOT WANT TO BE HIS FRIEND .

SHE IT DENOUNCE THE POLICE OF CHILE, .

NUEVAMENTE ACDC 3269 HACKEO LA CUENTA DE VERITO, Y LA ELIMINO COMO SI ELLA LO HUBIERA HECHO , ES LA TERCERA VEZ ...


2 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
whitesexyhung 40 M
5  Articles
how?????   12/3/2009

I hav a friend who has been with his wife since high school and doesnt know how to tell her that its over. any advice????????


2 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
eightinchcockinu 44 M
1  Article
after a divorce, how long until dating   11/24/2009

what does everyone feel about the time you should jump back into a relationship after a divorce?


4 Comments, 78 Views, 14 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_noguat3 35 M
8  Articles
sex drugs viagra cialis   11/21/2009

what have been your expereinces with these ?

ive always thought that these were for those who couldnt get it up.

but a friend told me he uses it because it makes him a lot harder for alot longer and his girlfriend really feels it.

im thinking about whether to use.

what are the side effects ?


5 Comments, 135 Views, 13 Votes ,1.97 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
tear in my beer...   11/10/2009

25. Get Your Tongue Outta My Mouth 'Cause I'm Kissing You Goodbye. 24. Her Teeth Was Stained, But Her Heart Were Pure. 23. How Can I Miss You If You Won't Go Away? 22. I Don't Know Whether To Kill Myself Or Go Bowling. 21. I Just Bought A Car From A Guy That Stole My Girl, But The Car Don't Run So I Figure We're Even. 20. I Keep Forgettin' I Forgot About You. 19. I Liked You Better Before I Knew ...


1 Comments, 22 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
HandleThisOne19 34 M
15  Articles
Dating   11/8/2009

How long is too long?


1 Comments, 29 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
more than one way to skin a cat...   11/3/2009

The soldier serving overseas, far from home was annoyed and upset when his girl wrote breaking off their engagement and asking for her photograph back.

He went out and collected from his friends all the unwanted photographs of women that he could find, bundled them all together and sent them back with a note saying........... "Regret cannot remember which one is you -- please keep your ...


3 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
divorced barbie   11/2/2009

A man walks into the toy store to get a Barbie doll for his . So he asks the assistant, as you would, "How much is Barbie?" "Well, " she says, "we have Barbie Goes to the Gym for $19.95, Barbie Goes to the Ball for $19.95, Barbie Goes Shopping for $19.95, Barbie Goes to the Beach for $19.95, Barbie Goes Nightclubbing for $19.95, and Divorced Barbie for $265.00."

"Hey, hang on, " the guy ...


1 Comments, 50 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
Looking4you60002 32 M
1  Article
Break ups suck   11/2/2009

Break ups suck. It sucks when you put in time and it feels like it was just a waste. So... Forget breaking up now.. Time to have a little fun and live the single life


1 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
dont loose your head....   11/1/2009

Once upon a time there was a little boy who lived in a house that had train tracks running behind it. The boy's father always warned him against playing around the train tracks, but boys will be boys so he often played around the tracks despite the warnings from his father. One day, after playing by the tracks all afternoon, the tired and sat down on the tracks to rest. Before he knew it, a train ...


1 Comments, 19 Views, 0 Votes
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
breaking up   11/1/2009

Dear ________, I regret to inform you that you have been eliminated from further contention as Mr. Right. As you are probably aware, the competition was exceedingly tough and dozens of well-qualified candidates such as yourself also failed to make the final cut. I will, however, keep your name on file should an opening become available. So that you may find better success in your future romantic ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Opinion   10/26/2009

Do you really think social networking sites like SEXFinder.com can convert in to real dating?


7 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
How do you not hurt so much?   10/24/2009

Will I ever learn to watch my hurt in a relationship? They say women are looking for emotional bonds and ties when you are with someone, and men are not.....I am not sure how true that is....just want the hurt to go away.


18 Comments, 294 Views, 23 Votes ,3.36 Score
lol   10/23/2009

haha


2 Comments, 20 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_juslea 39 M
2  Articles
Why?   10/23/2009

If it is not meant to be, you should break up. People don't do that however. They prefer to be needy while claiming independence. Most people prefer unhappiness to lack of security without a relationship. Pathetic.


1 Comments, 21 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Disko89 34 M
4  Articles
While   10/22/2009

it sucks


2 Comments, 14 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
He wont talk to me   10/18/2009

How do you get over someone when your not sure why he broke it off? He told me to find someone who can be more of a bf to me then he can, he had to much going on in his life and couldnt do this anymore, then he wants to be friends but knows it will hurt me for him to talk to me, AND, he broke it off in an email, I dont really know the reason why we cant see or talk to eachother .. yes, it hurts, ...


10 Comments, 239 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_sgtbluff26 41 M
1  Article
Whens Do Ya Get To That Breaking Point   10/11/2009

i have seen that people will go through tremedious pain to try to make things work with one another they break up and get back together all they do is fight their exs are always getting involved in their lives and makeing things more and more toxic so please tell when do u get to that point to where you just say fuck it


4 Comments, 37 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Learn !   10/2/2009

Learn from yesterday's mistakes, live for today, and hope for tomorrow. ...


3 Comments, 66 Views, 36 Votes
I Got My Ex Back   10/2/2009

Hi there,

I was having a tough time with my Ex and after much soul searching and we were back together again. This was my thoughts though.



A break up with a long time partner is one of the saddest things that can happen to anyone. It will not be very easy to digest. The break up is clearly making you feel lonely. You are just not able to move on with your life and these ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
rm_frodgemahogs 36 M
1  Article
Still think about her   9/29/2009

Met a girl thought she was grand... Well, we all know how that story goes, some of us have found out first hand.

Why do I still think about her. I mean, aside from the most fantastic sex I have ever had in a relationship, what the hell causes me to still think about her outside of that. She lied to me about everything she was. I have taken it always, to look at a relationship and pick ...


2 Comments, 64 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
tdkrhys84 40 M
4  Articles
Bad sex   9/26/2009

Bad sex is one of the top reason for breaking up.


3 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Expiration date !   9/19/2009

Wife: Honey.....What are You Looking for?

Husband: Nothing.

Wife: Nothing...?? You've been reading our marriage certificate for an hour??

Husband: I was just looking for the expiration date.
...


3 Comments, 63 Views, 10 Votes ,1.00 Score
break up sex   9/6/2009

why is breakup sex so great even if you dont love the person anymore it seems to me its better when you are not in love or is it just me


3 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Breaking Suck   9/2/2009

Breaking Suck because after it happen you got no pussy to fuck or suck the world comeing to a end GRRRRR


4 Comments, 40 Views, 9 Votes
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
When things ain't going good!   8/25/2009

Here's a line to use to help things along when things are going south; Why don't you slip into something more comfortable, like a coma. ...


8 Comments, 75 Views, 16 Votes ,2.69 Score
caleright22 38 M
2  Articles
why do some women need to sugar coat everything   8/15/2009

Seriously I think there is such a thing as the Mary Poppins complex. My buddy has been bitching and moaning for the last 3 days bc of a one night stand who thought that he wanted more so she gave him the whole we should just be friends speach. Now he feels like she was saying he sucked in bed (which he might have) and so he is stuck on her like fuckin white on rice. If she would have just left ...


7 Comments, 115 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
Which way is best?   8/12/2009

SO which way of breaking up, do you people think is the best and easiest way to break up with someone


5 Comments, 58 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
1guyneed2girl 37 C
11  Articles
worst?   8/10/2009

some bitch cheated what is the worst that happends?


2 Comments, 56 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
timbop 38 M
2  Articles
White Stains in the Gstring (thong)   8/4/2009

So...doing the washing and notice same strange white stains in my girlfriends underpants, not to worried. Find the stains again a little later (I know im not getting any) Start to get worried. Go for a drink after work to find my girlfrined out with friends (but refuses to introduce me). Next day she asks to break up.

Should I have taken her stains in the under pants as a silent message ...


6 Comments, 105 Views, 12 Votes ,1.74 Score
BRON13 37 M
7  Articles
worst break   8/3/2009

anyone share a bad breakup?


3 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
NJArmySwinger 41 M
6  Articles
Stay friends or not??   7/23/2009

After you divorce or break up can you still be friends??

If not, then why?


4 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
sync94 49 M
10  Articles
Hard to do..   7/21/2009

They say that Breaking up is HARD TO DO. Not so for some people. They break at the first sign of a Forest Fire. They cannot take the pressure that a RELATIONSHIP puts one thru. I know I have had partners who would run at the first sign that the mountain was only shaking. They are people who need strong people to lean on all the time. This is hard and so they leave.


4 Comments, 62 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Shayne91edge2 33 M
15  Articles
Easiest way to break up   7/17/2009

what would people say is the best way to break up with a girlfriend if its just not working out anymore on your side, the thing is alot of women i know get emotional because they really love the guy and he breaks up with them, ,, is there anyway to prevent a problem from happening?


4 Comments, 38 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
is no fun   7/12/2009

Always make sure shes the one or she will break your heart and your wallet.


3 Comments, 25 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
fta_bohica1978 46 M
1  Article
the worst word in the world; ALONE   7/2/2009

After a year together, the woman I would die for just ended it. And I'm still at a loss as to why. Things were Going Great. And then I talked to another woman at the bar where we were at a meet & greet. You could have knocked me over with a feather when she said that we were through. The arguement that ensued thereafter left me arrested, and homeless. What I wouldn't Give to be back in her arms. ...


8 Comments, 91 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
The joys of separating from my husband   6/28/2009

While my husband and I lived together, I wanted to tear his head off. I hated seeing him but I hated him being gone. Wondering what he was doing while he was out; was he with his friends or another woman. Despite our disagreements, we were still hot for each other. We had sex more often than when we were getting along. Because we were not getting along, I moved out of the apartment. Moving out ...


2 Comments, 109 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
rm_meetin_peple 35 M
3  Articles
Why must girls always hurt the ones they love?   6/22/2009

Does it seem that some girls tend to hurt the ones they love. That being said its like because you treat her good and is understanding to her, she takes advantages of that and is not afraid to hurt you, She cant hurt other friends of hers because they do not take it they way you do. They would get angry while she knows that you will only get pissed but later back to normal. WHy?


2 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
11  Articles
if you   6/22/2009

if you love someone why let go??? people always tend to break up with the ones they "love" i mean if you love them so much why break up right??


2 Comments, 26 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
11  Articles
how do you   6/22/2009

how do you let someone know that your just not that into them anymore... i mean this girl i am talking 2 is talking about marriage n im only 18 and before it gets way too serious i wanna end it any suggestions?


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
darknight25 40 M
2  Articles
Breaking Up is Never Easy   6/19/2009

Breaking up is never easy. Even if both parties agree and come to a mutual consensus, it would still fell like hell. Believe me i know. My heart has been broken too many times that's why I'm experience enough o write this article.

The first thing to do is to ask yourself , " Was the break for the better good for the both of us?" Do not worry about feeling hurt as its only normal to feel ...


8 Comments, 89 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
gibberish00000 49 M
2  Articles
breaking up is hard to do...   6/6/2009

Pick an appropriate place to break up. The less public, the better it will go. Remember, ending a relationship is a hurtful experience. Don't do it in an area where the person on the receiving end is going to feel more crappy than necessary; however, beware of an overly remote situation in case your ex is angry and resorts to hitting. Choose the right time. Avoid holidays and special occasions ...


2 Comments, 43 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Divorce !   6/2/2009

There are two sides to every divorce: Yours and Fuckhead's!




3 Comments, 54 Views, 12 Votes ,1.39 Score
tightassboy15 35 M
6  Articles
relation ships suck when..   6/1/2009

you break up and your ex starts going out with the person across the street from you.


2 Comments, 30 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
johnboy6247 71 M
4  Articles
committed relationship   5/26/2009

After being in a committed relationship for 11 months, my girlfriend informed me that she loved me , but was not in love wih me and just could not continue that way! That there was no way she could see spending the rest of her life with me...... What's up with this ! loving , but not in love ?


1 Comments, 74 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
uticaeva 41 F
1  Article
why guys break up   5/12/2009

i never realized why guys always find a way to break up with their girlfriends i never understood that, do they just get bored and they want to move on with their lives , or do they have scroe list


17 Comments, 277 Views, 25 Votes ,2.14 Score
Sometimes its hard to let go.   4/29/2009

On-line sites are pretty much all the same to me. I like SEXFinder.com because people can feel free to be honest. Whether your having a booty call man come to service you from time to time or something more serious, a relationship is just that-its always better with honesty. I met one man on another site similar to SEXFinder.com and he turned out to be anything but honest. I gave him every opportunity to be ...


5 Comments, 109 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
best way   4/21/2009

is there a great/best way to break up with someone?


5 Comments, 118 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
_SooperGuy 53 M
3  Articles
For what reasons did you break up from a relationship?   4/19/2009

Respectfully, I'm not talking about abuse. I'm asking more to the point of how did you know when a relationship you were in and thought was going somewhere was over?


4 Comments, 58 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_sexybacon123 29 M
2  Articles
dont you hate it   4/15/2009

one day i forgot to get my x something for valentines day and she boke up with me


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_mikehole6947 39 M
1  Article
like a band aide   4/14/2009

I see so many stories about couples that break up and get back together but in my opinion it should be real quick like a band aide, when its done its done. there's no reason to stay in a bad relationship just end it and move on.


1 Comments, 24 Views, 0 Votes
Poetbyday 34 M
9  Articles
Relationships.. what else?   4/9/2009

I inclined to think that most breakups occur because the partner's become bored or incompatible.. sometime's one partner becomes to posessive or demanding of the other's time and energy. Which just doesn't work because we all need our space at times.


3 Comments, 47 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
_SooperGuy 53 M
3  Articles
what do you do to get over heartbreak?   4/4/2009

yes, time is the most effective healer, but what else helped/helps you get over heartbreak?


5 Comments, 66 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
BREAKING UP IS HARD   3/31/2009

BREAKING UP IS HARD

I look at you today, and my heart does not hurt. What makes me cry, is my thoughts of you. All the moments we shared, that's what I miss. I seem to remember every little kiss to every conversation we shared. I ask myself if you still think of me. Now I'm realizing how much I loved you, And how much you made an impact on my life. It's hard knowing you're not there, and ...


9 Comments, 82 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
hawababy1 53 F
23  Articles
BREAKING UP   3/31/2009

BREAKING UP

We're not the first couple to break up By no means will we be the last Someone's heart will always be breaking Unable to let go of the past.

Some can go on with no care in the world While some others refuse to let go They try to hang on to a love that has gone Mixed emotions swing back to and fro.

They dwell only on good times, forget all the bad The ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
cocodick 39 M
3  Articles
My wife cheated   3/30/2009

so a friend of my his wife have been cheating on him should i tell him, or should i let him continue living a lie. I know it will hurt him but he should know.


11 Comments, 252 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
ready2pleaseu656 36 M
3  Articles
it suck   3/29/2009

i hate it it so complicated


1 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
_SooperGuy 53 M
3  Articles
Have you ever given up someone you truly love?   3/18/2009

I recently had to do this for many reasons to complicated to put here.


6 Comments, 148 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
joyrdassasin4 32 M
11  Articles
how   3/18/2009

how do u feel after u have dumped/been dumped by someone u really care about


3 Comments, 63 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
whats the best way to tell someone its over   3/15/2009

curious as to hear what everyone thinks "especially women" what the best thing is to say to someone when breaking up


4 Comments, 80 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
rm_KaThy_GreaT 38 F
1  Article
wanna chat? yM sexy j0yce no space   3/12/2009

im young, very cute and sexy girl, but i'm a little bit crazy, crazy bcoz a little bit horny if i get drunk hahaha, i'm alway be fun to net playing, on the front of cam, wanna try?


1 Comments, 97 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
curlicutie 38 F
0  Articles
a work in progress...   3/2/2009

Light from a street lamp streamed in the window as she lay quietly in bed. She looked at the ceiling and thought about all that had happened in the past eight days. She was at home-well, it was her parent's home-but she thought of it as hers. She looked the her room and thought about her life. About the tiny life growing inside her, and him-the father of the . He was coming to get her ...


0 Comments, 236 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
eye_candy 35 F
2  Articles
wuts another four letter wrd for love......hurt!   2/21/2009

me n my bf just breaked it off after our 3yr anniversary. love is complicated n sumtimes stressful especially w/the wrng person. i knd of feel hurt by it but only thng i can do for now is mve on.


1 Comments, 19 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
yungandhung4fun 37 M
7  Articles
caught   2/20/2009

Hey. I was recently caught on SEXFinder.com and had to delete my old account promptly. Lost a 6 month relaionship... Obviously not that devastating, but it was my gf's friend that found it and now all of my female friends pretty much know a have a huge cock. one of them started hitting on me immediately but she's not fine... i feel awkward hanging around these girls now... what to do??


1 Comments, 152 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
break   2/18/2009

It has been said that breaking up is hard to do. What many people find even harder still is the healing process that comes after such a traumatic emotional event. According to an article by John Fetto (2003), a survey conducted by eNation found that nearly one-third of Americans have experienced a break-up in the past ten years (para. 2). He also found that the younger the person, the more ...


2 Comments, 45 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
girlzeena 65 F
39  Articles
When is Breaking Up Premature?   2/13/2009

My twin sister recently joined one of those fancy dating sites. Within a week, she met a man that she raved about! He called her every day before their first scheduled date. He sent her a photo to her email address as he did not post one online. "OHMYGOD!" she told me that he looked just like Michael Douglas, the actor, and she forwarded his photo to me. I agreed that their was a ...


4 Comments, 93 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
RUREADYIM2007 50 M
3  Articles
respect for the individual   2/12/2009

man up-please dont just leave people hanging-even if its a one night stand-call it what it is-but be real about-better to be upfront-no wonder we all have to pretend all the time!!!!


0 Comments, 21 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
I miss him.......   2/11/2009

My bf of almost 5 years (N) decided he would break up with me after I met up with someone else (J). I was fantasizing about having them both (why-ever not??) since they lived in two different cities anyway. I had thought that he was broad-minded and all that but he decided to have what he called a “clean break”…. He wrote and told me not to contact him again. He said he ...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
blakwildpussie 43 F
11  Articles
TRYING TO GET OVER HIM   2/11/2009

I had a live-in boyfriend whom i was with for 4 years. We broke up recently but the disturbing thing is we work in same area and he keeps coming to say hello to me. I would like to move on, its hard and confusing dont know whether its the right thing to do by being friends immedaitely cos this doesnt make me get over it easily. Please you guys tell me what to do so that i get my life together and ...


4 Comments, 164 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
how long should i keep her crap   2/10/2009

well one day after christmas she left me for a guy 15 years younger, (i was quitting drinking , she didnt want too)she only took her clothes, she has left every single thing she owns here including a shitload of bills but oh well, problems gone except for the storage issue, hell she wont even drive by the house.how long would you keep the stuff?


2 Comments, 90 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_kilo360z 29 M
12  Articles
Ladies   2/9/2009

Will break up with someone and still call them when u want that good fuck?


0 Comments, 22 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
MikeMalPD 46 M
3  Articles
Break Up Sex   1/26/2009

Can you actually have break up sex with your partner and just walk away as if happened? Doesnt make you want her or him more..even if you initiated the break up?


1 Comments, 72 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
SotonGuy22 37 M
2  Articles
How NOT to break up   1/25/2009

Just a little tip from personal experiance.

Breaking up with a guy - PLEASE people, do NOT just break contact with him. It's painful and will leave him wondering what went wrong.

My suggestion is to talk to him, tell him that it's not working out and your reasons why. If he asks for another chance, give him a chance - it might be that he didn't even realise what he was doing ...


4 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
rm_milky906 35 M
1  Article
ways to break up   1/25/2009

people can put the best ways they think it is easiest to break up with someone.

no stupid ones pls


1 Comments, 48 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rm_Fawa21 36 M
1  Article
my toughest breakup   1/24/2009

its been over a month... i had my toughest breakup... i always thought that this time its going to be forever but in the end when a woman who u know for 3 years just says to you that she is not sure if she loves u or not..... how will a person react? i understand being rejected for chosing someone else or she getting married but love just cant end in just a day or can it?


0 Comments, 46 Views, 1 Votes
rm_tuffactin 39 M
1  Article
Fiance break up!   1/19/2009

Woman i was engaged to decided to break it off after i took a new job. She decided that the money i spent on the wedding reception and wedding, was to stay with her and not pay me back! She sold all the stuff purchased in ebay and else where. I found out not to recently the she got married about 10 months later! I was living with her when she broke it off so i know she wasn't cheating on me. Her ...


4 Comments, 140 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
When Relationship need to End   1/14/2009

I was involved in a three month relationship with a lady last year. I wanted no strings and she began to want more than I could give her. I broke it off, but still cared for her as a friend. We know a lot of the same people and run in the same circles so it get ackward at times.

WOuld still go eat her every once in a while but we both agree it would not be best. How do you deal with ...


2 Comments, 79 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
roxy54sexy 58 F
27  Articles
The Disinterested   1/14/2009

I did just a blog on this subject. Sometimes people are disinterested in a person that they were interested in the first place. They think you are interested then turn around later say they are not interested. Why people do that? I prefer the interested not the disinterested. If you are interested in the person get to know them first before developing a relationship that might get serious. Just ...


6 Comments, 78 Views, 6 Votes ,4.79 Score
01717222560 36 M
10  Articles
breaking up   1/10/2009

breaking up is bad thing


1 Comments, 14 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_hebe2205 29 M
1  Article
when their young and dumb   1/6/2009

so i just got out of a major relationship right and what i learned from its that you can give 2 times as much as you get, and that youth equals retarded lol


0 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the tongue twister   12/24/2008

A guy with a black eye boards his plane bound for Pittsburgh and sits down in his seat. He notices immediately that the guy next to him has a black eye, too.

He says to him, "Hey, this is a coincidence, we both have black eyes; mind if I ask how you got yours?"

The other guy says, "Well, it just happened, it was a tongue twister accident.

See, I was at the ticket ...


2 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Cure for a broken heart?   12/23/2008

Is sex the penicillin for a broken heart? A close friend of mine just broke up and now keeps going to brothels and massage parlours. Is he going thru a depression or just releasing his frustration?


1 Comments, 54 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Gondolin2008 42 M
5  Articles
Anecdote for a broken heart?   12/23/2008

I just had a friend who just broke up with his GF of 5 years. After that, he descended a spiral of sexual depression. He keeps going to red light districts and brothels to relieve himself. Its quite disturbing. What do you call this kind of syndrome? Is there a cure for it? Don't want my friend end up getting any sexual diseases.


1 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
but I need you!   12/19/2008

this is the bull shit the ex calls me with.... shit I thought I just spent 37 grand on a fucking divorce... cause he found him a new one! I tell him to ask his new girl! he then says he can't trust her! I say.. you picked her! I thought you knew what was best for you!



yeah... so I charge him! am I wrong? lol


10 Comments, 196 Views, 24 Votes ,5.06 Score
Aces_0f_Dice123 34 M
1  Article
A way out of a Tough Break up   12/17/2008

Well it is hard to break up with some one because they love you still but u don't love them anymore which is cruel but there's a way to get past that.

Tell them that it just isn't working out its just that the love just faded away at one point in the relationship and i couldn't come to my senses of breaking your heart I'm sorry but i don't think we should be together any more i don't ...


0 Comments, 24 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
Misbehavn2 55 C
30  Articles
awww being single what a life (not)   12/11/2008

its kinda funny i hang out with allot of married people and a bunch of us guys will get together to do the lets get fucked up and talk shit thing, you know the gathering the one where they tell me how great it must be to be single how i can just pick up and go anytime or how i can spend my money how i like no one bitching at me or stealing the blankets from me at night, no hassle's care free ...


1 Comments, 59 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
encubusmistress 63 F
1  Article
Avoiding the pain   12/10/2008

My mate moved out a year ago without any notice. I had asked him to leave 3 months early in a rage. But then everything settled down and I thought we were fine. He however never stopped seeing me. He takes me to dinner all the time, stays over sometimes and doesn't want a divorce, but refuses to talk about when and if we'll ever live together again. I've openly spent the last year having sex with ...


5 Comments, 113 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
NOT FORGOTTEN   11/30/2008

hey there, i have not forgotten u. and ur actions that day did not upset me. i DID want to hear ur answer to the "in love" question i asked u - and i am still waiting - sounded interesting and enlightening.

i have had to work through my own stuff regarding the change in our relationship. our separating was as painful as i can imagine an arm (or any body part for that matter) being ...


1 Comments, 57 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
rm_cumquatme 50 F
28  Articles
FAREWELL MY SWEETHEART   11/30/2008

Hello my sweetheart. Thank you. You are such a very special person. Don’t imagine for one single solitary second that I have somehow forgotten you ‒ not going to happen. I think about you every day.

Our brief time of knowing each other has been very special. I have not changed my mind about you and no one has taken your place. You made me feel very alive, you made me laugh ...


0 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
szq52 71 F
1  Article
cruelest line ever   11/30/2008

Two years ago a man I thought was my future arrived at dinnertime to announce he was going out with "Anita" that evening.

I was floored, at lunch he had sworn his love for me, now 5 hours later he is telling me he is dating someone else.

When I became upset (yes, I cried) he looked at me and told me "You are a disposable person." He added "Anita has 'problems' ...


1 Comments, 75 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
I got dumped via email   11/23/2008

I got dumped after 18 months via email ... and then only about a 3 minute conversation after that ... 3 months later still nothing, no responses. and we never fought, we had the type of relationship most people search their entire life for ... but I think she had this wall built up, she still was stuck on her ex husband even though he cheated on her ... and he was already remarried... here is the ...


3 Comments, 102 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
rm_lamsid 34 M
6  Articles
a hard break up   11/20/2008

i loved this girl so much we dated for over 2 years we had so many plans and she lied to me so many times and did things behind my back but never cheated on me or so i thought ill never know the truth but i broke up with her cause i couldn't take the back stabbing no more and what happens 3 days later she finds someone else wow it really sucks what can happen to something u cared so much about go ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
katjon45 61 M
0  Articles
where did i go wrong   11/18/2008

a few years ago i was in a relationship with an ex girlfriend after 20 years, we happened to meet one day and got on brilliant, she had told me that she often thought about me over the years and wondered what if we were still together, she told me that she had been in an abusive marriage for all that time after we had split up but now she is on her own and finding it hard to get back on track, we ...


3 Comments, 47 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_BDinphilly 39 M
1  Article
Should You call???   11/14/2008

You just ended a ltr...Should you even bother to call? Or, can nothing good come out of it?


4 Comments, 79 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_aknowno 48 M
5  Articles
What's worse?   11/12/2008

What is so hard about breaking up? My last marriage lasted 10 years and I didn't want it to end, but there are somethings that just cannot be fixed. Is it the ever mystical "love" that makes it hurt so badly, or is it a fear of changing your life?


2 Comments, 43 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
An old saying !   11/12/2008

You know the old saying;

The best way to get over someone is to get under someone....


24 Comments, 188 Views, 70 Votes ,6.13 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Wife wanted ! ?   11/11/2008

A man took out a classified ad saying "Wife wanted".

The next day he received a thousand responses saying "You can have mine."
...


14 Comments, 120 Views, 31 Votes ,1.03 Score
puddin084 42 C
4  Articles
bad break ups   11/11/2008

do u think it's fair if someone breaks up wit a person out of jealousy?


5 Comments, 72 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
Post It Note   10/25/2008

The best advise to break up with someone is to leave a post it note on their car window.


0 Comments, 20 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_NeoSakura 37 C
8  Articles
Do it smoothly   10/22/2008

I'm sorry is just not working out


0 Comments, 20 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_localpuli 35 M
1  Article
Actions after breakup   10/20/2008

When you or your girlfriend is planning to breakup, , just keep yourself relaxed and think of the reason for it.. Maybe you can avoid it on your new girlfriend..


0 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hotbngcock 44 M
6  Articles
breakup of discreet relation   10/11/2008

We all know of the conventional relationship breakup. Whether its divorce of marriage or breakup of live-in relationship, its all very known to us. What we dont know about are all those ilicit or discreet relationship. Though they are called discreet, there is a build up of trust and friendliness within that relationship. Sometimes that does break up and it also has its share of trauma and loss ...


4 Comments, 68 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
rm_Dave7829 34 M
7  Articles
how do u do it?   10/7/2008

everyone has there different ways of breaking up, hows is yours


1 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
moihut2000 42 M
1  Article
Being Friends Doesn't Mean I Do Whatever You Want   10/6/2008

I was once in a relationship with a fun person who was outgoing, friendly, creative...you know, all those good things that attracts you to a person. We had a good time together, spent lots of time adventuring outdoors. Things started to get intimate and then I moved away.

While we were apart she wrote often and we talked about our relationship. I thought things were progressing, then one ...


1 Comments, 72 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
zero1762553I4 38 M
6  Articles
breaking   10/4/2008

sometime it is better to let go than to continue the relationship. it is sometime you just have to let go even it is hard for you. the time will cure the pains.


1 Comments, 17 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
alteclansing0002 22 C
1  Article
Break up   9/28/2008

i jus broke up with my gf and i need someone to keep me company... whats a man to do in a time like this?


0 Comments, 72 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
rm_bailis1979 45 M
11  Articles
y is it so   9/23/2008

hard?


0 Comments, 30 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
cansir717 43 M
6  Articles
fuking ur maid   9/23/2008

since time memorial n my hood, ive fantasised fuking my maid or maids. ive been close 2 them, in their arms n smelt their pusies. now that i have maids working 4 me iv really gone far enough 2 seduce them n njoy their fruits. behind my wifes bak. its so hot and njoyable that ive cum loads intio their cunts like they r my diks rightful owners. n always such sex has ben more satisfying tan with my ...


1 Comments, 138 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
cansir717 43 M
6  Articles
my luk   9/23/2008

i was married but my wife was a bitch who stayed away 4m me for her stupid reasons, n well being a sewxually active person i wanted sex, n so i had a few women friends, well i culd not control my urge n had sex with them. she has cum 2 know thru others and has filed 4 divorce . is it my fault!!??


1 Comments, 26 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
rm_Duckling552 68 F
1  Article
with no notice at all   9/16/2008

how can a guy you have been with just stop calling or wanting to see you all of a sudden with no warning? There is nothing like that kind of pain especially if you've been alone for a long time.


4 Comments, 110 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
craigcomputer777 53 M
1  Article
ex girlfriends   9/14/2008

why can we not have clean breaks when its over not endless phone calls 2000 text email everywhere my god and she ended it for fuck sake or men or women worse for this


0 Comments, 19 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_ljforfun98 50 M
2  Articles
WHY   9/13/2008

Breaking up seems easier than making up. I often wonder why its so easy to break up yet hard to make up. Is it really easier? If you work at it a little harder perhaps there would not be so many breakups.


0 Comments, 23 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
josmith5 61 M
1466  Articles
the break up   9/13/2008

"What's this I hear about you breaking off your engagement Pam ?" said her closest friend. "Well, " Pam confirmed, "although his diamond was of pretty good quality, his mounting left a lot to be desired."


1 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
meatloves69 55 M
12  Articles
sad.   9/4/2008

its hard wen u split up


0 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_robotom85 39 M
1  Article
Long distance relationship and the likely end   8/31/2008

Has anyone been in a long distance relationship that genuinely worked out? I have been dating a girl for a long time but moved away from her to pursue an advanced degree. I just don't see our relationship working out in the long run and just don't know what to do about it. I feel like it is way too hard to stay happy with life and faithful to your partner when you can't see them for months at a ...


5 Comments, 47 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_ToledoSenior 38 M
4  Articles
Cure   8/27/2008

Is a rebound the only cure for a hard break up?


2 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
the things they do?   8/27/2008

i was left inbitterd by my last relationship. i was living with a girl who dumped me and then bought guys back and shagged them just to rub it in? it took me four months to get her out the house lol! word of advice, yes be nice but don't be weak chump you'll live to regret it.


0 Comments, 21 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
Breaking up after sex   8/23/2008

If you know your girlfriend has cheated on you with another man. Do you think it would be okay to have sex with her and immediately after you finish to tell her that we were through... ?


1 Comments, 61 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
rm_sexy70ne 51 M
1  Article
breaking but still having sex   8/22/2008

I broke up with my girl friend a year ago she has a new man but complains about him being small down low so to help her out i'm still fucking her more then her present man.Should i stop or should i keep hitting it

.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 4 Votes
rm_lnr1223 35 C
2  Articles
WE NEED THE HOW TO GUIDE   8/22/2008

WE ARE A SOLID COUPLE SIMPLY LOKKING TO FULFILL MY FANTASY OF SHARING MY HUBBY WITH A NICE FEMALE NO DRAMA, NO PRESSURE JUST FUN TIMES EVEN JUST HANGING OUT DINNER, DANCINGOR WHATEVER SHE LIKES, BUT FINDING THIS SEEMS TO BE IMPOSSIBLE, I KNOW SINGLE FEMALES HAVE PLENTY OF CHOICES BUT WE ARE COOL DOWN TO EARTH PEEPS , REAL, BUT JUST SEEM TO ONLY COME CLOSE AND THEY SHY AWAY IS THIS A CRAZY IDEA ...


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
ARE U UPTO BREAK UP WITH SOME1   8/20/2008

IF U ARE READY TO BREAK UP WITH SUM1 FIRST FUCKK THAT PERSON AND THEN END UP UR RELATION HAPPILY


0 Comments, 40 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
rm_ToledoSenior 38 M
4  Articles
Removing the addiction   8/12/2008

What are peoples thoughts on fooling around and having sex with someone you have just recently broken up with? Is it a way to wean yourself off the individual? Slowly going to less and less sex as you drift apart and find new people.

Or is it damaging to the separation? Does it make you even more dependent on the individual?

Thoughts? Experiences?


2 Comments, 53 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
sucks   8/11/2008

IT REALLY SUCKS


1 Comments, 15 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Rythem70 51 F
1  Article
What To Do When.....   8/11/2008

The person who can't take NO for answer keeps buggin' you? It's not like he's stalking, but every time we chat, it's like he's in his own little weird world. And he knows I'm just looking for friends. Then I get call because I 'stood him up' when I had already declined his offer. WTF is up with some, not all, of these men??

Noticed I said SOME.... Not ALL.... lol

So not sure ...


5 Comments, 189 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
winnipegjewel13 44 F
10  Articles
Intuition   8/10/2008

Do you ever have those days? When you wonder about yourself and choices you have made? When you look at people who have been in your life and wonder "WHAT THE FUCK WAS I THINKING?" I normally don't think that way. Everyone in your life is there for a reason. But....... (as a quick recap. Met a man I cared about deeply and he broke my heart and left. Fine. But then his other 'women' starting ...


4 Comments, 104 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
hawty01 35 M
5  Articles
break up   8/7/2008

My gf broke up with me and its been difficult to go out looking for another women. Any advice ?


2 Comments, 44 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
realdeal727 42 M
1  Article
so hard 2 say goodbye   8/4/2008

breaking up is so hard 2 do, u been with someone for years u use 2 bein with them, seeing the every day but when its over its so hard 2 chew, if ur not over them its really hard,


1 Comments, 36 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
tallNhot24 40 M
9  Articles
Breaking up and still in love.   8/4/2008

My wife and I have the almost perfect relationship in that we never fight, we have the same interests, and we enjoy each others company. We really are in love. However, I am not satisfied with the sex for various reasons and she has not put in the effort to change. Sex is very important to me and I feel like I would be happier with someone as horny as I am who is willing to explore and be ...


3 Comments, 108 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_brguy82 41 M
1  Article
breaking up   7/31/2008

it sucks


1 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Flintboy86 37 M
4  Articles
Breaking up by short message?   7/20/2008

How do women think about breaking up a relationship by short message, is it really that bad?


2 Comments, 66 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
breaking up, getting over it   7/10/2008

This isnt fun! as you can guess. you feel so down, you feel unwanted, life just kind of comes to a stand still.

Heres my advise on getting over him/her.

1) self imagin: if you arnt already. Get fit! it makes the world of difference. you look better, you feel better, and the exersize helps you to sleep.

2) write/talk: dont keep you feelings to your self. Try talking to ...


0 Comments, 47 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
rm_Whattup1010 31 M
10  Articles
Anxiety   7/6/2008

HOw many of ya'll had such bad anxiety from like your first break ups that it felt hard to breath or speak??? Just curious!


1 Comments, 37 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
rm_trippy1010 46 M
2  Articles
BREAKING UP SUCKS CHEER UP.   7/3/2008

THE ONE THING THAT I FIND AS A MAN THAT P##SES ME OFF IS BREAKING UP. ESP WITH A HOT CHICK. THEY ALWAYS DO IT ON PURPOSE. THEY THINK THERE HOLIER THAN THOUGH. I FIND THAT THERE'S NO REAL REASON TO "BREAK UP WITH SOMEBODY" UNLESS THERE PHYSICALLY ABUSIVE TO YOU.

FREEDOM. THAT'S WHAT LIFE IS ABOUT.

IF YOU AGREE THAT BREAKING UP IS RETARDED UNLESS THERE'S PHYSICAL FIGHTING GET BACK ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
SexiLuvinGirl 61 F
1  Article
Train Wreck - After The Break Up and Dating Again   6/27/2008

Break ups are not always easy. In fact, they're probably one part of our lives that we never truly never come to grips with no matter how much we try. We tend to get caught up in wanting to "understand" why someone left us; rather than just accepting it and moving on.

Moving forward is even more difficult. I'm 49 years old, yet, still have not mastered the emotional turmoil that one ...


8 Comments, 217 Views, 26 Votes ,6.58 Score
sexydc_73 51 M
4  Articles
When's the best time?   6/26/2008

What would you do if you had sex with someone then realized you didn't want any more - fake it once or twice more, break up with them, or go out without any sex?


1 Comments, 68 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
RayRay22282 40 M
3  Articles
Is 7 inches good for Penis size?   6/22/2008

i was just wonderin


1 Comments, 90 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
RayRay22282 40 M
3  Articles
its hard   6/22/2008

what do i do


0 Comments, 31 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
jackbauermkd 42 M
7  Articles
yoyo   6/21/2008

just tell her "ya feet stink!!"


0 Comments, 13 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_naith0 34 M
1  Article
Always too late   6/10/2008

Why is it we only seem to think of what we really wanted to say after its over.

EXAMPLE- after probablly my second ever argument with my ex gf, and she ends the relationship on the fact that i do this and i do that. Not did it hit me till a week later that everything that was wrong on her part also came to mind, but yet when said it, it was too late to get my point across.

But ...


3 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
MatureEbony 77 F
1  Article
Widow needing help with everything around the house!   6/6/2008

The article category sez it all! I have hedges and grass that needs attention, my back porch and the back of the house needs shingles here and there, "I" need some attention. What am I to do? I had a yard man but he stopped coming. I'm just about ready to promise anything, in fact I have already. Let me hear from you.


5 Comments, 164 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
davidt1956 67 M
0  Articles
After 19yrs Wife Decides We Need to Separate for Awhile   6/3/2008

Wife left 6 months ago. She has been having a bad tme the past couple years not liking her job leaving home and we really didn't talk alot about what was going on with her. After she left (about 2 months) I find she moved in with some guy she met at the bar where she works part time. I really love my wife so much but she will not talk about working things out or just letting me know whats ...


3 Comments, 286 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
Which is better............   5/30/2008

to dump someone right before they dump you or to let yourself with someone new and let them dump you?


1 Comments, 28 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
pchighwaygirl 36 F
1  Article
WHY   5/27/2008

Right now I feel like my life is that Liz Phair song 'Why Can't I'.



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Why can't I breathe whenever I think about you Why can't I speak whenever I talk about you It's inevitable, it's a fact that we're gonna get down to it So tell me Why can't I breathe whenever I think about you?

[COLOR ...


4 Comments, 192 Views, 21 Votes ,3.99 Score
craziiboii6t9 27 M
9  Articles
i hate the day when i broke with the person that i loved...   5/25/2008

whats love


1 Comments, 28 Views, 5 Votes ,0.53 Score
rm_sonitheboy 35 M
1  Article
is it easy   5/22/2008

is it easy to find a girl over internet

?


5 Comments, 52 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
do we need 2 build a relationship to fuck   5/20/2008

Who wants to build a relationship out of fuck????do people think that u need 2 hav the relationship....i personally think that if u wann fuck ...then fuck..provided both partners....have fun....


5 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
Breaking up is hard to do.   5/20/2008

At the time we were not getting along, so I decided that since I wasn't happy that we should take a break from each other. It was then that she decided to grab my genitals and proceeded to straddle my body. She started to grind in my lap and I couldn't help it, I couldn't leave her wanting me, I had to tear off her clothes and satisfy her. We made love all day and skipped out on work, never ...


1 Comments, 33 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
Hard or Not?   5/19/2008

What is the hardiest part of a break up?


0 Comments, 36 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
redbombshell4u 40 F
1  Article
why are boys so fake   5/13/2008

What's the point of lieing to someone? To just get your way by telling people what they want to hear? That might work till your caught. THen no matter how you feel about that person you have to let them go, If you respect yourself enough you'll never go back.


10 Comments, 119 Views, 18 Votes ,3.81 Score
Fuck it   5/12/2008

Why cant we all just fuck and have a grand old time people?


2 Comments, 55 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_dangerdan31 35 M
2  Articles
uh oh   5/12/2008

ok so im a senior in highschool and my gf is going into the air force at the end of the year..and im very proud of her but i cant really be with her since the closest she can be stationed is out of state...but i feel shes grown to attached to me and i dont know what to do i don't want her changing her plans for me because i knew this day would come and ideas? help is greatly needed thanks.


2 Comments, 93 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
sexycowboy24 39 M
9  Articles
Ending   5/9/2008

What is the best way to end a relationship? It is never an easy thing, but it has to be done. How can you let someone down easy?


0 Comments, 43 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Why is it so hard to understand nothing is going right!!   5/9/2008

How can someone not understand where nothing is going right...is it possesiveness or is it a way not to accept defeat when you feel you are superior t oteh other one.It makes life mesy for the other one and sometimes it also makes one appear low before the other.It would be better to live and let live


0 Comments, 36 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_euroticEng 38 G
10  Articles
It was time   5/1/2008

I am not sure if it was the right moment. I think it was on a second thoiught. Too many arguments, too many fights, no sex any more, no happiness. what do you think?


1 Comments, 56 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_cyrus9586 37 M
1  Article
What should i do?   4/27/2008

This isnt the site where id normally se good advice but you never know.

This is my story. me and my fiance were set to be married and i let her go out with her friends one night only for them to drill into her that the last year and a half of pure joy and love needed to end. After a few drinks she took it to heart. she called my now exfriend to come pick her up slept with him called me ...


5 Comments, 116 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
pangedit 44 M
2  Articles
Break-ups; How To Survive Them   4/23/2008

The loss of a relationship can be incredibly hard - you can feel so much pain. There's not only the grief from losing someone important in your life, but the pain of seeing your hopes and dreams of a future life together disappear as well Letting go of someone you love is the most painful feelings human beings can experience. Letting go means suffering and heartache. It means losing love, and ...


2 Comments, 88 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
brazenredhead 66 F
1  Article
Why does it hurt so much????   4/6/2008

I just wanted to have some fun after my divorce....but then I met him, my so called Knight. Yeah right after moving together, sharing a life. My knight was just a typical jerk, lieing cheating, and couldn't admit to it. But he was smart kept me going for another year. Hmm , got his cake and eat it. But I am finally gone but.....why does it still hurt/ Places, songs, and memories lock in your ...


9 Comments, 267 Views, 17 Votes ,3.69 Score
rm_budro7625 37 M
2  Articles
"Taking a break"   4/4/2008

My G/F just told me today that she wants to take a break with our relationship and that if it's really meant to be we'll come back to each other. How many of you have used this line to actually break up with someone? Has anyone really gotten back together after being told something like this? Please advise...


1 Comments, 71 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_SANDRINO0709 47 M
4  Articles
Sucks to Break Up   4/1/2008

You have to make it clear to yourself that this may not be entirely your fault - or not your fault at all. Really thinking about the reasons it ended can make it clearer to you that it takes two people to start a relationship, but one discordant person is enough to end it. It may also help you avoid missteps in the future if you can identify areas where you contributed to the demise of the ...


1 Comments, 24 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
fingers_of_a_god 49 M
2  Articles
is it better to love and lost or to never of loved   3/31/2008

Well that is a question that has been asked and said for eons, and will carry on till end of time.

Is it better that you have loved some one so much that when you lose them a major part of you dies if your love for them was a intense depth of feeling,

I dont think so Im of the feeling now as this has happened that perhaps not to of been loved and the moments we enjoyed and ...


0 Comments, 46 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_gygaz1978 35 M
2  Articles
can you stay friends?   3/29/2008

Is it best to stay friends or just to make a totally clean break of it?


1 Comments, 33 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
providedfor 52 M
0  Articles
Sex on the first Date!!   3/28/2008

Is it really a taboo? Does it make you a ? Think about how we are all animals technically. We have instinct in some form to carry out certain drives to procreate. Is it all that terrible to want to have a fun filled sexual night with someone without being attached? Think about how innocent or a guilty pleasure you can make it and have fun!! Just dont sacrifice your dignity in doing so.

...


2 Comments, 80 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_more2xplore7 55 F
2  Articles
Never recycle pain or the past   3/19/2008

God places people in our lives for a reason, seasons or a lifetime, when the script is over, The End


3 Comments, 74 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
Openforfun2008 63 C
2  Articles
Not easy for anyone   3/17/2008

In my experience breaking up is not easy full stop. No matter whether you are the person initiating the break up, or whether you are the unfortunate other...

I have personally been in a relationship before where things were pretty bad and i felt oppressed and put up with a whole heap of shit that i shouldn't have for a long long time.

Ironically, when things were reasonably ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score