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What hurts is 11/27/2005
The loss. The loss. The loneliness that can follow. Sure
sometimes its the sexual void, but that is nothing that
can't be easily cured if that is all that is gone for
you. It's the emotional pain for me. I'm a man and
I don't have a stiff upper lip when I feel pain. I don't
think I should either. Beyond that what may be most upsetting
is not knowing what happend, what she is basing ...
0 Comments, 111 Views,
4 Votes
,4.80 Score
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good lie 11/26/2005
isnt it great when you break up and your new EX just said lets
be friends when the next thing you know she'll just
ignore you.
2 Comments, 112 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why Is Breaking Up so Hard to Do 11/25/2005
As everyone else on this site has experienced a breakup
I felt inclined to bring about mine. The moral of the story
is that you should always feel safe in a relationship.
I had a very hard relationship my last years of high school
and was looking to have a rebound guy(sounds bad I know).
Ironically I found it in an old friend who had moved away.
Little did I know, he was a bit unstable. He ...
0 Comments, 120 Views,
13 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Why can't people be honest about themselves and STDs. 11/25/2005
I took a chance, and bought a one- (1) month gold membership.
I wanted to read as many of the ladies personals as I could
in thirty- (30) days, and to check out (at least a little
bit of) the local male competition I have with men within
my own age range, and hopefully, to meet my soul FWB.
<br>
After reading all those personals (M and F), and writing
to a few select women, my ...
0 Comments, 532 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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Y can't u let go 11/24/2005
Y is it so hard for some people to let go once u have said it
is over????????
0 Comments, 130 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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She had me wrapped around her finger 11/24/2005
WHY DOES SHE KEEP MAKING MY LIFE MISERABLE. SHE MOVED ON
WITH OTHERS BUT CAN'T LET ME. WHEN IS IT REALLY OVER?
0 Comments, 122 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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this sucks 11/23/2005
im only doing this so i can get some points so dont waste ur
time reading what i already worte and if u did then ur an idiot...shit
im supprised ur still reading this seriously, im only doing
this to get points
1 Comments, 31 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The Yellow Blanket 11/21/2005
Creamy butter yellow fleece. (did he say it was made out
of recycled pop bottles?) A blanket stitch of royal blue
all around the perimeter, so warm and soft.
<br>
The blanket has not been washed for a while. Not since before
the last time she took it away on a trip. She won’t
wash it now.
<br>
All she feels she has left of him is wrapped up in the memories
of the ...
1 Comments, 109 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Can't let go 11/21/2005
My boyfriend and i have been together for 3yrs but since
last month things haven't been going really well he
doesn't want to have sex most of the time that i do and
he wasn't like this before i think he's fu**ing
someone else and he's start lying about his whereabouts
so i told him to stop visiting me and stop calling me but i
miss him so much when he don't so as soon as he call and
ask if ...
3 Comments, 151 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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getting back 11/19/2005
Dont u just hate it when u find out ur boyfriend has ben cheating
on u? well girls dont take it laying down!! do something
about, go find his worst enemy, the person he cant stand
the most. And then have wild and dirty sex with him!! He will
be so mad lol, and u get revenge and great sex, lol!! have
fun and be safe
1 Comments, 177 Views,
16 Votes
,1.66 Score
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Friend or FOE? 11/18/2005
Hello again, I would like to know some opinions on breaking
up and being friends afterwards please.
<br>
I have found myself in this situation twice now in the past
3 yrs where i break up with a girl and she at first refuses
to accept it and then later wants to remain part of my life
as a friend.
<br>
Being a soft hearted kind of bloke i tend to oblige, but it
seems like ...
3 Comments, 122 Views,
11 Votes
,4.48 Score
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ITS NOT HARD TO DO 11/18/2005
many ways to do it, phone, email IM . What do you think is best?
I prefer to do it in person but im old fashion in that way
0 Comments, 69 Views,
3 Votes
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Friends 11/16/2005
when u break up should u stay friends
1 Comments, 104 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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why so hard 11/15/2005
why is it so hard to get out and get back into the game after
you have been through a bad break up? is it that i'm afraid
of getting hurt?
1 Comments, 85 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Only the Lonely Know 11/13/2005
We met in college, married, had , sent them off to college
and then started swinging. When our first was barely
a year old, we had a 3some with a guy we met. It was fun. He was
well endowed also, and she enjoyed being, as she put it "wore
out". About 3 days later, with my blessings, she fucked
him again. Then we never did anything else but reminese
and talk about how good it had been.
...
1 Comments, 367 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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? 11/12/2005
when u break up with some 1 do u say we can still b friends
1 Comments, 229 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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"The Breaks!" 11/7/2005
I am a 25 year old female who has only had one real relationship
in my life, I met him when I was 20 he was working at his parents
restaurant and I was taking a lunch break from taking my
drivers test at the DMV across the street. He was cleaning
all the tables around me hundreds of times till he finally
asked me out and I said YES!!! After chatting him up on and
off all that day I returned ...
4 Comments, 195 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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Is sex important? 11/6/2005
I really dont have a very horny girlfriend, but she is so
great in every other way. For this reason i am seeking out
this site to meet someone for just sex.
I wonder how many other people are in this position
0 Comments, 153 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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I thought I had the power of goodbye! 11/4/2005
I managed to get out of both my long term relationships but
I find my current one of only 4 months difficult to let go.
With the earlier two, love was apparent almost immediately
but with this one, neither of us have even uttered the words.
The problems we are experiencing are on-going and started
just 2 months into the relationship. All the signs tell
me this will never work. I've tried to ...
4 Comments, 224 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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6 years gone... 11/3/2005
Just broke up after 6 years...boy it sucks...I wonder if
its a bad thing to screw my ex...any thoughts??
0 Comments, 105 Views,
6 Votes
,0.52 Score
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2005-10-31
Those are the words that my wife of 15yrs told me just a month
ago.I`ve been lied to for at least the last year of our marriage,
so
it seemed even more of a coincedence that she left me dangling
for about a month and finaaly made her decision about our
future just 3 days after all the bills were paid for the month...neat
huh?
I also am going through the greiving process and it`s hard
to understand this whole thing.
She has told mutual friends that she wished I was a cheater
or abusive or a gambler, a bad Dad, or a drunk, so she would
at least have a good reason besides the fact that she "Fell
out of Love"
I did unfortunately work 3 jobs in order to keep up with our
bills and one of the jobs involved working as a traveling
musician, but only working about 50 to 60 dates a year.
The problem was she had grown used to me being gone and decided
that she was tired of taking care of everything when I was
away.It caused resentment and the resentment caused the
falling out of love.
My 10 yr old daughter, I`m afraid will be the one who will
suffer the most, as her world has unexpectedly been turned
upside down.I feel like I let her down by being away and causing
her Mom to fall out of love.
So in closing, be honest with your mate, and live your
life together like it might be your last together....because
one way or another someday it will be.
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breaking up 11/2/2005
i cant stand breaking up
thats the worst part of the relationship...lol
1 Comments, 97 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Is there any easy (moral & acceptable way) to break up? 11/2/2005
if there is can someone let me know or share experiences..
or is it always hard after long term relationships?
1 Comments, 94 Views,
2 Votes
,0.34 Score
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Why Does Love Have To Hurt 11/1/2005
You go through your life being abused and hurt and then you
find the "Mr. Right". Instantly you know that
he is everything that you have wanted and your "Knight
In Shining Armor" You devote your whole life to him
and forsake any other men and you think that you are the one
and only one for him. Then you learn that you are not the one
and only because he has another woman. You cry and ...
3 Comments, 286 Views,
11 Votes
,3.35 Score
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Would you join a group... 10/31/2005
Dear SEXFinder.com members;
<br>
How many of you would be willing to join a discussion group,
where the membership requirements are. That you must be
willing to go with a current group member or the group’s
moderator, for free and anonymous HIV testing (say within
thirty 30 days from joining the group) and share your test
results with each other to prove that you are both HIV ...
1 Comments, 225 Views,
3 Votes
,4.41 Score
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Bipolar Man? 10/30/2005
Met a wonderful man here on SEXFinder.com. Thought things were great.
Neither of us were looking for commitment (I thought),
but a series of new, non-judgemental friends. That was
all I ever wanted.
<br>
I was a little surprised, how speedily things advanced,
friendship-wise. Particularily since he claimed strong
feelings for me, far before I would admit to anything. Guess
I belong ...
2 Comments, 231 Views,
8 Votes
,4.41 Score
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broke up 10/29/2005
most of you know me as ihornyru72 that account was deleted
by my ex boyfriend and that is what caused the break up we
was in an open relationship you know he can play with others
and i can play with others and if we liked a couple we swap
or 3 somes whatever but now i find myself very pissed at him
he had no reason to delete my account any suggestions for
revenge " my new account ...
1 Comments, 104 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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dont do it this way 10/28/2005
i told my wife that i was cheating on her while i was tripping
so my mood kept on swinging and cause a four hour in depth
discription of how i cheated and where and everything .
i dont suggest it
0 Comments, 218 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Things may seem bleak 10/27/2005
Things may seem bleak now but you never know what the future
may hold for you and your ex. You may get back together someday.
You may not. Either way it is better to let go of a faltering
relationship while there is still some caring left between
the two of you. If you play it out to the bitter end and leave
your ex no choice but to hate you to get rid of you, you close
the door to the ...
1 Comments, 195 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Nobody ever deserves to be hurt. 10/27/2005
Nobody ever deserves to be hurt. Your ex does not deserve
to be hurt because you are hurting. Your ex's new love
interest (if one even exists) does not deserve to be hurt
just because you feel jealous. You do not deserve to be hurt,
even if you acted badly and caused the break up. Breaking
up hurts, but it doesn't have to be made worse by holding
a grudge or drowning yourself in a pool of ...
1 Comments, 207 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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When do I tell her 10/24/2005
I have realized I love my wife...but I am no longer IN LOVE
with her. Do I tell her before or after the holidays????
and How do I go about telling her? She is already in counseling
for depression, being negative, and pessimistic....but
on meds. IS there a decent way to get it across??
2 Comments, 255 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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Acting out in anger is never good for anybody 10/23/2005
Acting out in anger is never good for anybody. After being
broken up with don't spread mean or spiteful rumors.
Don't betray former confidences by telling old secrets
to others. If another person was involved in your break
up resist the urge to slam them behind their back. Acting
vicious only makes you look bad and any satisfaction you
may feel will be short lived. In the end this sort of ...
1 Comments, 163 Views,
7 Votes
,2.53 Score
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is all right to cry 10/19/2005
It is all right to cry, get mad and feel hurt when you are dumped.
These are normal natural feelings. Just be sure that you
let your feelings out in a safe place among friends or family.
Do not make your ex the target of your feelings, even if they
have done something to deserve your outrage. The sooner
you let go of the other person, the sooner the healing can
begin.
0 Comments, 203 Views,
4 Votes
,5.57 Score
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Being broken up with does not mean that there is something wrong with you 10/17/2005
Being broken up with does not mean that there is something
wrong with you; it just means that there is something that
is not working in the relationship. Try not to take the rejection
too personally. Remember that lots of great people have
had failed relationships - the fact that the relationships
failed says nothing about their value as a person. The fact
that your relationship failed ...
1 Comments, 105 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Resist this urge!!!!!!! 10/16/2005
Nobody likes to hurt another person, especially somebody
they have been close to, and it is often very easy to guilt
trip somebody into staying with you when they are trying
to end things. Resist this urge! When you use guilt as a way
to stop a break up you not only cheat yourself out of having
a good and true relationship, you foster resentment in
the other person which could lead to ...
0 Comments, 403 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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He is Here too, but we are over it... 10/15/2005
We broke up, our relationship is over.That what he told
me in his email and in his blog.And i am his Xgirlfriend.
Yet I am no more his so call co-owner in some groups that we
have build years together.Yet this is not the point. The
thing is We are still looking at each other's work, words
or profiles each time we are in the internet or in that certain
website.But deep inside, i can feel ...
7 Comments, 370 Views,
13 Votes
,3.81 Score
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A Question for Men 10/12/2005
Ladies, I don't mean to cut you out of this one, but none
of us really knows the answer. I met a man here 4 yrs. ago.
I wasn't looking for love, hell I wasn't even looking
for a conventional date, just sex. Well we hit if off immediately.
The sex was mind blowing, our intelligence levels matched.
We had fun, fun, fun, almost all of the time but when it was
time to be serious, we were. ...
4 Comments, 615 Views,
13 Votes
,5.16 Score
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b1 10/12/2005
More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person
ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken
up with - don't assume just because a person is breaking
up with you means that they no longer care about you, caring
about you and wanting a relationship with you are not one
and the same.
0 Comments, 292 Views,
2 Votes
,5.20 Score
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Ways To Hold On 10/10/2005
First off let me state that I have no professional training
in the way of relationships or the human psyche. My knowledge
comes strictly from experience. While it’s not backed
by a degree it is genuine. My advice may come across as rambling
and while I understand you will not take everything I have
to say with you, I do hope that you walk away with one or two
new ideas to help your ...
3 Comments, 258 Views,
12 Votes
,5.63 Score
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break up? 10/7/2005
How do you break up with someone you really love for no good
reason? Any suggestions?
3 Comments, 354 Views,
6 Votes
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Never Again 10/2/2005
I met my last girlfriend in a 12-step recovery meeting in
February of 2003. I asked her out and she immediately gave
me her phone number before the meeting was over. Laster
that afternoon I called her and we went to a movie and then
took a drive in the mountains. We drove up to about 14, 000
feet in the dark in a snowstorm. My vehicle was new at the
time and was Christened properly that ...
3 Comments, 219 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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To Screw or not To Screw??? 9/29/2005
So I broke up with my last girlfriend about a year ago but
we are great Friends. The question is this, the sex is incredible
(and I'm not just saying that because I've had
MORE than my fair share) and we have somehow fell into the
"Friends with befits zone"! Now don't
get me wrong, that is all good, but I think she is substituting
the sex for the past relationship. Do you think it's ...
4 Comments, 349 Views,
9 Votes
,3.00 Score
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You Won't Believe This One! 9/27/2005
When I first heard about it, I thought that thouhght that
it was just a joke. But it wasn't a joke. On October 24,
2005, over 3 milion men nation-wide have agreed to...
<br>
break up with their girlfriends/wives on the first ever
"NATIONAL DUMP YOUR WOMAN DAY." aka "DUMP-DAY."
This is an idea that was created by an international group
called "10 SOCIETY, " that is dedicated to ...
4 Comments, 443 Views,
18 Votes
,2.85 Score
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TELL THE TRUTH! 9/25/2005
How can people say that people should be let down easily?
People need to be let down harshly. Its easier just to be
told "I dont like" you then to be told "you're
really nice but...." where the "but"
can be followed by any one of hundreds of possibilities.
The absolute worst is when they claim "we can still
be friends" because 99% of the time they wont actually
remain friends with you ...
1 Comments, 150 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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ARE YOU KIDDING ME?!! 9/10/2005
Hello all,
<br>
Here's a bit of a break-up/ rant-n-rave all bundled
into one.
<br>
I've been politely, but firmly asked to apologize
for being me or it's off...
<br>
"Well, don't let the door hit you in the ass."
was my direct response.
<br>
Over the past year he's said the following:
<br>
"I fall for the really screwed up girls." (Apparently, ...
2 Comments, 264 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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More than once. 9/9/2005
I've recently, in the last couple of years anyway had
a relationship with a girl that was young and not really
the most stable person. You know the issues. But she sure
was fun. So I put up with some of the crap that you normally
do in a relationship to make it work and then some. We we're
together for about 2 years and in that time we had split up
about 4 times with the 4th being the last ...
0 Comments, 251 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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What's a BITCH 2 do? 9/4/2005
Hey, I have a question, if u meet a girl that is cool people
2 be around but u r not just into her in a sexual way and u tell
her that "we can be cool friends and hang out or whatever
but as 4 sex between us that shit is not going 2 happen b/c
im not feeling u like that" ain't that kinda straight
2 the fucking point? Well I guess not because I meet this
girl through another friend of mine ...
2 Comments, 119 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Easiest Way 9/1/2005
I've never had a problem breaking off a relationship
with someone. Or for that matter, having someone break
one off with me.
<br>
I've always tried to be honest about what I exoect from
the relationship from the beginning. That way, there really
is no surprise if it doesn't work out.
0 Comments, 236 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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How do you convince yourself there's something else to move onto? 9/1/2005
Ive recently broken up from a 2 yr relationship, well actually
i was dumped for her ex which she had always admitted she
couldnt cut from her life as a friend. To say I was "in
love" with this woman doesnt seem to sum up the enormity
of my feelings for her, I literally worshipped her and for
a while we had it great. You know how you have a mental check
list of the things you'd like in your ...
6 Comments, 189 Views,
5 Votes
,4.12 Score
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breaking up is so easy to do 8/30/2005
As I think back on my last relationship, I realized leaving
him was the best thing to do. He was rude, critical, and all
together mean at all times. He was 37 me 21 so age diff made
a big prob. He was retired from the military. 16 years of
it made him very precise about everything and when things
did not go his way he huffed and puffed about it. It went to
the extreme about everything not ...
4 Comments, 160 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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A Slow Tumble Down The Hill ! 8/26/2005
I'v known this guy for almost all my life.Went to primary
school with him but we never had anything going.He was like
three grade ahead of me. We were just pals, neighbours
for years. They moved. We didnt see for over ten years. He
went to high school in some other city and i was still in this
city. We met again in university. he had started university
someplace else and problems with his ...
2 Comments, 312 Views,
8 Votes
,3.01 Score
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moving on 8/23/2005
what does it take to keep your mind from think about that
past relationship .You know u did the right thing but hard
to move on to something new . What do you think?
0 Comments, 154 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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Another Sad, Sad Break Up Story 8/22/2005
Kristine Slaterback, AKA Kristine Allen and Jeff Kujat
are no more. My heart was broken again for a second time by
the same woman Auagust 15th, 2005. We first met Iin April
of '99 through a silly little Yahoo personal ad...Sweet
Teddybear Seeks Friend To Cuddle, said the headline. She
said she liked teddybears and the rest is history. It was
love at first sight, never in my life have I met ...
1 Comments, 181 Views,
9 Votes
,5.14 Score
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How does one move on 8/20/2005
Ok i was with my g/f for 6 months known eachother for 9 months.
Anyway we broke up like 3 weeks ago and im trying to figure
out how to get over her. I mean i have tried cutting her out
completely she just wont let me, i tried just being friends
but i get jealous, how can i move on if all i think about is
her. I mean i did love her so how can i get over her.
4 Comments, 291 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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how do u break up? 8/17/2005
i always have been up front wit it n at first try to work it
out until there is no more you can do
1 Comments, 318 Views,
2 Votes
,1.73 Score
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closure 8/17/2005
Some people think that breaking up is something that only
one of the couple has to decide on. They seem to think that
they can just make that decision and then ignore the other
person. That's a very childish attitude. If you want
to break up, at least give the other person closure. Tell
them straight and make it clear but give them closure, otherwise
you're storing up trouble.
0 Comments, 633 Views,
32 Votes
,6.80 Score
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sucks 8/13/2005
breaking up sucks ass with a passion!!!!!!! especially
wen u had the best person ever!!!
2 Comments, 179 Views,
10 Votes
,2.79 Score
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love hurts 8/13/2005
i love my hubby but hes gon out of town too much we have grown
apart what to do ??? so how to tell him well i took out a add
in his fav magazine it sai: to honey .... with all your time
at work and out of town i regret to inform you that i do not
love u anymore you should recave divorce papers at the door
in just a few hrs. to make sure he fornd this in the magazine
i high lighted in ...
2 Comments, 223 Views,
17 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Just say it 8/12/2005
I had a difficult situation to face a couple of years back
when I knew I had to say something to someone to clear up a
problem that had been weighing on my mind for far too long.
It wasn't a relationship breakup, but the princple
is the same.
A friend of mine asked me one evening if I'd had that
talk which I'd been putting off. I told him I hadn't
done it that day because it wasn't a ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
6 Votes
,3.08 Score
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What is the proper etiquette for breaking up with a 8/11/2005
How do you break up with someone who was a friend with benefits
when the only reason you were a friend in the first place
was purely sexual? You have no desire to hang out with this
person on a completely platonic level and when you 2 first
became involved you made it crystal clear that this was
about sex & not a mutual bond shared between 2 people.
3 Comments, 296 Views,
8 Votes
,4.17 Score
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Breaking up is tough..but being USED is worse! 8/11/2005
My boyfriend left a week ago. We were together for 8 yrs.
I always thought it was "one-sided", me being
the one that was always trying to hold it all together. Continually
appeasing him so as not to cause any friction in the relationship.
He continued to lose job after job. It would take him a long
time to begin looking for the next job. Which meant I was
the sole provider in most of the ...
2 Comments, 157 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Does anyone feel this same way? 8/10/2005
After years of long distance the parting of ways is turning
out to be just as hard or harder than the effort it took to
stay together after years of liveing on different seaboards.
Thinking that it may be fateful that we should have been
together regardless of the distance between us, I wonder
if it was meant to be, and if it really is....will it prove
itself after we have spent some time ...
2 Comments, 88 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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Why so nice? 8/8/2005
I was dating a girl for the better part of 3 years when I found
out that the reason I continued dating her in the first place
was a complete lie. We had dated for a couple of weeks and
I decided that she really wasn't "the one"
for me and broke it off with her. Then she tells me she's
pregnant. So after long consideration I thought I'd
be a man and take care of my responsiblities. 3 months ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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What happened to "Friends with benefits" 8/6/2005
I recently got re-acquainted with an old friend. We knew
each other 10 years ago and partied together. She recently
moved back into town after breaking up with her long-time
boyfriend. She has 2 , 10 and 5. We had never had a sexual
relationship before but we ended up going home together
after the bar one night. It was decided by both of us that
we would have a casual sex fling, suggested ...
1 Comments, 148 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Befuddled... 8/5/2005
Me and 'Dawn' (we'll call her) had a
confrontation a little over five weeks ago about splitting
up. Over the last 3-4 years (we've been married 7 1/2
now) we started sharing less with each other. A lot less.
She
keeps things to herself and doesn't tell me how she
is really feeling
and I say things I don't really mean when I do get angry
and have been
in the bad habit and not coming ...
1 Comments, 174 Views,
4 Votes
,3.63 Score
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The Lighter Side 8/1/2005
I just went to Athens this weekend, I came back... felt like
shit, then today... it clicked, Im over Mari... and tomorrow
will be a better day. Today is a brighter day than the day
before and each on just adds on upon the good from the day
before.
<br>
Yes it takes a while for good things to happen, and it takes
an instant for bad things to happen.
<br>
And yes it ...
2 Comments, 74 Views,
8 Votes
,2.55 Score
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WHY, WHY, WHY??? 7/31/2005
Me and my boyfriend broke up quite a while ago! It took me
a realy long p telling me he loves me, misses me, blah,
blah! Ok so I almost fall for it when I find out he has a girlfriend!!time
to get over him (I was devestated) Now he
has been popping u
Why keep playing wih my emotions, and hurting me! Cause
he knows it does???
2 Comments, 348 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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why do they do that? 7/30/2005
Why when you get to know someone you think pretty well, they
turn around and start calling you drunk at 2:00 in the morning
every day. Why can't they just tell you they are that
way before you like them. Do people actually put up with
that.
0 Comments, 88 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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This is the worse pain in the world 7/28/2005
This has got to be the worse pain in the world. It gets harder
to deal with as we grow older. I remember feeling this as
a . Now in my 40's it is impossible to deal with.
And I realize why too. Being mature, your feelings are much
clearer than when you were young, and you put them all into
a relationship.
<br>
Anway here is my story. I have been living in a loveless marriage
for ...
2 Comments, 306 Views,
13 Votes
,5.83 Score
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breaking up after 5 years 7/27/2005
I broke up with my girlfriend of 5 and a half years bout 2 1/2
months ago got boring and always the same she never wanted
to try new things in general. think we just grew apart
0 Comments, 120 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Why would a guy leave? 7/24/2005
I had awonderful relationship with a guy, we said I love
you to each other quite freely. He taught me about this squirting
thing. We had many things in common, besides sex. We went
on mini-vacations, We spent time at his home and mine as
well. We seldom argued, never fought! And then one day he
said he had grown apart from me and wanted to still be friends,
but it was over. Anybody have a ...
7 Comments, 541 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score
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Last time with Cherie. 7/23/2005
Some years ago while I was in the service I had a relationship
with this older woman, a slender little blonde named Cherie.
I was 26 and she was 39. We had screwed each others brains
out for over 9 months. Things had gotten a little dull between
us. Normally these would have easy to fix but a month or so
before hand Cherie had wanted to do something a little wild
and crazy. So, we invited ...
1 Comments, 230 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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im tired 7/20/2005
im getting tired of my man i want to explore new things what
should i do?
4 Comments, 245 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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The silent treatment 7/17/2005
Poeple become very selfish at the end of a relationship.
Yes you agree to be friends, and yes for a time that would
be difficult, but why do women then nearly opt for the silent
treatment as an option.
I think that this just causes more friction which quickly
turns an amicable breakup into a bad one.
<br>
What do you think?
2 Comments, 226 Views,
9 Votes
,4.49 Score
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by myself 7/16/2005
my ex girl friend dumped me also.she said i was not tough
enough because i would not abuse her.also some other issues.so
she runs off with some harley biker or bad boy.is that shallow
or what.nice guys do finish last-dead last.
1 Comments, 74 Views,
2 Votes
,1.04 Score
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Breaking up is a bitch, therefore.. 7/15/2005
You have a few options. You can be like me and stall it out.
Wait to be posed with thew question and then make a decision,
or you can just honestly take it in stride.
<br>
Cardinal rule number 1: people do what people want to do.
<br>
There's nothing you can do. There would'nt be
any scandal if people thought about others.. The sad truth
is, relationships are ...
1 Comments, 146 Views,
9 Votes
,4.07 Score
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The Real Reason Breaking Up Is So Hard For Men! 7/15/2005
I’m gonna keep it real. 75% of the rage, grief and jealousy
that a man experiences when he breaks up with his woman -
is due to the fact that he is losing all rights to the pussy.
Better known as the “Coochie.”
<br>
Yeah she may be smart, funny and a great cook. But the bottom
line is it’s “your pussy.”
<br>
And just the mere ...
2 Comments, 290 Views,
24 Votes
,5.06 Score
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Going on seperate ways 7/12/2005
Breaking up with someone you really love is actually a matter
that you have to think very carefully, or you have to perform
as you play in Hamlet. First of all, you have to take it easy.Tell
her slowly that although you really like her, you two can't
work it out.
She'd ask why? You have to be completely honest and
plain in here. Just name the reason without blaming it onto
her. Your last ...
1 Comments, 138 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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GETING YOUR CAKE & EATING IT TOO! 7/12/2005
Have you ever found the person that just makes you cream
at the sound of there voice? Have you ever just had that person
touch you and oh my you cum before you knew it? I had this happen
to me. In August of 2004 here on SEXFinder.com I met a man that just sent
me to heaven and back physically and sexually. I had been
married for 19 yrs and he had been married for 9. We both were
in the mist of ...
1 Comments, 280 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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HOW TO MOVE ON. 7/11/2005
I'll tell you now. Who ever said breaking up with a woman,
was easy. Belive me, it isn't or for those of who's
feelings are really genuine and true. On this site I have
had some pretty good times and I'm having more almost
every day. But when one doesn't always go as planned
you just have to learn how to break up the right way. Here
are a few ways to do it.
<br>
1) Once you ...
1 Comments, 171 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Sometimes things change 7/10/2005
The biggest problem is generally one person in the relationship
grows or matures and the other doesn't. When that happens,
it is usually the one that did the growing that ends up getting
bored and needing to move on.
1 Comments, 138 Views,
4 Votes
,0.92 Score
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Like Buses In A Big City...There'll Be Another By In 5 Minutes 7/9/2005
I'm a bit of a romantic and devote myself to the one I'm
with so it does hurt when it comes to breaking up. I have come
to believe that self-preservation is more important than
dwelling on what "could have been" and practice
the clean-break method. If I run into any of my ex-fuck buckets
when I'm out and about, I see them as a previous acquaintence...a
bus I rode to get here. Unless they ...
2 Comments, 69 Views,
7 Votes
,3.04 Score
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never grew up 7/8/2005
Do not not hate when you have a great girl frined and you are
both in University. but after both have graduated she never
grows out of the Schol Girl. She works at the mall with ppl
still in university, like to party with them and So . Then
she can not understand why You no longer want to be with her.
Well Grow up Little girl Life goes on
0 Comments, 67 Views,
5 Votes
,0.86 Score
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The best way to remain friends 7/5/2005
When the time comes when two people can no longer date each
other i think its important to not break up on bad terms.
Many ex's can turn out to be great friends.
1 Comments, 196 Views,
13 Votes
,1.97 Score
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hi 7/4/2005
HI i just broke up with my gf. How often do you think i should
make any attempts to get back with her. I dont want to bother
her and get in her space.
0 Comments, 219 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Did i wait to long? 7/2/2005
I am a bi female who became involved with another woman in
this site. Things were going really good, till i moved
closer.Since i moved closer to her i found that she never
had time to spare for me.I kept calling and e mailing to see
when she had time but i got the same answer, NO time.This
went on for 2 months.I felt that i was being dumped, so i approached
her again about spending time and ...
2 Comments, 244 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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What is the best way 6/29/2005
I often find that it is really hard to break up because you
dont want to hurt the other person. Should it be done in person
or over the phone or some other impersonel way?
4 Comments, 111 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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A Gift Given out of Love Can Still Destroy 6/29/2005
After 20 years of marriage where cheating and deception
became common place, a person longs for simplicity in a
love blessed with sincerity and honesty.
Looking back on that first failed marriage accepting responsibility
for my actions and drawing on all of the lessons learned,
I hoped for a greater chance at meeting with success the
next time around.
Having learned to cope ...
0 Comments, 135 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Recent and horrible 6/28/2005
I made a tragic mistake in my life; I dated a girl that'd
never had a real boyfriend before. Worse then that, we started
to love each other. I was her first time, for more then just
the obvious. Needless to say, she didn't understand
what she had (grass is always greener) and made a fool of
herself by dumping me. I know it's self serving, but
it's true; I did everything for her, gave ...
2 Comments, 118 Views,
1 Votes
,1.10 Score
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I just couldn't believe it... 6/28/2005
She was my first love... I met her when I was 16 and we were
together for 4 years. She was everything I needed and though
I was too young I was thinkng about her seriously...
As in all relationships we had our fightings sometimes
but mostly we were great tigethr. All our friends couldn't
believe that in that age our relationship lasted that long.
And then it came the time for me to go and ...
1 Comments, 128 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Hard to do! 6/26/2005
It always sucks on both sides when a relationship crumbles.I
believe everything happens for a reason-whatever your
reason is-be true to your feelings and just be honest with
your partner.We'll all heal in time-it just takes
of all our strenghts to do it the right way!
0 Comments, 87 Views,
8 Votes
,3.48 Score
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After breaking up 6/26/2005
Have you noticed that women need less time than men in order
to find a new partner after breaking up?Is that so or is it
just my imagination?
3 Comments, 193 Views,
9 Votes
,3.85 Score
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what to do? 6/25/2005
How do you deal with a marriage or relationship break up
that has been going on for many many years? Do you every get
over it?
2 Comments, 155 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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How does one end a long relationship? 6/25/2005
This is the question going through my mind the last couple
of weeks. I have been with my girl friend a little over 3 years,
and I don't see this going anywhere. I see us drifting
apart, and I am not very interesting in the relationship
anymore.
<br>
I know I want to end things, but I don't know how to go
about doing that. I don't really want to hurt her, but
I don't really see a ...
0 Comments, 99 Views,
4 Votes
,2.86 Score
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My heart aches now about her ! 6/25/2005
I seperated from my girlfriend since about 9 month now,
on
the 25 may last month i had my birthday, on the day she used
her girlfriend to called me to the very place she was.so
getting there her girlfriend congratulated me for my birthday,
this moment she come over to me and she quickly hold me and
gave me a kiss with the word happy birthday.But I told her
I don愒 like so thing., and i ...
1 Comments, 155 Views,
3 Votes
,0.49 Score
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Its hard to do indeed... 6/22/2005
I had a relationship with a young lady for about 3 months,
hardly long term, but she dumped me by text... that's
one cold lady!
<br>
Not sure I could do that myself, guess it takes a special
kind of person 
5 Comments, 96 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Dating someone from SEXFinder.com 6/21/2005
Take my advice it is hard to have a relationship with someone
u meet off of SEXFinder.com. I had one that went belly up within a couple
of months after meeting him from this site. U are better
off laying around with whoever u can find or meet. I do and
I love it.
2 Comments, 274 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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My heart still aches.. 6/20/2005
I thought I had met the love of my life. I was with him for three
years. Everytime he walked in the room, my heart would race..
sometimes for his looks, but more and more because I wasn't
sure what kind of mood he was going to be in. What was going
to piss him off and make him go off on me. I did everything
I could do to make him happy, yet, his demands became more
and more. I walked ...
4 Comments, 305 Views,
16 Votes
,6.07 Score
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INTERRACIAL LOVE!! 6/18/2005
WHY DON'T PEOPLE JUST ACCEPT THAT DIFFERENT RACE PEOPLE
CAN FALL IN LOVE???
5 Comments, 190 Views,
15 Votes
,4.51 Score
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rebound sex 6/15/2005
Do you find that some sex with someone new helps to assuage
the pain soon after a break up? I'm curious how responses
from men or women will differ or if they will be relatively
similar on the average.
4 Comments, 236 Views,
9 Votes
,4.28 Score
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I don't know myself anymore 6/15/2005
I don't really think I can call this an article, it's
more of a question. A really nice guy has been after me for
a while. We've slept together a few times, and that
was also great. He recently told me he wanted more, and then
I had a kind of out-of-body experience where I heard myself
coming out with the usual stuff about not being ready for
a relationship, and that it wasn't him but me. I ...
0 Comments, 258 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Getting it over with. 6/14/2005
Remember you lived before this person & you will after
this person so get it over with. be like nike "just
do it".
0 Comments, 84 Views,
4 Votes
,4.41 Score
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hey 6/12/2005
i hate breaking up cause u have 2 thing to do get over the other
person and move on and that can be very hard at times
0 Comments, 74 Views,
6 Votes
,3.65 Score
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Im such a lair 6/11/2005
I have to say something to get it off my chest. I am married
and have a girlfriend. My wife found out now shes treating
me like gold. But I still tell my girlfriend I love her, my
wife doesnt want me to have any contact with her at all. But
I still do.
My problem is that Im always lieing to her like I do my wife
now. But she finds out. I give her credit she is a lot smarter ...
2 Comments, 189 Views,
7 Votes
,4.31 Score
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The art of breaking up 6/9/2005
Is there every a right way to break up?
I've got a friend who to save on the hassle of the crying
and emotional tirade of a suppossed future partner, decided
to move state and break up by sms! There's always the
lie i'm seeing someone else when u just think she/he
is just plain boring or the relationship isn't going
anywhere.
1 Comments, 68 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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don't write letters 6/7/2005
if your not 15 have the balls to break up with someone to there
face.....unless the person is a stalker and you have to
run away!
1 Comments, 60 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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whay is it that when you treat a girl like shit, they worship you and when your nice to others,they 6/6/2005
whay is it that when you treat a girl like shit, they worship
you and when your nice to others, they dont appreciate
it?
1 Comments, 126 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Breaking Up!! 6/6/2005
Don't do it. It sucks
0 Comments, 56 Views,
5 Votes
,0.53 Score
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My best friend 6/5/2005
My best friend and I dated a year ago. We had the healthiest
sex life either of us have ever had. We were madly in love
and marriage was on both of our minds. Suddenly she started
seeing a ex boyfriend behind my back. This guy abused her
body and mind. We broke up because she cheated on me and now
we became best friends about two months after with out talking
during the two months. ...
0 Comments, 173 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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Game over 6/5/2005
I have been with this guy for two years he is also 3 years younger
than I. We were best friends at first and now he just wants
to break up constantly saying its me with no explanation.
He says he doesn't want a relationship but he asked
for it knowing i was looking for long-term. He has been a
father to my 2 year old and now he wants to end it all to fuck
with little girls not grown ...
0 Comments, 87 Views,
9 Votes
,3.21 Score
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leaving 6/2/2005
I have been with a woman for 13 years and things are no were
the way thay should be but I don't want to be lonley I
know I need to get out but how?
0 Comments, 88 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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The best way to get over a serious break up: 5/31/2005
Treat it like the flu and take special care in getting over
that "someone" as if you are getting over an
illness.
<br>
Heartbreak, to me, is one of the worst painful circumstances
and events in life - so much so that I wouldn't wish it
on my worst enemy. So, I believe it's best to take special
care of yourself when going through it.
<br>
From my personal experience:
...
6 Comments, 165 Views,
14 Votes
,3.78 Score
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Co-Dependants 5/26/2005
I was wondering if anybody had any experiance with going
about a divorce with a co-dependant spouse?!? I have been
married for 3 years and wish to get out of the relationship.
We have taken about it once or twice with the same result
of her trying to kill herself. Can anyone help me out there
with some advice or suggestions?
2 Comments, 103 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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breaking up 5/25/2005
after u break up dont get so upset. just find the first good
looking girl and bang the shit out of her and u will feel better.
0 Comments, 103 Views,
11 Votes
,1.30 Score
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Divorce Stages: Phase 2: The Reclusion 5/24/2005
Though I did enjoy my promiscuous phase to some extent,
the feelings I had during it caused me great pain on the inside.
Eating away at me like a ferocious nympho nibbling a freshly
shorn pussy.
Eventually, I couldn't take it anymore, and became
ashamed of my behavior. So much so that I went into reclusion.
Several women that I knew, I was still talking to, and I shut
them out. ...
1 Comments, 98 Views,
12 Votes
,3.33 Score
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i cant get it right 5/23/2005
i've found many reasons and many ways to break things
off but i've never found the right way of doing thing's.
every time i come up with the same results.... hard feelings.
1 Comments, 46 Views,
4 Votes
,1.69 Score
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Not a good thing 5/22/2005
well ok where to start, i spent time so long in long term
relationships.lol..well its heart breakin an never the
easiest thing to cope with.But the worst thing is if they
are taken away from you.Yeah well it happens she was 24 me
22, she had been tryin to loose weight for sometime, but
for some resason she could never get rid of it.i went to work
came home normal day, until nighttime.. ...
1 Comments, 70 Views,
6 Votes
,1.66 Score
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When trying for too long just makes it worse. 5/22/2005
I was together with this woman for 4 years. When we met she
was one person, yet as soon as I put a roof over her and her
's heads, she became somebody entirely different.
She had me, had my yet I was the one bringing in all the
money, doing all the housework, and taking care of the .
Problem was, I loved her and didn't want to see
their lives destroyed. I kept it up for three years ...
0 Comments, 139 Views,
17 Votes
,2.14 Score
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taking a break 5/18/2005
is it ok to have sex with another woman if your gf sasid that
we should take a break. Or will it come back at you in the end?
0 Comments, 64 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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waa...waa!!! 5/18/2005
If two people arent compatable it's probly because
there is not enough compromise between them or they are
just not ment to be. In this case most who can be honest with
themselves will just see it as it is and hopefully remain
friends.
1 Comments, 62 Views,
7 Votes
,2.28 Score
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Delete and Reboot for Dummies 5/18/2005
After being in a relationship for many years, you grow attached
to that person in many ways. Emotionally, Physically,
and spiritually. Now once that long term relationship
is over and both parties know that there's no chance
for reconciliation at this time or the near future. Still
the emomtions continue running.
<br>
People say that time heals all wounds. For some, that time ...
1 Comments, 130 Views,
6 Votes
,3.93 Score
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feeling horny and alone 5/17/2005
My boyfriend and I had recently broken up and I of course
was feeling horny and alone. I decided to go out for a few
drinks with a few of my girlfriends. It had been a few months
since I'd been fucked and I craved cock. I woke up thinking
about it and went to bed craving it.
<br>
I decided that tonight was the night. I needed to get fucked
and I was determined to find the lucky ...
4 Comments, 547 Views,
30 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Ending an engagement 5/15/2005
What is the best way to end a engagement? And how do you make
then understand that its not cause of another man?
Broken Heart In TX
1 Comments, 155 Views,
13 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Is it over yet? 5/13/2005
Could someone tell me when a guy says, " its over"......like
i thought you said it was over , cool, Now is it over, but
keeps contacting you, whats the next move star command?lol
2 Comments, 172 Views,
8 Votes
,1.16 Score
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Boyfriend has .. broken leg 5/6/2005
I dated this guy on and off for like 5 years. He loved his motorcycle
and crashed while driving it.This only gets better--i
am not cruel mind you--just realistic.He comes home from
the hospital with a cast and moaning for me to do everything
for him, help him with getting in and out of the fucking
shower, bring his food to him, you get the point.Yes,
i felt sorry for him, but he was using ...
0 Comments, 238 Views,
17 Votes
,3.27 Score
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Why that my heart is devided into 2? 5/4/2005
I know I'm not as pretty as the girls out there but I'm
sure I'm so attractive in everybodies eyes if i'm
in front of them already. I have 2 boyfriend at present,
the first one is a businessman who have his own company but
he was separated with his wife and the other guy is a simple
guy whose divorced but willing to marry me. I love them both,
but what will I do? The biggest problem with ...
1 Comments, 328 Views,
18 Votes
,5.85 Score
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? 4/30/2005
iS THERE A GOOD WAY TO BREAK UP AFTER SEVERAL YEARS TOGETHER?
1 Comments, 99 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Time To Leave 4/29/2005
After 20 years of marraige I am tired. Tired of fighting,
tired of worrying, tired of yelling, tired of trying.
Everyday I dread going home after work, because I know I
will say or do the wrong thing and the whole night is fucked.
Do we still love each other? I suppose, at least we say that
we do. But there is no passion, no life in this marraige.
We sleep in seperate rooms except for when ...
7 Comments, 490 Views,
29 Votes
,5.05 Score
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TRUST ME...DON'T EVER GIVE UP!!! 4/26/2005
I know all too well the pain and heartache that can result
from a breakup. I know what it is like to totally give your
heart, your soul completely to a woman and have it all end.
I feel the pain of evey guy that has ever lost someone that
they truly loved , and honestly thought that they were meant
to be with. This goes out to all of you guys. Hang in there,
because I got some good news for ...
1 Comments, 135 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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do i tell or not 4/25/2005
i meet a girl 5 years ago in an airport in detroit, we started
to date long distance, then two years ago she moved to connetticut,
about 90 miles door to door , no problem, most fridays id
go up and we would go out for the weekend, ,, last october
-she says work is very busy , i want more space and time for
myself - dont come over to much , , no problem i say, i dont
see or hear from her ...
1 Comments, 154 Views,
5 Votes
,1.84 Score
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What to Do 4/21/2005
I split up with my partner of 4 yrs and cant get over her is
there something i can do to get her out of my mind i really
find it hard to be with someone else?
0 Comments, 139 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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why dose this always happen 4/18/2005
ok people. I have had one major brake up in my life and i am
going thru the 2 one now. i have a questing for the girls.
Why is it that when a guy finds you and he treats you so good
that you always brake his heart? my first brake up was almost
one year ago. i was dating this girl who i thought was the
love of my life. i did what ever i could to make her happy we
were together for almost 3 ...
2 Comments, 138 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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Why men take the easy way out? 4/17/2005
I hate it when a man stops calling or will not give you a reason
why he does not want to be with you any more. Tell me do you
think it is fair when the lady is good to him and he JUST STOP?
4 Comments, 257 Views,
17 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Rebound Guy 4/16/2005
I've been the rebound guy 3 times in my life now and it
sucked each and every time. Ya know, where the girl has a
really bad bf and she breaks up with him and starts hanging
out with you a lot more. Before you know it the both of you
get involved and you fall in love with her because you really
think she's great and have so much in common. Then about
a month or two later, she finds another ...
1 Comments, 89 Views,
4 Votes
,2.08 Score
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hard breakup 4/15/2005
Any advice for a graceful way to break up with someone that
still wants to be with you?
0 Comments, 98 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Breakup 4/12/2005
I have just gone through an 8 mth r/s and been dumped..how
long you ppl reckon I should take to get over it..or has it
been too long already?? (3wks)
1 Comments, 92 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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How to 4/12/2005
I think the easiest way to break up and get over it the quickest
is to break it off clean and quickly. Sorry if this seems
cold but its the truth if you try to stay friends with them
off the bat then they stay in your life and will double the
time it takes to get over them plus they may try in some way
to get back together or mess up any new relationship you
have.
0 Comments, 170 Views,
18 Votes
,2.72 Score
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Does it get easier? 4/10/2005
Have had hard times in the past even if the relationship
was a short one. Can't seem to let go for a while and leave
the whole thing behind me right away. I think generally
if you can get over it right away then you haven't invested
anything of your self in the relationship and you will not
have long lasting ones anyway
0 Comments, 70 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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Can't we all get along. 4/10/2005
About six months ago my exgirlfriend and I broke up. We were
in a relationship for almost 3 years. We are still very good
friends, but lately it seems that she is trying to climb
back in my bed. She says she doesn't want to get back
together, just be friends with benefits. Don't get
me wrong the sex was amazing, she just gets a little clingy
or needy afterwards. I have been honest with ...
1 Comments, 67 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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How do you break up with someone...... 4/9/2005
How do you break up with someone you really love and care
about? When all his actions are taking you down and hurting
you and your life and the people around you.
2 Comments, 285 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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You numb bitch... 4/8/2005
I bled sincerely upon your cold unanswered doorstep
A soft reminder of the knife you kept so clean
Revoking memories that your soul destroyed with silence
The words long gone now, but the tears can still be seen
A touch and a glance
A thought and a kiss
You sold me your lifetime
for a moment of bliss
I rode your wild horses
too broken to run
As you hiked up your clouds
and ...
0 Comments, 76 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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No Sex and No Play Makes Jim Universal Go Crazy 4/6/2005
About a year ago I got together with my current girlfriend.
She smart, beautiful, showed an interest in so many things
I was into. At the time I was in a bad spot in my life and I fell
head over heels for her. During our time together she really
helped me through a lot of problems I was having and now my
life is the best its been since I can remember.
<br>
The problem is, my ...
2 Comments, 99 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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A good woman waistn away 4/3/2005
Hi im in the middle of a breakup rite now and im finding its
the hardest thing i ever had to do, i never had any problem
walking away from a bad relationship b4, why now, why cant
i just walk away. I lost everything i ever had almost 2yrs
ago becouse of this man, my buisness, trk, property, horses
and my self esteem, and after i lost it all he left me stranded
at a trk stop with nothing, ...
2 Comments, 317 Views,
18 Votes
,3.40 Score
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Dazed and Confused 4/2/2005
I recently filed for divorce. Basically, my husband lost
interest in having sex with me, and our sex life became nonexistent.
I figured my husband was bored with our sex life, and needed
more stimuli. I love sex, and it seemed the harder I tried
to get him to mix things up, or try something new, the more
he pulled away from me. I have always been more sexually
active than my husband. After ...
3 Comments, 261 Views,
16 Votes
,3.86 Score
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WHY ME 4/2/2005
YES I CANT STOP IT BUT I WILL WHEN THE TIME IS RIGHT....
I DONT WANT TO CRY BUT TEARS STILL ROLL DOWN MY CHEEK.
IF THIS IS NOT LOVE WHAT ELSE CAN IT BE...
WHY WOULD SOMEONE LOVE U THIS MUCH ONLY 2 SAY ITS OVER.
WHY DID LOVE EVER EXIST...?
0 Comments, 74 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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ITS NOT AS HARD AS IT SOUND 3/30/2005
JUST FOCUS ON WHATS NEXT.
0 Comments, 83 Views,
5 Votes
,2.49 Score
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He wont be coming back. 3/27/2005
Many times throughout my life the fates have seen fit to
smile down upon me. But just as many times they have chosen
to point and laugh and laugh and laugh!
<br>
It seems, every time I think I've somehow cheated the
lines of chaos -- the lines that say nothing is ever really
as good as it seems, it comes right back and bites me in the
butt, and not in a sensual sort of way!
...
1 Comments, 149 Views,
7 Votes
,5.33 Score
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The Ex Files 3/27/2005
He's the "one" I used to think. No longer
my love but yet still the one I love.....He's my Ex and
I hate him, I mean it, I hate the guy, he makes me so MAD. No
one makes me that MAD, not even my mother!
<br>
I know he hates me too. But, then I see him and fireworks light
the sky, the world stops spinning, and nothing matters
but him...again....he looks at me with that lost love ...
2 Comments, 180 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Gently 3/26/2005
Communication in both of your long-term needs should be
vital in breaking up with someone. You have to let them know
that you've thoroughly enjoyed the time you've
spent with them in the past (even if you didn't) and
look forward to being friends with them in the future (even
if you won't). In the long term they'll look back
and see you for a nice and compassionate person even if you ...
2 Comments, 218 Views,
20 Votes
,1.98 Score
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why is it so hard 3/26/2005
Breaking up can be hard....but why? some of us really love
each other, but cannot live with each other...please tell
me why
0 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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Am I right or wrong? 3/25/2005
I've been dating a woman for 3 years. I knew when we started
dating that she's a virgin. But on our 3rd date we went
to the bar and she came home with me and we showered and fooled
around a little. I went down on her and she seemed to like
it. Since then we've fooled around whenever she gets
drunk, but when she's sober, she wants to wait for marriage.
When I try to get her to talk, she's ...
3 Comments, 178 Views,
9 Votes
,2.14 Score
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why do people break up 3/23/2005
there are many reasons people break up but what I want to
know is how do you guys get along with your ex after you break
up?
1 Comments, 122 Views,
3 Votes
,2.94 Score
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What's the girl's problem? 3/23/2005
well, for the last 6 months, I've been in a relationship.
We had been having sex since day one of it, through the girl's
actual insistance. I was surprized at it, but hell, I wasn't
about to complain about getting good sex! Come to find out,
the entire relationship, she cheats on me! This is after
she gets rid of me without saying a word, just one week, bam,
no talking. I ask her why, and ...
1 Comments, 116 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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whats the best way 3/20/2005
ive been going out with this girl for a while now and she says
shes in love with me and kinda the only reason im still there
is i dont want to hurt her. Whats the best way if there is one
at going about ending this?
1 Comments, 84 Views,
3 Votes
,1.96 Score
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why 3/20/2005
i don't understand how ppl can break up because what
about all the times u shared with them how could u just forget
0 Comments, 61 Views,
3 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Communicating with other Potentials 3/20/2005
I met someone from SEXFinder.com, we even felt a little love together,
it was nice, even though it was a fair old distance between
us, and we could only see each other at weekends, we made
a good go at it, and it was good. We became what was known as
exclusive.
<br>
But then, after our first meeting, she went straight back
onto the message boards and was asking details about a group
meet ...
2 Comments, 187 Views,
10 Votes
,3.19 Score
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What to do...... 3/19/2005
I have a friend who I think is a drama queen and she goes out
with guys and when things turn bad she wants me to take her
side even though some of the time she is the one at fault and
starts just making stuff up about the guy and wants me to
say it true. I am tired of all the drama and I don't want
to hurt her feelings but I can't keep up with the stuff
she keeps doing.
0 Comments, 40 Views,
2 Votes
,2.42 Score
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What did i do wrong?If anything? 3/17/2005
My ex left me awhile back but a few weeks before breaking
up she said she wanted to have a break wasnt sure what she
meant but we talked less and gave eachother more space basically.
but a few weeks later she decided she didnt want to be together.
we talked a little on the phone after that maybe 5 times max,
and we also wrote emails to eachother every now and then
but eventually all ...
1 Comments, 138 Views,
6 Votes
,4.79 Score
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I don't want to be alone! 3/17/2005
I am sorry I don't have a picture!
How do I break up with my boyfriend, of 8 months?
I love him, but I know he is not good for me. He drinks too much
( I only found out recently that he has been hiding this from
me ). He thinks everything should revolve around him. He
says cruel things to me. I have tried to be very patient with
him because I know he has had a hard life. All my patience ...
0 Comments, 177 Views,
10 Votes
,2.99 Score
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ITS NOT JUST THE WORDS 3/12/2005
Its easier to say its over and turn ur back on that someone
u have loved for so long. but at nite when u close ur eyes to
sleep and u just can't remove the image of him or her
from ur thought. thats when the meaning of ur choice of words
hit u hard on the face....its not just the words that hurt
them but the way they watch u turn ur back on them breaks them
the more.
I do know what it ...
1 Comments, 129 Views,
18 Votes
,4.35 Score
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checked in the heartbreak hotel 3/8/2005
I just lost who Id thought was my love of my life, and I truely
can say I am so empty in my heart that I cant even think straight.
Now if that ant love than I dont know what love is... Anyways
I met this girl from here (AAF) aprox. six month ago and I
am being honest I thought I found the ladie who I have been
searching for my whole life. I was in heaven, so I thought.
Everything was ...
0 Comments, 154 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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What to do 3/7/2005
Being straight forward and honest when it comes breaking
up is fine when both parties agree. It becomes a problem
if one doesnt want to let go. If youve ever been in a relationship
and you have feelings for the other you want to avoid hurting
them. Then emotions take over. Hurtful things are said
and hurtful promises are made. I dont know of any way to avoid
this but Im open to suggestions.
0 Comments, 139 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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An interesting question 3/7/2005
I have never had a bad break up, so I still have pretty good
relationships with my ex-boyfriends/girlfriends. Do
any of you still maintain friendships with the ex?
1 Comments, 137 Views,
5 Votes
,2.16 Score
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My break up 3/7/2005
Sorry about the length but I have to vent….
<br>
At the nice age of 18 I met how I thought was the man of my dreams.
The man that took my breath away, my virginity, and then
my freedom.
He was 28 at the time, and I thought the world of him. Stupid
me. We dated for three years exactly. He introduced me to
the life of S&M. I really grew to love the life stile. The ...
1 Comments, 214 Views,
17 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Don't know what to do... 3/6/2005
Ok just posted something in another topic about this. Anyways
i found the guy of my dreams about 2 years ago, we are so much
alike. We chatted for about 9 months each night, told each
other our deepest secrets, b ecame each others best friend.
Unfortunately he was with another friend of mine. Well
he told me he loved me, that he always would. This has been
on my mind for the longest, ...
6 Comments, 350 Views,
17 Votes
,2.98 Score
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why do feelings change 3/5/2005
i dated this girl for 3 years and all of the sudden she broke
it off with the only reason of things felt different and
that she doesnt feel the same way about me that she used to..now
a few months prior to this she even proposed to me..and a
month before she ended it she was still in love wiht me and
wanted to spend her life with me...now shes not sure if she
ever wants to get back together ...
1 Comments, 164 Views,
9 Votes
,1.29 Score
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Fear of member - please help! 3/5/2005
I am hoping someone can give me some advice. I have been e-mailing through SEXFinder.com and IMing through yahoo with a member of SEXFinder.com. We haven't met yet, but I'm a little afraid of this guy. Not physically, but he has proven himself to be somewhat of a lunatic so I don't trust that he wouldn't do or say something to try and harm me professionally. I haven't given him too many specifics about myself, ...
1 Comments, 98 Views,
5 Votes
,3.14 Score
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Ending an SEXFinder.com relationship 3/4/2005
Ever hook up with someone through SEXFinder.com? Once you had gotten
your fill of that person, did you find it difficult to end
the relationship? Or, did you want to continue the relationship
even after it was fairly obvious that the other person wasn't
interested anymore?
<br>
Well, I've been in both situations and I think it's
harder to be the person trying to break free of the other ...
4 Comments, 257 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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half truths or straight out lies? 2/25/2005
breaking up is hard! I met my b/f a year ago, i let him move
in straight away.(i knew him before as he lived across the
road)aprox 4months later he beat the shit out of me and yes
i took him back.thing otherwise were great sex is fantastic.
then a few weeks before xmas he tried again but i had the upper
hand this time and threw him out(with a fat lip). we didnt
see or speak to each other ...
3 Comments, 229 Views,
31 Votes
,2.57 Score
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When you know he is slipping away... 2/25/2005
When You Know "HE" is Slipping Away
<br>
<br>
10 Questions To Ask Yourself about the relationship...
<br>
1) Are you making all the phone calls to the other person?
2) Does he tell you the truth invariably?
3) Have you been "stood up" without a reasonable
cause?
4) Do you fear he is slipping away, & is that causing
you to "grab and hold"?
5) Are ...
2 Comments, 411 Views,
37 Votes
,2.90 Score
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one sided relationships 2/23/2005
I was in a one sided relationship for 5 years my girlfriend
was not interested in what I wanted to do or my feelings.
I had a nightmare as I did not want to splite up as I was in love
with her and she did not seem bothered if she seen me or not.
It was hard to split up[ as part of me thinks she might have
changed. Anyone go any veiws on this subject ???
3 Comments, 174 Views,
7 Votes
,3.80 Score
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The Best Way 2/22/2005
Wats the best way to break up with someone??? Any good methods
0 Comments, 137 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Ladies first 2/18/2005
In past relationships, I have found it very difficult to
break up when I know it's over. I am a good guy, and I don't
like hurting other people's feelings, so I usually
try to let the female do the breaking up. Does anyone feel
that this is a good or bad idea?
2 Comments, 130 Views,
11 Votes
,2.05 Score
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Best way to break up 2/18/2005
so ive been going out with this girl for 3 months and weve
kinda drifted apart i mean i still love her alot but shes
got alot going on in her life right now and we dont get to spend
alot of time together which sucks cause i love her alot but
ive gotten to the point where i just want to kind've
be done with it.i as just wanderin what anyone would do in
my place?
0 Comments, 107 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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What should I do? 2/16/2005
I went out with a girl for 4 years. We were in love, and when
we broke up it ruined my life. I was a big piece of shit until
almost 2 years later, I started dating this girl I knew from
college. She made me feel great...as great as I had with
my girlfriend before. Well about a month goes by and she
tells me that right before we had started dating, she was
with this guy and she had gotten ...
1 Comments, 161 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Just get it over? 2/13/2005
all aspects of our relationships, permanent or temporary,
what is wrong with being honest? We have to use "handles"
because society requires us to hide our identities. In
writing our profiles, do we generally describe who we really
are? I doubt it, there's always some inflated ego involved,
it's human nature! Would you REALLY respond, IF everyone
gave a "true" description of themselves? Be ...
1 Comments, 74 Views,
13 Votes
,4.32 Score
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EX-BF found on SEXFinder.com 2/6/2005
Alright, the beginning. I was with this guy for alm9ost
three years. We broke up in September, here it is, the month
of feb. I stumbled across his profile long ago. I know it's
him, and all I want to do is say hi, but afraid. I still (no
joke) find myself having dreams about him. Don't know
what do. However, in November, he contacted me, crying
to me and saying how much he missed me ...
5 Comments, 526 Views,
30 Votes
,3.44 Score
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Can you love again? 2/5/2005
My girlfriend of about a year broke up with me on Halloween.
We talked and tried to be friends. In December she told me
she didnt love me anymore. I became suicidal. We tried talking
again and recently I found out she fucked a guy within weeks
of us breaking up. How can I move on cause she is all I think
about. I still love her deeply and think I always will. Any
help will be very ...
5 Comments, 205 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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Ex girlfriend question 2/5/2005
So my ex girlfriend broke with me at the beginning of january.
I've been trying to deal with it for some time now. We've
been hanging out all the time and talking for hours on end
on the phone, and then she asks me if we can cuddle, but that
she doesn't want to make out. So I said sure, because
I havn't had any kind of embrace for a month. We've
done this twice now, and last night she ...
2 Comments, 148 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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Why is it so hard 1/30/2005
Why does it always seem that breaking up is so difficult.
My first wife was the most abusive bitch that I've ever
known. She was a drug addict that totally ruined my life.
She beat me and even tried to kill me. Yet it took me 2 years
to get her out of my mind. I couldn't believe that I missed
her that much. I should of been happy that she was gone.
0 Comments, 108 Views,
7 Votes
,2.02 Score
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ex bf problems 1/29/2005
my ex boyfriend was really abusive and now i love the guy
im with but because of my past i get very upset emotionally
very easily and this makes him feel that he is making me sad,
he is not but when i tell him this he doent understand, what
do you think i should do?
3 Comments, 177 Views,
17 Votes
,3.27 Score
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Not again 1/29/2005
Things never seem to easy in the romance arena, at least
not for me. I was married for thirty years until one night
when I came home from work my wife announced that she wanted
me to leave. I never did find out why because every time I
asked she had a differnt reason.
<br>
About a year later I met a woman that I had always found attractive,
but never did pursue it because I was ...
0 Comments, 103 Views,
3 Votes
,2.45 Score
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Should've known.... 1/28/2005
I just ended a long relationship that I'd been in w/
a guy who worshiped the ground I walked on and wanted to spend
every second w/ me which got kinda old but then he started
to accuse me of cheating on him. Well.......we saw eachother
every single day we'd been dating except two days....TWO.
And on those two days we weren't together, he slept
w/ his ex. how pathetic is that? he couldn't ...
6 Comments, 185 Views,
13 Votes
,2.64 Score
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to keep him or not 1/27/2005
a young girl meets this atractive older guy gets to know
him and start to like him but then finds out he is much older
than he led to believe. now she is torn, her family is already
skeptical at the age thought he was and he is a little clingy.
but she likes him alot but there is this cuter younger guy
who is interested and believes in trust...ummmm.. to keep
him or not to keep him, that is ...
0 Comments, 53 Views,
4 Votes
,2.47 Score
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Leave them alone 1/26/2005
There comes a time when you may break up with that significant
other. Please, make it easier on everyone and just leave
them alone after the fact. More problems arise when you
keep contacting them for whatever reason. Leave your friends
and family out of it, they don't care and will probably
make things worse.
2 Comments, 137 Views,
7 Votes
,4.82 Score
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Do I stay or do I go? 1/23/2005
I recently found out that my boyfriend of four years had
cheated on me last year. I found their emails back and forth
to each other. It was him telling her how much he missed her
and he wouldn't get to have any fun today because he
wouldn't be able to see her. He claims it lasted for
a short time and nothing happened between them. He says
he realized what he wanted, that was me, and ...
6 Comments, 303 Views,
21 Votes
,2.63 Score
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thing's you dont wanna do 1/23/2005
if you're going to break up with ANYBODY, you certainly
dont want to either insult them or do something that will
hurt them badly. No matter how bad that person was to you,
you'll always know that you did as best you could. It
just wasn't meant to be.
1 Comments, 98 Views,
11 Votes
,2.79 Score
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best break up 1/21/2005
we quarel and told each other to go our way...but suddenly
she take off her cloths and i cant resist with a huge hard
on....so she suck my cock and we did 69.....we had sex 6 times
that nite and still be frens and fuck each other now and then.....
2 Comments, 238 Views,
19 Votes
,2.07 Score
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flat wife-bit_h!!! 1/20/2005
I "helped" my best male friend.Sure I knew stuff
about her, I was his closest friend.She was not just hairy, flat, unclean, but
nasty as shit.She was a man's worst nightmare.NOTHING
he did was ever up to her standards.He came to me frequently, sometimes
in tears, sometimes angry.Finally, he called it quits
and came to my house.I opened the door to this guy and he embraced
me-very tightly.I ...
0 Comments, 254 Views,
24 Votes
,3.36 Score
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why??why???why????why??? 1/19/2005
Why do you want to leave me? Ain't I sensitive enuff
to your fucking needs? Uh? Don't I tell you, most of
the time, when I'm getting ready to cum? Don't
I throw you a fucking towel to clean up with? Geez and after
all that, you're leaving me?! I gave you a goddamn dildo
for Christmas, what more do you want? Okay, okay I do
you out to my poker buddies sometimes, but I thought you
liked ...
1 Comments, 96 Views,
16 Votes
,0.48 Score
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WHY CRY? 1/19/2005
WHY STAY THE NITE WHEN U KNOW BY SUN LIGHT U WILL BE GONE...WHY
STAY IN AN AFFAIR IN THE NAME OF SEX......I DID LOVE HIM...I
DID GIVE MY BEST AND EVEN MORE THAN MY BEST...GUESS I REALLY
THOUGHT I WAS IN LOVE BUT IT ENDED AND WE COULDN'T TAKE
THE PAIN....AT FIRST WE ACTED LIKE IT WASN'T PAIN FULL
THEN LATER THE PAIN BECAME CLEAR EVERYONE COULD SEE IT IN
OUR SMILES...WE HAD TIMES TOGETHER ...
1 Comments, 157 Views,
23 Votes
,4.18 Score
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how do u keep a relationship going 1/18/2005
i have dated alot over the years. but i feel head over heals
for this girl. so we dated for a year and half for her to say
we need a break and than a week later her kissing her best
friend and jumping in the sack with him. than her cry back
to me after he left her and now things are good but i find a
message from him say i need head on her cell phone what up
with that.
0 Comments, 114 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Wail and scream when cornered.... 1/18/2005
So your girl caught you in the big one. You told her that you
were at church, while you were really at the strip club for
LapDancing for Tsunami Relief night. She finally realized
that that stain on your pants was not holy water. What now?
What do you do? I find that if you start wailing and screaming
and fall in the floor, that this will distract her long enough
for you to get the Hell out ...
0 Comments, 84 Views,
14 Votes
,2.02 Score
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she loves me but... 1/18/2005
we started dating almost 3 years ago and it was great...i
knew she was the one and she said she couldnt wait to spend
the rest of her life with me..now all of the sudden she says
that its not the same and when we kiss it doesnt feel the same
and something doesnt feel right...this happened all of
the sudden..it was only like a month ago when she still wanted
to spend her life with me and now ...
2 Comments, 156 Views,
13 Votes
,2.64 Score
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Never be afraid.... 1/17/2005
Never be afraid of just running out of the house/apartment/condo/trailer.
If things get too hinky and too melodramatic, just drop
your head, take a deep breath, and then run like Hell. There's
no shame in that. Run for the fucking hills. (One side note:
if you do live in a trailer, you might want to serpentine
when you run, because you know Betty Sue has a gun aimed right
at your ass). ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
9 Votes
,3.43 Score
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The Game 1/17/2005
As an expert of choosing the wrong girls I guess I will take
the time to spout a little nonsense at you. I suppose you
probably don't want to hear or do anything I'm
about to propose but in the end you'll find it works
out the best. If your considering breaking up there should
be a reason right? ok asked and answered but what about those
times when your not really sure what that reason is, ...
3 Comments, 133 Views,
10 Votes
,3.78 Score
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find an outlet..... 1/16/2005
When breaking up, the most important thing is to find an
outlet for your anger. Oh yeah!!! Because if you don't
then that beast will eat you alive. It will turn you into
a monster. It will kill your soul. If you don't deal
directly and completely with your anger, it will come back
and poison every subsequent relationship. Deal with it,
do not ignore it. Now is not the time to be macho.
1 Comments, 54 Views,
8 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Has Honesty Died?? 1/16/2005
If you are going to break up with someone at least have the
decency to be honest about it, i mean i don't think that
is to much to ask for. My boyfriend dumbed me saying "i
want to focus more of my grades then a girlfriend right now"
and I bought it. But two weeks after we broke up i see him at
a restuarnt celebrating his six month anniversery with
a girl who goes to his school. What was ...
4 Comments, 193 Views,
32 Votes
,3.52 Score
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Lusty love 1/16/2005
You see her(mistress), sexy as hell. You fuck within minutes
of seeing each other.Your girlfriend does not know.You
love the mistress, you like your girlfriend.You think
girlfriend cooks etc, mistress takes care of you! Keep
them both, without them knowing.
2 Comments, 233 Views,
17 Votes
,3.69 Score
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makin it stick 1/14/2005
I am having some measure of difficulty in getting through
to my ex wife that my decision to divorce is really not reversable,
there is nothing there anymore , other than a good friendship.
Am I alone in this or does it happen alot?
3 Comments, 76 Views,
15 Votes
,1.91 Score
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when to end things 1/14/2005
when to end a relationship depends on a few things, but if
you think the relationship is not going well, the longer
you wait to see if things are going to get better, the harder
it is to break up with that person. If you feel that you are
no longer interested in that person, and you don't
think things will get better, end it sooner rather than
later. If the person is abusive to you, end it ...
1 Comments, 187 Views,
40 Votes
,3.88 Score
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just do it... 1/14/2005
Just do it, goddammit. Use a fucking stilleto and not a dull
butter knife. Make the cut sharp and clean and swift. Why
drag it out, why watch with glee while I bleed in the fucking
snow? You got no fucking joy while we were together, why
are you getting so much joy now? What is it about my pain that
excites you? Makes you fucking wet. Just do it. Fucking
do it!
0 Comments, 95 Views,
17 Votes
,1.85 Score
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Lonelyness 1/13/2005
Why is it me that always ends up with a broken heart. Yes thats
right i'm a man, my first wife left me with my two young
daughters some 14 years ago.
<br>
I met a lady who after living together for 5 years we decided
to tie the knot.
Seven years later in the middle of the night while i was sleeping
she got up and left off with another man.
<br>
For me that was ...
0 Comments, 57 Views,
22 Votes
,5.65 Score
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C.B 1/13/2005
Things are said between two people, games are played, emotions
are tammpered with, just make sure you are on the right
page, before you over step the boundry, and loose someone
very special to you.......Maby even someone you were falling
in love with.SORRY.you know how you are....I will regret
this 4ever
1 Comments, 82 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Out Growing someone 1/9/2005
I want to Thank eveyone on SEXFinder.com. I found alot of support from
this SEXFinder.com community on my first artical so i thought i would
post a second one about the same relationship. I've
been with my GF for 3 years and I feel that im out growing her
too fast. In fact ive already out grown all of my friends,
except one or two close ones. I have huge dreams and ambitions
that i want achieve and it ...
0 Comments, 83 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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closure 1/7/2005
Well we were together for allmost 3 and a half years. I can
honestly say that 90% percent of the relationship was really
good. we both started using meth a lil bit, i started to sling
it for a while also. I have to say this i never cheated on her
EVER!! well anyway with the latenight phone calls and me
running around till the we hour`s of the morning had gottin
old for her. she gave ...
1 Comments, 151 Views,
14 Votes
,2.50 Score
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where to go and what to do 1/7/2005
One morning my girlfriend of 2 years woke up and told me that
she wanted to move out. That she was not happy with who she
had become and that she hated being dependent on me. I love
her so much, and can see that it is something that she had
to do because she was truly not happy, but she tells me that
she loves me and misses me. How do I go around getting her
back? We had so many awesome ...
6 Comments, 257 Views,
20 Votes
,3.89 Score
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Should i break up with her? 1/6/2005
I have been dating this girl for over 11 months now and we
are good for eachother. We both love each other...but lately
i have been getting bored with her, even though i still love
her i want other women. I am not sure what to do, end it and
have fun. Or will i lose something i won't find again??
3 Comments, 150 Views,
9 Votes
,2.36 Score
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Bad SEXFinder.com experience 1/6/2005
I met a man on SEXFinder.com last Summer. I am married, and so is he. We
were truthful with each other, and started a relationship.
For 3 months, we e-mailed and/or sent text messages every
day, and we told each other all sorts of things about ourselves.
I was aware that his wife suffers from a psychological illness--in
fact, that was something we had in common, as my husband
has suffered in the ...
13 Comments, 555 Views,
31 Votes
,2.76 Score
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How can people be friends 1/4/2005
Hello here is the question how can people truely be friends
after they break up. THe only way that people can be friends
and it not be a disfuctional friendship is if both people
are in a serious relationship. It seems to always go the
person who has someone special in there life wants to stay
friends. That is impossible if that other person did not
want to relationship to end in the first ...
2 Comments, 161 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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HELP.. 1/4/2005
Is there really an easy way to break up...what if you really
do care about the guy but you need time to figure out who you
are and you feel you need to do this alone...Is there somehtng
wrong with that??and how the hell do you convince them thats
really what you need to do not jsut an excuse to break up?
2 Comments, 153 Views,
15 Votes
,2.67 Score
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The Curse of the Net 1/3/2005
The Curse of the Net Having been on and off dating sites and
networking sites like this one for the past 2+ years I have
come to the conclusion that there is a Blessing / Curse aspect
to all of this.
<br>
The BLESSING is that you can meet some great people from
just about anywhere in the world.
<br>
The CURSE is that after forming a friendship and, in some
cases ...
1 Comments, 128 Views,
8 Votes
,3.25 Score
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The hardest thing is letting go.... 1/1/2005
I was with my boyfriend for a little over 2 years when out
of nowhere he called and told me that he could no longer see/talk
to me. It was a complete shock that I wasn't expecting.
We had a great relationship. I mean it was perfect, but nothing
ever is. We would argue off and on, but nothing major. When
he called and broke up with me he told me it was because he
needed to do his own ...
2 Comments, 100 Views,
7 Votes
,4.06 Score
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Trying to Maintain the Friendship after the Breakup 1/1/2005
Me and my boyfriend called it quits after six months but
we always promised each other that no matter what happened
to our relationship we'd always maintain our friendship.
But now he's seeing this other girl and he's asking
me advice about her and i don't want to hear about it.
Don't get me wrong or anything i want him to be happy
and i don't want him back or anything i just don't
want to ...
0 Comments, 143 Views,
6 Votes
,2.23 Score
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Is cheating bad? 12/30/2004
Ive been in a relationship for almost 3 yrs and while i love
her to death, i have this urge to go out and play around with
other women. Our relationships can sometimes be on the
rocks, but for the most part it has been smooth sailing.
Shes a good girl with the best intensions, yet she always
has an eye out over my should to see if im ganna cheat on her
and has a lot of other relationship ...
3 Comments, 138 Views,
6 Votes
,2.80 Score
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What to do 12/29/2004
I have been married for a long time, but met a woman on SEXFinder.com
a year ago. At first I thought it was just a quick thing, but
then I fell in love with this woman. I am not sure what to do
at this point, but I know she means more to me than my wife
does.
I am just lookong for some advice at this point.
7 Comments, 127 Views,
7 Votes
,1.00 Score
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dump her fast 12/28/2004
if you want to break up, just do it right. dont try and be friends,
dont talk to her. move on with your life so that you can move
on as well. the quicker you stop communicating, the quicker
you will forget
1 Comments, 49 Views,
8 Votes
,1.86 Score
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WHAT TO DO 12/28/2004
What is the best way to break up with your partner if you have
been together for a long time?
1 Comments, 91 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Let it go... 12/26/2004
It's not easy to break up with someone you really care
about, especially if you know that it's going to hurt
them. But, you've done it and you're strangely
releived. Finally, as far as you're concerned, it's
over. However, you soon discover, the ex just won't
let it go. He keeps calling, "just to check in"
and he writes you e-mails in which he pathetically explains
that he missed your ...
7 Comments, 152 Views,
34 Votes
,3.69 Score
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What should I do?!? 12/25/2004
Ok, I've been with this girl for 2 years in February.
It was going great for the first year and 6 months, but recently
it's been going straight down the shit hole. We have
completely stopped having sex, I'm lucky to recieve/give
oral every 3-4 weeks, she hits me, makes me do everything
that she doesn't want to, verbally abuses me, spends
all of my money, and I have no idea what to do. This ...
3 Comments, 24 Views,
7 Votes
,2.79 Score
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done 12/24/2004
breacking up is a change of the way you live what you do day
to day it, s also a feeling that hurts a feeling that there
is a longing there that can, t be found i have never had a
good breack uo i don, t think there is one
0 Comments, 60 Views,
17 Votes
,2.14 Score
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Good breakup? 12/23/2004
Anybody ever have a good breakup? I dated a girl through
highschool and four years of college..Totally in love
the entire time we even got engaged our senior year of college.
When she came home we realized things had changed and after
four years of a long distance relationship we just just
weren't cut out to be together ALL the time..Long story
short we called it off and stopped seeing each ...
1 Comments, 47 Views,
7 Votes
,3.30 Score
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Is This What We Want 12/23/2004
In this bed I lie alone,
Through stupid acts of years gone by.
No loving arms to hold me tight,
No head upon my shoulder.
My heart cries out for days long gone,
And yet, for freedom gained and foolish pride,
I accept my life as is and as will be.
And in this bed I lie alone.
1 Comments, 89 Views,
19 Votes
,3.78 Score
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How do you get rid of the ex bf? 12/21/2004
I recently started dating a lady from SEXFinder.com, she has broken
up with her boyfriend whom lived with her. He continues
to just walk into her home without knocking, and uninvited.
I feel like just beating the s**t out of him, but I'm
afraid that would just cause her to dislike me and go back
to him. He doesn't come there when I'm there.....HELP
4 Comments, 132 Views,
10 Votes
,2.19 Score
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Breaking up 12/21/2004
So how does everyone cope with breaking up around here,
any special way to make it less painfull.
3 Comments, 131 Views,
12 Votes
,2.62 Score
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Picking up the pieces 12/21/2004
This is going to be just as depressing and pathetic as the
rest of these, I'm afraid, so just bear with me.
<br>
I met my ex 2 years ago after a concert (we both sing). I got
the nerve to ask her out to dinner and it went from there.
It developed really fast, but from my point of view everything
was good.
<br>
The troubles began over the summer, when, out of classes, ...
2 Comments, 110 Views,
8 Votes
,2.32 Score
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Let a break up be a break up. 12/21/2004
Don't call. Don't IM. Don't write. Don't
text message. It's never gong to get better. Let it
end if it is what you hzve chosen to do.
2 Comments, 141 Views,
26 Votes
,2.81 Score
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...it's hard to do 12/20/2004
So, I've learned a hard lesson this last month... sometimes
it's true what the song says: "Sometimes Love
Just Ain't Enough".
My guy and I are in love and are crazy about each other, yet
we can't get the trust thing down quite right. He thinks
I'm off whoring around whenever I'm not with him
and I can't do anything to make him think otherwise.
I would NEVER cheat on my man... EVER! ...
6 Comments, 150 Views,
53 Votes
,5.46 Score
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Knowing what to do, not wanting to do it 12/20/2004
After reading through about 6 pages of these for advice
I still know not what to do. I have been seeing someone for
about 6 months and find I just don't see a future with
her. She is a wonderful person and has not really done anything
to upset me. Infact, I have never been treated so well. So
all I need to do is be honest and communicate this. The problem
is that I fear what will happen to ...
5 Comments, 127 Views,
10 Votes
,4.78 Score
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My disasterous affair with a married man!!! 12/19/2004
I am not married, but, I am embarrassed to say that I was until
recently involved with a married man.
<br>
When Anthony and I became friends I was going through a very
rough period. I was lonely, hurt, not to mention depressed.
I was healing from a previous relationship. He was a real
charmer, and, a really nice person.
<br>
I have known Anthony for years (though we ...
0 Comments, 49 Views,
51 Votes
,6.13 Score
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the ex factor 12/19/2004
Just want advice on what i should do - my ex broke up with me
about 4 months ago, after he went travelling to the us/canada
for 2 months. we were moving to brisbane, australia together
when he got back.
well when he got back, we were basically ready to move to
brisbane, but he kept delaying me from coming over. so it
was about 6 weeks since he returned and i called him up to
see what ...
0 Comments, 48 Views,
6 Votes
,2.51 Score
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My Dilemma 12/18/2004
Three Months Ago My ex-girlfriend breaks up with me after
1 1/2 years. We Talked here and there & over the last
month or so I had not talked to her at all. Well here is the
deal she said she called to see what was going on with me &
stuff, she also said that her parents have an x-mas present
for me and to feel free to come by anytime. As You all know
this is the time of year when people ...
6 Comments, 125 Views,
40 Votes
,3.80 Score
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Why is it so hard to break up? 12/18/2004
Over the years I have dated many women and each time I see
the relationship is over I find it very hard to break up.
Eventually I just wait it out until they do it. Does anyone
have any reason why?
2 Comments, 28 Views,
11 Votes
,0.55 Score
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Best way to forget 12/18/2004
They say the best way is to give your heart time to heal. I
say find a fuck buddy. I found another woman within a few
days and I totally forgot about a 4 year relationship. Oh,
I forgot to mention, try finding someone who is 10 years
younger then your X because, it helps and the hotter the
better. later give it to god!
4 Comments, 174 Views,
16 Votes
,2.69 Score
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What can I do?!? 12/17/2004
About a year ago, I had broke up with my girlfriend of three
years. I loved this girl more than life itself. I have never
loved anyone like this before and I feel that she still is
the one for me. The reason for the break-up was based on an
argument that we had that escalated into a fight. Since
then she and I have calmed down and we still see each other,
but she made it clear that she was ...
0 Comments, 58 Views,
15 Votes
,3.59 Score
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Advice Would Be Great 12/16/2004
I recently got through a very emotionaly shattering divorce.
The problem is, my ex still wants me in her life, but only
on her terms. I still love her, and want to be with her. She
wants nothing at all to do with that idea, and wants to simly
remain friends. It's tearing me apart to see her when
I do, and to know full well that she feels this way. Any advice
anyone has would really be ...
4 Comments, 44 Views,
18 Votes
,2.44 Score
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be blunt 12/15/2004
the only way to really break up with someone is to be blunt
i had the problem of sugar coating everything and i broke
up with a girl but everything was still the same i finally
had to decide to that it was time to really let her know that
she wasnt what i wanted nemore
1 Comments, 29 Views,
4 Votes
,3.25 Score
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Why? 12/14/2004
If someone is in a commited relationship, why would they
come here?
Is there anything you could do about it, like confront them
and get them to stop? How should you approach them?
What if they refuse to admit what they're doing even
though you have hard and fast proof? Should you tell them
how you found out and admit that you've been checking
up on them?
Ok, I guess I'll be up front ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
17 Votes
,4.26 Score
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harsh treatment 12/14/2004
my ex broke up with me about a month ago. she still calls and
text messages and emails, and most of it is to be mean and
tell me how horrible the relationship was. she wanted to
be friends, and i was okay with that. but now that she knows
i date, and i moved on, it's like she's pissed off
about it. i don't get it...she wanted to be friends,
and that is exactly what i am trying to be to ...
3 Comments, 45 Views,
9 Votes
,2.57 Score
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The Militia 12/11/2004
You know it's really a pitty. Not just a few days ago
my girlfriend and I were supposed to meet each other and
yesterday she got arrested by the militia in London for
a ring that she had on her finger, that the militia said was
stolen property from 5 years ago and yet I had only sent her
that ring by mail last week. So now she is paying the penalty
of $1250 or else she will be locked up in ...
4 Comments, 20 Views,
16 Votes
,2.83 Score
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How do you let her know that she is not the one? 12/11/2004
What is the best way to break up with a girl for another better
girl? Especially if you have been in the relationship for
over a year, and she is completely attached?
<br>
any ideas?
4 Comments, 19 Views,
20 Votes
,3.00 Score
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It happens to everyone! 12/11/2004
Love comes and goes and everyone sometime in there life
experiences a painful breakup. Breakups change a person,
sometimes for the best, sometimes for the worst. After
breakups people tend to see the mistakes they made when
they were blinded by a relationship. Breakups tend to make
people want to show the person they love or loved that they
are fine and they are over them. People do ...
0 Comments, 73 Views,
22 Votes
,3.25 Score
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"The Rules" 12/10/2004
Don't cheat on your partnet, always be faithful??
<br>
Yet some of the most strongest relationships i've
seen are where both partners regulary explore themselves
sexually outside their relationship, however they both
love each other completely.
<br>
Why do relationships break up??
<br>
The most common is Jelousy, a huge emotion that makes us
act ...
1 Comments, 34 Views,
35 Votes
,4.91 Score
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Bad relationship 12/10/2004
I started talking with a man here on SEXFinder.com about a year ago when
I lived in Fla. He was in Ga and our chats were hot and interesting.
Due to a lot of situations, I moved to Ga and the two of us met
face to face and started seeing each other. This went on
for over 4 months. Over that period of time, he told me that
he had cancer and our relationship did not go much further
than hugs, kisses ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
22 Votes
,3.49 Score
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Sex after breaking up 12/9/2004
I do agree with the previous author that it's dam good
and nice. You after breaking up if you catch up with your
ex it will be like a forbiden re-union. Sometimes you don't
like the remainder of the community to know, so the funny
of it lies in the sense that you will be stealing each other.
Will find that these relationships don't die for there
is a lot fun
0 Comments, 13 Views,
19 Votes
,2.86 Score
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Annoyed 12/8/2004
Ok, so i have been dating this guy for a month. During the
first week and a half we were exclusive, and it was great.
He went on a trip to visit family for 2 weeks. as soon as he
left all these opportunities came up to cheat but i didnt.
i told him i needed to be able to date other people, and he
said it was ok but he didnt want anyone else. so now i fuck
other people on the side, and i ...
1 Comments, 65 Views,
25 Votes
,3.68 Score
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what is the common way to say your not interested? 12/7/2004
Has anyone talked to someone for awhile and just decided
they did not like the person anymore. What did you do in this
case? New to this site and suggestions would be nice.
3 Comments, 19 Views,
11 Votes
,3.54 Score
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sucks 12/7/2004
pain, lonleyness, hurt, anger, guilt, all part of
breaking up in this day and age people tend to date only on
money or look's or sex, sad to say noone want's
to take time and get to know one another, were all out trying
to see what we can get and how fast we can get in some women/man
pant's so when it it's over and they do break up
some of us are left wondering did i do something wrong i ...
0 Comments, 13 Views,
11 Votes
,2.98 Score
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Check this out!!! 12/7/2004
So my girlfriend cathches me playing on SEXFinder.com...never meeting
with anyone in person, check checking out a few profiles
and pics....she wants to break up...is she right? or should
i stop playing around on SEXFinder.com?
6 Comments, 35 Views,
21 Votes
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yes yes yes 12/6/2004
Why is it so hard to break up with someone when they tell us
they don't want us in their lives still? This is puzzling
me... What do you think?
1 Comments, 14 Views,
5 Votes
,4.45 Score
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Sucks 12/5/2004
This is the hardest part of this site, Knowing when and how
to break up. Then, finding out that you would rather be with
the person you found on SEXFinder.com then with your spouse. WOW!
1 Comments, 60 Views,
8 Votes
,3.94 Score
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Time to Go 11/30/2004
We often wait around so long that the unlucky other begins
to stray anyway. Just get it over with and move on. This site
will help you do just that.
0 Comments, 5 Views,
15 Votes
,6.19 Score
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The hardest thing to do... 11/28/2004
I am going through a separation right now. I wonder how many
others are out there just like me. She has left the decision
as far as divorce up to me. I've not been happy with our
relationship from the day, or night I should say, that we
got married. We didn't have sex until marriage, as
was the tradition in our families. So, I found out, too late,
how bad it really can be. She hates ...
1 Comments, 13 Views,
22 Votes
,5.53 Score
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My heart cried for months 11/27/2004
I was with my ex for 2 years. We had planned on getting married.
I found out that he was lying/screwing around for the duration
of our relationship. Even after I found out I was willing
to "work" out our problems...he just contined
to lie and fuck around. I still hang out with him and sometimes
have sex. But the trust is gone...I do not see a future with
him. He has since also been "moving ...
0 Comments, 35 Views,
18 Votes
,6.54 Score
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whats my deal? 11/27/2004
for some reason, even though weve been broken up for a while,
and ive dated a few others, i still cant get over my ex girlfriend.
do i miss her or having a commited relationship?
1 Comments, 18 Views,
14 Votes
,4.26 Score
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Relationships: 11/26/2004
When a relationship ends, a women will cry and pour her heart
out to her girlfriends, and she will write a poem, "All
Men Are Idiots." Then she will get on with her life.
A man has a little more trouble letting go. Six months after
the breakup, at 3:00 am on a saturday night, he will call
and say, "I just called to let you know you ruined my
life, and I'll never forgive you, and I hate you, ...
1 Comments, 51 Views,
29 Votes
,4.84 Score
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Coming to terms w/the ending of a relationship 11/26/2004
We as humans are habitual creatures, meaning we're
used to doing things as a routine. Yes, that means relationships
too, we choose mates based on qualities we find attractive
or ourselves attracted to. As we progress in relationships,
the bond gets more intense.
<br>
But, the downside to this, when it ends, the bond is severed,
there is a pain that resides. Depending on the ...
1 Comments, 14 Views,
15 Votes
,6.81 Score
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Why physical abused women stay? 11/25/2004
In the news today a 21 yrs was klled by the husband in the middle
of Berlin. It is such a sad thing she is just 21. Surely that
was not the first time.
<br>
Ever wonder why your best friend stay with her abusive husband?
sure you do see them everyday at work, classes, shopping,
at the doctor or in the street with blue eyes or rimping.
Try asking them what happen and you will get ...
2 Comments, 42 Views,
12 Votes
,6.86 Score
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EX'S are that for a reason!! 11/25/2004
Why is it that so many people tend to go back to an EX? They
are an ex for a reason right? Was it a big mistake to leave
them in the first place? Obviously not because at the time
there were reasons!! Unless you were the one that got burnt
but WHY would you go back to someone after they have dissed
you like that? Never look back I say
3 Comments, 59 Views,
40 Votes
,8.59 Score
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I Must Walk Alone (Better said with a poem)!! 11/25/2004
I wish that there were two of me, then one could go and the
other stay, but there is only one you see... I must be free.
I must walk a solitary road each decision must be my own.
I need to live...alone. There are so many things in life,
my life that I want to see, feel , taste and hear. I must do
this on my own. If there could be two of me...I would spend
each and everyday in the comfort of ...
0 Comments, 24 Views,
13 Votes
,6.67 Score
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break up 11/23/2004
is there a good way to break up?? how can u be gentil when i
say i dont luv u anymore??
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15 Votes
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How?? 11/22/2004
How do i tell my boyfriend I am on this site and then i am finding
other guys. I still love him but he lives 5 hours away and
I wanna just be "best friends" instead. He thinks
im still a virgin like he is but i am far from it...
2 Comments, 82 Views,
39 Votes
,8.12 Score
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LIes and Disrespect 11/22/2004
This is a true story to a lady named sagit. To be able to forget
a condom up inside you then go and see your man of the last
2years and ingage in intercourse only to have him find it
is a act of ignoreance and disgust. Thank You Sexysagit
for a experinence I wont ever forgive or forget.
LuckyLarrooe
0 Comments, 25 Views,
18 Votes
,1.08 Score
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Novel Approach to Breaking Up 11/21/2004
This is what my ex-b/f did to me after an 18-year relationship.
He left to go to Europe to teach conversational English
classes in Russia! And he has no experience or degree to
teach at all! He's a floor covering installer here
in the states.
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So, he leaves me to run his business, take care of the house
that's in his name, and is running about Europe having
the time of his ...
0 Comments, 42 Views,
29 Votes
,7.55 Score
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when you've lost the love of your life 11/16/2004
When I very first saw her I walked up to her and said "You
look like an angel. Can I kiss you?" She said "Yes."
We were together for 3 yrs from that day. I asked her to marry
me and she said yes. But one day out of now where I was thrown
out of the house, with nothing. To this day I have no answers
of why. I thought things were fine. that day I was on my way
to work and she called on my ...
4 Comments, 21 Views,
28 Votes
,5.40 Score
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rainy day yearnings 11/15/2004
Ahhh today is the perfect cuddlefuck day! Bet You would
have had fun had You relaxed and had me that way... rain or
care this rare should not be wasted. Maybe somebody else,
old or new. pleased You better butttt NObody could wish
to do so more. As instructed i took Your magic hand and trusted.
Hand or trust i cannot now see. Is THIS the safety DaddyShark
offered me?
<br>
Your ...
0 Comments, 26 Views,
33 Votes
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sex 11/15/2004
if you dont get enough sex, dump your partner
2 Comments, 15 Views,
27 Votes
,1.87 Score
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Do We Have to Be Enemies? 11/15/2004
I always seem to have people mad at me because I am not mad
at them when we break up. If something doesn't logically
work, but you are obviously connected.....why do you have
to be negative towards one another? You just change the
nature of the relationship. No love lost, right?
3 Comments, 257 Views,
71 Votes
,8.14 Score
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Moving on, when you are forced to and have no other choice!!! 11/15/2004
I just concluded an 8 year relationship with the Angel of
my dreams. Yeah, it's heart breaking but this was her
decision and trust me, when it's over - it's over
and all the cards and flowers will not do anything but waste
your time, money, and energy. If you feel that it will help
your heart feel better to do this, maybe it will ease some
of the the pain. But like I said, you're wasting ...
1 Comments, 31 Views,
37 Votes
,8.15 Score
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In the Dark 11/14/2004
I went with a man for almost a year that I met thru SEXFinder.com. We had
great times together, in and out of the bedroom. Then for
no reason that I can think of, he ended it with absolutely
NO EXPLANATION whatsoever. He wrote me a "Dear Jane"
email and said "Thanks for your friendship. Good
luck in the future." To say I was stunned is putting
it mildly. I have thought about it off and on for the ...
1 Comments, 8 Views,
22 Votes
,7.81 Score
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what do the members think to this?? 11/14/2004
i knew someone, thought we both had it made, would have done
anything for him and with him, together 5 yrs.......he
asked me to marry him 3 times and twice i went thro with it,
for him to pull out at the last minute. not only that, but
he stole from me regularly, cheated, lied, loads more,
am i in the wrong to say that i still care about him, in one
way im not, cos what we did share was ...
3 Comments, 55 Views,
35 Votes
,6.06 Score
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How to overcome 11/14/2004
It is - almost- always hard to overcome such a big thing as
a breakup. But what kind of ways there are for it?
<br>
It takes time. Nothing interests and everything if so dark
and colorless.. It's about taking one's time.
<br>
What kind of ways you have for such a thing as this?
1 Comments, 10 Views,
25 Votes
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2 years gone 11/11/2004
yeah so tuesday the 9th she broke up with me, i deserved it
i guess....time to move on
3 Comments, 11 Views,
29 Votes
,7.05 Score
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when life throughs you a curve 11/9/2004
My wife and I have been together for three years and things
were going good untill the burth of our . He was born with
Mecomun aspiration sydronome, (when a fetus has a bowe
movement before they are born) and we almost lost him. For
some reason after that we have been on a rocky road ever since.
We have sat down a talked untill the cows came home about
our problems but to no avail. ...
1 Comments, 12 Views,
34 Votes
,7.73 Score
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No strings? 11/8/2004
We met on line and hit it off right from the get go. She love
to give oral and I loved to receive it! We met twice for 4 hours
each time. Both of us had multiple orgasms and it was great.
I told her my wife was getting a little suspect, and I wanted
a little time. Now she treats me like the plaque! I will never
understand why a "no strings" relationship has so many
strings. Why can't it ...
4 Comments, 20 Views,
20 Votes
,7.08 Score
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It takes two.... but you are all you need! 11/8/2004
My boyfriend and I were in a relationship recently for over
5 years. It started out as a codependent, abusive and jealous
relationship. When we became pregnant (surprise) we started
to improve ourselves. I would take 5 steps ahead and then
when he fell backwards he would end up dragging me with him.
Back and forth and back and forth.
<br>
We both enables eachother to wallow in ...
1 Comments, 21 Views,
44 Votes
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you have to keep good w/ex 11/8/2004
I broke up 4 yrs ago and still get pussy calls! At least once
a month the ex is on the line. Since then I havent had a girl
friend but plenty of grils. but for some feason the ex is
always fun and easy, no bull shit movie and date, just straight
hook up and fuck. so dont be sad to break up make good whit
it.
<br>
Bong hit 420 blueberry says.
2 Comments, 4 Views,
37 Votes
,6.88 Score
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break up sex 11/6/2004
what do you say when a girl doesnt want to drop it of 1 more
time thats what you dont want you wanna play it out and try
have a friendly break up that way you can hit it 1 last time
and finally youll be able to blow your load on her face and
all in her mouth
0 Comments, 18 Views,
15 Votes
,4.20 Score
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How to break up? 11/5/2004
Wondering what is the best way to break up with this girl
i've been seeing? Over the phone, sms, or in person are my
options. I don't awnt to see or hear her cry so i'm thinking
sms is the best way? what does everyone else think?
1 Comments, 21 Views,
9 Votes
,2.78 Score
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Love Sucks 11/4/2004
Well Ive been single for about 3 and a half years but here
is why ive been so.
When i was with my last girlfriend we were going out for about
3 months. One day i got off work earlier than what i told her
to suprise her at her appartment to show her some affection.
When i went home to shower and change i heard some disturbing
noises from my own bedroom. Needless to say i knew what they ...
0 Comments, 7 Views,
29 Votes
,6.55 Score
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say hello, say no thanks, say goodbye ffs! 11/3/2004
HELLO/GOODbye Common Courtesy..
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my autoreply suggests that a nonresponse might be my response-nonetheless
usually i reply with a hi or no thanks (no explanation necessary--but
block is at times)
<br>
when someone comes into a room, real or cyberchat, i say
hello ( in chat with a bit of info re myself similar to asl)
<br>
when it is time to stop.. ...
0 Comments, 6 Views,
16 Votes
,6.21 Score
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scaring... 11/2/2004
Breaking up, of course, takes its toll on both sides of the
prior relationship. The few things I learned is that a scare
will always remain, but it will lessen and be controllable;
there is always something positive to gain from the relationship
and one must always move forward.
1 Comments, 9 Views,
27 Votes
,4.40 Score
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Time 4 a change 11/1/2004
Best thing to do after a break up and find a hottie and fuck
them regularly for a few weeks. By then you've forgotten
your ex and can move on.
1 Comments, 18 Views,
21 Votes
,4.12 Score
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I just broke up with a girl 10/31/2004
What is the best way to break up with someone. I dont even
know how to handle a break up myself much less make it easier
on the other person. Can anyone give me advice on either.
Ihave dated the girl for 2 years and we are not working out.
1 Comments, 25 Views,
20 Votes
,5.04 Score
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divorce 10/28/2004
so my brother just got married, my parents are getting divorced,
the only girl i love is marrying my best friend and is moving
away soon...does anyone else think that's all a bit
much?
2 Comments, 6 Views,
56 Votes
,6.63 Score
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breaking up is hard to do 10/28/2004
what are some really good ways to break up with crazy (literally)
girlfriends, without having them commit suicide (literally)?
1 Comments, 10 Views,
12 Votes
,2.27 Score
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When to let go 10/26/2004
This is unique story and I think I tell it for closure. I actually
plan to make it a book some day. My best friend was my childhood
sweetheart as well. We have been friends for 20 years as
well as on again off again. He was always there for me. Even
when he was too blind to see that I was ready to be with him,
I accepted this and let him go on with his life. He got married.
She was so ...
0 Comments, 30 Views,
41 Votes
,7.55 Score
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Misery 10/25/2004
I'm trying to break up with my girlfriend but the process
is miserable and I don't know quite how to end it without
hurting her.
1 Comments, 6 Views,
30 Votes
,5.00 Score
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Make it clean; minimize the pain 10/24/2004
So often people talk in terms of not wanting to hurt the other
party in a break-up situation. That's a valid consideration
and often times reflects that even while the magic has gone,
there are lingering feelings and care about the other person.
<br>
Yet dragging out the process - whether it's being mean
to help provoke the other partner, using the let's
just be friends suggestion, ...
1 Comments, 42 Views,
27 Votes
,7.66 Score
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Man enough to say goodbye? (warning sexist lang used) 10/24/2004
So, i know that Men have a hard time witnessing pain that
is not sexually oriented---and even some that is (read
childbirth) but goodness gracious..
in an earlier post someone said something about breaking
up by text message...
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isn't that.. or an email, or a voice mail or a phone call
better than nothing?
<br>
OR if HE is MAN enough..sit face to face and SAY ...
2 Comments, 31 Views,
30 Votes
,6.08 Score
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Breaking up by mobile 10/21/2004
What are we becoming when people are using their mobile
phone to end relationships? All you have to do is send a text
to the person that you are breaking up with and it's
all over. This is a person that you have shared interment
moment with, have cared for and maybe even loved. I think
if you are going to break up with your partner it should be
done face to face. Have the guts to stand ...
0 Comments, 23 Views,
18 Votes
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Back to friends? 10/21/2004
I have been dating this woman for almost a year and a half,
we eventually moved in together. I am paying for everything
so she can go back to school. Last month she told me that she
just wants to be friends again. I keep asking for sex but
she just shoots me down. Last weekend she said she was tires
of the pressure and she moved out to live with family until
she finishes school, but she ...
0 Comments, 32 Views,
33 Votes
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RE: Why Should Women Accept it When Men Cheat....... 10/20/2004
Tigress...I am sorry for your pain but I heard some advice
a long time ago concerning being involved with a married
man. If he will cheat on his wife (who may also be the mother
of his )...someone he presumably has an emotional
and financial connection to...what makes you think he
wouldn't also cheat on you?
1 Comments, 28 Views,
56 Votes
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she is a biatch 10/18/2004
my ex is a biatch she has to fuck with anyone she even fucked
with her cousin! and she doesnt know why?
we still have sex but i wonder wat is going thru her head!
if someone can explain me why she fucks with ppl without
thinking that it could be wrong that pls contact me!
1 Comments, 9 Views,
18 Votes
,4.22 Score
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Why does it hurt when a married man says MY WIFE KNOWS 10/16/2004
I was just wondering why does it hurt when a man says my wife
knows about you.Love is not supposed to hurt.But when he
told me i cannot see you anymore my wife found all your emails
it hurt i cried i 100% fell in love with this guy i know he still
loves me and i told him i still love him.He did not mean to
hurt me or break my heart or make me cry but he did he is sorry
for that but it still ...
0 Comments, 15 Views,
11 Votes
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is it worth chasing a old flame 10/16/2004
Aold flame wants to start again.after a few years of abscence
is it worth it.??//
0 Comments, 10 Views,
11 Votes
,4.10 Score
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What not to do. 10/14/2004
I met a really nice lady, and we had some good times togeather.
She decided to break off what we had, and talked me into going
back to my wife. She is a super lady, who for a time was a lover.
Well, she and I met for coffee and departed as friend, saying
we'll stay in touch. About 2 weeks before the coffee
date, she said that we shouldn't see eachother anymore,
and was giving me advise ...
0 Comments, 33 Views,
9 Votes
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GF DRIVING ME NUTS!!! 10/13/2004
I am currently in a horrible relationship and am finding myself flirting with other women and pursuing other things with them. How am i supposed to make it any easier to break up without any feelings being hurt..... or stuff being broken lol
1 Comments, 71 Views,
13 Votes
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here today gone tomorrow 10/11/2004
I was playing with a guy on the internet. He said all the right words and was planning a future or so I thought for us. Then we talk on the phone one day and he tells me he's not over his last love. She dumped him when the going got tough. Why can't men just move on and not hurt another woman?
5 Comments, 290 Views,
15 Votes
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Break Up 10/10/2004
Recently, My Girlfriend Of 17 Months Broke Up With Me. There Were No Warning Signs Everything Was Great. We Talked About Marriage, The Whole Bit,Quite A Few Times.
The Reasons She Gave Me Were Totaly Lame. For Example
She Said She Needed To "Find Herself".
Everyone I Tell That Too Just Laughs,
We Talked A Few Times On The Phone, The Other Day I Sent Her A Card For What Would Have Been Our 18 ...
2 Comments, 28 Views,
4 Votes
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