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troubles with breaking up   3/16/2008

to me breaking up can be a relief and a also one of the hardest things to do, having been on both side of a break up i can say that neither one is really better than the other. to be the one broken up with usually has the pain of thinkin things were going good suddenly bad, while being the one doing the break up often leaves u wondering if u should do it or how upset will the other person be. ...


0 Comments, 19 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_adolphus87 37 M
9  Articles
it.... hurts!   3/5/2008

i don't know what to say


1 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
Whats the worst way?   3/1/2008

What was the worst way anyone has ever broken up with you? Or worst thing you've done to break up with someone else? Text, voicemail, note on a door????


3 Comments, 70 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
rm_ThePleaserGT 47 M
4  Articles
Why does it seem easier for woman?   2/29/2008

In my life, I have had two break ups that realy hurt. The odd thing is though, it never seems to affect them as badly as it does me. Anyone?


3 Comments, 42 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Big Mistake . . . Falling in Love With a Straight Boy   2/28/2008

Nate and I worked together for two seasons at a summer camp. He is about six feet even, moderately slim, with short brown hair and green eyes. When I met Nate, I was about 45 and he was 20. Our camp was the kind of place where staff aged from 15 to 70 interrelated as peers most of the time. So we became fast friends. Sometimes he came to me for fatherly advice. More often we were like brothers. ...


1 Comments, 144 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_rdudude69 58 M
2  Articles
This was hard to do..   2/25/2008

One breakup I went through was very hard on me because of the circumstances. The girl I was dating had epileptic seizures on occasion and told me if she fell asleep I could trigger one by waking her up too fast. (Not sure if that's true or not, but I fell for it then). We were over at my best friends place one night getting ready to go to a Cubs game the next day. Well, she fell asleep, I was ...


2 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,0.24 Score
cuddlykitten97 37 C
2  Articles
breaking up is hard   2/23/2008

breaking up is hard


1 Comments, 82 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
cuddlykitten97 37 C
2  Articles
ui   2/22/2008

fjutyuftyiutiyruiryuiuriruiriryiuryui


0 Comments, 51 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
rm_BX1000 51 M
7  Articles
Breakup Question.   2/18/2008

What's a good way to break up with a woman?


3 Comments, 33 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
RockhardCock344 25 M
3  Articles
Breaking up...the good and bad   2/15/2008

I know a lot of people think breaking up is terrible...but when you think about it...come on you get to have sex with tons of people....you should be relieved!


1 Comments, 25 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
rm_Pornstar0317 31 M
3  Articles
Breaking up   2/14/2008

This is stupid, breaking up is dumb, u should never go out!


1 Comments, 27 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
Breaking up sucks   2/10/2008

Just got out of a long one.. Any advise to help me get over it?


3 Comments, 73 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Long relationships   2/9/2008

I just got my heart broken in a 2 year relationship. I was cheated on. It does not feel good. breakups suck


0 Comments, 29 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
rm_jagerman222 41 M
1  Article
why do women just leave all of a sudden...   2/4/2008

Your ok with your partner and then she leaves u one day for no aparent reason...y is this....?


4 Comments, 99 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
The lady you love   2/2/2008

I am going to get a lot of flack for this but i can take it.

I met a woman on this system and we had played together a bit.When, due to non related issues, my wife and i seperated i started to see her a lot.

We had everything in common, wants, desires and a love of sex.By wants and desire i mean life wants.

The problem came when my wife found out i was seeing ...


6 Comments, 147 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_hotswocouple 62 C
2  Articles
Breaking up is tough   1/31/2008

Although breaking up is difficult.

I beleive that everything happens for a reason and I think that it is much better to break it off than stay in a relationship that you aren't happy in

So, get out of your comfort zone and Live Life in Happiness. The effort will be worth it...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_MikeStDavid1 56 M
1  Article
Wife lost weight and ended our marriage   1/27/2008

My wife recently, in the last year lost 85 pounds on the Weight Watchers diet plan, and it went straight to her head. She starting making unreal demands of me, like "quit smoking pot", "quit drinking" and "loose some weight your self". Mind you I am 5' 9" tall and weight a mere 180 pounds. She also demanded "no TV until after 7pm". She then told me no more french fries or burgers. She became a ...


2 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
rm_Pete3007 36 M
1  Article
dumped by text message   1/22/2008

We chatted on a driving forum- webcams then she came over to england for a fw days and we met and fell in love. she moves to england, we meet once more. i give her all the attention i can as often as i can - last friday after she was ignoring me for weeks i ask her whats going on and she says "oh for fucks sake i'm deleting your number.leave me alone" don't think i'll ever know what i did wrong ...


1 Comments, 32 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
rm_havydick9 51 M
10  Articles
Breaking Up   1/21/2008

Breaking Up it's something U should never wish 2happen in your life especially when it comes to someone you love most....it really hurts !!!!


0 Comments, 25 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
srrm69 39 M
3  Articles
So   1/12/2008

should you talk to your ex after you break up for a few months


0 Comments, 51 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_cybergrunt58 66 M
0  Articles
Boring sex life   1/10/2008

My wife and I have been married for 17 years. We have known eachother a total of 18. We love each other still after all this time but, our sex life is suffering. We have tried toys, fantasies, and even once swinging. That wasn't all together successful, and it scared her off trying it again. Now she won't consider it again and gets upset when I view the swinger sites just to see what we are ...


12 Comments, 133 Views, 15 Votes ,4.20 Score
rm_flip_side_99 31 M
1  Article
It's never easy   12/29/2007

But sometimes the truth is that you're better off without the other person. When all that comes from the relationship is pain and heartbreak, prolonging it only serves to cause more turmoil. Breaking it cleanly gives you another chance to start from the beginning, and assess where it went wrong, and learn from the mistakes that were made.


1 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
jromeo669 55 M
1  Article
Keeping Cool   12/24/2007

We all are here for various reasons pertaining to our sex-lives. Respect is key in any realtionship or "friendship" and so is tolerance. Just because we don't agree with other members views, doesn't mean we should lecture them, be critical etc. And if we find out through chatting and so on, that they aren't into us, accept it, its part of the process. "Move On" until you find the right match ...


3 Comments, 45 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_lostnu84 39 F
1  Article
EXS= Friends?????   12/4/2007

Can two people that have had such strong feelings for each other really stay good friends??


7 Comments, 157 Views, 22 Votes ,4.81 Score
rm_jc72203 34 M
10  Articles
What is the easiest way to break it off?   12/4/2007

I have dumped and been dumped. It is never really easy. What is the easiest way to tell someone that you just aren't as into them as they are to you? Nobody wants a big emotional scene. Is the straight forward honest approach always the best? Has the "It's not you, it's me" line ever really worked?


5 Comments, 113 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
Being civil   11/23/2007

Relationships are emotional roller coasters with out a safety bar. So how does one get off while the ride is in motion and not get hurt. The first step is to stop, think, and listen...then you can speak. You are both adults, I am sure you at some point were friends. Now, your friends will say you cannot stay friends. The friendship has to end. That my friend is a relational myth. If you ...


2 Comments, 41 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_arbyq77 51 F
4  Articles
an ex a friend and me   11/19/2007

What would you do if your ex who told you in an email he was pursuing another relationship...all of a sudden decides to go on a dating site and begins talking to your best friend, , but he doesnt know this as she hasnt told him or put up her pic so im told ...but she tells you that oh guess whos moving back into town....your ex ...

Not only that but that she has been speaking to him on ...


6 Comments, 181 Views, 13 Votes ,4.15 Score
My4biddenLover 43 F
6  Articles
Mind over Matter   11/18/2007

I met this lovely bloke but although I didn't fancy him, I hoped we would be friends. Trouble is I grew quite fond of him but not in the way he wanted. He alternates between being really angry with me for not wanting to go out with him, to worshiping the ground I walked on. Whenever I spoke to him, things just seemed to get worse. I was fond of him while he became obsessed with ...


1 Comments, 91 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
_JKH_ 69 M
858  Articles
Suspicion !   11/11/2007

I've learned that it takes years to build up trust, and it only takes suspicion, not proof, to destroy that trust. ...


18 Comments, 261 Views, 53 Votes ,8.14 Score
whynotsmile3 49 M
11  Articles
advice   11/10/2007

is it best to be dipomatic or so straight that it can hurt?


2 Comments, 30 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
sologuy12866 55 M
5  Articles
How do you just get someone to go away!!!   11/5/2007

Lots of guys have a hard time hurting someone's feelings, moreso than women suspect. Whats the nicest way to make someone go away for good, without using the old tired cliches like "I wanna be friends" or "its not you, its me". Seems like women are a lot better at telling men point blank to go away than men are at telling women that. Any thoughts out there?


3 Comments, 106 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
he said   10/14/2007

I was a dum bitch should i leave him?


9 Comments, 118 Views, 13 Votes ,2.14 Score
cityblasts 58 M
2  Articles
the pain of the heart   10/3/2007

Last night i almost brought it all to an end. A friend who i had put complete trust in hurt me in the worst way possable. She threw my honesty and lotality in my face. The two things i live by were rejected as not worth having me about.

It seems that the conmen in this world who can manipulate the situation and make women believe that they are great and wonderful so that these men can ...


4 Comments, 102 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
pda87052 37 M
2  Articles
what to do   9/15/2007

i have been with my girlfriend for 6 months things were going so well for the first 4 and now it seems as if we are constantly fighting im always walking a fine line to keep from starting a fight and shes always pissed off becuse when we fight i just get quiet and ignore her. how much misery can there be before its not worth it


3 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Getting along to well   9/4/2007

I was in a relationship that strted as a blind date. It was going great. Good sex, smart funny conversations. Fun just hanging out. Then one day we clicked and it was probably the best start to a relationship ever. Then ended because we were getting along to well. How can you get along to well, hao can you be too close?


4 Comments, 119 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
vincesmith67 44 M
3  Articles
best way   8/20/2007

fade away or upfront and honost


7 Comments, 106 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
huskieboy1974 41 M
1  Article
Nothing Good lasts Forever   8/12/2007

Thats what my dad said when he asked me at eighteen if I was gay. He said " I hope you have a strong heart because in your life style I can imagine that few relationships will last forever". I ask myself every time a relationship ends "How did he know that", but so far in my life it has come true. I come to beleive that the time we, our relation, have is very important. I try to be as honest ...


2 Comments, 89 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
Its Tough!!   8/10/2007

Acknowledge your grief over your break up. Breaking up is the hardest thing to do! But, denying your feelings is harder on the body and mind than going through them. Wallow in them if you want, wail out loud, punch your pillow, cry to your mother, write sad poems, let your heart mourn....it's your grief and it's very real. Allowing grief to surface is the only way to let it go. Without this ...


7 Comments, 210 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
sexytarheel23 49 M
4  Articles
The Break up   7/19/2007

Its esay to break up with someone if dont really care for them now but when you care its a whole new ball game better ask Dr Phil


1 Comments, 52 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
BREAKING UP   7/18/2007

Hi, how can i break up with my boyfi who i, ve been with for only 3 months, his only intrest is sex snd sex and hanging out with fake friends who dont even know how to work 4 themselves coz they are rich


7 Comments, 90 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_XMISTERYMANX 58 M
47  Articles
Ouch, Ouch!!   7/8/2007

Ouch, Breaking up is Hard to Do! If you are a guy, 1/2 is bullshit. Take the 1/10 and move on. Then there is support, aliMONEY.Still the school fee's the clothes and equip. Not to mention the drives to everything.The ipod's, cell and countless other gizmos. Then the cash every week...$800 every week. The house, the pension, the friends, the girlfriend(always leave when all hell breaks ...


0 Comments, 36 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
To end things or not   6/21/2007

I have been with a wonderful woman for almost 6 years. We are engaged but we are both having second thoughts. Due to things we have done in the past we have trust issues with one another. As you could expect the sex is dwindling and we are both angry all the time, yet we both love one another with all of our hearts. Even though we know we would probably be happier apart we don't want to ...


7 Comments, 89 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
just do it   6/15/2007

everyone will be better off in the end...its no good for either party to be in an unhappy relationship


2 Comments, 38 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
reason, season, or lifetime   6/10/2007

someone help me. i dont know which woman is whic? i am going to lose them both and i dont think i can survive that. i love them both but not sure who should i be with. the wife of a decade who has never been there for me or the girl who i met, fell in love and just made break up with me because i could not file for divorce last week. please help me. if anyone can please talk me through this i ...


3 Comments, 58 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
girlfriend   6/6/2007

i have been dating a female now for 3 years but i think the spark has gone from our relationship and i ont know how to tell her? what should i do??


3 Comments, 75 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
rm_powertips 43 M
2  Articles
When heart breaking habbits become a cycle   6/2/2007

Letting go of someone you love is the most painful feelings human beings can experience. Letting go means suffering and heartache. It means losing love, and love is the highest form of happiness known to mankind.

Letting go of love is the inspiration of much of our present day culture. Just listen to the top ten songs on the radio. Almost all are about yearning and longing for someone ...


2 Comments, 150 Views, 12 Votes ,4.21 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
6yu   5/23/2007

tyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyytrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrhjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjjyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy


2 Comments, 32 Views, 3 Votes ,0.49 Score
itsmike692 36 M
32  Articles
jkguio   5/23/2007

jkggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggggguuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuiooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooooo


1 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes
just a fuck bud   5/23/2007

I met this woman one year ago. It was a long distance relationship but we had alot in common and we hit it off really well. We were both looking for the same things and the new sex was great. I respected this woman and treated her with total kindness. After 6 months I began to realize this woman was self centered and taking advantage of my kindness. I held in there for the sex and hoped she would ...


0 Comments, 136 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_Eulessguy78 35 M
2  Articles
When NOT to break up.   5/13/2007

Never break up with a girl while she is giving you a BJ. She will bite down and snowball you if you do. Best to do after you get your thrills off,


0 Comments, 27 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
newgeurgeus_01 49 F
1  Article
someone else   5/1/2007

Most of all reason for breaking up with our partner causing someone else appear into their life. They believe in love but they available to having affair. Is it no more respect and love again or just boring with only 1 partner? Or just wanna try having fun with others?


0 Comments, 88 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
cumrideit69 40 M
10  Articles
asian girls   4/26/2007

where are all the hot horny asian girls in Brisbane?


1 Comments, 27 Views, 0 Votes
rm_spankgroupie 39 F
1  Article
breaking up   4/26/2007

i see breaking up as a refreshing change once u get over the habit its like a new lease of life, so dont feel bad its a new start , u can be whatever and whoever u want.ive just broke up with my fiancee because he was cheating on me , but im feeling great , turns out i wasnt as happy as i thought , i just didnt like feeling like someone had what i had, but shes welcome .she done me a favour x


3 Comments, 163 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
Josiedawn59 64 F
2  Articles
Starting over   4/24/2007

Artist: Israel Kamakawiwo Ole' Song: Starting All Over Again

Starting all over again is going to be rough For us, we're going to make it Starting all over as friends is going be tough On us, we gotta face it

We lost what we had That would hurt us so bad Set us back a thousand years But we going to make it up Though I know it's going to be tough To erase the hurt and fears ...


1 Comments, 84 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
shelbyfireman 52 M
7  Articles
direct approach   4/20/2007

I try to be as direct as possible with the girls. If I want to end, I let them know immediately. What does everyone else think?


1 Comments, 44 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_69USMC02 39 M
1  Article
While in Iraq   4/19/2007

The worst way to have someone like your wife break up with you is to sleep with someone else while you are in Iraq. That happened to me and it really sucks. I just got back 2 weeks ago and am going to be in the process of getting a divorce real soon. The worst part about it, is that it was another service member who was acting like my friend and the fact that I found out 2 days before ...


9 Comments, 206 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_arbyq77 51 F
4  Articles
men and breaking up   4/16/2007

can men break up the right way why all the secrecy why the bull shit surrounding it ...if you cant take it why dish it out....why not be up front and tell the truth about the breakup....what is the deal with cheating just break up and move along don't lie cheat and make her feel bad because you cant seem to be faithful or loyal...and i know i will be blasted for this but this has happened to me ...


8 Comments, 149 Views, 16 Votes ,5.19 Score
shahalamhotguy 33 M
2  Articles
The saddes break up....   4/9/2007

Its sad enough that this gal wanna leave me all out of a sudden but to do it via txt message was something that crushed me at that time. I was shocked to wake up in the morning thinking of getting my normal "good Morning Honey" message on my phone but only to be greeted by "good bye...sorry i have to use this way to let u know" message.
Initially i thought it was a joke or prank but she did ...


3 Comments, 127 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rm_BigUSAdick 38 M
1  Article
Hard to do   4/6/2007

For real, too many break ups are going on today. Why do you think that is?


0 Comments, 113 Views, 1 Votes
phoenixinflight0 45 F
1  Article
Curiousity/Snooping/Stalking   4/5/2007

One of the interesting things about sites like this one is how surprisingly hard it can be to keep things private within the anonymity. And deciding where the line is that divides simple curiousity from snooping from stalking.
For instance, someone with whom you've just made a 'connection'. You're likely to pore through their profile, look at their network friends, in short, 'read up' about ...


3 Comments, 91 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
rm_BugsyOn1 48 M
1  Article
Break up to Make up   3/26/2007

I miss the days when me and my X, would break up to make up.Why is make up sex so good, because your happy she's back, and want to fuck her Xtra hard so when we break up again she knows why she should come back home.Ha Ha, to bad my X didn't apprecitae what she had in me.A man that will love her like no other, and she knows it.But rather be treatd like dirt by other guys, but i know she will ...


0 Comments, 25 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
hatefulscribe 39 M
4  Articles
Newly divorced   3/25/2007

Have any of you lost your wife to her sons bestfriend?? i did.


0 Comments, 88 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
akmishra1 38 M
0  Articles
MY YOUNGER BROTHER'S WIFE IS TESTY   3/22/2007

CHOOTY, my wife of younger brother, 24 came to our house to spend her summer vacation with us.She wasn't the same as i see her 2 years back, she is too hot and appealing too resist with such a curvaceous body and that too at such a nice age.tough i love my wife very much but her look compelled me to do the crime of betraying her. one day my wife was not at home, ...


3 Comments, 330 Views, 14 Votes ,0.42 Score
It still hurts so bad   3/21/2007

We broke up the first of December as she wanted to give it a break and found someone else. However, we continue to either text or talk almost everyday. I continue to hear confusion from her on what she wants...
I still love her with all my heart and I know that she still has strong feelings for me..
The other day she told me that she went to a hotel with her "friend" and they talked ...


2 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_Coxylong 36 M
1  Article
What can i do?   3/16/2007

My girlfriend has recently told me she doesnt feel the same anymore but is willing 2 keep going with me for a period of time to see if things can be sorted we have been 2geva 4 3 years nearly im finding soo hard 2 take i feel so low and want her with me what can i do?


2 Comments, 81 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
rm_HotJK1972 49 M
4  Articles
I want to break up   3/13/2007

I want to break up but she doesn't she says I still love her because she still loves me. We have been together for 11yrs. and I'm tired of supporting her and she has the nerve to yell when ever she gets mad at something. She has caused so many with her mouth that I'm tired of it. I just want her to leave but she won't she doesn't have to the police have said because she's on the lease. What can I ...


1 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Truth   3/9/2007

Let me start out by saying this, do not start lieing to anyone from the begining and the break up will not be that hard. If you are just looking for a booty call say it up front after the ice is broken. You never know they might be looking for the same thing and if there not you have not lost nothing with the exepetion of drama in your life and who wants that?tell them you are keeping your ...


0 Comments, 37 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
How do I get over her??   2/26/2007

I have been with the same girl for about 8 years I'm only 24 now so we were really young when we got together.WE have been living with each other for almost the hole time even when we were still in high school things have always been pretty good we never had been in a fight or did mean things to each other. I had asked her to marry me about almost 3 years ago but we never planed the wedding do to ...


8 Comments, 178 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
blondie41499 48 F
1  Article
a cheating cheater   2/16/2007

A few weeks after our 5th anniversary, my ex husband decided to tell me that he had been fucking the lady across the street. Needless to say, I left him. He immediately moved in with her and they finally got married this past year. I recently found out that they are getting divorced because, guess what, he cheated on her. I can't help but give karma a big ole pat on the back for that one. ...


4 Comments, 420 Views, 16 Votes ,3.13 Score
rm_HotJK1972 49 M
4  Articles
I wan't to breakup but she says I'm wrong   2/13/2007

I have been with the same woman for 11yrs. I love her with all my heart but our sex life has gone way downhill. She is 9yrs. older than me which makes her 43yrs. old. I feel our sex life is important and she doesn't care about it anymore and I say she's wrong it does matter. I have even gone so far as to offer to even talk to a counseler about this but she says I'm wrong so I broke up with ...


1 Comments, 87 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Time is working I think   2/2/2007

Early in Jan, I started the break up process with my only true love as she wanted. Distance was the cause I think. Anyway, it was the end of a 2 year hot and deeply in love relationship by both of us. I spent 6 weeks thinking only of her and the loss I was dealing with. During that time I lost 25 pounds and went on high blood preasure meds.
While the hurt and pain is mostly gone, ...


1 Comments, 79 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
hotpants4u1954 63 F
2  Articles
Breaking Up   1/31/2007

I MET A GUY FROM THIS SITE ABOUT A YEAR AND HALF AGO, WE WENT WITH EACH OTHER FOR OVER 3 MONTHS, HE TOLD ME TO CALL, SEE HIM, I DROVE DOWN TO SEE HIM ALL THE TIME, AFTER A MONTH HE TOLD ME THAT HE SAW A FURTURE WITH ME, AND THAT HE LOVED ME, GAVE ME A RING. ONE NIGHT I DROVE DOWN THERE TO SPEND SOME TIME WITH HIM, WENT HOME AT MIDNIGHT. GOT UP THE NEXT MORNING , CHECKED MY EMAIL AND SAW A ...


1 Comments, 252 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
crossbuster 39 M
3  Articles
why doesnt it hurt me anymore?   1/31/2007

Ok, I am 21 and i've been in alot of relationships already (no I'm not braging) and when they all ended I was depressed. It's really wierd but there was this one girl that really fell in love with. She was what I would call perfect..lol.. Anywayz I messed it up and we broke up. Now I really can't love someone else, I dont think.
I had to tell someone..
Fromross


2 Comments, 52 Views, 0 Votes
RVAfuckbuddy 44 M
3  Articles
fuck love   1/28/2007

falling in love and becoming emotionally attached is a stupid thing to do


1 Comments, 116 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
lovelylauren6992 28 F
1  Article
hate it   1/26/2007

just got divorced cause the fucker hit me and also so slept we my friend


0 Comments, 126 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bad   1/24/2007

its normsly real bad for one of the concerned


0 Comments, 20 Views, 0 Votes
northcarolina727 33 F
8  Articles
i just dont wanna give up on 6 years!   1/23/2007

we've been together 6 years an i just dont wanna give up on the relationship.... what do i do?


2 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
whats the best way...   1/22/2007

Whats the best way to break off a long term reltionship? is it wrong to use people for sex to get over someone?


0 Comments, 81 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
rm_UbeenLookin 52 M
1  Article
Beware the stalker type   1/21/2007

So I broke up with this female, and she continues, 3 months later to look me up through my friends, text messages me, emails me. - She even watches me on a poker site I play at! - Go figure!


0 Comments, 99 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
Dealing??   1/14/2007

How do you deal with a break up when nothing is stated as final? You are told it's not wanted to be over, but yet it is by circumstance.


5 Comments, 115 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
myrtlegolfer18 40 M
2  Articles
To be or not to be   1/13/2007

Why is it so hard to break up with the first person you had sex with???


3 Comments, 52 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
crazydavid242 36 M
6  Articles
:( some sad shit   1/12/2007

Ok so It is what it is...I did it I broke up with her and now I feel like crap...She wasn't the "ONE" so why do I feel like this. I kinda feel like I lost something but can't quite figure out what that something is!?!?
Ok good idea or bad Idea jumping right back in the saddle and finding another???
holler holler


3 Comments, 56 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
crazydavid242 36 M
6  Articles
breakin' up   1/11/2007

Ok so it is what it is... How do you tell a little sweetie that has done no wrong your just done with her...there's no other girl I just don't like her any more!!!


2 Comments, 45 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
callmeup67 45 M
5  Articles
when do i break it off with ex   1/8/2007

My ex and i just cant get along, but we really enjoy having sex with each other. What should I do.


0 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
dloweforeplay 32 M
3  Articles
when in a relantionship without love   1/6/2007

how hard is it to leave a relantionship when love has dried up in one of the partners involved.. how can you set about to solve this issue. its never easy, but the relantionship has to end unless love can be found or rekindled


2 Comments, 97 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Breaking up - wanto to get back   1/5/2007

knowing a new partner is never a real problem. The real one is breaking up. What both partners feel at these momnets is very confusing. Do you really want to break up? if yes, would ou consider getting back later? again if yes, how will you do it and will the other partner accepts? based on my experiance, breaking up has to be one shot immediate short action, this way it's less painful and ...


0 Comments, 43 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
Falling in love,   1/4/2007

All You Mean To Me
Even though I know
you broke my heart
I can't stop loving you
Even if they separated us
I couldn't stop loving you
Ever

You are the only one
I can love
You are the only one
I want to be with
You are the one
For me
...


1 Comments, 89 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_BlqCuban 60 M
5  Articles
Investment   12/31/2006

I'm going through a break up right now that has had me depressed for about three months now. The relationship was on and off for three and half years. As background I went through something similar in 1996 after an on and off two year relationship.
I don't think the time of the relationship matters. I think it has more to do with the effort you put in. The two relationships that ...


4 Comments, 94 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_reddog3187 48 M
2  Articles
WHY IS BREAKING UP HARD TO DO?   12/29/2006

Why is it that when you go to break up with a girl. They always want to know what they did wrong. Is there a guide book that they use to try and keep you. You could be a total ass hole to them and they try their hardest to keep you. Why can they not just accept that you do not want to see them anymore and move on with there lives. They also ask, "WHO ARE YOU SEEING NOW"? They ...


3 Comments, 54 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
Bitchonheat181 63 C
1  Article
What the hell   12/29/2006

Breaking up is not difficult - its only a split second decision. What really is difficult is accepting that the person to whom you gave your heart is not wanting the same future as you. Acceptance that one person has the power to end a relationship is a mighty big step. The more you try to see their point of view the more distant you become. If that person does not want to be with you what ...


4 Comments, 206 Views, 12 Votes ,5.98 Score
rm_JNKREK2006 38 C
4  Articles
WHAT DO YOU THINK?   12/27/2006

IF YOU ARE 5 MONTHS PREGNANT AND YOUR BOYFRIEND OF 3 YEARS THINKS THAT YOU ARE TO MOODY, SHOULD HE START LOOKING FOR BETTER THINGS IN OTHER WOMEN.


14 Comments, 223 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
Dealing with Breakups   12/25/2006

Hi. what is the best way to deal with a breakup?


6 Comments, 105 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
sexysam0202 39 F
6  Articles
How to Get over a Breakup without Ben and Jerry   12/24/2006

Retail Therapy or
How to Get Over a Breakup without Ben and Jerry

We’ve all heard the term ‘retail therapy, ’ and usually it’s used in a derogatory manner, as if it’s a bad thing. But is it? Retail therapy can be the one thing that gets you over the hump, whatever the particular roadblock may be. As a single woman out there ...


2 Comments, 95 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
geurgeus_01 44 F
2  Articles
friend VS lover   12/24/2006

when you have a friend and a lover bot both of them against each other. Which one you will keep friend or lover?


2 Comments, 90 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
really hard   12/21/2006

its so hard to break up ith someone after you been with them for a long period of time and some trys to tell u to go out and meet someone you judt dont have the heart to.


3 Comments, 74 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
first time   12/21/2006

first time i broke up it was hard so hard i had to leave town it was really bad


1 Comments, 29 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Still adjusting with the break up   12/21/2006

My lady of my love broke up with me 3 weeks. I continue to feel like someone has died. The thing that keeps hitting me hard is that when I visted her for the last time we both knew that things were not working out. When she came to my hotel room she said that we were not going to have sex for the weekend. Then about an hour later she attacked me and said she wanted me in her. While doing it ...


1 Comments, 53 Views, 0 Votes
fantasies....   12/18/2006

After more than 2 years my partner and I ended our relationship all over a fantasy that he wants to fulfill and I told him I just can't do it..I feel what we had done was enough for him, but it's not..I crossed the line and done something to show him I love him and to help that fantasy come true, but he wants more and I'm not willing to go there again.So to make it short I am out the door ...


3 Comments, 165 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_chamorro1019 36 M
2  Articles
shit happens   12/16/2006

yo i was dating this girl and she said tat my dick was a little big for her but, everytime we tried to have sex she would strart to shake. i kept asking myself what the hell is going on and she later told me that my dick would hit her spot is that weird for a girl to say that your dick is to big and it hurts but then not be able to get enough of it.


1 Comments, 57 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
its hard   12/15/2006

its hard to break up with someone you really love alot trust me i now


1 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
bi_ga_stud2007 46 M
20  Articles
its hard to do   12/15/2006

hey let me tell u breaking up is hard to do if u been with the person for a long time and your heart is with them


3 Comments, 31 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
geurgeus_01 44 F
2  Articles
its like a hell   12/15/2006

I was having a relationship with married man for a year but feel so close each other and we have a good plan for our future but his ex GF tried to break our relationship by making a phone teror to his wife. We have to broke up and feel we live in different hell.


1 Comments, 86 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
Losing my only true love   12/15/2006

I will start out by saying that I am 50 and this is the only time in my life that I have truly loved a woman. Yes, I have been married for 28 years and I think married because I thought I was in love. But, now I understand what loive really means.
I met this lady while overseas in Jordan. I returned back to the states and went back and forth for another 6 months. We went 9 ...


1 Comments, 63 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
How do you say its over   12/14/2006

Please guys ... take it easy on her ... talk to her about it ... at least have the decency to explain why you no longer wish to see her ... you owe her that much ... don't just stop calling.


1 Comments, 41 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
flirtybivirgin 52 F
1  Article
41 and lived with his parents still   12/10/2006

I loved this man even when he went out of town to see an ex, when his mommy banned me not once but twice from their home at the holidays. He is a slacker who was good in bed but not inventive. I didn't think i could get my heart broken twice in one year due to an earlier divorce from Satan! Yet instead if crying my eyes out I.m going to wear my pink pussy out doing anything and every thing ...


2 Comments, 133 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
Just dont know what to do...   12/6/2006

I have been going out w/ this gurl for almost a yr. She cheated on me after like a month, before prom. She told me though, soo.. I let it slide. Then she kissed another guy like two months after that.. I cried and let it slide. I have also cheated on her a couple times and didn't tell her just to get back at her. But now its all good and it has been almost like 8 months, and we have both ...


0 Comments, 59 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
hornyblkandbig 35 M
1  Article
why   12/6/2006

why do people break up?


0 Comments, 32 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
madiemoon 54 F
34  Articles
In the abyss of You   12/6/2006

In the abyss of You
in the abyss of our love there i stood .... weighted at the bottom unable to move i needed to be set free
i stood there alone cold and shivering wishing for help to break free
i searched my soul then i looked around and seen three the images of those i knew and love beckoning, circling me urging and ...


2 Comments, 32 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
Best way to get a friend's mind off a breakup   12/5/2006

I have a friend who broke up recently, except he still has to see his ex everyday. I've tried to get him to go out and do regular things to keep his mind off of it, but he is still mopey. Any ideas on how to get him out of this funk?


0 Comments, 41 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Txdaddy75 46 M
3  Articles
Ex Sex   12/2/2006

Whats your take on having sex with an Ex lover, girlfriend, wife, Etc...?


2 Comments, 99 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_travis1385 40 M
1  Article
Second chance   12/1/2006

If a girl breaks up with you for another guy then he breaks up with and it seems like she wants you bacl. What do you do? Would you take her back?


4 Comments, 84 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
seanconneryjoyce 40 M
1  Article
It's not going away...   11/30/2006

My girlfriend of two years broke up with me a month ago, on my birthday. We were going to have a life togther, and then all of a sudden she started acting weird. She got sort of turned off to me sexually, and then she started telling me that visiting her at school made her angry because it messed with her schedule. The thing is, she found it fine having a nap time session in her friend's ...


6 Comments, 155 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
"Breaking Up is Hard To Do"   11/29/2006

I've found that breaking up with someone especially after having a somewhat serious and long term relationship ALWAYS ends badly. No matter no civil you two were during you relationship once it's over it seems that both parties involved can no longer associate or be polite to one another. Why is that ?
Breaking up perhaps is the single most difficult part of any ...



0 Comments, 62 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_wiboy19892 37 M
2  Articles
ouch   11/28/2006

Break ups suck.


3 Comments, 55 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_christi66688 36 F
9  Articles
Sex With The Ex   11/28/2006

Has anyone ever had random "sex with the ex" moments? Dont get me wrong, I love the whole sex with the ex thing but does it make anyone else's feelings for them come rushing back like a tidal wave over poseidon? I love Chad but lately all our friendship has been is sex.


1 Comments, 112 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_gemintharuff 53 F
7  Articles
"tell me the truth"   11/27/2006

why is it that men imagine things that arent even there? Yes, coincidences DO occur, that's why there's a name for them-- COINCIDENCES-- and no amount of swearing on your grandmothers grave is going to change their mind, or explain it away. so when someone tells you that, "I won't be mad just tell me the truth", it's all just bullshit. When you tell them the ...


2 Comments, 122 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_gemintharuff 53 F
7  Articles
That WON'T solve a damn thing.   11/27/2006

After being with the same man for 5 years, on and off, and being his best friend most of that time, things soured and instead of fighting and being miserable together, I took the initiative to say we needed to be apart for awhile, if not for good. The relationship had turned toxic, both of us saying and doing things that we couldn't take back or forget. In all the ...


1 Comments, 128 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
renegade10000 42 M
2  Articles
how not to break up w/ someone   11/26/2006

if and when it comes time to break up. It is best tell the person you are breaking up w/ in person or on the phone. Grow some balls or get a spine and suck it up. It makes it more acceptable to the other person if the break is by you. NOT FRIEND, NOT A NOTE(dear John letter), NOT A FAMILY MEMBER, NOT A TEXT OR I'M. The reason why these are bad methods or breaking up is because is that ...


0 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_DarK_0832 36 M
10  Articles
break up   11/25/2006

i was wondering why girls like to say the same thing again ad again when break up... they always like to say we just not the type for each other and we do not click at alll!
others say: i know u are a good guy, i feel that u are too good for me, im nt fit for u as im nt a very good gal...


1 Comments, 38 Views, 0 Votes
anicegent 66 M
1  Article
When does the hurt go away?   11/22/2006

When you finally realize it is over, and you know it in your head. When does the heart give in too? Are there ways to help it go away? Would love to hear your suggestions.


11 Comments, 239 Views, 17 Votes ,3.83 Score
rm_latinojoe007 45 M
8  Articles
tryig to leave   11/17/2006

im trying to leave my girlfriend and im not sure the best way of doing it.does anyone have any ideas?


3 Comments, 71 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
DrgnLadyFantasy 49 F
1  Article
Why is it....   11/14/2006

When you try to give someone every thing you are and it isn't enough. You give them the ability to go outside the relationship for extra play and only ask that they come home at night to you and its still not enough. They say they love you and want to be with you but can't give you what you want which is to be with them. I don't mind the occassional play although I didn't particate cause I ...


2 Comments, 72 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
Jason2xx5 38 M
1  Article
growing apart   11/10/2006

whyis it that when you first meet someone you can feel so strongly for them, then 6 months later feel like you want nothing to do with them and keep telling yourself you love them. why do people fall out of love?


2 Comments, 88 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
best and worse   11/9/2006

is there a nice way 2 get the boot, is there a nice way 2 give someone the boot?

WOULD ANYONE LIKE 2 SHARE THEIR EXPERIENCES, MAYBE UVE BEEN MEAN WHEN BREAKING UP WITH SOMEONE OR SOMEONE HAS RIPPED OUT YOUR HEART AND U WOULD LIKE TO GET IT OF YOUR CHEST.


1 Comments, 50 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
how to deal with it   11/9/2006

breaking up can be very hard for somebody, especially if he has passes many time with him, we get attached to the person so much that to a point u think he's the only reason to live, well u should do something with is meaningful, work, read a lot, get out a lot, don't think about him, with time u will feel that it was stupid to be with hiom from the beginning


0 Comments, 55 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
Say good bye   11/4/2006

Break ups. Is it possible to have a relationship without all of the emotional attatchment?


2 Comments, 46 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_carletha2606 44 F
1  Article
How do you politely tell someone your not together.   11/4/2006

What if someone is calling you their gf and you never talked about being together in that sense and they tell everyone that you are together but you don't see them like that.


1 Comments, 25 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_jongil4 47 M
1  Article
emotions   11/4/2006

LIfe is similar to a roller coaster. you have ups and downs but never in the middel


2 Comments, 40 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
earl123451 41 M
1  Article
mistake   10/30/2006

The stupidest mistake in life is thinking the one who hurt you the most, won't hurt you again.


3 Comments, 87 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
rm_jigga20cc 43 M
3  Articles
break ups   10/28/2006

they should be done as quick and as painless as possible


4 Comments, 53 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
red_bone_xxx 39 M
8  Articles
Never Easy..   10/27/2006

Break ups are never easy no matter how much the relationship may have sucked. If "true love" is there it should never be easy. I tend to think just about most problems can be worked out, but then there comes a time where it must end. The sake of both of your sanity's is at stake and possiblY . I say don't get in a relationship unless you read the "fine print". Its ...


3 Comments, 60 Views, 7 Votes ,5.08 Score
getitwet2284 31 M
2  Articles
me and my chik   10/23/2006

why is breaking up so hard to do?


1 Comments, 71 Views, 7 Votes ,1.00 Score
Phantasymal 41 M
7  Articles
The Friends After a Relationship Bit   10/23/2006

Its been my experience that relationships thrive on many things as well as fall apart because of them as well... Breaking up with people that you like or that you want to remain as friends is one of the hardest kinds of breakups since most guys that get broken off of a relationship generally arent all up for the whole just friends bit. Breakup options that shouldnt be used in my view is ...


3 Comments, 62 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
rm_ChromedDUBz 36 M
2  Articles
Breaking up   10/21/2006

Why is breaking up with someone so hard? me, i just wait for the chick to break up with me i cant do it vice versa.


2 Comments, 44 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
zande_r553 37 M
10  Articles
craziest break up   10/20/2006

whats the best and worst ways to break up with someone


1 Comments, 35 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
She said we had our chance   10/16/2006

At 33 I thought I was through with the childish games. My life was on track, new job, new location, accepted into a tough college program. Things were looking up for once. Then I met her.
I still remember the first day I saw her. Blonde hair shining in the morning sunlight. That cute little walk she had. She was beautiful. As luck would have it we got to talking that day. She was ...


3 Comments, 174 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
superboy_prime 37 M
3  Articles
Whats the worst...   10/15/2006

..way to break up with someone?
I've broken up recently with a girl who too clingy and I did it throught a text message.


3 Comments, 55 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
rm_williewill78 43 M
1  Article
live life to the fullest   10/14/2006

okay I have a question, am I a asshole? me and my ex broke up not to long ago. the reason behind the break up was. she wanted to live life to the fullest. she alway said, if I go out every week doesn't mean I don't love you, I spend the weekends with you. am I wrong for telling her that she wrong? I always responed with that she wanted a relationship, but she want to live a single life. we ...


2 Comments, 47 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_taywin 54 F
0  Articles
should I be suprised   10/11/2006

So I was in a relationship with a guy for the past 9 years. We have a 5 year old together. In that time he cheated on me atleast 5 times (yea I'm an idiot), he would disagree and say that we were "on a break" each time, whatever. Anyway we had recently broke up in November and he moved out. After a few months of hatred we finally started to get along again, we were hanging out and actually ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 26 Votes ,7.02 Score
The end   10/10/2006

Have u ever found urself at the end of ur rope as it pertains to your relationship. You love the person so much but it would be better if you all broke up. I have gotten myself in this rather ticklish situation but im in love to much to let go...when i should let go because im in love... well enough of my rants for today...always love with all your heart ppl its the only way


5 Comments, 118 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
Relations   10/10/2006

I submitt that the difficulty in breaking up and getting over the emotional impact of a realationship is directly proportional to the amount of sexual intimacy one has shared with the "ex".
I think we are just "wired" that was as humans and have yet to find anyone who came out of a relationship that was intimate unscathed.
Comments?


1 Comments, 74 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
shortsweet69693 38 F
3  Articles
it happens   10/5/2006

just take what ever you learn from it and movie on


2 Comments, 32 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
rm_freak4u8 39 M
12  Articles
breaking up   10/3/2006

What is the best way to break up with a person without hurting their feelings?


2 Comments, 34 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
honeycurious05 33 F
2  Articles
The relationship is over!   10/3/2006

I just feel when its over its over. Meaning no contact with that person, sexually or conversation wise. Because these things keeps the break up dragging along. Especially, if you keep having sexually contact with that person. For ladies I know its not healthy because we think with our heart and not our pussy, so we might still be attached to that person. Overall, my point is when its ...


1 Comments, 95 Views, 8 Votes ,3.25 Score
why do women want to come back   10/2/2006

My ex girlfriend and I broke up because she wanted to get back with her ex....only he does not want her. He wants to be with other men and now she wants to come back. Am I wrong to not take her back? What would you do?


3 Comments, 81 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
rm_freak4u8 39 M
12  Articles
breaking up   9/30/2006

what is the best way to say were threw.


2 Comments, 34 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
bojangles848 36 M
5  Articles
how long is it normal to dream of an ex after breaking up   9/24/2006

i recently split with my gf, i now dream about her everynight is this normal? am i obsessed? i cant get her out of my head, but i want to move on


3 Comments, 60 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_rebelgirl_26 44 F
10  Articles
How do you say no thanks...   9/19/2006

How do you say no thanks to a guy who has bad breathe and wants to go down on you?


4 Comments, 67 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_rebelgirl_26 44 F
10  Articles
Soft licks...   9/19/2006

I cannot stand when a guy licks me like he's a cat licking some milk. Short and fast is a gross feeling.


1 Comments, 69 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
rm_tybyrd 44 M
1  Article
real stuuf   9/18/2006

i came home one day after a long of work.put my key in the door, open the door.went up tair and found my brother in the bed with my mother.i was so sick i didnt know what 2 do, i went back down stair sit down a cry for a min.net thing i know i woke up and it was a dream.that crazy a dream like that, would know what to do if it was real.


1 Comments, 100 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
nymphoforlife86 28 M
9  Articles
sms break ups   9/17/2006

hey all, a short while ago my girlfriend broke up with me, but what made things worse was that it was in an sms... we had been going out for a year, and she broke up with me in this manner,
what are you opinions on this, and do u think this is an appropriate way to end things??


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
nostrngzatall 43 M
11  Articles
get it over with   9/17/2006

if you really going to do it the go ahead and get it over with! the emotional attachment will eventually go awa! c just occupy your mind with someonelse!


1 Comments, 46 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
rm_doyafeelme 65 F
1  Article
when your man dumps you for a drunken bag    9/13/2006

i 'm feeling so many things right now its crazy, i found out my man had been doing one of the towns drunks that has fucked every guy in town. what really bothers me is , if he would rather do that then me he must think more of her than me. i keep asking myself am i lower then her, if he want that insted of me i got to uglyer an fater and dumer, a plain looser. if i am all these things who ...


3 Comments, 152 Views, 9 Votes ,3.64 Score
sweetguygoodtim1 33 M
4  Articles
is   9/10/2006

bad


1 Comments, 14 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
Needing Advice   9/8/2006

I ended a relationship of almost two years total now... I can honestly say that I loved her with all my heart - and I don't even know why I ended it in the first place now. All my intentions are gone, and all I can do is think about her and miss her, is there something wrong with me? should I just move on, or should I go back to her and tell her what I am feeling? I am so confused with ...


5 Comments, 87 Views, 10 Votes ,4.18 Score
breaking up is a drag   9/4/2006

its so hard breaking up with a loved one its such a hard transition you have to do the dateing thing over and its a new start


1 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Stephts 55 T
1  Article
Her Ex   8/29/2006

If Your Wife Or Husband Had there Ex Living with you Could you tolerate it or would you bail?...


5 Comments, 81 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
rednekhubby 46 M
10  Articles
what can you do to make it easier to walk away   8/29/2006

i was married for 5 years and have no givin up and divorced her. caught her cheating online and sending pictures of herself to other guys. the part that bothered me was the lieng and the secretes even after she got caught. but i still want her is there anything that can help.


2 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
SexyTrinaInPa 38 F
4  Articles
Why is it so hard   8/28/2006

Why is it so hard to truly break up wit sum one you care so much about..... Why is it that no matter how much you try to forget that special person you cant????? Why cant you stay friends wit them even if u break up???? Please explain this????


2 Comments, 103 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
Breaking up Letdown   8/14/2006

How do you break up with a lady that you have been living with for 3 years without it turning bad?


1 Comments, 68 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
rm_sexybling69 50 C
2  Articles
'It's not you, it's me' How to end a relationship gently   8/13/2006

Breaking-up is hard to do, but sometimes there's no option. Coco Helado reveals the art of dumping with dignity. We all know how painful break-ups can be, so when it's us doing the dumping we often try to minimise the pain with gentle hints and little white lies. But quite often our well-intentioned attempts to soften the blow only result in confusion, humiliation, and even greater pain ...


2 Comments, 107 Views, 14 Votes ,3.94 Score
How to let them down... The good way?   8/10/2006

It sounds a little ironic that there should be a "good" way of breaking up with a significant other. But of course there are better ways than some. Besides just being blunt about or making sure you get caught cheating, is there a real civil way to do the deed that is guaranteed 100% not to emotionally damage either party?


1 Comments, 52 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
wiggle06 33 F
25  Articles
Condom on or off doesnt make it right!!!!   8/8/2006

I was talking to one of my friends yesturday and she was telling me about how her and he boyfriend had broken up. He left her house one day and was arrested in a drug raid. He got out on probation but, he called her and said he didnt want to be with her anymore. The week before that she had a pregnancy test and come to find out she was pregnant. She told him after the fact which I think was ...


1 Comments, 169 Views, 8 Votes ,0.93 Score
69sexylove06 38 F
1  Article
Please Go AWAY   8/8/2006

I've been with this dude for about 7 months and every time I try to break up with him he cry and beg me to take him back. It's bad enough that I don't want to be with him and now I have to listen to him cry. Because we have see still see each other a lot, I don't want to leave on bad terms. I've tried to snatch the cat back, but that still isn't working. How do I shake him?


2 Comments, 99 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
rm_gunit213421 37 M
1  Article
breaking up   7/29/2006

it's a part of life and though it can be tough to deal with sometimes u just have to live love and let go because if u dont you'll never be able to move on. think about it.


0 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Break up or Cheat   7/29/2006

I am in a relationship that she doesn't satisfy my sexual needs. Other than this issue she is a cool girl. Should I find a fuck buddy behind her back or end the relationship? Thank you for your help and responses.


6 Comments, 283 Views, 15 Votes ,0.99 Score
when do u give up   7/27/2006

When do you give up , after your brain tells u that your hoping for the best but its not happening is that when.


1 Comments, 103 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
donny0094 44 M
3  Articles
does it count   7/26/2006

does it count as breaking up if you met someone here fucked them 3 times....and not call them...just a ?


0 Comments, 93 Views, 3 Votes
rm_Supafly956 38 M
6  Articles
ladies a ? about cum...   7/25/2006

to any lady out there who swallows, whats the best food for a male to eat so that his cum tastes appealing to the lady?


1 Comments, 84 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
Romeo4guiletta 73 M
1  Article
The easy ones are the hardest   7/25/2006

It's been my experience that the more you like someone the harder it is to break up with them. A shallow, physical relationship is the easiest to get out of. If you have some feelings for the woman, and especially if you have had sex, it's tough to break up without hurting her. Here's what I have learned.
Don't break up right after you have had sex for the first time. either ...


1 Comments, 80 Views, 6 Votes ,4.50 Score
gr8bumcheekygrin 43 M
1  Article
How do you get closure when you don't know what you did wrong in the first place?   7/25/2006

Met a girl who was great. She has a lot going for her and is very warm, thoughful and giving. I am a solvent guy myself with a lot going for me. The trouble is I didn't know just how much this lass had fallen for me. She was in deeper than I was. She stayed over Friday and Saturday and asked me what I wanted to do on The Sunday morning - did I fancy a ride out to the seaside? Trouble is I ...


1 Comments, 73 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
It hurts so bad   7/24/2006

braking up is really hard it is the worst thing in the world. any one know what to do about that feeling. how can i make it go away?


1 Comments, 64 Views, 0 Votes
mEnTiRoSa_505 33 F
0  Articles
ONE DAY I MISS HIM THE NEXT I DONT THINK ABOUT HIM AT ALL   7/23/2006

MY EX AND I HAVE BEEN APART ALMOST A MONTH NOW. WE OFFICIALLY BROKE UP JULY 4TH. IT WAS MY FAULT CUZ I WASNT AT HOME WITH HIM. I WAS AT MY MOM AND DAD'S WATCHING THEIR PLACE WHILE THEY WERE ON VACATION. ALSO I HAD TO WORK EARLY THE NEXT MORNING. WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS. HERE'S WHAT DOESNT ADD UP... HE HAS A 2 1/2 YEAR OLD ALMOST 3 NOW WITH HIS EX. WHAT BOTHERED ME IS THAT HE ...


2 Comments, 146 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
wildrubenesque 60 F
1  Article
the old "It's Not You, It's Me" routine   7/23/2006

I met the love of my life four years ago. He insisted he had to be my 'rebound' lover but it wasn't that way at all. A year after we started dating, we moved in together, as it seemed more logical since we spent every day together. The minute we moved in, we had separate bedrooms, rarely had sex and I paid for everything. After months of pleading for discussion, I moved out for a ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 9 Votes ,4.07 Score
rm_htnmale16 54 M
1  Article
Trying to be friends.   7/23/2006

When a man breaks up with his girlfriend and she wants to remain friends, what do woman think is going on. I've tried to get my belongings from her and she gets pissed everytime I bring this up. We talk almost daily, but have not seen one another in 2 months.


3 Comments, 117 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
rm_blackbbw1971 53 F
1  Article
Why do people get depressed after they break up?   7/23/2006

I guess I'm just different. My gf's aways go into a state of depression after they get dumped by their bf's. They don't want to go out and do anything. They just stay in the house and cry like babies for 6 months. When I get dumped I always called my best friend and vent for an hour and then I'm done with it. I have never gotten depressed over it, hell it's not like they are dead or ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
drllr 41 M
8  Articles
breaking up   7/22/2006

well, if a relationship isn't working out, there's only one thing to do. be respectful about it.


0 Comments, 33 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
bighandsnfeet13 50 M
5  Articles
Is this for real?   7/22/2006

A friend of mine tells tales of going to parties where basically everyone fucks everyone else. I've heard of them and know that they do exist, just curious as to the way the whole thing goes on. Can anyone share a believable story?


0 Comments, 101 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
boytoy81501 62 M
1  Article
" Baited then Hated"   7/21/2006

Who would have “Thunk it” ?
Part 1
(Twenty Five years later from past history) If you don’t like true stories, read no further! Besides, my other half wrote the other articles; I guess it is my turn. Hope this is OK with her, but I feel good that it is!
I was out of town on a planned business trip that she could not attend with me. We usually ...


1 Comments, 232 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
I got a question some may be able to answer   7/14/2006

If you and your partner are still much in love and still have fun together out side the bedroom.But the sex is not the same and has been that way for long time that each mostly the ladie just gives in and is not into anymore as she says becuase she says she's tired is this a decent reason to break up or go try to get help i don't know but that was one of the last draws to our break up ...


1 Comments, 101 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
rm_trysome1983 41 M
2  Articles
why do they do it   7/13/2006

Why do girls always do a 180 when it's over. They're not the same person you cared about.


1 Comments, 195 Views, 12 Votes ,1.03 Score
LYING ABOUT SUICIDE   7/12/2006

THIS LAST SEPTEMBER, A RELATIONSHIP I HAD WITH A WOMAN CAME TO AN END. SHE HAD HER "AUNT ERICA" CALL ME TO TELL ME DARBY ATTMPTED SUICIDE. I SAID I WANTED TO SEE DARBY AND THIS "AUNT ERICA" SAID WE WOUULD TALKED ABOUT THAT ON THE NEXT DAY. DARBY AND I HAD GONE TOGETHER FOR 3 YEARS, SAID BOTH HER PARENTS WERE DEAD, (ANOTHER LIE). THE NEXT DAY CAME AND I RECEIVED ANOTHER PHONE CALL FROM ...


0 Comments, 65 Views, 8 Votes ,0.47 Score
Latinhonie28 49 F
1  Article
Is it ever easy?   7/11/2006

Everyone has their own views on the issue of breaking up.To be honest with myself there is no easy way about it.However you can try to be sensitive to the others feeling.Breaking up by phone is no good.If you were in a relationship to begin with then there was a time when you cared about that person enough not hurt their feelings or make them feel worse than already do.The least you could ...


0 Comments, 76 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_mohar10 44 M
16  Articles
A dissimilar perspective is a good thing   7/8/2006

"The lady protests too much, methinks" - Queen Gertrude - Act III, Scene II.
Here Queen Gertrude is making a cynical remark about her counterpart (the Player queen) in Hamlets play, a subplot within the main story.
Shakespeare seems to be making a point about the nature of humanity, that an individuals grievances are a good indication of what issues they are sensitive ...


1 Comments, 45 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
phattygirl0373 42 F
2  Articles
Jade's Delimma   7/5/2006

As she walked out of the door her heart broke into a million little pieces... This was her last hope an she had failed Jade had tried to get Will to forgive her for saying she was done with him. The words were spoken during a moment of hurt and anger but once spoken they could never be taken back. She drove there hoping that if she could just get him to talk to her and see ...


1 Comments, 118 Views, 9 Votes ,2.78 Score
rm_mistressj50 68 F
1  Article
Three-Timing Plus   7/3/2006

It has been so many years since I have heard the term two-timer that I'd nearly forgotten it. I remember the wise advice of friends who would clue you in that a guy was a two-timing bastard. So you grow up, you grow old, you grow wise. I met him 3 years ago and within the first month discovered his marriage was not in "transition" (that sounds like separated doesn't it?... but it really ...


0 Comments, 181 Views, 13 Votes ,3.65 Score
duzicouple 47 C
3  Articles
Unethical   7/3/2006

Is it unethical to break up with an sms as happened to a good friend of ours recently - I think it sucks...


1 Comments, 67 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
Long distance relationships....   7/2/2006

It has been over a year and a half that I broke up with my ex-girlfriend. We had been going out for almost 4 1/2 years. The reason we broke up was because she was going away to school and I had an issue with being in a long distance relationship but was willing to work it out but asked her to come up with how the relationship would work since she was the one that decided to go far away ...


4 Comments, 160 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
purrrrrrrfect67 55 F
0  Articles
"All Tied Up" :Sweet Hot Revenge   6/30/2006

All Tied Up Everybody likes to look. She liked to look, and loved to find the really big ones. Every time she saw a huge, thick cock the first thing she wanted to do was put it in her mouth, like a , give it a taste right away. How salty would it be? How warm or hot? How soft the tip? How firm? How hard the shaft? From the first moment she saw his dick, and every time she saw it ...


1 Comments, 298 Views, 11 Votes ,4.85 Score
rm_Biggt333 37 M
2  Articles
Ex's   6/29/2006

How come when you and your ex break up over some dumb shit and they tell you don't call them anymore and never talk to them again, they always end up calling you and telling you how much that they miss you and love you. That is just crazy!!!


1 Comments, 149 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
who do you hate more   6/22/2006

this is one of my favorite arguements that i have with my friends. you are seeing someone for awhile but then things go bad and you break up. later you find out the boy/girlfriend was dating your friend and that's why the break up happened. what makes you madder? the fact that your former love interest chose your friend over you or the fact that your friend, who you were confiding in, ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 0 Votes
rm_badseed8125 43 M
2  Articles
Does Staying Friends Ever Work?   6/17/2006

I just broke up w/ my girlfriend of 2 years a couple of weeks ago. The relationship ended for me 6 months ago and I freely admit I wasn't honest w/ my feelings for fear of hurting hers. We lived together for a year, had been in couples therepy, and were looking for a new place together for the summer. I had no intentions of marrying her and felt like she was more a friend than a lover. ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
lucky6914_ 38 M
14  Articles
is it time   6/16/2006

me and my girl fight all the time and i hate it. i dont start them she just flips out on me for no reason. but i love her and love being with her and around her, when we are not fighting. how do i know when it is time to call it quits and give up.


1 Comments, 58 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
Any ideas on easy way to break up?   6/14/2006

Title says it all, any ideas on how to let someone go the easiest?


2 Comments, 42 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Why won't men not give up when it's over...   6/10/2006

I don't understand when you tell a man that you want out of a relationship why won't they give up. When you say it's over they keep coning back and I don't understand why.


2 Comments, 162 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Metal_Mulisha23 30 F
3  Articles
If Only I could Hate You   6/8/2006

If I only could hate you, I wouldn't think about you every day. If I only could hate you, everything would be okay. I wouldn't want to talk to you, or anticipate your call. I wouldn't want to write you, or hear your voice at all. I wouldn't feel sad, when you are crying. I wouldn't even feel bad, when I know your lying. I wouldn't want to go to your house, or even pass ...


2 Comments, 84 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
sexyblondie19 39 F
1  Article
me and an ex having sex   6/7/2006

okay! me and this guy were dating for 7 months! hes been in jail and in a halfway house! after we broke up he been calling me and asking me to come get him from the house! i do becuz i have strong feelings for him so bad! i love him still to this day! all we did was have sex though! now..he's been out of prison for a couple months! he told me he would never date me again, but he'll have sex ...


2 Comments, 269 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
UandMePlus1Girl 49 F
2  Articles
What are his intentions now?   6/4/2006

After a 3 year relationship that came to a bitter end, my ex wanted nothing to do with me, then all of a sudden he starts calling me on a daily basis his opening question is "what are you doing/up to?" then he talks about this or that happened to him while at work, filling my ear with the same thing everytime. A couple of times after the break up he called me saying he just wanted to have ...


5 Comments, 210 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
rm_ThickClit313 46 F
3  Articles
Who has the hardest time?   5/29/2006

Women are said to be more emotionally attached than men, but does that mean that a man can't have that same emotional attachment? Men can love just as hard or harded than a woman.
With that being said, I want to know who you think has the hardest time letting go, women or men?


6 Comments, 256 Views, 17 Votes ,4.12 Score
MrMilkman757 41 M
3  Articles
Rules Of Post Relationship Sex?   5/27/2006

Are there any set rules when it relates to having sex with an ex? At what point does the sex become a relationship again?


1 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_dpl1019 59 M
0  Articles
After 19 Years   5/22/2006

Well after 19 yrs, she left me and my for greener grass, only greener grass turned yellow after 3 days, i'd take her back in a flash, but she doesn't want to...yet she doesn't want a divorce, still comes round for a couple of hours each week and is coming on holiday with me and my ...what am i to do or think?


8 Comments, 307 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
rm_Soapystacey 48 F
2  Articles
What should i do?   5/20/2006

He broke up with me so what should i do?


4 Comments, 467 Views, 12 Votes ,1.56 Score
nascarbaby2 55 F
16  Articles
Have you ever been broke up w/ over something stupid?   5/11/2006

I lost a boyfriend over going to a grocery store and saying hi to a male friend....


2 Comments, 70 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
rm_MSBHYVN 61 F
13  Articles
When you done. YOUR DONE   5/9/2006

I must have tried everything in the book to help my 2nd marriage after my 1st husband died. I had with my 1st husband and Ive known him since I was 7. I tried counciling. I tried to be nice, But all he could say was. What about me. Can't you just give me some of your time. Well what time do I have with a Mom having quad by pass a week after buring the 1st one. and my who miss ...


2 Comments, 261 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
rm_m_goran 40 M
1  Article
Why do people feel bad when they break up?   5/5/2006

It's one of the best days in your whole life when u realize u're free again, isn't it? always look on the bright side of life


0 Comments, 74 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_AMAZZZED 64 M
1  Article
Text messaging and breaking up....   5/4/2006

Me and my Lady dated for amost 2 years...had a GREAT TIME...I can go ON and ON about us for Hours...we did have a few ups and downs..as any couple will have...anyway..to the question...LOL...what are your thoughts and what would be your reaction if out of the blue your Girlfriend broke up with you using "JUST TEXT"...NO Verbal communication? Text and E-Mails..."ONLY"..she said it hurt to ...


3 Comments, 157 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
Not the best way to break up, but effective   5/2/2006

So this one night my soon to be ex-girlfriend took me out to a steakhouse and paid for both of us. Afterward she cant wait to fuck me so we pulled over into a parking lot and fucked and everything. Then we pull out and i take her back home and kiss her goodbye. This is the breaking up part. I didnt return her calls or see her for 2 weeks afterward and when i picked up i was at her friends ...


1 Comments, 136 Views, 12 Votes
AbsolutionISzero 36 M
3  Articles
Acceptable dating practice, Or Douche-baggery?   5/2/2006

Is it ok, in a relationship, To more or less force the other person to break up with you if you cant think of a way to do it yourself? Ive done this a couple times now- and I feel bad, sortof. They were valid breakups, brought on by lack of compatibility, lack of attraction, etc. But I couldn't break up with the girls. I just couldn't find a time or way to do it! So, I just painted myself ...


1 Comments, 29 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
AbsolutionISzero 36 M
3  Articles
Acceptable dating practice, Or Douche-baggery?   5/2/2006

Is it ok, in a relationship, To more or less force the other person to break up with you if you cant think of a way to do it yourself? Ive done this a couple times now- and I feel bad, sortof. They were valid breakups, brought on by lack of compatibility, lack of attraction, etc. But I couldn't break up with the girls. I just couldn't find a time or way to do it! So, I just painted myself ...


4 Comments, 114 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
rm_northernites 53 M
1  Article
My heart and soul are hemorraging!   4/30/2006

I broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. She's a Cubana with lots of passion that I crave, but she's also been a convicted liar, over and over. I left her because I couldn't trust her to marry her. She's 35, and I didn't want to waste her time or mine anymore, although I did still want her.
Now that she is gone, my mind says I'm better off without her while my ...



3 Comments, 218 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
Staying friends   4/30/2006

Any advice on how to stay friends with someone after a long relationship???


1 Comments, 214 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
rm_Superman6911 43 M
10  Articles
Divorce & history   4/17/2006

Divorce or dissolution of marriage is the ending of a marriage before the death of either spouse, which can be contrasted with an annulment, which is a declaration that a marriage is void, though the effects of marriage may be recognized in such unions, such as spousal support, custody and distribution of property.
In many developed countries, divorce rates have increased ...


1 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_RichTampa 53 M
1  Article
Friends more than lovers   4/12/2006

After 9 years of marriage my wife told me that she felt we made great friends and told me that she thought she needed to go out on her own and be by herself. This has been happening to more and more couples lately I think. I have at least 6 couples that are close to me that have or are going through the same thing. Of course I was crushed at first but I seem to be starting to see her point ...


2 Comments, 171 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
its the worse   4/12/2006

just wanted 2 say that i think breaking up is the worst thing in the world. i have had only 2 serious relationships and when we have split up it send you crazy, not 2 mention sex deprived!! i bet there are so many women who wish that relationships were easier than they are, because i know i do!! i get accused of cheating, flirting, all sorts and i have never ever done any of the things ive ...


0 Comments, 68 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
vabeachguy23452 42 M
1  Article
How Long Is Enough Time Before Moving On?   4/10/2006

I met a girl back in October and we instantly hit it off in every way possible. We spent a month getting to know each then started dating exclusively. We semi-lived together practically the length of the relationship and it just seemed natural. One evening she decided that a serious relationship was something she wasn't ready for so she broke up with me. It has been over a month now and ...


2 Comments, 194 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
TheMartinRiggs 52 M
4  Articles
How can love stop   4/9/2006

I met a woman who set my heart on fire from the first sight. I know, heard that before. I am not that kind of person though. I have been content my whole life being alone. No body to hurt me or get hurt. This one changed evrything about me. She felt the same way too. We have both actually lived now thanks to each other. New sights, new activities, new sensations. We both saw the end of time ...


1 Comments, 44 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
rm_DCBLACK5 71 M
2  Articles
Why lead someone on   4/5/2006

My story is about a relationship that reappeared after 33years .My high school sweetheart in Hawaii.After two failed marrages on both parts we met once again and the sparks started to fly.We did things together that she never did with her ex, one husband only made love missionary style and never performed oral on he in 22 years, the other husband only wanted to have sex between 12-1 on ...


1 Comments, 57 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
gsmiley6 56 M
5  Articles
Do I give it to her again?   4/4/2006

I just finished talking to my ex and even though she wants to be a lesbian today she wants my dick. Damn she is playing with my head but a good shot of that fine pussy would be great. Lots of friends are against me doing this but in my heart I believe she isn't what she thinks she is. I don't think she wants to live life as a gay woman. Well what do you think, do I give it to her again or ...


1 Comments, 82 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
gsmiley6 56 M
5  Articles
How long is enough?   4/2/2006

How long do you wait before you end the self-imposed suffering after a love one leaves you. I agreed that she should move out so she could think about what she wants in life. She agreed to let me know at the end of a month. Should I wait for her decision or stand up for my self and tell her she can't come back.


0 Comments, 81 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
rm_BigNate3175 49 M
1  Article
Why is it when you are with a women.............   3/31/2006

whty is it when you are with a women, while you are with them they always so oh my god your dick is so big, you want that to fit where? Then when something goes wrong and you break up she runs around telling everyone, oh my god is was so small i didn't feel a thing. I want to know why this is ladies. Can anyone tell me why?


1 Comments, 115 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
rainqueen04 55 F
17  Articles
Sometimes It's Never Over Until You Say So   3/30/2006

My boyfriend and I met on this site through the cupid settings and started seeing each other as friends with benefits. We found we had alot of the same interests, such as motorcycling, traveling, hiking, good food and having fun. We started out going on a hike or two, and exploring what was out there for a couple to do. We traveled, had fun, adventures that we laugh at today, ate great ...


0 Comments, 140 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
rm_msbossey1 61 F
1  Article
Internet breakup   3/27/2006

You haft to be really careful when in an internet relation. I began talking to someone on the internet and we hit it off fast, within a few days we were calling each other all the time, we couldnt get enough of each other, so we decided to meet and he lived far enough away that he had to fly to see me, we spent two wonderful and exciting days together. When he went home things changed ...


6 Comments, 469 Views, 35 Votes ,4.03 Score
gsmiley6 56 M
5  Articles
Letting go   3/27/2006

Two weeks ago my best friend/lover ask if we could take a break from our relationship. She has feelings that she may want a relationship with a woman only. She is not sure she can live an openly gay relationship. These feelings are not new but are stronger then they have every been. I agreed to the break. Both of us our Bi but I limit my man to man contact to group or couples only. We have ...


0 Comments, 64 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
ohyesedd 46 M
4  Articles
how do u end it but still be friends   3/25/2006

is it possible? can you be lovers and then just be friends? can you end a relationship and still be friends? I still dont know if this works.. on some occasion i do believe it does but on some its just hard..


1 Comments, 133 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
ChocolateSweet3 40 F
2  Articles
Breaking-Up is Hard   3/24/2006

True Story: A couple got married in for all the worng reasons. The man in the relationship like the woman but did not want to marry her. He loved her but was not in love with her. She was STUPIDLY in love with him though. He told her that he was not ready to get married. She said alright but then she tried to kill herself all b/c he said that he was not going to marry her. Well they still ...


0 Comments, 63 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
BEST WAY OUT   3/23/2006

BREAKING UP IS NOT EASY BUT THE MOST IMPORTANT WAY TO DO IT IS TRY TO BE FRIENDS LIVE IS TO SHORT SOW WE MUST HAVE FUN , LIVE AND LET LIVE.
YOU NEVER KNOW SOME TIMES WEN YOU LEAVE A RELACIONSHIP AND START ANOTHER EVERYTHING BRITHENS UP.


1 Comments, 51 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
darthervader 51 M
2  Articles
easier for men or women   3/21/2006

I am not sure why I am writing this article, but at some level I suppose it is an attempt to get rid of unwanted and negative energy!
Over the years I've had a number of relationships, that I have only only had two serious relationships. The first winner was when I was when I was a student and the next ended just over a year ago. In both occasions, the breakup for me (the male) I ...


1 Comments, 66 Views, 10 Votes ,2.59 Score
cherrysstud69 53 C
10  Articles
When is it stalking?   3/18/2006

I'm being bad, but this is about my Aunt. She is only 1 year older than me, but she acts like she is 14. I hooked her up with an old boyfriend of mine, thinking they were both single and could have a good time. After dating for a couple of months, he broke up with her because she "acts out" when she drinks. For the last 5 months she won't stop talking about him, calling him, writing him ...


0 Comments, 73 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
confidentncute 33 F
2  Articles
BREAKING UP   3/16/2006

ITS THE WORSE THING TO GO THROUGH ALL OF US CAN AGREE.. BUT IS IT REALLY WORTH CRYING DAY AFTER AND DAY ABOUT.. NOPE. THE BEST WAY IS TO KEEP YOURSELF BUSY AND OCCUPIED WITH YOUR FAVORITE INTREST MINES IS SEXFinder.com HAHAHA


0 Comments, 72 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
rm_sexy7one 61 M
8  Articles
breaking up is hard to do   3/11/2006

How many people break up and realize that it was a mistake when they find that there is nothing out there? but then have to much pride to say i'm sorry?


1 Comments, 47 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
WHAT CAUSES THEM   3/8/2006

WHAT THE MAN REASONS FOR BREAK UP?


0 Comments, 49 Views, 0 Votes
__________vix 49 F
9  Articles
Getting over them   3/8/2006

Life just isn't all white picket fences and rose-covered cottages. Sooner, or later, your relationship could hit a bad patch, and you find yourselves going your separate ways.
So, my question is this....how do you get over this and find the self-esteem to move on?
Online, "relationships" can be over without one of the partners ever being any the wiser. I should know, it ...


1 Comments, 64 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
peardrax2 44 M
2  Articles
cure for broken heart?   3/6/2006

enough has been said about breaking up. however, who can assist in healing a broken heart? if anyone knows the cure... please tell me. its been just about 1 yr and i keep literally having dreams about her. what the fuck is wrong with me? i cant even have peace of mind in my sleep, much less when i'm awake!? why oh why do i still feel so fucked up? my heart needs a really big bandage!


1 Comments, 86 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
breaking up is sad   3/5/2006

More often than not, breaking up is as hard on the person ending the relationship as it is on the person being broken up with - don't assume just because a person is breaking up with you means that they no longer care about you, caring about you and wanting a relationship with you are not one and the same.


0 Comments, 104 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
rm_HotTigers 47 C
12  Articles
Reena's lession   3/3/2006

Breaking up is very difficult and painful thing for both sides.There are many reasons why people are doing it. Sometimes they got bored by"old" partner, sometimes think they are not suitable for each other.In my case7.5 years ago after spending 3 years together I knew I'm "too bad girl"for such wonderful man.And not to turn his life into real hell(he was planning to marry me)I worked it ...


1 Comments, 228 Views, 17 Votes ,1.29 Score
rm_brahmabull30 55 M
1  Article
Tell Me The Bright Side   3/3/2006

Man, what can I say. Never been in such a bad situation. I am so lost. I am in so much pain, nothing like I have experienced before. I just gave it everything I had. I relocated 3000 miles, lost my job, flat broke, 1 friend & she says "she has realized that she never felt enough connection with us" now and it is over. I didn't see it coming at all. I though we were just having problems ...


1 Comments, 88 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
rm_deja1319 37 F
6  Articles
why its so hard   2/28/2006

why is breaking up hard to do even when its the right thing to do


3 Comments, 219 Views, 14 Votes ,1.70 Score
rm_alizeg 38 F
2  Articles
Becoming "friends" again   2/27/2006

When the relationship started, i had something else in mind. so then when we broke up, i now realize that it was because a lot of things were hard to bring up because we weren't friends too long before the relationship started. So now that we're broken up, things are awkward cos we still live together. I mean, we're still friends but I'm trying to ease him into the things that I like to do ...


1 Comments, 147 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
rm_DCBLACK5 71 M
2  Articles
It only hurts when you really,really love that person   2/25/2006

Breaking up is common these days cause ther seems to be no rush to get serious, but when you find that one and start the process of forever after and give all there is to give only to be told thati need my space , or it's me not you then you feel slighted and confused cause this was supposed to be the one then it does hurt like HELL and it takes time to recover...!


2 Comments, 102 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
Here is why it's hard!   2/25/2006

When I am in a relationship I want her to be my best friend. I want her to have similar intrest yet bring something of her own to the relationship. This is one of the main reason's why it hurts and your confused. Let's face it no one not in a relationship goes out and says, "I just think we are to different, or your not who I thought you were or even You have changed. Let's not be ...


2 Comments, 199 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
By phone or in person   2/23/2006

If you are involved with someone and you have gotten to know them and you decide to break up with them, I believe you own them an explanation. An honest one. How else can we all grow and learn from what we have done. If you are mature enough to be intimate with someone then be mature enough to tell them why you are breaking up. That is my opinion anyway.


2 Comments, 173 Views, 19 Votes ,5.23 Score
rm_mitsikid 46 M
1  Article
My girlfriend has started lap dancing   2/23/2006

My girlfriend of 6 years & fiance of 2 years has started lap dancing. She's been doing it for about 3 months now & I'm trying really hard to accept her doing it but somedays I find it really hard not to start arguing about it with her. I love her to bits & she says she loves me. I've asked her to stop & find alternative work but she said she wont because the money is so good. She always ...


3 Comments, 189 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
TenN1Half 59 M
6  Articles
Money   2/21/2006

I left my women because she was out of control.


1 Comments, 177 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
What would you do   2/19/2006

I'm with this young lady that i really love, but I don't trust her. she tell me things that i know its a lie, I even caught her email someone talking about meeting up and she told me it was a joke, trust me thats some B.S. I don't want to breakup as ememies i still would like to be friends and i feel like all she have to do is tell me the truth and we can go our separate ways as friends and ...


0 Comments, 170 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
surferchick_2k4 36 F
11  Articles
Had troubles in tha past doing it or having troubles now?   2/18/2006

im having troubles so i wanna hear what experinces youv had n how u delt with it.


0 Comments, 112 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
surferchick_2k4 36 F
11  Articles
it sucks!   2/18/2006

im with this guy who i dnt really like, but i love him heaps! i live with him but when i say its over, i never pack my stuff and leave! i dont know why. mabe we should really be together. give me reasons why i should really move out or not. i dont think this is a healthy realationship but i just cnt do it!


2 Comments, 201 Views, 6 Votes ,1.37 Score
It's never easy...   2/15/2006

Breaking up is never easy but I believe in karma and that everyone has a mate out there, sometimes it just takes time. Time always seems to be standing still though when you are waiting for that special someone to come along. <br> I broke off an 8 year relationship, we were engaged but I couldn't marry him, I knew things just did'nt feel right but I felt sorry for him and I ...


1 Comments, 108 Views, 7 Votes ,4.82 Score
emersunbigguns 57 M
9  Articles
Don't get hooked up with an alcoholic, even if you are one...   2/14/2006

I met a nice(I thought) little gal several months ago. We met in a bar that I was currently enjoying myself in, after work. We had a lot of laughs together and we got along just great. She invited me to crash at her place that night, and she directed me into a room, with a mattress on the floor. That was actually OK with me... I couldn't drive at this point. She woke me up quite early in ...


0 Comments, 184 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
gbcock4u69 50 M
12  Articles
together for the wrong reasons?   2/13/2006

I find myself breaking up with women, but i always seem to want to be with them again, mainly for the sex....i actually enjoy sex more with an ex than i do with her when i was dating her...is this common?


0 Comments, 179 Views, 6 Votes ,0.23 Score
rm_iceyduncan 40 F
5  Articles
breaking up!its not the end!   2/11/2006

Breaking is not the end of your life and happiness.Face the world and be brave!


3 Comments, 168 Views, 16 Votes ,2.39 Score
DiegoSantana1 61 M
2  Articles
left for another   2/6/2006

I don't know why it is so well documented in songs and poetry, but why is it that when two people fall in love and they hit it off I mean like they were twins for Gods sake. Why is it so sad when one leaves the other without any warning or reason? We spent the past two years plus (2 1/2) talking about "the rest of our lives" I was fully head over heels in love and she acted the same way ...


1 Comments, 113 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
kneeldown2006 51 M
3  Articles
break up with a letter   2/5/2006

I was given a dear john letter from the women I spent the past 19 yrs with. Was I in for a surprise. I thought it was a letter of love. How could I have missed the signs. We rarely fought, had great sex, laughed a lot, had fun. It seems she is having a mid-life crisis now that she is 40. 6 months ago I packed up my life and moved across the country so she could be near her family. I gave up ...


3 Comments, 163 Views, 8 Votes ,3.48 Score
69playgirl6969 44 M
1  Article
whats the best way to break up   2/3/2006

a couple months ago, i decided that i just wasnt happy with my relationship, so i cooked my boyfriend dinner, then i give him a massage ran him some nice hot bathwater, and even had sex with him. adn after all was said and done i broke the news and told him that it was over. he was really crushed, was i wrong


2 Comments, 94 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
rm_alizeg 38 F
2  Articles
I thought we were broke up   2/2/2006

I never wanted to be in a relationship in the first fucking place. Me and my roommate started dating out of convenience. This sux cos I didnt even know when we started dating. We were roommates/fuck buddies. Then he started getting jealous about all types of bullshit. His friends liked to kick it around me n he never came out the crib. So why wouldnt they kick it around me. Im a cool ...


1 Comments, 173 Views, 8 Votes ,2.32 Score
What Would You Do?   1/30/2006

Blithe Spirit 2006 posted an article and it got me to thinking about a variation on her hypothetical question that someone told me about. <br> What would you do if you met someone through this site and started having what you thought would be a long term relationship and possible marriage only to find out from a fried that the person you were involved with had reactivated their ...


2 Comments, 131 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
secondnature7 47 M
3  Articles
You know what needs to be done...Just do it!!!   1/30/2006

I hear this issue come up with so many defferent people, so I thought I'd put in my 2 cents... <br> So many people know their relationship is over (and probabably has been for quite a while), but they think it will get easier if they wait... Or they want their significant other to make a mistake, and give them an excuse... You can't keep ignoring the problem!! You just end up ...


0 Comments, 404 Views, 5 Votes ,4.45 Score
secondnature7 47 M
3  Articles
Is ID confirmation safe?   1/29/2006

With all of the ID theft issues out there... I'm a little concerned about sending in a copy of my photo ID. Most on-line sites let you verify your ID with a credit card... <br> Has anyone had any problems?


2 Comments, 87 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
rm_juliusdengo 50 M
1  Article
It's the bravest thing I've ever done.   1/27/2006

We were both way too young when we met. For both of us it was our first relationship. After college, when you start working, life changes. Our lives changed in very different ways. It's sad, but there's no reason to spend the rest of your life with someone you don't get along with all that well, is there? But it took me 3 years to realize this. 7 1/2 years sharing our lives together. 5 ...


1 Comments, 161 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
steve-barb 58 C
2  Articles
Am I the bad guy or is my wife crazy?   1/26/2006

Thank you to all who comment or read this. First off my wife and I have been married for 13 years, 2 boys 13 and 7, house dogs the whole bit. We have been swinging for 7 years and no real problems have come of it. But now last friday night I caught her in bed with her best friends husband. They were seperated and divorcing. Her best friend told her to go for it if she wanted, she said ...


3 Comments, 382 Views, 11 Votes ,3.54 Score
NYHoosier64 41 M
2  Articles
Trying to move on   1/26/2006

So I am finding it difficult to fully move on from a past relationship that lasted for almost 2 1/2 years. Has anyone else had this problem? I do care for her still, but she has her guard up and doesnt want us to try "us" again so I have accepted that and attempted to move on. My main problem is that I lost a lot of my confidence after the break up. I got comfortable with being in a ...


1 Comments, 127 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
maleuwannabwit 39 M
1  Article
How do you tell someone you dont wanna b with them anymore   1/25/2006

Questions in the title.


0 Comments, 161 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Is breaking up really hard to do?   1/25/2006

In my opinion it is one of the hardest things that any one person can do. I have been in a relationship for quite a long time now, three years to be exact. I love her still, but I just don't feel the same way I did when we were going out two years ago. One part of it is that she moved about 400 miles away to go to school, the other being she changed. I wouldn't say in a bad way, but just in ...


1 Comments, 206 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
rm_andro7867 62 F
1  Article
Is this fair?   1/24/2006

I agreed with my partner not to visit a certain bar because it caused a rift between us and because I was doing my best to cut down on my drinking. He disagreed with the amount of time I spent there and did not like the 'friends' I got along with. <br> I did my best to stick to this agreement, to the point that my partner and I got back together after splitting up for a few ...


5 Comments, 347 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
pinmsa2 51 C
98  Articles
10 Husbands, Still a Virgin   1/24/2006

A lawyer married a woman who had previously divorced ten husbands. <br> On their wedding night, she told her new husband, "Please be gentle, I'm still a virgin." <br> "What?" said the puzzled groom. <br> "How can that be if you've been married ten times?" <br> "Well, Husband #1 was a sales representative: he kept telling me how great it was ...


2 Comments, 244 Views, 23 Votes ,6.05 Score
looking4miss469 46 M
1  Article
why   1/18/2006

why is it so hard breaking up with a girl friend?


1 Comments, 139 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
rm_rugzx924 43 M
9  Articles
Cutting off   1/17/2006

the whole "can we still be friends line" is crap. It can't work because a good breakup is a rare. Once u have broken the other person off, make sure u stay broken. Still talking to your ex will only bring about unnecessary drama.


2 Comments, 255 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
rm_DytnHrdBody 55 M
1  Article
Why is it......   1/15/2006

Why is it when you plan the perfect rendezvous and everything you planned goes accordingly, you even have a wonderfully passionate night in bed together.....why is it you can never get her to return your calls? I mean, Im not stalking her or anything, but come on. I'm a good looking guy!


2 Comments, 241 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
rm_eatinatdaY74 49 M
2  Articles
What makes it so hard?   1/15/2006

I have a problem.I tried to break up with my girlfriend of just over a year yesterday and couldnt even get the words out of my mouth. so needless to say i am still with her. how do i let her go without tearing her heart out?


5 Comments, 145 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
rm_ProFallguy 52 M
1  Article
Taking a Break?   1/11/2006

Ok, what the hell is the deal with women that instead of saying they want to break up, prefer the term "take a break". <br> In my opinion, this is an excuse to start messing around with other people, while still trying to keep the other person "on the backburner". <br> Is it so hard just to be honest and say something like, "Y'know, things just aren't working out and I ...


1 Comments, 81 Views, 5 Votes ,5.10 Score
guy1234563 40 M
11  Articles
tough break ups   1/10/2006

I've never been good at break ups.


0 Comments, 202 Views, 0 Votes
FPSJ20 39 M
10  Articles
Best way to heal a breakup   1/9/2006

Well, in terms of what I have gone through in my life, I would say that the best way to get over a break up, is "Time". Time is a healing factor for many areas like when you break a leg. Doctors are a big role in that area to heal it, but over time, it does get better. The leg may not be back to its normal strength when it is fully healed, but you can use it again. Same goes for a breakup, ...


0 Comments, 102 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
lastof_thegreats 40 M
2  Articles
Getting over somebody?   1/9/2006

Okay, I had spoken about the following earlier and it was mentioned that I should put this into an article, so I am. Here it is: So - theres alot of talk about about whether person X has gotten over person Y. When people discontinue things, advice comes from every which way saying "get over them quick!" But what really is "getting over someone" and whats the point? I think too ...


1 Comments, 243 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
rm_sandman799 40 M
2  Articles
keeping it together   1/8/2006

i find that when i've been with a girl for a few months things start to cool down, i start to lose interest and my eyes start to wander, i feel guilty about it sometime, but i just cant help it, i always feel like i could do better that what ive got, so i end up breaking up with them , but i never have a reason why to give them. does that make me a bad person?


1 Comments, 115 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
Karma sucks!!!   1/7/2006

It happenned two days before Christmas. I can still vividly remember how crisp and cold the morning was, and how perfectly deliciouse the donuts lying infront of me for breakfast looked. The previouse night's conversation was still playing in my head leaving an unpleasant aftertaste in the pit of my stomach. I wanted to talk about it before he left to go to the gym, when he opened his mouth ...


0 Comments, 372 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_yngguy4you2 38 M
6  Articles
break up in person?   1/6/2006

what do you guys think is the best way to break up, over the phone or in person?


0 Comments, 254 Views, 6 Votes ,1.66 Score
spicylatino78 46 M
5  Articles
my top 10 excuses from breaking up   1/4/2006

10- you look like your mother 9- your sister does it better 8- it's not you, it's my wife 7- having is a mistress is outta my budget 6- i dont like your tits 5- im seeing someelse (not really..i just want to meet more chicks at SEXFinder.com.com) 4- im getting deported (not really..i just want to meet more chicks at SEXFinder.com.com) 3- too many taxes 2- I prefer ...


1 Comments, 154 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_soulvibrates 49 M
1  Article
Yeh right   1/4/2006

Breaking up is easy? A lady posted that hmmmm Easy if you got no soul. <br> I don`t think so if you are classed as a decent human being.The love of my life dumped me its been 8 months now and I still miss her and always will.When ive also broke up realationships I find myself feeling really guilty as dont wont to hurt anyone.Is this just me or should I join the band waggon of ...


1 Comments, 175 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
rm_NightOwl621 44 M
27  Articles
Getting Over You   1/3/2006

Getting Over You <br> <br> Another day has pass, my feelings are still the same. It has been a while, since I've said your sweet name. Why is it like this? What did I do wrong? When will these feelings end? I've waited far too long. My thoughts are fading, the answers I can't find. Damn! how can I get, you out of my mind? The words are running out, there's nothing ...


0 Comments, 134 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
rm_jamcredux 47 M
7  Articles
No surrender.   1/3/2006

I dump you. You dump me. Get over it. Life goes on.


3 Comments, 343 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
rm_spunky5112 67 F
14  Articles
be nice!!   1/2/2006

i believe being up front and honest at any age is best policy!! went to a swing party with a new SEXFinder.com contact..we were new so wasn't prepared for the swing style...but know now.. anyway, , experience was good..and after we left he mentioned we could be swing partners for more events.. i thought cool, , and guess assumed we would also meet for fun one-on-one.. wrong.. never heard from him ...


1 Comments, 301 Views, 14 Votes ,6.02 Score
misuseme 32 M
2  Articles
trouble   1/2/2006

OK now I know that this is a sore subject but what the hell. i have benn kinda seeing this beautiful lady for awhile now and at first we had the understanding that it was going to be a physical realtionship and nothing more. well now she is wanting to introduce me to her family what in the hell should I do.


3 Comments, 171 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
It's hard   1/2/2006

I find that it's very hard to do, I recently broke up with someone and it hurts like hell. He really wasn't the one for me yet I fell in love with him. I still think about him all the time and sometimes I want to give him a call. I realize that he really didn't love me as he said he did. But it still hurts. It's hard to move on when there isn't someone else to replace him. I guess that's ...


1 Comments, 158 Views, 5 Votes ,2.16 Score
girlcravesgirl 50 C
10  Articles
Is it hard to do?   12/29/2005

Breaking up can be the hardest thing to do, but how do you do it properly. We think taht you need to confront the person and let them know exactly what is failing in the relationship and see if it continues before ending it.


2 Comments, 208 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
gmoney0505 35 M
7  Articles
Hard to break up   12/27/2005

I s it hard to break up with someone you have been with for a long time. i know it is for me to do it and it should be hard for you if you were really in love with that person. Why are there so many relationships out there that are just going downhill. Why are there so many people getting divorces after just 1 year of marriage. Please tell me why people?


2 Comments, 145 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
lickchoco1971 53 F
1  Article
Why do people get depressed after they break up?   12/26/2005

For example: My girlfriend got dumped by this man, who I really didn't care for anyway, and she was in tears for weeks, didn't want to go to work or out anywhere. I think that is just crazy. Hell it's not like he died you got dumped get over it. My friends think that I am a bitch because I go out the following weekend and start talking to men. For me the way I see it is if he really ...


2 Comments, 151 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
Irishsex135 38 M
5  Articles
Hah   12/21/2005

Yea thats why I joined this site, just to get the sex out of it.


0 Comments, 132 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
Staying Friends   12/17/2005

When I was younger (and a lot more idealistic), I would always want to maintain the friendship when a romantic relationship ended. Now I have a different philosophy. After a significant relationship ends, there should be no contact for about a year. After that, if you reconnect as friends, then you have a friendship that's worth something. If not, then maybe you're better off remaining ...


2 Comments, 218 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
rm_chaukenda 48 F
0  Articles
man playeri will   12/16/2005

i was chatting with a guy .we finally got to meet he was nice.we went to his house made love he took pictures.then he gives me a testiomential i gave him one.then i find ou he haves giving alot of woman testiometials and has slept with alot of them.he tells me thing then he tells other woman things.i talked to one of his botty calls and he gets mad .she then in returns gives him my ims .he ...


3 Comments, 270 Views, 16 Votes ,1.51 Score
Making a clean break ?!?   12/16/2005

I see this over and over when a couple breaks up... most of the time they are miserable for months or even years and then the usual "exit excuse" is "I need some room", which will drag things on even longer. Why is it not possible for an adult to straight forward say that they are not happy and want out? Sure it might add the shock value but I still think it's less painfull than dragging ...


0 Comments, 245 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
It is over when it is over...   12/14/2005

Why break-up? Why? To see other people? That seems to be the most common reason. In marriage, serious long term relationships or simple dating, the common thread is wanting to see someone else. But why break-up? Perhaps it is better to just say, "Until next time", or maybe, "Let's try this again when we're both interested." I see so many friends fall in and out of relationships. ...


1 Comments, 949 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
chrisomaha 44 M
11  Articles
sex after a breakup, is it normal, and or a good idea   12/13/2005

i have never been able to stay friends with a girl after a longterm relationship, and i think sex just sends even more mixed feelings. while it seems like it's just physical, i think there is still emotional attachment for quite a long time. i would also say it is pretty rare, as i have not experienced it, due to those facts.


0 Comments, 338 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
TrackStar6933 45 M
1  Article
Do business elsewhere?   12/13/2005

I am a car salesman by profession. A few months ago, one of my collegues had a live-in girlfriend that broke up with him and bought a vehicle from a different dealership that sells the same new vehicle brand as we do. To me, this act of spite and malice was far worse than throwing all of belongings into the street. Can't people be civil enough to separate business from pleasure. I put ...


0 Comments, 357 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_dicknpannies 42 M
2  Articles
Break Up with one's you love.   12/12/2005

Breaking up with someone you love is not easy. It's one of the hardess things to do. The first thing that comes up in your mind is your feelings for this person. Not only that The things you and this person Shared with each other. I am a prime withness. I also have experienced this action in my life. But what Ihave learned is that. It's better to get to know your self more better than ...


1 Comments, 259 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
badduck1 57 M
1  Article
personality or looks   12/11/2005

Choices on dates... <br> a) a ten on looks and in bed, but with a vauge personality and not alot going for her besides those things. <br> b) dynamic personality, good in bed, but average on looks, however motivated and goal driven.


0 Comments, 210 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
A Happier Ending   12/10/2005

I had just hit my prime, had gotten a divorce and was having an affair that I thought was the best thing that ever happened to both of us. Our sex was incredible. He loved sucking and fucking me and I loved sucking and fucking him. I thought about us constantly. When we were together, I had multiple orgasms most every time we made love, but always had at least one. Then, suddenly, he ...


0 Comments, 308 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
rm_tecknohippi 39 M
1  Article
how to end it, by txt or face to face   12/7/2005

When breaking up with someone would you say it’s best to do it face to face or quickly send a txt and run away. Personally I think doing face to face is the decent way at least you don’t leave the other person with loads of questions like if, how and why. What do you all think then!


4 Comments, 95 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
Ever Heard of Break Up Sex?   12/2/2005

Many emotions are going through both of you when your going through the process of breaking up. If the break up isn't knock down ulgy with objects flying across the room & profanities screaming at each other, there seems to still be a feeling of genuine careing for the other. Breaking up can be frighting for many. Most may just fear the unknown and not like the idea about being out on your ...


1 Comments, 194 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
rm_stiffsource 46 M
8  Articles
when is enough enough   12/2/2005

I've been with this girl for over 2 yr on and off but whenever we're off she goes out and screws anything walking but then comes back do you think she just likes my sex is why she comes back?


2 Comments, 61 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
rm_devaloch 43 M
3  Articles
Yell or just walk away   12/2/2005

HAve u ever had a bad break up with someone?? In your opinion what is the best way to handle a bad breakup?? Is it to rant and rave at the person or to simply just walk away. Keep in mind that it is already a bad breakup before you have to decide. They could be yelling or screaming at you. So what do you do?


3 Comments, 278 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
bigfella626 64 M
2  Articles
FINALIZATION   11/28/2005

People when you break up with someone please finalize it.The worst thing you can do is leave that window of opportunity there.On most occasions when you try relieve the past you only bring more hurt into your life.Or cause hurt to the people you have in your life at the time.


0 Comments, 78 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score