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G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
How to make Long distance relationships work   9/9/2022

Effective communication is essential when it comes to a successful long-distance relationship. Not just how and what you communicate, but when you do it, too. It helps to establish some sort of schedule when it comes to communication, and although routine might not sound romantic, it can play an important part. Most of us feel secure with routine; it reassures us to know that something's ...


1 Comments, 2 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
humour: 5Dating Tips For Guys   9/5/2022

Ever feel like you're losing in love? Can't ever get past the first date? Do women give you fake numbers or simply leave half way through a date when you've gone off to the restroom? Well, it's time for your luck to change my friend! Follow these simple dating tips to help ensure that your love life is everything you ever wanted it to be. <br><br> 1. You are what you ...


1 Comments, 7 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
Single Men Over 50: 5 Ways to Find the Right Woman   9/4/2022

1) Look within your age group. You may think this is the time to find yourself a hot beach bunny, but remember the downside: she wants you for the security you represent, the places you can take her and the things you will buy. She will create a lot of drama in your life and may be looking to trade-up to your wealthier friends or someone younger. For a while it may be fun to try and keep up with ...


2 Comments, 11 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
G000dbuddy 36 M
23  Articles
The Average Guy's Guide to Beautiful Women   9/4/2022

Why didn't you say anything to her?" I asked my friend. "She's just too pretty, " he replied with defeat. <br><br> It's a recognized phenomenon that most men who consider themselves "average" have a difficult time approaching, much less talking to, women they consider "beautiful." "She's too pretty, " "I'm not good ...


1 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
skibum044 74 M
0  Articles
COVID-19 PLEASE READ AND PASS ON TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW   10/24/2021

From Johns Hopkins Hospital.... The following is from Irene Ken physician, whose is an Asst. Prof in infectious diseases at Johns Hopkins University, quite informative. <br><br> * The virus is not a living organism, but a protein molecule (DNA) covered by a protective layer of lipid (fat), which, when absorbed by the cells of the ocular, nasal or buccal mucosa, changes their genetic ...


9 Comments, 85 Views, 11 Votes ,5.60 Score
macker1 37 M
1  Article
BULLYING   6/29/2021

There is no excuse for bullying and many sadly are too afraid to speak up when it happens. World affair demonstrate bullying among nations and leaders. It is not a circumstance that is limited to a classroom, a street corner or a home. Bullying permeates the world but it has different terms, this helps the world to see it differently. Bullies move across the globe freely under disguised ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 5 Votes ,4.77 Score
shysexual_MTgirl 43 F
0  Articles
Not sure what I should do. Please help   6/29/2021

I recently met a man online. We've exchanged emails, chatted online and exchanged and texts. We made plans to meet the first weekend we are both free. We get along great, have plenty in common. I've been totally honest with him about who I am, what I look like. Once I started talking to him, got to know him, any other guy I was even remotely interested in, kinda just faded into the background. ...


9 Comments, 191 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
travellingman029 48 M
0  Articles
Several Questions for a married man and my story   6/29/2021

I have a couple of questions. Here they are.

I need advice on how to improve my sex life with my wife. Can you help me?

Why do so many women on SEXFinder.com look down on men that are looking who are married?

Here's my story.

Prior to proposing to my wife we had an active sex life. I am not one who requires it every day but at least 1 - 3 times a week. We had this ...


11 Comments, 251 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
caman9 34 M
0  Articles
Personal GUY Code Rules   6/29/2021

Here's a list of I guess what you can call commandments / guidelines / rule of thumb.

After a night of SEX, Never stay overnight, go home alone n sleep in your own bed.

Only use rubbers that you have purchased & kept in your possession at all times.

First time get together (date) are always Dutch, everyone buys their own meal. I actually prefer not to eat anything at ...


3 Comments, 81 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
a2m4u2me 55 M
9  Articles
fantasy   6/29/2021

I've dated a few girls who told me they fantasized about being . Of course, when I asked them to give me more details, it wasn't exactly anymore (especially since it always invovled the type of guys they were attracted to). The point is, they were really turned on by the thought of having sex against their will. <br> There's a great divide between getting punched in the mouth, ...


2 Comments, 282 Views, 4 Votes ,5.19 Score
cinealnurs 60 M
2  Articles
and TV Violence   6/29/2021

Question: What are the consequences of allowing to watch aggression and violence on television? A fifteen-year study (Huesmann, Moise-Titus, Podolski, & Eron, 2003) was done on 329 between the ages of 6-9, who watched violence on TV. The aggression these exhibited when they became adults was directly correlated to the violent programming they viewed. Their perception was that it was a ...


2 Comments, 38 Views, 0 Votes
carmen7136 53 F
3  Articles
It finally happened!   6/26/2021

I was just told by my 9 year old that I am the worst mother in the world for not allowing her to get her way. Does that mean I have finally done my job right? Or do I still have a long ways to go?


11 Comments, 253 Views, 13 Votes ,6.00 Score
38specials 59 F
0  Articles
Silence Sucks!   6/26/2021

This is my first time, for blogging stuff silly, please be kind.

I know that no one can be in this guy's head, but I am very interested to hear what you guys out there think.

Larry (not real name) was in town and wanted to meet. This was not a first time meeting, we have played together a couple times before. After some laughs and sufficiently loosening up in a ...



25 Comments, 751 Views, 40 Votes ,5.47 Score
rogneron 41 M
0  Articles
Looking for no strings attached   6/26/2021

I am a separated almost divorced single father of three. I have custody of my . I have two weekdays with daytime free time. Whats my best approach to finding some women to have some fun with? Its been 10 years since I even thought of being with another woman.


6 Comments, 118 Views, 2 Votes ,3.81 Score
StLouisTeacher 59 M
2  Articles
What a rip-off and the importance of clothes   6/25/2021

I'm not into pain or , but occasionally, I find it a turn off to rip the clothing off my partner. Just be sure to ask first if it will be OK, so he/she can be wearing clothes he/she doesn't mind getting torn. <br> I also find it to be very beneficial to make the removal of clothes part of foreplay. Sometimes, I will purposely leave my genitals covered until she begs for it. I ...


3 Comments, 135 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
stealth_fighter1 113 M
20  Articles
need help   6/25/2021

my is getting ready to complete high school early, she wants to continue her education's. My ex and I, do not have the means to grant her request, dose any one know of collage scholarship's available that could help her achieve her dream?


3 Comments, 75 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
rm_yerlilsecret 46 F
0  Articles
what now?   6/25/2021

Ok, so where to start...I have been a member of SEXFinder.com since before I was married. I am not sure why I stayed here after my wedding 6 months ago, but I did...and to be honest, I am glad. I got married because we have been together for 7 years and have three beautiful . I know, not a good reason, but I do love this man...I am just not "in love" with him....if that makes sense. My problem ...


4 Comments, 352 Views, 9 Votes ,3.43 Score
tony7491044 62 M
5  Articles
Daddy's little girl - True Story   6/25/2021

When dealing with a woman, who is the victim of sexual abuse, patience is a necessity. Over seven year ago, I had a six and a half year relationship with a woman, who was the victim of childhood sexual abuse by her father. (Please bear in mind that I have had other relationships with other such victims - at least three, to the best of my knowledge). She was very petite around 5 ...


5 Comments, 3259 Views, 18 Votes ,1.08 Score
ucanchatwithme 54 F
0  Articles
How long should i give him?   6/25/2021

I find myself on the receiving end of the cheating spouse. He contacted me through my ad here. I knew when we met he was married and it was just for sex. However, things progressed into a very emotional, electrifying, caring, loving relationship. We have awesome sex and he tells me he loves me every day, yet he is still married and says he wants out. She moved out of state right after ...


22 Comments, 1000 Views, 44 Votes ,4.05 Score
Please do not show up with unexpected toys   6/24/2021

We met someone that we had talked with for about six months, we hit it off so we decided to get a hotel room to play in. The man walked in with a suitcase and we were like ok. Then he pulls out this huge dildo, I mean cock huge, my reaction was what do you think you are going to do with that. First of all it was not my kind of toy and second I do not know where your toys have been, and if ...


1 Comments, 258 Views, 6 Votes ,3.93 Score
TheEaterYum 69 M
1  Article
Camming with    6/24/2021

Hi For the most part, being a bit of a voyeur, I enjoys the combinations and permutations of different types of play. I dont care if you are gay..it just doesn't appeal to me, so I dont watch. <br> Unfortunately, however thankfully rare, I have seen people on cam with running around!! <br> Now, I am not anyone to say what should or should not happen in life, but, ...


4 Comments, 286 Views, 11 Votes ,4.66 Score
My wife is not much into sex   6/24/2021

My wife is not much into sex, she is in her late 20's and I don't understand why she only likes sex a few times a month. <br> Little background. We have been married for 10 years and We have . I was her first man in her life. <br> I was in a relashinship with another women before i married my wife. she was older than me and she loved! sex! and now I mess it. ...


5 Comments, 221 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
Having    6/24/2021

If someone is somking on or two joints a day, should they stop so that their wife could have a better chance of conceiving????


1 Comments, 51 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
laowai028 70 M
6  Articles
Hobsons's choice   6/24/2021

It doesn't take long to discover that while in many people are here to do things that society judges as wrong, most people here are more than willing to say that it is wrong for a married man to be looking on this site. People tell me that I should just get divorced and then come looking. But is it better to divorce your wife when she doesn't want sex anymore, rather than stay in the marriage ...


4 Comments, 56 Views, 5 Votes ,5.43 Score
would you do it again?   6/23/2021

On getting married, I think personally I would not. Relations with others, yes. Love again? is there really a choice here, if there is I have not figured out how to do what I must in that regard. Now the thoughts of why. Marriage, not again unless it was a year to year contract. no iff ands or buts about it. if you are not happy with the person after a year, the marriage is over. this is ...


2 Comments, 85 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
cuteyclaire 35 F
0  Articles
Nice men/bitches. Do i be a bitch?   6/23/2021

Could someone please tell me why women, who dont treat men with the respect they deserve, keep them??????? <br> I have known quite a few people who are in relationships and treat their men like dirt. one example, an old mate, does nothing at all in the house, (its one of those mates you go to and you make your own coffee because they cant be bothered), spends all her blokes money ...


3 Comments, 336 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
TallnLivelyGA 64 M
0  Articles
Why is it that sex makes things so complicated?   6/22/2021

I think I have some insight as to why sex is viewed so differently between men and women. This is going to take a few minutes to explain, so please just bear with me. I’ll start with s couple of points to ponder here for everyone first, then some discussion to follow. <br> First of all, ask yourself from a purely “clinical” standpoint the following ‒ ...


3 Comments, 170 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
rm_AvalonDaze 62 M
1  Article
How the hell am I supposed to deal with this sh*t   6/22/2021

My is 15, he's very athletic and plays basketball. His team usually win and there are several very good looking 14 year old girls that follow him and his mates around.

Recently two of them have been showing me way too much attention and its getting really awkward.

One of them has a younger sister who is my daughters best friend.

I went to their house last week to ...


12 Comments, 546 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
rm_chocolate21 33 F
6  Articles
Buying someone's affection: good or bad?   6/19/2021

Why is it that some people out here think that if you buy them things, take them out on nice dates, you love them more, but if they don't get the same treatment in return, you don't love or care about them at all.
There is someone that I cut ties off with completely a while back. Now it started out as a fling, we would just meet up for sex. But after a few months, we began to have ...


0 Comments, 35 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
tommygun198212 35 T
0  Articles
Crossdressing- First step Out!   6/19/2021

let me share my experiences on how I am able to freely going out in full femme form.

#1. First and foremost, tell yourself this:

"No one would reconize you!" - However, if you are seen with something that will associate you with your regular self, e.g. driving your car, chances are they will. - Conclusion - As an initial step, disassociate your femme self with your regular ...


3 Comments, 271 Views, 8 Votes ,5.80 Score
ms_begood 61 F
0  Articles
Now What   6/19/2021

i am a survior of being sexual abused as a , now what?? how do I over come when a man starts to touch me, how do I over come the the dirty feeling??


2 Comments, 188 Views, 7 Votes ,4.31 Score
When illness gets in the way....   6/19/2021

I would not consider myself happily married, just married and in a holding pattern. My wife has, for the last seven years since the birth of our second , gotten sicker and sicker. <br> Especially over the past three years, as she has begun to take more and more medications for everything from migraines to depression to fibromyalgia, she has become more and more disconnected from ...


4 Comments, 196 Views, 3 Votes ,5.39 Score
anyNSAfun 42 M
23  Articles
black cock for wife?   6/18/2021

was fucking my wife while watching a dvd, the scene changes to one with 2 filthy talking sluts fucking a huge black cock, I start fucking her harder and she responds in kind.



When she gets horny she will say just about anything so I ask her if thats what she'd like. the coversation (while fucking) went like this.



:do you like that baby, watching his black cock ...


2 Comments, 171 Views, 10 Votes ,3.98 Score
thunderchild72 70 M
0  Articles
When is the line crossed in Elderly Abuse and has it been crossed here?   6/18/2021

My neighbors (out of city) moved in 8 months ago Woman with 3 teenage . Listening to some of her aurguments (about 75 yards distance) didn't compel me to socialize with them. But yesterday one of their dog's was grazed by a passing car or one of the field hands for an oil company across the street hit it or kick it I really don't know I just heard the poor thing yelping. Well it had a ...


2 Comments, 227 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
Help! I'm so lonely.   6/17/2021

I live with my and their dad but we are not in a relationship. <br> The problem is I want to find someone else but am worried that I'll have problems due to, being still overweight from having my , because I have very young and beacause I still live with their dad, no-one seems to understand that we aren't in a relationship, we are in seperate rooms and only live toghether so we ...


5 Comments, 224 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
rm_musealchemy 52 F
0  Articles
The House Rules or The 10 Commandments of Getting Laid on Here if You're a Guy   6/16/2021

You get ONE shot at impressing me/securing my interest so don't waste it by making stupid elementary mistakes that are going to get your email dumped in the trash unread.

1. MY PROFILE READ IT! I took the time to write it so you’d have enough information to know whether or not we’d be compatible and if I’m going to be interested in getting to know you. You need to have the ...


21 Comments, 436 Views, 13 Votes ,3.14 Score
coolkatdiva 44 F
0  Articles
How do you balance a three way relationship and family?   6/16/2021

I am happily married (10 yrs) and last year I told my husband that I was bi-curious (had been curious for 9 yrs). Now keep in mind we have a very strong relationship and communicate very well. We did a lot of research TOGETHER and eventually end up here on SEXFinder.com. After having a couple experiences with woman I realized I loved the touch of a woman BUT I really wanted to get my husband involved. ...


9 Comments, 143 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
She cheated once, is she still cheating now?   6/16/2021

My wife and I have been together for 10 yrs, we have 3kids. about 6 months ago I found out she was cheating on me, we talked it over and dicided to save our marrieage and our . <br> She promised to stay away from this other guy in order to gain my trust back. We even changed our phone and made it a private number. We even seeked proffesianal help. <br> yesterday, I ...


4 Comments, 403 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
rm_majamoo2 52 F
0  Articles
Heads Up Guys - No...the OTHER Head...   6/15/2021

As I spend another 20 minutes trolling through the inevitable cock shots that my daily email delivers to me, I feel compelled to write an open letter to all of you boys out there. I've had a few guys ask me - because I make it a practice to respond to all of my emails - why is it that I just can't seem to "get a date/root/directions to club nirvana"? <br> Well heads up guys - ...


19 Comments, 973 Views, 43 Votes ,7.17 Score
Blow a wad, or $wallow a Fraud???   6/15/2021

So do us guys have to expect to blow a wad of our money before you gals are ready to play under the sheets? (In my opinion)>When a woman expects lots of money to spent on her before she'll consider a man worthy of her erotic show case - isn't that relative to the concept of ? & Even then - who knows if the gal will make the guys money well spent at the end of the nights escapades?!? Now ...


6 Comments, 209 Views, 3 Votes
roc070 55 M
0  Articles
Getting back on the    6/15/2021

Hi I have not had sex with my wife for months. She is great looking and willing, but I can't get my self to do it. I think I like novelty a lot, and this she is not. Can you suggest any way of mixing my need to try new stuff (specially new people) and my undestanding that my marriage needs sex? Any advice is appreciated. Tx Roco


1 Comments, 194 Views, 2 Votes ,3.12 Score
luv2licku22009 54 C
1  Article
Wedding Anniversary   6/12/2021

fed up getting same old presents, can someone give us some new ideas on how 2 spice up our special day as we are looking for fun and excitement. as we have worked and looked after our and forgot about us time.


0 Comments, 35 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
wikidlynaughty 39 F
6  Articles
reminders of you   6/12/2021

Love the inner - Beware the inner The one who could feel love - The one who bullies others Believe in the impossible - Who won't admit insecurity Looking at this mysterious world - Overcompensating with self-flattery As an endless horizon to pursue - Too stubborn to learn The one who had hope - The one who won't grow up And ...


1 Comments, 172 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
My wife of 10 years just found my panties and toys.   6/12/2021

I am a closet married bi male . I have been married for ten years. I have been a closet bimale for 14 years . I did not admit to myself i was bisexual untill a few years ago. Well my wife came home today and found my dildos and panties I left in the bathroom. Boy did i have some explaining to do. She has not left me yet. How do i make her understand why i could not tell her about my ...


9 Comments, 805 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
alwayshothorny 47 F
3  Articles
men and attachment   6/10/2021

I have a question for guys here: now I'm not on here looking for a relationship, just a friend or two with benefits. That said, when I am with a man and we are hugging and kissing sensually, as well as fucking....does he not ever feel anything toward this woman? I don't expect someone I spend twelve straight hours with to fall in love with me or anything- but is it too much to ask that I ...


6 Comments, 545 Views, 15 Votes ,4.36 Score
hepatte2 43 M
0  Articles
help me out please   6/9/2021

i have been married for a year and a half. the sex was ok in the beginning but now it has really gone down hill. at first i thought it was because of the birth or our new , but it has been a year since he was born. her drive has pretty much left, and when we do have sex it's the same way and same routine. she doesn't ever want to try anything new no matter small it might be. can someone ...


0 Comments, 29 Views, 187 Votes ,8.26 Score
secondnature7 47 M
3  Articles
You shouldn't have to be afraid to talk about sex!!!   6/9/2021

I'm joined a couple of dating sites before finding this one.... It always amazes me how few people can actually be honest and up front about sex!!! <br> Outside of this site, people seem to tell you what they think is socially acceptable... But OMG you can't talk about it up front...LOL <br> So you trade some e-mails/phone calls, meet up with them for a drink, and end ...


1 Comments, 173 Views, 6 Votes ,4.22 Score
SEXFinder.com Instant Messenger is broken - Don't buy more points   5/6/2021

Currently running into an issue where I have enough to chat, but am being told to buy more . I have check different browsers, cleared history/cache, but it's the same issue. <br><br> So my advice is use other apps to message people if possible. <br><br> You could save more money if you just put your usernames's in the description of your profile at the start. ...


1 Comments, 9 Views, 2 Votes ,5.20 Score
maybe1932 70 C
0  Articles
Accidental exposure   3/9/2021

Several years ago during a trip to the beach my wife was exposed more than once. She never knew and I didn't tell her. Nothing like that had ever happened to us before. The first time she was laying on the balcony nude tanning, I'd covered the railing with sheets for privacy but soon noticed three college boys one floor up looking down watching. I was shocked to found myself aroused and ...


2 Comments, 99 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
great saying   2/8/2021

A spoonful of honey will catch more flies than a gallon of vinegar.


1 Comments, 11 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
switch049 70 M
0  Articles
COVID-19 PLEASE READ AND PASS ON TO EVERYONE YOU KNOW   1/21/2021

From Johns Hopkins Hospital.... The following is from Irene Ken physician, whose is an Asst. Prof in infectious diseases at Johns Hopkins University, quite informative. <br><br> * The virus is not a living organism, but a protein molecule (DNA) covered by a protective layer of lipid (fat), which, when absorbed by the cells of the ocular, nasal or buccal mucosa, changes their genetic ...


2 Comments, 35 Views, 1 Votes ,3.70 Score
Wildnight31 44 M
1  Article
Suggestions for pics video   12/31/2020

I am looking for suggestions for pictures or videos to do. All reasonable suggestions will be considered. Thanks in advance for fueling my voyeurism


0 Comments, 26 Views, 1 Votes ,2.40 Score
Fake accounts to earn points and gold   12/17/2020

I think it's becoming more common on here now that women who are too good to be true are popping up. The more you dig into it, you get that funny feeling something isn't right. It's not they don't respond to your messages, it's that something isn't sitting right when you look at their accounts. <br><br> Then it hits you! <br><br> It's a fake ...


3 Comments, 53 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
lola2b4u 50 T
3  Articles
Patience is a virtue   11/25/2020

Whew! Where to begin? I've only been a member for a short period of time (Standard member) & i have begun to notice an "air of impatience" coming from some members on here.....specifically GOLD members. I thought it was common knowledge that Standard members cannot fully view profiles, cannot read e-mail & can only chat in IM if they pay the points? That being said, ...


3 Comments, 63 Views, 4 Votes ,4.41 Score
buy me a drink? give me points?   11/18/2020

it is expected for a man to offer to buy a woman a drink if they meet in a bar. why is it so hard for a man to accept the idea of giving a few points when he invites a woman to chat? <br><br> I'm not talking about a lot of points, just enough to replace what she has to use in order to chat. <br><br> really is that too much to ask?


4 Comments, 48 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
point accumulation   11/14/2020

what is the easy way to achieve an abundance of points here


5 Comments, 54 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
RiichardEli 29 M
1  Article
How to date older?   9/15/2020

so I have a crush on this older woman yet she constantly says I'm to young but we talk often. I'm trying to figure out how to get her to say yes to going out any suggestions?


3 Comments, 53 Views, 1 Votes ,5.00 Score
seingalt23 60 M
12  Articles
No Reply to IM - No Points * Keine Antwort auf IM - Keine Punkte   8/30/2020

Sorry - Entschuldige bitte: As it is not sure - Da es nicht sicher ist Whether this post will be visible in English - Ob dieser Beitrag in Deutsch sichtbar wird I decided to use both languages - versuche ich es mit beiden Sprachen <br><br> Can't reply to IM. No . SEXFinder.com making it harder for standard members to chat on IM. My apologies. <br><br> Ich kann auf ...


4 Comments, 26 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
EphemeralFem 44 F
1  Article
What sexy lingerie to buy? Help me find the perfect piece   7/25/2020

What sexy lingerie to buy Help me find the perfect one...


10 Comments, 92 Views, 3 Votes ,3.92 Score
dess36 53 M
180  Articles
Sex   6/9/2020

I am very exhibitionist look my images, I like look very people, I like sex in public whit public, look my show public and use my images...


9 Comments, 148 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
This on here are worse in 2020 and you're all being suckered into it!   6/6/2020

SEXFinder.com is no worse in 2020! <br><br> This isn't up for debate, it simply is worse than ever. <br><br> More features have been blocked or removed. <br><br> Pay wall for using SEXFinder.com has gone up despite more people being out of work. <br><br> The Instant Messenger, which use to be free to use, then 3 free chats, then 10 points chats, is now 15 points ...


1 Comments, 36 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
platinum_gigolo 53 M
2  Articles
looking but no chat   5/10/2020

I have a few members on here that look at my profile every time I get on. I IM and E mail them and no reply. <br><br> You can check this out in E mail under pending convos. got some that are months old and they are gold members. I know that standards can't e mail or view my whole profile unless they pay the 3 bucks. <br><br> Am I being a real asshole if I block them ...


7 Comments, 68 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
too much virus hype   3/15/2020

all this media hype is making people crazy. <br><br> I know this is real and should not be taken lightly. <br><br> BUT........we just had report of 6 confirmed cases in a town of about 24000 and every factory and a high percentage of businesses are closing. <br><br> most schools in state have closed for at least the next two weeks. <br><br> ...


4 Comments, 53 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
Jchris2018 44 C
18  Articles
POOR EMAIL & IM INTRODUCTIONS and why you should place effort in making them better!   3/5/2020

Lifestyle BLOG posting from a couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and a former professional dating coach. <br><br> We have written our blog posts truly hoping make this community a better place through teaching others how offer quality communication, interaction, and increasing the skills necessary to be successful. <br><br> A great way to have more ...


9 Comments, 102 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
Help   3/4/2020

I need help some ice breakers to help introduce myself to people I tend bebshy alot. How should I start a conversatio


4 Comments, 40 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
dressing like a slut   3/4/2020

I think we all like to dress like a slut but there are times when we should hold back. like wearing too short a mini skirt while wearing crotchless bodystockings to an office party. <br><br> I wore that to an office christmas party. all was fine I l ooked sexy but no one knew it was body stocking or that it was crotchelss untill I went to the bathroom. <br><br> I had a few ...


5 Comments, 111 Views, 9 Votes ,4.92 Score
power to the women   3/4/2020

women drive this site <br><br> I am not happy with things right now <br><br> if we want things to change we need to stop playing by the "new" rules <br><br> I for one am going to stay off site for the rest of this month <br><br> I'll return to see if anything has changed after that and if not I think I'll start looking for a ...


3 Comments, 39 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
4fire2ice 50 C
1  Article
feeling not goodenough   2/27/2020

do any other women feel out of place posting nudes or going on cam cuz theire body aint perfect


3 Comments, 27 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
BRyoung156 29 M
1  Article
Older women for younger guys   2/23/2020

So I’m trying to work my magic and fuck this beautiful older woman but she’s playing hard to get. What can I do to help my case?? Anything??


5 Comments, 49 Views, 2 Votes ,4.50 Score
IamBigSir78 42 M
5  Articles
Sexless Marriages   2/14/2020

Sexless Marriages How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on SEXFinder.com the solution? When counseling and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next step divorce? just cause they are not as ...


5 Comments, 75 Views, 5 Votes ,2.82 Score
IamBigSir78 42 M
5  Articles
Sexless Marriages   2/14/2020

Sexless Marriages How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on SEXFinder.com the solution? When counseling and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next step divorce? just cause they are not as ...


3 Comments, 34 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Funch4t8oh5 29 M
3  Articles
Now they’re   2/10/2020

Banning comments and posts that mention the use of a certain currency that the site makes you use for chatting. I’ve had gold and it’s not really worth it in my area so sucks to see they’re pushing standard away


2 Comments, 7 Views, 0 Votes
Whats the difference between a magazine post and a blog post?   2/5/2020

Trying to figure out what is different about the different community sections on this site.


3 Comments, 12 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
Illbcnu6969 37 M
9  Articles
Kik   2/5/2020

Is there an alternative app to kik since it lost its video chat capability?


2 Comments, 22 Views, 3 Votes ,2.94 Score
improving ejaculate   2/2/2020

I have a friend that can cum like a porn star. I mean shoot with lots of force and also shoots huge loads..........maybe 5-6 times as much as any other I've been with before. <br><br> My question is there anyone that can recommend a diet or supplement that can improve things ??? <br><br> Was told by one man that diet can improve the taste........that's good too.


8 Comments, 130 Views, 6 Votes ,3.65 Score
Ice breakers   1/27/2020

As a somewhat shy and reserved person in public I’m looking for ideas on how to start conversations with strangers. Anyone have a good opener or ice breaker that isn’t played out cliche or the kind of ridiculous over the top sort of thing that take a certain panache that I probably don’t have? Curious.


1 Comments, 26 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Ice breakers   1/27/2020

As a somewhat shy and reserved person in public I’m looking for ideas on how to start conversations with strangers. Anyone have a good opener or ice breaker that isn’t played out cliche or the kind of ridiculous over the top sort of thing that take a certain panache that I probably don’t have? Curious.


1 Comments, 13 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
Jchris2018 44 C
18  Articles
PREFERENCE vs Prejudice -TOTALLY MISUNDERSTOOD   1/19/2020

We have NO no issue with the MRS inviting whomever she wants "hang " with or meet. <br><br> However, she may sincerely appreciate a personality and find interest and commonality but she finds the least attraction blonde/redheaded white men and African American, Indian and Asian <br><br> - -just does not find these men sexually appealing-- BUT we have many ...


5 Comments, 50 Views, 19 Votes ,3.12 Score
Jchris2018 44 C
18  Articles
SELFIES SUCK! - Take a normal picture for your profile   1/19/2020

Lifestyle BLOG posting from Couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and a former professional dating coach. <br><br> <br><br> We see almost every profile including couples profiles with SELFIES posted as main pics. <br><br> This trend is TERRIBLE.....and its NOT doing you any good! <br><br> You should always have some one else ...


1 Comments, 30 Views, 10 Votes ,1.39 Score
Jchris2018 44 C
18  Articles
SELFIES SUCK! - Take a normal picture for your profile   1/19/2020

Lifestyle BLOG posting from Couple with a psychology degree in human behavioral studies and a former professional dating coach. <br><br> <br><br> We see almost every profile including couples profiles with SELFIES posted as main pics. <br><br> This trend is TERRIBLE.....and its NOT doing you any good! <br><br> You should always have some one else ...


2 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,3.71 Score
Jchris2018 44 C
18  Articles
How to write a QUALITY profile   1/19/2020

We always see the same descriptions and profiles. <br><br> "We want to meet people like us" or " We want to add spice" , or "We joined to explore our sexuality" <br><br> WHAT KIND OF PEOPLE do you want to meet, WHAT KIND OF SPICE, WHAT TYPES OF EXPLORATION? <br><br> we see these statements along with a one sentence description and ...


5 Comments, 57 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
IM   1/18/2020

Is there any sure way to know that IM is working instead of always wasting


2 Comments, 27 Views, 14 Votes ,4.26 Score
Funchat805 33 M
6  Articles
Posting for points   1/16/2020

They raised the chat to and I let my gold run so here I am


5 Comments, 34 Views, 15 Votes ,3.59 Score
Ellsfun4311 38 M
7  Articles
Points   1/16/2020

Yup, just one of those I need points posts


3 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,3.55 Score
Rokudan0013 63 M
0  Articles
Sleepnosis - Rokudan0013   1/15/2020

This is meant as article only you are use this material at your own judgment any affects negative or positive occurrence are the result of the reader's ability apply what is offered here. The author is not be held responsible for any outcome. <br><br> Many women complain that intimacy, sex is dead in their marriage. This is also true of man who go in search of sex with others. ...


1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,1.96 Score
New to meeting   1/14/2020

Divorced and interested in meeting ladies, does anyone have any advice on meeting from online? New online never met anyone like this. Thanks


1 Comments, 19 Views, 5 Votes ,3.80 Score
timmylikesdat69 51 M
2  Articles
Where to find your FWB?   1/14/2020

Been on SEXFinder.com for several months now, along with every other site that promises free, easy hookups. How many hookups have I found? ZERO. What gives? Where can you actually meet potential FWB or hookups in a discreet way? Options:
  • SEXFinder.com adult chat
  • Tinder or similar app
  • local brew pub (practice your pickup lines)
  • Starbucks (also, pickup lines)
  • Hangouts / Skype Tried all of the ...


    4 Comments, 72 Views, 10 Votes ,2.99 Score
  • Iwannacthat 57 M
    7  Articles
    Pictures   1/13/2020

    Do women really like.to get sick pics?


    2 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
    How to get points:   1/11/2020

    Writing articles is an excellent way to earn points on SEXFinder.com


    3 Comments, 23 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
    Yodee9502 51 M
    3  Articles
    Be open-minded   1/10/2020

    I live with the motto of you never know what's going to happen tomorrow so have fun anytime you can because you live once


    2 Comments, 15 Views, 8 Votes ,4.64 Score
    Gold members   1/7/2020

    I was a Gold member a few ago and felt it was a great value - made it much easier narrow my search and meet like minded folks. Fast forward and now it seems that there are a wide range of views on the value of Gold membership. <br><br> Wanted pose the question - have things changed that much since ago?


    2 Comments, 21 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
    Striking Out   1/7/2020

    Hey everyone, has anyone else been striking out on here? Is there any tips or tricks you guys have


    1 Comments, 19 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
    Any way to tell an SEXFinder.com member in public?   1/6/2020

    Mainly for points but interesting to see if there is a way?


    5 Comments, 29 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
    luv269_UrKitty 57 M
    7  Articles
    I advise you all   1/6/2020

    to send me points..


    1 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
    cocpl4fun35 39 C
    4  Articles
    anal   1/5/2020

    so perfers anal, an why do you think its better'?


    3 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,3.21 Score
    cocpl4fun35 39 C
    4  Articles
    anal   1/5/2020

    so perfers anal, an why do you think its better'?


    3 Comments, 24 Views, 6 Votes ,0.52 Score
    Connecting with people   1/5/2020

    Can anyone tell me why nice guys always finish last


    3 Comments, 16 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
    Lookingfornow404 45 M
    4  Articles
    Creampie   1/2/2020

    Creampie cleanup... yes or no?


    4 Comments, 28 Views, 6 Votes ,2.51 Score
    whowantsfun88 43 M
    8  Articles
    Women and couples   1/1/2020

    Has anyone really hooked up with a woman or couple on this site???


    5 Comments, 38 Views, 11 Votes ,3.35 Score
    New year   12/30/2019

    What is everyone's new year's plans?


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 11 Votes ,2.42 Score
    xxxG0I969xxx 55 C
    2  Articles
    Points are useful - How to Earn them and spend them   12/29/2019

    So, you've been on the site for more than a day, and you're realizing a of zero or more points are listed next to your username. <br><br> *How do I earn these points? <br><br> This is a link to the site's page explaining how to earn more points. Beware ...


    1 Comments, 33 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
    IM   12/29/2019

    Does anyone else have serious trouble with IM.


    5 Comments, 37 Views, 14 Votes ,5.06 Score
    xxxG0I969xxx 55 C
    2  Articles
    [SIZE 10]Notice for new members and those with tenure[/SIZE]   12/29/2019

    First off, we'd like to welcome the new members to the site. We hope that you find great success as measure in your own terms. You may have created a profile on this or other sites in the past, or you may be totally new at this. Either way, feel free to shoot us an email, or post in this thread ...


    4 Comments, 34 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
    Much success   12/29/2019

    Curious to know how much of u are having success on here.


    3 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
    Snapnappy7404 44 M
    6  Articles
    Points   12/28/2019

    Can anyone understand why the points keep going up for messages


    1 Comments, 3 Views, 0 Votes
    Ellsfun43 38 M
    5  Articles
    Points   12/26/2019

    Points Points Points Points Points


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,3.01 Score
    Buurrowss 31 M
    2  Articles
    Writing articles for points   12/25/2019

    points writing articles for


    1 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,4.12 Score
    never give up ..   12/24/2019

    that's right .. no matter how bad it gets, and no matter how low you feel .. just keep going out thee and battle for more points ... <br><br> it's worth it .. i think


    4 Comments, 15 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
    6kitty_licker9 57 M
    5  Articles
    Needing a lot   12/22/2019

    more points


    2 Comments, 10 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
    Guy562discrete 34 M
    1  Article
    are butt blocks harmful to the anus?   12/21/2019

    so ive always wondered, do women get used using but plugs before anal is it worth the effort of using prior anal ex?


    1 Comments, 17 Views, 12 Votes ,1.92 Score
    BBWS   12/21/2019

    Where would I go to find a nice local older bbw for a fwbs relationship?


    2 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,3.19 Score
    SEXFinder.com not working for you?   12/20/2019

    This site won't work for anyone doesn't for gold membership. They have choked off every thing you could do with a free membership.


    3 Comments, 28 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
    HungCOstud9 43 M
    7  Articles
    Sexless Marriages   12/18/2019

    How do you or I or anyone survive a sexless marriage? is cheating and going on SEXFinder.com the solution? When counseling and multiple talks do nothing change the libido or attitudes of the low libido partner. What is one do? You do not want leave your partner, but they are never satisfying needs you have. What is the logical next step divorce? just cause they are not as horny as you? is it a good ...


    5 Comments, 37 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
    nhtoma603617 31 M
    6  Articles
    Need help   12/15/2019

    Lol need and points getting laid points to get laid


    2 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,3.30 Score
    Icebreaker   12/14/2019

    What is a good icebreaker in your opinion? that works well for you or that has caught your attention in the past.


    3 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
    stevedevon123 32 M
    1  Article
    Points   12/13/2019

    Need those points


    4 Comments, 21 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
    Ellsfun43 38 M
    5  Articles
    Points   12/13/2019

    What the best way to earn points on here?


    1 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
    more   12/10/2019

    points points points points points points points points points points points points.


    4 Comments, 15 Views, 8 Votes ,3.94 Score
    Meeting   12/10/2019

    Where do youbtake someone you met off here for a first meeting.


    3 Comments, 26 Views, 14 Votes ,2.34 Score
    truhottie 49 M
    7  Articles
    Anal sex   12/9/2019

    I have always fantasized about a woman doing with a strap-on. I would love to hear about guys experiences with their first time being topped. Please comment with your experiences


    1 Comments, 25 Views, 9 Votes ,1.93 Score
    hotnewfsex69 55 M
    1  Article
    Bi-Curiosity   12/8/2019

    I have been "Bi-Curious" for a long time now but have never had the opportunity to move forward. One thought was to go to a place known for hook ups just to see but not sure. Anyone have any advice?


    4 Comments, 43 Views, 16 Votes ,3.86 Score
    aclik2 60 M
    3  Articles
    things i ponder   12/7/2019

    in many years on this earth theres been many things I just dont get , , like volatile personalities , or even people are fine minute , then the next and change their mind completely , thats a no win , either route you go is going be wrong once the person changes their mind on ya sheesh


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 12 Votes ,3.86 Score
    MercedCouple209 53 C
    47  Articles
    Guys liking a strap-on dont make them gay   12/7/2019

    Just because my spouse loves to wear my strap-on does not make him gay <br><br> So when a guy ask's us what we are into and i add that to our huge list of intrest and his response sorry I am straight <br><br> That really lets us know just what kinda person you are... <br><br> But to be truthful as a couple we have been with both men and woman but we really ...


    3 Comments, 45 Views, 17 Votes ,2.98 Score
    wa2blah 35 M
    2  Articles
    Best ways to lure a woman   12/6/2019

    What are the best ways to lure a woman? Curious to see what responses are out there.


    7 Comments, 41 Views, 13 Votes ,3.48 Score
    Dr_gonzo_69 37 M
    5  Articles
    Yellow snow   12/5/2019

    Don't eat it.


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 7 Votes ,4.06 Score
    funfunfun1103 33 M
    1  Article
    what's up with points?q\   12/5/2019

    why is everyone posting about getting points?


    4 Comments, 30 Views, 14 Votes ,4.74 Score
    6lickuwet9 57 M
    5  Articles
    Grab   12/4/2019

    as many points as you can get!!!


    6 Comments, 27 Views, 13 Votes ,4.82 Score
    toescurled87 40 M
    4  Articles
    How to connect with couples   12/2/2019

    I am wondering the beat way to find couples there that want to add a respectable single man? Is there a good identifier of hey I’m not crazy pick ? Or are there certain other things to be aware of?


    3 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
    I wish more people were real   11/29/2019

    No saying people are not real but it seems that people dont really know what they want from this site. I am okay with that but please just say so. Like maybe in your intro or something.


    4 Comments, 32 Views, 19 Votes ,4.71 Score
    Points   11/28/2019

    It would be nice if we got more points it seems that once you’re of them you will do anything get more. I’m new but I don’t think I’m paying for anything on here. If you have many points share please help. I would love with some of you. Pictures coming soon


    3 Comments, 48 Views, 23 Votes ,4.53 Score
    sex addiction   11/25/2019

    if sex is all one thinks about. All that one wants to do and has to masturbate several times a day? Is that an issue to some?


    2 Comments, 27 Views, 14 Votes ,3.30 Score
    sex addiction   11/25/2019

    if sex is all one thinks about. All that one wants to do and has to masturbate several times a day? Is that an issue to some?


    3 Comments, 19 Views, 13 Votes ,3.81 Score
    have you ever?   11/25/2019

    have you ever been chatting with someone. They disappear on you for no reason and come back. you know that you have chatted before, but they have no idea?


    3 Comments, 22 Views, 14 Votes ,4.10 Score
    sissy_seeks_ownr 43 M
    5  Articles
    small tiny dick - is it really the focus point?   11/25/2019

    is a small tiny dick so much a problem in D/s ? Is it really the primary focus point like in a vanilla relationship? <br><br> I realise this is not alt, and people who come here are more vanilla, but when someone says they are open to D/s but still seems to circle around the tiny dick topic, what should i make of it?


    4 Comments, 32 Views, 17 Votes ,2.70 Score
    Yes here for the points   11/25/2019

    Yes you guessed it. Most articles are now about the points


    6 Comments, 26 Views, 14 Votes ,4.58 Score
    TrynThisAgain83 40 M
    1  Article
    Same circus. Diffetent clowns   11/24/2019

    I love using all my points contact members who don't even have the consideration respind, even if it's say "not interested" No response is wrost than any response


    2 Comments, 20 Views, 13 Votes ,3.98 Score
    j4funn61 63 M
    1  Article
    Tight pussy   11/24/2019

    I'm just curious I heard one time that women who never bear had tighter pussies <br><br> Has anybody had other opinions on this


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,1.39 Score
    IM conversation starters...   11/20/2019

    I’ve had mixed results, so I’m curious what approaches others take. I’ve found a “hello how are you” or other polite greeting gets ignored almost all of the time. <br><br> If they have pics sometimes a compliment about works but it’s hit or miss. And if they have no pics ’s not an option. <br><br> Something outrageous or naughty seems be 50/50 but then ...


    4 Comments, 53 Views, 23 Votes ,3.71 Score
    Bring it back   11/20/2019

    Bring the free chats back, because the notion of having just chat times is annoying.


    4 Comments, 36 Views, 23 Votes ,4.18 Score
    Blackbull9099 42 M
    1  Article
    Is anyone real here   11/19/2019

    Is anyone actually real here and genuinely looking to meet up or are we all just some form of scam/lie?


    6 Comments, 31 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
    cum4mecum4u67 56 M
    1  Article
    cumshot   11/18/2019

    best method to shot load farther?


    6 Comments, 32 Views, 16 Votes ,3.42 Score
    Meeting   11/17/2019

    Outside of here where is a good place to meet people other then the bars?


    1 Comments, 23 Views, 12 Votes ,2.62 Score
    Xplore_6999 40 M
    5  Articles
    Toys   11/17/2019

    Not having any toys myself what are some good toys to check to use on myself. Obviously nothing to big right away


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 10 Votes ,2.19 Score
    Points   11/17/2019

    Just here for points.......


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 8 Votes ,1.62 Score
    Points   11/17/2019

    Just here for points.....


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 10 Votes ,1.19 Score
    Points   11/16/2019

    Just needing points. Hope everyone is having good luck on here.


    3 Comments, 21 Views, 11 Votes ,1.67 Score
    sissy_seeks_ownr 43 M
    5  Articles
    Fake accounts   11/16/2019

    Fake accounts seem be more common now than they were. Reporting them hardly seems help. So i guess as users we have be cognizant of the fact that there scamsters here that try hard be real but still some clues <br><br> 1. too good to be contacting you 2. very well photographed images. 3. poor english 4. no clue what to say when asked not so common questions. 5. say they want to ...


    6 Comments, 41 Views, 14 Votes ,3.78 Score
    Jaysen4moms 40 M
    8  Articles
    A bit lost   11/16/2019

    I am a. It lost how exactly do I get more points?


    1 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
    Lookn2please1111 36 M
    7  Articles
    Points   11/15/2019

    This sites changed and not for the best


    4 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,1.94 Score
    Logan031990 34 M
    2  Articles
    Best BJ   11/11/2019

    I was giving bj by this that was chewing ment gum


    2 Comments, 24 Views, 17 Votes ,3.69 Score
    butt play   11/10/2019

    Unless anal is on the menu, too often a woman's butt is sidelined during sex. And that's a shame, because "the buttocks are packed with nerve endings, " says Gilda Carle, Ph.D., a sex therapist in New York City. "To give her a surprising jolt of pleasure, spread your fingers wide and squeeze both buttocks." <br><br> That said, be gentle, and take it step ...


    4 Comments, 32 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
    anal sex..   11/10/2019

    According a 20 study by Indiana University, more people are having anal sex. While the 1990s saw roughly -quarter -third of men and women having tried anal, by 2009 that percentage had jumped 40 45 percent. But while that may the case, anal sex is still, as Salon reported in 20 "Science’s Last Taboo.” We know that some people are having it, but it’s not very likely that people are ...


    1 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
    Fuckintines11 36 M
    5  Articles
    ????   11/10/2019

    What does a goodlookin well built, hoodlookin fun fosn earth man need do find eexy older woman is like minded


    1 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
    first move   11/10/2019

    is it better to make the first move or let the other do it?


    3 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
    Points   11/10/2019

    Is this how you get points?


    5 Comments, 18 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
    Newbie here!   11/9/2019

    HI All, <br><br> New guy here trying to introduce myself and get any tips on meeting new people. First time on these sites and hope to meet some fun people!


    1 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
    Anger ISSUES   11/9/2019

    Most men get very angry when I turn them down. I go from you've got the greatest ass on earth to fuck you bitch you must be gay in seconds. What I don't get is that by doing so don't they realize that when they do that to someone that person probably will talk to other profiles?


    6 Comments, 29 Views, 11 Votes ,3.73 Score
    Anger ISSUES   11/9/2019

    Most men get very angry when I turn them down. I go from you've got the greatest ass on earth to fuck you bitch you must be gay in seconds. What I don't get is that by doing so don't they realize that when they do that to someone that person probably will talk to other profiles?


    7 Comments, 37 Views, 11 Votes ,4.10 Score
    do you get upset   11/8/2019

    I was wondering how many people become upset by all the articles and questions that people post just for the points? I am sure that there are some that are very serious about what this site is all about.


    4 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,0.53 Score
    Adubbz 30 M
    1  Article
    Fucken bitchea   11/7/2019

    So with my of dating I learned there is no way turn a hoe into a wifey or anything serious..there perfect stress relievers but unless u want to get played don't get any more involved


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
    ED advice   11/7/2019

    Ok, so here's question. I have blood pressure issues and take medication for it. I can get an erection during foreplay, but can't seem maintain it. Currently have a dr and not comfortable asking her for advice. Of course I'm not the with this issue. I'd like hear from others may have overcome this problem. Any advice would be appreciated.


    1 Comments, 10 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
    Cunnilingus   11/7/2019

    If you know a guy is terrible down there, would you let him practice on you to improve or just say "forget it?"


    6 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,4.71 Score
    Rebelred_81 43 M
    5  Articles
    Boredomr   11/7/2019

    What to do when run out of points. pleassw


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,0.86 Score
    Wiping!   11/7/2019

    All check and wipe until theres none!


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,0.14 Score
    Bilaljohn001 30 M
    5  Articles
    Points   11/7/2019

    This only for points


    1 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
    sexyhornynerd 50 C
    2  Articles
    Hand job   11/7/2019

    Whatever happened to guys liking a good hand job. Seems like it's going extinct.


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 7 Votes ,2.28 Score
    sexyhornynerd 50 C
    2  Articles
    Hand job   11/7/2019

    Whatever happened to guys liking a good hand job. Seems like it's going extinct.


    1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
    Hmm   11/6/2019

    One night stands? Are they gereraly hotter or does more regular encounters make it better?


    1 Comments, 3 Views, 2 Votes ,1.73 Score
    6Goodatbnbad9 52 M
    5  Articles
    You gotta have   11/6/2019

    points around here


    2 Comments, 5 Views, 1 Votes ,1.10 Score
    rm_sweet2b4 59 C
    5  Articles
    Vacuums   11/6/2019

    Guys have you ever used a vacuum cleaner to give yourself a blow job?


    3 Comments, 11 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
    rmlookn4some14 55 C
    7  Articles
    BE truthful on your profile   11/6/2019

    Truth is something that seems to elude people when describing themselves in their profiles. I find it a particularly "dark" place when confronted with having to deal with someone's lies, half-truths or misinformation. I would like to take an opportunity now to shed some "light" on the topic in this article as a form of advice. **********Be truthful********* How ...


    5 Comments, 28 Views, 11 Votes ,5.22 Score
    bcjoe 28 M
    5  Articles
    Get gold is my advice lol   11/5/2019

    just needed more points so im doingthis


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,1.09 Score
    rm_sexywifey31 61 C
    3  Articles
    Anal   11/4/2019

    I tried getting this question answered before, before they didn't publish it, so I'm trying it here. I am going try anal sex soon for the first time. Any advice on this subject?


    11 Comments, 50 Views, 19 Votes ,4.97 Score
    Johnnymarko8587 37 M
    2  Articles
    Self Pleasuring   11/4/2019

    Do you have a better orgasm watching porn or just using your imagination while masturbating?


    1 Comments, 5 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
    sexynfun01 60 C
    9  Articles
    dic pics   11/4/2019

    Women want see the guy's face first, and some are offended by dick pics of a stranger who has never bothered have his face pic available on first contact. We recently polled 100 women regarding dick pics are a first impression. 83% said men who have a dick pick as their profile pic feel low IQ is the culprit. So we encourage women and couple use our 10 signs of males with low IQ in their ...


    2 Comments, 21 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
    sexynfun01 60 C
    9  Articles
    dic pics   11/4/2019

    Women want see the guy's face first, and some are offended by dick pics of a stranger who has never bothered have his face pic available on first contact. We recently polled 100 women regarding dick pics are a first impression. 83% said men who have a dick pick as their profile pic feel low IQ is the culprit. So we encourage women and couple use our 10 signs of males with low IQ in their ...


    2 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes ,4.41 Score
    Why did you go Gold with your membership?   11/4/2019

    I am thinking about biting the bullet and going with a Gold membership I would love to hear from those members were once standard, used up all of their opportunities for points, and then went Gold. What made you decide to go Gold? And are you happy you did?


    2 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes
    My hood   11/3/2019

    Man n my hood We had Big Brian, Lil Brian, and College Brian. College Brian was quite and kept a mean mug especially if he didn't know u or fuck witcha. He stayed Fresh with whatever was the latest gear until he discovered POLO and aint change since. He made it cool go off college because whenever he came home it was a celebration. Probably made my decision 2 go away college more easier. ...


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
    karen_mwf 35 F
    2  Articles
    Has anyone ever been caught cheating?   11/2/2019

    I was just wondering if anyone has ever been caught in the act by their spouse and then later found out that their spouse was more turned on by it then mad.


    5 Comments, 43 Views, 12 Votes ,2.09 Score
    LEGAL OR NOT   10/31/2019

    LOOKING FOR GOOD ADVICE; IN PA. IS IT LEGAL FOR A 65 YEAR OLD TO HAVE SEX WITH A YOUNG LADY OF 18 -20 YEARS OLD, OR MUST I STAY WITHIN 21 AND UP.


    5 Comments, 32 Views, 12 Votes ,1.21 Score
    What would be the best advice for someone on this site you ask   10/30/2019

    This is something I ask and there are many different factors I believe. and the most important thing is location


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 6 Votes ,2.23 Score
    bcjoe0896 29 M
    5  Articles
    Need more points lol.   10/30/2019

    I don't know why they did all of this but it's a pain to get points on here now.


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 10 Votes ,2.79 Score
    IcoupleJ 28 C
    1  Article
    Points   10/29/2019

    What can i do with my points?


    6 Comments, 47 Views, 19 Votes ,3.39 Score
    Prylo 43 M
    5  Articles
    Points   10/29/2019

    Sorry only posting for points


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
    WanderingMan71 53 M
    5  Articles
    Yoinger   10/29/2019

    What attracts younger women older men?


    2 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,2.79 Score
    Don't Give Up Yet   10/28/2019

    Yes I am posting this for points, but I am also posting this because I have made some really good connections this time and am hoping for one of them to pan out and lead to a meeting and some incredible pleasure. Don't give up until there are no more opportunities for points.


    3 Comments, 18 Views, 10 Votes ,3.39 Score
    ltfwbxxx 57 M
    4  Articles
    Make sure you   10/27/2019

    Grab all the points you can


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,1.29 Score
    repetition...   10/26/2019

    if you do something enough times, over and over, you are bound do soemthing well. <br><br> <br><br> at least once


    1 Comments, 10 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
    Points   10/26/2019

    Any good advice to get points


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
    Points   10/26/2019

    Any good advice to get points


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
    Points   10/26/2019

    Any good advice to get points


    1 Comments, 11 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
    This site   10/25/2019

    Is anyone else convinced that a lot of the Female profiles on here are ??


    1 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,0.80 Score
    Wash your ass   10/24/2019

    Recently met an awesome woman. We clicked immediately. We were discussing a meeting and she said that she’s a very clean person, which is always appreciated. I said that I am too (which is a must, guys). She said good. I said I’m going to take a shower before we meet. She then said good, and make sure you wash yourself down there. I said oh? Do you mean I need to wash ass? She laughed and ...


    4 Comments, 44 Views, 9 Votes ,2.57 Score
    don't be a dick   10/23/2019

    When greeting women online: <br><br> Say hello/hi, be polite Don't go straight in the gutter, try to find some kind of common ground DON'T SEND A DICK PIC UNLESS THEY ASK


    2 Comments, 21 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
    Articling articles   10/23/2019

    You cant article without a knowledge of articling which I will be gin to explain to everyone now:


    1 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,0.60 Score
    VegasCaliguy 39 M
    12  Articles
    SEXFinder.com   10/22/2019

    I think this site has degraded over the years. If there is anyone "real" in Las vegas, join this experiment. Message me and lets tal


    1 Comments, 12 Views, 8 Votes ,1.86 Score
    VegasCaliguy 39 M
    12  Articles
    SEXFinder.com   10/22/2019

    I think this site has degraded over the years. If there is anyone "real" in Las vegas, join this experiment. Message me and lets tal


    3 Comments, 19 Views, 10 Votes ,1.59 Score
    423dpcpl 52 C
    4  Articles
    MFM Scenarios   10/22/2019

    So what MFM scenarios do you like? For example, we have been in a few and enjoy most all aspects, just wanting to know or see what others think- (1) the basic where we are sitting around talking and then she and I start messing around and he joins. (2) She has hopped in his car in secluded location for a quick bj and then back in our car. (3) She went to the bathroom and I had him meet her at ...


    0 Comments, 35 Views, 17 Votes ,2.84 Score
    ED   10/21/2019

    ANY IDEAS ON HOW HELP


    1 Comments, 10 Views, 7 Votes ,1.26 Score
    Points   10/18/2019

    Well they took 3 free chats away, and now to chat it is 11 points what the fuck!


    4 Comments, 25 Views, 14 Votes ,3.46 Score
    Honesty is the best policy   10/17/2019

    I’ve been on here for several years. My best advice is to absolutely never ever lie about your situation. Honesty turns on a woman, and makes sexual chemistry much stronger. Own your situation.


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 9 Votes ,0.65 Score
    69davidren 55 M
    7  Articles
    What Time Is It?   10/16/2019

    Time for a change? Time to do more? Time for a paying SEXFinder.com membership? Maybe...


    2 Comments, 19 Views, 11 Votes ,2.05 Score
    SkinnyNinja13 28 M
    1  Article
    Mature Interest   10/16/2019

    While I am online, I tend to get more views and messages from much older women/couples above 50. I don't mind it, I will admit that it has even grown on me as a fetish if you would call it that. I am a standard member so they are the ones that usually come to me. I want to ask why do you think mature women are more likely to send the first message as opposed to younger women?


    1 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
    HARDlyused18 39 M
    5  Articles
    Making the most of this site   10/16/2019

    So I've been a member on/off of the site for a little while now and would like to get others thoughts on what works best. to me the IM is a no-brainer but it seems less and less folk are using it, perhaps site traffic is just dropping too? <br><br> So what do you find works, messages - , IM, flirts, etc - what works for you? <br><br> ...discuss.


    1 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.23 Score
    versguy_29 34 M
    4  Articles
    Meeting couples   10/16/2019

    How do you manage the dynamics of meeting a couple? Especially where one party seems way more into the idea of a threesome than the other...


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,2.98 Score
    Make sure you're   10/16/2019

    stocked up on points.. They are not easy to come by


    1 Comments, 6 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
    lickurpussynow69 41 M
    6  Articles
    ed   10/15/2019

    does anyone have any suggestions for ed and what best works


    4 Comments, 24 Views, 9 Votes ,3.85 Score
    423dpcpl 52 C
    4  Articles
    First meets   10/14/2019

    What are some ice breakers or things you like to do on first meets to either break the ice or get things started?


    3 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
    Spidey604 46 M
    6  Articles
    Help   10/14/2019

    So I have become single for a while now, but have been playing with an attached woman for longer than that, the sex and all is super hot n yummy, but now debating that I may want to start to date or meet new people for an actual relationship(probably not through this site hahaha) Anyways she said we are done and she could not handle it if I start to date, but the sex is so yummy and pretty much ...


    3 Comments, 19 Views, 4 Votes ,4.80 Score
    Realdeal01844 49 M
    1  Article
    Friends?   10/13/2019

    How do u add friends if u don’t pay for this


    1 Comments, 6 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
    turlockbadboy 59 C
    2  Articles
    10 Signs of Low IQ males   10/13/2019

    Women want see the guy's face first, and some are offended by dick pics of a stranger who has never bothered have his face pic available on first contact. We recently polled 100 women regarding dick pics are a first impression. 83% said men who have a dick pick as their profile pic feel low IQ is the culprit. So we encourage women and couple use our 10 signs of males with low IQ in their ...


    2 Comments, 10 Views, 2 Votes ,1.04 Score
    playswithjizz 44 M
    5  Articles
    edging   10/12/2019

    i love edging. sometimes i go to long and cant get hard. does anyone else have that issue?


    4 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,2.14 Score
    SEXFinder.com   10/10/2019

    What’s the success on SEXFinder.com? Lot of bots


    2 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,2.02 Score
    JTobin1187 37 M
    7  Articles
    Don't stop with the first O   10/10/2019

    If in the midst - the first O isn't the end. Keep at it for the second or third! #4TPTS


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
    JTobin1187 37 M
    7  Articles
    Don't stop with the first O   10/10/2019

    If in the midst - the first O isn't the end. Keep at it for the second or third! #4TPTS


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score
    Points   10/8/2019

    Why did they take away our 3 free im?this suck being a standard member !


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 12 Votes ,3.68 Score
    Meeting   10/8/2019

    Where do you like meet people for the 1st time off of this site?


    1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
    Want2FuckUHard32 38 M
    6  Articles
    points   10/7/2019

    this points thing is pointless


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
    Want2FuckUHard32 38 M
    6  Articles
    points   10/7/2019

    this points thing is really stupid


    2 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
    dan_is_wild6 54 M
    2  Articles
    How will we chat when its gone   10/7/2019

    With Oct 19 coming soon how will most of us chat on here or off here with kiik closing up? Seems we have to find new ways to chat private or contact here and get them to fix the im and give us 5 free chats so we stay here. If not then hang and yahoo might get the slack from loss of Kiik. Come anyone have a idea i cant think of any.


    2 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,4.02 Score
    Maxbillion87 37 M
    7  Articles
    Need a trans experience   10/7/2019

    What is the best way to find a trans that might want to play with a newbie. I'm looking for this week any tips or advice?


    2 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
    sonrising24 54 M
    5  Articles
    Always Make Sure   10/7/2019

    Sometimes we get real busy in our daily lives thinking all is well. My wife, killed in a car accident, died while traveling back from an affair. I never knew she was having one. I was working long hours and making a ton of . But that ended up in her seeking comfort some where else. Sad as it is, all of it crushed me. Sad that she sought others for comfort. Sad that I never noticed. Sad that I ...


    3 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
    family6375 41 C
    6  Articles
    Sex with a friend   10/6/2019

    Always look for close friends & ask them if they can join your sexual adventure, no better relation than a friendship sexual relation which every partner is only looking for joy & happiness. no drama no stupid commitments just fun.


    2 Comments, 21 Views, 14 Votes ,2.98 Score
    letsplayevrday 64 M
    3  Articles
    Gold membership   10/5/2019

    What are the main advantages to having a gold membership? Are gold members required to use points to use IM


    2 Comments, 15 Views, 4 Votes ,0.92 Score
    Points   10/5/2019

    I need points. That is all


    1 Comments, 7 Views, 3 Votes ,1.47 Score
    this really sucks   10/3/2019

    i know there alot of thing going on this site has change and there alot of shit is pissing people off like the points people for and never get there points right and the massenger always freezing and its always missing up


    3 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
    Older women   10/2/2019

    Any young guys on here that have had luck with older women?(35+) I struck out so far but I guess location had a lot to do with it


    3 Comments, 17 Views, 5 Votes ,1.84 Score
    HARDlyused18 39 M
    5  Articles
    Points for IM   10/2/2019

    Is it just me or have the points per chat increased significantly in the past year, and isnt this counter-productive to actually encouraging virtual footfall to the site? Sure if it was even a free service usage would be off the charts and the advertising value would increase?


    2 Comments, 17 Views, 10 Votes ,3.58 Score
    HARDlyused18 39 M
    5  Articles
    Points for IM   10/2/2019

    Is it just me or have the points per chat increased significantly in the past year, and isnt this counter-productive to actually encouraging virtual footfall to the site? Sure if it was even a free service usage would be off the charts and the advertising value would increase?


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,5.59 Score
    Youngandreadie27 31 M
    1  Article
    Points please.....   10/2/2019

    Anyone else trying to get more points?


    1 Comments, 5 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
    Cum Eating   10/2/2019

    To fulfill a organism you should keep your mouth closed when the partner is cumming. This helps them cum to their fullest and it helps you get the full quality of the cum. Spilling is a no no. I encourage those who enjoy eating cum to become A+ cum suckers. mmmmmmmmmmm


    2 Comments, 37 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
    0v3rhere 43 M
    4  Articles
    IM advice   9/30/2019

    Is anyone having problems with IM not working. Start a conversation and all goes well then message stop delivering


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 6 Votes ,3.37 Score
    jakedevon123 28 M
    2  Articles
    points   9/30/2019

    need those points


    1 Comments, 8 Views, 6 Votes ,2.80 Score
    Want2FuckUHard32 38 M
    6  Articles
    points   9/29/2019

    just need points. start atopic if you want


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
    flo410419 51 M
    4  Articles
    looking for a stranger   9/29/2019

    I have had a fantasy of being with a stranger. Something I don't go looking for, it just happens. I do realize at the same time this is not exactly safe. But it is still a fantasy.


    3 Comments, 17 Views, 7 Votes ,2.53 Score
    Does Anyone know..   9/29/2019

    How to rack up points?


    1 Comments, 4 Views, 3 Votes ,3.43 Score
    Gold   9/28/2019

    I love finding gold not paying for it


    2 Comments, 16 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
    jcnsc4u 44 M
    3  Articles
    Have fun safely   9/27/2019

    In today's world, it is easier to find a simple fling. The Internet age has made accessibility to others easier than ever before. With that being said, we still must be careful. I find it important to build trust and a simple relationship with someone before jumping into a car, inviting them over or bareback sex. Even though discretion is a must, it must be done safely. I recommend ...


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 12 Votes ,4.04 Score
    Is this a way to get points?   9/26/2019

    Who needs points?


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 10 Votes ,3.78 Score
    CNT0609 42 C
    5  Articles
    Penis Piercings   9/23/2019

    So my wife would like for me to get my penis pierced to go along with my nipples. I am all for it but some of the research I have done states that you must refrain from sex for a couple of months. Can anyone that has a piercing confirm that? Honestly I don’t think I could go that long, my wife drives me insane, its hard to go a few days with out having sex with her.


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 8 Votes ,2.09 Score
    heretoplzu1976 44 M
    8  Articles
    Real or fake   9/22/2019

    How do you know if your relantionship is real or just sexual?


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 12 Votes ,2.80 Score
    Hahaha0830 43 M
    3  Articles
    Is it just me?   9/22/2019

    Hello everyone, I have been a member of SEXFinder.com for a little over a year and have had one meet. I have sent hundreds of messages and way more IMs, I understand as a guy the percentages say I'll get less replies. I'm already at a disadvantage because I'm not Bi and am not attracted to men. I do enjoy being an addition to pleasuring a women but most couples are looking to add Bi singles. ...


    1 Comments, 22 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
    Hahaha0830 43 M
    3  Articles
    Is it just me?   9/22/2019

    Hello everyone, I have been a member of SEXFinder.com for a little over a year and have had one meet. I have sent hundreds of messages and way more IMs, I understand as a guy the percentages say I'll get less replies. I'm already at a disadvantage because I'm not Bi and am not attracted to men. I do enjoy being an addition to pleasuring a women but most couples are looking to add Bi singles. ...


    0 Comments, 16 Views, 6 Votes ,3.08 Score
    Hahaha0830 43 M
    3  Articles
    Is it just me?   9/22/2019

    Hello everyone, I have been a member of SEXFinder.com for a little over a year and have had one meet. I have sent hundreds of messages and way more IMs, I understand as a guy the percentages say I'll get less replies. I'm already at a disadvantage because I'm not Bi and am not attracted to men. I do enjoy being an addition to pleasuring a women but most couples are looking to add Bi singles. ...


    1 Comments, 14 Views, 5 Votes ,3.14 Score
    icumbig4u69 44 M
    1  Article
    Free Points   9/21/2019

    For anyone wanting to comment for free points to chat


    3 Comments, 22 Views, 10 Votes ,4.78 Score
    Ever had a guy cum inside you?   9/18/2019

    Ever


    5 Comments, 34 Views, 12 Votes ,2.27 Score
    Want2FuckUHard32 38 M
    6  Articles
    points   9/18/2019

    just needing some points. Don't we all


    2 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,2.36 Score
    points   9/18/2019

    Need ponts to chat anyone spare some?


    2 Comments, 10 Views, 4 Votes ,1.30 Score
    Neobitzz 24 M
    1  Article
    Points   9/17/2019

    Need the points to chat


    1 Comments, 10 Views, 7 Votes ,4.57 Score
    litebeerdrinker 59 M
    1  Article
    M/F/M   9/16/2019

    Need advice, want to get into a M/M/F fun, have pics up, most of profile done, what am i missing here?


    1 Comments, 18 Views, 10 Votes ,4.38 Score
    Boredincollege7 25 M
    5  Articles
    need more points write an "article"   9/14/2019

    give me more points


    3 Comments, 18 Views, 11 Votes ,2.61 Score
    Mfmfunedm 52 C
    2  Articles
    Finding stunt cock   9/14/2019

    How the.hell do you find a reliable cock?


    5 Comments, 38 Views, 15 Votes ,2.52 Score
    Needfunu2 51 M
    6  Articles
    3 or more   9/13/2019

    When you were starting out in the LS did you prefer threesomes or moresomes? Abd why?


    1 Comments, 13 Views, 9 Votes ,0.86 Score
    trust   9/13/2019

    trust is everything, had an affair with a married chick from work , discretion was everything , i had to work hard as she was afraid , but in the end she trusted enough to let shag her, i knew wanted her , she was so hot , as she confided in , we got close but never so close anybody knew anything , its harder than u might think, we passed notes between each other , never the modern way , ...


    1 Comments, 16 Views, 9 Votes ,1.07 Score
    trust   9/13/2019

    trust is everything, had an affair with a married chick from work , discretion was everything , i had to work hard as she was afraid , but in the end she trusted enough to let shag her, i knew wanted her , she was so hot , as she confided in , we got close but never so close anybody knew anything , its harder than u might think, we passed notes between each other , never the modern way , ...


    3 Comments, 14 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
    Outdoor or Car Playing   9/12/2019

    Ever tried it?


    2 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,1.69 Score
    Outdoor or Car Playing   9/12/2019

    Ever tried it?


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,1.51 Score
    Want2FuckUHard32 38 M
    6  Articles
    IM issues   9/10/2019

    The IM here really sucks


    0 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,1.19 Score
    lundkeliyechut19 30 M
    3  Articles
    benefit of sex often   9/10/2019

    In emotional-- <br><br> Happiness- Stress relif- Self Image Intemacy- <br><br> Physical <br><br> pain reduction- Heart health-Immun function- improve fitness- decrease aixty <br><br> Psychological benefit <br><br> Good mood good brain fresh feeling <br><br> buy guys and girls wt abt daily sex with other partner -- need your ...


    1 Comments, 11 Views, 3 Votes ,2.45 Score
    Weare241 64 C
    29  Articles
    Daddy-… Give Them What They Want?... Or what they need?   9/9/2019

    I’m a mid-50’s MWM -type, who recently banged a 22-year-old college student named, “Lexi, ” dozens of times. Basically, Lexi wanted get fucked like a series of step-daddies had fucked her… Long, hard and primarily up her gorgeous ass. She loved it. However, question is: Was perpetuating her pseudo incestuous desires wrong? Or should I have at least tried dampen Lexi’s ...


    4 Comments, 116 Views, 15 Votes ,3.90 Score
    LUB2423 32 M
    7  Articles
    Getting points   9/9/2019

    I’d like some points can anyone ?


    0 Comments, 8 Views, 6 Votes ,0.80 Score
    Swingers4wet1 36 C
    1  Article
    Anal   9/9/2019

    Best way to ease into anal?


    3 Comments, 15 Views, 3 Votes ,0.98 Score
    LUB2423 32 M
    7  Articles
    Looking for points   9/9/2019

    Looking for ways to get points.


    1 Comments, 5 Views, 2 Votes ,0.34 Score
    bigdiknick44 28 M
    12  Articles
    more points   9/6/2019

    points


    1 Comments, 15 Views, 10 Votes ,0.80 Score
    bigdiknick44 28 M
    12  Articles
    pm me your kik if u like my dick   9/6/2019

    points rly thats about it


    0 Comments, 7 Views, 5 Votes
    bigdiknick44 28 M
    12  Articles
    pm me your kik if u like my dick   9/6/2019

    points rly thats about it


    0 Comments, 4 Views, 2 Votes
    WVBOY60 66 M
    7  Articles
    Curvey   9/6/2019

    So the question was asked Why do some of us men like curvey women? After some thought here is my personal analogy. So which would you rather take a Sunday drive on the interstate or the curviest hilly road you can find? For me the Interstate is simply a drive straight boring and unimaginative.The sights are the same and there is no reason to slow down and take a peek. On.the other hand the curvy ...


    0 Comments, 18 Views, 9 Votes ,3.00 Score
    Advice please   9/5/2019

    <br><br> Hi I'm like really shy How do I best get chatting with ladies, I find it really hard? no ones seem to want to know me


    0 Comments, 9 Views, 5 Votes ,3.47 Score
    I.m. question   9/5/2019

    On i.m. what is the difference between" sent" and "delivered". I have seen both when I have sent someone a instant message


    2 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
    whowantsfun88 43 M
    8  Articles
    Male Anal   9/5/2019

    Who has had a male Gspot orgasm??? How did you do it? How did it feel?


    1 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,1.51 Score
    L1ckin805 33 M
    5  Articles
    can you pay for a gold membership with a prepaid card?   9/4/2019

    just curious. I don't really trust the security of the site to protect my credit card info.


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 7 Votes ,1.77 Score
    Straight but Bi-curious, is it cheating?   9/4/2019

    If i play with him but i'm with her, is this cheating? Unfaithful?


    3 Comments, 13 Views, 4 Votes ,2.08 Score
    What are you doing this labor day?   9/2/2019

    Anyone have any fun plans for this labor day?


    1 Comments, 8 Views, 4 Votes ,2.47 Score
    Whats your craziest story   9/2/2019

    Whats the craziest thing thats happened you on this site?


    3 Comments, 11 Views, 7 Votes ,3.04 Score
    LUB2423 32 M
    7  Articles
    Points   9/2/2019

    What’s the best way of obtaining points on this site?


    0 Comments, 15 Views, 8 Votes ,4.87 Score
    married men sucking and swallowing   8/31/2019

    anyone else do it


    1 Comments, 8 Views, 2 Votes ,2.42 Score
    ponts   8/28/2019

    points points points points points points points


    8 Comments, 42 Views, 16 Votes ,4.01 Score
    Crashing   8/28/2019

    Chat keeps crashing anyone have same issues and met anyone one there?


    5 Comments, 28 Views, 17 Votes ,4.68 Score
    Crashing   8/28/2019

    Chat keeps crashing anyone have same issues and met anyone one there?


    0 Comments, 17 Views, 13 Votes ,4.65 Score
    non response   8/28/2019

    This is a volume game. the more people you talk to, the better the odds you connect with the right person. why would you just go silent. at least say your busy with too many conversations.


    1 Comments, 18 Views, 13 Votes ,4.32 Score
    strogen69 52 M
    5  Articles
    Non paying members.... ladies please respond   8/27/2019

    Do ladies read our messages or does SEXFinder.com just take our points?


    4 Comments, 33 Views, 11 Votes ,4.48 Score
    ryanmr 39 M
    5  Articles
    Your Profile Pics - The Details   8/27/2019

    As a professional photographer, one thing that takes pictures from amateaur to award-winning is attention to detail. With a portrait, there are plenty of little things that need to be attended to, because in the stillness of an image it's easy to focus on little imperfections - is a tie not straight? Is there a little smudge of something on your teeth? What about all those fly-away hairs? ...


    1 Comments, 13 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
    happyenigma 70 M
    1  Article
    Questions for the Experts.   8/26/2019

    OK, been on maybe a month and and like much that I see but I have come the solution that the "old" hands recommend. Get SEXFinder.com Gold Membership so that you can communicate and see beyond the keyboard. I understand that all dating sites have risks. And I guess I will have accept it. So - final question for someone has been on the site and left and then came back: Does SEXFinder.com close the ...


    2 Comments, 20 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
    69davidren 55 M
    7  Articles
    Too much Porn?   8/26/2019

    How much porn is too much? I'd rather the real thing, but it too sparce. Porn fills in the gaps. Thoughts?


    1 Comments, 7 Views, 4 Votes ,3.63 Score
    ghosters   8/25/2019

    Why is that soooo many women just randomly ghost you half way through the conversation even when its going well???


    3 Comments, 27 Views, 4 Votes ,2.86 Score
    Nikog5233 38 M
    1  Article
    What happened to the Instant Messenger?   8/22/2019

    What is the deal with the Instant Messenger? Has it been deactivated?? Does anyone have insight on this subject?


    4 Comments, 30 Views, 14 Votes ,5.54 Score
    Armyguy678 41 M
    1  Article
    I need some help (wasn't sure were to put this)   8/21/2019

    My ex and I broke up a few months ago. I was the one who made this mistake. Dont deny it and have regret it ever since. This woman was perfect for me in every way. We had more things in common then I could dream of. Liked the sports had most of the dislikes. Love making was so intense, every time we touched it was instant connection. I'm my heart, and still feel this way she was the one I ...


    1 Comments, 17 Views, 8 Votes ,2.78 Score
    ryanmr 39 M
    5  Articles
    The Ethics of Editing Your Profile Pictures   8/18/2019

    Everybody fibs just a little on their dating profiles, right? Maybe you're not exactly six feet tall, or you've put on a few more pounds then your profile would imply. They're the little white lies that everyone provides to lubricate the interaction, because surely once the conversation is flowing and you're ready to meet in person those extra inches on your waistline or from your ...


    3 Comments, 20 Views, 11 Votes ,2.98 Score
    alple2 24 M
    1  Article
    is it worth getting gold?   8/16/2019

    i've been getting no luck as a free member and see the perks of gold but not sure if it's worth the price and was wondering what advice you would have for


    4 Comments, 22 Views, 12 Votes ,3.15 Score
    RAHUL4HOTTFUN 27 M
    2  Articles
    Flirts   8/15/2019

    these days guys are receiving many flirts , they may be fake so be careful before your points get deducted


    3 Comments, 26 Views, 12 Votes ,3.51 Score
    lookin2eattheY 46 M
    6  Articles
    what is a good method in keeping your cock hard   8/14/2019

    does anyone have any good advice


    3 Comments, 35 Views, 8 Votes ,2.55 Score
    sambrennan6955 25 M
    5  Articles
    Starting a Conversation   8/13/2019

    Whats the best way start a conversation in a bar?


    1 Comments, 9 Views, 4 Votes ,3.25 Score
    sambrennan6955 25 M
    5  Articles
    Starting a Conversation   8/13/2019

    Whats the best way start a conversation in a bar?


    1 Comments, 17 Views, 11 Votes ,3.17 Score
    slowlove59 62 M
    5  Articles
    Point Farming   8/13/2019

    It seems since they changed the im's to a point based system now we have a lot of people asking same old questions and posting articles with no content and responses just to farm points. If you are gonna write a article for points at east put some content in it to make it worth reading and responding too. Make it worth voting on. If you ask questions ask a question worth a answer. Use a ...


    3 Comments, 26 Views, 14 Votes ,2.50 Score
    IrreparablyHorny 50 M
    4  Articles
    first time only ...   8/12/2019

    In Life, there are so many things that does once or twice ... kinda sucks you cannot learn from past mistakes!


    2 Comments, 12 Views, 7 Votes ,2.79 Score
    Cougar or milf   8/11/2019

    Is there anything better than a cougar or milf?


    5 Comments, 21 Views, 7 Votes ,3.80 Score
    ryanmr 39 M
    5  Articles
    Profile Pic and Selfie Tips   8/9/2019

    You might not believe it from my own profile picture (but a trash goblin, so you can only put so much lipstick on a ) but I sometimes work as a professional photographer. So going to start with three tips to make your profile photos a little better to make a great first impression... <br><br> 3) Subject: shots are controversial, but no matter how much you think your dick is your ...


    1 Comments, 19 Views, 8 Votes ,4.17 Score
    Jaysen4moms 40 M
    8  Articles
    So I am a broke points bitch   8/8/2019

    I mean the title says it all I broke on points. If you are here so are you so vote and comment and get some points.


    3 Comments, 14 Views, 9 Votes ,4.28 Score
    95hondacivic 51 M
    8  Articles
    Increasing my chances on SEXFinder.com   8/8/2019

    Hello all I have been on and off on SEXFinder.com for years. I have been a standard member and a gold member but after of i haven't had much luck. I am wondering what others on here do to have success?


    2 Comments, 18 Views, 3 Votes ,4.41 Score
    sambrennan6955 25 M
    5  Articles
    First Attraction   8/7/2019

    What is the first thing you see when you first meet a person?


    1 Comments, 15 Views, 5 Votes ,2.49 Score