Such an elegant architectural shortcut. Spanned halfway up between two sixty-story buildings, it nourished the curious and lovers of heights — I was both. I stared down at the world...
And waited for him.
There's a poison in people who believe a fifty-five-year-old man nesting with an undergrad is fine — but a fifty-five-year-old woman screwing a twenty-something boy... is just wrong.
Married friends of mine velcroed moldy clichés as soon as my back was turned. I gave no fucks.
My apologetic ex surrendered the townhouse and left me his BMW and the two kids from a previous failure. I would have been happy with just the beemer. The siblings supposedly liked me, probably because I didn't care what they did and let them be. Who was I to tell them how to live?
Especially since that man-boy I was fucking was my stepdaughter's ex. She'd found a new toy and moved on. Her Dad bought her a four-by-four consolation prize, and a reminder of what a bitch he thought I was.
Me ?
I amused myself selling condos in those buildings. He was late, as usual, a replaceable blur running across that pint-sized parking lot. My panties were damp. I stood on the Causeway, thirty stories up, pressed near the edge...
...and looked down.
Moths swarmed my stomach.
What is your age range... for dating or hooking up?
Quel est votre écart d'âge acceptable... pour sortir avec quelqu'un ou simplement baiser?
...un autre point de vue...
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Too far MTL... and iM not yor tipe.
I had always gone for older men, my ex husband is actually 17 years older than I am. Recently, though, I've found myself kind of heading toward slightly younger. Their parts tend to.... Still be in working order.
Hmmm... I'll imagine the dynamic you and your ex had. That number is on my outer limit.
True... about seeking parts that are still within the warranty period.🤗
I prefer someone who already knows who they are, or at least has made peace with who they aren’t. The conversation is different. The silences are different. There's a steadiness and confidence there, that can't be manufactured.
That said, I don’t find the pairing itself objectionable, whether older man, younger woman, or the reverse. It’s simply not where my interest settles. To each their own, as ever. Attraction is rarely democratic, and even less often rational.
It is a perfectly logical, reasonable, and reassuring dynamic.
Democracy rarely exists between any couple. But if it works for them... sure.
Although I have to squint when I see some of the age gaps in celebrity couples.😲
I couldn't live in an apartment in a building above the fourth floor; it gives me vertigo!
As for the age difference I consider acceptable, well, that's changed over time, that is, with my age. When I was younger, I was sexually attracted to men much older than me, even thirty years older, and more, but now, for obvious reasons, that's no longer possible... biology, life, prevents it. As for men younger than me, I would never have sex with one who, because of his age, could have been my son. Not for any moral reason: I don't see anything wrong with that as far as he be an adult, but because the mere thought repulses me personally.
I've never had an age gap quite as high. Although I was once picked up by a 55-yo woman when I was 28. Now THAT was an education, and very interesting.😲
Your logic makes perfect sense. I would not want to approach her if she were close to my daughters' age.
Age range is a few years younger to 10 or so years older. It's more about attitude and ability than a number.
Hugs!!
True, about attitude.
Although I'm sure women also appreciate "ability."
I keep references from previous enouncouters laminated on a plastic card... just in case they ask.😶
No one as old as me. Never have, never will.
Gotcha... and ya gotta feel good about the person you're with.🤗
FWBs can be younger by a decade or so, but I really like men close to my own age for actual dating, maybe slightly younger, but I only add that because that's how it's worked out most of the time. My ex was 4 years younger; the current FWB is almost 5 years younger. When I was a teen, I thought men in their 40s/50s were very attractive. I kinda still think that's true.
But your question is interestingly timed. I just had a meet with someone that is 71. It makes me sound shallow, but I can't do old. Now I understand that there are active people that are 70+ and those like the man I met a couple of days ago, who seemed to be permanently bent at the waist and just old. Can't do it. If we met younger and aged together, that's a different story. I couldn't even do the 5-date rule my friends insist I use before I said no more. The best thing he had going for him is that he was an old-fashioned gentleman, pulled out my chair, opened doors, walked me to my car. I miss men who understand how much that matters. Sigh.
Eee... "permanently bent" is not a good sight.
I've been fooled by women who looked much younger than they really were. I'm OK with that. But I'm not into a LT hook-up with someone who has serious back issues.
"Polite" is good.😶
My age parameters have shifted a bit as I've gained years. I've always preferred men within a couple of years of my age. However, that demographic has an increased risk of health issues and sometimes the penis doesn't work too well. So, I tried someone in his 50s and ran into the same performance issue. How young does a gal have to go to find a working penis attached to someone with a working brain?!
Hmmm... I understand your POV, and completely understand. I prefer younger and more supple.
Who-da thunk both heads wouldn't work in sync?
I donT have those issues... although my thoughts are occasionally out there. But the important bits are always alert when they have to be.
Is it really that hard to find "hard"?
I think women have an advantage over men.😶
@Paulxx001 BJ and I met when I was back in Michigan visiting my daughter. We had this very discussion. Unfortunately, it's more common than either of us would like to believe. The last guy I actually dated swore he functioned (not that I asked)...um, nope.
@Paulxx001 It's not that hard to find hard but finding it attached to a compatible person is.
I believe I understand your dilemma and frustration, and the irony is, if you go too low in age you can get a penis that works too well and often & sometimes Everywhere , I think the imperfect solution is always to try to go with Brains over Braun, The best sex is always created with busy creative Imaginative minds!
Best Wishes
(((hugs)))
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@Proffer4u2 I usually do but ... sometimes, a gal needs
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@superbjversion2
You and BJ? Sounds like there was potential for mischief. Who was Thelma? 😂
Well, swearing was perhaps his hope.
And true... sometimes a gal DOES have needs.🤗
@Paulxx001 Oh, unfortunately we didn't have nearly enough time together to plan any proper mischief.
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True...
oh my...
It might be like that...
... or?
I like happy endings.💕
I'd say about ten years younger... more or less.
And about six months older... more or less. 😲
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Thanks for popping in.🤗
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You might like this one, from a flick called "Emails for Issabelle."