FWB vs. Hook-ups/ONS

I much prefer to have a connection with the person that I'm involved with. At a bare minimum I require friendship. FWB without friendship involved is merely a Hook up or ONS. I'm a woman that really doesn't prefer Hook-ups and ONS because they leave me feeling hallow and empty.

It really bothers me and makes me upset when a man can't be honest about him intentions when he's truly only looking for a hookup but claiming they want a FWB. The bait and switch routine is childish. Just tell a woman the truth about what you are looking for and what you're offering.

Yes, I'm well aware that there are women that enjoy hookups and ONS, but I'm not one of them. Look elsewhere please and just be honest with me.

For me a FWB has the friendship and the benefits are secondary. In other words, friendship first and benefits second. If you don't like how I think or feel, move onto another woman.

So men, how do you feel about this and do you think that you can be honest with a woman regarding what you are seeking on this site?