If you want to get me going, kissing is the way to start. Sure, touching is nice, but that's really the next stage - after a lot of kissing. I love a good, deep kiss, something that almost literally takes your breath away. You will get no further with me if you are not a good kisser. And I can say from experience that there are plenty of guys who really don't know how to kiss (but think they do). Sure, people like things done in different ways, but when it's bad it's just bad. Bad kissing might be worse than no kissing at all. That takes me right out and I will lose interest quickly. If you don't want to outright let someone know they're bad, suggest some different techniques to guide them in the right direction. The world needs more great kissers!